we love gentle plant dad and aggressively supportive tattoo dad! youtube has been pushing the transphobia onto my recommended lately, I need more trans goodness 🙏🏻🙏🏻
I want a show where Matt Walsh is just locked in a room with these two until they fix him, with them pulling a good cop/bad cop type thing on him until he either stops being such a shithead or cracks under the pressure and tells us where his secret hard drives are.
Dude Idk what's up with TH-cam, but for months it's been forcefully putting me on that side of TH-cam. I only fixed it by deleting my watch history. It felt like TH-cam wanted to convert me 😅, it sucked. But if it happens to you, deleting your watch history does fix it.
As a cis woman. I am “dependent” on “drugs” like birth control to avoid bleeding and extreme pain. Thank you Jammie for defending women who can’t have kids. We appreciate you.
On the detransition rate: Putting aside the fact that the majority of those are nonbinary people who were pushed into transition they didn't want, and/or trans people who faced immense societal backlash for their transition... a 1% regret rate is a goddamn miracle from a medical perspective. Like, having a kid has a 14% regret rate. A knee replacement, anywhere between something like 30-60%. A 1% regret rate for any procedure, let alone COLLECTION of procedures, is UNHEARD OF.
Not only that, but trans supportive healthcare ALSO helps the people who genuinely detransition. The goal is gender affirming, which includes people who thought they were trans but weren't.
This might sound bad but I honestly believe that most detransitioners are brainwashed by their religion or cultural norms and then exploited by transphobes as "evidence" that trans people aren't valid.
As a person born with Epilepsy; feels pretty damned great to have been on medication for 42 years, and still be alive. I'm glad to have my blood pressure meds. How does it feel to be dependent on meds? Feels like I'm alive. Lol.
The thing is, they have no idea what they are talking about... some people think pill=drug and drug=bad, but come on, you can't live without drugs, and you can't berate someone (or try to at least) for taking meds. Hormones aren't drugs, for starters, but a lot of people in the world, hetero-cis assholes included, depends on heart medication or blood pressure regulators. Are they, the diabetics, the immunosuppresed, the cancer patients... all bad because they depend on drugs? What about the fact that coffee, tea, sugar and alcohol are drugs? Does that make everyone that drinks a coffee or tea bad for they drug's consumption?
@@spiker.ortmann I'm Canadian, but my Great Gramma was British, so I drink more tea than coffee (I cut to fruit teas in the evenings, but drink coffee or black tea during the day) due to her influence. I'd love to try mate someday, it sounds interesting after reading up on it a little!
@@Tardisntimbits just don't be fooled, that shit IS addictive as hell... once you're on it for a while, you can't spend a day without or you have headaches... nothing wrong with drinking once or twice, but don't get too much right away. I remember withdrawal from coffee, way worse, but still, i can't be a whole day without mate or i get too moody to be around myself... 😁
I'm a trans man and, while it's not my job, I can lay brick, install flooring, fix and/or replace toilets and sinks, etc. And I learned it all from my cisgender mother.
Thank you tho! My mom taught me how to use a saw, find wall studs, a level. Anything a man could do. My mom said bet. Then taught me. The only thing my dad did that she didn't was cars. Also my dad cooked and cleaned. It's almost like living life has nothing to do with gender and you need these skills, all of them, to get by.
A "new" (It's been out for a couple of years now) children's cartoon challenged gender norms and roles with the parents. My sister was watching it and I happened to walk by when one of the main characters was like "We need to make holes in this piece of wood, but we're too little. I know, lets ask MOMMY if she can use HER drill to make the holes." It took me by surprise because as a Millenial, all of our kids shows always had the father being the one with the power tools and the mechanical knowledge. The dad in the show is a stay at home dad, and both parents work together to guide the kids, there's no "Mommy said no, but Daddy is going to say yes". The relationship between the siblings is great too.
I worked rebar and concrete masonry in my twenties and guess who outworked me? The 58 year old cis woman called the Lady, who had been doing it since she was 17. This 5'4" waif of a woman would pick up and walk off with 4 concrete blocks. Gender don't mean crap to ANY ability.
i'm cis but the "stay weird" thing resonates with me heavily because when i was bullied as a kid for having ADHD, deciding to not be ashamed of my weirdness was one of the things that kept me alive
As someone who's ND and queer I heavily believe ND and queer people need to stick together, we always get targeted around the same times for similar reasons, and even if you're cis het and ND, some struggles overlap.
There's a story about a former Olympic athlete from India. Since birth, she had physically presented as a woman, but because of the scare about trans women athletes, she had to do a chromosome test. It turned out that she was genetically male but had a condition called androgen insensitivity. This condition meant that her cells didn't react to testosterone, meaning that she has XY chromosomes but a physically female body. But because she had a Y chromosome, she was permanently banned from competing professionally.
God, transphobia hurts everyone... all this trans women fear is just reskinned sexism and aligns awfully well with reskinned racism as well. Body features used to harass trans women are also the features used to claim women of color aren't real women or feminine enough
@@awaredeshmukh3202 I'm a CIS woman, and even if cis women had full equality I'd fight for the rights of trans people. But the fact is, laws that aim at trans women ALWAYS negatively affect cis women. So regardless of what gender we were assigned at birth, we need to stand together. because a world where trans people are viewed as equal is a world where ALL people are viewed as equal.
there was also similar story about Polish professional runner who had the same condition, she also got disqualified and banned from competing,I don't remember her name
One time someone replied to me on a comment I wrote on a video and in the comment I wrote something among the lines of "people who are transgender are normal" and the person replying to me wrote "You'll never be a real woman" and I replied with "I'm not trans but I support trans people because that's what nice people do"
…and if you'd responded with only, "I am a woman," those Arschtrompeten would've then told you that you'll never be a real man. Seriously, they're so desperate to abuse someone else that they'll just keep grasping at whatever.
lmao you literally could be a cis woman, a cis man, a trans man, or any kind of nonbinary person who just SUPPORTS TRANS PEOPLE like a decent human being. ppl just make assumptions
@@Its_Ezri_motherfuckers it’s was literally just one PowerPoint and it wasn’t that good. My school say they’re super supportive and have 0 tolerance for any discrimination but teachers don’t hear everything that the students say and one or two PowerPoints a year don’t really change people’s views and actions
1. Jamie: "I'm not on many meds, but if I were, what's wrong with that?" Thanks for knocking down that accidental(?) ableism! I'm a disabled woman who takes about 10 pills a day. 2. Jamie: "Homophobia is just recycled racism, and transphobia is just recycled homophobia." Very insightful! 3. There are actually some animals (mainly birds) whose sex chromosomes are WZ instead of XY (although I don't remember what combos are male or female), so maybe Roly is so unique because he is part bird, lol jk
Birds and some reptiles do have W & Z Chromosomes! The males typically have WW and the females WZ; it's these pairings that give certain reptiles, such as the Komodo Dragon, to undergo parthenogensis :)
@@dragonsurge1096 I actually looked this up right when Roly said it, because I remember reading about the ZW-sex selection system. You almost got it: It's ZZ that encodes male reproductive organs, though. And it's done birds and some reptiles that have these chromosomes. Cue the jerks claiming Roly is a lizard person in 3 … 2 …1… 😆😉
I used to work for a paediatric endocrinologist. If transphobes had even an inkling of how many intersex and trans people have been around them, for many decades now, I swear they'd lose their fekkin minds. I worked for this doctor over 20 years ago. Trans teens existed back then and nobody knew, so the conservatives didn't get their knickers in a bunch over it. The second they knew these people existed, they're all in a moral panic tizzie. It's just ridiculous.
Isn’t it wild that they accuse us of reinforcing gender stereotypes, and most of them hold to chromosomes as the determining factor, but then everywhere else they spout bullshit like that that proves gender isn’t about chromosomes to them at all
@@whoknows4780 All those "only a real man does X" memes you see are strangely affirming. Seriousely though, we can't win. If a man does something traditional seen as feminine he's a girl. If a trans woman does it, she's not
I’m sorry if this ends up offensive, I really don’t mean it to be, but I’m a bit confused as to how you can be both nonbinary and a woman? Genuinely just trying to learn so I can be a more inclusive person.
@@justforsoundclippin1002 it's alright. I guess a struggle a lot with my label and don't feel fully like a woman (maybe that's just internalised transphobia) but I guess it's like I don't feel fully a woman, but still identify it with somewhat. feminine no binary would probably make more sense, but non-binary trans woman or trans feminine feels right
That's what makes the hate so strange. It's just recycled, repeated trash points that uses a different noun every generation. I had to explain so many times how the points those people make about bathrooms was the same points that were made during segregation/Jim Crow Era. It just gets a new coat of paint
@ChangedWinds People fear what they don't understand and they don't understand anything different from them. Some of the most atrocious things in human history boil down to being this simple, just with awful energy to do harm.
@@tinkeramma oh dear the eternal victims . Nobody hates you ,get over yourselves . No AMAB transwoman is valid in any way .The only true trans is any AFAB transwoman.
My mom actually knows what her chromosomes look like and I’ve seen them too. She’s a cytogeneticist and got the opportunity to karyotype her own chromosomes as part of her training. All of her other coworkers did it during their training too and some of them found some really unexpected things. I’ve heard something along the lines of “do you know your own chromosomes?” in a few of these videos now so I thought it would be interesting to share. P.S. By no means am I using this comment to promote the idea that chromosomes are a valid reason to be transphobic because there is NO excuse for hate.
When I did 23andme, I was so disappointed when my chromosomes came back XY. I'd been hoping they'd come back XX and I would be vindicated for feeling the way I did about my gender.
@@xylophone_888 I know that now, but earlier in my life I was searching for some kind of validation of how I felt. As a kid, I wondered if my parents how somehow "stolen" my ovaries and prevented me from being the girl I was supposed to be. It sounds silly now, but at the time I was desperate to find some explanation for how I felt.
@@electronics-girl sorry, this made me cackle.. "stole my ovaries" In all seriousness I hope that you are doing better now. I understand the need for validation and how crushing that can be. Just know that you are amazing and that you can validate yourself because you deserve happiness
I remember calling out a transphobic person on Twitter who was trying to argue with me about whether or not trans people should be allowed to use the right toilets and I said to them "how many trans people do you think you've shared a public restroom with and had no idea about it? Because I bet it's way more than you think" they didnt have a rebuttal after that they just blocked me 😭
Take the block as a badge of honour. I was blocked by so many prominent TERF accounts back in 2016/2017. I think every single one of them either got banned, or went full private. One of them died though(Magdalen Berns). I did not enjoy when there were 20 accounts dogpiling me constantly though(I was one of the first targets of the twitter TERF-wars).
The whole toilet argument never made any sense to me. They act like the triangle body person sign is like Dora saying "Swiper no swiping" but for stopping bad people. They were already going to commit a crime, and one of the worst ones at that, a sign wasn't going to stop them. All stopping trans people from using the right toilet does is put the trans people at risk.
@Typoman Do you really think there are no Muslim trans people? I think you'd be surprised how many there are & you might in fact know some without realising it. And guess what? The world didn't end. Almost as if being trans is no big deal.
@camicia nera Oh, you again. Projecting too, lovely~ It's sad that someone saying uncle makes you think of keeping children in a basement, was your childhood bad, or are _you_ the creepy one in your family? ♥️
@camicia nera Okay? I'm going to go back to reporting you now, but it's nice to know that the way you think makes as much sense as the things you say. 😊
If anything, Jamie getting called "bitchy" is proof that that accusation means very little and you should not take it seriously if it's aimed against you
Someone called me "a bitch" in TH-cam comments, and it felt so awesome, because no one had ever called me that before. I wanted to thank the person for affirming my gender.
Im glad that Jammi is here to clear the clouds with alot of misconceptions about trans people and the untruthful stereotypes Edit: what I meant by this comment wasn't about this video, its about Jammi in general. Im saying that bc alot of people think all Trans people only do this for attention, act or look a certain way that is badly stereotypical, turn into the next Karen when you mis-gender them, or are sexual predators, blah blah blah you get the point I am assuming, and im not saying I can vouch for all the Trans people out there but Im just saying that he is a very respectful guy and his views and opinions come out at nice as he tries to put it. Jammi is what most of then are like; People. They are just people like everyone else, like you, like me. And if you don't care about pronouns then good for you, but it isn't about you. And it isn't about them. Its about mutual respect. Respect for another person's identity and who they are, how they go on about in this world.
@@shimmer281 *He. And he clears the clouds whenever he says anything along the lines of “Just remember that this isn’t true for everyone.” Making sure people know that people are different.
I heard chickens have a Z chromosome. And they can be trans as well. Read this article about a farmer who only kept chickens and one morning found a rooster between them. Chicken apparently have only one functional ovary. If it fails (due to a cyst or something) the other ovary develops into a testicle and starts producing testosterone. And the chicken turns into a rooster. It’s the best argument when someone tells you being trans is unnatural. It literally happens in nature.
Bet you some transphobe will cry "Yeah but we're not chickens", in the same manner to when someone mentions clownfish changing sexes. Even though the whole point of mentioning the chickens and the clownfishes is to point out that this happens in nature, and therefore is completely natural. It's just that in humans, some medical assistance is needed for people to transition to appear more like the gender that they identify as.
All sorts of animals can do this, it’s very common in all manner of amphibians. There are also studies on elephants being transgender, they are matriarchal (the herd is led by a female elephant) but there have been male elephants that were chosen to lead the group. Homosexuality has been found in almost every species on earth, homophobia has only ever been found in one.
'How does it feel to be so dependant on drugs' probably the funniest thing ever cause they are so confident and then have no idea what they are saying lol
When my friend’s two youngest came out as trans, I recommended your TH-cam channel because you have always been so,e open about your journey and you are so educated in these issues
I literally just binged all the Roly/Jamie collabs over night- and this popped up today! I am FTM and my dad is trying to learn and process stuff… he loves the content and is learning a lot, especially seeing how many false narratives are presented in the media. Thank you both for being amazing! It feels good to see other people deal with hate and be able to laugh.
I'm so glad you have a supportive dad! I know an MTF youth and her journey has been difficult. Her mother is an incredible support in spite of being very religious. Without sharing too many details, that support has been expensive in many ways, but she supports her daughter to the moon and back because that's her child. It makes all the difference. I love them both so much.
@@tinkeramma yeah my dad doesn’t get it, but Mexico has 3 genders culturally so he’s just going with it. My mom was not OK with it, and she passed in September… so my dad starting researching stuff since he’s religious and conservative… he’s come to the conclusion that law makers lie an awful lot! I do think it’s really sad that some people basically have kids because they intend to plan their lives… it’s very unfair!
i love the absolute vibe here, the complete contrast of energy b/w these two. roly's bad cop energy and jammi just being the wholesome sweetpotato. also i love the way they explain and clear certain things
You're dependent on the hormones your body is meant to have. They are talking steroids their body is not meant to have, nor do they have any biological conditions to warrant any medication.
@@dlg78they have Gender Dysphoria disorder which is a certified disorder and has some adverse effects on mental and physical health of transgender and Enby people … It’s very much a biological condition.. Even if it’s only in the brain and not in the body! Like depression is also only in the brain and yet it is considered were much biological often times generational.. The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition, Text Revision (DSM-5-TR)1 provides for one overarching diagnosis of gender dysphoria with separate specific criteria for children and for adolescents and adults. Bruh
@@myplaylist7007 LGBTQ+ is one community. You seem to have no recollection that some of the biggest fighters for gay rights were trans women. The community is together for a reason, and you've fallen into the conservative trap to try to tear us apart to make us weaker.
@@pieflower6419 I don't want to tear you apart, i just want you to realize that human beings can't change there sex/gender. Also gay men in dress and makeup don't make them women.
I actually used to watch Blaire White when I was younger. I had just found out what trans people were (honestly didn't even know being a trans man was a thing) and wanted to find out more. I'm so glad that other trans TH-camrs were in my recommended later on. If I hadn't seen people like You, Sam Collins, Samantha Lux, etc. I probably would've ended up as a transphobe 😭😭😭
I used to be part of her community as well. I got a hard slap in the face when I met Cursed E on twitter years ago. A few months later, I ended up getting blocked by Blaire after one slight comment about her(no mention, she just reverse searches her name). Back then I had the potential to be a public advocate for trans women, even was in private discussion groups with her, Theryn, Contra and a few others. Sadly my life went to the shitter and honestly? That was better for me.
I watched her too, back in the day. I subbed because of the video where she talked about how there was very little space given for her male classmates to talk about abusive relationships where they had been the victim of, and there almost being this unspoken sentiment that the mean things done and said to them by women was something to be shrugged off or laughed at, and thinking it was kind of a strange that her outspokenly feminist teacher was perpetuating that. Ya know, worthwhile take. Believe it or not, she has them sometimes. Most of her career this far consists of bullying children to the brink of suicide and reactionary hot takes though. Not even worth hate-watching.
It's a fairly common experience (especially just a few years ago in the US) to know about trans women but to not know or understand the other can and does exist, I'm v glad you got a wider array of examples later on
@Cat Catterson "a broken clock is still right twice a day" I way, WAY back when subbed to Shane Dawson when he talked about his struggles with suicidal ideation, and how people should reach out, talk about it and not be made to feel isolated, needless to say I don't think he's a smart and insightful person because he had the rare obvious good take I found out it was a similar switch with just about everyone, it seems counterintuitive for someone who one moment advocated for mental health to then later in his career use suicide as the butt of what, 50% of his "jokes" and skits, but people, especially if they're influencers as their career, are fine with contradicting themselves and being inconsistent. Good on you for seeing that yourself, but I wish others would take note of it more often ngl.
@@ZONE-fj8lywhere's the line? Are you a child on Monday but Tuesday morning, bam, you're an adult. It's simplistic thinking to ignore the grey area, the transitional spaces, and the lived experiences of trans folk all around you.
@@aprilk141 Just because there are obvious grey areas in every aspect of life it doesn't mean trans women are women. Obviously there are transitional stages. It's a process, not an instantaneous transition. Duh.
Unfortunately, there's allot of people now who do look down on people for needing to take medication, even for illness, and it's really shitty. I'm on a whole lot because of chronic pain, mental health, asthma, and other chronic conditions. Without medications, I'm in extreme pain, can't breathe, and my brain pressure could cause blindness or even death. But that's no reason to go and be dependent medication 🙄🙄🙄
I'm sorry that is even a thing - and like, what about diabetics who rely on insulin to survive? Is that seen as a negative, too? Seriously, people, get over yourselves - people are people and we should embrace their ability to live their lives to the fullest however that takes shape. Best wishes and best luck - from a fellow chronic pain sufferer!
Healthism and ableism are real. It's massive ignorance. Well, one way or another through age, illness, or injury they're going to find out and either be miserable or learn and wake up.
I'm terribly sorry you have to go through that. These people that hate modern medicine seriously baffle me. What? They want to go back to a time when you could die from a cold or diarrhoea? It seriously has fascistic vibes to me when they want people who need medication to survive to not get that medication
@@byecatsstacey7467 A lot of people believe diabetes is only caused by being overweight and overeating constantly, so they just go "lose weight, don't rely on insulin" and forget that type 1 diabetics exist.
Mentioned to an old coworker I was on an infusion for Crohn’s and he said ‘I’d never take medication. It’s weak to depend on that kind of thing. What are you gonna do when the world ends?’ Idk, bro. Die? 🙄
11:52 also cis people sometimes need to go on hormone therapy?? Not because they are trans and have dysphoria about their body, but for physical health reasons, because their body naturally doesn't produce enough of the sex hormones that are necessary for bodily function! One of my family members is a cis man and gets T shots lol
And how people think puberty blockers are demonic and harmful to kids when...cis kids with precocious puberty are on them just fine...because kids shouldn't start puberty at 5
if they add luxreia i think i would be on the floor gasping for air, imagine 3 of them, luxreia and roly is chaos, roly and jamie is chaos, add luxreia as third i think it would be chaotic bomb..
I transitioned. Detransitioned. Couldn't stand being a woman a second time and retransitioned. Im pretty sure that I know Im a man at this point. I tried twice to do what the rude people want. Im so tired of people saying youll detransition one day or youll do this one day. Like. Nah. I already tried that life path twice. Not for me.
jamie and roly are the two main trans stereotypes sitting next to each other and I love it. the loud punk dude with the big tattoo sleeve and piercings everywhere, and the gentle wholesome British dude in a cosy jumper
The medication thing absolutely _boggles_ my mind (though this is more general drug use and not just testosterone or stuff like that). They say people shouldn't use it as a "crutch" to live better lives, but they basically do what my glasses do! I wear my glasses because I'm practically blind without them, the same as someone with antidepressants take them to feel better! They're not a "crutch", they help me to live life as "normal" as possible (even if I know that won't happen, it still helps and that shouldn't be hated on)! People seriously hate anything new that's aimed to help others different to them I swear!
If your leg was mangled, you're going to need either a prosthetic or "a crutch" to get around. Because that's what a crutch is for: to help you function with a damaged body part.
@@John_Weiss Exactly! I know I put crutch in quotations (I know it's an actual thing) but that was just my way of showing people using it in a negative way like a insult. Even though some people need it to live but _somehow_ they're the bad person for wanting to live as peacefully as possible
@@PinkPuffball1992 Yeah like I'm a cis girl and I know I have testosterone as well, just less than a cis man, cause they also have estrogen, but _noooo_ that doesn't make sense in their little brains
@@CrazyCreator04 We are very much on the same wavelength! Everyone seems to forget that a crutch is truly necessary when you can't walk or a leg is healing.
The way Roly describe the flow of conversation, is exactly how my adhd brain works. I'll start at one point and end up in a totally different place but end up connecting back to my original point eventually lol. This was a great video ♡ It sucks people are being idiots leaving Jamie hate but I definitely want to see more of this kind of video ♡
12:55 BITCHY? we looking at the same person right? he's literally the biggest angel. i cant even imagine him being angry or remotely rude to someone. He's the definition of an angel. how can you look at that face and say bitchy
It made me laugh. I'd love to bump into Jamie on the street so I can give him a big hug. Yes, I'm cis-het, but I love getting perspective and being able to help give other people perspective, and Jamie really helps me with this in a very happy way
Irt chromosomes, in one of my human genetics units at uni, we learned how to analyse a person's karyotype (their full set of chromosomes, including sex chromosomes) by using our own. It was essentially a way for the uni to save money, so they didn't have to pay for sample material for us to process and analyse, but as students, we loved being able to look at our own chromosomes. A young woman in my class found out that she had XY chromosomes, meaning she had androgen insensitivity. It's basically a non-functional Y chromosome, because her body doesn't respond to male androgens and therefore, developed female physical characteristics, but is completely infertile. She was a refugee from a country where she'd never had access to comprehensive medical care, so despite having difficulty conceiving with her husband, she'd never known. The uni provided free counseling for her (which is offered to anyone who finds alarming things in their genetics through that human genetics major) and last I heard, she wanted to pursue a PhD related to sex chromosomes, inspired by her own experience. So yeah, Jamie is 100% right -- a LOT of transphobes would find surprising things in their own karyotypes, lol. Before we did the actual lab work, our lab tutor made a point of warning us that some of us may not find the sex chromosomes we were expecting, that it happened a couple of times every year across the different classes and that counseling was available.
I just wanted to say thank you for these videos! I've only just gotten the confidence (desperation?) to start exploring my gender recently, and while a lot of the videos on trans issues are extremely valuable, learning about transphobia has made me even more scared to think about anything. Lighthearted videos like this (and especially the LGBT+ positive memes) help reassure me that it's okay to think about.
You have a huge community that supports you and is rooting for you. Good luck exploring your gender! Self-discovery is so cool. I hope you come to feel comfortable with however you decide to identify, label or no ^_^
I find Roly overwhelming, they have so much energy. If an iota of Roly's energy could be syphoned off and administered into my system, it would make a huge difference to the quality of my life! lol
when people criticize people for "being dependent" on drugs, my go to response is "okay you're dependent on them too? your body just makes them naturally so dont give me shit for taking adderall"
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE DETRANSITIONER ARTICLE REFERENCE!! Edit: Haven’t read it yet, but this is the kind of stuff I need for family arguments rn, and I didn’t know what to look up to find accurate results 😊💛
Those are the bluest eyes I’ve ever seen. I’ve recently decided to come out as trans at work and it’s really scary but I’m still doing it. I hope my coworkers don’t respond like some of the transphobia in this video
Roly is known for wearing crazy contact lenses. He has at least a dozen pairs in different colours & patterns. I'm sure these ones are just another set from his growing collection.
I had to deal with a trans-hating business client this morning - I needed THIS VIDEO - so much. THANK YOU. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Re: being dependent on drugs - I'm a diabetic with kidney disease so, WTF is up with THAT comment - LMAO - I can't eeeeeeven ....
FR like they say that we make it a big deal out of it (yeah! to show that nowadays is a littleeeee more accepting than before when it comes to lgbt, and to allow the community to feel welcomed) but then they'll make whole rants about why they hate us for no reason 😅
@@ancient_technique honestly, please take my advice. What on earth does the gospel have to do with being transgender. And honestly, before you comment anything that has to do with being trans, I highllllyyy recommend that you actually learn what it is.
@@water_wav3 the gospel is the testimony of Jesus christ , listen kid you can believe in your idiotic way of thinking (transgender) or you can believe in the gospel and reach enlightenment. not whatever the hell trans delusion you think 😂
@@ancient_technique no because why do you think that understanding your gender is soooo terrrible. Like you must really care about us. Honestly, in the end, trans people will be the happy and enlightened one like it ain’t our fault that you are so insecure about yourself that you have to waste your time saying random stuff. And I ain’t a “kid”, I’m a grown individual with dignity and respect. Something you clearly will never have in your lifetime. Also why are you on this video anyways, do you have something to share… 🏳️⚧️👀
12:44 Right??? Like, I take antidepressants and stomach meds, and if someone were to give me grief about that, I'd probably ask if they'd rather I vomit stomach acid on them. The antidepressants keep my emotions more in check and the stomach meds help prevent heartburn which would otherwise be a daily issue.
OH MY GOD. I've never seen Roly before. HE IS STUNNING. YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME I NEED MORE COLLABS HOLY SHI- On the sad note, my FTM friend was absolutely destroyed today by our teachers so as a good FTM friend I'm gonna send this video to him- And for all of you who are struggling too - you are valid and awesome! BEING 'WEIRD' IS COOL! And rememer! -PHOBES ARE JUST JEALOUS!!
I don't suppose you're in a country where the teacher can lose their job for being transphobic? I'm sorry that happened to your friend. It's good they've got you to support them!
@@j.apenrose7896 Yess, it's pretty 'normal' to be a bigot and a TERF where we live... Well, at least some teachers are normal. And we have the best psychologist a LGBT kid could ask for ^^ Thank youu you guys are getting too kind- T.T
@@shadowwolf7880 If you reckon you could get away with it, I'd recommend calling the teacher by the wrong pronouns, title, and name. Then don't label it as "teacher was being transphobic so I misgendered them" but rather go with "I'm giving the teacher the same level of respect as they give their students." I know it's likely you aren't in a position to do that, depending on how the school system works there, but yeah. I've definitely pulled that one in the past.
Iirc the detransitioning thing is even less, I think like half of those who detransitioned realized they were nonbinary or were forced out of it by family members, so even less people detransitioned because they weren’t trans. Also when I was younger I never saw myself as a girl (or a guy for that matter) and I thought that was normal until puberty when I started getting horrible dysphoria and then I was like “wait a damn minute”.
Z-chromosomes are actually a thing. Some reptiles and birds have a ZW-chromosome sex-selection-system: males have 2 'Z' and females have a 'Z' and a 'W'.
Lmaoo so true! Imagine someone looking at Jamie for the 1st time without having any info about him and calling him a "she"? That would make them sound absolutely insane! 🤣🤣🤣
We all know that transphobes wouldn't ever call Jamie a woman or refer to him as "she" if he wasn't open about being trans. As much as transphobes like to believe they can recognize a trans-person just by looking at someone, reality is that it's not as easy as people think. Even if they nitpick the tiniest of details that may suggest someone was transgender, it's still very likely that they will end up being wrong. Human bodies are extremely varied. Some female bodies will naturally be more masculine than others. Some male bodies will naturally be more feminine than others. Genes are wild, man.
@Ville You, the one posting a bazillion times a minute about how much you don't care and insisting everyone that's laughing at you must be mad. It's pretty clear you just want to be featured in the next hater video, no need to be shy about it.
@Ville 😂😂😂 Edit: Normally I don't respond to transphobes, but this one, "Ville", obviously has no job or anything else to fill their time with and donated a huge amount of effort towards adding comments on Jamie's channel, increasing it's reach and viewership, all while screaming "DON'T LISTEN TO HIM". And it's pretty F'ing funny.
This collab is silly chaotic fun. You two have vey different personalities, and it’s really fun to see you interacting with such a high energy person. You’re such a chill, laid back and calm person and Roly is loud and funny and exuberant. I really enjoyed it, and now I’m going to check out Roly’s channel.
I have actually had people say things about being dependent on medications as a cis woman on a lot of medications. And I have medical "professionals" regularly ask me if Ive considered a "drug holiday" for my psychiatric drugs but never for physical ailments...hmmm...
I did at one point have a mildly successful spiritual forum for women, BUT it included transwomen and would have nonbinary AFAB people (it was before the label existed) because it was focused on building common ground between women in spirituality that is commonly dominated by men.
That's awesome! I think it's great that you included all people who's experiences with femininity/womanhood were important to them and thier spirituality regardless of background. I'm a trans man myself, so while I wouldn't have been in that space I still understand the importance of a space like that.
@@nicolasnamed Yeah not sure if even trans-men couldn't have been included because a lot of you did experience sex-related religious discrimination as children. As an AFAB genderfluid person, who grew up in a time my label didn't exist, there are major reasons I left the church at 12. I realized as a young adult that people who identify as women that are also religious have more in common than they realize, regardless of which faith they belong to (I am Pagan btw).
@@SheWhoExists Well I have seen it three ways actually (even more academic writing) same is true of "cis" ciswomen (as a modifying prefix) cis women (as an adjective), and whatever cis-women would be classified as...so it's confusing at times. I have also been told being nonbinary makes me transgender, most commonly written that way...but if it's always trans man/trans woman wouldn't also be trans gender?
@@catherines8020 I wholly agree that it's a little bit of a mess, but generally a space is the most "correct" since cis/cisgender and trans/transgender are generally accepted as adjectives when modifying. As to the transgender vs transgender, it's written transgender and cisgender because trans and cis are shortenings of those words, not modifiers in that case.
The relying on drugs on got me because my brother is a type one diabetic so relies on injecting insulin, my mum has a thyroid condition and has to take Thyroxine
Comment from a middle aged, whiter than snow, cis woman. If trans people are not allowed to have surgery and/or take medication to make their bodies feel more comfortable to live in and to be a truer representation of the person they are inside, then they should also be against.... lets see.... makeup.... piercing, tummy tucks, breast augmentation, butt lifts, exercise, makeup, hair dye, tattoo's, liposuction..... the list is long. They should also be against anyone who requires insulin, or chemotherapy, or birth control, or depression, or anxiety. Not to mention how much they would enjoy their ADHD child NOT having its meds...... FFS.... none of us are the people that we are "born as". That's called an INFANT. Clearly some people never got past that stage of reasoning and understanding. Love your channel
10:40 Jamie is so right about recycling bigotry. The attack helicopter thing or worrying about furries etc is just like when people fearmonger about gay marriage leading to a guy marrying his lamp and legalizing bestiality, etc.
Thank you for talking about chromosomes! So many people just assume that you HAVE to have only XX or XY when there are like five different chromosome sets that doesn't result in fetal issues. My fiance only has one X Chromosome and that's it which is an intersex trait. I have a hormonal imbalance and was diagnosed with PCOS which can be an intersex issue as well as an issue CIS women have. (I'm Genderqueer 😙✌)
I've heard some people de transitions because of experiencing prejudice and bullying for being trans. It's not a nice world. But from myself having gender dysphoria it was really hard to have to wait 4 decades for Top surgery. Saved my life. Being on testosterone really helped me mentally and emotionally but I won't ever probably be able to pass as male it was more a personal thing then a social thing. The autonomy of our bodies is such a precious private and important thing. Thank you for being you, for always being brave and cute and helping us deal with all the transphobia. Your lightness helps me be less afraid
I noticed I've been getting a lot of trans-directed ads lately, and I know exactly why. It's because I watch you and OT so much. And, honestly, I'm proud to be getting those ads. BTW I'm gender fluid myself. 💖
The volume is so difficult to adjust for the two of you! 😂 Your guest could teach my actors to project for the back of the theatre and you’re so calming and soft spoken. I’m sorry you get these awful comments but I also love that you’re reacting to them and showing what fools they are, and that you’ve got backup!
1st off: Roly's eyes are absolutely captivating, also really nice colours. 2nd off: Wanna hug him 3rd: Such a fun video. Wonderful dynamic at play and I'll check out his video now to get more of it.
some fun detransition facts: -the detransition rate is under 1% and the majority of recorded detransitions aren't due to regret, in fact the majority are when trans people are pushed into detransitioning by transphobic communities and many re-transition later on. -(depending on the specific surgery) the regret rate is far lower than other surgeries such a hip replacements, knee surgeries, plastic surgeries or even chemo courses. One reason for this Is because of the low risks, trans surgeries are majority safe with few long term side affects or long term medication. In the UK The long waiting lists of the NHS and other segregated health services also contribute, you wait years for a surgery, you're unlikely to regret it. These other surgeries with higher regret rates don't require mental examinations to be done. Just trans people. The whole "loads of people detrasition" thing is a massive myth. detransition is also not easy, it makes it sound as if its an on the dime decision, its not. anyway they're fun things to bear in mind, abigail Thorne over at philosiphy tube did a really good video on the NHS and trans health care. stay safe love ya'll ❤️
@@dlg78 I'm afraid you're incorrect, a very quick Google will tell you there's the difference of 67% suicidal thoughts to 3% suicidal thoughts that occur before and after transition. of course transition won't cure mental health issues to do with lack of being heard and supported and being able to be yourself but for those who need it to feel comfortable In their own skin, there is a marked improvement. The change your referring to could be due to a lack of being accepted by family post surgery, or a small percentage of those transitioned people? please do a little research on the topic from unbiased sources, they may suprise you :)
if you're referring to a Swedish study I found, I can't guarantee the legitimacy but I can tell you the suicide rate before transition definitely is not zero as the youth suicidal rate is 1 in 3 or 1 in 4 depending on your source. even the study Concludes that surgery is effective in easing gender dysphoria and suggests more access to therapy and resources for post transition trans people rather than not have people transition at all.
On the subject of "how does it feel being dependent on so many drugs?" My child has a lot of illnesses and so do I. I actually have been lectured about of drugs my child is on and has taken. 1. insurance makes you try xyz before you can take the one you know works. 2. I will list each one and what they do and ask people which one should we take away? That usually shuts them up. I am dreading these drugs conversations again when they find out about hormone medications.
When I FINALLY went on medications to treat my MULTIPLE mental illnesses, my mother referred to it as "you're addicted!" and it was like, yeah... addicted to serotonin and NOT being perpetually suicidal.
I just don't understand how intolerant people can choose to stay on that lane and not have a pinch of empathy for another human being... My brain just can't get around that...
Wow. The whole section about being weird and unique hit me right in the feels. I've been called weird my whole life and I didn't really understand why. Even in uni when I tried my hardest to be "normal", it seemed completely unattainable. Now that I pretend not to care anymore about being called a weirdo, it still kinda hurts when I do. But the section actually made me feel good about myself for once. TLDR; I wasn't really expecting the uplifting messages from this video. Thank you 💜
I love being weird because I give myself permission to be myself. You don't have to be weird if you don't want to be. It's just a word. No one can make it stick to you if you choose not to embrace it. Same thing for being "normal." If what feels best is just being Ellanannette Vega, be that and unapologetically yourself.
The gout thing and the c word following Roly and Luxeria everywhere they go is hilarious. Jamie being so nice and kind about the whole thing is just wonderful ❤
we love gentle plant dad and aggressively supportive tattoo dad! youtube has been pushing the transphobia onto my recommended lately, I need more trans goodness 🙏🏻🙏🏻
I want a show where Matt Walsh is just locked in a room with these two until they fix him, with them pulling a good cop/bad cop type thing on him until he either stops being such a shithead or cracks under the pressure and tells us where his secret hard drives are.
@@tjenadonn6158 YES 👏
@@tjenadonn6158 That would be awesome
Hope they stop doing that to you!! Also remember you are hella valid!!
Dude Idk what's up with TH-cam, but for months it's been forcefully putting me on that side of TH-cam. I only fixed it by deleting my watch history.
It felt like TH-cam wanted to convert me 😅, it sucked.
But if it happens to you, deleting your watch history does fix it.
Your mic must HATE me 😂😂😂😂 Thanks for having me again can’t wait to film more next decade!!!
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Just thought I’d say that I adore your shirt!!
Jamie needs you for videos like this because he's just too nice to roast anyone properly 😂
I was _living_ for this video, Roly!
It's a delight watching you rip all of those bigots a new one!
jamie gives off the vibe of like that one family member you actually want to talk to at family gatherings
How did you perfectly capture his energy in one sentence!? How!?
He's the cool cousin we all deserved to have growing up.
@A goose with a knife I wish I had a cousin like that
The cousin you look for and when you find them the gathering is alnost over
OMG I WAS LITERALLY THINKING THIS THROUGHOUT THE ENTIRE VIDEO LOL 💙💙
As a cis woman. I am “dependent” on “drugs” like birth control to avoid bleeding and extreme pain.
Thank you Jammie for defending women who can’t have kids. We appreciate you.
I'm not a cis woman, but same for me. Sending You love, sis' . ❤️
Id love to be "dependent" on "drugs" for my ADHD, but i need health insurance first
There is no such thing as "cis" (made up woke word)
@@shimmer281 cis has been used for thousands of years. Even the Roman’s used it.
@Andrei Vasilevskiy lol all words are made up, silly
On the detransition rate: Putting aside the fact that the majority of those are nonbinary people who were pushed into transition they didn't want, and/or trans people who faced immense societal backlash for their transition... a 1% regret rate is a goddamn miracle from a medical perspective. Like, having a kid has a 14% regret rate. A knee replacement, anywhere between something like 30-60%. A 1% regret rate for any procedure, let alone COLLECTION of procedures, is UNHEARD OF.
Not only that, but trans supportive healthcare ALSO helps the people who genuinely detransition. The goal is gender affirming, which includes people who thought they were trans but weren't.
This might sound bad but I honestly believe that most detransitioners are brainwashed by their religion or cultural norms and then exploited by transphobes as "evidence" that trans people aren't valid.
@@pennyforyourthots Trans healthcare is beneficial for everybody period.
You really think only 1% regret the transition ? The suicide rate after a transition is like over 20% so yeah that checks out....
Literally I felet pressure from myself and from some people in heath care to transition physically,I didn`t but I am still nonbinary
Thanks to Roly for being the "bad cop" so Jamie can remain wholesome lol
Don't you mean the Bad [Quack]?
@@ariel_haymarket LOL yessss my mistake
Hahaha exactly!!!
honestly roly is way more my speed, he's right jamie is too nice to his haters, the [quack]s lol
Honestly sent me into anxious panic mode even through the screen.
I agree with the sentiments but I am a shy lil bean.
As a person born with Epilepsy; feels pretty damned great to have been on medication for 42 years, and still be alive. I'm glad to have my blood pressure meds. How does it feel to be dependent on meds? Feels like I'm alive. Lol.
The thing is, they have no idea what they are talking about... some people think pill=drug and drug=bad, but come on, you can't live without drugs, and you can't berate someone (or try to at least) for taking meds. Hormones aren't drugs, for starters, but a lot of people in the world, hetero-cis assholes included, depends on heart medication or blood pressure regulators. Are they, the diabetics, the immunosuppresed, the cancer patients... all bad because they depend on drugs? What about the fact that coffee, tea, sugar and alcohol are drugs? Does that make everyone that drinks a coffee or tea bad for they drug's consumption?
@@spiker.ortmann Valid. I guess I'm a drug addict in some of their eyes, I drink tea or coffee everyday!
@@Tardisntimbits well, in South America most of us drink "mate" everyday...
@@spiker.ortmann I'm Canadian, but my Great Gramma was British, so I drink more tea than coffee (I cut to fruit teas in the evenings, but drink coffee or black tea during the day) due to her influence. I'd love to try mate someday, it sounds interesting after reading up on it a little!
@@Tardisntimbits just don't be fooled, that shit IS addictive as hell... once you're on it for a while, you can't spend a day without or you have headaches... nothing wrong with drinking once or twice, but don't get too much right away. I remember withdrawal from coffee, way worse, but still, i can't be a whole day without mate or i get too moody to be around myself... 😁
I'm a trans man and, while it's not my job, I can lay brick, install flooring, fix and/or replace toilets and sinks, etc.
And I learned it all from my cisgender mother.
cisgender 😂
Thank you tho! My mom taught me how to use a saw, find wall studs, a level. Anything a man could do. My mom said bet. Then taught me. The only thing my dad did that she didn't was cars. Also my dad cooked and cleaned. It's almost like living life has nothing to do with gender and you need these skills, all of them, to get by.
A "new" (It's been out for a couple of years now) children's cartoon challenged gender norms and roles with the parents. My sister was watching it and I happened to walk by when one of the main characters was like "We need to make holes in this piece of wood, but we're too little. I know, lets ask MOMMY if she can use HER drill to make the holes."
It took me by surprise because as a Millenial, all of our kids shows always had the father being the one with the power tools and the mechanical knowledge.
The dad in the show is a stay at home dad, and both parents work together to guide the kids, there's no "Mommy said no, but Daddy is going to say yes".
The relationship between the siblings is great too.
@@ZimVader-0017 what is the show?
I worked rebar and concrete masonry in my twenties and guess who outworked me? The 58 year old cis woman called the Lady, who had been doing it since she was 17. This 5'4" waif of a woman would pick up and walk off with 4 concrete blocks. Gender don't mean crap to ANY ability.
i'm cis but the "stay weird" thing resonates with me heavily because when i was bullied as a kid for having ADHD, deciding to not be ashamed of my weirdness was one of the things that kept me alive
Your not cis. You are ether male or female.
My public school years sucked because of my ADHD. I love that I'm neurodivergent. It's my superpower.
@@lydiakies9053 isnt it weird when you just, talk to people, and they're terrified that you can just start a conversation.
Exactly the same experience I'm an ally because I was the weird kid in school now I'm still an ally but know it's because of ADHD.
As someone who's ND and queer I heavily believe ND and queer people need to stick together, we always get targeted around the same times for similar reasons, and even if you're cis het and ND, some struggles overlap.
There's a story about a former Olympic athlete from India. Since birth, she had physically presented as a woman, but because of the scare about trans women athletes, she had to do a chromosome test. It turned out that she was genetically male but had a condition called androgen insensitivity. This condition meant that her cells didn't react to testosterone, meaning that she has XY chromosomes but a physically female body. But because she had a Y chromosome, she was permanently banned from competing professionally.
God, transphobia hurts everyone... all this trans women fear is just reskinned sexism and aligns awfully well with reskinned racism as well. Body features used to harass trans women are also the features used to claim women of color aren't real women or feminine enough
@@awaredeshmukh3202 I'm a CIS woman, and even if cis women had full equality I'd fight for the rights of trans people. But the fact is, laws that aim at trans women ALWAYS negatively affect cis women. So regardless of what gender we were assigned at birth, we need to stand together. because a world where trans people are viewed as equal is a world where ALL people are viewed as equal.
@@DragonFae16 exactly!
My god, that poor woman. I can’t believe she was banned for a literal genetic condition that isn’t her fault!
there was also similar story about Polish professional runner who had the same condition, she also got disqualified and banned from competing,I don't remember her name
One time someone replied to me on a comment I wrote on a video and in the comment I wrote something among the lines of "people who are transgender are normal" and the person replying to me wrote "You'll never be a real woman" and I replied with "I'm not trans but I support trans people because that's what nice people do"
Yeah, what about basic human rights? They’re outrageous
I had a similar experience. I said I supported trans rights and bro was like "You'll never be a woman". And I was like yeah, I'm a cis man lol
Transphobes not realizing that the world is full of us cis allies. Or maybe they just forget because their brain is so full of transphobic outrage.
…and if you'd responded with only, "I am a woman," those Arschtrompeten would've then told you that you'll never be a real man. Seriously, they're so desperate to abuse someone else that they'll just keep grasping at whatever.
lmao you literally could be a cis woman, a cis man, a trans man, or any kind of nonbinary person who just SUPPORTS TRANS PEOPLE like a decent human being. ppl just make assumptions
I just had to say that Jamie was on my school’s PowerPoint for LGBT+ History month as a positive lgbt+ influencer. It made me very happy to see
That's amazing
Nice !!!!!
I wish my school taught lgbtq+ history 🥲
@@Its_Ezri_motherfuckers it’s was literally just one PowerPoint and it wasn’t that good. My school say they’re super supportive and have 0 tolerance for any discrimination but teachers don’t hear everything that the students say and one or two PowerPoints a year don’t really change people’s views and actions
Yess!
1. Jamie: "I'm not on many meds, but if I were, what's wrong with that?" Thanks for knocking down that accidental(?) ableism! I'm a disabled woman who takes about 10 pills a day.
2. Jamie: "Homophobia is just recycled racism, and transphobia is just recycled homophobia." Very insightful!
3. There are actually some animals (mainly birds) whose sex chromosomes are WZ instead of XY (although I don't remember what combos are male or female), so maybe Roly is so unique because he is part bird, lol jk
Birds and some reptiles do have W & Z Chromosomes! The males typically have WW and the females WZ; it's these pairings that give certain reptiles, such as the Komodo Dragon, to undergo parthenogensis :)
@@dragonsurge1096 I actually looked this up right when Roly said it, because I remember reading about the ZW-sex selection system. You almost got it: It's ZZ that encodes male reproductive organs, though.
And it's done birds and some reptiles that have these chromosomes.
Cue the jerks claiming Roly is a lizard person in 3 … 2 …1… 😆😉
@@John_Weiss Thank you for picking me up on this
@@dragonsurge1096 Glad to help! 😁
@@krishaven snails, male snails become female after mating, females become male after mating, there is an example
I used to work for a paediatric endocrinologist. If transphobes had even an inkling of how many intersex and trans people have been around them, for many decades now, I swear they'd lose their fekkin minds. I worked for this doctor over 20 years ago. Trans teens existed back then and nobody knew, so the conservatives didn't get their knickers in a bunch over it. The second they knew these people existed, they're all in a moral panic tizzie.
It's just ridiculous.
Jammi’s soft-spoken, gentle nature and Roly’s loud, outgoing nature is such an unlikely yet fitting combo
I as a non binary trans woman who can't brick lay or lift heavy goods, guess my gender is valid ☺☺
Isn’t it wild that they accuse us of reinforcing gender stereotypes, and most of them hold to chromosomes as the determining factor, but then everywhere else they spout bullshit like that that proves gender isn’t about chromosomes to them at all
@@whoknows4780 All those "only a real man does X" memes you see are strangely affirming. Seriousely though, we can't win. If a man does something traditional seen as feminine he's a girl. If a trans woman does it, she's not
@@slantedframes2334 Gee … funny how that works, isn't it?
I’m sorry if this ends up offensive, I really don’t mean it to be, but I’m a bit confused as to how you can be both nonbinary and a woman? Genuinely just trying to learn so I can be a more inclusive person.
@@justforsoundclippin1002 it's alright. I guess a struggle a lot with my label and don't feel fully like a woman (maybe that's just internalised transphobia) but I guess it's like I don't feel fully a woman, but still identify it with somewhat. feminine no binary would probably make more sense, but non-binary trans woman or trans feminine feels right
The point about bigotry being recycled was actually really good analysis
Great to see from such a big channel
A lot of the "child indoctrination" shit is recycled blood libel, too, which is insidious as hell
That's what makes the hate so strange. It's just recycled, repeated trash points that uses a different noun every generation. I had to explain so many times how the points those people make about bathrooms was the same points that were made during segregation/Jim Crow Era. It just gets a new coat of paint
The bigotry is towards women and children
@ChangedWinds People fear what they don't understand and they don't understand anything different from them.
Some of the most atrocious things in human history boil down to being this simple, just with awful energy to do harm.
@@tinkeramma oh dear the eternal victims . Nobody hates you ,get over yourselves . No AMAB transwoman is valid in any way .The only true trans is any AFAB transwoman.
My mom actually knows what her chromosomes look like and I’ve seen them too. She’s a cytogeneticist and got the opportunity to karyotype her own chromosomes as part of her training. All of her other coworkers did it during their training too and some of them found some really unexpected things.
I’ve heard something along the lines of “do you know your own chromosomes?” in a few of these videos now so I thought it would be interesting to share.
P.S. By no means am I using this comment to promote the idea that chromosomes are a valid reason to be transphobic because there is NO excuse for hate.
When I did 23andme, I was so disappointed when my chromosomes came back XY. I'd been hoping they'd come back XX and I would be vindicated for feeling the way I did about my gender.
@@electronics-girl but that also goes to show that your chromosomes don’t determine your gender, so yay!🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
@@electronics-girl there's even cis women with xy chromosomes btw, you're valid no matter what those tiny clusters of cells look like
@@xylophone_888 I know that now, but earlier in my life I was searching for some kind of validation of how I felt. As a kid, I wondered if my parents how somehow "stolen" my ovaries and prevented me from being the girl I was supposed to be. It sounds silly now, but at the time I was desperate to find some explanation for how I felt.
@@electronics-girl sorry, this made me cackle.. "stole my ovaries"
In all seriousness I hope that you are doing better now. I understand the need for validation and how crushing that can be. Just know that you are amazing and that you can validate yourself because you deserve happiness
I wheezed-
“You are Hetrophobic!”
“Good.”
I love that so much, god I am crying
Dude me and my friend joke about being heterophobic and say that we are to these cishet asshats.
Its funny because it doesnt even exist, there are so
I remember calling out a transphobic person on Twitter who was trying to argue with me about whether or not trans people should be allowed to use the right toilets and I said to them "how many trans people do you think you've shared a public restroom with and had no idea about it? Because I bet it's way more than you think" they didnt have a rebuttal after that they just blocked me 😭
Take the block as a badge of honour. I was blocked by so many prominent TERF accounts back in 2016/2017. I think every single one of them either got banned, or went full private. One of them died though(Magdalen Berns). I did not enjoy when there were 20 accounts dogpiling me constantly though(I was one of the first targets of the twitter TERF-wars).
Haram
The whole toilet argument never made any sense to me. They act like the triangle body person sign is like Dora saying "Swiper no swiping" but for stopping bad people. They were already going to commit a crime, and one of the worst ones at that, a sign wasn't going to stop them. All stopping trans people from using the right toilet does is put the trans people at risk.
@Typoman Do you really think there are no Muslim trans people? I think you'd be surprised how many there are & you might in fact know some without realising it. And guess what? The world didn't end. Almost as if being trans is no big deal.
@@AnneOnymaus yeah but could you tell me who's the current caliph in Islam?
Roly is like the gay uncle in the conservative family that supports you no matter what
@camicia nera
Oh, you again.
Projecting too, lovely~
It's sad that someone saying uncle makes you think of keeping children in a basement, was your childhood bad, or are _you_ the creepy one in your family? ♥️
@camicia nera
You have no idea what 'kind' I am, and your insult(?) makes no sense. 🤔
@camicia nera
Okay?
I'm going to go back to reporting you now, but it's nice to know that the way you think makes as much sense as the things you say. 😊
If anything, Jamie getting called "bitchy" is proof that that accusation means very little and you should not take it seriously if it's aimed against you
yes lmao, this insult does not work for jammi
Someone called me "a bitch" in TH-cam comments, and it felt so awesome, because no one had ever called me that before. I wanted to thank the person for affirming my gender.
It shows that they know nothing about the people they are attacking. They only know transphobic stereotypes and nothing real.
Im glad that Jammi is here to clear the clouds with alot of misconceptions about trans people and the untruthful stereotypes
Edit: what I meant by this comment wasn't about this video, its about Jammi in general. Im saying that bc alot of people think all Trans people only do this for attention, act or look a certain way that is badly stereotypical, turn into the next Karen when you mis-gender them, or are sexual predators, blah blah blah you get the point I am assuming, and im not saying I can vouch for all the Trans people out there but Im just saying that he is a very respectful guy and his views and opinions come out at nice as he tries to put it. Jammi is what most of then are like; People. They are just people like everyone else, like you, like me. And if you don't care about pronouns then good for you, but it isn't about you. And it isn't about them. Its about mutual respect. Respect for another person's identity and who they are, how they go on about in this world.
Since when does she clear up the clouds
@@shimmer281 *He. And he clears the clouds whenever he says anything along the lines of “Just remember that this isn’t true for everyone.” Making sure people know that people are different.
@Ville true! It's not surgery that decides their gender, it's them! :)
@Ville funny thing is whatever part surgery they get it's not even the real one 😹
Jamie is a he, whether you like it or not
i love their dynamic, it's giving "Excuse me he asked for no pickles", this video was very fun!
I love these because Roly is like Jamie's sassy/anger translator. They play off each other well
“Mr. President? You don’t need an anger translator, you need therapy.
I heard chickens have a Z chromosome. And they can be trans as well. Read this article about a farmer who only kept chickens and one morning found a rooster between them. Chicken apparently have only one functional ovary. If it fails (due to a cyst or something) the other ovary develops into a testicle and starts producing testosterone. And the chicken turns into a rooster. It’s the best argument when someone tells you being trans is unnatural. It literally happens in nature.
It's weird to see that nature isn't so strict when it comes to sex n gendet, and yet it's immoral for us humans...
Bet you some transphobe will cry "Yeah but we're not chickens", in the same manner to when someone mentions clownfish changing sexes. Even though the whole point of mentioning the chickens and the clownfishes is to point out that this happens in nature, and therefore is completely natural. It's just that in humans, some medical assistance is needed for people to transition to appear more like the gender that they identify as.
Correct, birds have ZZ (male) or ZW (female) chromosomes, as to quite a few other animals, including snakes and Komodo dragons.
@@LittleParody
For just about every living thing in existence it isn't natural, including humans. Omg facts make me transphobic! 🤡 🐟
All sorts of animals can do this, it’s very common in all manner of amphibians. There are also studies on elephants being transgender, they are matriarchal (the herd is led by a female elephant) but there have been male elephants that were chosen to lead the group. Homosexuality has been found in almost every species on earth, homophobia has only ever been found in one.
edit: I did NOT expect people's support so fast wow thank y'all so much like?? I appreciate it
That's wonderful!
Good for you!
Happy to hear it 😊
@green mayo man 🇺🇦 thank you!
I’m glad that you can finally feel happy and be yourself ❤️
'How does it feel to be so dependant on drugs' probably the funniest thing ever cause they are so confident and then have no idea what they are saying lol
When my friend’s two youngest came out as trans, I recommended your TH-cam channel because you have always been so,e open about your journey and you are so educated in these issues
I literally just binged all the Roly/Jamie collabs over night- and this popped up today! I am FTM and my dad is trying to learn and process stuff… he loves the content and is learning a lot, especially seeing how many false narratives are presented in the media. Thank you both for being amazing! It feels good to see other people deal with hate and be able to laugh.
I'm so glad you have a supportive dad!
I know an MTF youth and her journey has been difficult. Her mother is an incredible support in spite of being very religious. Without sharing too many details, that support has been expensive in many ways, but she supports her daughter to the moon and back because that's her child.
It makes all the difference. I love them both so much.
@@tinkeramma yeah my dad doesn’t get it, but Mexico has 3 genders culturally so he’s just going with it. My mom was not OK with it, and she passed in September… so my dad starting researching stuff since he’s religious and conservative… he’s come to the conclusion that law makers lie an awful lot! I do think it’s really sad that some people basically have kids because they intend to plan their lives… it’s very unfair!
It's nice to hear about parents who are trying ❤
i love the absolute vibe here, the complete contrast of energy b/w these two. roly's bad cop energy and jammi just being the wholesome sweetpotato.
also i love the way they explain and clear certain things
I’m a cis woman who is dependent on synthetic hormones. I have hypothyroidism. I literally cease to function if I don’t take my daily thyroxine.
You're dependent on the hormones your body is meant to have.
They are talking steroids their body is not meant to have, nor do they have any biological conditions to warrant any medication.
@@dlg78 found the transphobe
@@dlg78 not true
@@dlg78they have Gender Dysphoria disorder which is a certified disorder and has some adverse effects on mental and physical health of transgender and Enby people …
It’s very much a biological condition..
Even if it’s only in the brain and not in the body!
Like depression is also only in the brain and yet it is considered were much biological often times generational..
The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition, Text Revision (DSM-5-TR)1 provides for one overarching diagnosis of gender dysphoria with separate specific criteria for children and for adolescents and adults.
Bruh
I depend on my antidepressants. Thank goodness for modern medicine.
Thank yall for making an amazing, supportive, and accepting community! I have learned so much about myself watching you and Rolly!
This commmunity has massively failed. I will only support LGB.
@@myplaylist7007 okay???? You go be on your own bullshit 🤡🤡🤡
@@myplaylist7007 Sad to see sock account shilling for the anti-trans agenda.
@@myplaylist7007 LGBTQ+ is one community. You seem to have no recollection that some of the biggest fighters for gay rights were trans women. The community is together for a reason, and you've fallen into the conservative trap to try to tear us apart to make us weaker.
@@pieflower6419 I don't want to tear you apart, i just want you to realize that human beings can't change there sex/gender. Also gay men in dress and makeup don't make them women.
I actually used to watch Blaire White when I was younger. I had just found out what trans people were (honestly didn't even know being a trans man was a thing) and wanted to find out more. I'm so glad that other trans TH-camrs were in my recommended later on. If I hadn't seen people like You, Sam Collins, Samantha Lux, etc. I probably would've ended up as a transphobe 😭😭😭
I used to be part of her community as well. I got a hard slap in the face when I met Cursed E on twitter years ago. A few months later, I ended up getting blocked by Blaire after one slight comment about her(no mention, she just reverse searches her name). Back then I had the potential to be a public advocate for trans women, even was in private discussion groups with her, Theryn, Contra and a few others. Sadly my life went to the shitter and honestly? That was better for me.
You can be trans and transphobic, disabled and ableist, etc.
I watched her too, back in the day. I subbed because of the video where she talked about how there was very little space given for her male classmates to talk about abusive relationships where they had been the victim of, and there almost being this unspoken sentiment that the mean things done and said to them by women was something to be shrugged off or laughed at, and thinking it was kind of a strange that her outspokenly feminist teacher was perpetuating that. Ya know, worthwhile take. Believe it or not, she has them sometimes.
Most of her career this far consists of bullying children to the brink of suicide and reactionary hot takes though. Not even worth hate-watching.
It's a fairly common experience (especially just a few years ago in the US) to know about trans women but to not know or understand the other can and does exist, I'm v glad you got a wider array of examples later on
@Cat Catterson "a broken clock is still right twice a day"
I way, WAY back when subbed to Shane Dawson when he talked about his struggles with suicidal ideation, and how people should reach out, talk about it and not be made to feel isolated, needless to say I don't think he's a smart and insightful person because he had the rare obvious good take
I found out it was a similar switch with just about everyone, it seems counterintuitive for someone who one moment advocated for mental health to then later in his career use suicide as the butt of what, 50% of his "jokes" and skits, but people, especially if they're influencers as their career, are fine with contradicting themselves and being inconsistent. Good on you for seeing that yourself, but I wish others would take note of it more often ngl.
Definition of Woman: A person who idenfies as a woman.
An adult female
@@ZONE-fj8ly what makes someone an adult?
@@okasanolastname Then what makes someone a child? Boys and Girls are children, likewise that Man and Woman are adults.
@@ZONE-fj8lywhere's the line? Are you a child on Monday but Tuesday morning, bam, you're an adult.
It's simplistic thinking to ignore the grey area, the transitional spaces, and the lived experiences of trans folk all around you.
@@aprilk141
Just because there are obvious grey areas in every aspect of life it doesn't mean trans women are women. Obviously there are transitional stages. It's a process, not an instantaneous transition. Duh.
Unfortunately, there's allot of people now who do look down on people for needing to take medication, even for illness, and it's really shitty. I'm on a whole lot because of chronic pain, mental health, asthma, and other chronic conditions. Without medications, I'm in extreme pain, can't breathe, and my brain pressure could cause blindness or even death. But that's no reason to go and be dependent medication 🙄🙄🙄
I'm sorry that is even a thing - and like, what about diabetics who rely on insulin to survive? Is that seen as a negative, too? Seriously, people, get over yourselves - people are people and we should embrace their ability to live their lives to the fullest however that takes shape. Best wishes and best luck - from a fellow chronic pain sufferer!
Healthism and ableism are real. It's massive ignorance.
Well, one way or another through age, illness, or injury they're going to find out and either be miserable or learn and wake up.
I'm terribly sorry you have to go through that. These people that hate modern medicine seriously baffle me. What? They want to go back to a time when you could die from a cold or diarrhoea? It seriously has fascistic vibes to me when they want people who need medication to survive to not get that medication
@@byecatsstacey7467 A lot of people believe diabetes is only caused by being overweight and overeating constantly, so they just go "lose weight, don't rely on insulin" and forget that type 1 diabetics exist.
Mentioned to an old coworker I was on an infusion for Crohn’s and he said ‘I’d never take medication. It’s weak to depend on that kind of thing. What are you gonna do when the world ends?’ Idk, bro. Die? 🙄
11:52 also cis people sometimes need to go on hormone therapy?? Not because they are trans and have dysphoria about their body, but for physical health reasons, because their body naturally doesn't produce enough of the sex hormones that are necessary for bodily function! One of my family members is a cis man and gets T shots lol
And how people think puberty blockers are demonic and harmful to kids when...cis kids with precocious puberty are on them just fine...because kids shouldn't start puberty at 5
And birth control is hormone therapy
Please, I'm only 54 seconds in and I'm already wheezing 😭 You guys are the most chaotic duo
@green mayo man 🇺🇦 chaos gremlins!! You win the comments today 🥇
If you've never seen Roly before, go watch any of the collab videos he's done with Luxeria. _Then_ you'll see what a _real_ chaotic duo look like.
if they add luxreia i think i would be on the floor gasping for air, imagine 3 of them, luxreia and roly is chaos, roly and jamie is chaos, add luxreia as third i think it would be chaotic bomb..
@@John_Weiss - Oh yeah lmao, I've seen those two xD
I didn't really find it funny to be honest.
I transitioned. Detransitioned. Couldn't stand being a woman a second time and retransitioned. Im pretty sure that I know Im a man at this point. I tried twice to do what the rude people want. Im so tired of people saying youll detransition one day or youll do this one day. Like. Nah. I already tried that life path twice. Not for me.
jamie and roly are the two main trans stereotypes sitting next to each other and I love it. the loud punk dude with the big tattoo sleeve and piercings everywhere, and the gentle wholesome British dude in a cosy jumper
Why do both of them try to look like males, or 'cis men' so to speak?
@@dlg78 I'm not "trying" to look cis... I am xD
Roly's never said he was trans to my knowledge, only that he's gay. I think he's cis male.
quiet@@dlg78
The medication thing absolutely _boggles_ my mind (though this is more general drug use and not just testosterone or stuff like that). They say people shouldn't use it as a "crutch" to live better lives, but they basically do what my glasses do! I wear my glasses because I'm practically blind without them, the same as someone with antidepressants take them to feel better! They're not a "crutch", they help me to live life as "normal" as possible (even if I know that won't happen, it still helps and that shouldn't be hated on)! People seriously hate anything new that's aimed to help others different to them I swear!
If your leg was mangled, you're going to need either a prosthetic or "a crutch" to get around.
Because that's what a crutch is for: to help you function with a damaged body part.
Exactly! Plus the fact that they think that a naturally occurring hormone that the body makes is a drug. Like bruh
@@John_Weiss Exactly! I know I put crutch in quotations (I know it's an actual thing) but that was just my way of showing people using it in a negative way like a insult. Even though some people need it to live but _somehow_ they're the bad person for wanting to live as peacefully as possible
@@PinkPuffball1992 Yeah like I'm a cis girl and I know I have testosterone as well, just less than a cis man, cause they also have estrogen, but _noooo_ that doesn't make sense in their little brains
@@CrazyCreator04 We are very much on the same wavelength!
Everyone seems to forget that a crutch is truly necessary when you can't walk or a leg is healing.
The way Roly describe the flow of conversation, is exactly how my adhd brain works. I'll start at one point and end up in a totally different place but end up connecting back to my original point eventually lol.
This was a great video ♡
It sucks people are being idiots leaving Jamie hate but I definitely want to see more of this kind of video ♡
12:55 BITCHY? we looking at the same person right? he's literally the biggest angel. i cant even imagine him being angry or remotely rude to someone. He's the definition of an angel. how can you look at that face and say bitchy
I honestly think the commentor is talking abt themselves. XD
@@Specters0rd for real for real
I'd say Jamie is the fluffest person I've ever seen on YT.
It made me laugh. I'd love to bump into Jamie on the street so I can give him a big hug. Yes, I'm cis-het, but I love getting perspective and being able to help give other people perspective, and Jamie really helps me with this in a very happy way
i can imagine him insulting someone- but as a bit, or a quote, and taking it back and apologizing immediately after
Irt chromosomes, in one of my human genetics units at uni, we learned how to analyse a person's karyotype (their full set of chromosomes, including sex chromosomes) by using our own. It was essentially a way for the uni to save money, so they didn't have to pay for sample material for us to process and analyse, but as students, we loved being able to look at our own chromosomes.
A young woman in my class found out that she had XY chromosomes, meaning she had androgen insensitivity. It's basically a non-functional Y chromosome, because her body doesn't respond to male androgens and therefore, developed female physical characteristics, but is completely infertile. She was a refugee from a country where she'd never had access to comprehensive medical care, so despite having difficulty conceiving with her husband, she'd never known.
The uni provided free counseling for her (which is offered to anyone who finds alarming things in their genetics through that human genetics major) and last I heard, she wanted to pursue a PhD related to sex chromosomes, inspired by her own experience.
So yeah, Jamie is 100% right -- a LOT of transphobes would find surprising things in their own karyotypes, lol. Before we did the actual lab work, our lab tutor made a point of warning us that some of us may not find the sex chromosomes we were expecting, that it happened a couple of times every year across the different classes and that counseling was available.
@Ville You seem to care.
@Ville you go to a trans person's video specifically to comment on multiple other people's comments. It's fair to say you care.
@Ville says the one who waits for lgbtq attention 😱 if you dont care so much then dont reply
I just wanted to say thank you for these videos! I've only just gotten the confidence (desperation?) to start exploring my gender recently, and while a lot of the videos on trans issues are extremely valuable, learning about transphobia has made me even more scared to think about anything. Lighthearted videos like this (and especially the LGBT+ positive memes) help reassure me that it's okay to think about.
It's definitely okay to think about and many people will accept and support you. The transphobes are not worth pleasing anyway.
You have a huge community that supports you and is rooting for you. Good luck exploring your gender! Self-discovery is so cool. I hope you come to feel comfortable with however you decide to identify, label or no ^_^
I love this duo so much!!!! The energy is everything🖤🖤
I find Roly overwhelming, they have so much energy.
If an iota of Roly's energy could be syphoned off and administered into my system, it would make a huge difference to the quality of my life! lol
I love Roly but if he's like this in real life I would be exhausted. Wonderful chaotic energy
I love it, but being an introvert, it exhausts me.😂
Same 😂 great vibes but i would not like trying to keep up
As an introvert and a HSP, I felt exhausted by the chaotic energy but motivated by the messages, so it luckily balanced out. 😋
i love Roly he's so silly
I've never seen him before this video, but I already love his energy.
@@Dfarrey He is amazing. Highly suggest you go and give his content a try. It does get a little bit crazy over there though lol
@@Dfarrey Check Roly's and Luxeria's podcast, it's amazingly chaotic and lovely!
He's certainly turned up to eleven. 😄
least chaotic queer person:
when people criticize people for "being dependent" on drugs, my go to response is "okay you're dependent on them too? your body just makes them naturally so dont give me shit for taking adderall"
A lot of drugs just push the body into generating certain chemicals, something that would blow these individuals' minds.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE DETRANSITIONER ARTICLE REFERENCE!!
Edit: Haven’t read it yet, but this is the kind of stuff I need for family arguments rn, and I didn’t know what to look up to find accurate results 😊💛
"I'M TESTING FOR GOUT!"
DEAD 😂
“Imagine if reality tv had everyone being exactly the same” that’s just every season of the bachelor(ette)
That barely audible ‘you’re taking the piss?’ made me HOWL
Those are the bluest eyes I’ve ever seen. I’ve recently decided to come out as trans at work and it’s really scary but I’m still doing it. I hope my coworkers don’t respond like some of the transphobia in this video
Good luck! I hope it turns out well with your coworkers.
pretty sure they're contacts
Roly is known for wearing crazy contact lenses. He has at least a dozen pairs in different colours & patterns. I'm sure these ones are just another set from his growing collection.
I had to deal with a trans-hating business client this morning - I needed THIS VIDEO - so much. THANK YOU. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Re: being dependent on drugs - I'm a diabetic with kidney disease so, WTF is up with THAT comment - LMAO - I can't eeeeeeven ....
People are so ashamed and insecure that they just can't handle seeing someone being happy and proud and confident.
FR like they say that we make it a big deal out of it (yeah! to show that nowadays is a littleeeee more accepting than before when it comes to lgbt, and to allow the community to feel welcomed) but then they'll make whole rants about why they hate us for no reason 😅
believe in the gospel not trans delusion
@@ancient_technique honestly, please take my advice. What on earth does the gospel have to do with being transgender. And honestly, before you comment anything that has to do with being trans, I highllllyyy recommend that you actually learn what it is.
@@water_wav3 the gospel is the testimony of Jesus christ , listen kid you can believe in your idiotic way of thinking (transgender) or you can believe in the gospel and reach enlightenment. not whatever the hell trans delusion you think 😂
@@ancient_technique no because why do you think that understanding your gender is soooo terrrible. Like you must really care about us. Honestly, in the end, trans people will be the happy and enlightened one like it ain’t our fault that you are so insecure about yourself that you have to waste your time saying random stuff. And I ain’t a “kid”, I’m a grown individual with dignity and respect. Something you clearly will never have in your lifetime. Also why are you on this video anyways, do you have something to share… 🏳️⚧️👀
12:44 Right??? Like, I take antidepressants and stomach meds, and if someone were to give me grief about that, I'd probably ask if they'd rather I vomit stomach acid on them. The antidepressants keep my emotions more in check and the stomach meds help prevent heartburn which would otherwise be a daily issue.
OH MY GOD. I've never seen Roly before. HE IS STUNNING. YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME
I NEED MORE COLLABS HOLY SHI-
On the sad note, my FTM friend was absolutely destroyed today by our teachers so as a good FTM friend I'm gonna send this video to him-
And for all of you who are struggling too - you are valid and awesome! BEING 'WEIRD' IS COOL!
And rememer! -PHOBES ARE JUST JEALOUS!!
You are a good friend.
I don't suppose you're in a country where the teacher can lose their job for being transphobic?
I'm sorry that happened to your friend. It's good they've got you to support them!
@@John_Weiss Aw, thank you- T.T
@@j.apenrose7896 Yess, it's pretty 'normal' to be a bigot and a TERF where we live...
Well, at least some teachers are normal. And we have the best psychologist a LGBT kid could ask for ^^
Thank youu you guys are getting too kind- T.T
@@shadowwolf7880 If you reckon you could get away with it, I'd recommend calling the teacher by the wrong pronouns, title, and name. Then don't label it as "teacher was being transphobic so I misgendered them" but rather go with "I'm giving the teacher the same level of respect as they give their students." I know it's likely you aren't in a position to do that, depending on how the school system works there, but yeah. I've definitely pulled that one in the past.
I love that Roly is Jamie's Anger Translator. 🤣
Iirc the detransitioning thing is even less, I think like half of those who detransitioned realized they were nonbinary or were forced out of it by family members, so even less people detransitioned because they weren’t trans. Also when I was younger I never saw myself as a girl (or a guy for that matter) and I thought that was normal until puberty when I started getting horrible dysphoria and then I was like “wait a damn minute”.
And doesn't it also count going off puberty blockers as "detransitioning"? Which is a bit like calling breaking off an engagement "divorce".
Jamie believing in Rolys Z chromosome, like it explains so much😂😂
Z-chromosomes are actually a thing. Some reptiles and birds have a ZW-chromosome sex-selection-system: males have 2 'Z' and females have a 'Z' and a 'W'.
@@John_Weiss Yep, I had a good chuckle when Roly busted out the lizard comment afterwards because hey, might could be.
@@John_Weiss i was looking for this comment
@@ThatCatmeow Thank you!
Lmaoo so true! Imagine someone looking at Jamie for the 1st time without having any info about him and calling him a "she"? That would make them sound absolutely insane! 🤣🤣🤣
We all know that transphobes wouldn't ever call Jamie a woman or refer to him as "she" if he wasn't open about being trans. As much as transphobes like to believe they can recognize a trans-person just by looking at someone, reality is that it's not as easy as people think.
Even if they nitpick the tiniest of details that may suggest someone was transgender, it's still very likely that they will end up being wrong. Human bodies are extremely varied. Some female bodies will naturally be more masculine than others. Some male bodies will naturally be more feminine than others. Genes are wild, man.
@@LittleParody 100℅ agreed
I always adore when content creators profit off their haters 😘
🤔 But does that mean LGBT is anti-straight seems like it. sounds kind of hateful.
@Ville
You, the one posting a bazillion times a minute about how much you don't care and insisting everyone that's laughing at you must be mad.
It's pretty clear you just want to be featured in the next hater video, no need to be shy about it.
@Ville 😂😂😂
Edit: Normally I don't respond to transphobes, but this one, "Ville", obviously has no job or anything else to fill their time with and donated a huge amount of effort towards adding comments on Jamie's channel, increasing it's reach and viewership, all while screaming "DON'T LISTEN TO HIM". And it's pretty F'ing funny.
@camicia nera Are those the only two words in your vocabulary?
@camicia nera wooooow this nine year old is extra edgy today
This collab is silly chaotic fun. You two have vey different personalities, and it’s really fun to see you interacting with such a high energy person. You’re such a chill, laid back and calm person and Roly is loud and funny and exuberant. I really enjoyed it, and now I’m going to check out Roly’s channel.
I have actually had people say things about being dependent on medications as a cis woman on a lot of medications. And I have medical "professionals" regularly ask me if Ive considered a "drug holiday" for my psychiatric drugs but never for physical ailments...hmmm...
I did at one point have a mildly successful spiritual forum for women, BUT it included transwomen and would have nonbinary AFAB people (it was before the label existed) because it was focused on building common ground between women in spirituality that is commonly dominated by men.
That's awesome! I think it's great that you included all people who's experiences with femininity/womanhood were important to them and thier spirituality regardless of background.
I'm a trans man myself, so while I wouldn't have been in that space I still understand the importance of a space like that.
@@nicolasnamed Yeah not sure if even trans-men couldn't have been included because a lot of you did experience sex-related religious discrimination as children. As an AFAB genderfluid person, who grew up in a time my label didn't exist, there are major reasons I left the church at 12. I realized as a young adult that people who identify as women that are also religious have more in common than they realize, regardless of which faith they belong to (I am Pagan btw).
Sorry, minor nitpick here. Trans man/men and trans woman/women have a space after trans since it's an adjective, same as how tallwoman isn't a word.
@@SheWhoExists Well I have seen it three ways actually (even more academic writing) same is true of "cis" ciswomen (as a modifying prefix) cis women (as an adjective), and whatever cis-women would be classified as...so it's confusing at times. I have also been told being nonbinary makes me transgender, most commonly written that way...but if it's always trans man/trans woman wouldn't also be trans gender?
@@catherines8020 I wholly agree that it's a little bit of a mess, but generally a space is the most "correct" since cis/cisgender and trans/transgender are generally accepted as adjectives when modifying. As to the transgender vs transgender, it's written transgender and cisgender because trans and cis are shortenings of those words, not modifiers in that case.
Love the energy! The "I can have my moments" really got me 😂. Best way to react to comments like these.
The relying on drugs on got me because my brother is a type one diabetic so relies on injecting insulin, my mum has a thyroid condition and has to take Thyroxine
Comment from a middle aged, whiter than snow, cis woman.
If trans people are not allowed to have surgery and/or take medication to make their bodies feel more comfortable to live in and to be a truer representation of the person they are inside, then they should also be against.... lets see.... makeup.... piercing, tummy tucks, breast augmentation, butt lifts, exercise, makeup, hair dye, tattoo's, liposuction..... the list is long. They should also be against anyone who requires insulin, or chemotherapy, or birth control, or depression, or anxiety. Not to mention how much they would enjoy their ADHD child NOT having its meds......
FFS.... none of us are the people that we are "born as". That's called an INFANT. Clearly some people never got past that stage of reasoning and understanding.
Love your channel
10:40 Jamie is so right about recycling bigotry. The attack helicopter thing or worrying about furries etc is just like when people fearmonger about gay marriage leading to a guy marrying his lamp and legalizing bestiality, etc.
The dynamic between these two reminds me of the anger translator sketch from Key & Peele.
I love them so much.
i love this duo smm, such a comfort duooo
yeah
Same!
@@izzyb_ella_m5362 swag gacha oc my dude :)
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Daily reminder; You are valid and amazing just the way you are!
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I love this comment!!!
facts
Thanks! You, too! 🙏❤🏳🌈🏳⚧
@camicia nera lmao ur still commenting? keep crying
Thank you for talking about chromosomes! So many people just assume that you HAVE to have only XX or XY when there are like five different chromosome sets that doesn't result in fetal issues. My fiance only has one X Chromosome and that's it which is an intersex trait. I have a hormonal imbalance and was diagnosed with PCOS which can be an intersex issue as well as an issue CIS women have. (I'm Genderqueer 😙✌)
I've heard some people de transitions because of experiencing prejudice and bullying for being trans. It's not a nice world. But from myself having gender dysphoria it was really hard to have to wait 4 decades for Top surgery. Saved my life. Being on testosterone really helped me mentally and emotionally but I won't ever probably be able to pass as male it was more a personal thing then a social thing. The autonomy of our bodies is such a precious private and important thing. Thank you for being you, for always being brave and cute and helping us deal with all the transphobia. Your lightness helps me be less afraid
Yeah, only like 1/1000 people de transition (or something like that, I don't know the exact numbers) but those are the only people the news covers
I noticed I've been getting a lot of trans-directed ads lately, and I know exactly why. It's because I watch you and OT so much. And, honestly, I'm proud to be getting those ads. BTW I'm gender fluid myself. 💖
Jamie. You should do an accidental ally video from your own comments.
“DON’T COME INTO MY TESTROOM! I’M TESTING FOR GOUT!”
As a transmasc - I love that you have Roly there to say the shit I'm thinking, but wouldn't say.
The volume is so difficult to adjust for the two of you! 😂 Your guest could teach my actors to project for the back of the theatre and you’re so calming and soft spoken.
I’m sorry you get these awful comments but I also love that you’re reacting to them and showing what fools they are, and that you’ve got backup!
1st off: Roly's eyes are absolutely captivating, also really nice colours.
2nd off: Wanna hug him
3rd: Such a fun video. Wonderful dynamic at play and I'll check out his video now to get more of it.
Roly “WERE EVERYWHERE!” Jammi “we’re everywhere!” *little bobs*
We need more collabs with you two!
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As an asthmatic and person who has hay fever it feels great to rely on medication because I can actually breathe better 😂
some fun detransition facts:
-the detransition rate is under 1% and the majority of recorded detransitions aren't due to regret, in fact the majority are when trans people are pushed into detransitioning by transphobic communities and many re-transition later on.
-(depending on the specific surgery) the regret rate is far lower than other surgeries such a hip replacements, knee surgeries, plastic surgeries or even chemo courses.
One reason for this Is because of the low risks, trans surgeries are majority safe with few long term side affects or long term medication.
In the UK The long waiting lists of the NHS and other segregated health services also contribute, you wait years for a surgery, you're unlikely to regret it.
These other surgeries with higher regret rates don't require mental examinations to be done. Just trans people. The whole "loads of people detrasition" thing is a massive myth.
detransition is also not easy, it makes it sound as if its an on the dime decision, its not.
anyway they're fun things to bear in mind, abigail Thorne over at philosiphy tube did a really good video on the NHS and trans health care.
stay safe love ya'll ❤️
Fun fact.
The suicide rate of people beginning transitioning is zero. After, higher than zero.
@@dlg78 I'm afraid you're incorrect, a very quick Google will tell you there's the difference of 67% suicidal thoughts to 3% suicidal thoughts that occur before and after transition.
of course transition won't cure mental health issues to do with lack of being heard and supported and being able to be yourself but for those who need it to feel comfortable In their own skin, there is a marked improvement.
The change your referring to could be due to a lack of being accepted by family post surgery, or a small percentage of those transitioned people?
please do a little research on the topic from unbiased sources, they may suprise you :)
if you're referring to a Swedish study I found, I can't guarantee the legitimacy but I can tell you the suicide rate before transition definitely is not zero as the youth suicidal rate is 1 in 3 or 1 in 4 depending on your source.
even the study Concludes that surgery is effective in easing gender dysphoria and suggests more access to therapy and resources for post transition trans people rather than not have people transition at all.
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I love your friendship! You're both so different, but gel so well. 😊
“Don’t come into testrooms” What, they’re literally telling us to do a eugenics?????
“I’m like the genitals of space”
Jack Kirby got really horny in his later years.
That should be the tagline for Mel Brook’s 1987 film Spaceballs! 🤣🤣🤣
4:52 Missed opportunity to say ‘Incy Wincy Spider climbed up the Water Gout’ 😂
My first thought about what a "real woman" is, is that a real woman is whatever the fuck she wants.
Love these people! And for the record, as I say to my kids: "weird is wonderful and the spice that makes life fun!" Stay weird, beautiful people!
Beautiful quote, thank you ❤️
Beardos and weirdos agree
Hello my guys gals and non-binary pals! Too!
On the subject of "how does it feel being dependent on so many drugs?" My child has a lot of illnesses and so do I. I actually have been lectured about of drugs my child is on and has taken. 1. insurance makes you try xyz before you can take the one you know works. 2. I will list each one and what they do and ask people which one should we take away? That usually shuts them up. I am dreading these drugs conversations again when they find out about hormone medications.
I'm basking in this gay rage, thank y'all.
When I FINALLY went on medications to treat my MULTIPLE mental illnesses, my mother referred to it as "you're addicted!" and it was like, yeah... addicted to serotonin and NOT being perpetually suicidal.
YOU WILL NEVER BE A WOMAN JAMIE!!!!!!!!🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️
I just don't understand how intolerant people can choose to stay on that lane and not have a pinch of empathy for another human being... My brain just can't get around that...
The two extremes. Fluffy Cinnamon Roll and HELLSPAWN THAT DOESNT TAKE SHIT FROM ANYONE
Roly is a cinnamon roll too, they just replaced the sugar with cayenne pepper to make him spicy.
@Kayla Woodbury spicy chocolate cake with a crap ton of rainbow icing vibes 💪✨️🌈
@@CartoonLily And we _love_ him for it!
@@John_Weiss of course
Wow. The whole section about being weird and unique hit me right in the feels. I've been called weird my whole life and I didn't really understand why. Even in uni when I tried my hardest to be "normal", it seemed completely unattainable. Now that I pretend not to care anymore about being called a weirdo, it still kinda hurts when I do. But the section actually made me feel good about myself for once.
TLDR; I wasn't really expecting the uplifting messages from this video. Thank you 💜
I love being weird because I give myself permission to be myself.
You don't have to be weird if you don't want to be. It's just a word. No one can make it stick to you if you choose not to embrace it. Same thing for being "normal." If what feels best is just being Ellanannette Vega, be that and unapologetically yourself.
The gout thing and the c word following Roly and Luxeria everywhere they go is hilarious. Jamie being so nice and kind about the whole thing is just wonderful ❤
"I can have my moments." That line delivery was so brilliant! I love it