Difficult Relationships - Astrology Indications with Astrolada
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- Do you go from one difficult relationship to another? Do you choose the wrong people? This video will show you if you have a karmic predisposition to such partnerships according to your birth chart and how to deal with them!
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Who wants to be young - everything gets better, especially with difficult planet positions, when you get older!
I have 2 points, but I am very picky with people, I tend to stay away from people that take my energy.
Omg same i got 2 and im damn picky
I stay away from ppl as much as possible
For everyone weeping because they have a few points, try this:
I got 11 points. Never had a relationship in my life.
There's always someone who's got it worse than you. Remember that.
omg
Brian Middleton
This is unique -
I encourage you to have a review with Lada and specifically with Lada because she has the true Vedic knowledge/understanding and will go to any extra efforts to gain a perspective of options to help one deal with this positively.
Also because she can recognize any potential aspects that cancel the changes or yoga that offset them.
You need - positive options, hope and generous good energies.
I wish you these ! ⚛
Maybe there is a reason why you are single? Astrology doesn't make things happen you know.
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oh dear...and I thought I had it bad... had many short ones ahhaha
Your Aries bravery with yourself is so beneficial to All :) blessings Lada
xo
oh thank u so much! :)
I love your videos. Please continue what you are doing. May your life be filled with joy and luck!
Thank you Lada! This provides a lot of understanding!
Thank you Lada. You are such a mentor. ! I have learnt a lot from you and have much respect for you. Thank you again .
you learn me so much. thank u ur advice at the end meant so much to me.. am ready now to leave a harmful relationship thank u and heal my self.. I will play ur video over and over and over until it deep in to my head. I will start treat myself better.. .. thank u so much..
7 freaking points. wonderful! :D
Thanks for this video, Lada. I wish you would create an e-course where you teach more of the advanced topics. I would pay to learn from you. I love these free lessons and while they are more basic I still learn a lot. This video was emotional for me and I appreciate you talking about difficult topics of vulnerability. I have learned so much from you so thank you.
Thanks a lot Lada for your very informative video (as usual, they all are) !!
Oh never mind, I had to do my chart on your sight! Now I got it! Thank you Lada!!!!
great video! I'm glad you talk about cognitive therapy: people often think that astrology and psychology are incompatible; while they are both amazing tools to understand ourselves (sorry for my bad English :)
yr English is pretty good! Yes, Carl Jung-one of the most esteemed psychologists was using astrology extensively and based a lot of his psychological theories through astrology.
3pts. You've helped me tremendously. Thanks
This was an amazing tutorial! I have learnt so much! I only have one difficulty and that is the Sun in my 12th house
Thank you so much for this.
Wow, my husband has Saturn in the 7th house, and Venus with Ketu. Through dreams and experiences (and a reading by a world famous psychic) we learned he killed me in a past life by poisoning me with hemlock. It was the idea of two women that wanted to marry him (we were native Americans), but I wouldn't allow it. In this life, those women are his mother and sister. He will stop at nothing to avoid them in this lifetime. Whenever he would visit them I always felt they were scheming to kill me again, and didn't know where that feel was coming from. He is constantly put in situations where women try to tempt him and put my welfare in jeopardy. Like he has to pass a test.
Can you give me the name of the world class psychic i would love to know why i am in my current relationship as well as my family karma .
Pauline Stapleton you can simply make past life regressions. By yourself or with coach. Its even more interesting then let someone make it
If your still alive leave.
Barouches1 wow what an amazing story! Thanks for sharing it helps me put some things into perspective
Don X thanks for sharing will do
Superb video! Very informative! cheers
my god ! lada! you look absolutely stunning ! I have said it before ,and will say it again! you are just sooooo beautiful and smart! .......amazing!
Excellent!!! I learned alot! wish I knew this when I was younger.
thank you, you work is a joy!
Hi Lada! I have to say that you are absalutly a magnetic/beautiful person! I really enjoy your videos and it helped me a lot to understand myself. You are absolutly right, we need to change our "mind patterns" that are no longer working for us and to stop being victims! We need to take responsibility for our lives and change our reality, because everything is possible and the universe is infinite. And I wish you great success/abundance/happiness in your life. :)
Im a scorpio asc, with sun in libra, ketu&sun in the 12 house..So I've been in hades..But I'm not giving up ;)
Thank you Lily! Don't worry, there many like us!
im the same only rahu not ketu in 12th ive 5 points but my moon is in the 7th house in taurus so maybe that helps balance it out
I honestly thought I was doomed in love with Venus in the 12th but I made it out of this video alive with only 3 points. I can live with that.
Jovee1982 I have venus in 12th house but it’s in pieces so I’m good.
12th house is not bad for venus
Страхотно видео Лада. Не случайно винаги се вслушвам в жените когато стане въпрос за личностни отношения. Въпреки че отдавна се занимавам с астрология следя твоя канал с интерес. Тази година Раху навлиза в моя първи дом, а През лятото Юпитер в моя десети дом. Надявам се астрологията да се окаже права, ако е така ме очаква една вълнуваща година. Благодаря ти за страхотната работа която вършиш. Препоръчам те на всички които търсят отговори;) За някои хора които искат да се научат да живеят живота си правилно и да реализират потенциала си е направо безценна!
zdravei Georgi! mnogo mi stava priatno kogato niakoi intelugenten sanarodnik mi pishe! polaskana I trognata sam! Dano jupiter I rahu ti pomognat tazi godina! :)
wow, I didn't get any points at all.
I have 7 points! Given how horrible I am with flirting/dating/relationships I am not surprised. Thanks for the advice, Lada, I definitely need it! Haha
Outstanding outstanding outstanding contribution performance maam.
I just love all of your videos!!!!!!👍👍👍💝💗💜💛💚💙
Thank you!! :)
So many points lol at least this explains a lot! Thanks Lada!
well now i know why all my relationships suck. 9 points
love you lada .....
you are gifted .... celebrate that ... thank you for sharing your insights .....
namaste 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you 😊
Hi Lada, I absolutely love your videos. They have helped me understand quite a few things in my life. So keep up the good work!
What I find interesting is that I don't have any one of those aspects, not a single one of them. However, I am on the opposite end of the spectrum, I just don't have relationships at all! I am turning 40 this year and have only had two serious relationships, one lasting 2 years and the other one, just 1 year, both with foreign men. So may be it would be interesting for you to do a video on us eternally single people!
Rahu or Ketu in 7th house by any chance? usually the 7th house lord can be involved with some planet too
Lada Duncheva
Thank you so much for replying! It's funny you should mention that. When I use the Astrotheme calculator I have Ketu in the 7th house taurus, and venus in leo in my 10th house. But on your site I end up having Ketu in the 8th house in gemini.
Danisguela Hi Danisguela, This is strange, usually the signs position of planets should not change! Ketu changes its sign position once every 1.5 years. I am not sure what is giving a sign difference! It might be some miscalculation in the software...I hope not!
Lada Duncheva
Hi Lada, I'm sorry, you are absolutely right! The sign does not change from one software to another, it is just the house. In Astrotheme, Ketu is in the 7th house in gemini and in your calculator it is in 8th house gemini. Thank you for taking the time to reply!
Thank you very much Lada for this Video I thing after a engagement ho decided to be married with his ex girl friend before 47 years , after a married with a psychopathy and at the end with a Narcissus with pathetic aggressiveness I will never have any relation and stay with my son in peace .Love from Cyprus Island in Mediterranean Sea . Have a Happy New Year 💕💕💕
Thank you, lada. :)
Very interesting.. thank you for the help! :)
if I had one criticism lada and its not because I could not criticise you lada ,but I do have trouble with the diamond shape chart thing you use ,but for you lada I will persist! yes I will try to understand! thankyou lada!
Venus and Saturn are both in Gemini (5 degree orb - not a tight conjunction,but still together) in the second house and Moon is in the 12th house (Pisces) of my birth chart. Even though its only 2 points, they seem like two big ones. I settle for soooo much less than I deserve, wait for years and years, and there is often secrecy and/or distance in my most important relationships (they seem to be more spiritual than in the tangible 3D world). I've been doing work (meditation, hypnosis, mantras, consultations with spiritual gurus, writing out my feelings) in an effort to have a more fair and FULFILLING love life. I am ready to have a love that is out of my dreams and in my car/bed/life! So, once again, thank you for the very informative video Lada.
I got six points. Many made so much sense for me... buy the second she goes, "if Venus is in Virgo" I about fell off the couch, oh gracious of course I have that, as soon as she explained it. I really am going to look into all of this more cause it has explained so much for me in my life and helped me gain so much knowledge just of myself even...
+Heather Holder but still you seem to be happy in love, if I see the picture :)
2 points: Sun- Libra, Sun & Ke
Hi Lada, Thank you for all of the wonderful videos! (I'm addicted to watching them and to learning from you!) I noticed that you use a book in this video that you've used in other videos as well. Is it a checklist type of book for astrology indicators? Could you please share the title if it is available? Thank you, Lora 😀
I only got 2 points :')
Read about astrology to know the week points in your personality or life so that you know how to overcome the obstacles that we all have to face. Please don't say "I am like this because of my chart" that is not an excuse, especially now that you know exactly what the problems are, you can approach them in a more mature manner. Astrology helped me when I was young and lost.
This is why I'm a loner and have difficult relationship with other people! 5 points!
I just scored 1 and yet things have been so hard. This is informative tho
Same for me..
Same for me too! Maybe because it’s my Vargottama Scorpio Moon ☹️
Sun with rahu
Moon with Saturn
Sun in 12th house
Moon in 8th house
Venus with Rahu
Venus in Virgo
9 Points and literally just went through this. Had a really fast, uncommunicative, klingy (me), experience, and it sucks! I broke it off because I couldn't take MYSELF anymore.
It's so informative but also so confusing.
I have got 3 points, Sun with Ketu, Moon with Rahu, Venus in Virgo. Lord of the 7th house Mars sits in 11 with sun, ketu. I used to attract abusive relationship and my partner was putting me down, criticizing and beating me, I had extremely low self confidence and self esteem. Thankfully, all nightmare is over, now I am alone. After learning my horoscope, things are getting a bit clear, I am paying my karmic debts.
I feel so great I only have 1 point OMG I can actually believe it and the funny thing is I have already overcame it because I have already re-programmed myself with cognitive therapy and I really didn't need it. I guessed less points because I showed a better understanding of relationships in my youth and I don't fall for jerks either.
Love life, life is good.
My mom is a Virgo with a Virgo Saturn and a Virgo Venus. So her Saturn is with both her Sun and Venus. Yikes. Her Sun, Saturn, and Venus are also in her 8th house. She has a Scorpio moon too.
hope she’s good
3 points. not bad.
Oh and I have 6 points... Capricorn in my 7th house with Saturn in my 8th and Aquarius in my 8th house. Mars with Venus and Rahu in my 7th house and the sun in the 8th with Saturn.
Thank You, Lada ... You're great, I only have one point ;) LOL!
Damn :'( Explains my life so far. I have a lot of those combinations in the houses you mentioned some in Birth chart and the rest in navamsa chart. Thing that broke my heart the most though was 9:13 ... Birth chart I have Scorpio SUN (with saturn) in the 8th house & Scorpio SUN in 6th house in navamsa chart... Whole life has been misfortune, complete hell, and loneliness and I'm just So ready to give up. Astrology helps a little, so thanks.
moon in 0 degree Scorpio with Venus, Uranus in 4th house.....sun sat Jupiter Pluto in 3Rd house of Libra. I guess I have 3pts. relation with siblings, groups and authority figures have been turbulent n stressful. learning to let go of my attachments to past thru forgiving/meditation.
I love your videos! You're so good.. So real! I have my Ketu in Libra along with my Venus !? 😳😔🙄😌😂 What does this mean ? Leo sun Aquarius moon. I'm now learning to look after myself. Great video! Thank you xxxxx
Sun - Saturn Combust - same degree 10th
Moon - Ketu 1st H
Moon 1st cusp 2nd - may have escaped this one - it is opposite Libra/Scorp 7/8
Pisces Asc. .5 points lol
My generation's Pluto in 6th.
My son has Venus and Mars in 8th - Venus lower degree.
Venus conjunct Saturn but in different signs/houses by a hair.
My Ke/Ra are 1 - 7 that pretty much makes a statement.
But only 3.5 points - but soother influences and aspects involve Narcissist Personality Disorder in family and others relationships.
But have figured this out and moved forward.
I am a Virgo and I have both my Su and Mo with Ve at Virgo. From what you said in the video I assume that I my relationships are my weakest point. In my life I have difficulty attracting my soulmate. However the happy thing is that the relationships I had up until now were beautiful and healthy ones. But none of them ended up the way I wanted to. None of the me in my love life felt like the soulmate I am expecting. And, at some time during the relationship, I would found out that they were unavailable or to put it in other words, they were not ready for the next step. It was like they wanted something else from what I wanted, although at the beginning they said we wanted the same things. I am puzzled... Am I doing something wrong? And if so, what is it?
Libra Sun, Scoprio Moon... Saturn in the 1st Sun with Rahu...Venus in Virgo... omg keep adding points here. This explains so much my relationships so far :D OMG! Ok now what? :D This has been so informative. Thank you so much, discovered your video yesterday and can't stop learning. Fascinating. I have nothing in the 7th house according to this chart. But what I am confused about is that houses 12, 11 are in the same triangle. Not separate and the 8th looks different on my chart, it's the triangle next to the triangle 8 showed here :) I am a bit confused.
Hi Lada.. i have been pretty impressed with your videos & knowledge on astrology .. i have a request.. why don't you make a video on Marriage & Divorces. Why do many people have 2-3 Marriages ?
hi this is a good idea! Divorce will be due to many of the same factors as in this video but multiple marriages - that is an intetesting topic! Rahu in 7th does this. Or venus in virgo, leo or cancer in d7 or d9 charts for men. or jupiter in taurus libra, virgo, gemini or capricorn in d9 or d7 for women. Also having a mutable sign on the cusp of 7th can give it. Or lord of 7th in 5th or lord of 5th in 7th (someone who falls too much in love)
Lada, I'm afraid it has to do with whether it's western or vedic, but well my 8th lord of my Aquarius house (Saturn) falls in the 10th, but Uranus also shows up in the chart I made through your website and it is in the 7th. What should I rather look for?
I also have a very contradicting aspect, Venus and Saturn in Pisces (it falls in the 10th in the same chart). Thank you so much for the great insight on relationships throught charts! :)
Why in my birth chart the numbers of houses are "moved"? I have numbers 1-6 in upper left corner and 7-12 in down right corner. It seems that only 1 and 7 are in correct places...
1stMoinx mine is too. Trying to understand all of this is difficult enuf - now I realize my chart is complete OFF ughhhh!
Great video, Lada. Just watched it again Is there significance if both my husband and I have the lord of the twelth in the eigth?
It is not so connected to relationships...
Hey Lada I am waiting for the June month's horoscope for cancer & leo. Hurry up !!
will try to do them within a week! :) Too much to do!
I think Retrograde Venus Should also be included.
Just have 1 point (Saturn in 10th house in Aquarius) from this video but still it has been tough ,probably coz of Rahu in the 7th house.
Yes my venus is in 6th.. Very true
Hi Lada! Well, lucky me...I have a lot of points here ;) Quick question...Do you only take into account the conjunctions (same square planets) or is this also applicable to aspects (in my case I have Venus Saturn, Venus Mars and Sun Moon oppositions)? Thanks for a very informative video!
Just look at the conjunctions. Saturn or Sun conjunct Venus hurt it. I think I forgot to mention Sun Venus conjunction as one of the problematic positions. But the sun agitates any planet it is with, while saturn starves any planet it conjuncts.
2 points for me
hi Lada- is this part of our relationship course? is the course made up of video teachings like this or does one have to read notes and lessons?
Venus with Ketu and sun with moon
I have a whopping 5 points!!! :O I have always suspected something like this intuitively even though I haven't even had a real relationship. Glad I found this video first, thanks Lada. Just out of curiousity Lada, how many do you have? It sounds like you have a lot! :P Is it possible to TRULY change these patterns forever?? No relationship is ever perfect (unfortunately) but it seems like you still have such difficulties despite knowing all this? Ugh, I know you said not to worry but I'm not going to lie, I feel a bit resentful about having 5 points, as if I don't have a ton of other crap to fix in my life...
hi, thank u for yr honest feedback! indeed some of us have a lot more to learn through relationships. I am also one of these people! we learn through the hard experiences in love. how.do I deal with it? I really dont have the answer. I keep making mistakes but it feels lile my inner being wants it. so instead of beating my self about it I just have decided to observe it and if I have the willpower tweak some of my behavior patterns.
Lada Duncheva That's a really good attitude to have! I'll keep that in mind and thanks to your video I will pay much more attention when these issues reveal themselves so I won't have to go through so much crap first! Best astrologer on TH-cam, seriously! :D
I only have 1 point, but my BF has 5. 😬😬😬 He is not the easiest at all to deal with. But I will say we do have many great things as well and feel the opportunity to grow as better people with each other than we have ever before.
3D relationship astrology- work on ME, they work on THEM, work on US. Both birth charts and the synastry needs to be looked at. Dont fret if you have many points, because your partner may be the illumination and transformation partner you have needed to become awakened and reborn!
wow 3 points :) Venus and Saturn in the same house :(
Venus in Taurus in the 8th house
Well I scored 2pts with trauma and I hold on to memories which wasn't a surprised. My friend who is also an Aquarius like me on the other hand has a lot of issues; he went back to his ex (painful) his possible has self-esteem issues, detached, and starved.
Zero points! However, I have Sun and Venus in the 12th house (in Taurus) opposed by Neptune in the 6th (in Scorpio), so I bet that gives me a few points :o)
I have 6 points wow
Lada, I have 9 points. 12 Oct 1977, Detroit, MI, 16:23 EDT.
+Brian M. you have my sympathies lol
Only 2 points. Sun conjunct Saturn in the 5th, Moon in the 8th.
I have saturn conjunct venus in libra in 12th house and rahu in taurus in seventh house (ketu in first house). My mahadasha of venus started in 1997 and since then i have been through lot of emotional problems especially in relationships. I suffered from social anxiety, felt unlovable and rejected in relationship. What I wil say that I learnt a lot of things from venus mahadasha after a lot of struggles. Now I will neter sun mahadasha in 2017 and its in virgo in eleventh house. I hope that hings will improve after that. My moon sign is pisces.
Thank you this was excellent. When you say Venus with Rahu, does it need to be in the same sign or the same house? My Venus is in Sag. in the 4th, and my Rahu is in Capricorn in the 4th. My Saturn's in the 10th in Placidus.
I've been in am unbalanced relationship for 12 years. I'm finally starting to wake up and realize I'm worth being respected! My Sun is in Libra in the 2nd house. I'm very attracted to older men, also. Maybe that's my Saturn ruling my 5th house.
Hi, just look at it if they are in the same sign or if they are in different signs they need to be within 6-7 degree orb from each other
Lada Duncheva
Ok, thanks.
NN. is 0 degrees and Venus is 10 degrees. I'm not much of an orb reader I guess.
Lada, would you say one might also have difficult relationships is Saturn's ruling signs (Capricorn, Aquarius) occupies one of the angular houses? Capricorn and Aquarius occupy my 7th house.
not necessarily, it just means that some maturation is needed in age before better relationships are allowed. Saturn's signs tend to delay things and make them a bit more hard work, but they do not hurt things as painfully as Saturn would
Thank you so much. I feel doomed sometimes having this in my chart. You've given me hope!
I have Saturn Virgo in my first house but close to the second cusp. Does it still count? Can that Saturn vibration still be felt by others?
i got 3 points sun saturn mars in the 7th
Wow I don’t have any of difficulties planet but my daughter have them oh wow I know it is old
Hi Lada, I can't seem to see the cusp chart on your website, the screen cuts that bit off... It may be because I'm on my iPhone...
hi, i have sun mercury in aries in 7th house, saturn venus in 8th house. my husband has sun venus rahu in 5th house in aquarius, saturn in aries in 7th house. we have been married for 17 years with lot of arguments drama and has addiction to alcohol. does it imply steadiness now or same continues.
Got 2 points 🤪😳👍
Nd im so damn picky, i dont just trust ppl easily (maybe cz saturn in 1st house energy 😂 )
what if the sun is in the moons house, an angular house.. with saturn. does it get a point for sun with being in moons house.
I got 5 points.
Oh well...
I have 2 point...but I have Pluto, Saturn, and Ketu together...they are also in the 7th house. its been quite a life.
Your my ❤️
I have got 4 points Venus in Virgo , Ketu with Venus, Sun in the same sign as a Moon, Sun is in Libra , didnt get a part Venus and Ketu? what does it mean? thank you Lada Looking great as always
How z ur love life
All my time learning astrology my saturn retrograde Conjunct jupiter and my pluto have been in the 5th house then I use whole signs and my 8th house sun and 7th house venus are now 9th house sun and 8th house venus so I investigate what that means and it resonates but I just used The Astrolada birth chart calculator and my saturn jupiter and pluto are now in sixth house?! Now time for more investigation.
I have Ketu with Venus in the 12th house
What about 7th house cusp scorpio with Pluto in the 7th + Mars in the 11th?
Pls explain dear Lada, why 23 September on your website shows virgo sun sign instead of libra?