My wife and I have discussed this. Both of us know that the topic of an open marriage is off limits and grounds for immediate divorce. Thats so damaging and disrespectful that I can't see a way past it.
The six year open marriage time window gave him what he needed to secure the divorce in his favor. He knew the marriage was over the moment she suggested opening it. If he had reacted like it was over at the beginning, it would have been harder for him to carry out his plan.
@@bastalam I don't think you are understanding what the 6 year time window was about. Dignity and self-respect is always a factor. Securing what you want and deserve in divorce court requires a timeline.
Females need to bond in some fashion she got the sex but thought she would continue receiving the bond from her husband but her husband didn't bond with her anymore that left right confused and back pedaling but it was to late. Yup she was on a high for awhile but eventually the drug was not working
Like most things legal he probably needed to provide evidence of her infidelity and cheating behavior over time while at the same time refusing to participate himself.
12:36. “Have you hooked up with anyone?” Karen just violated one of her original rules. No asking about each other’s dating experiences. Someone is starting to crack. She may have realized that if she is the only one stepping outside of the marriage, it is adultery by definition and will not go well for her in any divorce proceedings.
I'm sorry, but his reasoning that a divorce would be worse than 6 years of this hell, was delusional. Allowing her ongoing disrespectful behaviour, and staying married as a means of protecting his son and a few assets, was actually very selfish. His son knew what was happening and making him go through this as well, was much more damaging to the young man's mental health. Just end it, and move on.
He did something I never could. I would have rather divorced 6 years prior instead of the deceit. He's as bad as she is. The only difference is he didn't give her the chance to sock away funds as well. Too many questions. Was the house solely in his name? Did he allow her to place 100% of her paycheck into the house accounts while he hid money? Again, he's just as much a snake as she is a serpent.
No, He is not. His actions are retaliatory. Her initiation of deceit and relationship destruction are the foundations of this crumbled house. He actually is without fault as much as this story is without fact; too many stupid oversights and too much lacking in “real world” repercussions to be taken seriously.
I do not think that he did anything wrong or mean or bad. He knew that if he outwardly objected, and filed for divorce, that she would end up with the house and the kid. His goal was to keep a close relationship with his son, which he did beautifully. And the wife was pretty much left out in that relationship with the son for those 6 years. But she did not stop cheating, and so the chasm continued to widen, which was all her own doing. She paid little or no attention to what was going on, and paid dearly for being selfish all 6 years!
“Something new, something exciting “ yep! It’s commonly called divorce
This woman didn't realize the moment she asked for an open marriage he loss all respect and trust for her.
99.9% of open marriages fail, so sounds like a great idea to make our family stronger and lives better. Dude played the long game like a boss.
Yes, he did. Why would the open marriage stuff be a good idea?? 😢
Damaged Goods,, no One Wants IT'S
Her: "it's for both of us"
Men: no, it's just for you...the cheating hoor.
My wife and I have discussed this. Both of us know that the topic of an open marriage is off limits and grounds for immediate divorce. Thats so damaging and disrespectful that I can't see a way past it.
So she expected random men to treat her like a wife without husband privileges?
That was funny. She was a married woman having sex with other men but she wanted them to respect her. That made me laugh.
When they want an open marriage it is time to go. Great story with a happy ending.
The six year open marriage time window gave him what he needed to secure the divorce in his favor. He knew the marriage was over the moment she suggested opening it.
If he had reacted like it was over at the beginning, it would have been harder for him to carry out his plan.
That sounds about right.
@@bastalam I don't think you are understanding what the 6 year time window was about. Dignity and self-respect is always a factor. Securing what you want and deserve in divorce court requires a timeline.
Open marriages lead to family breakdown.
The grass is always greener where you water it.
She brings it up it’s over
trash modern woman. Never satisied...
LMAO," wondering how it ended up like this". Duh...
She admits to looking for more... Devious.
Females need to bond in some fashion she got the sex but thought she would continue receiving the bond from her husband but her husband didn't bond with her anymore that left right confused and back pedaling but it was to late.
Yup she was on a high for awhile but eventually the drug was not working
This is true BUT NOT ONLY for women but also for men!
If she signed a postnup surely he could have just left after her first encounter?
Most can be thrown out under claims of duress or force
Like most things legal he probably needed to provide evidence of her infidelity and cheating behavior over time while at the same time refusing to participate himself.
I like the background picture
So she destroys her marriage and says, I wondered how we got here? Look in the mirror cheater!!!
This is what happens when you stupidly break something that was never broken in the beginning
The moment she brings it up, she immediately degrades her status to FWB.
No more wife/fiancee/gf status.
And you did this all to yourself…
This story is extremely accurate portrait of the modern western woman and the reality of believing in the lies of the farcenist movement.
12:36. “Have you hooked up with anyone?” Karen just violated one of her original rules. No asking about each other’s dating experiences. Someone is starting to crack. She may have realized that if she is the only one stepping outside of the marriage, it is adultery by definition and will not go well for her in any divorce proceedings.
I'm sorry, but his reasoning that a divorce would be worse than 6 years of this hell, was delusional. Allowing her ongoing disrespectful behaviour, and staying married as a means of protecting his son and a few assets, was actually very selfish. His son knew what was happening and making him go through this as well, was much more damaging to the young man's mental health. Just end it, and move on.
Just like a woman 😂
Open marriage , open the door for divorce 💯
Remember the reat truth is, the grass is greener where you water it.
Poor you
He did something I never could. I would have rather divorced 6 years prior instead of the deceit. He's as bad as she is. The only difference is he didn't give her the chance to sock away funds as well. Too many questions. Was the house solely in his name? Did he allow her to place 100% of her paycheck into the house accounts while he hid money? Again, he's just as much a snake as she is a serpent.
No, He is not.
His actions are retaliatory.
Her initiation of deceit and relationship destruction are the foundations of this crumbled house. He actually is without fault as much as this story is without fact; too many stupid oversights and too much lacking in “real world” repercussions to be taken seriously.
I do not think that he did anything wrong or mean or bad. He knew that if he outwardly objected, and filed for divorce, that she would end up with the house and the kid. His goal was to keep a close relationship with his son, which he did beautifully. And the wife was pretty much left out in that relationship with the son for those 6 years. But she did not stop cheating, and so the chasm continued to widen, which was all her own doing. She paid little or no attention to what was going on, and paid dearly for being selfish all 6 years!