ASMR| The Hidden Darkness [Sensory Overload] [Autism and ADHD] [Comfort and Hugs]

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  • @MoistToucan
    @MoistToucan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    I'm still baffled that there are people like me out there. I'm still trying to learn about my own mind alone, but audios and videos like these pieces more together for me

  • @horridnightmares1950
    @horridnightmares1950 2 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    As someone with a LOT of neurodivergent “disorders” this makes me feel happy that we have something specifically patented for people like us 😊

  • @isaiahdelage9083
    @isaiahdelage9083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    This makes me feel like someone understands my pain. I have huge sensory problems and I feel like no one understands me.

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      🫂❤️

    • @camerontroutman1605
      @camerontroutman1605 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You’re not the only one here bro. It still baffles me to this day as how there is most humans out here who doesn’t care about us & our disabilities, but just know I’m by your side & always agree because I have autism too. No joke💯

  • @chrisholland2016
    @chrisholland2016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    This is amazing we need more amazing audios like this I'm also an Autistic listener and I've been suffering wounded depression for the past 9 ½ years and I never feel safe around our society to open up about my bleeding emotional pain because society is just so selfish even though I have my horses and stuff they don't comfort the same like humans do I do want comfort but I just don't feel welcomed enough to get it like I used to. Amazing video though very soothing like I wanted it. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Aw, Chris. This breaks my heart. This is very much the reason why we need to talk about autism amongs so many other diagnosis. Nobody should have to feel like that. But I hope the comments here makes you feel a bit less alone in your struggles. Much love ❤🤗❤

    • @AutisticPrimieprimprim
      @AutisticPrimieprimprim 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yeah I’m also an autistic listener and I really like audios like this it’s awesome and really helpful this is why there needs to be more so plus I’ve been struggling with autism all my life so thanks for the audio on here

  • @joonieborahae94
    @joonieborahae94 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I see how many this script helped, and I will write and post more once my life allows it emotionally. I will get back to it, just right now I have a lot going on and I don’t have the energy for it. I wrote this script SPECIFICALLY when I was feeling the same way as now, except now is worse so if I wrote one now, it’ll be darker then this - and I don’t want anything darker in my life atm as I’m recovering correctly from my abuser now. So once I’m ready, I’ll post more scripts

    • @The_revenger69
      @The_revenger69 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You wrote this, thank you 🙏🏾 because for once after a long time I felt like I was being held again and finally thought someone actually gave a shit about me🥹. (Even if it was for 11 minutes and now I’m left with nothing more than the sinking feeling that the only way I could ever be loved is through ASMR Role-play videos, this one by far is my favorite

    • @The_revenger69
      @The_revenger69 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And props for @YourgirlfriendASMR for bringing the character to light (I couldn’t leave you out of this)😉

    • @joonieborahae94
      @joonieborahae94 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@The_revenger69I’m happy it helped you just 11 minutes. I wrote this when I had the worst depression over a year ago, and I combined feelings + my own sensitivity which I know a lot of people with autism and ADHD has. And the rest of the struggles we have. I will write more with time, I lost my grandma just 2 months ago, and I could easily write a script on this - but it will be once I’m ready to talk about it and her more. I’m again happy seeing my script helped the people it did ❤️

  • @jays6575
    @jays6575 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    As someone who has ADHD, Anxiety, Mood Swings and Depression this was great to listen to.

    • @aztecpnda6045
      @aztecpnda6045 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @pppearr
      @pppearr 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The emotional dysregulation that often accompanies ADHD should really take a long walk off a short pier tbh

    • @Orangish_1
      @Orangish_1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@pppearr imagining the gta pier and gigantic letters falling off it thanks for the idea in my head

  • @thewinterripper
    @thewinterripper ปีที่แล้ว +7

    as someone with asd and adhd, i feel like i really needed this. it truly spoke to me.
    you are a good woman, thank you for this

  • @leonturner2598
    @leonturner2598 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Seeing these Autism ASMR’s helps quite a fair bit because while I may have been diagnosed early in life I still don’t fully understand it and I wish I had a partner who could understand me like this!

  • @SnakeNamedJake
    @SnakeNamedJake 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    As someone with ADHD I've seen lots of media and other sources write off ADHD as a "made up disorder" so seeing someone actually acknowledge the real issues of it is unbelievable and amazing to me.

  • @joonieborahae94
    @joonieborahae94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I'm happy my script helped you word out exactly what you wanted to say ❤️ Thank you for giving my new script such a life as you did ❤️

  • @MrSHADOWANGEL999
    @MrSHADOWANGEL999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    A truly loving bit of comfort

  • @zachinhyrule2351
    @zachinhyrule2351 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Every time I see an asmr channel doing stiff for people with autism, it makes me feel.happy that they care for people like us. Thank you!

  • @Thomii_Alt
    @Thomii_Alt 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As a person with autism and adhd. This asmr makes me really glad i found this. Thank you❤❤

  • @PoeticNugget
    @PoeticNugget 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The ending’s what killed me the most. Falling asleep in her arms, the raw love she shows.. Being called ‘baby doll’ and being sung a soothing song. It’s something I’ve never experienced, and it’s bittersweet to listen to.

  • @MagooMorgan
    @MagooMorgan ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much. I don't think you realise just how much I needed this today, I'm autistic and so are my brothers but they have bigger reactions than I do so when I react in a smaller way than how my brothers do (which can gey quite bad) I've learned to keep it inside and try to calm down myself. Idk why but the feeling of someone being there has made me cry but in a good way so thank you ❤

  • @mitchib1440
    @mitchib1440 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sometimes autism is like i speak another language that nobody else understands.
    This really does feel like you speak it.

  • @Iden_in_the_Rain
    @Iden_in_the_Rain 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Absolutely amazing, probably the most applicable (to me) video I’ve seen

    • @joonieborahae94
      @joonieborahae94 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy it helped 🥰 Always happy to see my scripts help listeners out 🥰

  • @spidergalva
    @spidergalva ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My severe adhd makes it nigh impossible to go a day without feeling sensory overload, but god does this make it less intense

  • @goodwin19-j7r
    @goodwin19-j7r 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As someone who has a eating disorder and autism this really helps me thank you

  • @JohnHite-i2d
    @JohnHite-i2d 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for making this for people like me I have adhd autism anxiety depression

  • @jiacast
    @jiacast 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Thanks for making this, I’m an autistic listener🥹💖

    • @joonieborahae94
      @joonieborahae94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is why I love spreading awareness about this diagnosis, I have it myself and wanna spread awareness about it ❤️ Happy it helps ❤️

  • @seapheonix-ht8pe
    @seapheonix-ht8pe 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I sympathize I lot with hiding in the dark. For two reasons, 1. It was the only place I felt safe for because of my fear of people it made me feel safe because people stayed away from the dark. The 2nd reason os because I felt that I naturally annoyed or bothered people so that by "locking" myself in the dark so that I would not bother them and they could live their lives free from whatever way I'd bother them. I do this less these days though. Thank you or the audio as clearly shown its helped alot of people here thank you 😊.

  • @internetguy6928
    @internetguy6928 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Every single time I’ve tried to open up to anyone or hint at my autism I’m told I don’t have it and that I’m just making everything up…
    It’s so painful! Everything sensory! The only place I find and feel any sense of comfort is right here, in my room… at 1 on the morning… listening to your audio and hugging my pillow as if it’s a real person… I know it’s not 😭 💔
    Even looking at this phone screen is painful and I can’t- Owwwwww! ⚡️
    Your audio is so comforting… 😭, my senses hurt every day and this makes me feel better and valid… ❤

    • @droppers
      @droppers ปีที่แล้ว

      were you diagnosed by a professional?

    • @toothmuze
      @toothmuze ปีที่แล้ว

      Literally same 💀💀

  • @JayMazzitelli
    @JayMazzitelli 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For Someone Who Deals With Stress From Time To Time i'd Just Like To Say That i Am Truly Greatful And Thankful For The Calming Videos You Make For Us. Thankyou So Much, It Really Helps. Much Love From Australia. ❤

  • @captaintaurusva1999
    @captaintaurusva1999 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really wish I had someone like this, I'm autistic and the smallest things that are nothing to anyone stress me out and so does change or learning something I've never done and I get treated differently. My first job I told my boss about this and my sister worked with me and we didn't realize until a bit later that everytime I did something wrong she'd bring my sister like I needed a translator and a bit before I quit the day we noticed she was telling me things I did wrong saying she checked the cams to know it was me, but the thing about that is the issues she spoke of were done by her son as he just wanted to flirt with the new co-worker. I'm lucky to have my sister, brother in law and friends to talk to about how I feel and get overloaded, my parents aren't the best to talk to about these things, they are fantastic parents but when it comes to this they kinda go about it in the old "tough it out" way their parents did, I love them and they are great but with this it's not something I can come to them about. Finding vids like these, I'll be it a little late, feels so nice....thank you.

  • @amandagresham1298
    @amandagresham1298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It's like you know just what I need. Thank you for being you and making this wonderful audio love you Sweetheart 💖💖💖💖💕💋

  • @Cybertronous
    @Cybertronous ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have Autism, ADHD and Asperger's, and people always ask me why I can't just be normal, since I talk and have conversations with myself. It's how I destress, as all have our ways, but no one seems to understand that.

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I find that you always get the greatest answers when talking to yourself (jk). Some people will never understand but those are likely not people you want in your life either so don’t let their opinions way you down. 🫂

    • @Cybertronous
      @Cybertronous ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@YourgirlfriendASMR You have no idea how much I actually needed to hear that from someone else.

    • @timberwolf700
      @timberwolf700 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I understand I have had a similar experience with people asking me why I don't look like I'm special needs and they don't believe me when I say that I have a neurological disorder and that physical disabilities are not the only type of disability they think that there is no such thing as mental disorders which is not true and I have been asked why I can't be normal like other people so I understand what you are saying

  • @droppers
    @droppers ปีที่แล้ว +3

    could you make a remastered version with the mic turned up a bit (idk if this is just a problem using old headphones or others have the same problem)

  • @Alexx_the_coolest
    @Alexx_the_coolest 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You sing so well :0

  • @fyodorchrome
    @fyodorchrome ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you for this 🙏

  • @crystalhufflepufftheluckyt2758
    @crystalhufflepufftheluckyt2758 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have autism and this is really relaxing 😌 ❤

  • @Yune_Faded
    @Yune_Faded 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh. So i came here for some relaxation and saw something targeted towards the two diagnos i just got and this accidently helped me understand why i preferred the dark and night so thanks.
    Ps it's great the rest too :)

  • @randomentertainment8927
    @randomentertainment8927 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Here's the kicker, I also have depression and anxiety so when I have sensory overload, or try to sleep at all, I can't have quiet or darkness because I'll have a panic attack. Every night.

  • @angelmatiastorres
    @angelmatiastorres 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A person with ASD and ADHD this is kind of you!

  • @sydneystrange
    @sydneystrange ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Who else with autism hates physical contact during a sensory overload or a meltdown?

    • @blahblah9883
      @blahblah9883 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've never had anyone to hug me when I'm having a meltdown I usually run away and lock myself in a room

  • @elonfrosthauch9577
    @elonfrosthauch9577 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is the first ASMR for Autists that helped me. Thank you very much

  • @BarbarianBard
    @BarbarianBard ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m neurodivergent and I always feel like I’m too much to handle. my emotions are too big, my problems are too much for people to handle, I’m too much of a burden. So I hide away, forever alone with my burden because the world wasn’t meant to handle people like me.

  • @louisrobitaille5810
    @louisrobitaille5810 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So this is what being loved should feel like 😐? Hopefully I'll find a gf like this one day. Right now, I have to deal with two delusional toxic parents. Can't wait to get out of here, but then again, society isn't much better. Such is the curse of autistic people 😢.

    • @LardballLuke
      @LardballLuke 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same! I am visiting my mom tonight and being around her triggers all sorts of negative emotions and thoughts because of how toxic she can be to me and her husband. When I am there, she spends more than half of the conversation s*it-talking other people. I admit, she is one of 5 biggest reasons why I am considering leaving America for Dublin as soon as I am able to.
      Edit: Your situation sounds a million times worse. I hope it all gets better for you soon, Louis.

  • @wyattjenkins9688
    @wyattjenkins9688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Y'all I'm starting to think it ain't gonna get better 😅🥲

  • @mcaducker
    @mcaducker 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was officially diagnosed with autism in January 2024.

    • @blahblah9883
      @blahblah9883 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am so proud and happy for you ive been waiting three years now for my diagnosis. I'm so happy for you 🥰

  • @rui8232
    @rui8232 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sunny approves
    A person that has ADHD I love you

  • @basorexias
    @basorexias 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    neurodivergent tomato approves

  • @creep_asmr
    @creep_asmr ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Adhd,anxiety when i have both of them its hard to know when it is a adhd melt down or an anxiety attack

  • @Nightmare-wo2gd
    @Nightmare-wo2gd ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel like as a man I'm less able to advocate for the way overstimulation and sensory issues actually make me feel and how they affect me. It's a result of not wanting people to see me as less of a man for something I cannot control. Definitely felt this one.

    • @blahblah9883
      @blahblah9883 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I can relate so much I find it hard to tell people about my autism I guess people can sometimes see I get stressed but I don't know

    • @Nightmare-wo2gd
      @Nightmare-wo2gd ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@blahblah9883 it is a struggle we both share, my friend. It's just hard sometimes. People often don't understand why I need to take a step back from super loud sounds or just Overstimulation AND Understimulation can be hard. It's not something within my power to control and I worry that as a man, I will be seen as weak or less masculine for having these issues, even though I was born with them.

  • @sheikah3303
    @sheikah3303 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well this year old comment section is as good a place as any to vent.
    This is my biggest fear. Im terrified that nobody will ever want to deal with my 'autistic' traits. I desperately want to feel loved but cant get past the idea that nobody would want to love a mess like me. It keeps me up at night. Every night. I feel like im gonna die alone, amd even just typing tgis out makes my chest hurt and my throat close up.

  • @josha2139
    @josha2139 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve got 3 disorders 2 of them being adhd and autism thx so much

  • @SomeKrieger
    @SomeKrieger 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I came across this looking for something else, and seeing to comments and comparing them to how I feel.. I feel nothing. I’m easily over stimulated but every time I am I always hide it as much as possible. As I’m typing this out I feel nothing, and touch feels mostly numb except for small touches on the hands. I feel like the things I do are simply mimicking what normals do.

  • @HotSauceSpiderMan
    @HotSauceSpiderMan 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was just miding my business and looking for seneory asmr and then clicked on this thinking it would be dark but i wasn't expecting Yourgirlfriend i am single and i will be single for the longest time.

  • @killing_joke_5294
    @killing_joke_5294 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Man this just makes me realize just how screwed I am in terms of getting a girlfriend due to me ADHD and autism
    I’ve tried multiple dating apps and nothing
    And girls find me weird and what not even though I’m just socially awkward with emotional baggage no one wants to deal with

  • @TheVeryLastOne
    @TheVeryLastOne ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm autistic and I found this accidentally

  • @Emily_North
    @Emily_North 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Comment For Engaygement🏳️‍🌈

    • @basantpal1945
      @basantpal1945 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You have summoned the Nazi boss dislike to join the raid