Women choosing the wealthy person with a past are good people too. Men who have been in intimate relationships in the past can move on and make a good life for themselves. Also, the wealthy one is able to provide for the women, while the broke one won’t be able to
@@abidhussain6757 wow so astonishing what you said. How do you know for sure the broke one might not find better job after and than provide for his wife because remember rizq (wealth) is in hands of Allah and Allah can give wealth to and take wealth from whomever he wills and whenever. Those girls were saying for money and they are the Andrew Tate hate type of girls who say we want to work why should a man provide for us this that but at same time want a rich man for his money.
@@happyguy201 I think you are getting side-tracked. Ali’s option that he gave was a broke guy who will be broke forever. Why on earth would a woman choose a virgin who doesn’t have the money to provide for her and a family of kids? Yes, Allah provides but we as men need to make sure that we are doing our bit to prepare for marriage.
The pure men are for pure women. And the impure men are for the impure women. The Quran is our guide. We don't even have to ask random people about their opinion. The impure woman will choose the impure man, and the pure woman will choose the pure man.
@Dhi Mancini What are you saying bro Marriage is a halal constitution It doesnt ruin his purity if he had marriages But if he fucked around thats impure activity with no responsibility and no fear of Allah bro
I feel like a more balanced question would be two hardworking men, one is a broke virgin, the other is a rich millionaire with 20 bodies. The way you insisted the broke guy was a bum kind of made it seem like you were wanting the girls to answer a certain way.
the question was perfectly fine because essentially he's comparing a man with no future but is pure vs. a man with a future but has a past which is the whole point of the discussion. Saying that the broke boy is hard-working implies that he has a future and thus wouldn't make this a fair question.
@@maxedout3402 I understand but it does seem like an unfair comparison. If you ask Muslim women if they had the choice between a hardworking virgin broke guy and a rich guy with 20 bodies, the Muslim women would choose the virgin guy, because as Muslims we value purity. So saying women care more about the future is a bit unfair. Allah knows best
the point of the video is future or past if he say the the broke guy have agood past and good future, and the rich guy have bad past and good future that will be not fair, the question is fair the virgin guy have a good past but bad future, And the rich guy have have a good future but bad past
I agree in some sense. However I think the emphasis was more on about how women would think about the future. As a guy, I would marry a virgin who’s a bum for the rest of her life over a woman with 20 bodies. It’s as simple as that. But for women they don’t see it like that.
My Opinion as a Muslim girl I care about a person's past because it indicates his morals a man with a clean past means his present is good and his future will be good, I don't care about his money because it does not last .
@@mohammedshoaib2814 yea it actually is! The way he focuses on the broke guy being a bum kills the trustworthiness of this experience. This also makes the results to devoid of wisdom to reflect upon. Except if there is a person who matches the description of the broke guy- a broke bum who won't strive to provide for you, has no ambitions and won't ever grow financially- that might realise that he needs change -which is obvious- this video won't benefit most viewers whether female or male.
@@mohammedshoaib2814 I agree with you 💯 that was just paradox it's not realistic to be honest Ali should have said 1.Virgin man who provides but it's not enough provision 2. Has a past but he is millionaire and give you abundance. So that analogy will be much more choose and pick 🤷♀️
Please ask more muslim women. Unless you only mean non-muslims, in that case you should change your title to "non-muslim women" because again, as a muslim woman I could not marry a man who has committed zina (20 times at that) instead of someone who stayed chaste for the sake of Allah just because he has money. Money is nice, I am indeed looking for someone who can provide but to think I will sweep zina under the carpet for money is unbelievable. You're broke and you have good character, good deen? Then sure let's be broke, so be it. What's money anyways? We all end up alone in a grave. I'm really not saying it's ideal, I'm just saying because I am practicing and chaste I always prefer someone who is as religious as me, that prays, fasts, stays halal over someone that isn't. I could never put money over Islam.
He doesnt mean broke in a sense of welfare he means broke as a blue collar worker. The bus driver, the plumber, warehouse worker etcetera. They are not broke. The money is a bit stretched at times but its far from broke
I disagree, as a Muslim female I care about a man's past just as much as a man cares about a woman's past. For people who say they ONLY care about their man's future are forgetting a man's past affects his present and future; who he was before will shape who he is today and tomorrow. Even if someone's changed and has left their past behind, it is possible that old traits and patterns may come back up in the future, he may struggle to lower his gaze more than an average man as it was normal for him to check out woman, he may be dealing with unhealthy addictions such as watching porn which could have influenced him to sleep around a lot, he may not respect woman as he objectified woman a lot in the past, he might easily get bored of only being intimate with his wife as he misses the fun of being with lots of different woman, he might be comparing woman from his past to his wife, high body count could also mean he committed more filthy acts as he advanced sexually such as having threesomes etc, he may have developed weird fetishes in the past which affects his marriage, he may have less haya/shame and not care as much about his wife's modesty, he might be easily tempted by other woman as sex was/is not a big deal to him. I believe the honourable men who value intimacy/sex are the ones with a low or no body count. I also believe a man's past tells a LOT about his character and a man who has carelessly slept with so many woman in the past is more likely to struggle with his weaknesses and cheat on his wife in the future. I want to add that a man who has truly repented, put in the work to heal from his past, and is trying his best to be a better Muslim and husband is also an honourable man.
Hebr 1,2 Hath in these last days spoken unto us by his Son, whom he hath appointed heir of all things, *by whom also he made the worlds;* as everyone can see the term Son of God refers to the Word of God = god himself! For through that God created the worlds! *what a mistake in the Qur'an!*
@@V12509 What are you talking about? How could you know his intend? and even if you knew, what does it matter, his/her comment helped me remember the Hadith with Raditou Billahi Raban Wa Bil Islami Dinan Wa Bi Mohamedin Nabiyan and I thank people who make comment like this one for helping the ummat!
I would still choose the virgin over the promiscuous guy, because he could cheat on you in the future and risk your relationship altogether. Also the Quran says: "Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men, for corrupt women - just as good women are for good men, and good men, for good women." (24:6).
If you add that the virgin guy will “forever” be broke and is a “bum” then you should give the rich guy a disadvantage by saying e.g. that he could possibly lose his money in the future. By saying that the first guy will forever be broke, you’re giving him a third characteristic; being lazy. This makes the question unfair as you are giving one guy another disadvantage while neglecting the second guy’s behavior in the same matter.
This is exactly what I was thinking good experiment but ali ruined it with the 3rd characteristic it's like saying women whose a virgin but she will never cook for you opposing to the one where she had 5 sexual partners but she will feed you best tasting food u could ask for 3 x a day
@@tdackjordan5873 I’m willing to marry a guy that is virgin and broke if he’s willing to put in the effort to find a job, meaning that he’s isn’t broke by choice. Given that he is a practicing Muslim and has the same moral framework as I.
That's the point of the video the virgin guy have no future and the rich guys have no past So women choice the future If he says both have futures that will make no sense The question is past or future
@@mihaz442 Not really. First of all, who says that that the rich guy has no past? It could be generational wealth. The main idea is the importance of virginity in a partner for men compared to women. Would a women ignore the lack of chastity if the guy has other advantages such as wealth? Women always look for financial stability in a man, unlike men, but will being rich override the morals women look for in men? So, being saying that one guy is 1) virgin (good) 2) poor (bad) 3) lazy (bad) and another guy has 1) slept with multiple women (bad) 2) rich (good) you’re creating a faulty argument by saying that the virgin guy is also incompetent above being poor. MAJORITY of Muslim women would rather marry a virgin broke guy over a non virgin rich guy if we were questioned, but we do not accept someone who is purposefully not willing to work on himself. In this case, neither options are accepted.
A better way to put it: Would you rather MARRY a) a man that is a virgin and broke, but could become rich or stay the same in the future OR b) a man that has been with 20 women and is rich, but could become poor or stay the same in the future That way you could ensure that the interviewees are thinking long term about a committed relationship rather than using the guy for money then dipping AND that chastity is the main concern as wealth is fluctuating.
That's isn't the point of the video the point of the video is past or future the the broke guy have agood past but not a good future, and the rich guy have a good future but bad past, that's the point of the video If you say the rich guy have abad past (he isn't a virgin) and a bad future ( he will become broke) and the broke guy have a good past ( he is a virgin ) And a good future ( he will become rich ) That will be unfair and doesn't make sense
That doesn't make sense you are saying 1: the the virgin guy will become rich (good future) and have good past ( being virgin ) 2: And the rich guy will become brooke ( bad future) and have bad past before (not a virgin before)
@@mihaz442 My question makes the future of both men unknown. The rich guy won’t become poor nor will the poor guy become rich. That’s not what I’m saying. First of all, being rich an poor isn’t bad or good future, it is only the present. When Ali said the the poor guy will forever be poor, he’s adding the future element while not mentioning what will happen to the rich guy, and obviously no women will accept a bum making the interviewees sway to a predetermined answer. It should simply be poor virgin or rich 20 bodies non-virgin. That’s it.
For me the question will be more better if: A) broke, virgin and never cheat on someone B) wealthy, 20 bodies and still cheats on behind your back. Girls will fall in the trap eventually
@@iamnot664 London has a lot of ethnic girls. A lot of these ethnic girls are very money hungry. Regardless the question is stupid, its providing extremes like hes broke and will always be broke...
@@idreeskhan8885 it has to be in the both end extremes bec it won't be explained if in the middle like the point of the questioned is finding what trait is more imp in eyes of women other than being a good man ofcource
The prophet Muhammad alajhie afdalou assalaat wa assalaam was poor. Ali Dawah is causing fitna by telling woman to marry a cheater (which get stoned to death in Islam) I mean if Ali Dawah was speaking from an islamic vieuw he couldnt dair to ask that question or he doesnt believe in the islamic laws (Sharia) so what is Ali Da3aras agenda
You shouldn’t say the broke guy will stay broke forever just as you shouldn’t say the rich guy will stay rich forever. Lots of people get rich and then turn into broke losers who also aren’t a virgin 😂
Because that's the point of the video if he says the broke guy have a good future and a good past, and the rich guy have agood future and bad past that will be unfair the question is fair the broke guy have a good past but bad future, and the rich guy have a good future bad past that's fair
Agreed. If you say they will be broke forever then that's a REALLY easy choice for women. Obviously they will go for the rich man. However, I also feel like Ali should have included a religious aspect to this. He could have also included that the virgin broke guy is Muslim/believes in God who is a very nice person but the rich guy is an atheist jerk. I think that would have been even MORE interesting.
This was an unfair experiment. Needs to be done again. You literally force their answers. You can't say the guy will "Stay broke" because it becomes a pretty biased experiment.
It is very easy to refute Islam! Because the God of Islam does not know that according to Christianity God incarnated True love = the love of God! *God himself went to the cross for you out of love for you as a human being* Philippians 2:5-8
How is this a foolproof study on whether women care about a man’s sexual past or not? The rich man will be more appealing because women just care about security. Perhaps if both men were rich but one was a virgin and the other wasn’t, it would be a better study.
Most women I've met prefer experienced men, a lot of them will lie on camera say that they prefer virgins to look like ''pure angels'' on camera. Then the day after when the camera is off they block the inexperienced and chase after the experienced. You can't interview women to find out the truth on such topics, for example, bad boy vs nice guy or virgin vs experienced. There will be too many lies involved.
It is very easy to refute Islam! Because the God of Islam does not know that according to Christianity God incarnated True love = the love of God! *God himself went to the cross for you out of love for you as a human being* Philippians 2:5-8
The thing is when you said he'll stay broke forever it gives an impression that he's a lazy guy with no determinations and women don't want to choose someone who don't really care about providing his family and if he do care he's not going to stay broke forever maybe not rich but he'll be able to provide a decent amount. So basically Money is not what attracts woman it's *Responsibility and Care*
This might encourage zina. FYI, men with experience don't always prefer women with no experience. In the UK, and other western countries, the parents will arrange a marriage for their son with a virgin who he agrees to marry, but he will still go to his gf and ignore the virgin. Fornicators for fornicators, good women for good men.
Virginity dosent makes u good.bcz by mind and heart we can consider if u are good not by ur vagina or ur penis bcz sexual life is desire she isn't related by good or bad.only cheating is a special case
Brother you should said " millionaire comes with adultery and cheating her out of her share of his wealth" VS " Poor, honourable, and treat her like queen".
I would have rephrased the question to: A virgin who's currently broke but has potential. That is more realistic. As a man, I don't think there are lots of men who've got nothing and want nothing going on for them and the ones that don't atleast try. So the question kinda pushes women to choose the wealthy guy who's been screwing around alot and may continue to do so..
you got it wrong , you should see the video when he asks men the same question , he want to see if body counts will affect or not men don't like women if she had body counts even if she had money , and when he asks women the prefer money even if he have a lot of body counts it's not about if he is working hard on him self but it's about will body count will affect the decision or not
@@abcavani4640bother if this is a Muslim woman in a muslims country you already know the woman will say I want the virgin man because there’s no difference to this midset for men and woman
@@hijabmary4814 well i am a student and i am in a muslim countery , and the creteria for choosing a husband is his money ,and if you don't have money you would die virgin, most girls in my collage don't like the man with no past and they are seeing him as if he can't handle dealing with women. i am from egypt btw
@@helladepp7082 I wish what you have just said was true but in reality it is not... Just sayin ,Every muslim girl definition of "every" is all possible; the greatest possible degree of...
I think the question being asked from women are a bit unfair in the sense that they have to stick to a guy who, except for medical conditions, chose to remain stubbornly broke, while in reality, morally speaking, men do have to care of their better haves. It would be fair if he was broke but still did his best to take good care for his family by doing two jobs.
This seems a bit unfair. You literally MADE some of these girls pick the wealthy but sleazy guy by insisting that the broke virgin guy was a bum and would stay broke forever. You should have at least gave the wealthy guy a disadvantage or say that he had a habit of cheating in the past or something like that.
This is right. But only few girls like you realize this. That the rich guy who have 20 females alongside them might even cheat you. The Virgin guy will atleast stay loyal. But other girls will obviously go for the Millionaire guy even he is the most evil person born on the planet.
none wants a broke bum, but a woman of faith also doesn't want a man that slept with all these women, which means he isn't a man of faith either. The kufr's and the people that haven't heard the message of Allah (SWT) those have integrated the subjective morality of society. This is why it's important for Muslims to follow the guidance of Allah (SWT), it will give you peace and happiness.
@Hassy Kay that’s a stupid question cuz why would I go looking for a man on the streets. I want a virgin man that fulfils his duties as a husband. Simple.
i feel like adding his wealth statuse will drastically affect the experiment. cause its not about preferring a virgin over a non-virgin anymore, it would include money.
@@predictezz1047 no Muslim sister is picking the guy with a sexual past tho. Kafir women do that when they’re in that “I’m having fun stage” Muslim women are thinking who will make good husband and father to my kids, it’s not the guy who showcased little sexual discipline and taqwa I hope Muslim men don’t get comfortable with these types of data. Allah said that chaste men and for chaste women. Vice versa is true.
@@tjc4085 may Allah bless u brother I actually was a little frustrated by these two videos especially some comments who approved the results like this is not even for us Muslims !
Of course lmao, that difference is the point of the video and the whole "men cares about a womens past, woman cares about the mans future" Theres a reason why women dont have fetishs for virgins.
These videos benefit Muslims in no way they only create fitnah. We take our guidance from Allah alone: pure men are for pure women, and impure men are for impure women. Who cares what men or women want to say after that. May Allah guide you the Muslim ummah doesn't need more inf!ghting enough already.
That's fair question the point of the video is past or future the the broke guy have agood past but not a good future, and the rich guy have a good future but bad past, that's fair
I personally do not agree with this “experiment” and I find it unfair. First of all, there are many “broke” men that are hard working and there can be “rich” men, via inheritance, who are lazy bums. As a Muslim, you shouldn’t be encouraging this. Men and women must be virgins before marriage no matter how rich they are. Also, by the example you are providing you are practically saying that the “broke” prophets (race be upon them) are not valued as highly as the rich men.
I think that question was unfair. It's like going around and asking men, would you go for a woman who is a virgin but is very ugly or a woman who has a body count but is an absolute stunner. I bet no one would go with the virgin! Thank you very much for all your content, brother. I love watching it.
Your comment has nothing to do with his question. He didn't mention the beauty of men. And you go straight to the point of ugliness. Even the girls he asked didn't ask if he was ugly or not. This proves that they will go after richness in most cases. I have seen nineteen year old beautiful girls who sleep and live with 60 year old rich old men. And yes, in your case I might not have picked anyone because I would never even touch a rich hottie who was used like toilet paper 🤣
Why are you asking women this? Do you honestly think this is beneficial for the deen? Like seriously, you asking another woman that in general is not appropriate at all. Now imagine a woman asked this question to a man, would it still be ok to you? Ridiculous that you think this is ok or helpful to the religion at all.
Realistically the question should be “would you rather be with a guy who earns just within his means and he’s virgin or a man who’s rich and has been with 20 women”. Many girls answered broke first which entails that women do care about a mans past too. Women don’t like it either that men commit these acts etc. and honest women especially don’t care if the man is making big bucks or just enough to hold a roof over their heads, all they need to know is that he’s an honest worker and puts Allah above everything in this world (for the muslimahs)
the point of the video is future or past if he say the the broke guy have agood past and good future, and the rich guy have bad past and good future that will be not fair, the question is fair the virgin guy have a good past but bad future, And the rich guy have have a good future but bad past so that tells us women care more about future
@@mihaz442 We're Muslims and Allah is our guidance not some QnA in the streets. We know pure women are for pure men as Muslims. We know that just because some women will put up with a man who has been with 20 women for their worldly benefits doesn't count as a free pass for men to do zina Infront of Allah. What did this whole video accomplish for the Muslim community. How many good deeds does this grant Ali? The only things It grants are views likes and fitnah Authubillah.
@Gabbo you are not obliged to watch every video this guy posts, on contrary, humans share the (more or less) common psychological similarities, and it is good (imo) to understand some things whether you are religious or not.
@@RealistJ I never said that, I deeply believe that men and women are similar but have differences that make that they complete one another. Both have their important roles and responsibilities to respect in order to have balance instead of chaos. But this video isn't about that brother. This video has no islamic value, it just states that non-muslim women prefer money over deen. Recently I see more of this red pill content and I simply don’t understand why some muslim men think I’d rather go for money instead of the many other things I look for in a man, I can’t marry someone that has wealth but lacks in everything else especially a man that has committed zina 20 times a'udhubillah. I don’t like this « we have it worse » brainwashing narrative that men and women are pushing lately, both have hardships and advantages so just respect the opposite gender, say alhamdullilah and go about your life. Islam teaches us to respect and honor both men and women, each have their respective rights and obligations to fulfill.
@@susanna9831 Yes, but men have more weight on these 2 aspects. Men must be able to fight and be physically strong and they have to handle the stress of running a business or making money even in a stressful way, women should not focus on their careers generally. Women should raise children, take care of the home and be supportive and loyal towards their Men. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this, we have different roles because we have different characteristics and we view the word in a different way
I don’t see the point of this video. Both options are failures. I’m a man, and I don’t see why ANY woman would go with someone who’ll stay broke forever… Edit: Astaghfirullah, the rich guy if he repented he’s no longer a failure actually, I should write that about him.
Then what about the women who did care? Are you just gonna ignore them? Are you saying Muslim women don’t care about men that constantly disobey Allah?? Disgusting!
There is a religious and cultural element that affect these answers. You are aiming non- muslim women in the UK. What about muslim women? Or South Asian women? You will get different answers
This comparison was too one sided. You gave the 2nd option an extra advantage of being Rich and a Hard Worker. Majority of men do somewhat try. You had to give the broke guy a bad character of being incompetent. Also I strongly doubt the Rich Guy will only just have 20 BC 😅
Yeah but it's not one sided if you make the exact same scenario for the woman. The experiment was to see which esch gender would choose and for men, without watching the whole video yet they would choose the broke v girl.
@@tdackjordan5873 Because she's not obligated to pay our bills. Whether she's broke or not we still pay her bills. Her money is hers and our money is ours. That's what we accept because that's what Allah commanded. A good Muslim woman would not pass on a good Muslim man just because he slept with 20 women in his jahiliyyah. A lazy bum Muslim man who is a virgin isn't a good Muslim man. He's more than likely just a virgin by accident because no one wanted to sleep with him. Not because he's pious. If you count the number of porn stars he's fapped to his body count is likely greater than the rich guy. I would take a woman who will cook, clean, homeschool my children despite her having past sexual partners in her jahiliyyah over a virgin who is a feminist who believes you should provide but she also doesn't need to obey you in any capacity and she prefers to go to school and work instead of staying home.
The question is so unfair for the broke,virgin dude. & then Adds. The "bum" will stay broke forever. So unfair. Obviously a Godly woman. Cares about the purity in men. As well. & money comes & goes. If the man is a virgin (purity) + a Godly man. & broke at the moment. God is a provider & will provide for that marriage. That interview was so unfair. I'm sorry
The fact that you are saying he is broke and will always be broke that’s the issue here though. If a man is within his means to be better which is what a Muslim man is suppose to be the provider and if he isn’t his wife can build him up
MashaAllah, Muslim brother lowers his gaze as he goes up to non-Mehram women and asks about their preferences regarding a sexual partner's sexual past. Great content for the Muslim ummah
"Men judge women on their past and women judge men on their future." We ALL use inductive reasoning to make predictions (viz. regarding how our suitable a person might be as a spouse). To say that a man's past is unimportant to a woman is completely false. This is proven by your experiment, given that the women selected a man who was wealthy as opposed to the 'bum' (as you called him). Possessing wealth suggests a past filled with hard work and dedication and a man who is ambitious, tenacious and able to take on responsibility; a man who provides security and can be relied upon. Besides, no deeply religious man can be described as a 'bum' as his noor will shine forth and he will be rewarded for his taqwa and good deeds. This "experiment" had nothing to do with chastity but rather your desire to shame women and make them feel as though they are undeserving of marriage if they have made mistakes in the past. وَاسْتَغْفِرُوا اللَّهَ ۚ إِنَّ اللَّهَ غَفُورٌ رَّحِيمٌ
We are different on a biological level, the reason men care about past and are repulsed by it is because there is a biological trigger in us that goes off that says ''the baby might not be yours'' women don't have this biological trigger since if they get pregnant it is always their baby.
At the end, you should've asked if they would choose a rich virgin or a rich guy with a body count. You changed the question like this in the men's video, and I think their answers would be very different. Also you made the virgin seem like a bum. If you said he was still hard-working and honorable, then they would've picked him. Women also value honor and self-respect.
That will not make sense because the point of the video is past or future the the broke guy have agood past but not a good future, and the rich guy have a good future but bad past, that's the point of the video past or future
@@mihaz442 Even if the guy never gets rich, a woman would still prefer him if he's virtuous and honorable. Her future might not be better financially, but it would be better because she'd have a loving, loyal husband.
@@theurbanottoman2096 that proves you aren't listening the video he said the rich have 20 body count and changed+ you are making stuff that have nothing to do with the video The point of the video isn' about loyalty ,cheating its about past or future
I'm a girl and it's the broke guy for me. Because like the second girl said you can build a future with them and not worry about the emotional baggage they carry. Also I'm earning well enough atm to be able to provide for both of us so I wouldn't need him to provide for me. I just need him for love that's all. Also he can be a househusband whilst I provide.
I think you worded the question wrongly, could’ve compared the rich guy with bodies to an average guy who works but will regardless be broke and a virgin
The broke man is a burden lazy, the rich man is wealthy and will provide but you will become number 21 and he will be moving onto number 22. To conclude both bad.
Oh yeah, if you’re broke and a virgin, you’re practically ostracized from society. I think Hoori Al ayns are the only hope. I pray you all are rewarded with them inshallah
The problem single, widowed and divorced women are facing in today's society is appalling. Where men should be providing and supporting women, there are so many who struggle on their own and cannot remarry because of this.
The man will BE BROKE FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE while the other man is Rich and will be rich but has 20 bodies bro this is an unblacanced question if the man is a hard worker the money he has is from allah it is his risq so saying he is broke in that way shows that he will not be a compitent man but if u said this more unbiased i feel like the answers would be different
If you ask the women would they prefer a virgin who won't provide for them or an experienced man who will provide then I hope when you ask the men you frame it as a virgin who is a feminist and won't submit vs an experienced woman who will submit.
I don't understand.Do we have a choice to choose a zaani ? I know the real purpose of this video is to understand the differences between men and women but maybe as a Muslim we should approach this topic more sensitively.Infact as the hot topic of traditional men and women is up these days ; we should be focussing more on videos which shows that practicing Muslim men and women are even above that level as their main focuss is not wealth;status or beauty but to have a partner which can help them to reach their real goal in this world.
brother Ali, i dont think this is a fair survay, in some way you made the women go for the rich man cause you destroyed the image of the virgin individual. I say redo the survay with a little more fairness (make the sisters picture the virgin as being of a fair financial stance).
I think saying broke always no matter what you push the girls to wealthy would be better to say someone who is broke or average and then millionaire that gives a genuine perspective..
That's obvious from anyone's standard .. so what is the point of this experiment other then showing us girls who want a rich guy... with any experiment you want to showcase an honest opinion not an opinion you want to show
I am the broke one lost my father December 22 my heart is broken too. But I have my family my brothers n mother and two sisters but my father is gone may Allah grant him highest place in Jannah. 😩
@@susanna9831 may Allah make this easy for you and your family . Indeed he is all seeing and all listening just keep making dua for khyr and in sha Allah Allah will place all khayr for you and your family in sha Allah !!! Aameen
What a privileged view. Poverty and Wealth comes from Allah. If Allah wants to test some of the ummah with poverty, does that mean they can’t fulfill marraige from something that came from Allah? Make it make sense please.
@@susanna9831 yes he was rich but he was living similar to a poor life or close let's say, because a lot of his wealth used to go as sadaqah, it's not that he was not living well no but a lot of his materialistic aspect of his life was sadaqah on orphans from what I have heard.
I think we can all agree that that challenge Is a bit unfair, especially to Clarify the broke is a BUM and always be broke, is a bit o Giveaway to anyone with a rational mind to pick the Rich.
it doesnt demonize anyone it just promotes to be someone like the guy that had 20 intimacies. which i find confusing, we are supposed to hate Zina whether you are broke or rich. so for everyone: Success is not put by someone having 20 gals and ton of money, success is in someone´s ibadaat and his effort in it. and that includes all things, which are in goodness.
btw: money is generalized theirfore it could be haraam money. but i never said a muslim can never be rich. i just said that, it puts the one: 'having a bad background' in a good Spotlight, which is horrible for the public to show.
Indeed Allah sees our struggles to remain chaste men specially in the West where there is so many options in every corner. May Allah reunite us with chaste woman for whom we made these sacrifices and the women who in turn also made these sacrifices to be with us.
just accept Sajid's advice. This video is normalizing the Zena of men as normal or irrelevant in marriage. If a Zani man proposes to your daughter Ali, would that not bother you? You would just care that he is rich? No other considerations? Very pointless video or just misleading.
Having a high body count doesn't matter for women, when they themselves aren't virgin. Also, if the man sincerely repented most women wouldn't judge him. As should men in Islam.
@@uok6216 men say this stuff all the time, so I figured it must be partially true at least for *one* category, because I know for a fact that virgin women do care very much about the men's body count. In general women with high body count are less hypocritical when it comes to men with high bc. Sorry, are you a woman? If you have any experience or information about this, could you share it with me?
@@cimsonrose6844 as a woman I agree. Women who have slept around don’t care about those things as to a virgin woman who’s looking for a pious virgin man!
Im 26 years old I never had a girlfriend before I never kissed a girl and a virgin. That’s why my future wife has to be a virgin too. But if i wasn’t a virgin i couldn’t and shouldn’t expect a virgin wife.
Allahummah baariek. May Allah bless you with a pious beautiful wife that will please you in Dunya and support u to get a high place in the aakhira Ameen. Don't let dirty brothers influence you.
What about the difference in quality of women who choose the rich guy vs the poor guy? He wasn’t asking practicing Muslims here. The Muslim woman said she would prefer the poor guy. Also the answers will change a lot depending on what type of place you are in.
He should've asked muslim women as well, as a muslim woman, I could never marry someone who has committed zina 20 times just because he is wealthy astaghfirullah.
@Gabbo yes, because the question asked here was about a broke guy who will be broke forever and will never want to be a provider, in that case he is a bad choice too. If he was poor but hardworking and with some prospects, hopefully it would be a different answer.
I think in some ways, as a man it is best to be hardworking with some prospects but not rich. I don’t want to attract a greedy woman who will sell her soul for money.
@@persolu3680 because that's the point of the video past or future the broke guy have a bad future but a good past and the rich guy have a bad past but a good future so women choice future and that's fine I don't blame them that's their nature
Why would a woman who needs someone to take care of her and her children especially when she is pregnant and breastfeeding pick a bum who won't even try to provide? First he gets her pregnant and then sits at home and expects her to do everything, cook, clean, take care of the baby AND work while he sits at home? How does this even compare to the millionaire? Its a dumb question.
I think the way the question was asked was somewhat flawed. You basically gave them scenarios in which them answering in favor of the rich guy was a given. It would be more fair if you were to ask if both were rich but one was a virgin and the other wasn't. The answers to that would be quite interesting to see.
Saying he's a bumb is wrong. You need to say broke but minimum wage job. A guy wouldn't get married to a bumb girl...being a bumb is a personality trait
Good experiment but nobody wants to be with a guy who is going to be broke forever. That changes the question quite alot. Men provide for the women and not the other way round
This is the mentality of non-Muslims. I don’t get how it relates to Muslims. What matters is ambitions and self-respect. This question was very black or white. I would say none. And choose self-preservation instead of either of those two options. Both would bring suffering.
This video is hurting my head man. Who wouldn’t pick the second option while assuming they both have good characters. And if one is a bum the other also has to be a bum but spoiled The attributes between the two options of character seem to be constantly changing. Thank you Ali for the video still
If he asked them to choose between a rich guy with 20 bodies or a hardworking man with average pay(or low pay) and no bodies. They would obviously choose the hardworking man who's a virgin simply because of self respect. But he's asking them to choose between a weak man with no self-respect who's constantly giving into his desires and a man who is broke due to his laziness and lack of motivation. So the question here is: Weak man, gives into his desires, no thought of Allah while he's doing these actions, his loyalty will be questioned and will turn his head at every beautiful woman he sees. But he's financially stable, can provide for you, can spoil you? Or A man who is broke due to his laziness, so cannot provide for you, probably won't even help you with anything because he can't even help himself, his laziness will affect you and your children and you'll get no support from him. But he has self respect and will look at no one except you? To me this kind of looks one sided, if this man is broke due to his laziness then no chance but if he's hardworking and he's still trying his best to earn money for his family wallah id choose him, instead of turning my head away I'll help him using my wealth since its considered a charity for me anyway
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This is what the “Dawah” has come to?
May Allah guide us back to the Sunnah of our prophet PBUH.
This is just a survey. No harm meant.
The two good women who chose the broke guy are the ones who deserve a truly wealthy partner alhumdulilah may allah bless them.
Exactly.
Women choosing the wealthy person with a past are good people too. Men who have been in intimate relationships in the past can move on and make a good life for themselves. Also, the wealthy one is able to provide for the women, while the broke one won’t be able to
@@abidhussain6757 wow so astonishing what you said. How do you know for sure the broke one might not find better job after and than provide for his wife because remember rizq (wealth) is in hands of Allah and Allah can give wealth to and take wealth from whomever he wills and whenever. Those girls were saying for money and they are the Andrew Tate hate type of girls who say we want to work why should a man provide for us this that but at same time want a rich man for his money.
@@Zeczam thanks bro
@@happyguy201 I think you are getting side-tracked. Ali’s option that he gave was a broke guy who will be broke forever. Why on earth would a woman choose a virgin who doesn’t have the money to provide for her and a family of kids? Yes, Allah provides but we as men need to make sure that we are doing our bit to prepare for marriage.
The pure men are for pure women. And the impure men are for the impure women. The Quran is our guide. We don't even have to ask random people about their opinion. The impure woman will choose the impure man, and the pure woman will choose the pure man.
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@Dhi Mancini
What are you saying bro
Marriage is a halal constitution
It doesnt ruin his purity if he had marriages
But if he fucked around thats impure activity with no responsibility and no fear of Allah bro
@Dhi Mancini ram had above 16000 wives😳😳😳😳
Brother you don't even understand the meaning of the verse
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I feel like a more balanced question would be two hardworking men, one is a broke virgin, the other is a rich millionaire with 20 bodies. The way you insisted the broke guy was a bum kind of made it seem like you were wanting the girls to answer a certain way.
the question was perfectly fine because essentially he's comparing a man with no future but is pure vs. a man with a future but has a past which is the whole point of the discussion. Saying that the broke boy is hard-working implies that he has a future and thus wouldn't make this a fair question.
True, but most of them answered without him saying that the broke guy is a bum so it still works out.
@@maxedout3402 I understand but it does seem like an unfair comparison. If you ask Muslim women if they had the choice between a hardworking virgin broke guy and a rich guy with 20 bodies, the Muslim women would choose the virgin guy, because as Muslims we value purity. So saying women care more about the future is a bit unfair. Allah knows best
the point of the video is future or past if he say the the broke guy have agood past and good future, and the rich guy have bad past and good future that will be not fair, the question is fair the virgin guy have a good past but bad future,
And the rich guy have have a good future but bad past
I agree in some sense. However I think the emphasis was more on about how women would think about the future.
As a guy, I would marry a virgin who’s a bum for the rest of her life over a woman with 20 bodies. It’s as simple as that. But for women they don’t see it like that.
My Opinion as a Muslim girl I care about a person's past because it indicates his morals a man with a clean past means his present is good and his future will be good, I don't care about his money because it does not last .
Then this would be your thinking being influenced in a good way by Islam Alhamdullilah. But aside this the standard for women is the opposite.
The experiments was pointless. No one going to go for a broke man who's a virgin and is not trying to provide and care for his spouse
@@mohammedshoaib2814 yea it actually is! The way he focuses on the broke guy being a bum kills the trustworthiness of this experience. This also makes the results to devoid of wisdom to reflect upon. Except if there is a person who matches the description of the broke guy- a broke bum who won't strive to provide for you, has no ambitions and won't ever grow financially- that might realise that he needs change -which is obvious- this video won't benefit most viewers whether female or male.
May Allah grant you a righteous spouse Hanane
@@mohammedshoaib2814 I agree with you 💯 that was just paradox it's not realistic to be honest Ali should have said
1.Virgin man who provides but it's not enough provision
2. Has a past but he is millionaire and give you abundance. So that analogy will be much more choose and pick 🤷♀️
Please ask more muslim women. Unless you only mean non-muslims, in that case you should change your title to "non-muslim women" because again, as a muslim woman I could not marry a man who has committed zina (20 times at that) instead of someone who stayed chaste for the sake of Allah just because he has money. Money is nice, I am indeed looking for someone who can provide but to think I will sweep zina under the carpet for money is unbelievable. You're broke and you have good character, good deen? Then sure let's be broke, so be it. What's money anyways? We all end up alone in a grave. I'm really not saying it's ideal, I'm just saying because I am practicing and chaste I always prefer someone who is as religious as me, that prays, fasts, stays halal over someone that isn't. I could never put money over Islam.
Agreed. There is definitely a religious and cultural bias. Women who are Muslim or even certain cultures e.g. South Asia will give a different answer.
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Well said sister
He doesnt mean broke in a sense of welfare he means broke as a blue collar worker. The bus driver, the plumber, warehouse worker etcetera. They are not broke. The money is a bit stretched at times but its far from broke
@@piraat070 Well that’s even better then. As long as we have something to live with, alhamdullilah.
I disagree, as a Muslim female I care about a man's past just as much as a man cares about a woman's past. For people who say they ONLY care about their man's future are forgetting a man's past affects his present and future; who he was before will shape who he is today and tomorrow.
Even if someone's changed and has left their past behind, it is possible that old traits and patterns may come back up in the future, he may struggle to lower his gaze more than an average man as it was normal for him to check out woman, he may be dealing with unhealthy addictions such as watching porn which could have influenced him to sleep around a lot, he may not respect woman as he objectified woman a lot in the past, he might easily get bored of only being intimate with his wife as he misses the fun of being with lots of different woman, he might be comparing woman from his past to his wife, high body count could also mean he committed more filthy acts as he advanced sexually such as having threesomes etc, he may have developed weird fetishes in the past which affects his marriage, he may have less haya/shame and not care as much about his wife's modesty, he might be easily tempted by other woman as sex was/is not a big deal to him.
I believe the honourable men who value intimacy/sex are the ones with a low or no body count. I also believe a man's past tells a LOT about his character and a man who has carelessly slept with so many woman in the past is more likely to struggle with his weaknesses and cheat on his wife in the future.
I want to add that a man who has truly repented, put in the work to heal from his past, and is trying his best to be a better Muslim and husband is also an honourable man.
100 agree. This thing was kinda stupid.
Son of God does not mean that God has a child in Christianity!
*what a mistake in the Qur'an!*
Son of God is a title referring to the Word of God!
Hebr 1,2 Hath in these last days spoken unto us by his Son, whom he hath appointed heir of all things, *by whom also he made the worlds;*
as everyone can see the term Son of God refers to the Word of God = god himself! For through that God created the worlds! *what a mistake in the Qur'an!*
@ Z R - Spot on! Very well put, I couldn't have said it better myself. 100% agree with every point you make.
@@Daveena1008 Glad to know, thank you. :)
Who is proud to be part of Ummat e Muhammad S.A.W❤❤🕋❤❤
اللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ وَسَلِّم عَلَى نَبِيِّنَا مُحَمَّد ﷺ
Not related to the video. Stop using Islam and the prophet pbuh for likes.
@@V12509 What are you talking about? How could you know his intend? and even if you knew, what does it matter, his/her comment helped me remember the Hadith with Raditou Billahi Raban Wa Bil Islami Dinan Wa Bi Mohamedin Nabiyan and I thank people who make comment like this one for helping the ummat!
U want likes
@@V12509 You dont have to comment to do with the vid its a free area for everyone to say what they want
I would still choose the virgin over the promiscuous guy, because he could cheat on you in the future and risk your relationship altogether. Also the Quran says: "Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men, for corrupt women - just as good women are for good men, and good men, for good women." (24:6).
That makes more sense.
If you add that the virgin guy will “forever” be broke and is a “bum” then you should give the rich guy a disadvantage by saying e.g. that he could possibly lose his money in the future. By saying that the first guy will forever be broke, you’re giving him a third characteristic; being lazy.
This makes the question unfair as you are giving one guy another disadvantage while neglecting the second guy’s behavior in the same matter.
To a man it don't matter to woman his future matters
This is exactly what I was thinking good experiment but ali ruined it with the 3rd characteristic it's like saying women whose a virgin but she will never cook for you opposing to the one where she had 5 sexual partners but she will feed you best tasting food u could ask for 3 x a day
@@tdackjordan5873 I’m willing to marry a guy that is virgin and broke if he’s willing to put in the effort to find a job, meaning that he’s isn’t broke by choice. Given that he is a practicing Muslim and has the same moral framework as I.
That's the point of the video the virgin guy have no future and the rich guys have no past
So women choice the future
If he says both have futures that will make no sense
The question is past or future
@@mihaz442 Not really. First of all, who says that that the rich guy has no past? It could be generational wealth.
The main idea is the importance of virginity in a partner for men compared to women. Would a women ignore the lack of chastity if the guy has other advantages such as wealth? Women always look for financial stability in a man, unlike men, but will being rich override the morals women look for in men?
So, being saying that one guy is
1) virgin (good)
2) poor (bad)
3) lazy (bad)
and another guy has
1) slept with multiple women (bad)
2) rich (good)
you’re creating a faulty argument by saying that the virgin guy is also incompetent above being poor.
MAJORITY of Muslim women would rather marry a virgin broke guy over a non virgin rich guy if we were questioned, but we do not accept someone who is purposefully not willing to work on himself. In this case, neither options are accepted.
A better way to put it: Would you rather MARRY
a) a man that is a virgin and broke, but could become rich or stay the same in the future
OR
b) a man that has been with 20 women and is rich, but could become poor or stay the same in the future
That way you could ensure that the interviewees are thinking long term about a committed relationship rather than using the guy for money then dipping AND that chastity is the main concern as wealth is fluctuating.
That's isn't the point of the video the point of the video is past or future the the broke guy have agood past but not a good future, and the rich guy have a good future but bad past, that's the point of the video
If you say the rich guy have abad past
(he isn't a virgin) and a bad future
( he will become broke)
and the broke guy have a good past
( he is a virgin )
And a good future ( he will become rich )
That will be unfair and doesn't make sense
That doesn't make sense you are saying 1: the the virgin guy will become rich
(good future)
and have good past ( being virgin )
2: And the rich guy will become brooke ( bad future) and have bad past before (not a virgin before)
@@mihaz442 My question makes the future of both men unknown. The rich guy won’t become poor nor will the poor guy become rich. That’s not what I’m saying.
First of all, being rich an poor isn’t bad or good future, it is only the present. When Ali said the the poor guy will forever be poor, he’s adding the future element while not mentioning what will happen to the rich guy, and obviously no women will accept a bum making the interviewees sway to a predetermined answer. It should simply be poor virgin or rich 20 bodies non-virgin. That’s it.
For me the question will be more better if:
A) broke, virgin and never cheat on someone
B) wealthy, 20 bodies and still cheats on behind your back.
Girls will fall in the trap eventually
No. You all misunderstood. He was proving that it's OK to have 4 wives if you make lot of money.
These experiments should be done in random part of the country, makes it more interesting to see people in the area and their opinions
Their answer won't change. Asking Muslims vs non-Muslims would be more interesting
@@iamnot664 that's a W bro bc actually this experiment is useless for Muslims being conducted the way Ali did
@@iamnot664 London has a lot of ethnic girls. A lot of these ethnic girls are very money hungry. Regardless the question is stupid, its providing extremes like hes broke and will always be broke...
@@idreeskhan8885 it has to be in the both end extremes bec it won't be explained if in the middle like the point of the questioned is finding what trait is more imp in eyes of women other than being a good man ofcource
The prophet Muhammad alajhie afdalou assalaat wa assalaam was poor. Ali Dawah is causing fitna by telling woman to marry a cheater (which get stoned to death in Islam) I mean if Ali Dawah was speaking from an islamic vieuw he couldnt dair to ask that question or he doesnt believe in the islamic laws (Sharia) so what is Ali Da3aras agenda
You shouldn’t say the broke guy will stay broke forever just as you shouldn’t say the rich guy will stay rich forever. Lots of people get rich and then turn into broke losers who also aren’t a virgin 😂
Because that's the point of the video if he says the broke guy have a good future and a good past, and the rich guy have agood future and bad past that will be unfair the question is fair the broke guy have a good past but bad future, and the rich guy have a good future bad past that's fair
@@civildiscourse7626 its called virtue signalling
Agreed. If you say they will be broke forever then that's a REALLY easy choice for women. Obviously they will go for the rich man.
However, I also feel like Ali should have included a religious aspect to this. He could have also included that the virgin broke guy is Muslim/believes in God who is a very nice person but the rich guy is an atheist jerk. I think that would have been even MORE interesting.
rich become broke when they lose in trading or other reasons 😉
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This was an unfair experiment. Needs to be done again. You literally force their answers. You can't say the guy will "Stay broke" because it becomes a pretty biased experiment.
I think it was pretty fair, as he gave the exactly same 2 choices when he was asking men in the other experiment.
He cooked the questions a little. But this is a social media experiment not a peer reviewed study. This is just entertainment.
It is very easy to refute Islam! Because the God of Islam does not know that according to Christianity God incarnated
True love = the love of God!
*God himself went to the cross for you out of love for you as a human being*
Philippians 2:5-8
Woman can't change their past so it is only fair to state that men can't change their future imo
@@rosalia2940
Worry about your own life
How is this a foolproof study on whether women care about a man’s sexual past or not? The rich man will be more appealing because women just care about security. Perhaps if both men were rich but one was a virgin and the other wasn’t, it would be a better study.
Most women I've met prefer experienced men, a lot of them will lie on camera say that they prefer virgins to look like ''pure angels'' on camera. Then the day after when the camera is off they block the inexperienced and chase after the experienced. You can't interview women to find out the truth on such topics, for example, bad boy vs nice guy or virgin vs experienced. There will be too many lies involved.
The women who did not care about their own chastity did not care about their partner’s.
Very true
True
Exactly, 304 made for pemp and pemp made for 304
Exactly this.
It is very easy to refute Islam! Because the God of Islam does not know that according to Christianity God incarnated
True love = the love of God!
*God himself went to the cross for you out of love for you as a human being*
Philippians 2:5-8
The thing is when you said he'll stay broke forever it gives an impression that he's a lazy guy with no determinations and women don't want to choose someone who don't really care about providing his family and if he do care he's not going to stay broke forever maybe not rich but he'll be able to provide a decent amount. So basically Money is not what attracts woman it's *Responsibility and Care*
EXATLY, perfectly made point👌👌👌
This might encourage zina. FYI, men with experience don't always prefer women with no experience. In the UK, and other western countries, the parents will arrange a marriage for their son with a virgin who he agrees to marry, but he will still go to his gf and ignore the virgin. Fornicators for fornicators, good women for good men.
Virginity dosent makes u good.bcz by mind and heart we can consider if u are good not by ur vagina or ur penis bcz sexual life is desire she isn't related by good or bad.only cheating is a special case
Brother you should said " millionaire comes with adultery and cheating her out of her share of his wealth" VS " Poor, honourable, and treat her like queen".
that doesn't work, a man doesn't treat a woman like a queen, he rewards her good behavior while she is the one that treats him like a king
@@frblaze2 obviously you aren't that man
@@mirakbar9029 You've never gotten a girl... don't talk about these subjects
@@frblaze2 how do you know? You are full of sh@t
@@mirakbar9029 Believe me I know, its obvious
I would have rephrased the question to: A virgin who's currently broke but has potential. That is more realistic. As a man, I don't think there are lots of men who've got nothing and want nothing going on for them and the ones that don't atleast try. So the question kinda pushes women to choose the wealthy guy who's been screwing around alot and may continue to do so..
Exactly poor from ali
Every man makes money be it halal or haram its so easy to make money esp in the uk.
you got it wrong , you should see the video when he asks men the same question ,
he want to see if body counts will affect or not
men don't like women if she had body counts even if she had money ,
and when he asks women the prefer money even if he have a lot of body counts
it's not about if he is working hard on him self but it's about will body count will affect the decision or not
@@abcavani4640 I saw the other video. my point still stands.
@@abcavani4640bother if this is a Muslim woman in a muslims country you already know the woman will say I want the virgin man because there’s no difference to this midset for men and woman
@@hijabmary4814 well i am a student and i am in a muslim countery , and the creteria for choosing a husband is his money ,and if you don't have money you would die virgin,
most girls in my collage don't like the man with no past and they are seeing him as if he can't handle dealing with women.
i am from egypt btw
I really like 2 Muslim girls who chose 1st and my respect for them increase
because they know Ali dawah and they are being captured on camera
@@Samir20002 if someone ask me and there is no camera I will also choose the first one
@@SamreenAyyoub-_ hard to believe but OK😅
@@Samir20002 😵💫I think every Muslim women lady girl would say broke and virgin
@@helladepp7082 I wish what you have just said was true but in reality it is not... Just sayin ,Every muslim girl definition of "every" is all possible; the greatest possible degree of...
Yes Ali dawah please do more social experiment like these because we get the general public honest opinion
Muslim men: let's make lot of money and have 4 wives😎
@@aub3365 even getting one wife is difficult nowadays, stop dreaming about 4 wives.
Honest 😂
I'm with this idea
@@howyou2035 yh true. polygamy is not even allowed in this country
please ask men "less attractive girl virgin or very attractive who a past"
less attractive virgin for 99% of men , a girl with a past is repulsive
" And We have already created man and know what his soul whispers to him , and We are closer to him than [ his ] jugular vein . " Surah Qaf 50:16
I think the question being asked from women are a bit unfair in the sense that they have to stick to a guy who, except for medical conditions, chose to remain stubbornly broke, while in reality, morally speaking, men do have to care of their better haves. It would be fair if he was broke but still did his best to take good care for his family by doing two jobs.
@@uok6216
But he can't seek marriage then Islamically because Islam does require you to provide a mahr.
There is No marriage without Mehr.
This seems a bit unfair. You literally MADE some of these girls pick the wealthy but sleazy guy by insisting that the broke virgin guy was a bum and would stay broke forever. You should have at least gave the wealthy guy a disadvantage or say that he had a habit of cheating in the past or something like that.
he just said the man has '20 girls'? Does that sound like an advantage to a girl?
Yup
This is right. But only few girls like you realize this. That the rich guy who have 20 females alongside them might even cheat you. The Virgin guy will atleast stay loyal.
But other girls will obviously go for the Millionaire guy even he is the most evil person born on the planet.
none wants a broke bum, but a woman of faith also doesn't want a man that slept with all these women, which means he isn't a man of faith either. The kufr's and the people that haven't heard the message of Allah (SWT) those have integrated the subjective morality of society. This is why it's important for Muslims to follow the guidance of Allah (SWT), it will give you peace and happiness.
Let’s rephrase it: rich, high body count and disloyal vs broke, no past and loyal. Women look for loyal men. Simple.
And halal men, imagine having 20 bodies as a muslim, subhanallah I just can't marry you.
@Hassy Kay that’s a stupid question cuz why would I go looking for a man on the streets. I want a virgin man that fulfils his duties as a husband. Simple.
Even after rephrase it, modern women would still choose the rich one. They don't care about anything except money.
He's loyal because no one else wants him 🤣
@@saadamahmoud8108 How would you know if he has 20 bodies?
i feel like adding his wealth statuse will drastically affect the experiment. cause its not about preferring a virgin over a non-virgin anymore, it would include money.
nahh there are much more video liek these even without wealth included they say a man with experience si good
@@predictezz1047 no Muslim sister is picking the guy with a sexual past tho. Kafir women do that when they’re in that “I’m having fun stage”
Muslim women are thinking who will make good husband and father to my kids, it’s not the guy who showcased little sexual discipline and taqwa
I hope Muslim men don’t get comfortable with these types of data. Allah said that chaste men and for chaste women. Vice versa is true.
@@tjc4085 may Allah bless u brother I actually was a little frustrated by these two videos especially some comments who approved the results like this is not even for us Muslims !
@@tjc4085 yes i know that
Of course lmao, that difference is the point of the video and the whole "men cares about a womens past, woman cares about the mans future" Theres a reason why women dont have fetishs for virgins.
These videos benefit Muslims in no way they only create fitnah. We take our guidance from Allah alone: pure men are for pure women, and impure men are for impure women.
Who cares what men or women want to say after that. May Allah guide you the Muslim ummah doesn't need more inf!ghting enough already.
Ur forcing them to choose the second option what do you mean by broke and always be broke bruh 💀💀
This is not the way the question should be put. It seems unfair.
Agreed
That's fair question the point of the video is past or future the the broke guy have agood past but not a good future, and the rich guy have a good future but bad past, that's fair
I personally do not agree with this “experiment” and I find it unfair. First of all, there are many “broke” men that are hard working and there can be “rich” men, via inheritance, who are lazy bums. As a Muslim, you shouldn’t be encouraging this. Men and women must be virgins before marriage no matter how rich they are. Also, by the example you are providing you are practically saying that the “broke” prophets (race be upon them) are not valued as highly as the rich men.
I think that question was unfair. It's like going around and asking men, would you go for a woman who is a virgin but is very ugly or a woman who has a body count but is an absolute stunner. I bet no one would go with the virgin!
Thank you very much for all your content, brother. I love watching it.
It was a good question asked by Ali.
Would you go for a guy who’s broke or rich?(Other variables are the same e.g. looks, personality deen etc)
Right..bro the question was awful.. 😇
I'd go for the virgin easy choice
Thats the whole point of the social experiment, to see the difference in what each gender prefers
Your comment has nothing to do with his question. He didn't mention the beauty of men. And you go straight to the point of ugliness. Even the girls he asked didn't ask if he was ugly or not. This proves that they will go after richness in most cases. I have seen nineteen year old beautiful girls who sleep and live with 60 year old rich old men.
And yes, in your case I might not have picked anyone because I would never even touch a rich hottie who was used like toilet paper 🤣
Why are you asking women this? Do you honestly think this is beneficial for the deen? Like seriously, you asking another woman that in general is not appropriate at all. Now imagine a woman asked this question to a man, would it still be ok to you? Ridiculous that you think this is ok or helpful to the religion at all.
Shows you how nasty women have become these days 🤮🤢
@@piraat070 And how nasty men have always been.
Realistically the question should be “would you rather be with a guy who earns just within his means and he’s virgin or a man who’s rich and has been with 20 women”. Many girls answered broke first which entails that women do care about a mans past too. Women don’t like it either that men commit these acts etc. and honest women especially don’t care if the man is making big bucks or just enough to hold a roof over their heads, all they need to know is that he’s an honest worker and puts Allah above everything in this world (for the muslimahs)
Thank you very much! ✨
the point of the video is future or past if he say the the broke guy have agood past and good future, and the rich guy have bad past and good future that will be not fair, the question is fair the virgin guy have a good past but bad future,
And the rich guy have have a good future but bad past so that tells us women care more about future
@@mihaz442
We're Muslims and Allah is our guidance not some QnA in the streets. We know pure women are for pure men as Muslims. We know that just because some women will put up with a man who has been with 20 women for their worldly benefits doesn't count as a free pass for men to do zina Infront of Allah. What did this whole video accomplish for the Muslim community. How many good deeds does this grant Ali? The only things It grants are views likes and fitnah Authubillah.
Ali Dawah took the red pill😂😂
Tbh I don't really like this content because there's nothing really islamic about it.
@@saadamahmoud8108 so you believe theres no gender roles and responsibilities in islam?
@Gabbo you are not obliged to watch every video this guy posts, on contrary, humans share the (more or less) common psychological similarities, and it is good (imo) to understand some things whether you are religious or not.
@@RealistJ I never said that, I deeply believe that men and women are similar but have differences that make that they complete one another. Both have their important roles and responsibilities to respect in order to have balance instead of chaos. But this video isn't about that brother. This video has no islamic value, it just states that non-muslim women prefer money over deen. Recently I see more of this red pill content and I simply don’t understand why some muslim men think I’d rather go for money instead of the many other things I look for in a man, I can’t marry someone that has wealth but lacks in everything else especially a man that has committed zina 20 times a'udhubillah. I don’t like this « we have it worse » brainwashing narrative that men and women are pushing lately, both have hardships and advantages so just respect the opposite gender, say alhamdullilah and go about your life. Islam teaches us to respect and honor both men and women, each have their respective rights and obligations to fulfill.
He's becoming Ali Brada Top G
What I understand is that as men we must build our value. Financially and physically.
@@susanna9831 Yes, but men have more weight on these 2 aspects. Men must be able to fight and be physically strong and they have to handle the stress of running a business or making money even in a stressful way, women should not focus on their careers generally. Women should raise children, take care of the home and be supportive and loyal towards their Men.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with this, we have different roles because we have different characteristics and we view the word in a different way
Your not allowed to talk to opposite sex in islam
I don’t see the point of this video. Both options are failures. I’m a man, and I don’t see why ANY woman would go with someone who’ll stay broke forever…
Edit: Astaghfirullah, the rich guy if he repented he’s no longer a failure actually, I should write that about him.
6:27
Women don't care about a man's body count but resources and ambition.
🇵🇸Help my children they are hungry
@@emma647 Exactly!!
Then what about the women who did care? Are you just gonna ignore them? Are you saying Muslim women don’t care about men that constantly disobey Allah?? Disgusting!
There is a religious and cultural element that affect these answers. You are aiming non- muslim women in the UK. What about muslim women? Or South Asian women? You will get different answers
Asking* not aiming
For all broke guys and have no relationship at all. I pray may Allah give us better rizq as long as we are not bum and strive to success. Amen
Ameen.
This comparison was too one sided. You gave the 2nd option an extra advantage of being Rich and a Hard Worker.
Majority of men do somewhat try. You had to give the broke guy a bad character of being incompetent.
Also I strongly doubt the Rich Guy will only just have 20 BC 😅
Average earning or something.
Yeah but it's not one sided if you make the exact same scenario for the woman. The experiment was to see which esch gender would choose and for men, without watching the whole video yet they would choose the broke v girl.
100% agree
A man would rather have a broke chick who is virgin and always broke because we not expecting her to pay are bills
@@tdackjordan5873
Because she's not obligated to pay our bills. Whether she's broke or not we still pay her bills. Her money is hers and our money is ours. That's what we accept because that's what Allah commanded.
A good Muslim woman would not pass on a good Muslim man just because he slept with 20 women in his jahiliyyah. A lazy bum Muslim man who is a virgin isn't a good Muslim man. He's more than likely just a virgin by accident because no one wanted to sleep with him. Not because he's pious. If you count the number of porn stars he's fapped to his body count is likely greater than the rich guy.
I would take a woman who will cook, clean, homeschool my children despite her having past sexual partners in her jahiliyyah over a virgin who is a feminist who believes you should provide but she also doesn't need to obey you in any capacity and she prefers to go to school and work instead of staying home.
Why does he have to be broke bro lmao I'm rich young man and I'm a virgin waiting for marriage not every virgin is a brokie.
Wait... how is this Islamic? We should all strive to be chaste and have chaste partners, ideally.
because its reality.
@@shoaibqaiser8720it’s reality for non Muslims not Muslim woman
@@shoaibqaiser8720oh so is men having high body counts allowed now in islam? auothobillah
The question is so unfair for the broke,virgin dude. & then Adds. The "bum" will stay broke forever. So unfair.
Obviously a Godly woman. Cares about the purity in men. As well. & money comes & goes. If the man is a virgin (purity) + a Godly man. & broke at the moment. God is a provider & will provide for that marriage.
That interview was so unfair. I'm sorry
The fact that you are saying he is broke and will always be broke that’s the issue here though. If a man is within his means to be better which is what a Muslim man is suppose to be the provider and if he isn’t his wife can build him up
MashaAllah, Muslim brother lowers his gaze as he goes up to non-Mehram women and asks about their preferences regarding a sexual partner's sexual past. Great content for the Muslim ummah
Lol i hope ur being sarcastic here💀
@@seiji99 ofc she is, she's just highlighting how crazy ali dawah's content has become
The society where you ask the questions matters brothers.
"Men judge women on their past and women judge men on their future."
We ALL use inductive reasoning to make predictions (viz. regarding how our suitable a person might be as a spouse). To say that a man's past is unimportant to a woman is completely false. This is proven by your experiment, given that the women selected a man who was wealthy as opposed to the 'bum' (as you called him). Possessing wealth suggests a past filled with hard work and dedication and a man who is ambitious, tenacious and able to take on responsibility; a man who provides security and can be relied upon.
Besides, no deeply religious man can be described as a 'bum' as his noor will shine forth and he will be rewarded for his taqwa and good deeds.
This "experiment" had nothing to do with chastity but rather your desire to shame women and make them feel as though they are undeserving of marriage if they have made mistakes in the past.
وَاسْتَغْفِرُوا اللَّهَ ۚ إِنَّ اللَّهَ غَفُورٌ رَّحِيمٌ
We are different on a biological level, the reason men care about past and are repulsed by it is because there is a biological trigger in us that goes off that says ''the baby might not be yours'' women don't have this biological trigger since if they get pregnant it is always their baby.
At the end, you should've asked if they would choose a rich virgin or a rich guy with a body count. You changed the question like this in the men's video, and I think their answers would be very different.
Also you made the virgin seem like a bum. If you said he was still hard-working and honorable, then they would've picked him. Women also value honor and self-respect.
That will not make sense because the point of the video is past or future the the broke guy have agood past but not a good future, and the rich guy have a good future but bad past, that's the point of the video past or future
@@mihaz442 Even if the guy never gets rich, a woman would still prefer him if he's virtuous and honorable. Her future might not be better financially, but it would be better because she'd have a loving, loyal husband.
@@theurbanottoman2096 you aren't even understanding the point of the video
The point of the video is past or future
@@mihaz442 I'm saying what do you mean by "good" future? In the future, if the rich guy provides for her but cheats on her, is that good?
@@theurbanottoman2096 that proves you aren't listening the video he said the rich have 20 body count and changed+ you are making stuff that have nothing to do with the video
The point of the video isn' about loyalty ,cheating
its about past or future
I'm a girl and it's the broke guy for me. Because like the second girl said you can build a future with them and not worry about the emotional baggage they carry. Also I'm earning well enough atm to be able to provide for both of us so I wouldn't need him to provide for me. I just need him for love that's all. Also he can be a househusband whilst I provide.
I think you worded the question wrongly, could’ve compared the rich guy with bodies to an average guy who works but will regardless be broke and a virgin
🇵🇸Help my children they are hungry
The more time passes by, the more i'm convinced that Allah has punished me in this life for putting me in world filled with dumb, ignorant people.
You should not have said the guy will be broke forever. You’re not leaving them with free thought.
The broke man is a burden lazy, the rich man is wealthy and will provide but you will become number 21 and he will be moving onto number 22. To conclude both bad.
faithful broke virgin vs unfaithful Millionaire would better question maybe
I appreciate your work Ali brother😍
There’s no one who’s going to be broke forever, say them that and watch them switch to broke guy
For all the broke and Virgin 😭
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That’s fine as long as you’re not going to give up on working on yourself, and preserving your chastity is good for both men and women
Our wife waiting us in heaven, just stay focus brothers.
@@barbaroslar2235 Bro lost all hope in the Dunya and now thinking about Hoor al Ain 😭 .... honestly same
I would rather be a virgin as a man than sleep with these promiscuous women morals come first. I don't want aids or STDs
Oh yeah, if you’re broke and a virgin, you’re practically ostracized from society. I think Hoori Al ayns are the only hope. I pray you all are rewarded with them inshallah
Eye opener. Hypocrisy exposed. Great video.
The problem single, widowed and divorced women are facing in today's society is appalling. Where men should be providing and supporting women, there are so many who struggle on their own and cannot remarry because of this.
The man will BE BROKE FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE while the other man is Rich and will be rich but has 20 bodies bro this is an unblacanced question if the man is a hard worker the money he has is from allah it is his risq so saying he is broke in that way shows that he will not be a compitent man but if u said this more unbiased i feel like the answers would be different
If you ask the women would they prefer a virgin who won't provide for them or an experienced man who will provide then I hope when you ask the men you frame it as a virgin who is a feminist and won't submit vs an experienced woman who will submit.
Good point!
Notice the ones connected to Allah chose broke guy
I don't understand.Do we have a choice to choose a zaani ? I know the real purpose of this video is to understand the differences between men and women but maybe as a Muslim we should approach this topic more sensitively.Infact as the hot topic of traditional men and women is up these days ; we should be focussing more on videos which shows that practicing Muslim men and women are even above that level as their main focuss is not wealth;status or beauty but to have a partner which can help them to reach their real goal in this world.
We want more social experiements! ♥️
brother Ali, i dont think this is a fair survay, in some way you made the women go for the rich man cause you destroyed the image of the virgin individual. I say redo the survay with a little more fairness (make the sisters picture the virgin as being of a fair financial stance).
I think saying broke always no matter what you push the girls to wealthy would be better to say someone who is broke or average and then millionaire that gives a genuine perspective..
That's obvious from anyone's standard .. so what is the point of this experiment other then showing us girls who want a rich guy... with any experiment you want to showcase an honest opinion not an opinion you want to show
I am the broke one lost my father December 22 my heart is broken too.
But I have my family my brothers n mother and two sisters but my father is gone may Allah grant him highest place in Jannah. 😩
Aamiin😢
Ameen bro May allah give you patience
@@susanna9831 may Allah make this easy for you and your family . Indeed he is all seeing and all listening just keep making dua for khyr and in sha Allah Allah will place all khayr for you and your family in sha Allah !!! Aameen
Wouldve been more interesting to ask to choose between middle class and millionaire than broke and millionaire
My beloved brothers learn one thing...
NEVER GET BROKE 😂
No chance 😂
Agreed man 😂
What a privileged view.
Poverty and Wealth comes from Allah.
If Allah wants to test some of the ummah with poverty, does that mean they can’t fulfill marraige from something that came from Allah?
Make it make sense please.
This fate is not within the person's hand, sometimes things can go out of control that it would eventually lead to anyone's disadvantage.
@@susanna9831 yes he was rich but he was living similar to a poor life or close let's say, because a lot of his wealth used to go as sadaqah, it's not that he was not living well no but a lot of his materialistic aspect of his life was sadaqah on orphans from what I have heard.
Ahh, this dunia is just a blink...
You are choosing hellfire. Watching this interview i want cry.
I think we can all agree that that challenge Is a bit unfair, especially to Clarify the broke is a BUM and always be broke, is a bit o Giveaway to anyone with a rational mind to pick the Rich.
it doesnt demonize anyone it just promotes to be someone like the guy that had 20 intimacies. which i find confusing, we are supposed to hate Zina whether you are broke or rich. so for everyone: Success is not put by someone having 20 gals and ton of money, success is in someone´s ibadaat and his effort in it. and that includes all things, which are in goodness.
btw: money is generalized theirfore it could be haraam money. but i never said a muslim can never be rich. i just said that, it puts the one: 'having a bad background' in a good Spotlight, which is horrible for the public to show.
100% true
with all due respect, i believe you completely missed the purpose of the video. I did not take from the video anything from what you're stated above.
@@axxiii8337 i know the purpose. to show how one thinks. it still doesnt change the facts that i have STATED ABOVE.
MashaAllah exactly! Ideally, we should all strive to be chaste and find chaste partners.
Indeed Allah sees our struggles to remain chaste men specially in the West where there is so many options in every corner. May Allah reunite us with chaste woman for whom we made these sacrifices and the women who in turn also made these sacrifices to be with us.
The answer of the last two ladies shows their purity MashaAllah. We wish to hear from the men side too.
just accept Sajid's advice. This video is normalizing the Zena of men as normal or irrelevant in marriage. If a Zani man proposes to your daughter Ali, would that not bother you? You would just care that he is rich? No other considerations? Very pointless video or just misleading.
I think the results may be different if the experiment was done in a country that doesn't practice fornication
Having a high body count doesn't matter for women, when they themselves aren't virgin. Also, if the man sincerely repented most women wouldn't judge him. As should men in Islam.
@@uok6216 men say this stuff all the time, so I figured it must be partially true at least for *one* category, because I know for a fact that virgin women do care very much about the men's body count. In general women with high body count are less hypocritical when it comes to men with high bc.
Sorry, are you a woman? If you have any experience or information about this, could you share it with me?
@@cimsonrose6844 as a woman I agree. Women who have slept around don’t care about those things as to a virgin woman who’s looking for a pious virgin man!
I definitely will never choose type 2 the wealthy man .
RIP for all my broke brothers out there
Yea Bro True 💯 🥲💪
Im 26 years old I never had a girlfriend before I never kissed a girl and a virgin. That’s why my future wife has to be a virgin too. But if i wasn’t a virgin i couldn’t and shouldn’t expect a virgin wife.
Allahummah baariek. May Allah bless you with a pious beautiful wife that will please you in Dunya and support u to get a high place in the aakhira Ameen. Don't let dirty brothers influence you.
@@oulangkous718 amin ecmain
What about the difference in quality of women who choose the rich guy vs the poor guy? He wasn’t asking practicing Muslims here. The Muslim woman said she would prefer the poor guy. Also the answers will change a lot depending on what type of place you are in.
Okay well this is western world being applied to
He should've asked muslim women as well, as a muslim woman, I could never marry someone who has committed zina 20 times just because he is wealthy astaghfirullah.
@Gabbo yes, because the question asked here was about a broke guy who will be broke forever and will never want to be a provider, in that case he is a bad choice too. If he was poor but hardworking and with some prospects, hopefully it would be a different answer.
I think in some ways, as a man it is best to be hardworking with some prospects but not rich. I don’t want to attract a greedy woman who will sell her soul for money.
@@persolu3680 because that's the point of the video past or future the broke guy have a bad future but a good past
and the rich guy have a bad past but a good future so women choice future and that's fine I don't blame them that's their nature
Why would a woman who needs someone to take care of her and her children especially when she is pregnant and breastfeeding pick a bum who won't even try to provide? First he gets her pregnant and then sits at home and expects her to do everything, cook, clean, take care of the baby AND work while he sits at home? How does this even compare to the millionaire? Its a dumb question.
I think the way the question was asked was somewhat flawed. You basically gave them scenarios in which them answering in favor of the rich guy was a given. It would be more fair if you were to ask if both were rich but one was a virgin and the other wasn't. The answers to that would be quite interesting to see.
Well said
Saying he's a bumb is wrong. You need to say broke but minimum wage job. A guy wouldn't get married to a bumb girl...being a bumb is a personality trait
I mean broke for the rest of someone’s life.. I mean your making the girls say millionaire
All women want and need a provider . Provide her mentality, physically or financially .
This is Social Experiment was much Needed
Good experiment but nobody wants to be with a guy who is going to be broke forever. That changes the question quite alot. Men provide for the women and not the other way round
Lol Ali the psychologist ... Hahaha keep it up!
Really those who said they prefer the second one are materialistic and obviously with no religious beliefs.
Did the Scholars and teachers you take from give permission to do this filth experiment? If yes, who are these Scholars and teachers?
This is the mentality of non-Muslims. I don’t get how it relates to Muslims. What matters is ambitions and self-respect. This question was very black or white. I would say none. And choose self-preservation instead of either of those two options. Both would bring suffering.
More women have said "broke" and he didnt add it on the screen. Subconscious messaging right there
This video is hurting my head man. Who wouldn’t pick the second option while assuming they both have good characters.
And if one is a bum the other also has to be a bum but spoiled
The attributes between the two options of character seem to be constantly changing.
Thank you Ali for the video still
I pray i meet my mate but i am patient and I trust Allah☝🏼
If he asked them to choose between a rich guy with 20 bodies or a hardworking man with average pay(or low pay) and no bodies. They would obviously choose the hardworking man who's a virgin simply because of self respect.
But he's asking them to choose between a weak man with no self-respect who's constantly giving into his desires and a man who is broke due to his laziness and lack of motivation.
So the question here is:
Weak man, gives into his desires, no thought of Allah while he's doing these actions, his loyalty will be questioned and will turn his head at every beautiful woman he sees.
But he's financially stable, can provide for you, can spoil you?
Or
A man who is broke due to his laziness, so cannot provide for you, probably won't even help you with anything because he can't even help himself, his laziness will affect you and your children and you'll get no support from him.
But he has self respect and will look at no one except you?
To me this kind of looks one sided, if this man is broke due to his laziness then no chance but if he's hardworking and he's still trying his best to earn money for his family wallah id choose him, instead of turning my head away I'll help him using my wealth since its considered a charity for me anyway