9 Years Post First Stage Phalloplasty | Managing Expectations In Surgical Outcomes

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  • @FinnTheInfinncible
    @FinnTheInfinncible  19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

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  • @bnanaz
    @bnanaz 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

    Hey Finn, I'm 37 and 11 weeks on T and based in London. Your channel is such a valuable resource for me as you started your transition around the same age. I wanted to say you nailed it when you said that you just wanted to be a normal bloke. I remember saying in my appointments that I didn't want to be the most masculine carpet carrying dude in the room haha that I just wanted to just be a boring average guy and just exist. Thanks for not disappearing and being visible still :)

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Love this! Carpet carrying dude!!! Congrats on 11 weeks my friend 😁. Thank you for your lovely comment

  • @zenstrain6647
    @zenstrain6647 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    The sleepy baby next to you! ❤
    Thanks for continuing to share Finn.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      He's such a sweetheart isn't he! I have to slightly angle the camera because he ends up rolled on his back with all his bits on show 🤣🤣
      Thank you for your lovely comment 🙏

  • @Moosh207
    @Moosh207 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    It's a beautiful gift we give to ourselves when we quieten the noise in our heads. So proud of you and the endless capacity you have to believe in yourself and the patience you had while processing through all of the difficult challenges you faced along the way. And there were some big big challenges, from peeing every ten minutes to having big blood clots.. You got through them all (with trained medical supervision of course) and arrived at your vision of where you wanted to be. And now you continue to pay it forward ❤️ I'm really happy to hear that there is another team in London and more surgeries are taking place for people. Thats really good news

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Ah Michele what a lovely comment, thank you, it's been so wonderful to share it all with you ! How fab to find a comment from you

  • @stefaniedecoster2772
    @stefaniedecoster2772 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Expertly shared & beautifully said as usual Finn. I first saw one of your video's in my recommended list when you were in the run-up to stage 1 and never stopped watching your channel. And what a lovely friend I gained too! Sending love from along the river IJssel in the Netherlands (haven't spotted any sheep today to send you a picture of) and sniffs and purrs from Paxton x

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Ah what a lovely message! I love that the universe connected us! Sending much love and high paws from Pip!

  • @Ryan__7926
    @Ryan__7926 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    🎉🎉🎉 Congrats and Happy Anniversary, Finn! You are such a lovely soul and I’m grateful for the information and energy you share here on TH-cam. I always feel cheered up after one of your videos. 😄

  • @kardwise9714
    @kardwise9714 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    53 now and still have not been able to afford the time off needed for lower surgery, but perhaps one day. Your story gives me hope. As your story has always gave me.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I love that I give you hope. You have no idea how much that means to me
      It's so hard managing transition and life isn't it? Especially something as massive as lower surgery. I hope one day you find a way to make it work.

  • @manchitas3531
    @manchitas3531 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love you to pieces, Finn. You are such a pure-heart soul!

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      You made my evening with this comment. Thank you 😊

  • @natashamason3328
    @natashamason3328 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Love seeing these celebration vlogs. You should absolutely shout about your results xx

  • @miloraoof7654
    @miloraoof7654 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    You have the best T-shirts!!!!

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you! This is one of my own creations! It's in my shop 😁

  • @RaefonB
    @RaefonB 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    So glad you call it phalloplasty and lower surgery - "bottom surgery" never sounds right to me, puts the wrong pictures in me head! :D
    (Anonymous) Q: Are you likely to need another op to replace the erectile device in the future? And have doctors advised anything special about the recovery period, etc. (as you'll be a bit older)?
    (Anonymous) Q: How are your arm and hand doing where they took the graft from, any pains/post-op loss of sensation/grip strength change?

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hello my friend! I couldn't agree more, bottom surgery sounds so weird!!! These are great questions, I will do a 6 years post implant vlog and answer these, thank you!

    • @RaefonB
      @RaefonB 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@FinnTheInfinncible Cheers. Take care of yourself and have a good weekend, mate.

  • @stefaniedecoster2772
    @stefaniedecoster2772 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hiya Finn!

  • @TheLord-YT-FTM
    @TheLord-YT-FTM 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I might be the only alpha transman I know of, I am glad you have found yourself, but ive been secretly looking for a fellow transman that comes across as an alpha male, you 100% pass but you come across very gay man, very beta. I use the gym to harden all my features, and I think the only way to be Alpha is to under no circumstances can you picture sex with males, the part that is willing to sleep with men is always beta. Ive slept with men in the pass, but conditioning yourself to be repulsed by such things is alpha. cant be a taker and an alpha.

    • @Toxoid49b
      @Toxoid49b 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

      I basically never comment on anything, but if this isn't the saddest comment I've ever read in my life I honestly don't know what is

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      This is ridiculous. There is nothing wrong with being gay. I am gay! Being gay doesn't make me any less of a man at all.

  • @rainbowtropolis
    @rainbowtropolis 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hello Finn, welcome to my screen again! Lovely as always to see you as well 😊
    Happy 9 year peenivarsary! 🍆 (is that too weird? I hope not, because I'm weird and I like sharing my weirdness with people I like hehe)
    Of course, I always have the weird question! Do you notice any scarring left or does your "down there fur" cover it up?
    I've been thinking about if I want to do any lower surgery, but it all depends on my body being able to handle it at this point (47 with autoimmune issues). I'd love to feel like the real full me I've always felt I am, but my body kind of stands in my way (how ironic huh?)
    I love how you bring up that no cis man is happy with their member, and that's part of life. Wonderful way to describe things!
    Have you expanded on, or recolored your arm tattoo?
    Give Chris and Pip some subscriber loves from Minnesota for me! 🫶

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Haha! Nope wishing me a happy peenaversary isn't weird but even if it was I love weirdness and would be honoured to have you share your weirdness with me 🤣
      Good question! Yes I do have some scaring on my pubic area. If I leave my hair short you can see it so I leave it a little longer.
      I still need to get my tattoo finished. The COVID lockdown got in the way and then so did the severe onset on my chronic illness. I'm now a little anxious to get it done as I know it's going to upset 'Fred'! But I will at some point
      It's really hard when our bodies get in the way isn't it? I'm not sure mine would manage surgery now. When my implant needs replacing I'm going to have to face some difficult decisions myself!
      Lovely to hear from you bud. Much love to you from us!