Entitled Sister DEMANDS I Work for her FOR FREE - Reddit Podcast
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0:00 My Entitled Sister demands that I waste $50,000 worth of my time from work, just to help her start her business FOR FREE! (u/Gas_According)
5:01 I made a poorly delivered joke to some friends, and now they have all turned against me, all of the sudden. (u/whereisrobotjones)
8:14 My best friend of four years said that once she gets a boyfriend, she will stop being friends with me and kick me to the curb. (u/Budget_Number_3547)
11:07 My partner acts incredibly immature in public, and its really starting to bother me, and I don’t know what to do. (u/wufysx)
14:42 My wife has been texting her Ex-boyfriend for 2 years, and I only found out by looking through her phone, and now I don’t know what to do. (u/ScratchDapper9056)
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For the first story, I'd tell my sister that if she wants my help, after everything she did, she can either pay me or kick rocks
OP: My actual job is paying my wages, so they get first dibs on my time and availability for work - you’re not paying me anything at all and don’t have the right to make me leave work ahead of my finishing time or make me late for work or force me to take days off my paid work that will cost me money! If I am at my paid work on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, and off on Tuesdays and Thursdays, I can help on my days off, if at all! You’re not paying, so you’re not saying!
Damn Skippy
@Joe I think u need 2 calm down
I agree. I've never done any kind to work for free. If I have to do anything, even if it's for family, there has to be some price for the work.
Nah, I wouldn't help this woman at all. She will never pay her bills.
Story 2 AND 3 - Any friend who can just leave like that wasn't really a friend to begin with. F*** them. They can go immediately.
My coworker's wife is an accountant and pretty much from around February to April he's a virtual single parent because of all the hours she has to work. It's just a fact of their life, not a problem. Some jobs are demanding all the time. Others have regular big crunch periods, while some have unpredictable busy times.
My sister's a lawyer and she's helped me out a few times. Usually, it's just a phone call or two to let the other side know we have a lawyer on our side, so it's settled pretty quickly. It's great when family's use their skills to help each other out, but expecting them to drop their paying work for what is essentially a personal favor is not cool. Family goes both ways and accepting they have priorities outside the family is part of that
Exactly! Being family does entitle you (imo, and with some exceptions) to ask for stuff for free. BUT it only works if you're asking and take "no" for an answer.
All I learned is I want to be an accountant if they're making 650$ an hour.
You should never feel bad or weird about catching your spouse cheating. It's a good thing he looked at her messages. Because look at all of the stuff he found.
Honestly the cheater is always the first one breaking trust imho
The last story - The thing that kills me is she wants him to just forgive and forget and TRUST her word that she's not talking to her ex anymore. i'd tell her straight up, "i'm sorry, but you cheated for 2 years, trust is out the window for now. maybe down the line i can trust what you say but for now i've going to be second guessing everytime you're on your phone or if you're really where you said you were."
my cuz's ex-GF cheated on him and while he was willing to give her a second chance all she did was complain about how she couldn't go hang out with her guy friends without him worrying she was going to cheat on him again (the guy she cheated with was her "best friend"). her words to me excatly - "I know he's upset, but all i did was cheat once! when is he supposed to get over it?"
I straight up told her that if that's how you feel about what you did then you don't deserve my cousin and you should stop complaining about this before i slap the shit out you.
Oh so she had an emotional affair, tried to get rid of the evidence, and now gaslighting him...last story.
Yeah, get rid of her.
She did cheat. She was cheating emotionally and that's just as bad. How dare she go behind his back and do that to him
Story one: families suck. When you own a business they all expect you to do things for them for free. Even if there are significant expenses involved. They expect you to cover them and give them your services for free.
In the 1 story : yeah not the jerk , my aunt is an accountant and i know that it's very expensive and takes a lot of time , so it's very selfish from the sister , the op is a good accountant most of them don't have this much patience.
In the 3rd story it also sounds like Kate's Boyfriend did that because they have been friends for so many years
story 2 makes me realize im getting old, that is the dumbest trend i have ever heard of joke or not. I no longer understand the kids these days
I think it’s stupid of OP and the narrator to assume oh it’s a trend on a platform she uses so she must have known. Out of context that “joke” sounds like you want someone destroyed, so if they never saw them engaging with posts for that specific trend they shouldn’t assume they’re aware of it.
It's probably my paranoia but when people don't catch my texts for a while I assume they've had a terrible car crash or been stabbed and dumped in the woods.
It wouldn't even cross my mind to say something like that.
@@drako8343 That isnt excuse to block your friend to begin with bro
@@Agentmonkey09 if you think someone is earnestly telling you that they pray for your downfall, yes the fuck it is. Take that negativity elsewhere.
@MarrisaPlays I lost a friend over a quote from the office. We were at school. We were walking in the hallway, and they tripped on something. I said walk much? And they said that's so rude. Of course I walk. That's offensive to my disabled friend. I am a woke person. I have family members who have no legs. I understand it. But please explain to me how that quote is offensive. People don't know how to take a simple joke, and not over react to it
I love this guy’s advices, He’s like that’s cool uncle you reach out for advice
I'm so early Ariana still has some tears to cry.
Underrated asf
Did everybody miss how the ex asked to come over and her only response was “I have to work.” Sounds like he was comfortable coming over and had probably done it before. She cheated. 100 percent got some of that D.
The second story:
BUT YOU DIDN’T HAVE TO CUT ME OFF
The story of the sister starting a business… okay, so, if she is not willing to do the work of setting the business up herself, that business is doomed to fail. Her family is doing her a favor by keeping a business bankruptcy off of her record. She clearly does not have what it takes to run her own business.
That is just gross of the sister to just want their sibling to work for her for free.
"Explodes on me in the worst way possible" ayo nah nah
On story 1, the minute the sister interfered with work I would have been like “get out”.
The story about the op being bothered by their significant other acting “childish “…. To me it’s obvious that them doing all those things in public is THEIR WAY of keeping their anxiety at bay. And I think talking to them about it , as gently and open as possible, is the best thing to do because if it doesn’t get discussed how are you going to resolve it? If it’s bothering you this bad to send in the story, then you definitely need to discuss it with them. Otherwise you will gradually build up more and more resentment towards them. And if left unresolved that can become really insidious leaking out to every other part of your life. Communication is key! When in doubt, talk it out!
I didn’t think about that but that makes a lot of sense and I agree if it’s left unsolveed and if she’s too harsh when talking it will end in the relationship ending
I didn’t think about that but that makes a lot of sense and I agree if it’s left unsolveed and if she’s too harsh when talking it will end the relationship
3rd story is the story of my life. It's time to move forward and if she drops you it's time to move on.
for the last one "i just wanted a compliment, ive been meaning to block him a long time ago"
1. a compliment for 2 years? nah.
2. it took 2 years to block him and interestingly right after he found it she did it?
Story 1 - pretty sure the sister gonna blame OP for any slightest obstacle or problem and then of course she would want him to rectify and may even charge him a penalty fee. Which business does not have problems at all ??? I won't bother giving any help at all even if the sister offers a high pay to me. She just smells trouble.
1st story, just disown the girl. She can do her own work if she wants her own business.
I'm looking at different engineering jobs, and I would never just give up a 5:00-3:50 job hour. Let alone a job that pays 500,000$ AN YEAR.
"Called me"
The op in the future: I wasn't ready for it, he wasn't ready for it, it caught, BOTH us off guard
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story #1: sorry but stop being stupid.. save yourself from another trouble and be frank.. i know its awesome to help your single mom sister but please prioritize your self before regret comes.
story #2: option 2 and love yourself 1st.. before it totally intoxicate your mind or sanity
I would destroy the world if somebody asked me to do that
Story 3 , same thing happened to me
3 years of friendship.. 2 years bff all thrown out
For the last one I would have just gone to Cuba and request for a divorce without her knowing
Here's the thing. Offense is taken, not given. You can't control how people will react to everything you do or say. People who really know and care about you can understand your intentions, usually. A lot of people simply look to have drama in their lives to make themselves feel superior. They react in ways to put you on the defensive.
If OP tell someone they’re praying for their downfall without 100% knowing that they would understand it as a joke, that’s on them for being so moronic.
nta marry the sea
3 story I’d respond ‘’why?’’ And continue from there but the fiancés reaction is also probably the one that would come to my mind first
I'm a mom and if my child needed help starting a business that would provide financial security for their kids than I would certainly help. I'd also help my sibling however his sister is being a jacka×× with her demands towards him.
Unfortunately the first story happens a lot when you know someone either family or longtime friend people expect them to do stuff for free especially family. My mother i law is one of the worst. She would ask me to do random task but tell me and my wife how much she pays others to do the same like she got a deal
The 4th story: I feel very bad for the guy as it sounds like he has ADHD. As one with ADHD i can say from experience that these small things and movements can barely be controlled. She also mentioned he has anxiety which often is worse when you have ADHD. I get she's uncomfortable, but they need to take it calmly, because as I said it's a thing that can't ve helped
Or he could be high functioning Autism.
This does seem like a reasonable explanation
But it also seems like he was
1 wasn't taught boundaries
2 thinks it's fine because it was never mentioned before
I have ADHD and anxiety as well and I can confirm that I definitely act like that too. I've never had an interest in dating, but my best friends constantly get annoyed with it. They have to break it to me very bluntly or I'd be straight-up won't understand. It does not reach my head
If I was in the exact same position as the OP in the first story, no option would end well for me. If I was to refuse, then my parents would get mad for not helping out. In addition, they could end up costing me a lot of mental stamina as they will constantly berate me over my decision and considering the amount of patience that one must have for the job, more harm than good would be done by their constant criticism. On the other hand, if I did help, I would end up with the worst working conditions that would lead to the same situation above if I quit and if I were to protest or stay, my conditions would worsen unless my parents choose to help me by setting up a better working condition. Both are really bad anyways so I can't decide.
another option would be to tell your parents if they defend her you'll sue them for mental anguish.
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Huh?
I would say for the first story I think the op is not a jerk but neither is the sister she has 3 children which can give her major stress so this may be why she is like this
Stress is no excuse for pushing your crap onto someone else and certainly not crossing a boundary that could get them fired. It's totally a jerk move.
Yea there's no excuse for what the sister did to the OP. Having kids doesn't make anyone exempt from behaving decently and not entitled.
She chose to have 3 kids.
But she has enough time to call his boss?
I'd move way far away so I can't help
I think in the first story he SHOULD help her during the slow season for free but his help should consist of just TELLING her what she needs to get done or write up. Maybe point her in the direction of some tutorials or courses. If she’s not willing to do any work for herself when she can’t pay for help she wouldn’t make it as a business owner anyway.
After calling his boss, yea, not anymore
if she was a nice sister an knew boundaries, sure. that was lost when she blew up on him and called his boss behind his back
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The first one just infuriates me
My dad is a videographer and so many times family or close people have not paid him even tho his business is cheaper than others
He went hella long shooting videos for a jr football team to barely get paid, which caused him to have to sell some stuff back to get the money for things we need
If you want fucking labor out of someone PAY THEM and if you can't, telland set up a better budget
Like even my grandma paid me for my labor
She searched up minimum wage (because I barely did anything hard), asked me the cost of my materials, and ask me how much extra I wanted to be paid
She didn't even have to pay but she expected to pay even though I'm her grandchild just being nice and doing stuff for her
I said I don't need the money and she said "you did work so you need to get paid"
Even if she didn't have enough she'd still try and pay the minimum wage part
PAY YOUR PEOPLE
3rd story….sounds like Kay was hoping for more with the OP and thought that saying they couldn’t be friends was a cry for “pick me”
nice video as always! keep it up!
ppl no one's gonna care of ur first...does not matter
I love your videos so much
I didnt realise accountants get so much a year
DO NOT work for free! I can tell you from bitter experience that when you give free advice/help the person you are trying to help (especially if they're family) will not value that advice/help.
for the first story. tell "cheap, fact or good pick 2"
Can we all agree that the key to 90% of all these problems could be solved by just doing one thing. Communicate!
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Story 3: I think he should check with the friend that it isn't a case of the guy she's interested in saying he won't date girls who have male friends. If it is then that a red flag for her that should be pointed out. If that isn't the case then yes she a terrible friend and ties should be cut.
no she's still a terrible friend cuz why would you date someone with that type of rule in the first place if you know you have a male friend
Story 3: its a text message which could have been sent from the new guy she is dating who wants to break of between the 2 friends... the OP needs to talk to her
Pay in full for goodness sake!!!!
Bro low-key sounds like quandale dingle
3rd story: after that tell her you cared about her and say that she deserved that divorce and had it coming
Story 3. Am I the only one who thinks Kay has feelings for op? I think she’s doing this whole “I’m gonna drop you when I start to date:(“ as a way to get him to “realize” he prefers her over his fiancée and can’t lose her, turn around and scream “no don’t leave me im the one you should be with”. If she really just didn’t care about him, she wouldn’t be “warning” him in advance that she MIGHT drop him IF her and her dude hit it off. She would just kinda get bored and start ignoring him more and more. And she def wouldn’t risk losing her backup before actually hitting it off with the new guy.
Nah. My guess is she’s playing a mind game to get op to realize he loves her. She’s kinda deluded to think he’ll leave his fiancée, who he seems to have a very healthy relationship with. Kinda sad overall. Idk if she’s an asshole, she’s def immature af if that’s the case
Third story good ending: "It was just a prank bro"
I’d do it for free if she kept on saying no pay, but the thing I’d do is nothing
Story 1: I am reminded of the Phillip Banks meme.. just replace 'We?,' with 'Free?'
First story hear it on tik tok , and I still think the sister is a major pain
Story 1 don’t have kids unless you have a job simple
Ok story 4 really gets me because if he is acting childish it just meens he loves her a lot ok she should not be gettin mad
Story 2 I'm on the friends side if a joke like that gets them to get rid of you then you obviously have done something in the past to warrant it and that was just the trigger they needed
Also, who says they knew it was a joke. I literally never heard of that bullshit until this video.
@@drako8343 I’ve heard it it’s just not funny
My boyfriend and I started out friends and we swore no matter what no one would come between our friendship. If we got into relationships they would have to accept us if they couldn't they were not worth our time.
Story 3: sounds like the guy she's talking to doesn't like her having male friends. I wouldn't be too hard on her yet.
Damn that was cold
in the 1st story, it depends on my faith in the company, if I thought the company had a high chance of success I would give a discounted rate but ask for a stake in the company. If I didn't, hell no, I wouldn't give a discounted rate
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I actually downloaded the game because of you
Third story be friends with "kays" boyfriend as a joke...
No, it does not matter how a joke is received. Intention is all that matters. Offense is taken, not given.
Dude, 650 per hour is insame
If I got paid that much per hour from the time I first started working to now, I could've bought a house by now.
Expect to be paid a fare amount for the hard effort of working.
Imagine if the girl from story 3 was telling a joke like the guy from story 2. And the the guy from story 3 was just over reacting like the girl from story 2
When i first heard the clip i was thinking "you cant help your sister out in your spare time?"
Then the story continued and i was like "this bitsh is crazy calling the boss, and not accepting the time in the summer".
Me be like:not unless u pay me 700$ an hour
Not the Jerk, Divorce
Story 3: I noticed we didn't get a WHY for the change. It could be as innocent as "My boyfriend doesn't like that I'm so close to you, and to respect his wishes and boundaries I'm going to stop talking to you if it works out."
Now, this is a neutral thing. This could be the boyfriend being controlling and realizing that the guy is a good influence on her and would reject to them being together. Or it could be a legitimate concern about the nature of their relationship going forwards, if it could turn from 'just a friend' to 'both divorced and running off with each other'.
This situation is caused by a lack of communication and being too emotional. Get a cool head, talk it out, get understanding, and leave on a good note.
I really hope I don't find a partner who is like the 3rd story cause I'm a dam str8 fool
The op’s or the friends?
Story 4: The boyfriend sounds like a total manchild. Anxiety and depression does not equate to immaturity.
nice
Ok first story, op's sister i super selfish and doesn't deserve help. If i was op i would have said no and that's it, i will not allow such a selfish childish. I'm not going to spend my free time after for her with out payment, even if it summer, this is rude and im pretty sure her business will fail with this kind of behaviour
Story 1 If it was me I would have told her to f$&k off after she called my boss.
I don’t mean sister I mean the story teller.
I would ask her to pay me but if she doesn’t the I would sue her
jeez 650 dollars an hour damn
So, the entitled woman's mother AND brother both work(ed) in finances and somehow she has no idea how paying wages works?
I actually pay my sister to work for her!
35 now..... well still 35 minutes late lol
7:00 make amends then tell them to f off
I would have helped my family for free but on my terms and on my free time, otherwise they can find anyone but me for that particular job.
What kind of family are you when you won't help eachother in times of need? I can understand that OP doesen't have time that the task requiers but her own mother rejectig her. Sad.
Who need enemies when you have family like that.
LET HIM COOK
Two years and you dont know how he is? So let the guy be free, dont try to change him.
2:39, NOT could not, but WOULD NOT. trying crap that could have gotten you Fired, and not even asking you about it first!
4:36, Seriously I would have told her "No one but mom will help you after what you pulled on me. Risking My Job like that."
About the woman who was going to drop her male friend after she starts seeing a new guy… I think everybody missed the fact that OP said “I was helping her because she had no friends”. I’m sure you were helping her fix a door handle and other household “guy stuff”, (because OP’s GF was never a friend of this lady!) Who doesn’t have any friends? That’s a big giant red flag right there. Well now you know why. If she can’t use you, you’re of no use to her.
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