Sending my son with Autism alone was my biggest mistake

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  • @user-wo6jf4fj9m
    @user-wo6jf4fj9m 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Mujhe bhi bhut log bolte hain school bejiye aapne beto ko wahan sb m reh kr sikh jayega ...but mne dession liya ki abhi use school nhi bhejenge ..jb tk acche se teacher aur baccho k sath aapni commands na follow krne lage ...kyuki abhi auro ko follow krna uske liye challange h ...home schooling krte h , usne writting bhut acche se krna sikh liya h , book m pointing bhut acche aa gyi h , speech issue h ..jb us bhi work acche se ho jayega tabhi school start karenge,...nd school na bhej kr ghr pr hardwork kiya h ...aur us ek dession se bhut acche results aaye hain ❤❤❤

  • @jayitachowdhury4663
    @jayitachowdhury4663 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much for this video....❤❤❤I really need this guidance 🙏🙏

  • @surabhipranitharao7463
    @surabhipranitharao7463 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for the lovely videos...pls make a video on what things to work with shadow or school when we send our kid to school...first few things that would help kid...

  • @nehaagnesnelson9465
    @nehaagnesnelson9465 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's true ma'am you are doing wonderful job but as you said mam if financial poor , no otherway we have to send him alone so that he can be in group may b he can absorb things but my son started improving ,as you says always it's not same for everyone, spritually I believe whatever efforts we put , put with a trust in the jehovah God. He is helping me,he will help you all also thank you ma'am

    • @jayasreesurya3625
      @jayasreesurya3625 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Great to see your comment can you please tell me about your son about diagnosis as my is also autistic

  • @mehnaz9410
    @mehnaz9410 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lots of love to viraj n family ❤

  • @anjanakasyap6158
    @anjanakasyap6158 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi , i was in Bangalore. My son is mild autism .he was going orchids international school. He was going school with shadow teacher.

  • @Asmatahirkhan-sb1tt
    @Asmatahirkhan-sb1tt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dear then hmy kuch time special school ma dalna chahiy...
    Mera 4.7 hy abhi tk school nh bheja but irada kiya ta bhejny ka verbal hy need base recptv language achi hy

  • @divyaagrawal4772
    @divyaagrawal4772 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very very true mam....and remember it's not ur fault. We also need time and experience to learn our child's needs. In my case school is not allow a mother as a shadow teacher. I am also live in Noida . How do u agree then for this ..??

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Viraj’s school is not in Noida we have to travel distance

  • @yesminkhan713
    @yesminkhan713 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We stay in UK my son is autistic he goes to normal school with SEN unit.He is in year 1 first three months he went to SEN unit for the whole day and after three months he is in his class for the whole day and he has become so independent. So I don’t agree this and secondly they have to live their life independently so why not from today.We always monitor him and here awareness is more than India which I understand as I am also a teacher and I work in a different school in uk

    • @SS-hf1en
      @SS-hf1en 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi I am also in UK I have daughter with Autism spectrum and she also go to school but not adjusting can u tell me what should do I am new here plz help me

  • @prathyushapayasam2633
    @prathyushapayasam2633 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi ina. My child doesn't cooperate at all while I try to teach or make him learn. How can I homeschool him in his state of no motivation at all whatsoever? Please suggest.

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      First goal in such scenario shall be to bring the child to do his fVorite activity on table and chair rather than straight away starting with academics.. playing with clay dough, painting, games , or anything which ur child loves.. then slowly for a minute or two introduce some item related to academics and keep the play as a motivation then gradually start increasing the time.. kids on spectrum take time to transition from one phase to another , pushing them right from the beginning doesn’t always work

  • @babypuja5137
    @babypuja5137 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ma'am facing the same situation please suggest some solution 🙏

  • @divyagupta3761
    @divyagupta3761 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ina can we create closed group (age specific) with kids in spectrum having common issues where we can share our journey till lifetime , every facet of life , we and those kids can be friends . It will be a great moral boost society of likeminded people . My son is 95% similar to Viraj

  • @SAVik30
    @SAVik30 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello mam
    Maine bete ko pre skul me admission kraya h abi nursery me, 2to 2:30 hour k liye bhejti hu skul kya glat kiya h maine?

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      apka bacha wahan settle ho paraha hai ya nahi ye totally us chiz par depend karta hai.. agar apko pata hai ke bacha communicate nai kar pata sensory issues hain ya bilkul instructions nahi le pate hain toh apke bache ko kafi challenge ata hoga

  • @sagarika3329
    @sagarika3329 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kis age me diagnosis hua baby ka and kaaun se age me mainstream me gaya

  • @abudhabivlogger
    @abudhabivlogger 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Meri beti ki understanding achi hogyi hai pr bolne pe nhi arhi maine screen bnd ki thi iski tou bolti thi us time repeat krti thi sentences bhi kbhi kbhi pr ab nhi bolti hai sari tricks use ki mene adhi therapist bn chuki hoon jo gesture sikhati hoon game sikhati hoon seek jati hai pr bolne pe nhi arhi therapy twice a week horhi hai speech only kyun yhn uae mai bht zyada expensive horhi insurance kch cover nhi krha ab 3.9 yrs pe eye contact kaafi acha hogya hai day care/preschool bhejna strt ki hai whn itna kch sikhate tou nhi pr bche hote hain unhe dekhna socialize krne mai help milegi shyd kch suggest kren jis se bolne lge

  • @abudhabivlogger
    @abudhabivlogger 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Shadow teacher ki fee yahan bht zyada hai even nursery ki fee bdi classes se double hai uske sath shadow teacher afford krna na mumkin hai uske sath sath therapy bhi afford nhi ki jaskti hai

  • @sylvester193
    @sylvester193 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Same question maam...in which school can we look for shadow teacher

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There are actually extremely rare school which allow parents to be shadow teachers i have heard of cambridge in delhi.. why I got an opportunity is a very different story.. where I had my own extreme struggles

  • @tamannakhanna8931
    @tamannakhanna8931 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Ina, i am in Canada currently. I have just enrolled him for school and met special education teacher and she told we have educational assistant as well in our class rooms. And if you want him for few hours that also we can manage.
    I am sending him to school so that he can improve in listening to others and be with other kids as kindergarten does not have to work with studies.
    He does not hVe speech but when i told special educator, they told dont worry we will put him on visual schedule

    • @wavesjourney10
      @wavesjourney10 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes Canada has very good education system for autistic children.

    • @tamannakhanna8931
      @tamannakhanna8931 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't know but just going to send me and what to see

  • @Sana...2022
    @Sana...2022 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello ...Ina can you please share some short listed school in noida...who allow shadow teacher ?

    • @sylvester193
      @sylvester193 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same request from me also Maam....I also reside in Noida.

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi dear any inclusive school allow the shadow teacher as per right to education but for parents to assist their kids is a rare chance school may give

    • @Sana...2022
      @Sana...2022 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@aforautism6808 yes that's right ..my kid school is also inclusive but they don't allow shadow teacher neither parents to assist..

  • @sushmasharma303
    @sushmasharma303 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How school allowed you as a shadow teacher Inna?
    Bcoz my son is in kidzee and they are really supportive but not allowing a shadow teacher.
    Is it possible? Pls suggest. I am really confused

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Kidzee - he doesnt study anymore there i had a pathetic experience of my life there where they showed me a golden picture untill I had caught them red handed a couple of times and got him out from there. Now he is in another school where I had my own struggles to get an opportunity to become his shadow

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Majority of schools dont allow parents to be the shadow

    • @sushmasharma303
      @sushmasharma303 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I know Viraj is not in kidzee now. I watch your every single video. My son is in sr. Kg now. And they are not allowing anyone be it me और another hired shadow teacher. They said that this is not in our policy

    • @sushmasharma303
      @sushmasharma303 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      इस there anything related to पॉलिसी and all about shadow teacher

    • @sylvester193
      @sylvester193 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My daughter is also in Kidzee...Nursery class....I also didn't have a good experience of Kidzee so far....but I don't know where else to put her....she has mild ADSD n speech delay......I didn't find teachers are good there.....I even called that out to the head principal...but they supported their teacher....

  • @sonikasharma1230
    @sonikasharma1230 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Koi shadow teacher nhi ban sakta maa se accha

  • @syedanwaralishah4295
    @syedanwaralishah4295 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes absolutely right I also make this mistake

  • @Sameeksha380
    @Sameeksha380 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hii can you disclose the name of school?

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am bound by the privacy and safety concerns

  • @abdullahsdiary3591
    @abdullahsdiary3591 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My son is 4.5 now i know it's challenging for him to cope up but he's very happy in the school he always used to say school jana hai. What should i do? Your video made me confused

    • @MahmoodTheGamer
      @MahmoodTheGamer 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Fir aapka bachcha jaldi thik hone wala hai inshallah..usko bachcho k sat rahna pasnd hai is ka matlb wo sekh jayegaa

    • @abdullahsdiary3591
      @abdullahsdiary3591 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MahmoodTheGamer bacho m sth wo na hony k brabr involve Hota hai unko srf dur sy dekhta hai. Wahan slides hain is wja sy jana pasnd krta hai shayd r morning assembly m khushi sy jata hai bs

    • @abdullahsdiary3591
      @abdullahsdiary3591 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ye dr. Oyalo kya hai ? Hr jaga comment m ata hai kya ksi ny use kia hai ?

    • @literaturelovers9868
      @literaturelovers9868 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@abdullahsdiary3591 no dear...don't think that so...they are now at observing stage...they will mix ...but not with a group of children..but with one or two nd gradually it will increase...assist your child during park visit as their communication is poor...you have to help your child..this actually will not make the other friend to feel that your child is not understanding the words or the rule of the play...
      I have seen this phase...now she wants to mix with others but i have to be with her to assist her in communication..
      It is a very positive sign!!!

    • @abdullahsdiary3591
      @abdullahsdiary3591 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@literaturelovers9868 hopefully aisy e ho . Bs dua e dua hai

  • @sarojpimple1250
    @sarojpimple1250 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Maine bhi yahi soch ke bheja tha school ki baccho le bich rahke kuch imitation ayegi but ek din mai.use school chodne gayi to maine dekha ki wo use ek plastic ka tukada dete hai hath me qki use plastic ka texture hath me chahiye hota hai..
    Shayad ye bat unke dhyan aa gayi thi esliye wo log aisa krte the use shant bithane ke liye

  • @nandhinishivaguru9179
    @nandhinishivaguru9179 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sissy viraj study homeschooling?

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He is in inclusive school with me as a shadow teacher

  • @KavithaKavi-tf5fq
    @KavithaKavi-tf5fq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    His age and his studying class pls

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He is 7 in grade 1