Before she left me for 'exploring' she would sign divorce papers 'just in case' she explored too much, or at all. Same for 'girls nights' and listening to other 'friends'.
100% correct. These guys that want to reconcile are dillusional. Take back a cheating wife and you become a nervous detective checking up everything she tells you. Working late, business trips, girls nights, girls trips……constant doubt; constant worry
My ex wife asked for something similar, promising there wasn’t “another man”. I moved out thinking there might be a chance to get back together. Within a couple weeks I found out there was indeed another man and we were done. Our marriage of 21 years was over and the only time I laid eyes on her since then was for our two children’s weddings.
Staying celibate until the marriage is legally over is stupid. It was over the second she spread her legs for another guy. Unless there is a legal reason that makes sense.
It’s really easy….. The second they even mention something sketchy, just divorce them. Don’t chase, don’t play pick me, just send her to the streets and don’t look back. She wants freedom? Enjoy complete freedom, don’t call when you find out Chad and Tyrone won’t take you seriously. You won’t be coming back…..
Won't she be to busy working to enjoy this Freedom? If she wants to sever contact and not be supported, does she still expect him to keep paying all her bills? NO CONTACT BUT STILL PAY HER?
Thank you! I had the same question. Those minimum wage jobs require a lot of time to live on. Add paying bills including for a lawyer during the divorce proceedings would need a lot of overtime.
Sept2024: Nicely played. What great insight from husband's buddy - You are her fallback plan if her affair doesn't last 6 months. Divorce is inevitable either way. Knowing that, husband made the most of it. Retired in Sacto.
This is simple. If your partner, he or she, wants something like this, or if you catch them cheating.... Your relationship is over. If you can just walk away. If it is a more complex relationship; as in kids, joint hone ownership intermingled finances, etc. Lawyer up and hit the road. Because what you had is irretrievably GONE. Yeah you may be able to breath a bit of life back into the corpse of your relationship... But it will be the walking dead. Trust is gone, love is destroyed,. Survival mode!
This is such a heartbreaking situation for both Greg and Sarah I can only imagine the pain they are experiencing Communication and mutual understanding are so important in a relationship Wishing them both the strength to navigate this challenging journey and find clarity in their choices
Ì would had said nothing just waited until she left for 6 months journey and while she was gone I would hire a divorce attorney and file for divorce and move on with life
Every relationship experiences challenges, but there is always a way to progress. My marriage was tested by significant problems, but with appropriate help, my wife and I worked through them and strengthened our bond. Solutions are available if you’re ready to put in the effort and work together. Stay hopeful-there’s always a way.
Parting ways with someone you deeply care about is never easy, but in my particular circumstance, I was aided by a spiritual mentor who averted the collapse of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Don’t take the vow if you’re not going to respect it. And don’t say you love your spouse if your not going to respect them cause love and respect go hand in hand
Cheaters are the nastiest people on the planet and they never ever deserve any happiness ever again because they don't deserve any. Unless you want to be a simp or a doormat or a cuckhold.
If they start the girls nights, too focused on their phone, and distancing. Immediately start protecting finances, assets and locating a divorce atty and PI. Then when the inevitable “ we need to talk” comes, stop the talk, then start recording every conversation. Then when she wants the “break”, get the divorce papers signed, she has to relocate, but hold them till she commits adultery ( the next week ) The delusion is planned, influenced by relationship failed friends or co-workers.
I stop at the point where the wife says it is only sex. After six months of the husband not having sex while the wife is having sex with other men, this marriage will be saved. The marriage is over!
Gentlemen women like this make me sick , if your woman/wife ever tells you anything like this there is one one solution. A fourth with divorce she already lost respect for you along before she ever actually said anything she already has a anther man lined up don’t be a simp
@@notsureyou Doesn’t matter. To get a divorce for abandonment, without two signatures, takes time. That time is different from state to state but one year is common
Feminist and divorced friends. That one hell of a combination. He should have just filed for divorce and made it clear to he that he doesn't want anything to do with her again. Hell if she doesn't want to be married then make it so. Play stupid games win stupid prizes.
@notsureyou I love how he traded in his old car for a new one and she doesn't make the connection? He has to explain ut to her? Why wud He keep make new car payments when she turned herself into a "Rental car" for 6 months?
Stupid guy, like most are in these infidelity stories. He should have filed for divorce as soon as she left him! There was no real ending. What a waste to buildup to a simple divorce, with no detail, not uch about the kids, where and whom he finally settled with, etc.
I would go immediately to a divorce attorney. Empty bank accounts, change the locks, pack up all her crap and put it outside. YOUR MARRIAGE IS OVER. For a big time CEO you sound weak and feeble
Okay, the lesbianism thing is pretty weird. But it's just the sort of thing an AI comes up with to tie up loose ends in the nick of time before the finish.
XX's are like the Soviets in Tom Clancy's RED OCTOBER where the Admiral played by the late Fred Dalton Thompson "They don't so much as to to the "Head" without a plan" P.S., Thompson was Chief Council to Sen. Howard Baker of the Watergate Committee
As if no longer married, then why not just divorce. That is the best path, the marriage is essentially over. Look this is his freedom from the marriage. He can do what he wants when he wants and not be the backup plan.
If your woman asking like, either she already had someone behind him. Maybe she had cheated had an emotional affair or together with physical affair. May be she wiil try this to test the life of berm with her AP if not going smooth like she anticipated then she will comeback to OP as a back plan. Op should find out and do investigation to gather any proofs of her infidelity.
If a woman ever asks you that, rent a boat, and take her on an ocean fishing trip. Being out in the middle of the ocean, just the two of you, will give you the perfect opportunity to resolve things.
The second she uttered those words i would have told her never mind 6 months your now free as am I because tomorrow i will initiate divorce proceedings. Even if she said never mind, I won't do it.I would have told her too late.The fact that you even contemplated, it tells me you've already checked out of this marriage If not physically at least emotionally.
25 years, betrayed by his wife, but then a feeling of relief washes over him as he finds out one of the women he would have to choose between WAS MARRIED AND A LESBIAN?? She lied like a dog and the response? No indignation, no anger but RELIEF?
I'd give her, her walking papers right then and there. Telling her not to come back. I've never tolorated this behavior during my life growing up, and I'm not going to start now! I look at cheaters in the same way. Cheating on one's partner isn't a mistake, it is a choice.
Having a relationship with a man while trying to fix your relationship won’t work only ruin any chance even if it’s just talking always leads to more men and women can’t really be friends either
There will be never be a situation where you have a married couple and even if they’re having issues the thing that will make their marriage stronger and better is her having sex with other men. Opening the marriage is dumb enough but it’s even better when the woman believes only she should be able to sleep around. Aaaahhhh gotta love these 21st century ideologies
Sex months to change the locks,serve papers and have finances separated. Pick between abandonment of marriage or infidelity to file devorce as. Seriously inform all family and friends she has decided no contact devorce due to her infidelity being her life's sole priority.
They cut out the whole middle of this story. How did the 304's infidelity get caught and who is Tara and Greta. That was all laid out in the cut out parts.
Another recycled story slightly amended from the original but not enough to disguise the plagiarism. Let's look at this logically. Wife sits him down "we need to talk I've been doing some thinking" then presents him with a detailed outline of what she intends to do. The "thinking" she did should have been done in consultation with her husband as they discussed and considered their future together. Conclusion She's having an affair (emotional abd or physical) she's made a decision but wants to cover all bases so if her newfound freedom doesn't pan out as she expects she can go back pick up her old life until she gets itchy feet or genitals at some point in the future. Just bear that in mind when deciding your approach.
If its a no- fault state ..he deserves it...he didnt even ask/tell her if HE gets to sleep around also...just to get her reaction...no f¥€king way would i have slept in the same bed that night ..i would at least tell her if you go...were done..period...gawd how weak or stupidly idealistic can one be..if he ( or anybody i knew ) agreed ..id mock him every single time i saw him
Before she left me for 'exploring' she would sign divorce papers 'just in case' she explored too much, or at all. Same for 'girls nights' and listening to other 'friends'.
The only answer to give her is divorce papers.
100% correct. These guys that want to reconcile are dillusional. Take back a cheating wife and you become a nervous detective checking up everything she tells you. Working late, business trips, girls nights, girls trips……constant doubt; constant worry
My ex wife asked for something similar, promising there wasn’t “another man”. I moved out thinking there might be a chance to get back together. Within a couple weeks I found out there was indeed another man and we were done. Our marriage of 21 years was over and the only time I laid eyes on her since then was for our two children’s weddings.
I know this must have been tough but good on you
How did she react when you divorced her?
@@ianrose666 she made out like it was my fault. No accountability.
@@genelewis2481 modern women
@@genelewis2481 sounds about right.
Accountability is their kryptonite.
The same old story.Wife takes a good husband for granted.The husband takes action. The wife pays the price.
Yes
And ?
Staying celibate until the marriage is legally over is stupid.
It was over the second she spread her legs for another guy.
Unless there is a legal reason that makes sense.
If it's an "at fault" state, or a "no fault" state where infidelity can still affect division of assets, then it makes sense.
That is not a wise approach. You could wind up screwing yourself pretty bad if you do that and get an unfavorable divorce settlement.
It’s really easy….. The second they even mention something sketchy, just divorce them. Don’t chase, don’t play pick me, just send her to the streets and don’t look back.
She wants freedom? Enjoy complete freedom, don’t call when you find out Chad and Tyrone won’t take you seriously. You won’t be coming back…..
Absolutely good advice
"Thank you so much for discussing this with me."
The pure, dismissive cruelty of this single sentence.
Sounds like an entitled, inconsiderate and selfish person that wants to screw around. He needs to divorce and ghost her immediately.
Won't she be to busy working to enjoy this Freedom? If she wants to sever contact and not be supported, does she still expect him to keep paying all her bills? NO CONTACT BUT STILL PAY HER?
Thank you! I had the same question. Those minimum wage jobs require a lot of time to live on. Add paying bills including for a lawyer during the divorce proceedings would need a lot of overtime.
Immediate divorce. Never speak to her again.👍
Why the heck is he fighting so hard, for someone who CLEARLY doesn't want to be with him?
Sept2024: Nicely played. What great insight from husband's buddy - You are her fallback plan if her affair doesn't last 6 months. Divorce is inevitable either way. Knowing that, husband made the most of it. Retired in Sacto.
Retired in Auburn, CA
This is simple.
If your partner, he or she, wants something like this, or if you catch them cheating....
Your relationship is over.
If you can just walk away.
If it is a more complex relationship; as in kids, joint hone ownership intermingled finances, etc.
Lawyer up and hit the road.
Because what you had is irretrievably GONE.
Yeah you may be able to breath a bit of life back into the corpse of your relationship...
But it will be the walking dead.
Trust is gone, love is destroyed,.
Survival mode!
This is such a heartbreaking situation for both Greg and Sarah I can only imagine the pain they are experiencing Communication and mutual understanding are so important in a relationship Wishing them both the strength to navigate this challenging journey and find clarity in their choices
Ì would had said nothing just waited until she left for 6 months journey and while she was gone I would hire a divorce attorney and file for divorce and move on with life
Did she get a job to pay for all costs of living elsewhere? Bet the husband paid for herself to “find herself”
She didn’t just spread her wings.
She already has cheated.
Every relationship experiences challenges, but there is always a way to progress. My marriage was tested by significant problems, but with appropriate help, my wife and I worked through them and strengthened our bond. Solutions are available if you’re ready to put in the effort and work together. Stay hopeful-there’s always a way.
Parting ways with someone you deeply care about is never easy, but in my particular circumstance, I was aided by a spiritual mentor who averted the collapse of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Welcome... You should
Don’t take the vow if you’re not going to respect it. And don’t say you love your spouse if your not going to respect them cause love and respect go hand in hand
If she takes one bad ride she is toast.
Cheaters are the nastiest people on the planet and they never ever deserve any happiness ever again because they don't deserve any. Unless you want to be a simp or a doormat or a cuckhold.
If they start the girls nights, too focused on their phone, and distancing. Immediately start protecting finances, assets and locating a divorce atty and PI. Then when the inevitable “ we need to talk” comes, stop the talk, then start recording every conversation. Then when she wants the “break”, get the divorce papers signed, she has to relocate, but hold them till she commits adultery ( the next week ) The delusion is planned, influenced by relationship failed friends or co-workers.
I stop at the point where the wife says it is only sex. After six months of the husband not having sex while the wife is having sex with other men, this marriage will be saved. The marriage is over!
Gentlemen women like this make me sick , if your woman/wife ever tells you anything like this there is one one solution. A fourth with divorce she already lost respect for you along before she ever actually said anything she already has a anther man lined up don’t be a simp
Where is the talk about her paying her own expenses ,insurance, bills car payments, etc.???
Oh Jesus Red Flag Hubby 😂😂😂😂
LIKE A BOSS! If an individual can afford such a choice, ironically I believe such behavior would be less.
Absolutely, it’s wild how some choices can lead to such adventures! 🌍✨ Can’t wait to see how she navigates this journey “like a boss”!
Thank you for this great twist in your story.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Divorce is the correct answer.
The answer to opening question is pretty clear: Legal proceedings to make sure she got as little as possible in a divorce settlement. 😁
Wait until she left,
Then divorce her for marriage abandonment, and hopefully get everything.
@@notsureyou If that works in his jurisdiction, then that would be a solid approach.
@@notsureyouMost places need 1 year before you can claim abandonment
@@1dcbly What if you tell her that you don't agree,
And do a video recording of it,
With her saying that "She's leaving and that he can't stop her'
@@notsureyou Doesn’t matter. To get a divorce for abandonment, without two signatures, takes time. That time is different from state to state but one year is common
".. no love, no commitment. "
No passion? No joy? No endearing words?
Feminist and divorced friends.
That one hell of a combination.
He should have just filed for divorce and made it clear to he that he doesn't want anything to do with her again.
Hell if she doesn't want to be married then make it so.
Play stupid games win stupid prizes.
Don’t get married period, it’s a bad idea for men.
Wait until she leaves,
Then divorce her for marriage abandonment, and hopefully get everything.
@notsureyou I love how he traded in his old car for a new one and she doesn't make the connection? He has to explain ut to her? Why wud He keep make new car payments when she turned herself into a "Rental car" for 6 months?
This right here is the smartest tactic. Start the day after she leaves.
Stupid guy, like most are in these infidelity stories. He should have filed for divorce as soon as she left him! There was no real ending. What a waste to buildup to a simple divorce, with no detail, not uch about the kids, where and whom he finally settled with, etc.
I’d have divorced her before she left…period. That is NOT a Godly, Proverbs 31 woman.
I would go immediately to a divorce attorney. Empty bank accounts, change the locks, pack up all her crap and put it outside. YOUR MARRIAGE IS OVER. For a big time CEO you sound weak and feeble
This was a pretty standard tale of wife trying to “find herself”. The bit about Greta at the end was an interesting twist.
Okay, the lesbianism thing is pretty weird. But it's just the sort of thing an AI comes up with to tie up loose ends in the nick of time before the finish.
Naw, she's be handed divorce papers as I secure my finances.
After the finances are secured. AFTER!!!!
XX's are like the Soviets in Tom Clancy's RED OCTOBER where the Admiral played by the late Fred Dalton Thompson "They don't so much as to to the "Head" without a plan" P.S., Thompson was Chief Council to Sen. Howard Baker of the Watergate Committee
Good Story🎉🎉
Thanks for watching
What would I say? GOOD BYE!!!
In six months she's bringing you more than a grilled cheese
Divorce now.
As if no longer married, then why not just divorce. That is the best path, the marriage is essentially over. Look this is his freedom from the marriage. He can do what he wants when he wants and not be the backup plan.
I understand it will be painful but, dump her!
If your woman asking like, either she already had someone behind him. Maybe she had cheated had an emotional affair or together with physical affair. May be she wiil try this to test the life of berm with her AP if not going smooth like she anticipated then she will comeback to OP as a back plan. Op should find out and do investigation to gather any proofs of her infidelity.
If a woman ever asks you that, rent a boat, and take her on an ocean fishing trip. Being out in the middle of the ocean, just the two of you, will give you the perfect opportunity to resolve things.
The second she uttered those words i would have told her never mind 6 months your now free as am I because tomorrow i will initiate divorce proceedings. Even if she said never mind, I won't do it.I would have told her too late.The fact that you even contemplated, it tells me you've already checked out of this marriage If not physically at least emotionally.
25 years, betrayed by his wife, but then a feeling of relief washes over him as he finds out one of the women he would have to choose between WAS MARRIED AND A LESBIAN??
She lied like a dog and the response? No indignation, no anger but RELIEF?
Yes Hubby Tell Her See U😂😂😂
Why do ever guy try to convince them to stay , let em go and move on
cracks me up how women think they always have the upper hand.
I understand these stories are fictional but what is scary is that there are probably some people in this world who could actually think like this...
The Possibility? Cut all ties with Sarah
I would let her go, and follow my own path
Six Months? No contact? Freedom to do anything? What would I do? Eject! Eject! Eject! Sayonara!
Ejecting into adventure sounds exhilarating! 🌍✈️ Here's to embracing freedom and making unforgettable memories! 🎉
Alright Hubby Tell Her By😂😂😂😂
I'd give her, her walking papers right then and there. Telling her not to come back. I've never tolorated this behavior during my life growing up, and I'm not going to start now! I look at cheaters in the same way. Cheating on one's partner isn't a mistake, it is a choice.
I would explore too after divorcing her
How did you keep from laughing in her face after hearing her reasoning?
She had a an AP and wanted to have fun with someone new !!
Just throw out with the divorce papers
Having a relationship with a man while trying to fix your relationship won’t work only ruin any chance even if it’s just talking always leads to more men and women can’t really be friends either
Bring more people into your life brings more problems
There will be never be a situation where you have a married couple and even if they’re having issues the thing that will make their marriage stronger and better is her having sex with other men. Opening the marriage is dumb enough but it’s even better when the woman believes only she should be able to sleep around. Aaaahhhh gotta love these 21st century ideologies
So I want to screw around for 6 months is that alright with you says the entitled 304 😂😅
Dump the lesbian full stop they are not worth the grief
Sex months to change the locks,serve papers and have finances separated.
Pick between abandonment of marriage or infidelity to file devorce as.
Seriously inform all family and friends she has decided no contact devorce due to her infidelity being her life's sole priority.
Two can play that game. I will look for a younger woman...
No deposit no return
They cut out the whole middle of this story. How did the 304's infidelity get caught and who is Tara and Greta. That was all laid out in the cut out parts.
W T H Jesus Duh Tell Her By Itdoit Damn 😂😂😂😂
I told her to send me the divorce papers
Another recycled story slightly amended from the original but not enough to disguise the plagiarism.
Let's look at this logically.
Wife sits him down "we need to talk I've been doing some thinking"
then presents him with a detailed outline of what she intends to do.
The "thinking" she did should have been done in consultation with her husband as they discussed and considered their future together.
Conclusion
She's having an affair (emotional abd or physical)
she's made a decision but wants to cover all bases so if her newfound freedom doesn't pan out as she expects she can go back pick up her old life until she gets itchy feet or genitals at some point in the future.
Just bear that in mind when deciding your approach.
Why is this in third person?
Poor Hubby😂😂😂
It's over!!!!
Oh Damn Hubby Shit She's A Itdoit Damn😂😂😂😂
Poor Damn Hubby Shit😂😂😂😂😂
Gezz Duh 25 Years Shit😂😂😂
Yes Hubby Dirovce By😂😂😂
I've give her total freedom .I'd divorce on the spot. I am generous.
You know she's lying right there's always another guy I know woman just comes out of the blue and says she wants to explore herself
R E P E A T - - - -
Super simp.
Why can’t AI keep track of its own simple plot???
I thought it was me. that shit jump around a lot.
Just move on, stop dragging your feet and 6months of waiting 😂😂 for what...
Bye❤❤❤❤
Tell her buy
Jesus U Itdoit Dummy😂😂😂😂
Bye Felecia
Why do u wanna talk, there's nothing to talk about
Having a relationship is overrated.
If its a no- fault state ..he deserves it...he didnt even ask/tell her if HE gets to sleep around also...just to get her reaction...no f¥€king way would i have slept in the same bed that night ..i would at least tell her if you go...were done..period...gawd how weak or stupidly idealistic can one be..if he ( or anybody i knew ) agreed ..id mock him every single time i saw him
Clubbing? You mean like 🏑🦭baby seals?