REF THROWS PARENT OUT OF GAME!

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  • In this soccer match, a parent was verbally abusive and was thrown out of the game.
    She was treated like a soccer player, getting first a yellow, then a red card for ejection!
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  • @stevea5985
    @stevea5985 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1238

    Just think how embarrassed the kids feel when their mom or dad act like this during a game .

    • @noelt8895
      @noelt8895 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mipilot30 Why have you made it a race issue?

    • @noelt8895
      @noelt8895 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Ulysses432 I would agree with your statement that "your" country is beyond redemption. But there is always hope. And whilst I accept your insult, I don't think Jesus Christ deserves insulting by you.

    • @akahaney1
      @akahaney1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I had a kid escort his dad out of a basketball game

    • @BraydenMCFC
      @BraydenMCFC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      My Mom did this once, it is very embarrassing having them yelling, she stopped now because she knew it is stupid

    • @bearpayton34
      @bearpayton34 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      AT LEAST SHE DIDNT FIGHT THE OTHER PARENT AND ENDED UP ON THE NEWS LIKE JANICE DID. (sopranos)

  • @josephgately2378
    @josephgately2378 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1625

    The same parent that yells at the teacher when their kids are getting bad grades or in trouble at school.

    • @mipilot30
      @mipilot30 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      No doubt.

    • @arnoldjack7956
      @arnoldjack7956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ABSOFUCKINLUTELY

    • @FabSmgVEVO
      @FabSmgVEVO 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Joseph Gately that’s a good reason to yell at a kid

    • @Michael-hz7ye
      @Michael-hz7ye 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Fab SmgVEVO no, its not. Just showcasing their bad parenting

    • @xenagos3336
      @xenagos3336 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FabSmgVEVO can you read?

  • @mickallen899
    @mickallen899 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    I was attacked physically as a 12 year old by a parent when playing soccer. Some people are a disgrace to their kids.

    • @simonshotter8960
      @simonshotter8960 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Football

    • @user-zd3cc7to8h
      @user-zd3cc7to8h หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Soccer

    • @simonshotter8960
      @simonshotter8960 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@user-zd3cc7to8h foot. Ball.
      What you called football is hand. Egg.

    • @rowdyoutdoors5397
      @rowdyoutdoors5397 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-zd3cc7to8hand ballet

    • @user-zd3cc7to8h
      @user-zd3cc7to8h 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@simonshotter8960 Hand Egg? Or rugby?.

  • @SteveDisenhof
    @SteveDisenhof 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I refereed and coached for almost 2 decades. As a rule, which was never broken, when I asked my players what they hated most about the sport, they would almost unanimously answer, “the parents.“

  • @TheSafetySmith
    @TheSafetySmith 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1681

    Parents' are also a reason why trained coaches stop coaching youth soccer.

    • @lavianahampton4641
      @lavianahampton4641 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      John Doe yes

    • @philipthomey7884
      @philipthomey7884 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      The same in Junior hockey

    • @bhkidd
      @bhkidd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I coached U13 and U9 for several years. Parents were the reason I stopped.

    • @chungusyt4641
      @chungusyt4641 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Don’t you mean every youth sport.

    • @RedCard94
      @RedCard94 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Not only that, misbehaved parents are a reason why there's a shortage of youth referee's now, because they abuse the referee's.

  • @H0TWHEELS
    @H0TWHEELS 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1171

    When you can hear her loud mouth over the game and kids, you know how she really is. Good job Ref, someone give him a raise.

    • @gerryendersen4718
      @gerryendersen4718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      As a youth ref I can tell u we don’t need a raise. Center refs get paid a dollar a minute straight cash to deal with this bullshit.

    • @VotexSin
      @VotexSin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Don’t forget the tornado and planes in the background

    • @yousufrizvi557
      @yousufrizvi557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He only made one mistake, which was when the free kick was kicked play should’ve continued, it was behind where it was supposed to be kicked and I think that’s fine.

    • @aizekkemp9024
      @aizekkemp9024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      As a ref i wish raises were a thing

    • @ianritchie3810
      @ianritchie3810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yousufrizvi557 sorry mate, that ain’t a rule. From a guy in uk, played and followed football all my life. Meant to be where foul was committed... none of this rolling the ball forward or behind.
      I agree the ref should have let it play and then gone back to ask the parent to leave... although I have never seen someone in the crowd receive a card??? Is that a American amateur thing? In the uk even at amateur u16s for example if you get booked you still get fined or your club gets fined. Don’t know who to and what fine the “mum” would pay?

  • @therealmessiah1965
    @therealmessiah1965 4 ปีที่แล้ว +344

    I don’t even know what she said but he gave her a warning first so I’m gonna side with the ref

  • @dokim9269
    @dokim9269 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    These type of soccer moms and baseball dads are adults that just never matured. They're still children.

    • @Paladin327
      @Paladin327 หลายเดือนก่อน

      When i played basketball in high school in a community league, the worst parents i encountered just happened to be the league commissioner and his wife. Also their kid was a total asshole as well

  • @kensavage7657
    @kensavage7657 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    As a referee, I can say that "competitive parents" are the very worst part of this level of football. Verbal abuse from parents is very common at this level (towards the ref, opposition players/coaches and even towards their own players/coaches). At youth level, I would estimate that I have ejected more spectators than players.

    • @charlesvoss1393
      @charlesvoss1393 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Agree 100 % parents can be more of the problem in all sports.

    • @johnmu7034
      @johnmu7034 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And there are many sports that struggle to get officials for games, I wonder why !

    • @SoupBeans-ln5ye
      @SoupBeans-ln5ye 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is America. It's soccer.

    • @karatearmchairhistorian9825
      @karatearmchairhistorian9825 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SoupBeans-ln5ye No, in America now more people are calling it "football". The game played with a misshapen-egg ball on a field with weird lines by people dressed like medieval knights is called "American football".

    • @SoupBeans-ln5ye
      @SoupBeans-ln5ye 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@karatearmchairhistorian9825 I'm sorry but that's just incorrect. In America if you say football you are talking about a sport that's fully padded with helmets and a oblong ball. When you're looking through a tv guide to find something to watch and you see the word football it iis football with the forward pass 100% of the time (except latin stations which say futbol but that's for people who were not born in the United States. Their 1st generation American children call it soccer.) I live in a city with a MLS team and when you go to it you say one of 2 things. I'm going to the Crew game or you say I'm going to the soccer game. People are starting to call it football lol. I'm American. l know that you're are either nuts or a straight up liar.

  • @kellyfontes7757
    @kellyfontes7757 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1549

    A bunch of people who never played soccer harrassing a ref.

    • @pablosanchez5294
      @pablosanchez5294 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Kelly Fontes I played football cause that’s it’s real name not soccer but I never seen a ref kickout parents watching a game before I wouldn’t have left if he did that shit on me

    • @michael4129
      @michael4129 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kelly Fontes

    • @kylew.4896
      @kylew.4896 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      This ref has clearly never played lol what's he gonna card the goal post next hahaha

    • @kipknee
      @kipknee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @pablo sanchez, Then it's game over and your team would forfeit.

    • @kellyfontes7757
      @kellyfontes7757 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jose Gutierrez no guey es Futbol

  • @HousBinPhartiin
    @HousBinPhartiin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I' m sure she said,......."but wait, don't you know that my child is gifted?"

  • @samirchavi5121
    @samirchavi5121 4 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    TEAM mates: Hey Chelsey isn't your mom ?..
    CHELSEY :No I don't know her🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏👏

    • @vicO1323
      @vicO1323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      CHELSEY, No, I'm adopted.

    • @russs7574
      @russs7574 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It can be kind of like a St. Peter thing, eh? "Before the whistle blows, you will deny your mother three times?" lol

    • @samirchavi5121
      @samirchavi5121 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@russs7574 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
      Cracked me up
      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @joesignoretti9039
    @joesignoretti9039 5 ปีที่แล้ว +804

    Nothing ruins youth sports like parents. When I coached rec I made sure every girl played and every girl sat equally. Somehow that was a problem especially with one father. He was angry I would pull the best player. He couldn't get it through his head this was not competitive soccer. He complained about me and when I explained what I was doing they told him either accept it or take her elsewhere. He left and took the worst player I had. I got a thumbs up from the rest of the team. The rest of the season was fun.

    • @badgumby9544
      @badgumby9544 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      "this was not competitive soccer". What the hell does that mean? If it's not competitive soccer then it's not soccer. You probably give out "participation" trophies as well.

    • @annadavide2776
      @annadavide2776 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      You are a good citizen and a good coach❤

    • @jcwatts79
      @jcwatts79 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Timothy - this is what people don’t get. It’s recreational league, a club aimed at kids learning to love the game. And yes you do get participation trophy’s. You are rewarded by how you do on the field each game of the season. If your child plays competitive league you better hope they are good enough to stay off the bench otherwise your child will not get much play time and will eventually lose interest.

    • @coldblue9mm
      @coldblue9mm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Timothy Landon You just don't get it, do you? It's recreational, supposed to be fun. These kids have the rest of their lives to deal with douche bags like you. Let the kids have fun. Stuff a sock in the parents mouth if that's what it takes.

    • @badgumby9544
      @badgumby9544 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Bullshit. Trophies for all convey an inaccurate and potentially dangerous life message to children: "We are all winners". This message is repeated at the end of each sports season, year after year, and is only reinforced by the collection of trophies that continues to pile up. We begin to expect awards and praise for just showing up - to class, practice, after-school jobs - leaving us woefully unprepared for reality. Outside the protected bubble of childhood, not everyone is a winner. Showing up to work, attending class, completing homework and trying my best at sports practice are expected of me, not worthy of an award. These are the foundations of a long path to potential success, a success that is not guaranteed no matter how much effort I put in. Trophies should be given out for first, second and third; participation should be recognized, but celebrated with words and a pat on the back rather than a trophy. As in sports as well as life, it is fact that there’s room for only a select few on the winners’ podium.

  • @27westmount
    @27westmount 5 ปีที่แล้ว +543

    Good for the ref. Throwing out rude and unruly parents!!!

    • @southwestfan7060
      @southwestfan7060 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ethan3949 I think it's actually fun. Get to see the game from a different view.

    • @southwestfan7060
      @southwestfan7060 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ethan3949 You can't get a referee licence until you are 12, just so you know.

    • @southwestfan7060
      @southwestfan7060 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ethan3949 I'm sorry, I misinterpreted you. I thought you said you quit reffing.

    • @southwestfan7060
      @southwestfan7060 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ethan3949 :)

    • @Downsouthroots
      @Downsouthroots 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You never show a fan a card!!!!

  • @kevinrogers7650
    @kevinrogers7650 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Speaking as a FIFA ref, sometimes you need to throw parents out of games, but it's usually handled differently. If a parent is a problem, you stop the game, and have the Coach, who represents the team that the parent is rooting for, quiet down. If it continures, you tell the coach to remove the parent, or he/she loses in a forfeit. It's less confrontational that way, and less embarassing for the kid, and the parent.

    • @amongthederps
      @amongthederps 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You are a red in fifa what players did you meet I'm so curious your lucky to meet them all

    • @devonalomar9012
      @devonalomar9012 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Speaking as the inventor of football, blah blah blah. Sure buddy.

    • @kevinrogers7650
      @kevinrogers7650 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@amongthederps Not that you know what you're talking about, let me give you a little edumakashun, bubba:
      FIFA has a system where teenagers, and some adults, are developed into being a ref. There are 8 grades of being a ref. To ref international games, such as World Cup, Olympics, etc, you must be a grade 1 ref. It takes many years to reach this level and not everyone can make it.
      Starting as a teenage ref, you are only allowed to referee other teens/children, as long as you are 2 yrs older. Once you've refereed and served as a linesman for enough games (and with your ocal FIFA coordinator's approval) you become a grade 7 ref. The process is long. There are physical fitness standards when you reach the highest levels. In an 11 vs. 11 match, an avg ref runs 10 miles if he's doing it right - a ref is supposed to try to remain within 10 meters of the ball. FIFA refs take re-certification tests annually on the "Laws of the Game" The rules are the same for children through adults. FIFA issues modifications/changes to the rules every year.
      Yes, even those teenagers you see refereeing kids games are most likely FIFA refs. The only exception is high school and college athletic associations have their own certifications, but 99.9% of the refs doing hs and college games are also FIFA refs.

    • @Subangelis
      @Subangelis 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It is quite possible the ref conveyed the info that coaches control their parents pre-match.

    • @henrikiversen3084
      @henrikiversen3084 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Speaking as a coach training division teams - id like for you to link where a spectator can have a red card within the fifa rules or any other football rules - jeez@@kevinrogers7650

  • @ivansimonetto8957
    @ivansimonetto8957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    At the question: "What is your dream after you won this Championship?", an Italian coach answered: "My dream is to train a team of orphans".

  • @robertstv8045
    @robertstv8045 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I was at a local baseball league last week. A parent used the F-word. Immediate ejection from the park. ZERO tolerance. No option. Zero means ZERO. Gone. Was told it has cut down bad behavior by 99%.

    • @tonyfranklin8306
      @tonyfranklin8306 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm afraid that in football and sometimes at rugby here in the UK you'll hear the F bomb and a few more choice words besides , by time they are 14-15 parents and even the kids themselves will be 'effing and blinding' like it's casual conversation. Our old rugby PE master would crack you a backhander if he heard you swearing (this was the early to mid 80s when corporal punishment was still a thing) The fact he was an ex pro rugby player helped with how some parents behaved but too often, particularly in football the reaction of parents is horrendous

    • @robertstv8045
      @robertstv8045 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tonyfranklin8306 US youth football parents are nuts. Flag football is growing very fast, while tackle football numbers shrink. CTE issues and overall parent craziness is at fault

    • @robertstv8045
      @robertstv8045 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Mark Oster I attend baseball youth primarily. Football at the youth level gravitates to violence at times.

  • @brianbeiler5162
    @brianbeiler5162 6 ปีที่แล้ว +725

    Parents are the reason that there are fewer and fewer experienced referees out there. The only ones left are really old and have lost a step, or are very young and don't know any better.
    Yes, referees make mistakes. But they do not deserve this abuse. Do they get to come to your place of work and scream at you when YOU make a mistake? No. So what makes you think they deserve your abuse?
    Without referees, there is no game.

    • @wesleyraman9014
      @wesleyraman9014 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Brian Beiler thanks dude that would've helped a lot of people's opinions

    • @PhilDenton
      @PhilDenton 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Not to mention most of these refs do this part time either for fun or to make a little extra money on the side. When I was a kid my dad used to ref as a fun way to stay in shape and make a little extra money. He really enjoyed it until he had to eject a parent who then threatened to go his car, get a gun, and come back and shoot him. That was his last game as a ref. Some people ruin it for everybody...

    • @slpguy6026
      @slpguy6026 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well said

    • @billyd5301
      @billyd5301 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True but the ref here is clueless.

    • @cs1458
      @cs1458 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      There are parents who yell at the refs at my kid's U-7 soccer games. It's a joke, I have no idea what goes through these people's heads.

  • @cd1857
    @cd1857 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I've had to do this several times. The kids are great, never had to red card a one. But some parents are the worst!

  • @dallased25
    @dallased25 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I've had multiple friends coach youth sport and all of them would never do it again....because of the parents.

  • @itsmeagain8760
    @itsmeagain8760 5 ปีที่แล้ว +737

    I’m a club coach in California, I had to cut really good players from my team because of their parents.

    • @javtimestwo
      @javtimestwo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      oscar-good job. probably was not an easy decision but took a lot of courage.

    • @itsmeagain8760
      @itsmeagain8760 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      I’m really good...my team is rank #5 in the state. I’m here to coach a team, not to deal with frustrations from parents, if you let someone abuse you... that’s on you buddy!!!!

    • @PhilDenton
      @PhilDenton 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      You are an idiot and if you have kids it's apparent that you're an awful role model and awful parent as well. If you don't have kids please stay that way. We don't need any more of your entitled attitude in the gene pool.

    • @itsmeagain8760
      @itsmeagain8760 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Phil Denton all my players have above 3.00 GPA... they’re on their way to college some of them with athletic scholarships, for some people that’s pretty good.... I’m sure you’re one of those parents that likes to be coaching your kid from the sidelines, abusing refs and acting like a complete idiot on the sidelines....Your kid would never excede in sports.!!!

    • @carloscarballo2840
      @carloscarballo2840 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Oscar G. Keep up the good work coach hope u make it rank #1 some day and it's stressful eliminating good players from ur team just because of their parents but look at ur team now they are rank #5 which is something tht another coach might never get.

  • @jeffstewart7639
    @jeffstewart7639 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    As an experienced 4-sport official, one of the most fundamental understandings is - parents are ignored UNLESS they become a source of concern to players and other fans.

    • @mipilot30
      @mipilot30 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's usually checked or monitored more at the instructional stages of a program where I come from. As the kids get older, the refs are better and used to dicks. Not saying they like it, but it's harder to do anyting about it by high school or travel and select programs.

    • @iamlordinho5229
      @iamlordinho5229 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In the UK we are told to never approach the parents. If they get too bad then the home team should have their welfare officer deal with it. If it’s unresolved after that then the game should be suspended or abandoned. A parent would never be shown a yellow or red card in a game and in the UK it would have the opposite effect anyway cos ppl would definitely take the piss out of you 😂

    • @tewaewae
      @tewaewae 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      no, you don't ignore, you kick them out and feel sorry for the kids. Eventually the parents will self police the morons.

    • @danmodevs7227
      @danmodevs7227 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@iamlordinho5229 Whereabouts are you reffing in the UK? Refs are taught from the age of 14 to send disruptive parents away from the field of play if they become abusive in any way. Welfare officers from the league will then attend attend a set amount of the offending team's matches. If it is a young ref, just hope his / her dad doesn't get you first.

  • @Lava1964
    @Lava1964 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I umpired baseball and softball in Canada for 30 years. I was told by one of the umpire supervisors that most new umpires don't last two seasons because of the abuse they take--often from parents. However, he said, if they last two years they likely will last ten years.

  • @MsSoccer1111
    @MsSoccer1111 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!!!!

  • @philtevlin3853
    @philtevlin3853 5 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    My brother coached/refereed girl's soccer for several years. He gave it up after having to deal with unreasonable parents one too many times.

  • @emmanuelrobert208
    @emmanuelrobert208 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Totally agreed with the decision. Stop the game until the parent leaves.

  • @jhagestad
    @jhagestad 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can we just admire the fact that this game was played in a tornado?

    • @JILL0704USA
      @JILL0704USA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eye of a hurricane, maybe?

  • @joshuaespinoza5082
    @joshuaespinoza5082 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I thank God for being taught how to be honest!

  • @aanon5716
    @aanon5716 5 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    nothing worse than an obnoxious parent at the kids games except having to live with them. lol.

    • @stevenberry3294
      @stevenberry3294 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      awe poor whittle ref

    • @bigboymatthew7471
      @bigboymatthew7471 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      People are completely different at home and at ⚽️ games there are always lots of emotions

  • @sealand000
    @sealand000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Daughter: "No, I don't know who that woman is."

  • @graemekawa7159
    @graemekawa7159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love it. makes me feel like I'm doing a damn fine job raising my kids. Thanx Karen

  • @doctordef324
    @doctordef324 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love it, the ref joyfully jogs over like twinkle toes and gets the parent tossed!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @glseibert0825
    @glseibert0825 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Being a Soccer Ref for the last 20 years, I totally agree. It's far more effective to try a 2-step resolution: 1) Walk calmly to the sideline and remind the entire collection of "adults" reminding them how they are supposed to be role models for the soccer-playing children. If that doesn't work, walk calmly to the coaches are say something like, "Coaches. We're having a problem with that person (describe to identify) in the spectators section. Can you help us with that?" Most good coaches will take care of the problem. If not, walk calmly to the offender and state in a professional manner, "Sir/Madam the game will resume when you are in the parking lot." Walk away to prepare for restart while watching the offender depart. That generally gets the point across that the adults need to act like adults.
    What you don't do is show cards to spectators. It makes the referee look amateur. Those are reserved for players.

    • @jasonmcleod6001
      @jasonmcleod6001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It is absolutely amateur and much over the top. Preventative officiating will solve nearly all the problems - not blowing the whistle, stopping the game, running over (far over) and looking like an absolute idiot issuing yellow/red cards to spectators. Then going out of his way to find the tourney directors? How lame. Just ask the coach(es) for help.

    • @criscrosxxx
      @criscrosxxx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wheres step 2 ???

    • @sachsgs2509
      @sachsgs2509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      First of all you don't show cards on spectators.
      Only players coaches team personnel.
      I like your calm approach however it takes a long time from the game.
      Players waiting.

    • @MaydayAggro
      @MaydayAggro 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jasonmcleod6001 No. Preventive officiating will not stop even 50% of the problems because the problems most of the time are the PEOPLE, not the situations. I personally rarely have issues with spectators, but I have been relatively lucky.

    • @XwpisONOMA
      @XwpisONOMA ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nope, you NEVER talk to these people. The proper way to deal with such spectators is to ask the respective team's coach to control them. If they do not or are unable to do so, simply refuse to continue the game and even terminate it. Btw, a youth soccer referee is entitled at any point before, during or even after a game to call local law enforcement and depending on the severity of the behavior even ask that the person is arrested.

  • @oscarjetson128
    @oscarjetson128 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Good for the ref. Some parents can be absolutely brutal to deal with.

  • @tomwalsh63
    @tomwalsh63 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love how all these parents couldn’t run a mile, yet know how everything should be in a game.

    • @Sxogy
      @Sxogy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      THATS IM SAYIN

  • @JJKid-yw7vk
    @JJKid-yw7vk 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Parents are not even in the game but still get thrown out..😅🤣😅🤣😅

  • @hotdog8214
    @hotdog8214 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Love it..can't stand big mouth parents

  • @steveboyd9522
    @steveboyd9522 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I bet your kid is so proud of you!

  • @thomasfarmer1730
    @thomasfarmer1730 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I remember playing junior rugby league about 1987....a big fight erupted on the sideline....it was one of the opposing players dad and the biggest front forward on our team friggin going for it.....I was on the ground rolling with hysterical laughter 🤣

  • @DavidVanmeterDutch
    @DavidVanmeterDutch 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Needs to happen a hell of a lot more often!!

  • @vasily2022
    @vasily2022 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It is a disgrace when parents desperately try to live their failed lives through their kids and take things to these extreme levels and sometimes start fights. I feel sorry for the refs. Yes! Some might be unprofessional or may miss calls, but that happens even in professional games in any sport. I couldn't be a ref, because at these little events because I am not going to be able to take the abuse they take from the parents. Some refs have been beaten up, attacked and in some cases, even killed. This is really a disgrace.

  • @5150Murph
    @5150Murph 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Good job mom. Take your anti depressants before the game.

    • @e_e9496
      @e_e9496 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

    • @samirchavi5121
      @samirchavi5121 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She needs something else

  • @rahulbarca4112
    @rahulbarca4112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I wish we have a red card for karens in real life situation too.

    • @Unclefire
      @Unclefire 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      A former boss of mine is a huge hockey fan. He would joke around at work and said work should be like hockey sometimes. If somebody is being an ass, you drop the gloves and go at it, then you go to the penalty box for 5 minutes. lol

    • @Linus76
      @Linus76 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The "K" Card. :)

  • @lgarcia67
    @lgarcia67 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My son played competitive soccer since he was 9 until he was 16. He played at all levels, all the way to state championship. I saw parents with the most outrageous behaviors in all that time. They simply destroy the fun for the kids. I saw many kids turn around and ask their parents to shut up. It was absolutely crazy.

  • @The_Aligor
    @The_Aligor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I play soccer so I've seen parents like this in the crowd and my God there so annoying.

  • @nautica7084
    @nautica7084 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    as a soccer referee reffing in various age groups, we are not supposed to interact with the spectator side. I'm so sad to see this happen. We are supposed to go to the coach to handle spectators.

    • @slpguy6026
      @slpguy6026 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not necessarily, depends on league rules. He is probably completely justified issuing the warning & then notifying the parent they were gone. He did indeed then seek the coach’s help. The cards were silly & inappropriate.

    • @jackel99
      @jackel99 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yes
      you never show a card to a spectator (including player on the bench) a card@@slpguy6026

  • @bobstrempie9424
    @bobstrempie9424 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The ref walking around is more exciting than watching soccer.

  • @PeterBee911
    @PeterBee911 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Probably the first time they ever got told "NO".

  • @eljackryan3681
    @eljackryan3681 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wtf? Yellow card? Then red? 🤣🤦🏻‍♂️

    • @mipilot30
      @mipilot30 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What? You want purple to sooth the snowflake angst?

  • @tjjo136
    @tjjo136 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The walk of shame hahaha

    • @mipilot30
      @mipilot30 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      No shame if you have no moral or conscience. I'm guessing she tore up social media with her rants on how wronged she was by an evil ref at a kids game. WTF?

  • @TreyParkersBitch
    @TreyParkersBitch 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He waved “bye bye” to her, haha

  • @bearbrand6626
    @bearbrand6626 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm stuck in an eerily satisfying wormhole of unsportsmanlike parents and coaches (across several sports).
    I feel like the kids could figure out the close calls easier if the adults weren't around.

    • @russs7574
      @russs7574 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Point well taken. In a lot of cases, they could. We did when we were kids. During the summer, we spent almost all of our free time playing all sorts of sports (Football in the park in July? Sure, why not?), and the vast majority of that was NOT spent in an organized league, so we just officiated ourselves. We were the best umpires/referees on the planet. lol
      The best way to ruin a sport for kids is to get the adults involved.

  • @scottl9840
    @scottl9840 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I was a ref in my teens. When all the parents were behaving badly..this formula worked well.
    1) warn the coach and have he/she tell the parents to pipe down.
    2) next time It happens, walk calmly up to all the parents and say “one more outburst and your team forfeits”.
    Works every time! Being a ref taught me so much about standing up for what’s right. And Hopefully teaching some kids that bullying has a price.

    • @randalhill6283
      @randalhill6283 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yeah real classy, make the kids pay for the parents acting like jerks. What a piece of shit ref you probably were. you don't punish the kids for the parents Behavior you ass.

    • @mipilot30
      @mipilot30 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well what a piece of work you clearly are. The kid ref did the right thing. He took charge and made a good call. If the coach let's the parents act like assholes that's not the ref's fault. If you can't handle doing the right thing, go find your safe zone snowflake.@@randalhill6283

    • @LaPelotaenlaCabeza
      @LaPelotaenlaCabeza 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree, this whole thing was way over the top.

    • @Chase0370
      @Chase0370 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@randalhill6283 umm you question someone class with a trashy post great logic

    • @LaPelotaenlaCabeza
      @LaPelotaenlaCabeza 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Mark W If they fucking suck, you should go do it and we'll see how good of a job you do.

  • @lamontanderson7428
    @lamontanderson7428 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    lol the way he starts running towards her is hilarious

  • @jonathanaman6573
    @jonathanaman6573 ปีที่แล้ว

    As a youth coach, this makes me happy.😀

  • @commonsense31
    @commonsense31 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This should be done so much more often you have no idea.
    If parents are acting like that throw them off the side line.

  • @BAZZAROU812
    @BAZZAROU812 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    My boss is a coach and he tells me all the time about unruly parents.. He has had to ban them from the games.. He told me about several fights over the years all involving women for some reason..

    • @number62
      @number62 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @steve b why should they elect women for the sake of having a woman in office? Surely the platform matters more......unless your a treasonous libtard.

    • @mipilot30
      @mipilot30 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey asshole, libs didn't elect Putin's bitch, cons did. Cons have been traitors since the revolutionary war when they fought against the founding fathers who were liberals - progressives.@@number62

    • @russs7574
      @russs7574 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mipilot30 You two should both get red cards for trying to politicize this board.

  • @BonBon-xl4lq
    @BonBon-xl4lq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The ref is me man😭😭shit running up to parents with a yellow or red card😂

  • @dennissvitak148
    @dennissvitak148 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was a little league coach for years. The best approach is for the ref to go to the coach whose kid is this ladies' player, and tell them to deal with it. Works every time.

  • @joshuak2810
    @joshuak2810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I played alot of sports when I was a kid. My father was getting kicked out of my hockey games alot of the time & I was very embarrased throughout the rest of the games. If it's an upper level elite highschool varsity game, I could understand it but some parents can easily cross a line.

  • @MaskHysteria
    @MaskHysteria 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Seen this one too many times at my stepdaughter's games. Worse when the parents berate their own kids from the sidelines.

    • @Pmtd1234
      @Pmtd1234 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sadly that happens all too often.

  • @Hestiff
    @Hestiff 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    People don’t understand how difficult it is to ref a game. They really expect you to see everything and never make a mistake.

    • @janetpartyka5968
      @janetpartyka5968 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @Hestiff, I understand. They are entitled parents who don't spend enough time with their kids.

  • @extremcorg7284
    @extremcorg7284 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m sorry but the ref giving the parent a card might be the funniest thing I’ve seen all year

  • @TheStuport
    @TheStuport 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    It's really not at all surprising to see and hear kids who have no manners these days....their Parents raised them that way by example.

  • @MrThaddeus1980
    @MrThaddeus1980 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    i do not ref soccer and never have but for over 30 years I have officiated basketball at all levels including the NBA. I will say that the fans are becoming more and more unreasonable and rude. Whatever the price for admission does not give the fan the right to act a fool. Plus, I always tell fans "IF YOU CAN DO BETTER WE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR MORE OFFICICALS! One time during a college game I had, one of my co-officials took off his wistle, sat in the stands next to this fan and gave him his wistle and said "obviously you are seeing a different game than I am. Why don't you go and call the rest of the game since you know so much more than I do." I challenge anyone who think the refs are terrible to go join the local association and start getting all the calls we miss!

    • @joelparish3851
      @joelparish3851 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      mtt i

    • @besto6279
      @besto6279 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I do not believe you! If your partner went into the stands during a collegiate game then he never work another college game again. If you cant take criticism in the profession then find another avocation. Tell me professional POSER! How many rules are in the rule book?

    • @jamisojo
      @jamisojo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@besto6279 You're an idiot BestO.

    • @josephhumbles140
      @josephhumbles140 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      mtt *foo

    • @levivv
      @levivv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hahaha so how was reffing the NBA mtt? must have been a great experience. did the players moms yell at you there too? poor guy

  • @MP5..
    @MP5.. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Judging by that foul called, looks like these parents have a legit a regiment lol.

  • @uboii
    @uboii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Every time he ran to the parent had me Fuckin dyin tho😂😂

  • @Amazin-ji8sn
    @Amazin-ji8sn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love these parents they never played the game in their life yelling at refs from the sidelines. Instead of coaching, volunteering or trying to ref themselves.

  • @mac7083
    @mac7083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When I first started coaching kids I was told “The hardest part about coaching kids is managing the egos of the parents”. This arse hat parent proves that.

  • @craig2012
    @craig2012 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is great. I’ve been watching a lot of videos of refs throwing parents out. I love it.

  • @jukio02
    @jukio02 ปีที่แล้ว

    How did you film so high?

  • @70dvn
    @70dvn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He was ahead of his time, now we can card coaches in 2019

  • @tonimp4317
    @tonimp4317 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I had to remove a parent for harrassing their own kid. It was awful. He threatened to fight me (and he had at least 100lbs and an extra foot of height on me). Now we have a parent that can't stop coaching from the sideline. It ruins everything for the kids.

    • @Icecube88
      @Icecube88 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      i would have fought him for you

    • @badkaladoo8637
      @badkaladoo8637 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Go for the retracted nuts next time dear

  • @jpprophete1988
    @jpprophete1988 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who knew you could card an unruly parent in youth soccer games???!!!! Amazing.

  • @fungiformenow
    @fungiformenow 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent wind noise. Most enjoyable

  • @sifender56
    @sifender56 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Since when does a ref have power over a spectator in a public park?! 🤣🤣🤣
    If that was Scotland he’d be told where to go! 😂🤣😂🤣

    • @clearstar8354
      @clearstar8354 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed. He cant card the fans, he should be carding the team sidelines. That's when the coach steps in and tells the parents to stfu.

    • @brettbatz695
      @brettbatz695 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The carding of the parent is wrong (unless that specific league allows it) but the ref is well within his right to stop the game and not allow it to continue until the abusive parent is removed. Usually league policy (and most youth leagues have a similar policy) is that this is done by going over and telling the coaches that the game will not continue until said parent has left. As a ref myself if I have an abusive parent I pause the game and go talk to both coaches and have them go over and remind their parents to be respectful. If it continues a second pause until the parent is removed. If the parent wont leave the ref can end the game and file a report with the league.

  • @cleehomes
    @cleehomes 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I am ex professional coach who traveled from UK to America to coach select, my biggest nightmare was the parents and not the kids! To be fair most of the parents were pretty cool but there was always one or two parents for each team who would always get on the referees back! They were also the parents who had never played the game themselves before but always viewed themselves as the experts and set a terrible example to their kids!!!

  • @brandonrandell8236
    @brandonrandell8236 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    To be fair he doesn’t need to show a card to a parent he just asks them to leave 🤣🤣

  • @melodyeisenberg2789
    @melodyeisenberg2789 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Both my children were in soccer from pee wee community to high school club. I witnessed so much of this from mom, dads, coaches. I think it's so stupid.

  • @princetimon6733
    @princetimon6733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    You know he meant business when he ran all the way there to get them ejected.

  • @ianweldon4796
    @ianweldon4796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I’m okay with what progressed with the situation, but as an referee myself, a rule says that you cannot give a parent any cards. If there are problems with the parents, you’re supposed to warn and give a yellow card to the parent’s coach.

    • @mtkimbrell
      @mtkimbrell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here. I yellow card the coach this last weekend but let the coach know it goes on him but it is due to the parent. This was after verbal warnings. Coach was also instigating and for his sake he is lucky he decided to stop because the red was coming and he had no assistant so the game would have been forfeited in our league. U12 game and hate to see kids not get to play because of the the parents and coaches. The kids were actually really well behaved. The offending parent's kid actually told his dad to sit down so they could play.

    • @ImaDirt
      @ImaDirt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s league rules

    • @liambrowne8255
      @liambrowne8255 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah, ref here too and would never card a parent. Its not on a ref to do so (follow laws of the game, nothing else). If a parent/supporter is getting too hot and heavy, inform the home team coach, who must inform whoevers looking after the grounds, to remove them from the grounds.

    • @dannyfitzpatrick9783
      @dannyfitzpatrick9783 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@liambrowne8255 Yeah, referee to stop the game, referee to go searching for the coach, coach argues with him, referee leaves it to the coach to find the ground manager ... on and on it goes. Attack the parents, tell 'em to leave immediately and to come to the mid week judiciary to explain themselves. Why did the referee here have to first find the fat sheila to act and then find the old fella to act, with his faithful manservant Pancho?

    • @liambrowne8255
      @liambrowne8255 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@dannyfitzpatrick9783 It ain't hard to find the coach.. they'll be on the line. You get the coach to sort it, or you stop the game and leave it to the league to decide.

  • @y274
    @y274 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    These are so entertaining

  • @hopper1415
    @hopper1415 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Friggin awesome

  • @Brucetiki1
    @Brucetiki1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This needs to happen more often.

  • @JavierTorres-jw1bd
    @JavierTorres-jw1bd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great job Ref!!! Parent take it to seriuos is just soccer people please!!! Behave.

  • @nolancoley7171
    @nolancoley7171 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love how they say they're not gonna leave as they're packing their shit up to leave lol

  • @YngfamK9
    @YngfamK9 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😂😂😂 He wanted all the smoke 😂 🏃🏽‍♂️

  • @phillosophy5103
    @phillosophy5103 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Parents need to remember they are there to cheer on the players and are in no way to do the job of the ref. If they want to they could apply for the jersey! 😃

  • @davidhartman6279
    @davidhartman6279 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    what teams were in this world cup playoff match

    • @simonwills6176
      @simonwills6176 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The morals and ideals are the same watch your mouth other people are there.

    • @raphaelzribi5796
      @raphaelzribi5796 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Karen vs Karen

  • @georgesealy4706
    @georgesealy4706 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome.

  • @bluesteel5688
    @bluesteel5688 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Well done referee, get those loud mouthed mofos out of there....they are a disgrace and know zippo about football

  • @penubly
    @penubly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    Parents should shut up or get out there and referee a game! These guys aren't out there to make money, they are out there to provide a service to the community on their day off! They don't deserve the abuse from the sidelines; they don't deserve the abuse from people who aren't willing to get out there and ref a game. Everyone wants people to give them a break when they make a mistake or have a bad day. Don't referees deserve one too?

    • @nickm8874
      @nickm8874 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      penubly if it’s anything like England then a lot of them are out there for attention and a sense of authority. This guy looks the type ...

    • @penubly
      @penubly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This isn't England - soccer isn't the top sport and most parents haven't played. Spectators need to realize they shouldn't be commentators, especially if they aren't willing to get out there themselves.

    • @andywerner838
      @andywerner838 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      penubly I have refed game s and I still hate so called refs .hate that they act like they are better than anyone else .

    • @JoseLopez-bt7zp
      @JoseLopez-bt7zp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      penubly refs are definitely out there the money! No one would put up with some of the shit that goes on out for free. At the same time some of these refs are control freaks and make the game about them self.

    • @penubly
      @penubly 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you lumping all refs in the same category?

  • @therainbowgulag.
    @therainbowgulag. หลายเดือนก่อน

    The ref loves his whistle.

  • @Srman1999
    @Srman1999 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’m glad that the community will not stand verbal abuse gets rid of it

    • @Mancer666
      @Mancer666 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Arbiter snowflake

  • @Kyoto99952
    @Kyoto99952 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I hate these kind of parents.

  • @jaybird5338
    @jaybird5338 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What did they say to get kicked out?

  • @goodDrummerman
    @goodDrummerman 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alternative title “Video shows ref blow whistle and parent escorted, wind covers all audio.”

  • @baseballumpires6901
    @baseballumpires6901 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    LOVE IT!!!! Na Na Na-Na, Na Na Na-Na, HEY HEY HEY....GOODBYE!!!! Parents are killing youth sports.

  • @MARKBART02
    @MARKBART02 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've been a soccer ref for three years now and grew up on the game and one major thing I've kicked parents out of games is cursing and harassing the other team

  • @magicmike9004
    @magicmike9004 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved the walk of shame when she left at the end!