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This was hard to hear but must have been harder for you to talk to us all about your health. I think you are so brave Graham. Keep fighting. We are all fighting with you.
Everyone is different my husband was told three months to live after intensive treatment that was gruelling. 15 yrs later he’s still getting on my nerves 🤣sending love and hugs to you and your wonderful family ❤️❤️❤️❤️🏴
Dear Graham, There are no words that can truly capture the depth of admiration I have for you. The news of your illness is heartbreaking, yet in the face of it, you and Fiona have shown nothing but courage, grace, and strength. Your resilience and spirit are an inspiration to everyone who knows you. You face life’s challenges with a rare determination, and even now, you continue to teach us all what it means to live fully, love deeply, and face the unknown with dignity. I hope you know how much you are loved, how much your presence has meant to so many here and on X, and how your kindness, humour, and wisdom will forever be cherished. Thinking of you and holding you in my heart. With love and gratitude, Bronwen
Thank you Bron for putting our emotions into words!♥️ Graham, you have taught us all how to react with dignity during this. You are being so strong for the family. We are here. Even if you just need to vent. I have never heard you once complain & this is devastating. If we could take it from you immediately, we’d all do it, no questions asked. We truly feel as though we are your friends. If there is anything we can do to help your family, please let us know. We appreciate you guys so much. I’m glad you’re in touch with a Dr. willing to work with you. Keep up with the treatments your doing. Take each day as it comes & enjoy your family & friends. Thank you Graham, for everything. Prayers up 🇺🇸♥️
Your very positive Graham. I had cancer in 1990 had surgery and radio therapy. I’m now 82 I now have the theory that you can get killed crossing the road. Enjoy your life whatever way you can. God bless you.💖💖🙏
Your situation reminds of my Dad. His cardiologist told him he had to change his diet and stop consuming alcohol. His cardiologist died at 51. My dad was like, glad I didn’t listen to his advice. My Dad lived to 79!
@@rainbowrose2499My husband was given 6 weeks extended to 6 months. He lived another 15 years into his 70’s. At one point his oncologist apologized to him for saying that. Hubby told the oncologist if you put a limit on my life, I won’t come back. He refused invasive treatments, too. He was a man of faith and declared himself well. Now I’m trying to have the same faith and optimism.
Hi Graham - I am a palliative care nurse & people can be receiving palliative care along side of active treatment for years! Just because you are being palliated does not mean you are on an end of life trajectory. Take care❤.
@michellemonksfield2171 -Excellent & vital point. When my mother's cancer went into remission she was put under palliative care, which at the time her insurance cartel still called "hospice" but basically meant she was no longer under active treatment protocols, i.e., chemo, radiation, etc. Unfortunately, the term "hospice" has an end of life connotation which really messed with her psyche and thus effects one's health outcomes [see placebo effect.]
Dear Graham. Your courage and ability to speak about your cancer is truly inspiring. My prayers are with you, Fiona and your family. God Bless you all❤️❤️
Hiya Graham,been a nurse in this area for over 50+ years,they gave my mother 6/12 & she died 2yrs ago at 104yrs!- my father was given 2/52 for24 years(actually passed from heart attack).& my eldest son went into remission after numerous ops/chemo 9yrs ago! They just don't know! And we put up with comeforting many of them,as well as those who are only interested in bits that they favour! Just glad you have your mindset and lovely Fiona,and kids. Wishing you only the best❤(& as Dave Allen used to say" may your God go with you!xx") Be well,safe and contented always ❤ 😊. ( D's Mother)Brisbane, Australia 🇦🇺 😀 ❤
Aww Graham... My thoughts are with you and Fiona and the kids. I've never commented before but this really touched me. I'm 48 with stage 4 cancer and not doing chemo again. You aren't alone, if it matters at all. 😊 I know how complicated / scary these feelings and all the information are. Here's to 2025 Graham. 🎉
It must be such a tonic to be able to talk to a doctor who actually listens to you and has empathy. That’s what you and Fiona need at this time ….. you need to know that someone is actually taking care of you. I’m sending so much love Graham …xxxx
You have chosen peace and dignity Graham. I respect that tremendously. I hope your journey is still long and serene. When your time comes we will be here for Fiona. And when you go, may your God go with you!
Graham, I’ve noticed that you have been cheering on Fiona rather than mucking in as much as you used to do. I’m praying for you and your family, from 🇺🇸
Hello Graham, I am truly sorry, I have no words except to say "thank you" for your generous honesty. I will keep you, Fiona, and your family in my thoughts and prayers. 💮🙏♥
Hi Graham....palliative care doesnt necessarily mean end of life care! I have had terminal, incurable stage 4 lung cancer since 2018 and havd been on palliative care since then! Think positive and best of luck! ❤
Damn Graham, that oncologist is an inconsiderate ass! I'm so sorry he couldn't treat you with the compassion you deserve. Keep doing your natural therapy. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Ive felt something was heavy on all of your hearts. God bless you Graham. And Fiona, Ben and Faith. Love, from America!🙁❤️
Don't know if this story is true but I think a female cancer patient was advised by the oncologist not to bother buying next lot of Christmas cards. Says it all. You know, I'd hate the oncologist's job, too. They can only use the tools they've got. But could they use them a bit better?
My oncologist I had I did not like. He was heartless. Thank goodness I only saw him the one visit for him to tell me I would require chemo. He was still my oncologist but there was never a need to see him. He just prescribed the chemo meds.
Thank you for sharing this Graham, you have touched us all & you guys feel like the fanily we choose ❤ Sending you, Fiona, Benji & Lady Faith much love from my family to yours. You are an absolute legend 🏆✨️
Graham this must have been hard for you to sit there & share with us but all of your & Fiona’s followers really wish you both so well also appreciate you sharing as like me I’m sure everyone just wondered how you were really doing that’s from a friendship view as we all love your channel & watching Fiona with everything & anything she does, gosh you have to admire that woman is there anything she cannot do, this is why your channel is popular because you’re both so natural & like us normal folk, both take care of yourselves ..❤
I have stage 4 breast cancer. My chemo was working, but I kept falling. Now I'm on six week off to gain strength. God bless you. Praying for you and your family.
Dear Graham and Fiona, I have the greatest respect for your courage, integrity, strength and positive attitude. Thinking of you. Take care and enjoy each other along with your family and loved ones. X
I hope you know how much you are loved appreciated & admired by us all. We are all with you Graham, you & lovely Fiona , Ben & Faith. Sending love & Prayers. ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Dear Graham… thank you for talking to us, your virtual fiends… we are with you and your family all the way in this journey… my love and prayers are with you… sending all my heart and positive vibes… take care ❤️🙏❤️
Thanks! Sorry for what you're going through. I know this is part of life as you have said. I respect your decisions and send love and prayer for you, Fiona and all your loved ones.
Graham, a doctor who doesn’t even take the time to examine you, has NO opinion, in my opinion. You have the love, admiration and prayers of everyone here. I ask that God lay His healing hands upon you. You are strong. You have a great attitude. We are all praying for you and Fiona and your entire family. Sending you so much love, from Vancouver Island. ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️
My heart goes out to all of you who have cancer. My husband had 4 different cancers in 5 years before I lost my love. He wanted to be at home, and I kept my promise. God bless you and Fiona. Just continue to love and laugh. Enjoy every little moment.
My husband was diagnosed at the age of 28 stage 4. We were told he had a month to live if the treatments didn’t work. He survived , then 8 years later it came back and again he fought. We are now 73 and still going. Keep fighting you are stronger than you think. They are not God he decides when your time is up.
I worked for over 40years in the NHS and have found that palliative care teams are fantastic. They look at patients holistically whereas some doctors see only their speciality and do not look at the whole picture. At this stage I would suggest that you eat a low carbohydrate diet to no carbohydrate which is carnivore. Good luck I am sure you will decide what's right for you.
Dearest Graham you are a brave and beautiful man. I normally secret watch but I had to comment this time. I hated hearing it but on the other hand I was so grateful. You have no idea how many people you’re helping on the Journey. God Bless and still praying for you our dear hero. 💔🙏😘
Doctors are supposed to treat YOU, not a tumour. That means working with YOUR choices. The doctor is being very disrespectful. Obviously I have never met you, but you seem like a really nice man and I am so sorry this is happening to you and your family. Think of summer, soaking up the rays as you bob around on your boat, lets not focus on the bleak winter cold!
So glad to have left medicine 4 years ago. Medicine is so broken it’s just business now. It’s also because your bones if affected by the disease, are inhibited from producing more red blood cells. Sending love from the Chesapeake Bay. Fair winds always
My Mum was sent home by the doctors to 'enjoy her last Christmas with your family', when they decided she was 'beyond the point for treatment' with her cancer. That was in November. By January, my Dad had built her a Rife machine (you can buy them nowadays already made), and Mum would sit in front of it for about 1/2 hour a day, every day - puffing on her ciggies and drinking her wine. In a few months, she was still with us and her blood tests came back that her cancer was 'now within treatable range'. She got some radiotherapy, and still used her Rife machine. It took about a year before she went into full remission. So she stopped her Rifing. Then, many months later, when her blood count indicated her cancer was coming back - she would go back to zapping herself with this amazing pulsating pink light of the Rife machine, and the cancer would go away again. This 'yes your cancer has come back' to 'its all gone' went on again, and again, for a further 8 years. Then my Mum got mugged one day while out doing her grocery shopping. And she just gave up on life. She stopped eating, and within a week, she had died. On her terms. She never saw justice with the mugger (who did get caught). So, Graham, don't let the doctor's pessimism be your guide. You know within yourself how things really stand. And no harm in keeping your immune system strong, because that's what ultimately fights the cancer (given recent announcements from some of the latest cancer treatment studies). Maybe you could add some "Kick'em Juice" to your daily routines. Or try the Rife machine. I may be on the other side of the world from you and Fiona, but I have been following you all for a long time now, and consider you like family. I send you all my love and best wishes, from New Zealand.
A very brave and candid update, Graham. Having worked alongside doctors in palliative care, and through loss myself, I would confirm that none of them can give time estimates for end of life. The best doctors concentrated on quality and comfort above all else. We are all here cheering you on ❤
I like your palliative care doc. Every unit of blood should boost your hemoglobin/hematocrit by a couple of points. From now on out they will be keeping a closer eye on your labs. Much love to all from❤ NC🇺🇸.
Graham, I am with you all the my lovely. I stood up to my oncologist and quite frankly we are nothing but pieces of meat to them and they love to use us a guinnea pigs to get results. In my opinion! They don't like it when we challenge them, cos they like to be in control and how dare we challenge them! 🙏🏻🫂❤️ to you my dear friend xxxx
Thank you for sharing Graham. They do care. Put yourself in their shoes. They have to give these types of news to people all the time. They have no empathy left.
This was a difficult to watch video, Graham, but I thank you for your honesty and trust in the community you've built on your channel. I believe you have many friends here who will send their love and positive thoughts to you. With love and a big hug. Jan x
I’m so so sorry to hear of your health trials lovely man. I admire Fiona so damn much the way she just takes over when you need a rest. What a woman your dear Fiona is. Cutting down her lemons, waterproofing the boat, taking care of family and being your carer. My health too is at a delicate stage I too suffer severe bouts of fatigue, but my dear son Logan cares for me like you would never believe. I pray you stay strong ready for the summer months. You do much better in summer by looking at past vids. So I send you both so much love, from Angel Islington London ( just around the corner from Bart’s Hospital). You take care now 💜💜💜
Just isn't he the bravest? Very well said statement Trevor 😊. Thankyou for generally having Graham and Fiona's backs, thankyou most sincerely kindly always 😊. All the best to you 😊. From Foxy 😊😉😉😊.
Och Graham, I’m so desperately sorry to hear this. If chemo isn’t going to help, I agree with your decision not to go back down that route. I wish I could take this away from you, but I’m praying for you, for all of you. Big hugs, if that’s ok with you. 🙏❤️
Graham you know how much I love you and I think you are a wonderful man, husband and father and as always my prayers are with you, Fiona, Faith and Ben 🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️. Thank you for helping me through the cancer journey it can’t be easy, just know you’re loved and appreciated by many. ❤❤❤❤
Keep busy as you can and enjoy every moment, chemo just destroys you. My mother lived 4+ years after being given 6 months. You have lived a good life and have a wonderful family. Not too shabby. I am sorry you are dealing with this crap. ❤
Doctors treat all patients the same no matter the difference of circumstances. If you don’t do their ‘routine’ care they get very upset as they don’t want to go out the regular course not caring about patient. Put the time period he wrote out of your mind he may have put that to cover his butt. Do what you are doing, enjoy time you got left, someone can walk in street n boom gone tomorrow is never guaranteed for anyone. Do what’s right for you. Whether you live a day or for years I’m so glad I got to known you n your family . I wouldn’t trust 1st dr n hasn’t it already been weeks. Keep doing what you been doing listen to the lady doctor n your instincts. You will continue be in my prayers n your family Thanks for the update. I believe you will be here longer than you think. No oncologist not right he wants money have you thought by putting weeks on your chart is just a way to drop you as a patient since you don’t want his costly previous in working chemo I do imo. Think positive take day by day listen to your body n enjoy (
I am not a doctor however I have heard and seen lots of great results from Ivermectin, fenbenzole and High dose vitamin C. I wish I had known about these when my husband was ill. Good luck Graham.
You’re such a champion Graham. Choosing your dignity and control over your own body. Admirable and magnificent! Holding your hand from far across the world. 🇿🇦👋🏻☮️💜
God Bless you, Graham!❤ You're a dear soul, and a delightful person, and I'm glad to know you and I consider you a friend even though you don't know me lol. 😁 I'm a retired Pharmacist so I've dealt with hundreds of doctors, and I also lost my husband to liver disease 14 years ago, and I can guarantee you that some doctors are in it just for the money, but there are a percentage of them who have a true gift and calling to heal people. You know your own body, and if you don't feel like you're on your death bed, then you aren't!! I hope the personal stories that your loyal fans are sharing with you will convince you that your positive attitude means much more than that negative attitude of the oncologist you had who wasn't interested in you unless you wanted chemotherapy. There are many, many stories of people who were given a few months to live when in their 50's who lived to their 90's. We will all continue to pray for the best outcome for you, and you need to visualize yourself feeling strong and happy and healthy. And by visualize, I mean see it, hear it, taste it, smell it and feel it! 👍👍 Much love from Gettysburg Pennsylvania!! 🌹🥰👍❤️😁 🇺🇸
My husband had his op really soon after he was diagnosed with bowel cancer, He felt really well afterwards, and then they asked if he wanted to have some preventative chemo to kill off anything lurking about. He said he would give it a go, but he ended up with blood clots in the lungs, so he refused any more chemo. The surgeon and oncology Dr, were really good, and said he was doing the right thing, and that chemo doesn't work for everybody anyway, but they like to give people the choice to try. Anyway his latest scan showed nothing, so that's good. Thanks for telling us your situation, now you have to prove your oncologist wrong by far outliving his measly six weeks prediction.. Stay strong and God bless. xx
Graham, it takes a lot of strength to be honest about it all. We support you no matter what is said, we're here and we aren't going anywhere. We love you all. Stuff the doctor as it shows he's a effing idiot. You keep fighting it as the big battle is with the mind and you're positive unlike some of the patients give up right away. You have a loving family around you. I'm sending you all love of love and hugs to everyone. WE are here for you too and if you want to open up then do so., we can handle it. best wishes Lisa xxx
Graham, I am absolutely certain that you are not on your way out in a matter of weeks, how absolutely ridiculous! I am so glad you now have a doctor that can actually help. Regular blood counts and transfusions should help immensely to keep up your strength. When you are as anemic as you were it was hard even to eat. Your oncologist should have referred you as soon as you decided not to proceed with chemotherapy. I’m hoping you will feel up to using your sewing machine very soon ❤️
My very best wishes to you and your family. My husband died last April of lung disease. He lasted 25 years longer than doctors predicted. Doctors are not infallible. ❤
You are one lovely man on yt. My heart ❤and prayers🙏 go out to you and the family. Stay strong as you can be. I haven't met you or your Fiona, but I love you both not forgetting the family. Take care ❤xx
Graham, You have a great team with you now! Palliative care is more an art than a science and they will move heaven and earth. It is the Cinderella department we should all champion. enjoy every moment you can and know you are loved.
I have had similar experience with the medical profession. If they can't cure you, they write you off. Some will even turn it around on you. I'm sorry you've had to go through that. It's B.S. I'm hoping you found my wee message so you know how I'm feeling about you all. You have my heart, and I wish you all the well in the world.
Graham. Your brutal honesty, your raw emotion, your strength and courage through all of this. Fiona. You're a rock. I know you wouldn't want anyone to cry for you, but rather to celebrate you, howevr I fear there will be tears. There are already. Sending all my strength and love to you both. ❤
I have 2 people close to me with cancer right now. The first is my brother in law who was diagnosed with Wegener's granulomatosis and was told he had 5 months to live. That was 15 years ago. The second is a friends husband who was diagnosed with brain cancer and had a few courses of chemotherapy. He was told that he had about 9 months to live, so my friend quit her job (teacher) and they spent the next year traveling. When they came back he had scans and the doctors couldn’t find any signs of the 2 tumors. It’s been 2 years since then. Of course everyone is aware that the tumors could return, but so far so good. Sometimes lifespan estimates can be wrong. It seems like the palliative care people are better for you than your oncologist.
I hope the doctor who prescribed Iron Tabs also told you to take citrus/Vit C as Iron is not taken up properly by the body w/out - I was told this when pregnant with son by my doctor who was great. I can't believe how brave you are talking so straight about your situation - a better man than I could ever be - expect I'm a woman! I can only wish you all the very best - enjoy the good days to the max and pamper yourself on the not so good days - remember you have many 'virtual friends' from all across the world - most of who you will never meet - but we are behind you and your family every step of the way - supporting you and sending our good wishes and healing thoughts x
And no dairy 4 hours before the pills or two hours after or the iron won't be absorbed. And keep in an upright position 2 hours after. I just had emergency surgery after losing 700cc of blood.
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I will ship the shit from America that might help. Just let me know. I’ll disguise the stuff. Please let me know.
Thank goodness you mentioned this stuff. They keep deleting my comment when I mention it.
Can someone please tell me what's being suggested? Comment looks like it's gone again.
Graham, I have cancer & Ive been in palliative care for 4 years…still going strong
Keep going. You are very important to your loved ones. Thinking of you.
God Bless you❤️💯🙏🏼
@@pierrettehebert3044 good on you and I wish you many more years
This was hard to hear but must have been harder for you to talk to us all about your health. I think you are so brave Graham. Keep fighting. We are all fighting with you.
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I keep you in my prayers for good health dear Graham every night . Blessings. Patricia
Everyone is different my husband was told three months to live after intensive treatment that was gruelling. 15 yrs later he’s still getting on my nerves 🤣sending love and hugs to you and your wonderful family ❤️❤️❤️❤️🏴
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Hearing you speak with such courage breaks my heart. You are a gem of a man, Graham.
Dear Graham, There are no words that can truly capture the depth of admiration I have for you. The news of your illness is heartbreaking, yet in the face of it, you and Fiona have shown nothing but courage, grace, and strength. Your resilience and spirit are an inspiration to everyone who knows you. You face life’s challenges with a rare determination, and even now, you continue to teach us all what it means to live fully, love deeply, and face the unknown with dignity. I hope you know how much you are loved, how much your presence has meant to so many here and on X, and how your kindness, humour, and wisdom will forever be cherished. Thinking of you and holding you in my heart.
With love and gratitude, Bronwen
Beautifully said. You expressed my thoughts perfectly.
Thank you Bron for putting our emotions into words!♥️
Graham,
you have taught us all how to react with dignity during this. You are being so strong for the family. We are here. Even if you just need to vent. I have never heard you once complain & this is devastating. If we could take it from you immediately, we’d all do it, no questions asked.
We truly feel as though we are your friends. If there is anything we can do to help your family, please let us know.
We appreciate you guys so much. I’m glad you’re in touch with a Dr. willing to work with you. Keep up with the treatments your doing. Take each day as it comes & enjoy your family & friends. Thank you Graham, for everything.
Prayers up
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Beautiful words, My thoughts are with you and your family Graham. You have dealt with this with great dignity.xx
Agree totally. I hope you can feel the love we have for you.
Thank you for putting into words what so many of us feel about Graham. Beautifully written ❤
My mother was given 5 years, in her 50s. She passed at 91. They don't know.
Your very positive Graham. I had cancer in 1990 had surgery and radio therapy. I’m now 82 I now have the theory that you can get killed crossing the road. Enjoy your life whatever way you can. God bless you.💖💖🙏
We also knew someone who was given 6 months. He lived for another 20 years. It’s a lottery.
Your situation reminds of my Dad. His cardiologist told him he had to change his diet and stop consuming alcohol. His cardiologist died at 51. My dad was like, glad I didn’t listen to his advice. My Dad lived to 79!
@@rainbowrose2499My husband was given 6 weeks extended to 6 months. He lived another 15 years into his 70’s. At one point his oncologist apologized to him for saying that. Hubby told the oncologist if you put a limit on my life, I won’t come back. He refused invasive treatments, too. He was a man of faith and declared himself well. Now I’m trying to have the same faith and optimism.
@@janegroom2756 - Exactly!
Hi Graham - I am a palliative care nurse & people can be receiving palliative care along side of active treatment for years! Just because you are being palliated does not mean you are on an end of life trajectory. Take care❤.
That's a positive note
Hi Graham, my husband been on EOL care palliative care for years ,;& still plodding on .love to you & He the lovely Fiona & family.💋💋
Well said , i really appreciate you putting this in a way , I wish I could , That was a great response and advice thank you 🫶❤️🙏👍
@michellemonksfield2171 -Excellent & vital point. When my mother's cancer went into remission she was put under palliative care, which at the time her insurance cartel still called "hospice" but basically meant she was no longer under active treatment protocols, i.e., chemo, radiation, etc. Unfortunately, the term "hospice" has an end of life connotation which really messed with her psyche and thus effects one's health outcomes [see placebo effect.]
Dear Graham. Your courage and ability to speak about your cancer is truly inspiring. My prayers are with you, Fiona and your family. God Bless you all❤️❤️
Hiya Graham,been a nurse in this area for over 50+ years,they gave my mother 6/12 & she died 2yrs ago at 104yrs!- my father was given 2/52 for24 years(actually passed from heart attack).& my eldest son went into remission after numerous ops/chemo 9yrs ago! They just don't know! And we put up with comeforting many of them,as well as those who are only interested in bits that they favour! Just glad you have your mindset and lovely Fiona,and kids. Wishing you only the best❤(& as Dave Allen used to say" may your God go with you!xx") Be well,safe and contented always ❤ 😊. ( D's Mother)Brisbane, Australia 🇦🇺 😀 ❤
Graham you are a true gentleman.
Your courage is showing in bounds.
We the viewers think the world of you and will be with you as much as we can 😘
Comfort and courage to you, Graham.
Aww Graham... My thoughts are with you and Fiona and the kids. I've never commented before but this really touched me. I'm 48 with stage 4 cancer and not doing chemo again. You aren't alone, if it matters at all. 😊 I know how complicated / scary these feelings and all the information are. Here's to 2025 Graham. 🎉
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Palliative care is about not only end of life but helping to control pain, discomfort and support. The team will do their very best for you 😊
It must be such a tonic to be able to talk to a doctor who actually listens to you and has empathy. That’s what you and Fiona need at this time ….. you need to know that someone is actually taking care of you. I’m sending so much love Graham …xxxx
For all the scientific advances they still can’t measure the human spirit. Stay strong & know our love is with you x
You have chosen peace and dignity Graham. I respect that tremendously. I hope your journey is still long and serene. When your time comes we will be here for Fiona. And when you go, may your God go with you!
@@pamelagarza646 beautifully said
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Graham, I’ve noticed that you have been cheering on Fiona rather than mucking in as much as you used to do. I’m praying for you and your family, from 🇺🇸
Hello Graham, I am truly sorry, I have no words except to say "thank you" for your generous honesty. I will keep you, Fiona, and your family in my thoughts and prayers. 💮🙏♥
Thankyou for sharing and keeping us updated. My prayers are with you.
Hi Graham....palliative care doesnt necessarily mean end of life care! I have had terminal, incurable stage 4 lung cancer since 2018 and havd been on palliative care since then! Think positive and best of luck! ❤
Damn Graham, that oncologist is an inconsiderate ass! I'm so sorry he couldn't treat you with the compassion you deserve. Keep doing your natural therapy. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Ive felt something was heavy on all of your hearts. God bless you Graham. And Fiona, Ben and Faith. Love, from America!🙁❤️
Don't know if this story is true but I think a female cancer patient was advised by the oncologist not to bother buying next lot of Christmas cards. Says it all. You know, I'd hate the oncologist's job, too. They can only use the tools they've got. But could they use them a bit better?
My oncologist I had I did not like. He was heartless. Thank goodness I only saw him the one visit for him to tell me I would require chemo. He was still my oncologist but there was never a need to see him. He just prescribed the chemo meds.
Wishing you a peaceful and pain-free journey Graham ❤
Thank you for sharing this Graham, you have touched us all & you guys feel like the fanily we choose ❤ Sending you, Fiona, Benji & Lady Faith much love from my family to yours. You are an absolute legend 🏆✨️
Graham this must have been hard for you to sit there & share with us but all of your & Fiona’s followers really wish you both so well also appreciate you sharing as like me I’m sure everyone just wondered how you were really doing that’s from a friendship view as we all love your channel & watching Fiona with everything & anything she does, gosh you have to admire that woman is there anything she cannot do, this is why your channel is popular because you’re both so natural & like us normal folk, both take care of yourselves ..❤
I have stage 4 breast cancer. My chemo was working, but I kept falling. Now I'm on six week off to gain strength. God bless you. Praying for you and your family.
Dear Graham and Fiona, I have the greatest respect for your courage, integrity, strength and positive attitude. Thinking of you. Take care and enjoy each other along with your family and loved ones. X
This was a bloody hard watch Graham and I'm not sure I have the right words to say but know that I salute your bravery and respect your honesty ❤️
Me either I really don't know what to say except I will pray for his courage and strength.🙏💓
I am so in awe of your bravery, God Bless you Graham 👌🏻♥️👌🏻
End of life or pallative care nurses and doctors are usually lovely
I hope you know how much you are loved appreciated & admired by us all. We are all with you Graham, you & lovely Fiona , Ben & Faith. Sending love & Prayers. ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Dear Graham… thank you for talking to us, your virtual fiends… we are with you and your family all the way in this journey… my love and prayers are with you… sending all my heart and positive vibes… take care ❤️🙏❤️
Thanks! Sorry for what you're going through. I know this is part of life as you have said. I respect your decisions and send love and prayer for you, Fiona and all your loved ones.
Such a lovely comment!!
Sending you and Fiona strength and love. 👍❤️🇬🇧
Graham, a doctor who doesn’t even take the time to examine you, has NO opinion, in my opinion.
You have the love, admiration and prayers of everyone here. I ask that God lay His healing hands upon you. You are strong. You have a great attitude.
We are all praying for you and Fiona and your entire family.
Sending you so much love, from Vancouver Island.
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Sending you a massive hug. Lots of love to you all. Xx
My heart goes out to all of you who have cancer. My husband had 4 different cancers in 5 years before I lost my love. He wanted to be at home, and I kept my promise. God bless you and Fiona. Just continue to love and laugh. Enjoy every little moment.
Praying for you and your family 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thanks for the update Graham. Prayers for you to get stronger. “Where ever you be, May your God go with you.” ❤💙💜🫶
I was sobbing so my text message was done through blurred eyes, You Fiona Ben, Lady Faith don’t deserve this , 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🫶❤️🧎♀️➡️✝️
My husband was diagnosed at the age of 28 stage 4. We were told he had a month to live if the treatments didn’t work. He survived , then 8 years later it came back and again he fought. We are now 73 and still going. Keep fighting you are stronger than you think. They are not God he decides when your time is up.
AWESOME!
BlessYouGraham🙏😢
I worked for over 40years in the NHS and have found that palliative care teams are fantastic. They look at patients holistically whereas some doctors see only their speciality and do not look at the whole picture. At this stage I would suggest that you eat a low carbohydrate diet to no carbohydrate which is carnivore. Good luck I am sure you will decide what's right for you.
I agree.... my team are awesome.... it does make a huge difference... its heartbreaking to think people can be treated so coldly as Graham has!
Praying for you Fiona Ben and Faith! ❤
Dearest Graham you are a brave and beautiful man. I normally secret watch but I had to comment this time. I hated hearing it but on the other hand I was so grateful. You have no idea how many people you’re helping on the Journey. God Bless and still praying for you our dear hero. 💔🙏😘
Hugs, Graham. ❤
Graham thank you for sharing with us🙏🙏 your family is always in our prayers. We are here for you ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Thank you Graham for talking to us you're friends about all of this xx sending love and prayers to you and your wonderful family xx
Doctors are supposed to treat YOU, not a tumour. That means working with YOUR choices. The doctor is being very disrespectful. Obviously I have never met you, but you seem like a really nice man and I am so sorry this is happening to you and your family. Think of summer, soaking up the rays as you bob around on your boat, lets not focus on the bleak winter cold!
So glad to have left medicine 4 years ago. Medicine is so broken it’s just business now.
It’s also because your bones if affected by the disease, are inhibited from producing more red blood cells.
Sending love from the Chesapeake Bay. Fair winds always
My Mum was sent home by the doctors to 'enjoy her last Christmas with your family', when they decided she was 'beyond the point for treatment' with her cancer. That was in November. By January, my Dad had built her a Rife machine (you can buy them nowadays already made), and Mum would sit in front of it for about 1/2 hour a day, every day - puffing on her ciggies and drinking her wine. In a few months, she was still with us and her blood tests came back that her cancer was 'now within treatable range'. She got some radiotherapy, and still used her Rife machine. It took about a year before she went into full remission. So she stopped her Rifing. Then, many months later, when her blood count indicated her cancer was coming back - she would go back to zapping herself with this amazing pulsating pink light of the Rife machine, and the cancer would go away again. This 'yes your cancer has come back' to 'its all gone' went on again, and again, for a further 8 years. Then my Mum got mugged one day while out doing her grocery shopping. And she just gave up on life. She stopped eating, and within a week, she had died. On her terms. She never saw justice with the mugger (who did get caught). So, Graham, don't let the doctor's pessimism be your guide. You know within yourself how things really stand. And no harm in keeping your immune system strong, because that's what ultimately fights the cancer (given recent announcements from some of the latest cancer treatment studies). Maybe you could add some "Kick'em Juice" to your daily routines. Or try the Rife machine. I may be on the other side of the world from you and Fiona, but I have been following you all for a long time now, and consider you like family. I send you all my love and best wishes, from New Zealand.
Bless you Graham 🙏🏻
Sendong love and prayers for all of you.
A very brave and candid update, Graham. Having worked alongside doctors in palliative care, and through loss myself, I would confirm that none of them can give time estimates for end of life. The best doctors concentrated on quality and comfort above all else.
We are all here cheering you on ❤
Pryers, hugs and love Graham to you All and remember how long is a piece of string! 🙏💚🇦🇺
All the best wishes in the world to you Graham, Fiona and the Family. My heart is with you all.❤️
I like your palliative care doc. Every unit of blood should boost your hemoglobin/hematocrit by a couple of points. From now on out they will be keeping a closer eye on your labs. Much love to all from❤ NC🇺🇸.
Prove him wrong Graham. Best wishes to you and Fiona x
Just want to cry praying for you and family Graham
Be strong. May God give you peace.
Graham, I am with you all the my lovely. I stood up to my oncologist and quite frankly we are nothing but pieces of meat to them and they love to use us a guinnea pigs to get results. In my opinion!
They don't like it when we challenge them, cos they like to be in control and how dare we challenge them!
🙏🏻🫂❤️ to you my dear friend xxxx
Be safe Graham. Hugs . I do think about and follow both of you and Fiona's posts. Again...hugs. ❤
❤ from New Zealand
Sir, you have my utmost respect. I've suffered loss and seen miracles. God be with you, your beautiful wife and family.
Healing Blessings to you, Graham... ❤
Thoughts, positives waves & prayers coming in your direction!! We're here whenever you need us!! Take care of yourself!! 🙏😊
As the saying goes ... Why Do Bad Things Happen To Good People ... much love sent to you, Fiona, Ben and Faith 🙏🏼💜
The answer to that is 1John 5;19
Love and Light Graham ❤ your strong and smart and you know your own body, the so called Dr should be removed.
Thank you for sharing Graham. They do care. Put yourself in their shoes. They have to give these types of news to people all the time. They have no empathy left.
Keep your mind in the best positive state Graham, keep smiling and laughing, my thoughts are wth you, Fiona and family. God love you xxxx
Cancer sux balls ! Im sending love and positive vibes Graham
Thank you for the update 💚
Graham, try and enjoy each day. You're surrounded by people who love you, that's so important. 😊🇦🇺
God bless and saying prayers.
Graham you are so brave my darling !! I really feel for you and your family 💗💗💗
This was a difficult to watch video, Graham, but I thank you for your honesty and trust in the community you've built on your channel. I believe you have many friends here who will send their love and positive thoughts to you. With love and a big hug. Jan x
I’m so so sorry to hear of your health trials lovely man. I admire Fiona so damn much the way she just takes over when you need a rest. What a woman your dear Fiona is. Cutting down her lemons, waterproofing the boat, taking care of family and being your carer. My health too is at a delicate stage I too suffer severe bouts of fatigue, but my dear son Logan cares for me like you would never believe. I pray you stay strong ready for the summer months. You do much better in summer by looking at past vids. So I send you both so much love, from Angel Islington London ( just around the corner from Bart’s Hospital). You take care now 💜💜💜
You’re the bravest person I’ve ever met, keep up the fight and never ever quit ❤
Just isn't he the bravest? Very well said statement Trevor 😊. Thankyou for generally having Graham and Fiona's backs, thankyou most sincerely kindly always 😊. All the best to you 😊.
From Foxy 😊😉😉😊.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.. 🙏 your a beautiful family and I enjoy being apart of your family thank you 😊 ✌️
Thoughts are with you guys. Sending positive vibes xox
Och Graham, I’m so desperately sorry to hear this. If chemo isn’t going to help, I agree with your decision not to go back down that route. I wish I could take this away from you, but I’m praying for you, for all of you. Big hugs, if that’s ok with you. 🙏❤️
Graham you know how much I love you and I think you are a wonderful man, husband and father and as always my prayers are with you, Fiona, Faith and Ben 🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️. Thank you for helping me through the cancer journey it can’t be easy, just know you’re loved and appreciated by many. ❤❤❤❤
Thank you Graham, I’m sad to hear this news. You are a lovely guy. ❤️🙁
Keep busy as you can and enjoy every moment, chemo just destroys you. My mother lived 4+ years after being given 6 months. You have lived a good life and have a wonderful family. Not too shabby. I am sorry you are dealing with this crap. ❤
Graham i have no words I’m just out the other side you are in my prayers
Doctors treat all patients the same no matter the difference of circumstances. If you don’t do their ‘routine’ care they get very upset as they don’t want to go out the regular course not caring about patient. Put the time period he wrote out of your mind he may have put that to cover his butt. Do what you are doing, enjoy time you got left, someone can walk in street n boom gone tomorrow is never guaranteed for anyone. Do what’s right for you. Whether you live a day or for years I’m so glad I got to known you n your family . I wouldn’t trust 1st dr n hasn’t it already been weeks. Keep doing what you been doing listen to the lady doctor n your instincts. You will continue be in my prayers n your family Thanks for the update. I believe you will be here longer than you think. No oncologist not right he wants money have you thought by putting weeks on your chart is just a way to drop you as a patient since you don’t want his costly previous in working chemo I do imo. Think positive take day by day listen to your body n enjoy (
I am not a doctor however I have heard and seen lots of great results from Ivermectin, fenbenzole and High dose vitamin C. I wish I had known about these when my husband was ill. Good luck Graham.
Amen ... terminal stage 4 prostate patients in total remission.
You’re such a champion Graham. Choosing your dignity and control over your own body. Admirable and magnificent! Holding your hand from far across the world. 🇿🇦👋🏻☮️💜
@dorothymilne1258 I agree with you Dorothy. Graham you are a champion and I too hold your hand from Cape Town, South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤
God Bless you, Graham!❤ You're a dear soul, and a delightful person, and I'm glad to know you and I consider you a friend even though you don't know me lol. 😁
I'm a retired Pharmacist so I've dealt with hundreds of doctors, and I also lost my husband to liver disease 14 years ago, and I can guarantee you that some doctors are in it just for the money, but there are a percentage of them who have a true gift and calling to heal people. You know your own body, and if you don't feel like you're on your death bed, then you aren't!! I hope the personal stories that your loyal fans are sharing with you will convince you that your positive attitude means much more than that negative attitude of the oncologist you had who wasn't interested in you unless you wanted chemotherapy. There are many, many stories of people who were given a few months to live when in their 50's who lived to their 90's.
We will all continue to pray for the best outcome for you, and you need to visualize yourself feeling strong and happy and healthy. And by visualize, I mean see it, hear it, taste it, smell it and feel it! 👍👍
Much love from Gettysburg Pennsylvania!! 🌹🥰👍❤️😁
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My husband had his op really soon after he was diagnosed with bowel cancer, He felt really well afterwards, and then they asked if he wanted to have some preventative chemo to kill off anything lurking about. He said he would give it a go, but he ended up with blood clots in the lungs, so he refused any more chemo. The surgeon and oncology Dr, were really good, and said he was doing the right thing, and that chemo doesn't work for everybody anyway, but they like to give people the choice to try. Anyway his latest scan showed nothing, so that's good. Thanks for telling us your situation, now you have to prove your oncologist wrong by far outliving his measly six weeks prediction.. Stay strong and God bless. xx
Graham, it takes a lot of strength to be honest about it all. We support you no matter what is said, we're here and we aren't going anywhere. We love you all. Stuff the doctor as it shows he's a effing idiot. You keep fighting it as the big battle is with the mind and you're positive unlike some of the patients give up right away. You have a loving family around you. I'm sending you all love of love and hugs to everyone. WE are here for you too and if you want to open up then do so., we can handle it. best wishes Lisa xxx
Graham, I am absolutely certain that you are not on your way out in a matter of weeks, how absolutely ridiculous! I am so glad you now have a doctor that can actually help. Regular blood counts and transfusions should help immensely to keep up your strength. When you are as anemic as you were it was hard even to eat. Your oncologist should have referred you as soon as you decided not to proceed with chemotherapy. I’m hoping you will feel up to using your sewing machine very soon ❤️
My very best wishes to you and your family. My husband died last April of lung disease. He lasted 25 years longer than doctors predicted. Doctors are not infallible. ❤
Danke!
@@life_fits thank you very much life fits xxx
You are one lovely man on yt. My heart ❤and prayers🙏 go out to you and the family. Stay strong as you can be. I haven't met you or your Fiona, but I love you both not forgetting the family. Take care ❤xx
I'm on a similar journey, wishing you and your loved ones all my love xx
Sending my positive thoughts to. ❤
Graham, You have a great team with you now! Palliative care is more an art than a science and they will move heaven and earth. It is the Cinderella department we should all champion. enjoy every moment you can and know you are loved.
I have had similar experience with the medical profession. If they can't cure you, they write you off. Some will even turn it around on you. I'm sorry you've had to go through that. It's B.S.
I'm hoping you found my wee message so you know how I'm feeling about you all. You have my heart, and I wish you all the well in the world.
Yes, Quite familiar experience for me too! Especially when you get older.
Graham. Your brutal honesty, your raw emotion, your strength and courage through all of this. Fiona. You're a rock. I know you wouldn't want anyone to cry for you, but rather to celebrate you, howevr I fear there will be tears. There are already. Sending all my strength and love to you both. ❤
I worry for Fiona
@@Sharon-xn1dm I do as well. She has been so very strong. I am praying for them both. And Ben and Lady Faith as well.
I have 2 people close to me with cancer right now. The first is my brother in law who was diagnosed with Wegener's granulomatosis and was told he had 5 months to live. That was 15 years ago. The second is a friends husband who was diagnosed with brain cancer and had a few courses of chemotherapy. He was told that he had about 9 months to live, so my friend quit her job (teacher) and they spent the next year traveling. When they came back he had scans and the doctors couldn’t find any signs of the 2 tumors. It’s been 2 years since then. Of course everyone is aware that the tumors could return, but so far so good.
Sometimes lifespan estimates can be wrong. It seems like the palliative care people are better for you than your oncologist.
I hope the doctor who prescribed Iron Tabs also told you to take citrus/Vit C as Iron is not taken up properly by the body w/out - I was told this when pregnant with son by my doctor who was great. I can't believe how brave you are talking so straight about your situation - a better man than I could ever be - expect I'm a woman! I can only wish you all the very best - enjoy the good days to the max and pamper yourself on the not so good days - remember you have many 'virtual friends' from all across the world - most of who you will never meet - but we are behind you and your family every step of the way - supporting you and sending our good wishes and healing thoughts x
And no dairy 4 hours before the pills or two hours after or the iron won't be absorbed. And keep in an upright position 2 hours after. I just had emergency surgery after losing 700cc of blood.