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I am standing for a broken relationship, between my partner and I , we are not married in a worldly way but made promises to each other in front of God to be with each other till we were parted by death. I really am considering joining the next course, does this apply to me
Hello everyone, my church advised me to divorce my husband. I didn’t want to, it my husband did. He said he’d do it under irreconcilable differences. I didn’t want that as we hadn’t had any counselling. He had an affair and wanted to end our marriage. So my divorce 2020 was for adultery my church encouraged it. He remarried less than a year later, Nov 2021. She died Nov 2022 riddled with cancer. I learned about being a stander in early 2023. I have been standing ever since. I’ve been praying for his salvation and our family and future. I pray the Lord will forgive me for my ignorance and foolish decision back in 2020. I pray He will honour our covenant and rejoin us as soon as He sees fit. In Jesus Christ’s precious name I pray. 🙏🏼 Please pray for Peter Hull. Much love to all standers ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
My husband went to his parents house for there help in dissolving our marriage. When he returned from visiting them he was at the courthouse. This is the evil council he believes and follows instead of what God is telling him to do. 💔😭 please pray for my husband, marriage, and I.
keep strong and firm... you have good discernment from the Lord for what has happened. The Lord can rout the enemy and his plans... the Lord CAN break strongholds, lies, deceptions, opinions and rebellion. Prayed for you. Pray for my marriage, please.
All Glory to Almighty God in Christ Jesus' name through the Power of His Holy Spirit Amen. May Almighty God continue to Bless you and your precious family and ministry in Christ Jesus' name Amen.
Thank you, I clearly hear stay out of God's way, however there is a daily conflict just trying to keep order and run the household and my wife opposes every decision, so how do you not have battle when the battle of the Lord's if the battle is brought to you through contrary behavior? This also emboldens some of the children to copycat the back fighting behavior, so the infection is spreading. But your council encouraged me to say in the light and keep turning the battle over to the Lord. God bless and thank you for getting anything to share this great content
A lot of people reference job when speaking about standing for a marriage. Most storiesI reflected upon I said yes but you didn't mess with their marriage. And then the Lord brought me to the story of Hosea. That seems more relevant...and also answered my questions annoy standing through infidelity. Ive been standing for 4yrs. We were on and off but 2 months ago found out he is sleeping with OW. God told me I was released and had the chose to stand. I've been on the fence healing and am still unsure.
I was taken to the book of Hosea about a week ago. Everyone around me that I seek counseling from told me to give up but the Holy Spirit took me to this book and now I fully understand why.
"Marriage becomes the playing field of the un healed wounds of childhood. Even though the events are far in the past, the impact of those events are imprinted within the souls until they are cleansed and purified by the Lord."
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1st Corinthians 5 says hand a person over to satan for the destruction of the flesh sof the flesh so that his spirit may be saved on the day of the Lord
Mark 12:1 And he began to speak unto them by parables. A certain man planted a vineyard, and set an hedge about it, and digged a place for the winefat, and built a tower, and let it out to husbandmen, and went into a far country.
Blessings, Good afternoon . I’m a new to this channel, as I was scrolling a week ago . I’ve enjoyed your messages. I’m standing for my marriage, wanting more understanding. Can I speak with you are someone in your ministry? I want to join in the next class. Thank you in advance.
Question: at 26 minute mark you briefly mention there may be a no-fault thing where the prodigal spouse filed for divorce. And they end up divorced through a passage of time. Can you clarify what you meant when you said “they did not touch the covenant, it was enacted by someone else?” Thank you
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Thank you Mr Herbst for the time that you take for others. For the sake of so many that listen to you and your accountability to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, please kindly take a look at the youtube lecture by Joseph Webb entitled " Till death do us part." Then after that please come to a conclusion so that the rightly divided Lord's Word is the funal authority you help your listeners with.
Would God give me a harsh spouse with violent tendencies and in laws who set me up to steal my babies? We became nuts after his mom stole our kids and began raising them. His mother is cleaving to our babies and its all very sickening because its messed up our connection. Definitely an attack. Yahusha please let me know if this is the kingdom spouse ? Soul restoration..i need my kids back. This is sooo unhealthy help ... lol😅
Escape clause that allows divorce is misinterpreted ... Look !!! History and remembering culture of Bible Times when the bible was written is so important.. In the case of Joseph and Mary ... he was going to divorce Mary over being unfaithful to him. This cultural time and place in Israel. when a couple are engaged they are considered man and wife. that is why Joseph said he will divorce her ever thought a wedding had not taken BUT if you are married this verse does not apply. and the Lord says one who is divorced can not remarry.
Great teaching dominic. However, I believe you refer to Matthew 5 and 19 where Jesus said that divorce is the option because of fornication. We must realise that Jesus was still speaking in light of the law of Moses in these verses and not for our time. Therefore there is no allowable reason for divorce in our time in Christ. This is supported by 1 Corinthians 7, verse 39, a woman is bound to her husband for as longashelives (and vice versa) God can restore all situations from all troubles, even a situation of abuse in a marriage. Otherwise, either way it becomes a situation of adultery in both spouses if they were to move on after divorce, even due to fornication. Yet, in Mark 10 and Luke 16 there is no mention of the fornication clause. Just something to consider for the sake of context
The Bible gives two clear grounds for divorce: (1) sexual immorality (Matthew 5:32; 19:9) and (2) abandonment by an unbeliever (1 Corinthians 7:15). Even in these two instances, though, divorce is not required or even encouraged. The most that can be said is that sexual immorality and abandonment are grounds (an allowance) for divorce. Confession, forgiveness, reconciliation, and restoration are always the first steps. Divorce should only be viewed as a last resort. This is pasted from GotQuestions. The important take away is that divorce is not God’s perfect will and should be avoided at all costs. It is rather a part of God’s permissive will.
My ex-husband was also jailed.. he wanted to kill me.. happily long before I confronted him, always he was talking about husbands who killed there wifes, and when he throw me and my belongings out of the house, by strong commanding me to leave like this, I confronted him; you are always talking about husbands killing there wifes, would you also do this to me? If it is needed, he answered. From that point on I never made it any effort anymore to want to live with him again. But I still would meet him, and in one of those moments he went after me to want to kill me. The police was very quickly to intervene. My goodness that was a lesson to learn. Later in time, he would kind of back down on it that he would rather hurt himself then others. Your message was hopefull that it is still possible for recovery! I have this promise to run with.. I believe God spoke to me lately through Filemon verses 15-16! And later through Jes. 42:1-9! After 15 years. Quite exiting! Listening to your teaching it all makes kind of sence!
I use too as well, but Grace help me to understand there is more to it. No book can contain all of God's Word. You have reprobate, narcissistic minded people and the marriage will never be 1 flesh without God's involvement on both people parts. God detects mans hearts and motives. Question: If a spouse walks off and leaves the other spouse for years or year. Is that not a violation of the Covenant? ( that spouse is thing as a single person, selfish mindset. Sound like a double minded man. It not about 1 spouse, but both) So, can the other person remarry?Patient is 1 key. Its best to wait on the Lord voice and His peace be4 moving to the next person. We all need a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.He will lead and guide us. This is what's most important. He know the beginning from the end. You talking to a person been married almost 25 years and We been through ALOT, BUT I personally was obedient to the voice of God and that's why I'm Not divorced and remarriage. This may not be the case for others people marriage.Every marriage situation is different. Think about Grace. It's not to do what we want, but what God allows us to do.Lets Give Grace to others and keep an open mind to The Holy Spirit, The Voice of God. He will teach us ALL THINGS! BLESSINGS AND ENLIGHTMENT. ✌️ and Joy to you All!
I watched so many videos from you..until you spoke about remarriage.. A man who divorces his wife & marries another commits adultery..and a man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.. Read Ezra who stood on God's law..His commandments.. Moses made the law to divorce..man's law and God's commandments are 2 different things.. I can't agree with you talking about remarriage..a convenant can't be covered by another convenant.. I really thought you understood the word..I don't receive this message..
Please visit Restoringrelationships.org to register for our next Walking Through Calvary course! When you register early you receive immediate access to the Online Journey and the Restoring Relationships journal. If you have any questions please contact a member of our staff at 570-523-0605 or email us at staff@bfsf.org. We look forward to meeting you!
I am standing for a broken relationship, between my partner and I , we are not married in a worldly way but made promises to each other in front of God to be with each other till we were parted by death. I really am considering joining the next course, does this apply to me
Hello everyone, my church advised me to divorce my husband. I didn’t want to, it my husband did. He said he’d do it under irreconcilable differences. I didn’t want that as we hadn’t had any counselling. He had an affair and wanted to end our marriage. So my divorce 2020 was for adultery my church encouraged it.
He remarried less than a year later, Nov 2021.
She died Nov 2022 riddled with cancer.
I learned about being a stander in early 2023. I have been standing ever since. I’ve been praying for his salvation and our family and future.
I pray the Lord will forgive me for my ignorance and foolish decision back in 2020.
I pray He will honour our covenant and rejoin us as soon as He sees fit.
In Jesus Christ’s precious name I pray. 🙏🏼
Please pray for Peter Hull.
Much love to all standers ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
Mercy... May he find his way home.
God always forgives when we have a contrite and humble heart 💗 I will pray for you and your husband 🙏🙏🙏
My husband went to his parents house for there help in dissolving our marriage. When he returned from visiting them he was at the courthouse. This is the evil council he believes and follows instead of what God is telling him to do. 💔😭 please pray for my husband, marriage, and I.
keep strong and firm... you have good discernment from the Lord for what has happened. The Lord can rout the enemy and his plans... the Lord CAN break strongholds, lies, deceptions, opinions and rebellion. Prayed for you. Pray for my marriage, please.
May the lord destroy the wickedness of household witchcraft and evil influence and satanic manipulation
I said a prayer for you.🙏🏽
@@alicia4him1praying for you
SAME here!!!
This is the BEST teaching anywhere about the realities of destinies and purpose in marriages. Thanks for sharing this :)
Yes..how many times i professed to be wise and was a fool..God help me and you are ..praise you🧎♀️🙌
God bless you richly for your sacrifice to share these videos that can help us to fight for marriage
All Glory to Almighty God in Christ Jesus' name through the Power of His Holy Spirit Amen.
May Almighty God continue to Bless you and your precious family and ministry in Christ Jesus' name Amen.
Pls pray for my marriage:
Kai & James
I miss her terribly. She refuses to talk. I spend hours in prayer. Please pray if you will.
Prayed for you brother! ❤
🙏🏽🙏🏽
Praying for you Sir 🙏
Thank you, I clearly hear stay out of God's way, however there is a daily conflict just trying to keep order and run the household and my wife opposes every decision, so how do you not have battle when the battle of the Lord's if the battle is brought to you through contrary behavior? This also emboldens some of the children to copycat the back fighting behavior, so the infection is spreading. But your council encouraged me to say in the light and keep turning the battle over to the Lord. God bless and thank you for getting anything to share this great content
wise counsel oh how i wish I could walk through Calvary.
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But I am so tired of holding on. My soul is tired.
Solidarity 🤗 I will pray for you.
33:07 😮 what I'm going through right now!
A lot of people reference job when speaking about standing for a marriage. Most storiesI reflected upon I said yes but you didn't mess with their marriage. And then the Lord brought me to the story of Hosea. That seems more relevant...and also answered my questions annoy standing through infidelity. Ive been standing for 4yrs. We were on and off but 2 months ago found out he is sleeping with OW. God told me I was released and had the chose to stand. I've been on the fence healing and am still unsure.
I was taken to the book of Hosea about a week ago. Everyone around me that I seek counseling from told me to give up but the Holy Spirit took me to this book and now I fully understand why.
Thank you for your teaching
the pouring out of the Holy Spirit start today God says
Please pray for us.
Replay 🙋 from Corpus Christi Tx
Is there a women therapist I can speak to?
Thank God for you ,greetings to you from Egypt
22:27 😔🙏 Amen.
"Marriage becomes the playing field of the un healed wounds of childhood. Even though the events are far in the past, the impact of those events are imprinted within the souls until they are cleansed and purified by the Lord."
He hit the nail on the head with that one. Made me stop and rewind when he said it. Powerful.
In Jesus name I pray 🙏
I am divorced. Can God restore us still?
I encourage you to visit our website at www.restoringrelationships.org/. You can read testimonials there, schedule a time to meet with one of our counselors or register for our upcoming Prodigal Spouse & Divorce Recovery group that begins in October.
@@RestoringRelationships seems to be only one testimony available
1st Corinthians 5 says hand a person over to satan for the destruction of the flesh sof the flesh so that his spirit may be saved on the day of the Lord
Mark 12:1
And he began to speak unto them by parables. A certain man planted a vineyard, and set an hedge about it, and digged a place for the winefat, and built a tower, and let it out to husbandmen, and went into a far country.
Blessings, Good afternoon . I’m a new to this channel, as I was scrolling a week ago . I’ve enjoyed your messages. I’m standing for my marriage, wanting more understanding. Can I speak with you are someone in your ministry? I want to join in the next class. Thank you in advance.
Please contact a member of our staff at 570-523-0605 or email us at staff@bfsf.org.
Good word
Question: at 26 minute mark you briefly mention there may be a no-fault thing where the prodigal spouse filed for divorce. And they end up divorced through a passage of time. Can you clarify what you meant when you said “they did not touch the covenant, it was enacted by someone else?” Thank you
Please contact our office at 570-523-0605 or by email at staff@bfsf.org to schedule a time to meet with one of our counselors to discuss your questions.
Thank you Mr Herbst for the time that you take for others. For the sake of so many that listen to you and your accountability to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, please kindly take a look at the youtube lecture by Joseph Webb entitled " Till death do us part." Then after that please come to a conclusion so that the rightly divided Lord's Word is the funal authority you help your listeners with.
Would God give me a harsh spouse with violent tendencies and in laws who set me up to steal my babies? We became nuts after his mom stole our kids and began raising them. His mother is cleaving to our babies and its all very sickening because its messed up our connection. Definitely an attack. Yahusha please let me know if this is the kingdom spouse ? Soul restoration..i need my kids back. This is sooo unhealthy help ... lol😅
Amen
Amen 🙏❤️
When you say we will accept nothing less, should we not accept anything less than what his word says?
Escape clause that allows divorce is misinterpreted ... Look !!!
History and remembering culture of Bible Times when the bible was written is so important.. In the case of Joseph and Mary ... he was going to divorce Mary over being unfaithful to him. This cultural time and place in Israel. when a couple are engaged they are considered man and wife. that is why Joseph said he will divorce her ever thought a wedding had not taken BUT if you are married this verse does not apply. and the Lord says one who is divorced can not remarry.
no sound?????
Great teaching dominic.
However, I believe you refer to Matthew 5 and 19 where Jesus said that divorce is the option because of fornication.
We must realise that Jesus was still speaking in light of the law of Moses in these verses and not for our time.
Therefore there is no allowable reason for divorce in our time in Christ. This is supported by 1 Corinthians 7, verse 39, a woman is bound to her husband for as longashelives (and vice versa)
God can restore all situations from all troubles, even a situation of abuse in a marriage. Otherwise, either way it becomes a situation of adultery in both spouses if they were to move on after divorce, even due to fornication.
Yet, in Mark 10 and Luke 16 there is no mention of the fornication clause.
Just something to consider for the sake of context
The Bible gives two clear grounds for divorce: (1) sexual immorality (Matthew 5:32; 19:9) and (2) abandonment by an unbeliever (1 Corinthians 7:15). Even in these two instances, though, divorce is not required or even encouraged. The most that can be said is that sexual immorality and abandonment are grounds (an allowance) for divorce. Confession, forgiveness, reconciliation, and restoration are always the first steps. Divorce should only be viewed as a last resort. This is pasted from GotQuestions. The important take away is that divorce is not God’s perfect will and should be avoided at all costs. It is rather a part of God’s permissive will.
You really just inserted an opinion with the adultery exception..
Read ur bibles
My ex-husband was also jailed.. he wanted to kill me.. happily long before I confronted him, always he was talking about husbands who killed there wifes, and when he throw me and my belongings out of the house, by strong commanding me to leave like this, I confronted him; you are always talking about husbands killing there wifes, would you also do this to me? If it is needed, he answered. From that point on I never made it any effort anymore to want to live with him again. But I still would meet him, and in one of those moments he went after me to want to kill me. The police was very quickly to intervene. My goodness that was a lesson to learn. Later in time, he would kind of back down on it that he would rather hurt himself then others. Your message was hopefull that it is still possible for recovery! I have this promise to run with.. I believe God spoke to me lately through Filemon verses 15-16! And later through Jes. 42:1-9! After 15 years. Quite exiting! Listening to your teaching it all makes kind of sence!
I followed you for so long. I disagree with you on the adultery exception.
I use too as well, but Grace help me to understand there is more to it. No book can contain all of God's Word. You have reprobate, narcissistic minded people and the marriage will never be 1 flesh without God's involvement on both people parts. God detects mans hearts and motives. Question: If a spouse walks off and leaves the other spouse for years or year. Is that not a violation of the Covenant? ( that spouse is thing as a single person, selfish mindset. Sound like a double minded man. It not about 1 spouse, but both) So, can the other person remarry?Patient is 1 key. Its best to wait on the Lord voice and His peace be4 moving to the next person. We all need a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.He will lead and guide us. This is what's most important. He know the beginning from the end. You talking to a person been married almost 25 years and
We been through ALOT, BUT I personally was obedient to the voice of God and that's why I'm Not divorced and remarriage. This may not be the case for others people marriage.Every marriage situation is different. Think about Grace. It's not to do what we want, but what God allows us to do.Lets Give Grace to others and keep an open mind to The Holy Spirit, The Voice of God. He will teach us ALL THINGS! BLESSINGS AND ENLIGHTMENT. ✌️ and Joy to you All!
Me too.
Then I guess you disagree with Jesus. Cuz He gave it
I watched so many videos from you..until you spoke about remarriage..
A man who divorces his wife & marries another commits adultery..and a man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery..
Read Ezra who stood on God's law..His commandments..
Moses made the law to divorce..man's law and God's commandments are 2 different things..
I can't agree with you talking about remarriage..a convenant can't be covered by another convenant..
I really thought you understood the word..I don't receive this message..
I think you are off here.
Okay Karen
So, you support 2nd marriage's???
Adultery?
A spouse standing for their spouse in another marriage... How?
Amen.