You say your kids are completely fine with the breakup but you spent a majority of the video talking about how hard it’s been for you?? How could you believe it would affect you so much and not them??
They've never said they're fine, they chose not to discuss the kids feelings on it on the internet. One of the few things I actually agree with them on.
Come on Kyra not everything “BS rumors”. You’re where you’re at right now because of your TH-cam people at least show them the common respect and tell the truth
I guess I don't understand the like sob story in this. You left the relationship, you chose all of this. For what very clearly seems like another relationship. And you can't keep a friendship to save your life. So you're all alone because of your own toxic actions. Which sucks but is your own fault 🤷♀️
I once heard that if you're running from your problems or things that bother you, it will definitely come back later. Only then, it'll be worst because it would have built up in the time you've ignored it. So, please don't run from things or bury yourself in activities/work, because these things will revisit later.
I grew up in a household that didn't go to the doctors even for a cold or check ups. So as an adult I didn't go. But I hit a really rough patch that I couldn't get through. Couldn't get out of bed. Couldn't clean my house. Everything went to trash. But I was also so depressed that the piles around me were too much. But it took a long time to be able to admit that I needed help. I slept for 3 hours just about every night for 3 months. I was exhausted. I'm glad you got the help you needed.
How are you going run a daycare but not have any educational qualifications for it?! 😂 you do realize majority of daycare owners/directors were all once teachers, all have qualifications to be lead teacher incase they need to fill in. Oh its also completely different than being a parent also. But you kinda don't seem to know much about that either.
Drives me crazy when childcare owners don’t even have qualifications for that industry. How are you meant to be a leader and boss for your workers when you aren’t even qualified in the industry.
With peace and love, are you concerned with how your Beneath the Sheets podcast might deter potential clients for a daycare for very young kids? I’m not saying there’s anything wrong by any means with the subject of your podcast, but also as a mom it’s hard for me to see how someone who would choose to put themselves out there in that way would then be the right fit for being a professional in a setting for very young children. edited to add: still, good luck in whatever endeavors you decide to pursue ❤️
@@caitlanweary8613 we are all human but that's the kind of thing that makes it difficult for people who want to pursue education. Many coaches, teachers, volunteers, substitutes have lost their chances cause of things less than that podcast and more than it.
You are on some real fangirl bullshit, you’ve commented 34 times on this woman’s channel! Wow gotta admire the dedication. Imagine what you could be if you redirected that weird ass energy towards something productive!
I don’t understand. You basically pushed back everyone in your life and destroyed all relations you had with EVERYONE and now you’re crying and realizing you’re alone? Duh. Girl, you had so many close friends, what happened to them? It’s realistically not possible that all of them were wrong or were “using your vulnerability”. And to clarify, I don’t think you’re a bad person. You’re just completely lost in this “trying to find myself” situation 🥴
You say having the kids 50/50 is hard but yet you choose to allow the kids to be at Oscar’s house with the nanny on “your time”. Why pay/have a nanny when it’s your time with the kids and you say it’s “so hard” for you to be away from them
Could you imagine how the kids feel, Kyra???? You can't because you're always thinking of yourself. YOU DID THIS. I wonder how Hannah's mental health is...hmmm?
You think the kids are fine.. I don’t think you realize how much they could actually be struggling. Idk, you keep talking about how hard YOU have it & don’t rlly think deeply about how’re they could actually be .
Your darker hair (dark blonde, not brown BTW) makes your eyes pop! Such pretty eye color. I went lighter once and am close to having it all cut off and back to "virgin" hair, which feels so much healthier. Also, there's nothing wrong with taking medication. Mental health is a high priority and shouldn't be stigmatized. Good for you!
This is 1000% unsolicited advice, but as an educator I strongly urge you to go back to school or gain some practical experience in education before deciding to start a school of your own. One of the biggest issues in education right now is administrators not having any practical experience in teaching or educating children. I think you'd be a kickass educator, and your experience as a parent is going to help tremendously, but the education system right now is a total mess. We need leaders who have experience and know what it's actually like to be in the classroom each day working with kids of all different backgrounds and abilities. This is no shade to you at all. I think it's an incredible venture, but it requires a lot more than personal passion.
Jesus definitely healed my chronic depression and anxiety. No joke. I was lost. Now I feel like I have a purpose and understanding for my life! I now have way more than I ever deserved. Thanks for the video girl ☺️❤️ You are worthy and loved. You are not alone. Give your heart to God!
Amen girl! I have a similar praise report. Once I got right with the Lord, the issues went away! What a world we would have if everyone saw the goodness, grace, and mercy of God. Hang in there and keep the faith 🥰
I really needed to hear your little vent session on mental health. I too have been in a dark place, and I really relate and resonate with you. It’s good to feel like I’m not alone and this is my sign to look into medications :)
You are never alone, your Creator gave you a choice to love Him or not, God is always available to you, His son Jesus is very real, He loves you dearly and wants you to seek His face, then He will show you the peace and joy and freedom that is available to you, and you can lay all your burdens on Him...
Will you attend college then? To get your childcare qualifications. As a preschool teacher I would advice you attend college & do your work experience first. Childcare has changed massively now so 100% get your college qualifications & experience.
@@kyrarenee5423 I know but even opening your own childcare service is tough these days. It be great to have the qualifications behind you xx I live in Ireland so childcare might be little different but, having the qualifications does benefit you.
Keep making those choices that you see no wrong in and you will keep being depressed. You need to clear your lies and live by truth and do well by others close to you. Don’t be so selfish.
I used to become busy with things to keep my anxiety at bay. Unfortunately, this method doesn't work for very long (It lasted 5 years for me), and I've been dealing with it until recently. The way to conquer your anxiety, and this may sound crazy, it's training your mind. I think I finally hit the jackpot at figuring it out by myself, lots of research on reframing negative thoughts. Hopefully, you can get to a point where you can be calm and relaxed while not busy. A time that you can just be you and exist without the itch of crippling anxiety. ❤
Some people don't understand that medication can save lives especially when it comes to mental health. I also have anxiety and OCD, I'm on prozac and wellbutrin. Thanks for talking about this!
One thing that I learned in therapy that I was shocked about was that being busy is a way of avoiding the emotion rather than facing it. It sounds so obvious when worded that way, but when my husband went away for military training I had this headspace of I just needed to get into a routine and be busy and then I would be okay. Through therapy I was able to realise that only worked because I was so good at avoiding my emotions. They made me uncomfortable even though I didn't realise it. My therapist helped me work through understanding the necessity in negative emotions and helping reframe my thoughts around feeling them. Such as "how lucky am I to love someone so much that I can miss them this great" and other similar reframes. Obviously NOT the same as OCD at all, but just wanted to share my experience in case anyone else reading through comments can relate.
Come on Kyra we all know that all of ur “Life Plans” fall threw. U don’t follow threw on anything. And u couldn’t find any employees (not1) that wanted to stay with u during ur whole blankee endeavor, now how do u think ur gunna find 10 people???
Would be easier to just go work at a daycare. Opening a daycare is a HUGE commitment and wouldn’t allow you any flexibility in your life, including traveling.
I think your natural brown hair is so gorgeous as a base for a couple buttery, warm toned, golden blonde highlights around the front but unfortunately you turned your hair GRAY and it makes your skin/ face look almost dead. Nobody looks good with GRAY/ white hair next to their face unless you are 75 and up. The tone is just not right for you. You looked so beautiful with your natural hair. You should have put a couple warm buttery highlights around your face only
I had the exact same view point on medication and being hesitant. BUT This is the same medication I was on for my anxiety and when I tell you I noticed a big difference, it was amazing! I seriously hope that it has helped you even a little and there is nothing wrong at all with taking medication to help better yourself ♥️
What made you want to start a school? From an outsiders perspective your personal education was poor. 24:18 you said "Resignate" (meaning giving up a job) instead of "Resonate" (agreement).....
I just have to say I’m proud of you! You left a situation/relationship that wasn’t making you 110% happy! Don’t let these haters get you. You didn’t do anything to your kids or anyone else. You left your relationship and who cares if you have started another one. That literally has nothing to do with your kids!! These people are nobody to you don’t let them bring you down. You’re doing a great job!
This is just really bad advice and wrong. Leaving your children's father is doing something to the children undoubtedly. Bringing another man into their lives is impacting the children undoubtedly.
@@moriartythethird5709 staying can also be undoubtedly harmful. Lots of ppl wish their parents would have just broken up instead of staying together for them. It’s not the end of the world & they can still be properly cared for and loved in two homes.
i love you a lot and ive been subscribed for a long time, i think if you want to move passed everything in a more mature manner stop claiming everything is just rumors… if its not out already it will be eventually and i feel like just mentioning why you stopped the podcast and things like that, everything will be left in the past like everyone wants
If you think you have adhd dont hesitate to look into it again now when you are better. Alot of the time adhd is the main problem creating all the other symptoms and especially in Girls its often not detected since it shows up as depression, anxiety and such. But if you are depressed its hard to diagnose adhd so now when you are feeling better is a good time to see if you might have adhd or add. Many people can get off antidepressants when they get adhd meds. But its different for everyone :)
I hope you never get a neurological disorder where it slows you Just be open minded when you see a slow person because they could be fighting a disorder
Love the hair, but balayage over highlights every day. That way you don’t loose dimension and don’t feel washed out from the blonde. Best of both worlds!
wow if you are stressed and struggling with not seen the kids imagine them. you say doing your hair is worth the struggle. Why isn’t staying together not worth it
“If you don’t agree with medicine, you havnt struggled enough” lol I felt that. It was a last resort and something I never wanted to depend on but Idk where I would be without it. I felt like I was actually going crazy. Mental illness is so scary.
You realize that there’s people with 0 access to any resources to support their well-being, right? For them it’s absolutely not an option to relieve their struggle medically. They have to resort to healing alone - and you saying that is dismissing their struggle and the validity of their healing.
@@peacefoodlove4life how is that in any way relevant to what either this poster or Kyra has said?? Kyra is talking about beliefs not access! The people you refer to may believe in medication however unfortunately they don’t have access. Not at all the same thing. Jesus, comprehension is not your strong point is it?!
I’m on the exact same medication that you are on but I’m taking 20mg, I’ve been on it for about 4 years now and it has helped me TREMENDOUSLY. Before taking it I was one of those moms that was constantly in and out of the hospital with my baby because I literally always thought something was wrong with him or he was sick and every since taking that medication it’s helped me settle and keep the thoughts of something being wrong with my son at bay!
I understand how you are hesitant to talk about mental health. Though our situations are different. I tried talking to my mom about my struggles and got the "playing victim" lecture. Also how you were thinking about not talking about the medicine. I read people saying the only option is therapy, no drugs. Drugs are treated as a bandaid you can't remove. I think this is a complicated puzzle and people need to stop thinking one size fits all. I feel like therapy didn't help me on the 6 years I saw one. Until I was 18, and after comments my mom made, yeah....
Kyra - i am sorry you're going through such a hard time. I have struggled with the exact same thing ( anxiety, depression and an eating disorder) in high school. for years I fought and it was the most difficult time in life. I went on an antidepressant and have been on it ever since. But now in a great place and no problem with eating. the medication definitely helped and took the edge off. there is light at the end of the tunnel. you will get through this rough patch. I am proud of you getting help by a doctor. you are for sure not alone and i can totally relate and sympathizes with you. i hope you have more of a support system. I will be praying for you and you are in my thoughts. thank you very much for sharing and i know you are helping others by doing so. you're braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and loved more than you will ever know. I love you and love watching your videos. you got this! lots of love to you!
I know you probably won't ever read this but if meds help that is awesome but make sure you keep taking them because it does effects your brain chemistry. And I feel you have trauma that need to be addressed with a counselor, no one has that much anxiety and depression without some type of trauma in there life. And have you ever had your hormones checked at a clinic for that because being imbalanced can have a major effect on the way you feel. Deficient in vitamin D, and B12 look into it.
I lived in Utah for two years and the daycare was horrible for non lds kids and parents. You would help out so many families being outside the “religion”
Kyra I just wanted to say I'm so proud of you! ❤️ Opening up and talking about your mental health is such a big step in healing. I'm also on Escitalopram and it works great for me! Thank you for talking about this and not being ashamed about it 😊
You should get some schooling for opening a daycare and preschool definitely would help!!! I’ve just finished my first year in early learning and childcare and going to do another year !! So I can be a director or own my own dayhome or be a preschool teacher so happy I have the schooling I do !! I’m working as a toddler teacher at a daycare now and I love it
Girl feeling the feels !!! I share my kids 50/50 some weeks I am ok others dude I am a complete mess !!!! And my cars full of Starbucks cups. Give your self some grace feel the feels and let’s pray they don’t last for ever right 🤷♀️
I have been watching your videos since levi was a baby, I'm sorry to hear that you are struggling. I too suffer from mental illness but we must over come! You got it girl! Also your hair is amazing 🤩
The one thing I’ve noticed the most is that you are feeling your feelings, which is so important in growth. No matter how crazy that seems to others, you loving yourself & being authentic 🤍 love this!!!
I’m happy you’re still uploading so I can still see your beautiful face. Keep your head up mama you’re doing a wonderful job. I can’t imagine how hard your life is and how much it is changing in this time. Love you dear 💖
I hope one day you will realise how much God loves you. We didn't just happen... God created us and given us a way to get close to Him. You are never alone. God hears our prayers and knows what's in our hearts and mind. It's not about being religious it's about having a personal relationship with Jesus. No need to sign up to a church. Just call upon him. Ask for God to reveal himself in your life and you will know if he really does exist.
Im on the exact same tablets and dose and its amazing but so strange while your serotonin levels increase !! Youll get there kyra! Been a viewer since the first okbaby vid! Thanks for normalising and talking about mental health. Its so real and im sick of feeling judged and alone! ❤️
I’ve been on that for two years it’s the equivalent to lexapro and it truly does help. I’m so glad you basically said f you to the people that are going to have opinions on medication. You are definitely flourishing and you’re still so young it will get better. Those babies also miss you more than you know so you’re not alone. Keep going and I hope you get your dream job sooner than you think!
Tried for years with therapist and psychiatrist and still struggled, until finally I found a good group therapy that worked wonders and we had classes that taught us awesome coping tools and I gained a stronger relationship with Jesus which did wonders for giving me peace and joy, my husband struggled also because of the wrong meds, but he is on a good combination of two meds that has been working for years now......I will pray for you Kyra because I know all too well the dark place we can get to as a human.
Don't mess with your meds. Don't miss taking them, if you do, you messing with your life. You were all over the place. Too talkative! The hair is platinum, not blonde. You need to educate on your English.
Good for you girl for taking care of your mental health! It is so important for you and your kids. Love your vlogs lately and love you being being so transparent. Go girl!
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You say your kids are completely fine with the breakup but you spent a majority of the video talking about how hard it’s been for you?? How could you believe it would affect you so much and not them??
They've never said they're fine, they chose not to discuss the kids feelings on it on the internet. One of the few things I actually agree with them on.
Come on Kyra not everything “BS rumors”. You’re where you’re at right now because of your TH-cam people at least show them the common respect and tell the truth
yes girl yes!!!!!!!!!!
What do you think the truth is?
For real
Yes!!!!
right
I guess I don't understand the like sob story in this. You left the relationship, you chose all of this. For what very clearly seems like another relationship. And you can't keep a friendship to save your life. So you're all alone because of your own toxic actions. Which sucks but is your own fault 🤷♀️
This!!!!!!!
I once heard that if you're running from your problems or things that bother you, it will definitely come back later. Only then, it'll be worst because it would have built up in the time you've ignored it.
So, please don't run from things or bury yourself in activities/work, because these things will revisit later.
" I want to be honest with you guys"
Answers and tells us nothing about what we all want to know. Girlllllllll
The entitlement 🙄🙄🙄
"Life update" that isn't actually a life update lmao
These comments are why she's hesitant to talk about everything
@@amandabee2246 LOL blame us.
@Caitlyn A LOL
I grew up in a household that didn't go to the doctors even for a cold or check ups. So as an adult I didn't go. But I hit a really rough patch that I couldn't get through. Couldn't get out of bed. Couldn't clean my house. Everything went to trash. But I was also so depressed that the piles around me were too much. But it took a long time to be able to admit that I needed help. I slept for 3 hours just about every night for 3 months. I was exhausted. I'm glad you got the help you needed.
How are you going run a daycare but not have any educational qualifications for it?! 😂 you do realize majority of daycare owners/directors were all once teachers, all have qualifications to be lead teacher incase they need to fill in. Oh its also completely different than being a parent also. But you kinda don't seem to know much about that either.
Drives me crazy when childcare owners don’t even have qualifications for that industry. How are you meant to be a leader and boss for your workers when you aren’t even qualified in the industry.
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I would not trust this woman with my kids ever
@@maycygomez9026 definitely not!!
@Caitlyn A which is such an awful thing.
With peace and love, are you concerned with how your Beneath the Sheets podcast might deter potential clients for a daycare for very young kids? I’m not saying there’s anything wrong by any means with the subject of your podcast, but also as a mom it’s hard for me to see how someone who would choose to put themselves out there in that way would then be the right fit for being a professional in a setting for very young children. edited to add: still, good luck in whatever endeavors you decide to pursue ❤️
We’re all human at the end of the day!
especially in Utah!!! people are way more open minded about adults being sexual people in other parts of the country but definitely not there.
@@caitlanweary8613 we are all human but that's the kind of thing that makes it difficult for people who want to pursue education. Many coaches, teachers, volunteers, substitutes have lost their chances cause of things less than that podcast and more than it.
You're entire comment is so contradictory.
@@GraceKi92 **your
What daddy wants, daddy gets
Hahahaha
😂😂😂😂
@Caitlyn A nope (:
@@EdenGPrabhudial explain what? It’s self explanatory
☠️☠️☠️☠️🤣🤣🤣🤣
The morals??? LOL You are in denial of who you are and what you've done.
You are on some real fangirl bullshit, you’ve commented 34 times on this woman’s channel! Wow gotta admire the dedication. Imagine what you could be if you redirected that weird ass energy towards something productive!
I don’t understand. You basically pushed back everyone in your life and destroyed all relations you had with EVERYONE and now you’re crying and realizing you’re alone? Duh. Girl, you had so many close friends, what happened to them? It’s realistically not possible that all of them were wrong or were “using your vulnerability”. And to clarify, I don’t think you’re a bad person. You’re just completely lost in this “trying to find myself” situation 🥴
Exactly Natalia
Mental health plays a huge part in pushing people away
Don’t forget being on social media plays a big part of your mental health and why you’re feeling the way you’re feeling.
10000%
My spiritual journey has come so far without social media
The truth will set you free
You say having the kids 50/50 is hard but yet you choose to allow the kids to be at Oscar’s house with the nanny on “your time”. Why pay/have a nanny when it’s your time with the kids and you say it’s “so hard” for you to be away from them
and have a nanny on your time but want to start a day care??
👍🏻👍🏻
EXACTLY! THANK YOU
Could you imagine how the kids feel, Kyra???? You can't because you're always thinking of yourself. YOU DID THIS. I wonder how Hannah's mental health is...hmmm?
THIS! 🙌🏼🙌🏼100% truth
Excatly
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EXACTLY!!
True facts!!
You think the kids are fine.. I don’t think you realize how much they could actually be struggling. Idk, you keep talking about how hard YOU have it & don’t rlly think deeply about how’re they could actually be .
Your darker hair (dark blonde, not brown BTW) makes your eyes pop! Such pretty eye color. I went lighter once and am close to having it all cut off and back to "virgin" hair, which feels so much healthier. Also, there's nothing wrong with taking medication. Mental health is a high priority and shouldn't be stigmatized. Good for you!
I agree. I like the natural color better 🥺
This is 1000% unsolicited advice, but as an educator I strongly urge you to go back to school or gain some practical experience in education before deciding to start a school of your own. One of the biggest issues in education right now is administrators not having any practical experience in teaching or educating children. I think you'd be a kickass educator, and your experience as a parent is going to help tremendously, but the education system right now is a total mess. We need leaders who have experience and know what it's actually like to be in the classroom each day working with kids of all different backgrounds and abilities. This is no shade to you at all. I think it's an incredible venture, but it requires a lot more than personal passion.
Jesus definitely healed my chronic depression and anxiety. No joke. I was lost. Now I feel like I have a purpose and understanding for my life!
I now have way more than I ever deserved. Thanks for the video girl ☺️❤️
You are worthy and loved. You are not alone. Give your heart to God!
HAHAHAHAHHA
Amen girl! I have a similar praise report. Once I got right with the Lord, the issues went away! What a world we would have if everyone saw the goodness, grace, and mercy of God. Hang in there and keep the faith 🥰
I really needed to hear your little vent session on mental health. I too have been in a dark place, and I really relate and resonate with you. It’s good to feel like I’m not alone and this is my sign to look into medications :)
You are never alone, your Creator gave you a choice to love Him or not, God is always available to you, His son Jesus is very real, He loves you dearly and wants you to seek His face, then He will show you the peace and joy and freedom that is available to you, and you can lay all your burdens on Him...
Amen!
Will you attend college then? To get your childcare qualifications. As a preschool teacher I would advice you attend college & do your work experience first. Childcare has changed massively now so 100% get your college qualifications & experience.
@@kyrarenee5423 I know but even opening your own childcare service is tough these days. It be great to have the qualifications behind you xx I live in Ireland so childcare might be little different but, having the qualifications does benefit you.
I Was Thinking The Same Thing. Even Just Working At A Preschool College Credits In Child Development Is Needed.
@@kyrarenee5423 even if you’re not a teacher, I think there’s a lot about child development you could learn to provide better, more knowledgeable care
@@kyrarenee5423 a blanket business is totally different than a daycare "business" FYI
@@kyrarenee5423 Start with buying baby gates for the toddlers so they don't fall down the stairs.
Keep making those choices that you see no wrong in and you will keep being depressed. You need to clear your lies and live by truth and do well by others close to you. Don’t be so selfish.
Couldn't imagine anyone wanting to let you have anything to do with their childcare.. especially with what was going on with your "nanny" creepy!!!
I've missed something... what happened ?
Yeah what happened? Im confused
I believe “lifestyle “ affects mental health.
A lot of mental health issues stem from a chemical imbalance in the brain, totally unrelated to “lifestyle”.
You scrolled through all the questions and those are what you chose to answer? I’m pretty sure we all know the REAL questions you get “all the time”.
I used to become busy with things to keep my anxiety at bay. Unfortunately, this method doesn't work for very long (It lasted 5 years for me), and I've been dealing with it until recently. The way to conquer your anxiety, and this may sound crazy, it's training your mind. I think I finally hit the jackpot at figuring it out by myself, lots of research on reframing negative thoughts. Hopefully, you can get to a point where you can be calm and relaxed while not busy. A time that you can just be you and exist without the itch of crippling anxiety. ❤
Some people don't understand that medication can save lives especially when it comes to mental health. I also have anxiety and OCD, I'm on prozac and wellbutrin. Thanks for talking about this!
One thing that I learned in therapy that I was shocked about was that being busy is a way of avoiding the emotion rather than facing it. It sounds so obvious when worded that way, but when my husband went away for military training I had this headspace of I just needed to get into a routine and be busy and then I would be okay. Through therapy I was able to realise that only worked because I was so good at avoiding my emotions. They made me uncomfortable even though I didn't realise it. My therapist helped me work through understanding the necessity in negative emotions and helping reframe my thoughts around feeling them. Such as "how lucky am I to love someone so much that I can miss them this great" and other similar reframes. Obviously NOT the same as OCD at all, but just wanted to share my experience in case anyone else reading through comments can relate.
Beautifully said 🤗
Come on Kyra we all know that all of ur “Life Plans” fall threw. U don’t follow threw on anything. And u couldn’t find any employees (not1) that wanted to stay with u during ur whole blankee endeavor, now how do u think ur gunna find 10 people???
Would be easier to just go work at a daycare. Opening a daycare is a HUGE commitment and wouldn’t allow you any flexibility in your life, including traveling.
this is just a circus side show
Would definitely recommend taking a course related to early childhood education, weather or not you are becoming a teacher or just owner.
I agree with this, and also a business degree. Those two I would consider to be essential.
Thought the grass would be greener....
What are you so afraid of ? Literally Everyone ! knows. Wouldn’t it be easier to just spit it all out ?
We’ll you should have thought about them when you were on another dude
I like your dark hair at the beginning of the video. Brings out your features.
I like the blonde
me too. I've never liked the platinum blonde look.
Darker looks so much better
Therapy is really good. You just have to find your kind of therapy and therapist who fits you
Antidepressant and alcohol don’t mix !!!
I think your natural brown hair is so gorgeous as a base for a couple buttery, warm toned, golden blonde highlights around the front but unfortunately you turned your hair GRAY and it makes your skin/ face look almost dead. Nobody looks good with GRAY/ white hair next to their face unless you are 75 and up. The tone is just not right for you. You looked so beautiful with your natural hair. You should have put a couple warm buttery highlights around your face only
True
You wouldn't be going through this, but that's what you CHOSE. So deal with it girl
ANY REGRETS?
I had the exact same view point on medication and being hesitant. BUT This is the same medication I was on for my anxiety and when I tell you I noticed a big difference, it was amazing! I seriously hope that it has helped you even a little and there is nothing wrong at all with taking medication to help better yourself ♥️
What made you want to start a school? From an outsiders perspective your personal education was poor. 24:18 you said "Resignate" (meaning giving up a job) instead of "Resonate" (agreement).....
You sound like you're fun at parties
I’m sorry Kyra, but you don’t even watch your own kids, how are you gonna watch someone else’s?????
I just have to say I’m proud of you! You left a situation/relationship that wasn’t making you 110% happy! Don’t let these haters get you. You didn’t do anything to your kids or anyone else. You left your relationship and who cares if you have started another one. That literally has nothing to do with your kids!! These people are nobody to you don’t let them bring you down. You’re doing a great job!
AGREED!!!
This is just really bad advice and wrong. Leaving your children's father is doing something to the children undoubtedly. Bringing another man into their lives is impacting the children undoubtedly.
@@moriartythethird5709 staying can also be undoubtedly harmful. Lots of ppl wish their parents would have just broken up instead of staying together for them. It’s not the end of the world & they can still be properly cared for and loved in two homes.
i love you a lot and ive been subscribed for a long time, i think if you want to move passed everything in a more mature manner stop claiming everything is just rumors… if its not out already it will be eventually and i feel like just mentioning why you stopped the podcast and things like that, everything will be left in the past like everyone wants
Absolutely!
You'd have more support persons if you didn't sabotage every friendship you've had
Girl weren’t you against therapy like a few months ago? You said it was too negative…glad you’ve changed your mind because you could use it
You litterally answered your own question
Whole weeks away just seem too much. Why don't you guys shorten the days and if someone goes on vacation, the other has them longer?
That a lot of back and forth for the kids
They just weren’t ready to coparent. It’s hard emotionally for some people and it’s especially hard for the kids.
What Daddy wants Daddy getssss lmao
If you think you have adhd dont hesitate to look into it again now when you are better. Alot of the time adhd is the main problem creating all the other symptoms and especially in Girls its often not detected since it shows up as depression, anxiety and such. But if you are depressed its hard to diagnose adhd so now when you are feeling better is a good time to see if you might have adhd or add. Many people can get off antidepressants when they get adhd meds. But its different for everyone :)
The darker hair does look really cute on you!
did daddy want you to dye your hair? what daddy wants daddy gets right
I’m actually on escitalopram as well. There is nothing wrong with medication for helping with mental health! Your such an inspiration girl! ❤️
I am aswell at 15 I was put on them and been on them ever since so 12 years
I love you but I wish you just answer the rumours
Im just trying to figure out what the rumor is
I hope you never get a neurological disorder where it slows you Just be open minded when you see a slow person because they could be fighting a disorder
Let me know when she’s actually honest about what happened ✌🏼
Love the hair, but balayage over highlights every day. That way you don’t loose dimension and don’t feel washed out from the blonde. Best of both worlds!
wow if you are stressed and struggling with not seen the kids imagine them. you say doing your hair is worth the struggle. Why isn’t staying together not worth it
“If you don’t agree with medicine, you havnt struggled enough” lol I felt that. It was a last resort and something I never wanted to depend on but Idk where I would be without it. I felt like I was actually going crazy. Mental illness is so scary.
You realize that there’s people with 0 access to any resources to support their well-being, right? For them it’s absolutely not an option to relieve their struggle medically. They have to resort to healing alone - and you saying that is dismissing their struggle and the validity of their healing.
@@peacefoodlove4life how is that in any way relevant to what either this poster or Kyra has said?? Kyra is talking about beliefs not access! The people you refer to may believe in medication however unfortunately they don’t have access. Not at all the same thing. Jesus, comprehension is not your strong point is it?!
I’m on the exact same medication that you are on but I’m taking 20mg, I’ve been on it for about 4 years now and it has helped me TREMENDOUSLY. Before taking it I was one of those moms that was constantly in and out of the hospital with my baby because I literally always thought something was wrong with him or he was sick and every since taking that medication it’s helped me settle and keep the thoughts of something being wrong with my son at bay!
I understand how you are hesitant to talk about mental health. Though our situations are different. I tried talking to my mom about my struggles and got the "playing victim" lecture. Also how you were thinking about not talking about the medicine. I read people saying the only option is therapy, no drugs. Drugs are treated as a bandaid you can't remove. I think this is a complicated puzzle and people need to stop thinking one size fits all. I feel like therapy didn't help me on the 6 years I saw one. Until I was 18, and after comments my mom made, yeah....
Guess the channels are still paying well
Thank you for talking about your mental health. It’s so important to show others that they are not alone!
Reap what you sow baby
Love the hair... Why don't u upload 3x a week when u don't have the babies
And just once a week when u have the kiddos. Just a suggestion. Hugs
Your dream for a daycare sounds amazing! That is on my mind as well, I’d love to do it one day
I thought you said in a previous video that you didn’t believe in therapy.
People are allowed to grow and change their opinions on stuff,.
Praying for the Lord to help you with your anxiety and OCD. I know He is helping me though my mental health
Kyra - i am sorry you're going through such a hard time. I have struggled with the exact same thing ( anxiety, depression and an eating disorder) in high school. for years I fought and it was the most difficult time in life. I went on an antidepressant and have been on it ever since. But now in a great place and no problem with eating. the medication definitely helped and took the edge off. there is light at the end of the tunnel. you will get through this rough patch. I am proud of you getting help by a doctor. you are for sure not alone and i can totally relate and sympathizes with you. i hope you have more of a support system. I will be praying for you and you are in my thoughts. thank you very much for sharing and i know you are helping others by doing so. you're braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and loved more than you will ever know. I love you and love watching your videos. you got this! lots of love to you!
I know you probably won't ever read this but if meds help that is awesome but make sure you keep taking them because it does effects your brain chemistry. And I feel you have trauma that need to be addressed with a counselor, no one has that much anxiety and depression without some type of trauma in there life. And have you ever had your hormones checked at a clinic for that because being imbalanced can have a major effect on the way you feel. Deficient in vitamin D, and B12 look into it.
I lived in Utah for two years and the daycare was horrible for non lds kids and parents. You would help out so many families being outside the “religion”
Thankyou for talking about rough patches. Everyone goes through them and I've been watching since Levi was born. You're awesome keep it up
I wouldn't say awesome 😂
Kyra I just wanted to say I'm so proud of you! ❤️ Opening up and talking about your mental health is such a big step in healing. I'm also on Escitalopram and it works great for me! Thank you for talking about this and not being ashamed about it 😊
4 hours for that you look better with darker hair
You should get some schooling for opening a daycare and preschool definitely would help!!!
I’ve just finished my first year in early learning and childcare and going to do another year !! So I can be a director or own my own dayhome or be a preschool teacher so happy I have the schooling I do !! I’m working as a toddler teacher at a daycare now and I love it
I am not the tap of person who complains or says anything. Because its best for me to keep it to myself.
Girl feeling the feels !!! I share my kids 50/50 some weeks I am ok others dude I am a complete mess !!!! And my cars full of Starbucks cups. Give your self some grace feel the feels and let’s pray they don’t last for ever right 🤷♀️
What happened with you and Alyssa
I have been watching your videos since levi was a baby, I'm sorry to hear that you are struggling. I too suffer from mental illness but we must over come! You got it girl! Also your hair is amazing 🤩
She’s giving Britney spears vibes with the questions like girl we don’t care about those questions lol we want to know other things 🤣😅
The one thing I’ve noticed the most is that you are feeling your feelings, which is so important in growth. No matter how crazy that seems to others, you loving yourself & being authentic 🤍 love this!!!
I’m happy you’re still uploading so I can still see your beautiful face. Keep your head up mama you’re doing a wonderful job. I can’t imagine how hard your life is and how much it is changing in this time. Love you dear 💖
Stoppppppo saying “If that makes sense???”
Intermittent fasting is so much better and more effective than calorie counting
I hope one day you will realise how much God loves you. We didn't just happen... God created us and given us a way to get close to Him. You are never alone. God hears our prayers and knows what's in our hearts and mind. It's not about being religious it's about having a personal relationship with Jesus. No need to sign up to a church. Just call upon him. Ask for God to reveal himself in your life and you will know if he really does exist.
We did just happen, we evolved from other primates. Stop pushing your brainwashing on other people.
Im on the exact same tablets and dose and its amazing but so strange while your serotonin levels increase !! Youll get there kyra! Been a viewer since the first okbaby vid! Thanks for normalising and talking about mental health. Its so real and im sick of feeling judged and alone! ❤️
Yes my SSRI has helped me sooooo much!! Good for you on sharing about this.
For some reason the hair looked green in that first clip lol
I’ve been on that for two years it’s the equivalent to lexapro and it truly does help. I’m so glad you basically said f you to the people that are going to have opinions on medication. You are definitely flourishing and you’re still so young it will get better. Those babies also miss you more than you know so you’re not alone. Keep going and I hope you get your dream job sooner than you think!
My Question: Which Book have you recently read? And which book has been you favorite? ❤️
Oh brother, self absorbed much?? Me, me, me, me...
Tried for years with therapist and psychiatrist and still struggled, until finally I found a good group therapy that worked wonders and we had classes that taught us awesome coping tools and I gained a stronger relationship with Jesus which did wonders for giving me peace and joy, my husband struggled also because of the wrong meds, but he is on a good combination of two meds that has been working for years now......I will pray for you Kyra because I know all too well the dark place we can get to as a human.
The end statement, I cant 🤣 she's basically telling people to be alone don't waste time on anyone cause your buried alone 🤣🤣🤣 creasing
Don't mess with your meds. Don't miss taking them, if you do, you messing with your life. You were all over the place. Too talkative! The hair is platinum, not blonde. You need to educate on your English.
Messing with meds is not a game, you could put your life in danger, as well as your kids.
I would get a second opinion on your diagnosis of anxiety, depression & ED. Adhd can absolutely cause all those things, look more into it.
I love your hair! It lighten your eye color. I hope you feel better Kyra you are strong
Good for you girl for taking care of your mental health! It is so important for you and your kids. Love your vlogs lately and love you being being so transparent. Go girl!
I’ve been on escitalopram for years and loved it. Fun fact I have gastroparesis and it helps stimulate stomach movements as well!