Absolutely, that’s a wise approach! Sometimes, it’s best to decide if it’s worth working through challenges or if it’s healthier to step away. Drama often escalates things, making reconciliation harder, so handling things calmly can really make a difference. Thanks for sharing this perspective!
Thank you for this. We are at the last stages of divorce..and paradoxically our communication improved drammatically. When he announced that it was over, i got like a sparkling vision, of what was my side of the deterioration. I got to the place that i am acdepting him as he is... Unfortunately he is still determined that he wants to gwt throuh.... He actually has a gorlfriend already but because of the kids and respext for me wouldn't go public until its "finalized"... i somwwhat have this faith still that he will turn over But stil i am promoting the papers and leading the process because i wont keep him by force...
Thank you so much for sharing your story-it sounds like you’re navigating an incredibly complex and emotional journey with such grace and self-awareness. It’s remarkable that through such a difficult process, you’ve been able to improve communication and gain insight into your own perspective. That kind of growth is truly admirable. Accepting someone as they are, even in challenging circumstances, is no small feat, and it shows the depth of your understanding and care. It’s also so thoughtful of both of you to keep things respectful, especially for the sake of your kids. No matter how things unfold, your strength and openness will undoubtedly leave a positive impact on everyone involved. Wishing you peace and clarity as you move forward-you’ve already shown so much resilience. ❤️
The other thing that is going unsaid is a lot of couples become estranged. They don’t communicate, they’re afraid to communicate because of this outline of toxic communication, and it ends up going on for years until they break up and then they are even more unhappy, even though the relationship usually centers around fighting or being frustrated with one another
Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful and honest perspective. Communication can definitely be a challenge for many couples, and it’s tough when patterns of frustration or fear take root. Relationships thrive on openness, but breaking those cycles of miscommunication can be hard work. It’s a reminder of how important it is to nurture understanding and vulnerability in our connections. Your insight highlights such a complex but real issue, and I appreciate you bringing it into the conversation. 💬❤️
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. It sounds like you’ve been reflecting deeply on what you’ve observed. Every journey is different, and while some experiences may feel discouraging, there are also stories of growth, love, and resilience out there. I hope you find encouragement in those, and if you’re open to it, I’d love to hear more about your perspective! 💛
What a beautiful mindset! It’s inspiring to see how much love and effort you pour into your marriage. JFK’s advice fits perfectly here-relationships truly thrive when we focus on giving and supporting each other. Your wife is lucky to have someone so thoughtful and committed! 😊❤️
Work it out or walk away, any drama will just make it worse up to the point there’s no going back
Absolutely, that’s a wise approach! Sometimes, it’s best to decide if it’s worth working through challenges or if it’s healthier to step away. Drama often escalates things, making reconciliation harder, so handling things calmly can really make a difference. Thanks for sharing this perspective!
Thank you for this. We are at the last stages of divorce..and paradoxically our communication improved drammatically.
When he announced that it was over, i got like a sparkling vision, of what was my side of the deterioration. I got to the place that i am acdepting him as he is... Unfortunately he is still determined that he wants to gwt throuh....
He actually has a gorlfriend already but because of the kids and respext for me wouldn't go public until its "finalized"... i somwwhat have this faith still that he will turn over
But stil i am promoting the papers and leading the process because i wont keep him by force...
Thank you so much for sharing your story-it sounds like you’re navigating an incredibly complex and emotional journey with such grace and self-awareness. It’s remarkable that through such a difficult process, you’ve been able to improve communication and gain insight into your own perspective. That kind of growth is truly admirable.
Accepting someone as they are, even in challenging circumstances, is no small feat, and it shows the depth of your understanding and care. It’s also so thoughtful of both of you to keep things respectful, especially for the sake of your kids. No matter how things unfold, your strength and openness will undoubtedly leave a positive impact on everyone involved.
Wishing you peace and clarity as you move forward-you’ve already shown so much resilience. ❤️
The other thing that is going unsaid is a lot of couples become estranged. They don’t communicate, they’re afraid to communicate because of this outline of toxic communication, and it ends up going on for years until they break up and then they are even more unhappy, even though the relationship usually centers around fighting or being frustrated with one another
Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful and honest perspective. Communication can definitely be a challenge for many couples, and it’s tough when patterns of frustration or fear take root. Relationships thrive on openness, but breaking those cycles of miscommunication can be hard work. It’s a reminder of how important it is to nurture understanding and vulnerability in our connections. Your insight highlights such a complex but real issue, and I appreciate you bringing it into the conversation. 💬❤️
Communication is one of the most important aspect of a relationship- Most women are not communicators, they expect you to Just Know.
I’ve watched a lot of marriages and a lot of people get older. I am not very encouraged.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. It sounds like you’ve been reflecting deeply on what you’ve observed. Every journey is different, and while some experiences may feel discouraging, there are also stories of growth, love, and resilience out there. I hope you find encouragement in those, and if you’re open to it, I’d love to hear more about your perspective! 💛
Don't let the sun go down on your anger
Such a great reminder! Holding onto anger can weigh us down, and letting go brings so much peace. Thanks for sharing this wisdom! 🌅
I decided to take JFK’s advice. Ask not what your marriage can do for you but what you can do for your marriage. I love my wife and act like it.
What a beautiful mindset! It’s inspiring to see how much love and effort you pour into your marriage. JFK’s advice fits perfectly here-relationships truly thrive when we focus on giving and supporting each other. Your wife is lucky to have someone so thoughtful and committed! 😊❤️