My Autism Child's Biggest Challenge || My everyday struggles with Viraj || An update
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I really feel motivated whenever I listen to you.As a parent I also feel scared about my son sometime.kyunki improvement kafi slow lagti hai kafi mehnat karne pe kuch changes mahino me dikhte hai.i was crying but ye video dikh gaya and again I feel energized.Thank you for helping and motivating us.lots of love to viraj and new baby girl
I want to talk with u mam plzz
Yow are doing a great job 👍👍👍
U r doing really good job sis
I am going through severe anxiety and depression and ur video is one thing that keeps me afloat...thank you...a million
Beautiful explained.thank you so much mam fr motivating inspiring story of urs.
Yes what u said and planned fr viraj excellent
God bless u and viraj ur family always ..keep sharing good information like this ..🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Ur video at d end section made cry......u r so strong.....thnku so much for ur beautiful video.....yes our child can do everything ❤️....loads of luv to viraj
Beautiful Video Ina Ji! Keep up the good work!
Thnku so much mam .my son is as same as viraj .nd this video gave me lots of courage nd hope .
Thanks dear for these Valuable words.....such motivated i feel today ....nothing to add 😭
thank u so much mam,u give so much courage to us to fight with our struggle
U r amazing seriously.. U r doing a gr8 job.. God bless yr child.. N I m sure yr child will b definitely become normal..
so inspiring. God bless Viraj . He is blessed with such a nice Mother.
God bless Viraj and you all ❤ you are doing a great job by sharing your experiences so that who all are facing this conditions will get inspiration and hope
I am so glad that I find you on TH-cam. You are definitely addressing a lot of our concerns and questions
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Thank u Ina Many times for ur positivity🙏❤
Bahot himmat milti hai apki videos se😊
Thank you so much dear I have no words apne mujhe ek umeed Di h God bless you and your lovely family & or un sabhi parents ko hat's off Jo apne bachoo k liye puri mehnat kar rahe h God bless all guys 🥳💐🎉🎊🎉🎊🎉🥳😘🍫🍫😘
Hi ina am Gayatri from maharastra . आपके आजके video से बहुत हिमत मिली हैं. बहुत ही positive lag रहा हैं . Thank you very much. 🙏
Keep going, you are doing great jobs and never loose hope
Thank you so much madam for your motivational words.....may God bless you and your family members , thank you again. Please continue your motivational journey.
Unique video! Nice Motivation to Parents 👍 I was asleep for the days thinking about my kid future...Got confidence and a good sleep Ma'am after watching your video....
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Mam thank u so much ...I follow u sunche last 2yrs....ur every videos are awsm.....so motivational.....
Thanku so much for giving us your knowledge 💕
Thank u ma'am aapne journey share karne ke liye ❤❤❤
thanks for giving this much information about Autism , im just going through hardly accepting yes this is happened with my child as well and i have to work on it
thanks it gives strength to others
You were right the progress in my child is multiplying now touchwood,🙏❤ ina
I can connect with you. I get strength from you. You and your videos motivate/educate me. Love you ❤
Thank you so much Ina whenever I feel depressed I just watch your videos and feeling better a hope in me came out and feel that everything will be alright one day plz pray for my daughter too
Don't worry dear ..m going by the same
Never give up, we have to face challenges till our last breath, keep faith in supreme power, one day every thing will be alright
Never give up, we have to face challenges till our last breath, keep faith in supreme power, one day every thing will be alright
Aaakhir kyu autism bachhe ko hote h??? Akhir kyu😒
Get the best remedy to improve your child’s autistic condition from doctor Oyalo as his herbs have helped my child improve in speech and social skill very well. He now respond to name, point at what he wants and call mama/papa
I have no words to express my gratitude but just want to say thanx maam.
Great ,kudos to you....
Really very nice vdo...mere bete ko v autism h ..apka vedio dekh k aaj bahut motivation Mila h...
Really you uses magical words ✨️ 💖 great help for me
Thank you dear your video motivates me a lot..❤
Thanku mam badi tasalli mili aapka video dekh ke
Very motivational video Ina almost same challenges my boy have inshallah he will overcome soon, whenever I gets time I watch ur video for help nd support amazing job always lot of ❤️
Dear kitne year ka ha apka baby?
Get the best remedy to improve your child’s autistic condition from doctor Oyalo as his herbs have helped my child improve in speech and social skill very well. He now respond to name, point at what he wants and call mama/papa
Really inspiring..my son is about to be 3 and resembles Viraj alot..very simply explained..thank u so much.. May God bless all the kids🙏
God bless ur baby ♥️♥️♥️🥹
Thank u for ur videos thay motivate people like us. Can you plx tell how you controlled the hand flapping thing
Thank you so much 💓 thumbs up
Hi ina.you have motivated me in several ways.i would have never known about fish oil,chemomile tea,or epsom salt if i have not watched your channel.it has helped me a lot. Now i only see my girl .she is my priority.earlier i was very frustrated and when i came out of it then only i started loving her more.getting closer to her and it changed everything i enjoy being with her every moment. You are hundred percent correct when you say a child doesnt need a perfect mother but a happy mother.acceptance,patience, hardwork definitely will lead all of us to a glorious future.
What is epsom salt. Plz mam inna mam in which video u told about it. Plzzz share the link
@@faiqafirdous7075 th-cam.com/video/kF23SRaxrDY/w-d-xo.html
I m watching this video again and again whenever i felt demotivated...lots of love to viraj😘
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Inspiration ❤️
Seriously dear live you for your work..hope our kids will fly high soon
Love u too 😘🙏🙏🙂❤️
Hi Ina beautifully explained about autism..u right autism is not a disability it's a different ability.. thank you soooo much Ina ye smjhane k liye ki cheezei better ho skti h.. very positive video.. God bless dear 💖
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mam agar aap viraj se bat karti hai to wo propar jabab deta hai.
Very inspirational video..
Very informative video mam
you covered my almost every problem what I am facing with my 3+ yr son..
you described it very simply.
thans for making such videos..
may god bless you and your family...
I wish every parents who are watching it learn from it and implement in their child routine..
Once again a big thank you mam to you 🙏
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Get the best remedy to improve your child’s autistic condition from doctor Oyalo as his herbs have helped my child improve in speech and social skill very well. He now respond to name, point at what he wants and call mama/papa
Very helpful video dee...
very nice god bless you both
Thankyou ina mai apne bete mai daily changes dekh rahi hh
Thank you so much from Bangladesh.
You r my inspiration
Seriously yaar you are totally inspiration for me .. whenever i feel it is not possible i just tune to possible you girl..love for viraj ..my son have mild autism n i can relate viraj with him so much..n
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God bless you Ina
You are amazing and inspit
Thank you for making video on Fishoil..i am using Nordic Naturals fish oil...i am seeing positive things
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A lot of parents here, feeling out of place a bit.... m just a random 15 year old girl at 3am doing research on random things that interests me.
M gonna rant, read if you want
This video gave me a bitter sweet feeling in my heart, i will clarify that i am extremely happy you found out about his autism early on, because many many people just slip through the cracks, because as said- its a spectrum n all kids develop differently and show different signs and are missed easily.
No.1 reason probably is 'masking', kids typically on higher ends of it adapt quickly, mimic others behaviors, mainly because of the type of environment they are in, especially girls, many girls are left out because they simply dont 'fit' in the exact categories, and i am probably one of them.
I didn't have any delayed speech, poor eye contact, and had stimming under control.
I can make myself appear normal but inside m losing it, i hate some textures of food, it activates gag reflex, i didn't necessarily struggle with academics early on life (meaning i do now), certain sounds, lights to name a few, but i have to act normal, and its hard keeping that mask on but i dont wanna burden them
What sucks is after 15 years of my parents thinking i am normal, how can i bring it to them "hey! I have some wires differently attached n m not normal"
Not getting diagnosed early on life creates it own issues in that childs life- depression, addiction, masking, autistic burnout etc (doesn't mean it cant happen with a diagnosis, it can) m happy he got support early on life, best of luck.
Love ❤️ just go and tell them its your parents they will understand no matter what . I know people take autism as disability or abnormality which is sad because they dont understand that it could be the same personality traits that you have mentioned. But those who love you will understand what you share with them and they support you in all terms . Also get an offcial diagnosis done as well it will put you to a relief ❤️
@@aforautism6808 I did once kind of had a breakdown infront of mom n I was scared, because in past she always wanted me to quickly stop crying and justify why it's not that big of a deal, so during thy breakdown I was scared but was like now or never and I tried listing things that make my life harder that normal people won't find that big of a deal, at first she listened and I was happy thinking this was it, m finally gonna tell her, atleast imply it, when all of a sudden she just dropped "you are not trying to look weird things on the Internet are you? Stay away from it, don't look at those stuff" something along the lines of this and I instantly shut my mouth, she didn't want this, or maybe that wasn't her message but what I understood was that she didn't like it and didn't want to hear more of it and just wanted see the 'normal' side of me.
And this was the second time actually where I bought neurodivergence, 1st was with my younger brother and his adhd symptoms, and I was again shut down telling that he was completely fine (he is not, he struggles and gets blamed n scolded for it)
So yeah I love them but I am gonna suck this up till I become an adult and then go to psychiatrist or something on my own and maybe even get my brother tested and then explain them, hopefully they understand.
But thank you, it made me really happy to see adults like you who's prospective on these things are different.
I used Dr Oyalo herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on speech delay and ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
Very inspiring.
Thanks ina...
Thank you so much sis..❤
Ap bhut motivate krte ho thanks
Thank you so much ❤️
Thank you for ur valuable advice
Thank you for your motivation n true words. You are really doing a noble cause Ina. Keep it up beta.
Thank you 🙏🙏🙏❤️
Great video abhi kya language level hai please video batatye ..aur aapne language development ke liye kya kar rahe hain
One more thing he can say yes or no right verbally if you ask..so that will easy for communication till they become conversational..i thought yes or no to my son when he was 3.6 year old then onwards it became very easy now me to communicate with him...even though he knows some words still don't express some time so ...and if says yes or no will easy for us yeach them timing, days and all if they understand time present, past and tomorrow, today...and even you can ask questions about to him if we are going to park.. when you want to go ..can yo come with us..he can say yes if he wishes and you can ask fo you like this dish, shirt, shoes like wise we can do so many things communicate...we have make them to understand first present things...so it's just my suggestion how i thought these things to my son so ...
Thank you so much
My son's age is 4 years 6 months . He is an autism . At present his eye contact is perfect with us . He can read, ride his bicycle. He can say two meaningful terms. But he doesn't communicate with us. Sometimes, he only speaks two or three understandable terms if he's in need. He likes to draw very very much. He can make various shapes and animals with playdough which is kinda hard for normal children. When he was 4, he learnt all the English alphabets. But now he is so into drawing that he draws pictures when he is given to write. He self talks and self laughs alot. Now I'm working on his self laugh and self talk issue by following your videos. He can blow on his horn and make melodies of his favourite songs. He also sings songs and recites rhymes. He was a hyperactive child, but now I'm making sure that he is avoiding sugar and following his GFCF diet. By following this, his hyper seems less than before. I'm also giving him his regular OT at home.
Now, if you suggest me on how should I get him back to writing then I'd be greatful to you. And for how many days should I follow his GFCF diet? Please reply!
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@@aforautism6808 thank you so much!! It really means alot..
Hi my son also self laughs . He is 3.5 .
He makes some funny sounds and laughs in his own . He also like drawing and writing abcs .
My son is not aware of danger he runs away from me . That’s scares me a kid do y have suggestions
You are really a great mom ✊❤️
Thanku so much mam🙏
Hi ina....beautiful video...love ur energy...what have u done for hand flapping...pls share
Pls check the links at the end of the video
Hii Ina Aap ko dekh kr kaam krne ki excitement bad jati he mera baby to abhi chota he he is 33 months old but me bhi kahbhi gives up kr jati hu jab koi changes nahi ate targets achieved nahi hote pr jab aap ko dekhti hu fir se hop aa jati he thanks dear
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Apki bate bahut motivate karti hai mam,,n mainly i like ur positivity which teaches every parents ki keep trying hard n dont give up.god bless u n ur family.so mam apne viraj ko speech therapy kis age se start kari thi n kya ap abhi bhi speech therapy karwarahi hai?
Thank u.. viraj ko speech therapy hardly shayad ek ded mahina karayi hogi jab vo 3.10 ka tha lekin uske baad sab ghar pe hi kara because manage b nai ho pata tha and mujhe esa laga k ye sab main ghar pe khud kar sakti hu research kia bahut fir apply kia viraj k upar toh dheere dheere improvement ana shuru hua fir viraj bahut si cheeze seekhgaya isiliye kabhi thought nai aya dubara therapies ka
I am crying while watching this video I was so down lately that I didn't notice that my child is progressing slowly but it is happening your video made me understand that i should keep track of what he can do rather than focusing on what he can't do..
Your video is very inspiring thank you so much..❤️❤️
Get the best remedy to improve your child’s autistic condition from doctor Oyalo as his herbs have helped my child improve in speech and social skill very well. He now respond to name, point at what he wants and call mama/papa
Dee very informative
Ina the way u speak,the way you motivate parents is worth appreciable..keep up the good work and lots of love to Viraj.
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@@aforautism6808 mam apne kab se viraj ka treatment de rehe ho
Thank u mam bahot himmat mili muze aapse ki Mera beta bhi thik ho Raha hai
Hey Ina, your videos are really inspiring and informative. Recently I have started following your videos and find really helpful. Can you please advice how did u manage to decrease the screen time for your son? My son is autistic, 4.8 yrs old and very much addicted to screen.
Get the best remedy to improve your child’s autistic condition from doctor Oyalo as his herbs have helped my child improve in speech and social skill very well. He now respond to name, point at what he wants and call mama/papa
True supporter 👍😊
Thank you so much for sharing mam
GOD BLESS U ALL.
HATS OF TO U...TC
Thanks Inna.
Hey just watched ur video and I must say you changed my mind completely and you start 3 mins talk gave tears to my eyes (positivity) wana talk to you is there anyway I can connect to you please 🙏
Yes my dear friend check the description box
Thanks for this video... Do u feel an increase in echolalia after joining school? Rhyming etc?
No not yet dear
Viraj is such a cutie pie..God bless him
Grt video....
Apki baten sun k kuch relief hoa...me saturday ko apny 3 year boy ko doctor check up k ly lay kr gai ...ku k mujy usky behaviour me bht change nazr arha tha last 6 months se .. pyhly wo sab k sath khylta tha apny mamu chachu or dada abu k sath bht pyar krta tha...lakin last 6 months se usny unky pas jana hi band kr deya na kisi se bolta or jawab dyta hai... Doctor ny autism hony ka btaya hai ... Even maalik(my son) learning me bht acha hai...colors name aty hain Alphabet yad hain shapes name . Or apny behna bhaiyon k sath fight b krta hai or sharing b ... Mujy serf ye issue tha jo usny apny dada abu or baki sab k pas jana band kr deya hai...toh kya ye b autism ka sign hoskta hai ? Mujy isky ly kya krna chabey.. I'm worried about it...
Please try to switch to coconut oil too. Seed oils are inflammatory
You are God sent
Yes our baby is gifted child. He is not different but he is unique and best then a normal child ..
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Ina ji, aap ek tutor bhi laga sakte ho viraj ke lie ,uss se viraj ko habit banegi study ki aur doosre person se ( other than you and your husband ) interact karne ki , i did this and it helped me a lot . Try it for a month and decide , try to find a special educator . Viraj ko roz 20 min writing karayega playful methods se . And try to check his arm strength if he does not want to write , do arm excercises with him , this will improve his likelihood of writing . And speech aur understanding ke lie roz stories repeat karao , colorful books le aao stories ki . Try it and also i would like to make my son meet Viraj , contact me if u visit jaipur
Hi...my name is Anam. ..I watch ur video. .you are very inspiring. .and mujy ye puchna tha k meri beti 6 year ki ha wo bacho k sath khailti ni ha..drti rhti ha kch tip den...thnxx
I feel so good when I listen to you.. Going through same phase and thankyou so much for giving us hope and to help me to accept the reality because somewhere my mind is still not accepting this word autism for my child… but now m trying to accept though Iam working out on him but I don’t use this word for my son. But thankyou for making all these videos. 👍🏻 All the very best n may god bless every child and give strength to every mother🙏🏻
I used Dr Oyalo herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on speech delay and ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
You are really great
Thank u so much
Dear Ina, kindly let me know how to cope up with hand stimming and vocal stimming.
Regards.
Kudos to you Ina. U inspire me a lot. Sometimes I think if Ina can do a 9 to 5 job run a Chanel and still can work on her son why can't I. Its been almost a year that therapy started for my son, i see he has come a long way. Though issues are still there for not being verbal, self engaging behaviour and not ready to mingle with other kids... But I'm sure he will overcome all this one day ❤️ God bless our kids🙏👍
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Yes i also feel and motivated
Ruma Nandi : my son also same as your son. How old is your son? I am worried now because I am working and work from office is starting.
Amen.
I used Dr Oyalo herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on speech delay and ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
Hey hii! Very helpful videos … thanks a alot can you make vedio on self laugh
Hello there is a video already uploaded why do children self talk and laugh
Inspiring video
I m very motivated mam thank you
Hey ena, I am 33 yrs old, and I remembered I had some sensory problem like, whenever I saw thing unmanaged, I cover them from like cloth or whatever, and lots of issues I face in my early age. And these behaviours faded with age but not completely, like don't like ignorance, I am very much perticular about my things, at the same time, I am so confident, hardworking, intellectual and etc like any other person. Now I have son who are going to complete 2. Half yrs in next month has similar qualities, so intelligent, he knows more than ordinary kid with same age, but doesn't like to speak much,, has some stimming behaviours kuch bhi dekhta toh usse alphabet bna deta like usse 3 spoon mil jaye, kisi bhi long material se phonics bna deta hai, usee kuch bhi dikhao toh minutes me sikh jata hai, then m kyo fikr karu ki mera beta ek Normal life nhi ji payega, jb mujhe itne behaviours the or m normal life ji rhi independently bina inlaws ke kisi naye Sahar me ake apne bache akele hi sambhal rhi hu.. just coz thoda jyada active, bhondu bacho ki tarah nhi rahta, meri sari bate nhi manta, m usse ek tag de du ..... Nhi agr kuch hai bhi toh usse time ke sath overcome kiya ja skta hai, or sbse bdi baat ki hme nature aisa banaya hai, or us pr hme shk nhi Krna chaiye, ye phase jisse hme bahar aana hoga apne hardwork se.
True hum bhi mehnat kar rahe hai
True mem meri beti mild autism hai lkg mai use study karna bhuat pasand hai but muche dar hai kahi school se use nikal too nai dege kuki wo har bacho se alag hai
This is the same case with my 4 year old boy. He is more interested in intellectual things, makes alphabet out of anything, doesn't socialise and can't tolerate anything out of place. He has speech delay also. I am worried for him
My baby is 2.7 months old he is very intelligent he learnt all alphabet hindi alphabet 1 to 50 counting shapes colours vplanets country flags and capital.and much more ..he speaks he is potty teained he gives answer to question..but problem is he is hyperactive he doesn't sit more than 10 min..what should I do
Thanku so much mam
I actually observe these kind of things with my 2 yr son
He doesn’t respond to his name and also never calls me as mama or father to papa so we are in worry
But your motivation is really helpful
I will diagnose him from doctors and hope postitive help from all who face it.
Whts ur diagnosis result
@@yatharthsonofdeepshikha6487 he was diagnosed mild autism
But I know very well he is virtual autistic
He is improving day by day
Did u get your son evaluated ❤
I used Dr Oyalo herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on speech delay and ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
Hi mam ....love your videos...my son is 2.5 year old wo khana bht selective khata hai...he is oral sensitive...plz help how to encourage him ....he has behaviour issues..
Vibrator tooth brush kon sa better h ...mere bete ko autism h 4 yr old...chewming n speech delay h
Which doctor n medicines have u referred n medicine?
hi dear, abhi recent me hamne apne bete ka check up karaaya then dr said he is having ADHD, unki puri baat sunkar 2din tak m puri puri raat so nhi paa rhi hu , they said usko autism bhi ho sakta hai, abhi wo bhaut hyper active hai, keep running, continue speaking same poem, agar usko distract kro to wo bhul jata h otherwise phir shru, koie bhar se aata h usko bhi same poem sunana, exitment me kya aap meri help kr sakte ho kaise uski repitition nd hyper activness ko kamm kare pls dear dr ke baat sunkar to m sadme me hi chali gyi hu