The Dichotomy of White Women | Shannon Downey | TEDxBloomington

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  • Craftivist Shannon Downey aka Badass Cross Stitch, speaks to white women about the often under-explored complexities of living in a society as both oppressed (as women) and oppressors (as white folks). In an unexpectedly humorous talk, Shannon shares a story of a moment in a grocery store that forced her to rethink her feminism. She speaks to the history of white supremacy in the feminist movement and how she believes this new wave of feminism will succeed so long as it is intersectional. In true form, Shannon hand-stitched all of her visuals and uses them to surprise, shock, amuse, and reinforce her message.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @hershey5790
    @hershey5790 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Did she deliberately got herself a Karen haircut for this Ted talk 😂?

  • @ambergrislo1070
    @ambergrislo1070 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love your intentional pauses. You must have felt sooo vulnerable but honestly so necessary! I felt in my gut what you were feeling. I hope to be this effective one day

  • @donfischer6081
    @donfischer6081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    You👏are👏not👏oppressed

    • @thatgirl798
      @thatgirl798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Thank you ...they are so used to being the oppressers that when they are not oppressing everyone they take as if they are being oppressed.

    • @thatgirl798
      @thatgirl798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you

    • @whisper2284
      @whisper2284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      People don’t know what the word oppress means. White women can compete against anyone they choose. They can work hard to reach the top. They should accept responsibility for where they’re at today. Nobody is oppressing them.

    • @whisper2284
      @whisper2284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Martin Pospisil spoken like the oppressor!

    • @whisper2284
      @whisper2284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @queen raven beauty that’s damn right! I’m a Victor, a survivor and I keep striving to be better. No excuses necessary just the facts.

  • @rewanabbas6562
    @rewanabbas6562 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    yall dont know what a karen is... this woman rubbed me the wrong way with her cringy opening line but she's great. Awesome example of intersectionality

    • @LeethLee1
      @LeethLee1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      its called neo marxism actually. you live on mens tax money. leave us alone lol

    • @kirstenranson-pettway5208
      @kirstenranson-pettway5208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lol @LohnS, stay pressed. This is a TH-cam comments section. Chill.

    • @LeethLee1
      @LeethLee1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kirstenranson-pettway5208 One of the last places for free speech! I'm pretty chill though overall :D Bless

    • @jamesabestos2800
      @jamesabestos2800 ปีที่แล้ว

      @kirstenranson-pettway5208
      Stay op pressed, oh wait bhm
      Block Horacha Meat

  • @yelord2167
    @yelord2167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Who you gonna call? THE MANAGER

  • @retineshilares2497
    @retineshilares2497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you to share your experiences. I was looking for some advice online about an issue I faced in a situation similar to the one you've described and your testimony helped me to improve my interpretation of my situation. Let's keep our solidarity strong.

  • @jm8316
    @jm8316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    This was an okay stand-up session. Was hard to find the punchlines but it was still packed with jokes.

    • @findenton3030
      @findenton3030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂

    • @tyronharris8055
      @tyronharris8055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hilarious

    • @ElanaVital83
      @ElanaVital83 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thought it was a sermon

    • @jm8316
      @jm8316 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ElanaVital83 You mean because she was teaching people about something that isn’t real?

    • @ElanaVital83
      @ElanaVital83 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jm8316 LOL I see what you did there

  • @jonathanscoggins8899
    @jonathanscoggins8899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    What a self agrandising peace of humanity

  • @kattykit139
    @kattykit139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I wish I understood how to better see the difference intervening vs white saviorism I see men do a similar thing towards women and I worry I look like that. It’s so much easier to see from the outside

  • @ElanaVital83
    @ElanaVital83 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Whitesplaining from a white woman is too meta for me

  • @ambergrislo1070
    @ambergrislo1070 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hope this comes back around

  • @russiane.lection-hacker2057
    @russiane.lection-hacker2057 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    20 years ago grocery store cash registers didn't use product codes.

    • @thecandidcounterbalance1492
      @thecandidcounterbalance1492 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      BUSTED!!

    • @mjohnson1741
      @mjohnson1741 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesome, you just discredit her by the product code technicality!

    • @noumaan
      @noumaan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You are probably new to the planet. But the bar codes are a very old tech. There were computers too, and the internet, there were also entitled assholes who would come up with something cheeky thinking that they have embarrassed a woman who was trying to be rational, smart, and intelligent.

    • @nikkijayjay1074
      @nikkijayjay1074 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Russ Ian E. Lection-Hacker IM OPPRESSED!!!

    • @boboloko
      @boboloko 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      There were barcodes back then. There were also white women claiming oppression to distance themselves from privilege.

  • @hanzbrixx6672
    @hanzbrixx6672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    The gender wage gap. You mean the earnings gap? If I got up on that stage and demonstrate mathematically how manager Karen in HR, with the higher hourly wage can make less money at the end of the year than Bob, on the loading dock because Bob works OT, how many brains would implode?

  • @ambergrislo1070
    @ambergrislo1070 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is SO Relevant today!

  • @eg7028
    @eg7028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So do y'all think she's the pot or the kettle???

    • @SkarrKingg
      @SkarrKingg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She's the pottle lol

    • @ElanaVital83
      @ElanaVital83 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Hispanic Warrior LOL you everywhere with your BS

    • @yanrokbowl28
      @yanrokbowl28 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SkarrKingg More like the ket

  • @drewphus4524
    @drewphus4524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I thought maybe just maybe when she brought up the "wage gap", that she was going to tell the whole truth about it, like the fact that the wage gap exists not because women are being paid less, but because the statistics its coming from dont include job worked, hours worked or experience that net you a higher salary. All they did was take this age range of women and their average salary and this age range of men and their average salary and compare the two. And those numbers are gathered from men and women that work all different types of jobs. They intentionally left out the fact that the reason why the mens pay range was higher is because of the job they hold, and the hours they work. The statistics ARE NOT comparing a man and a woman with the exact same job and experience working the same number of hours. If they were and the man was paid more then there would be a wage gap. But they aren't. They are leaving out facts to make an argument about something that doesn't exist.

  • @SteveLouzon
    @SteveLouzon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    It's nice to see the left has moved on from vilifying just white men and moved on to white women as well.
    I'm sure videos like this will keep Trump out of the White House in 2020.

    • @manniefresh3425
      @manniefresh3425 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      If you noticed, they first tossed out minority men too, now the tossing out the white women

    • @russiane.lection-hacker2057
      @russiane.lection-hacker2057 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@manniefresh3425 Yup. And all Asians as well. Can't have a Huweit Priflitch narrative when Asians out-earn everyone, so let's just pretend they don't exist.

  • @ILikeTallMen
    @ILikeTallMen ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I lost brain cells.

    • @user-cd5ki1ip3i
      @user-cd5ki1ip3i 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You didn't have that many to begin with apparently.

  • @SweetTea742
    @SweetTea742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can anyone from the US list examples of how white women are oppressed? Is it just the "gender" (I assume earnings) gap as referenced by the speaker? 🤔Thank You.

    • @mstone-wd7kc
      @mstone-wd7kc ปีที่แล้ว

      Wage gap is a myth, too, but I’m sure some delusional young gender-free individual will set me straight…

    • @user-cd5ki1ip3i
      @user-cd5ki1ip3i 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not really...because they aren't "oppressed".

  • @imterrence1500
    @imterrence1500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Dude I’m so happy I outsourced for a Asian wife!!!!

  • @thetru-drushow8412
    @thetru-drushow8412 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Funny you didn't mention how Asian Women makes the closest to the White Men Salary despite not making as much either.

    • @amtl3885
      @amtl3885 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And white women to balck man 😁

    • @thetru-drushow8412
      @thetru-drushow8412 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@amtl3885 I'll pass on them super easy Women, no thanks!

  • @wealldieanyway5374
    @wealldieanyway5374 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Sleep well, Saint Shannon is gonna make the world a fair place... she knows what's best for us.

  • @RONRIFFLE
    @RONRIFFLE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Is this a joke?

  • @yelord2167
    @yelord2167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Karen LOL

  • @queen_of_domination
    @queen_of_domination 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There shouldn’t be ANY privilege.

  • @michelleriley7983
    @michelleriley7983 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ALL WOMEN should be one another's allies.❤️

    • @distortion7465
      @distortion7465 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would love to talk to you more

    • @wiardikijne5158
      @wiardikijne5158 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @•I N K Y• You're already proving that you are a good person! Don't let people lie to you. Walk away from the haters🚶‍♀️

    • @alexkoelle9513
      @alexkoelle9513 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Why, not all women are good, I’m a dude and I don’t want to be “allies” with every single man

    • @FXT130
      @FXT130 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bogus fantasy

  • @walkerfps6874
    @walkerfps6874 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    She didn't look at you as an ally, she looked at you as a person who also was being held up in a grocery store by an uninformed employee. Just because you care about race doesn't mean that everyone else does.

    • @russiane.lection-hacker2057
      @russiane.lection-hacker2057 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Worse, the remark of the woman checking out was probably intended as an apology, because she felt like she was holding up the line for the people behind her. Which again goes to show: never apologize to an SJW.

    • @user-cd5ki1ip3i
      @user-cd5ki1ip3i 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tell us more liar, how you "don't see race".

    • @walkerfps6874
      @walkerfps6874 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-cd5ki1ip3i this comment is 5 years old, I was 12, forgive the lack of nuance 😭Get a life

  • @DecaturDude46
    @DecaturDude46 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oppressed? 🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @ambergrislo1070
    @ambergrislo1070 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How did this get lost

  • @Payne_Inc.
    @Payne_Inc. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    No lies detected ⚘

  • @Mimi-le7ow
    @Mimi-le7ow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This talk is so true👍💯

    • @hanzbrixx6672
      @hanzbrixx6672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Unless you think about it. Then it's something on the sidewalk that you don't want to step in.

    • @ItsmeeeeeeXD
      @ItsmeeeeeeXD 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@hanzbrixx6672 it's true though, a lot of white people and women don't want to think that they're being aggressive towards minorities or don't want to think that their actions towards others are influenced by race

    • @alexkoelle9513
      @alexkoelle9513 ปีที่แล้ว

      No it ain’t

  • @haramimota8028
    @haramimota8028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yup ruff start Karen

  • @NumberOneChina
    @NumberOneChina ปีที่แล้ว

    Very original haircut

  • @kevincai5491
    @kevincai5491 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m glad there’re more 👎s than 👍s. The world is good again.

  • @pheabe
    @pheabe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    She lost me at “so... I’m white” 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @SavageInstitute
    @SavageInstitute 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Your latent neurosis seeks out race and gender, oppression and oppressor in the simplest of situations like people being impatient in lines at stores. That is pretty sick.

  • @Sycova
    @Sycova 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ladies when you take feminism with you out into your normal day you leave your Magic behind, you see there is a time and a place and you feministic girls just are not getting it. You are born with the gift of understanding, most of you anyway and men are only to happy to bow before you when you know how to use it. Yes this is your magic and you can make kings of men in the moment any time you choose and when you do this they will gladly bow to you in what ever form you choose..But you can not be ever less than a woman and preferably a Lady. Grace Patience and understanding because you see women are the teachers of the world and they teach understanding and understanding is not a lesson void of these qualities. If on the rare occasion there is a time for the extreme things must return back to balanced understanding quickly or the momentum gained by extreme will be quickly lost. To believe you have less power is illusion as you actually contain more but you must always remember a men can forge forward with failure and success and arrive still clean where as a woman can not, this is a fact of nature for if she should miss her bit she would break her jaw. I am one one of those few white men that actually has understanding and i can tell you the women that are getting it right are moving by their hearts and know when to fight stand kneel and rule and if you don't accept this your own Magic is a mystery to you because the truth is men don't really see you as competition they just want your affection and you actually have the upper hand. Just don't make the common mistake of challenging them on their own ground, they don't really have anything to personally loose, you do.

  • @vincepeople
    @vincepeople 2 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @yvette3831
    @yvette3831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Funny I defend white women and people all the time and have no “problematic” thinking obstacles as though suddenly I don’t know what to do.? Right is Right/speak up?

  • @PooEnt
    @PooEnt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    24.7m subscribers, less than 4000 views 🤣🤣🤣

    • @kwikky22
      @kwikky22 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Okay Omar Said. You don't even see the irony.

  • @mikedobby-jooga5547
    @mikedobby-jooga5547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    As soon as she finished her first sentence, I knew I didn't want to hear the rest.

  • @quentindowney9897
    @quentindowney9897 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why do they all have the same haircuts 😂😂😂

  • @abegriggs17
    @abegriggs17 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good video

  • @dyahns
    @dyahns 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This comment section gives me hope.

    • @russiane.lection-hacker2057
      @russiane.lection-hacker2057 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The view count gives me hope. No one watches TEDx videos anymore, unless someone makes a commentary video on them.

    • @thecandidcounterbalance1492
      @thecandidcounterbalance1492 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@russiane.lection-hacker2057
      Or unless a professor gives you extra credit for watching it

    • @russiane.lection-hacker2057
      @russiane.lection-hacker2057 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thecandidcounterbalance1492
      a "professor"

  • @hanzbrixx6672
    @hanzbrixx6672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh thank God! A karen to show us the light. People, if you feel called to enlighten everyone around you, you are most likely wrong, and not as special as your parents said you were. Just stick your head in something.

  • @yelord2167
    @yelord2167 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aaaachoooo choooo gagagagagagagagaga

  • @tiffmonique7154
    @tiffmonique7154 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙄😒

  • @adriannatalaga8099
    @adriannatalaga8099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE AT THE BACK!

  • @unofficialpolitics9553
    @unofficialpolitics9553 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    There are meds for her condition. I used to do therapeutic drug monitoring for people like this in the lab, to make sure they were taking their lithium.

  • @evanmcarthur478
    @evanmcarthur478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    She lost me at the Hillary Clinton part...Qualified woman??

  • @freefall9832
    @freefall9832 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Privileged? You mean you have equal rights civil rights and human rights like everyone should have? Great thing let's make sure everyone is as "privileged" as you

    • @Ninny222
      @Ninny222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She means privileged as in if a police officer pulls her over she can leave without any problems some people let her get away with more because shes white shes not referring to her rights

  • @postskeetclarity
    @postskeetclarity 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    so brave lol

  • @thestinkycheeseman584
    @thestinkycheeseman584 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Looks like Karen called the manager.

  • @mickytc
    @mickytc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "So, I'm white". Ah Jaysus.

  • @winkie1234
    @winkie1234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Blah blah blah

  • @philliptompkins4064
    @philliptompkins4064 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤣

  • @scarmsaniigrey3227
    @scarmsaniigrey3227 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What if some of the oppressors identify as the oppressed even when they inherit material and ideological colonial privileges. Is this a possibility maybe?

  • @creamrising
    @creamrising 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Shannon Downey? More like Shannon Downer.

  • @memorosalez6251
    @memorosalez6251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    White women be the best in the world

  • @burhanuddinsakarwala5033
    @burhanuddinsakarwala5033 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Karen

  • @kristintheartist
    @kristintheartist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I didn’t even notice skin colors until America started obsessing over it. I’m surrounded by psychos.

    • @VMohdude-
      @VMohdude- 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Nice joke

  • @douggardner8229
    @douggardner8229 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ted Talks has gone off the rails. This is insanity.

    • @vivianraw
      @vivianraw 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is Tedx, which is different from Ted Talks. Different vetting system.

  • @Zedeckfeareducatedhamite
    @Zedeckfeareducatedhamite 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not insightful at all....

  • @Foche_T._Schitt
    @Foche_T._Schitt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The 16th century called. They want their puritan back.

  • @1StepForwardToday
    @1StepForwardToday 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why does she assume that race had anything to do with the woman complaining in line?
    Also, I wonder if she's aware of the plethora of "privileges" that are exclusive to women

  • @alistairharris1604
    @alistairharris1604 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    She is delusional.

  • @marilynwillett804
    @marilynwillett804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is such bull

  • @yelord2167
    @yelord2167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ahahahahaah karen

  • @nathanraymond7525
    @nathanraymond7525 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    This woman is insane and suffering from delusions of oppressors, oppressed perceptions. We love Trump!!!!

    • @thecandidcounterbalance1492
      @thecandidcounterbalance1492 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She thinks she's privileged because she's white. She doesn't realize it's because she's a woman.

    • @opheliaaf2457
      @opheliaaf2457 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nathan Redmond, Yay, you!! Woot! Woot!

    • @opheliaaf2457
      @opheliaaf2457 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Candid: Yes! You know her so much better than she knows herself. Damn good thing she posted and you set her straight. Who knows the decades of delusion and failure you have saved her from, and us all reading this. You. Are a godsend. I feel safer already.

    • @stefonpalinic5559
      @stefonpalinic5559 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@opheliaaf2457 being a woman in USA u are privileged

  • @rodrozil6544
    @rodrozil6544 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I prefer white women. They are eternal beauty

    • @jeraldmcclainofficial6005
      @jeraldmcclainofficial6005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      After a while, the white girls get pretty boring. Give me "Keisha," "Chun Li," "Ayako," "Souheila" and "Gabriela."

    • @rodrozil6544
      @rodrozil6544 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Sanguis en Draconis no I am not joking. All race of women can be beautiful but I find caucasian women to be most beautiful. I just love the physical features of caucasian women. The eyes, the facial structure, from hair to toe.

    • @jeraldmcclainofficial6005
      @jeraldmcclainofficial6005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@rodrozil6544 I disagree because I've dated enough white women to know that they can be the most arrogant because society puts them on a pedestal. Like you just did. I'll take a non-Caucasian woman who's a "7" over a girl who's a "49er" (a "4" who thinks she's a "9" just because she's white).

    • @rodrozil6544
      @rodrozil6544 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jeraldmcclainofficial6005 u r free 2 follow urself

    • @indicprince
      @indicprince ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aye. Eternal. Eternally demented.

  • @hanzbrixx6672
    @hanzbrixx6672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Less bee chen...more ki chen. There you go. Run along. Yeah. It's the room with a sink and stove.🤫 No need to thank me.

  • @billirvine9178
    @billirvine9178 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    that's what she thought in her head, what she actually said was BANANAS

  • @FXT130
    @FXT130 ปีที่แล้ว

    Liar, only spitting venom

  • @hatespeechisntreal
    @hatespeechisntreal ปีที่แล้ว

    Women are the ones dyn onbthr battlefield, working in rain, sleet, temp tht cars melt, o no wait that men. If men get tired of and I hope they don't women just remember to step up. Cuz u have phones and that we'll roof ur house ect ect ect ect ect ect lol can't wait to see it I'll be eating popcorn

  • @KingKoopa1
    @KingKoopa1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    She is proving that she has too much privilege just by doing this ridiculous talk.

  • @omowhanre
    @omowhanre 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So many keyboard warriors in the comment section, 🤭. If it wasn't so sad, it would be hilarious. The funniest part is the inability to challenge her actual ideas. It's a lot of name-calling and internet high-fiving...what losers. BUT US educational system has been fledgling for years so it's not as if we should be surprised 🤷‍♂️

  • @RickyWatter32
    @RickyWatter32 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wah wah wah I’m a victim