When u say does not get to decide...its a contradiction because u said regerdless of the level...shit is what it is...but then the betrayed doesnt get to say wtf it is???....
I was saying the betrayer doesn't get to tell the betrayed how they can or should feel. And the betrayed doesn't get to decide what the affair meant to the betrayer. What often happens is the betrayed starts telling the betrayer why they were unfaithful...ie. you must have loved them or you wanted to leave me and be with them or you did it for this reason or that reason. Only the betrayer knows what the relationship did or didn't mean so it's not helpful for the betrayed to tell the betrayer what it was to them. Unfaithfulness is unfaithfulness, period...but what meaning it had can't be assigned
Yes, it's cheating, to all of it. If you have to ask, then it's cheating and you know it. Either be in the relationship ALL the way or don't be in a relationship and just whore around like you want, anyway. You're welcome. The end.
When u say does not get to decide...its a contradiction because u said regerdless of the level...shit is what it is...but then the betrayed doesnt get to say wtf it is???....
I was saying the betrayer doesn't get to tell the betrayed how they can or should feel. And the betrayed doesn't get to decide what the affair meant to the betrayer. What often happens is the betrayed starts telling the betrayer why they were unfaithful...ie. you must have loved them or you wanted to leave me and be with them or you did it for this reason or that reason. Only the betrayer knows what the relationship did or didn't mean so it's not helpful for the betrayed to tell the betrayer what it was to them. Unfaithfulness is unfaithfulness, period...but what meaning it had can't be assigned
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Yes, it's cheating, to all of it. If you have to ask, then it's cheating and you know it. Either be in the relationship ALL the way or don't be in a relationship and just whore around like you want, anyway. You're welcome. The end.
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