Cab light Theory vs. Divine Timing. What do you think?

For context: the cab light theory is going viral and states that a man wakes up one day and decides it’s “time” to get married. So he “he turns on his light,” and the next good connection he experiences becomes who he will marry. Essentially… they will pass on many of their best or ultimate connections if their light simply wasn’t on.

[@ziggyfreud5357]

Gratifying video young woman. We need more people posting this sort of positive stuff about how to begin an enduring relationship. We all need to accept that we can require perfection in others when we have reached that goal ourselves. Thanks for posting 🙏

[@recpak5750]

I didn't know about this before but found it fascinating!

[@sirdelrio]

It's simpler if you ask men. Many of us were willing to marry, but the girl either screwed up or didn't want to. It's not a gender thing. That's just sex and the city's fantasy.

[@exovit6348]

mhmm. right person wrong time is a thing also. I met someone that all of a sudden started acting like a wife, entire self began to change. Neither of us were ready though. He even told me he wasnt ready to be "wifed up" and I hadnt told him I was feeling that way. But sometimes God does that to help us grow in an area. Unfortunate but true.

[@stevegfromnc3482]

Divine timing is what everyone thinks they have when the cab light comes on. Almost no one thinks omg I'm ready so this is the one I am going to marry. They can justify it so many ways at the time but it's only in retrospect that they see that they just took the first one that came along when they were ready. Also, this sometimes applies to women as well.

[@MagicalFishy]

Interesting take. However, the universe being impersonal, does not have a will. God has a will. I believe that we have the choice when it comes to our spouse, and it's not controlled by God. He just chooses to bless it, or not to bless it. For instance, it would be within His will if we choose to marry someone who also follows Him and treats others with kindness and respect. Someone outside of His will, I would presume, would be someone who subscribes to a godless behavioral lifestyle and only treats themselves with kindness and respect. I believe it's possible for us to choose both good and bad things for ourselves, that's why we must pursue a relationship with Christ and strive to be more like Him. (:

[@stormcorrosion176]

Lucy. Love your facial bone structure.

[@briancasey4917]

It's not the universe it's God.

[@geektome4781]

Playing Heman.

[@aaron.n2182]

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