Colleen - You, obviously, are a smart and creative person. As your kids get older, you may want to reconsider referring to yourself as dumb and instead try to model positive self-talk for them. (You may even start to believe it yourself - like we do!)
I agree! Not even as a role model for the kids but for herself and her mental health. The kids seeing it is just the plus, ya know? Colleen is such a smart beautiful talented woman and she’s always calling herself stupid and dumb and saying I don’t know anything and we all see how much she knows and how smart she is.
i love this comment because it really really hurt my heart anytime my grandma talked down on herself or her looks and i picked it up when i was younger from her. it’s hard but important
You said this so perfectly! My mom yells at me when I call myself an idiot. You're smart and capable and loving and curious and intellectual and you're selling yourself way short if you think otherwise. Picture your kiddos saying that about themselves!!
@@meag_ken822 i think your stan behavior stops you from acting like a normal person. these are two adults with kids who badly need to take their arguments off the interent
@@PaytonTaylor02 stan behavior 🤨 I don’t know about that- again, it’s not that deep. And a “normal” person? Define normal? You?? Are you an internet psychiatrist? Gtfo of here, haha. So emotional 😭
My Relax: The feeling of coming home after vacation. I'm not sure if anyone else can relate to this but I recently returned from a week long trip and everything just feels so off! I feel so much more irritated and depressed even though I just had a good beach trip and nothing seemingly has gone wrong. Everything just seems out of place. I hope I am not the only one here.
I have been like this my while life and I'm 41. After every trip, even just a weekend I cry and am very depressed for several days. I absolutely hate it, sometimes it's the let down from being with extended family and friends and then back to alone, but I just think it's part of my depression and anxiety! I almost don't want to go because of how ill feel when I get home.
I’ve had Covid for a week, isolated to my house alone and I described the way I felt mentally to my mom by referencing the “home from vacation” bummed out mood. You’re not alone.
Erik and Colleen don't seem compatible, and I have witnessed their vast differences from the very beginning. These differences will continue to be more apparent the longer they are together, as triggers come up and tension will build. Many relationships lead to this without working through old traumas and wounds from childhood and previous relationships. And Colleen has a lot of things to work through for sure
Coming from only following you two on instagram where you say so many nice things about one another to watching you two on here gave me whiplash lol on the pod it doesn’t even seem like you guys like each other 😭
hoping eventually you two will see the comments of people considered about you two, you guys have mentioned that of course you two love each other and it’s totally okay to bicker sometimes but i’ve seen so many people saying that you two arguing every episode is stressful to listen to.. i agree sometimes i don’t like the tension.. maybe take a moment to yourselves and maybe talk about it..
Maybe you’re not detecting that’s their vibe and sarcasm. We don’t really know the ins and out of their relationship intimacy and I understand peoples intentions are in the right place but I also think this should just be left alone. It’s their relationship. All love tho 💕
Erik and Colleen don't seem compatible, and I have witnessed their vast differences from the very beginning. These differences will continue to be more apparent the longer they are together, as triggers come up and tension and annoyance will build. Many relationships lead to this without working through old traumas and wounds from childhood and previous relationships. And Colleen has a lot of things to work through for sure
I use to listen to this podcast but I had to stop because it’s actually the least relaxing podcast I’ve ever experienced lol the passive aggression is too much.
Had to turn this off after struggle watching, I feel like I’m just listening to a stream of thoughts between two people who are just stuck next to each other against their will
My relax: COLLEEN AND ERIK. yall seem very upset with each other. Pls hash it out before making another episode. We come here to relax, not stress out. With peace and love.
@@NyloNala are they not social media influencers with tons of impressionable underage followers?? It's almost like they should keep their arguments offline 🌚
I think it’s okay to show arguments as long as they also show the loving, understanding part. Arguments are a part of a relationship and are important to show children. Children should see that some arguments never get resolved but can come to an agree to disagree resolution. As long as there is respect and communication, I personally don’t see a problem with it.
I am not trying to be invasive, I am just really rooting for you two and I really hope that you will consider couples therapy- it’s good for EVERY couple no matter if they have issues to work through or not. I love you both and as a complete outsider, I hope you are pouring into yourself and not leaving your cups empty ❤️ I know it’s difficult with three children but I’m rooting from the side lines!
The tension is insane in this podcast, lol. Makes me feel like I’m thirdwheeling a couple who keeps bickering all night. 😂 No hate, I swear. I just think y’all need a little break from the kids to reconnect or something. Marriage is tough!
I used to enjoy these podcasts and they still have funny moments in them, but they are getting so incredibly awkward to watch/listen to... the hosts seem to resent each other and Erik seems drunk. I used to think that this is just funny banter, but it doesn´t feel like that anymore.
@@naesch7 Wow, you must be a really sad person. Willingly clicking on a video to go in the comment section and talk trash about someone is seriously concerning. Take care and focus on yourself pls
I've noticed this A LOT and it seems like he is always drinking. Or is buzzed. He clearly needs help and it's probably causing stress for both parties. I know my fiance would drink every day and it was hell for both of us. I would get easily annoyed with him and it was just messy. I hope for his health he can find another coping mechanism
Wow listening to you rip Erik apart for the mannequin was harsh. You do creative things all the time and he encourages you to do whatever you want. I do really hope things are okay
I’ve had a rough week and needed this! Thank you for always being your goofy selves, listening to you guys every week helps me chill out for an hour and a half and just breathe while I listen to two hilarious and creative people chat about their lives. Love always!
i usually am so excited to watch the podcast but these past podcasts have been so awkward to watch because it sounds like they’re fighting the entire time.
@@meganl6600 to be fair to him, colleen always says eric says her name wrong and she doesn't like it. I think its just something they dont like as they call each other 'lovey' majority of the time.
36:00 FOR YEARS I have hot glued a 12-14” brightly colored ribbon to every remote I’ve ever owned. It is fantastic and we never lose them. Never!!!! People question it and laugh a little when they see it, but then they realize how amazing it is. Do it! The hot glue can peel right off if you need to change batteries or ribbons.
Erik and Colleen don't seem compatible, and I have witnessed their vast differences from the very beginning. These differences will continue to be more apparent the longer they are together, as triggers come up and tension will build. Many relationships lead to this without working through old traumas and wounds from childhood and previous relationships. And Colleen has a lot of things to work through for sure
@@abstractswirls I’ve seen you comment this multiple times and it’s so weird. You watch snippets of someone’s life and you make harsh judgments like this? I’d hate to see how judgemental you are of people you actually know.
I mean its not funny. I've noticed this A LOT and it seems like he is always drinking. Or is buzzed. He clearly needs help and it's probably causing stress for both parties. I know my fiance would drink every day and it was hell for both of us. I would get easily annoyed with him and it was just messy. I hope for his health he can find another coping mechanism
I've been feeling for a long time that Erik wishes that Colleen is more affective towards him, everytime she says something kinda cute he Is always so surprised, like she doesn't says anything nice in a regular bases, but he Is so nice to her, he always tries to make her feel special, but she is so used to it that she stopped caring.
@@ledwards1299 agreed to your response! As much as we think were in this relationship were not. She clearly loves him and seeing those comments probably hurts her.
My relax this week is curly hair! As much as I love having curly hair, the amount of effort that goes into stying it is crazy! I know you generally straighten/curl your hair Colleen, but do you have any ways to style your natural curls?
Completely in agreement. I LOVE my curls. But, girl! The tiniest bit of humidity and it frizzes right up. The amount of leave in conditioner I have to use just to defrizz is re-donk-ulous smh 😂😂 This is such a good relax
Hey Colleen and Erik in the twins name song instead of saying "Some day they'll need people names" u could say " and now they have people names to call if they run too far away, Maisy Joanne and Wesley Koy, My gorgeous girl and my sweet little boy". you could play around w/ the words. love from AUSTRALIA.
Colleen and Erik❤️ I hope you’ll see this!! Everyone in the comments is being pretty nasty… (even tho I understand their intentions might be in the right place). I want you to know that I truly enjoy your vibe together, and your opinions as individuals, and actually loved the last few podcasts because they were so real. When you were both briefly singing in this episode the energy between you two was so beautiful. I’m an hsp, an empath witch with adhd so I do notice so many subtleties in people it’s sometimes overwhelming. I think people focus on things between you they deem as negative or things they don’t know or understand but please don’t let that get into you at all! Do you. Period. Your mutual love and respect is very clear! And I laughed so much while listening. Not sure if it’s also because I’m only couple years younger than you and maybe your audience is younger so I do get all the sarcasm and darker humour and find it refreshing. Also if Erik was actually tipsy, she’s ma queen, yes slay papa! Get that chill juice honey, you defo deserve it - approved! from your forever UK gay friend 🤌🥰😂
I remember that meme Erik is talking about lol it was a dog and everytime he talks about something he says “such” this “very” that or “wow” his name was doge
anyone get uncomfortable watching this episode because Colleen hardly looked up? - she was focused on doing the mannequins hair. Also I understand this is their version of loving banter but wow the tension felt especially high this episode
You may have already found the remote, but if not, you should check under the chair & couch because Flynn was playing with it in the beginning of the podcast. 😊👍🏼
Just wanted to add that nothing about this episode bothered me- was kinda surprised to see all the negative comments. I feel like y’all are just being silly! Love y’all and love the podcast ❤️
i enjoy u guys reading other peoples relaxes but, i feel like it's now taking over the podcast. maybe just read 1-2 of them then move on to the other segments of the show
Hey Colleen ! I just wanted to say I really enjoy watching your videos and they make my day. You brighten my day up and I can’t wait to watch your videos when I get home from school.
Whoa! These comments need to relax. I agree there is a bit of tension but I don't think it is as bad as everyone is Commenting. They have 3 small kids and they are tired and stressed and are being real people and let's face it no one is happy and pleasant all the time. They are real people even though they are in the public eye I like how real and honest they are with each other and have no filters when it comes to each other. It doesn't mean they should break up or get divorced. Stop being judgey people! They love each other and they're family but life gets hard and they both struggle with mental illness and these rude comments won't help with anything! Relax people and if there podcast bothers you so much stop watching simple as that.! Love you Colleen and Erik and please ignore the mean comments. If people want the Cleavers go watch some reruns where everything was sunshine and roses and everything was perfect.
100 % agree...they are just humans and the way they act are how real couples that last forever do.... it's not all sunshine and rainbows in real life !! And these two are real! That's why I love them!😍
I find it so funny that I didn’t notice any bad vibes from this episode and everyone seems so pissed. Guys… we do not actually know them even if we listen every week or watch vlogs every day. This could be just how they interact. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and we sometimes get into a snarky mood where we bicker but it’s all fun and games at the end of the day and we love each other very much. Please don’t assume the worst. I feel like some of these comments are pretty mean as well… Isn’t it funnier to listen to them banter than listening to them being all lovey dovey for 1,5 hours?
My god i agree so much!!! I am convinced these are all kids or people who have never been in a serious relationship commenting. This is so normal its not even funny. And this is literally ONE hour of ONE day a week that we see. Having kids is stressful. Having twins is even more stressful they are tired and irritable for good reason. Me and my boyfriend don't even have kids and argue more than them haha
i usually never comment but I think it’s about time! i love love LOVE this podcast so much. been watching colleen for sure 8+ years. this podcast gets me through my dentist appointments my crazy stressful life. I got my gf hooked on it so we listen to it in the car. I love how it’s SO relatable. ok we’ll just wanted to say I love love you colleen please come to seattle Washington so I can meet you alreadyyy❤️❤️
Colleen, I totally get why you sing uncontrollably as "lay" instead of "lee". I was always taught for more control, even sound while singing to round the vowels, especially for E. It is difficult to let air out or feel comfortable while singing E thru your teeth with a more closed mouth. But if you didn't grow up in choir or musical theater since you could speak.. I understand why it sounds weird. Lol
i feel like flynn would LOVE taylor swift's albums 1989 and reputation, very lyric heavy!!!! folklore and evermore are sort of tuned down and less poppy, he would enjoy the stories of those songs I swear !
“i’m too fast!” **aggressively jumps on couch** but colleen is an amazing mom and when i was younger i wish my mom played with me. you are such an inspiration to me. ❤️❤️
Eric: I think you should do this mannequin hair during the podcast Also Eric: Colleen’s been ignoring me for this mannequin hair for the whole podcast 😂
I've noticed this A LOT and it seems like he is always drinking. Or is buzzed. He clearly needs help and it's probably causing stress for both parties. I know my fiance would drink every day and it was hell for both of us. I would get easily annoyed with him and it was just messy. I hope for his health he can find another coping mechanism
Colleen has ADHD which she has talked in depth about on her vlogs. It doesn't matter if Erik has had a bit to drink if he wants to. And you're not forced to watch the podcast, if you don't find it relaxing just click off it.
@@ledwards1299 I love the podcast. I love watching her vlogs. I'm just very acutely aware to people who are under the influence of alcohol and the slurred speech bc I've lived with it for years. All I'm saying is that it just seems like a constant thing for Eric and it could be an issue in their household. We don't know the details. But I do know that alcohol use in a household can get bad. Someone who frequently drinks alcohol to the point of getting drunk probably is using it to cope. I just hope they all get the help they deserve.
@@ChelleBee166 You know they can see these comments. Why are you being so rude. You have no right to make claims about the lasting power of their relationship.
People in this comment section need to RELAX we dont know anything about their relationship and im sure they dont need marriage advice from you. 💀 Love you guys💕
My relax is no show socks that have the non-slip piece by the ankle but still end up slipping and leave you walking around with a folded sock in your shoes🙃
Colleen: Crappy peanut butter Jiffy Erik: It's called Jiffy Colleen: It is Jiffy? Erik: Sure. These are the exact exchanges I come here for. Erik's dry sense of humor and sarcasm and it's going over Colleen's head every time.
the guy from cruise segment had me dying 😭 im pretty sure they were talking about the character "Guy" from the movie The Croods. I also agree he needs to relax lmao
My relax is the weather in Texas. We are on day 27 of above 100 degree weather. It’s been about 105/106 every day and gotten up to 111. I know this is the bigger issue of climate change but the heat has to relax. 🥵
The "uncontrollablay" doesn't bother me as much as the "sob" sounds like she's saying "so". She drops the "b" from sob. I've been questioning her lyrics since the song debut! That being said, I love when Colleen just belts. I would love to hear more of her classical singing!
Erik - “I’m very aware that they exist but for the life of me I couldn’t name, off the top of my head, a single song that any one of them wrote” Also Erik- “When we were listening to Katy Perry’s song Roar” and then continues to talk about her song TGIF 😂😅
I mean it's not funny. I've noticed this A LOT and it seems like he is always drinking. Or is buzzed. He clearly needs help and it's probably causing stress for both parties. I know my fiance would drink every day and it was hell for both of us. I would get easily annoyed with him and it was just messy. He clearly needs to find other coping mechanisms
@@NatalieMichelle12 Maybe it’s the stress of having 3 kids. I have my glass of wine most nights and I only have 1 kid! I can’t imagine 3😵💫. I have an feeling there must have been a conversation after this pod b/w the two of them.
@@ambergonzales558 having a glass of wine and getting hammered are 2 different things. I'm just saying I'm very sympathetic towards people who have a dependence on alcohol and I just hope they can be okay and be healthy for themselves and their kids.
Colleen - You, obviously, are a smart and creative person. As your kids get older, you may want to reconsider referring to yourself as dumb and instead try to model positive self-talk for them. (You may even start to believe it yourself - like we do!)
I agree! Not even as a role model for the kids but for herself and her mental health. The kids seeing it is just the plus, ya know? Colleen is such a smart beautiful talented woman and she’s always calling herself stupid and dumb and saying I don’t know anything and we all see how much she knows and how smart she is.
i love this comment because it really really hurt my heart anytime my grandma talked down on herself or her looks and i picked it up when i was younger from her. it’s hard but important
You said this so perfectly! My mom yells at me when I call myself an idiot. You're smart and capable and loving and curious and intellectual and you're selling yourself way short if you think otherwise. Picture your kiddos saying that about themselves!!
I appreciate the comment! My son is 2.5 and I REALLY need to work on this. I love how you were rude and only trying to be helpful ☺️
I really hope she reads this ❤️ well said
You need to relax, stop invalidating each other.... Both of you, lately. Relax. Love you
Right! They do it constantly
I think some of y’all are a little uptight & need to realize their more effing with each other. It’s not that deep
@@meag_ken822 i think your stan behavior stops you from acting like a normal person. these are two adults with kids who badly need to take their arguments off the interent
@@meag_ken822 Effing with each other? By the end Colon is clearly pissed off
@@PaytonTaylor02 stan behavior 🤨 I don’t know about that- again, it’s not that deep.
And a “normal” person? Define normal? You?? Are you an internet psychiatrist? Gtfo of here, haha. So emotional 😭
My Relax: The feeling of coming home after vacation. I'm not sure if anyone else can relate to this but I recently returned from a week long trip and everything just feels so off! I feel so much more irritated and depressed even though I just had a good beach trip and nothing seemingly has gone wrong. Everything just seems out of place. I hope I am not the only one here.
Wow. My kid feels like this Everytime he comes back. I didn't understand why.
this is funny because it’s opposite for me. i love the feeling of coming home after vacation, it’s my favorite part! i miss my bed & my cat too much.
absolutely me. i’ve realized vacation just isn’t enjoyable for me at all.
I have been like this my while life and I'm 41. After every trip, even just a weekend I cry and am very depressed for several days. I absolutely hate it, sometimes it's the let down from being with extended family and friends and then back to alone, but I just think it's part of my depression and anxiety! I almost don't want to go because of how ill feel when I get home.
I’ve had Covid for a week, isolated to my house alone and I described the way I felt mentally to my mom by referencing the “home from vacation” bummed out mood. You’re not alone.
I don’t understand why people are fussing about the tension and vibes. I see a normal couple. People are too delicate now a days. Love y’all 💗💗💗💗💗🤠
My Relax: being anxious about going back to school the whole summer, literally months before school starts.
YES.
Yeah that’s tough try and enjoy it though
AGREE
ive got 16 days until school starts ;(
Erik seems soooo over it in the first part of this episode 🤣🤣
Probably half asleep lmao
Erik and Colleen don't seem compatible, and I have witnessed their vast differences from the very beginning. These differences will continue to be more apparent the longer they are together, as triggers come up and tension will build. Many relationships lead to this without working through old traumas and wounds from childhood and previous relationships. And Colleen has a lot of things to work through for sure
@@abstractswirls stop commenting this on almost every comment. You’re commenting like you know them in real life🙄🙄
Some of these replies are WILD!! 🤣🤣👀🫣
Coming from only following you two on instagram where you say so many nice things about one another to watching you two on here gave me whiplash lol on the pod it doesn’t even seem like you guys like each other 😭
hoping eventually you two will see the comments of people considered about you two, you guys have mentioned that of course you two love each other and it’s totally okay to bicker sometimes but i’ve seen so many people saying that you two arguing every episode is stressful to listen to.. i agree sometimes i don’t like the tension.. maybe take a moment to yourselves and maybe talk about it..
it’s awkward. idk why they would leave that in
Yeah the past few episodes i have had to turn off part way through. The nit picking was just too much.
Maybe you’re not detecting that’s their vibe and sarcasm. We don’t really know the ins and out of their relationship intimacy and I understand peoples intentions are in the right place but I also think this should just be left alone. It’s their relationship. All love tho 💕
how am i supposed to relax listening to this when i feel like im thirdwheeling on the aftermaths of a fight lmao
These are ironically very stressful to watch lmao
Frrrrr
They clearly dislike each other
@@Kaykay04822 people in relationships can get annoyed at each other. Perfectly normal in a marriage.
@@malloryschroeder629 but to broadcast it is weird
@@Kaykay04822 wtf are you talking about??? no they do not
the vibes in this week's podcast are awks haha. i'm feeling tension..... probably because of the missing remote lol
And erik is pretty drunk
Yeah the past couple weeks honestly have been tense.
They both seem present and so far away all at the same time…
I think they are just tired it’s seems like it’s the end of the day
Erik and Colleen don't seem compatible, and I have witnessed their vast differences from the very beginning. These differences will continue to be more apparent the longer they are together, as triggers come up and tension and annoyance will build. Many relationships lead to this without working through old traumas and wounds from childhood and previous relationships. And Colleen has a lot of things to work through for sure
I want to see you guys compliment and say nice things to each other lol
They're not under your control.
@@tmk31 I wasn’t aware that I ever said anything about that 🤔
@@tmk31 i agree with you that the comments are a bit dramatic, but putting words in people’s mouths is not the move.
I'm pretty sure they've done that before
I want that too, but wouldn't you be tired of hearing nice things in every podcast? After all, too much sugar is bad for you, lol...
The way Eric describe his anxiety about the earth and all the other stuff… I’ve never related to him more.
I use to listen to this podcast but I had to stop because it’s actually the least relaxing podcast I’ve ever experienced lol the passive aggression is too much.
literally same lol it's unbearably stressful
LMAO
i just wanna say, this podcast isnt supposed to be relaxing
I agree. I used to listen right when they came out but I haven’t been listening lately because of this
Exactly!
You guys seem so over each other 💀💀 the passive aggressive tone is so much, but yeeeeah “relax”
why does everyone ignore that they lowkey argue a lot in these podcast
or not argue but there’s just some weird awkward tension after one of them says something most of the time
They gotta change the name from Relax to Passive Aggressiveness
no literally cause once they start doing the back and forth thing i feel like i’m third wheeling
no one ignores it they def don’t ignore it that’s just how they are they’ve acknowledged it multiple times
I feel that sometimes. I feel like I’m intruding on a private tiff between them. You can definitely tell they’re married with children lol
Me having anxious night and not being able to sleep...perfect timing for this Podcast!!!
omg yessss!
@@adrisi where my anxiety and insomnia gang aaaat?? 😅🤩
@@mariozderic overrrrrr hereeee 🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️(and adhd) ✨✨✨
@@mariozderic I’m here… didn’t sleep a wink last night. My kids are sick of me being tiered ☹️
@@mariozderic hereeee
Had to turn this off after struggle watching, I feel like I’m just listening to a stream of thoughts between two people who are just stuck next to each other against their will
You guys seem irritated and bothered by each other throughout this podcast…. I love you guys though! Hope everything is okay!!
My relax: COLLEEN AND ERIK. yall seem very upset with each other. Pls hash it out before making another episode. We come here to relax, not stress out. With peace and love.
they really take it out on these podcasts lmao
Are they not humans who aren’t always in perfect moods like everyone else? Lol
@@NyloNala are they not social media influencers with tons of impressionable underage followers?? It's almost like they should keep their arguments offline 🌚
I think it’s okay to show arguments as long as they also show the loving, understanding part. Arguments are a part of a relationship and are important to show children. Children should see that some arguments never get resolved but can come to an agree to disagree resolution. As long as there is respect and communication, I personally don’t see a problem with it.
I am not trying to be invasive, I am just really rooting for you two and I really hope that you will consider couples therapy- it’s good for EVERY couple no matter if they have issues to work through or not. I love you both and as a complete outsider, I hope you are pouring into yourself and not leaving your cups empty ❤️ I know it’s difficult with three children but I’m rooting from the side lines!
It's disrespectful and invasive
@@kanachanwhisper7174 I don’t think I was a bit disrespectful but I respect your differing opinion
@@COURTSamaziing I don’t think you were disrespectful at all.
They have already admitted that they do they each go separately and also go together
Every couple has off days, especially when you have a couple kiddos!
The tension is insane in this podcast, lol. Makes me feel like I’m thirdwheeling a couple who keeps bickering all night. 😂 No hate, I swear. I just think y’all need a little break from the kids to reconnect or something. Marriage is tough!
Lol, that’s all they do, is take breaks from the kids!😂
I used to enjoy these podcasts and they still have funny moments in them, but they are getting so incredibly awkward to watch/listen to... the hosts seem to resent each other and Erik seems drunk. I used to think that this is just funny banter, but it doesn´t feel like that anymore.
The bickering is getting concerning :/
Don't worry, Colon will only leave Erik when she has found husband number 3.
@@naesch7 Colon?
@@naesch7 Wow, you must be a really sad person. Willingly clicking on a video to go in the comment section and talk trash about someone is seriously concerning. Take care and focus on yourself pls
@@hortense2784 this is how I relax 💅✌
I’ve always seen at least one person being uncomfortable by the podcast but this week it seems almost unanimous 😂
Yeah this was rough
it’s even worse that she’s doing damage control right after this podcast, yet still titled her next vlog ‘my husband left me for the weekend’ 😭
@@stephanies.5012 I noticed this and thought the EXACT same thing…
@@zillashimmy bnnbbb
@@zillashimmy It's not weird to say "bro" to a significant other or anyone in general. 😂 where I'm from, we literally call everyone bro and dude.
Y’all should do a live podcast so we can interact with you. I’m always laughing and yelling at my phone when I watch/listen to Relax
These 2 don’t even seem to like each other much. It gets more apparent with each episode.
😬 the tension in the beginning… lol!
About the peanut butter separation: Colleen, talk to Rachel 😂 she has found a kitchen gadget she loved for mixing the peanut butter separation
Colleen is incredibly annoyed by everything Eric says over the past episodes and I think Eric is just starting to be over her attitude..
I've noticed this A LOT and it seems like he is always drinking. Or is buzzed. He clearly needs help and it's probably causing stress for both parties. I know my fiance would drink every day and it was hell for both of us. I would get easily annoyed with him and it was just messy. I hope for his health he can find another coping mechanism
It’s always been this way. I’ve noticed this in many videos.
Wow listening to you rip Erik apart for the mannequin was harsh. You do creative things all the time and he encourages you to do whatever you want. I do really hope things are okay
Ummm it was creepy af soooo
Idk if it was anything other than a scary miranda head… maybe
She just seemed scared...
It was literally a mannequin head it's not that serious.
It was pretty weird especially because it was a disturbing “ side” of Miranda idk maybe we are thinking to hard about it idk 🤷♀️
I’ve had a rough week and needed this! Thank you for always being your goofy selves, listening to you guys every week helps me chill out for an hour and a half and just breathe while I listen to two hilarious and creative people chat about their lives. Love always!
why does Eric seem so annoyed by Colleen in this episode
Because she's annoying.
The both seem very over each other lol the passive aggressiveness is LOUD
Alcohol
Because Colleen is annoying and invalidates him constantly. Lol I would be annoyed too 😂
Probably bc he’s tired, they film these late at night most of the time. And people need to stop assuming that he’s drunk🙄
i usually am so excited to watch the podcast but these past podcasts have been so awkward to watch because it sounds like they’re fighting the entire time.
also the way eric said the way colleen said his name was “gross” like ouch that was kinda mean
right?!?
@@meganl6600 to be fair to him, colleen always says eric says her name wrong and she doesn't like it. I think its just something they dont like as they call each other 'lovey' majority of the time.
This just sounds like a grown ass couple living real life and having a podcast together. I don't understand this comment.
Where are they fighting?
Too much bickering
Oh boy, these last few podcasts have felt like couples therapy that they don’t want to do 🫣🫣
36:00 FOR YEARS I have hot glued a 12-14” brightly colored ribbon to every remote I’ve ever owned. It is fantastic and we never lose them. Never!!!! People question it and laugh a little when they see it, but then they realize how amazing it is. Do it! The hot glue can peel right off if you need to change batteries or ribbons.
erik the entire episode :
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Seriously 😂
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this comment is my absolute favorite oh . my . god .
this whole episode…yikes. it seems as if they can’t even stand each other anymore, and erik’s very clearly drunk af 🤐
Erik needs a damn nap. Why is he so damn snappy this episode 😂
Alcohol
Because he is married to Colon
Erik and Colleen don't seem compatible, and I have witnessed their vast differences from the very beginning. These differences will continue to be more apparent the longer they are together, as triggers come up and tension will build. Many relationships lead to this without working through old traumas and wounds from childhood and previous relationships. And Colleen has a lot of things to work through for sure
Because coleslaw is insufferable
@@abstractswirls I’ve seen you comment this multiple times and it’s so weird. You watch snippets of someone’s life and you make harsh judgments like this? I’d hate to see how judgemental you are of people you actually know.
Erik 100% buzzed! LOL
I mean its not funny. I've noticed this A LOT and it seems like he is always drinking. Or is buzzed. He clearly needs help and it's probably causing stress for both parties. I know my fiance would drink every day and it was hell for both of us. I would get easily annoyed with him and it was just messy. I hope for his health he can find another coping mechanism
Colleen saying she’s never seen Skyler spelled like Schuyler is disappointing since she’s a musical theatre fan 😔
The Schuyler sisters!
I actually screamed sang “Schuyler sisteers, work!” And then “Colleeeena!” - in Korys voice lmao
@@theaniacz Omg, yes I can hear that in Korys voice haha
Lol I was thinking this lol! But she had said Hamilton isn't one of her favorites so maybe that's why lol.
The way Erik said " you've heard songs before right?" SENT ME 😆
I look forward to this podcast every week please never stop
I really liked Erik's ad read. It was the first sponsored read in a really long time that didn't start like "INDEED! We LOVE Indeed"
Wow. That’s it. That’s the comment.
I've been feeling for a long time that Erik wishes that Colleen is more affective towards him, everytime she says something kinda cute he Is always so surprised, like she doesn't says anything nice in a regular bases, but he Is so nice to her, he always tries to make her feel special, but she is so used to it that she stopped caring.
In her vlogs she's always saying how he's the best dad and husband in the world so, I think that might just be his humour.
@@ledwards1299 agreed to your response! As much as we think were in this relationship were not. She clearly loves him and seeing those comments probably hurts her.
It's called affectionate
And we don't know anything about there relationship and they also have different love languages
Yes, Erik! The dog meme said something like “Such excite, much wow!” and so your caption makes complete sense to me 😂🤷🏻♀️
Flynn in the beginning is melting my heart😍😭
My relax this week is curly hair!
As much as I love having curly hair, the amount of effort that goes into stying it is crazy! I know you generally straighten/curl your hair Colleen, but do you have any ways to style your natural curls?
Completely in agreement. I LOVE my curls. But, girl! The tiniest bit of humidity and it frizzes right up. The amount of leave in conditioner I have to use just to defrizz is re-donk-ulous smh 😂😂 This is such a good relax
Even worse if you’re black ( like me) 😩
@@dellab9135 redonkulous haha i love that word thats so cute
I found a way of mixing the separated nut butters without using a utensil. Just make sure the lid is on tight and shake the separation out of it. :)
Hey Colleen and Erik in the twins name song instead of saying "Some day they'll need people names" u could say " and now they have people names to call if they run too far away, Maisy Joanne and Wesley Koy, My gorgeous girl and my sweet little boy". you could play around w/ the words. love from AUSTRALIA.
Colleen and Erik❤️ I hope you’ll see this!! Everyone in the comments is being pretty nasty… (even tho I understand their intentions might be in the right place). I want you to know that I truly enjoy your vibe together, and your opinions as individuals, and actually loved the last few podcasts because they were so real. When you were both briefly singing in this episode the energy between you two was so beautiful. I’m an hsp, an empath witch with adhd so I do notice so many subtleties in people it’s sometimes overwhelming. I think people focus on things between you they deem as negative or things they don’t know or understand but please don’t let that get into you at all! Do you. Period. Your mutual love and respect is very clear! And I laughed so much while listening. Not sure if it’s also because I’m only couple years younger than you and maybe your audience is younger so I do get all the sarcasm and darker humour and find it refreshing.
Also if Erik was actually tipsy, she’s ma queen, yes slay papa! Get that chill juice honey, you defo deserve it - approved! from your forever UK gay friend 🤌🥰😂
Uncontrollablay is a fun way of using Flynn's southern accent.
I remember that meme Erik is talking about lol it was a dog and everytime he talks about something he says “such” this “very” that or “wow” his name was doge
anyone get uncomfortable watching this episode because Colleen hardly looked up? - she was focused on doing the mannequins hair. Also I understand this is their version of loving banter but wow the tension felt especially high this episode
Sounds like you guys need to talk to a marriage counselor, not the podcast lol
You may have already found the remote, but if not, you should check under the chair & couch because Flynn was playing with it in the beginning of the podcast. 😊👍🏼
erik chill on the bottle yo
Just wanted to add that nothing about this episode bothered me- was kinda surprised to see all the negative comments. I feel like y’all are just being silly! Love y’all and love the podcast ❤️
Need to change the name of the Podcast to Bickering. There’s been so much Passive Aggressiveness towards each other in a lot of the recent episodes 😕
i enjoy u guys reading other peoples relaxes but, i feel like it's now taking over the podcast. maybe just read 1-2 of them then move on to the other segments of the show
Hey Colleen ! I just wanted to say I really enjoy watching your videos and they make my day. You brighten my day up and I can’t wait to watch your videos when I get home from school.
Whoa! These comments need to relax. I agree there is a bit of tension but I don't think it is as bad as everyone is Commenting. They have 3 small kids and they are tired and stressed and are being real people and let's face it no one is happy and pleasant all the time. They are real people even though they are in the public eye I like how real and honest they are with each other and have no filters when it comes to each other. It doesn't mean they should break up or get divorced. Stop being judgey people! They love each other and they're family but life gets hard and they both struggle with mental illness and these rude comments won't help with anything! Relax people and if there podcast bothers you so much stop watching simple as that.! Love you Colleen and Erik and please ignore the mean comments. If people want the Cleavers go watch some reruns where everything was sunshine and roses and everything was perfect.
Amen!
100 % agree...they are just humans and the way they act are how real couples that last forever do.... it's not all sunshine and rainbows in real life !! And these two are real! That's why I love them!😍
I find it so funny that I didn’t notice any bad vibes from this episode and everyone seems so pissed. Guys… we do not actually know them even if we listen every week or watch vlogs every day. This could be just how they interact. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and we sometimes get into a snarky mood where we bicker but it’s all fun and games at the end of the day and we love each other very much. Please don’t assume the worst. I feel like some of these comments are pretty mean as well… Isn’t it funnier to listen to them banter than listening to them being all lovey dovey for 1,5 hours?
My god i agree so much!!! I am convinced these are all kids or people who have never been in a serious relationship commenting. This is so normal its not even funny. And this is literally ONE hour of ONE day a week that we see. Having kids is stressful. Having twins is even more stressful they are tired and irritable for good reason. Me and my boyfriend don't even have kids and argue more than them haha
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Agree!!
Same! They are a normal couple bickering? It's always been how they interact.
i usually never comment but I think it’s about time! i love love LOVE this podcast so much. been watching colleen for sure 8+ years. this podcast gets me through my dentist appointments my crazy stressful life. I got my gf hooked on it so we listen to it in the car. I love how it’s SO relatable. ok we’ll just wanted to say I love love you colleen please come to seattle Washington so I can meet you alreadyyy❤️❤️
Colleen, I totally get why you sing uncontrollably as "lay" instead of "lee". I was always taught for more control, even sound while singing to round the vowels, especially for E. It is difficult to let air out or feel comfortable while singing E thru your teeth with a more closed mouth. But if you didn't grow up in choir or musical theater since you could speak.. I understand why it sounds weird. Lol
A tip for tiny remotes that always get lost!! Tape it to a rubber spatula or some kitchen utensil that doesn’t get used, much harder to lose🙃
I'm 32 and still insisted on putting glow in the dark stars on our ceiling to feel like we're in ✨SPOUTER SPACE ✨
Why did Erick just get up wave bye and walk away mid coleen sharing something with him and then cut off her story awwwww
Bc he’s over her garbage
@@Kaykay04822 relax it’s not that deep
They love each other very much
@useraccount no one is controlling
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I 100% agree with outer space needs to relax. I always get super anxious when I think about earth just floating in space.
People who don’t FULLY pull up to the car in front of them in a drive thru NEED TO RELAX! That drives me crazy!!!
Does Eric sound drunk this episode or am I tripping? 😆
Probably hasn’t slept much lol
I think maybe a little of both but love it!!!
Yes! No shade 😂
He was definitely intoxicated this ep
He’s always drunk. I don’t blame him. You’d have to be on something to deal with Colleen.
i feel like flynn would LOVE taylor swift's albums 1989 and reputation, very lyric heavy!!!! folklore and evermore are sort of tuned down and less poppy, he would enjoy the stories of those songs I swear !
Erik's indeed ad had me dying of laughter. He nailed that promo 🤣🤣🤣
Erik’s thinking of Concord, Mass, and Colleen is thinking of the California condor. They are hilarious when they don’t even mean to be 😂 love it
I feel like Eriks notes on his phones go crazy. Colleen, wee need you to read them to us 😂
Flynn is so funny, he's a natural at this.
When colleen gets really irritated she makes childish faces at Erik and I think it's so funny but it also makes me uncomfortable for some reason
It's not funny at all. To her maybe. It's childish and disrespectful
It's a pretty disrespectful, immature way to treat your partner. She needs to grow up. It's just rude.
I like how musical-lover Colleen has never heard of the Schuyler spelling before. The Schuyler Sisters from Hamilton would like a word!
Yeah. Such a musical lover, isn't she? She loves hamilton just like she said in so many videos. Why is she lying all the time
“i’m too fast!” **aggressively jumps on couch** but colleen is an amazing mom and when i was younger i wish my mom played with me. you are such an inspiration to me. ❤️❤️
My Relax: OVERTHINKING. This has ruined so many relationships for me and there is never a reason to think the things I do.
Eric: I think you should do this mannequin hair during the podcast
Also Eric: Colleen’s been ignoring me for this mannequin hair for the whole podcast 😂
Is Erik drunk? Colleen, why do you keep interrupting? The tension at the beginning was definitely there. 😳 This podcast is far from relaxing 😅
I've noticed this A LOT and it seems like he is always drinking. Or is buzzed. He clearly needs help and it's probably causing stress for both parties. I know my fiance would drink every day and it was hell for both of us. I would get easily annoyed with him and it was just messy. I hope for his health he can find another coping mechanism
Erik is always drunk and Colleen is a narc 😂
Colleen has ADHD which she has talked in depth about on her vlogs. It doesn't matter if Erik has had a bit to drink if he wants to. And you're not forced to watch the podcast, if you don't find it relaxing just click off it.
@@ledwards1299 I love the podcast. I love watching her vlogs. I'm just very acutely aware to people who are under the influence of alcohol and the slurred speech bc I've lived with it for years. All I'm saying is that it just seems like a constant thing for Eric and it could be an issue in their household. We don't know the details. But I do know that alcohol use in a household can get bad. Someone who frequently drinks alcohol to the point of getting drunk probably is using it to cope. I just hope they all get the help they deserve.
i was waiting for y’all to upload all week 😭 love this podcast
I can't wait to rewatch this in 3 years.
When they have broken up you mean? To look back on how shitty their relationship was? I really hope Erik gets out.
I wouldn't bet on them being together in 3 years
I give it another year, max.
@@ChelleBee166 You know they can see these comments. Why are you being so rude. You have no right to make claims about the lasting power of their relationship.
@@naesch7 WTF is your problem. Why are you so comfortable making these disgusting comments.
People in this comment section need to RELAX we dont know anything about their relationship and im sure they dont need marriage advice from you. 💀
Love you guys💕
THANK YOU
My relax is no show socks that have the non-slip piece by the ankle but still end up slipping and leave you walking around with a folded sock in your shoes🙃
Every time Erik wears a trucker hat tilted to the side I automatically think back to HS and it makes me super nostalgic🥺 Also, I’m loving his tan.
Colleen: Crappy peanut butter Jiffy
Erik: It's called Jiffy
Colleen: It is Jiffy?
Erik: Sure.
These are the exact exchanges I come here for. Erik's dry sense of humor and sarcasm and it's going over Colleen's head every time.
Erik seems a bit drunk lol
the guy from cruise segment had me dying 😭 im pretty sure they were talking about the character "Guy" from the movie The Croods. I also agree he needs to relax lmao
My relax is the weather in Texas. We are on day 27 of above 100 degree weather. It’s been about 105/106 every day and gotten up to 111. I know this is the bigger issue of climate change but the heat has to relax. 🥵
Yes! I just moved to Texas from Seattle and I’m dying!! This is my first Texas summer and boy it’s brutal!!!
“You are actually a liar” made me choke on my oatmeal!!! So funny you two!!
Was Erik drinking when he painted that atrocity
He’s always drinking
ERIK YES!!!! A MEME! Everyone in school talked like this back in the day. Its the Doge dog. He is like a Shibu inu
The "uncontrollablay" doesn't bother me as much as the "sob" sounds like she's saying "so". She drops the "b" from sob. I've been questioning her lyrics since the song debut!
That being said, I love when Colleen just belts. I would love to hear more of her classical singing!
Erik - “I’m very aware that they exist but for the life of me I couldn’t name, off the top of my head, a single song that any one of them wrote”
Also Erik- “When we were listening to Katy Perry’s song Roar” and then continues to talk about her song TGIF 😂😅
Colleen says she's never seen Schuyler spelt this way....but she's seen Hamilton right??? The Schuyler sisters??? Colleen???
she prob didn’t know how it was spelled lol
"Now can we run?"
"I thought you wanted to talk?"
"UUH I changed my mind!"
this kid cracks me up
Love you Colleen and Erik! I loves this episode with Flynn, Weasley, and Maisy!! So cute and chaotic!! Loved it!!
Oh my goodness!!! I am sure it was just a typo, but I spit my drink out laughing at "Weasley"!! Lol also I agree. Best start to a podcast yet!
@@ashleyrenee8906 me too! Even knowing it was a typo it was still so funny!
@@ashleyrenee8906 Weasley was my FERRETS name🤣💀
You can totally tell Eric is hammered and I am here for it 🍻😂😂.
I mean it's not funny. I've noticed this A LOT and it seems like he is always drinking. Or is buzzed. He clearly needs help and it's probably causing stress for both parties. I know my fiance would drink every day and it was hell for both of us. I would get easily annoyed with him and it was just messy. He clearly needs to find other coping mechanisms
I’m also here for it lmaoo
@@NatalieMichelle12 Maybe it’s the stress of having 3 kids. I have my glass of wine most nights and I only have 1 kid! I can’t imagine 3😵💫. I have an feeling there must have been a conversation after this pod b/w the two of them.
@@ambergonzales558 having a glass of wine and getting hammered are 2 different things. I'm just saying I'm very sympathetic towards people who have a dependence on alcohol and I just hope they can be okay and be healthy for themselves and their kids.
my relax is IBS…iykyk the trauma from every trip to the bathroom…💀
Mine too. I am so over it. Feel better soon!
I FEEL YOU BEAUTIFUL HUMAN!!!