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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ต.ค. 2024
- Reality Steve joins me to discuss ethics, how he sources his content, karma, Jenna Cooper, and so much more.
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Just one more example of why I tune in to this channel. Dave Neal, you are a beautiful human. Your honesty and thoughtfulness about the tough issues help educate all of us and also us to be the best versions of ourselves. As we see others taking accountability and making changes, we are inspired to do the same. Thank you, Dave! I hope you never stop doing what you do!
you made my eyes tear up. i read your comment on my patreon recap of this and wow, thank you.
@@DaveNealComedian watching from Nigeria and I love how earnest and fair you try to be. You're global now! Can't wait to see your Netflix specials (speaking them into existence)
So, Emmanuel Acho has "Difficult Conversations with A Black Man", does anyone else get similar vibes from Dave's videos but about race and so many more topics? And the fact that his videos are shot live, no edits, and he's just talking on the fly. He demonstrates so much insight, introspection, respect, gosh so many things.
Yes, we love Dave!
Yep, Dave is soaring!
youre too kind
Yes ma’am. Agreed :)
Brigette
For sure! He has a brand going. I just love it.
This interview definitely changed my opinion about Steve. I respect people who can admit their faults or flaws, learn from it, and do better. That's not easy!
Wow Dave! I'm in awe about this interview! Thanks for asking the hard questions! I had to remind myself that you're not an experienced reporter! This video was riveting!! Thank Dave!
aw thanks, i enjoy conversations and I think we had a good productive chat.
I want more interviews Dave you have a talent! One of these each month? Pretty Please 😍
Dave, you are such an interesting character. You prove yourself time and time again and whenever I give your content a chunk of time, I’m always impressed and want more!
This was very fair and insightful. I follow both of you and appreciate your honesty. I've followed Steve for a long time and commend him on his inner work and how he has changed for the better. I now follow Dave after being impressed with his thoughtful approach to all that he covers. Having you on each other's programs has been a dellight.
Phenomenal job. And Steve felt much more human and likeable. You definitely have equity and created a safe place for him to be open and not be as defensive as he has previously. 👏👏
Great interview!!! I am one of those people who love spoilers. Lol. It's so fascinating how he just kind of serendipitously started getting sent info and it snowballed into a lucrative business. Keep those spoilers coming Steve! 😄
That was a TERRIFIC interview Dave and Reality Steve both. Dave, you have such a nack... like you've been doing this your whole life. You guys talk like best friends already. You should do more interviews.
Anyway, my opinion of Reality Steve skyrocketed so much more than when he did Whit & Ry. Not sure if he's just saying his side of the story more by now and had so many apologies, but I just think we got a more in depth explanation of his intentions, or lack thereof, with Demi, and I do believe he had no bad or sexual intent.
I enjoyed some of the other stories as I've only been watching him for a year and a half. That's some good stuff. I liked your take on the 'legal then, moral compass now idea. Makes sense.
Overall, BEST interview on TH-cam out there now, Dave, and I hope you get tons of Likes 👍
Aw thanks so much, I really appreciate it. You’re too kind. I think since we’ve talked so much about these issues already it was easy to feel prepared.
It's the 'Not anti-women, because I had women friends' for me
I mean I think he was just further explaining the scenario in which he was writing. I don’t think he meant it like that
Personal take tho, I’m not coming for you😂
Overall, great interview. I do really have to say that if we are talking about all things being equal karmically, maybe we should ask Jade and Jenna. They are both doing well now, but just like we talk about with Brittany Galvin, that stuff will follow them forever. Steve will never feel what they felt. He can take it all down, apologize, etc., but as we know, the internet is forever.
You have great interview skills, though, and great insight. I'm impressed. :)
Thanks so much. I agree the damage from that reporting was done. I guess it serves as a cautionary tale
They talk about it on Chatty Broads podcast
a light note: love your backdrop Dave - very appealing & the teal lights up your eyes. I think Steve could use a similar background update.
thanks! do you mean the vertical boards? ya i found a website that has good green screen backgrounds, i like this one!
@@DaveNealComedian yes the green vertical boards. It's a keeper! keep doing your very important work here.
Yes Steve (and most TH-camrs I imagine) could benefit from a green screen. Unless you have an ideal setting taking up space (better if more than one speaker) why not utilize the magic of the Lean Mean Green..Mascreen?
-B
I totally agree Jennifer. I LOVE that backdrop, Dave. But then I love the color green too.
I love it too! :)
Dave, I found you during Matt's season and I've been listening ever since. In a crazy world with all the hate, listening to you is really refreshing. I don't really listen to the radio or watch television anymore, so thank you for giving me something to look forward to; something real. Great job!
Aw thanks so much Carla! I appreciate your support
Well done, Dave. When it comes to bachelor coverage I prefer your tact, sensitivity, maturity, and structure over Reality Steve. Good on you though for a well done interview and bridging the gap.
Very interesting interview. Great Job Dave. Thanks for the heads up on the spoilers. I prefer to have a spoiler free season. Appreciate it.
Glad you enjoyed it
Watched and listened to every minute! Really enjoyed this interview, Dave!! It was nice to hear his story and perspective and I agree with the other comments, you're a great interviewer!!
I am really glad that you two collaborated with each other and more that it was for charity!
Excellent conversation Dave…and Steve! All so very interesting…and honestly, knowing some of the spoilers early on has never stopped me from watching the season(s) and seeing it all play out. Thumbs up! 👍🏽
Loved this chat with my two favorites! Great discussion exploring the issue and going in depth.
Dave, thank you for this amazing interview and recording it. It helped to see face to face for me at least I like to watch body language. You asked great questions in a respectful non judgemental way! This definitely changed my perspective on Reality Steve. I think certain times he is a little defensive but if some of those things were said about me when I'm trying to make right I would be defensive too. It was a very healthy conversation.
ya thanks! i actualled meant to have it recorded with both our faces on camera but i guess i hit the wrong button on zoom and it came out edited this way, haha
Dave, good job in asking all of the right questions ! And Reality Steve, good job in being open, honest and remorseful. Totally changed my mind about you ! Good Luck in moving forward with your new life !
What a great interview!! You continue to do such a great job..... I do not have a lot of extra time, but I still like to keep up on my Bachelorette and Bachelor news and you are the person I choose to watch..... I have also told my work about you and they love you too!! Please don't change! 😊👍😊
Aw you’re too kind. Thank you!
Hi Dave, great interview. Good on you for taking this conversation on. I was resistant at first but I’m so glad I listened to this. You are making waves and changing the world for the better. Truly appreciate your perspective and allowing people to grow and seeing how you handle that when you have an opportunity to. This is so good. I believe your about to blow up in popularity online but everywhere because of your takes and how you treat delicate situations. I’m so glad I discovered you when I did. It’s been fun watching you evolve and upgrade and also grow. Keep it going! Your doing amazing things.
Aw so kind thank you for the nice words ;)
I listened to the podcast and then this interview. Both have really changed my previous outrage and kind of malicious vindictive anger to deeper understanding and sympathy for both Demi AND Steve. He cannot change that he made mistakes and hurt people - and that’s a hard thing to carry. I do believe that he genuinely regrets that he cannot change the consequences and that it was not done with malicious intent. I do really appreciate that he’s now added the “moral compass” to stay to the show content and not police the cast members personal lives. Great interview! Really important to have these conversations ❤️
Enjoyed this interview. Dave you are getting better & better. Much respect to both Dave & Reality Steve. TY for your truth, openness, respecting each other, maturity, difficult conversations. We all are learning and trying to do better.
aw hey thanks so much!
Great interview Dave and really like all the content you brought up. I like you background screen
Thanks! I like the new bg too!
I love how Dave always has his take on both sides of controversial topics. I enjoy his videos and his perspective on things. Plus sweet Tasha is always a bonus when she pops on. I've been a loyal fan of Steve's for many years and have seen his growth thougout the years. Way to go Dave! Great interview.
Thanks for the kind words!
Great interview Dave! Man of many talents!
Well thanks!
Great interview as always Dave. I listen to all your podcasts and enjoy Steve as well. Owning up and apologizing is a great thing and learning from it is being shown. Cancel culture works both ways and should never be used as revenge. Let’s make this world a better place and all be kind. Much respect to you Dave! Keep up the great work.
You’re an amazing man and I just want to say thank you for donating to a good cause. 💜 oh and congrats 🎊🍾🎉🎈 on 36k 💜
aw thanks so much!
I’m tired of people griping about “cancel culture …”There is no such thing as cancel culture . People lose their jobs every day for their past or stupid things they did .but it doesn’t mean that these people will be done in show biz for ever . All these so called people that have been canceled end up getting other opportunities and people have a choice if they want to continue to support or not to
are you refering to a specific part of the interview? Cancel culture is obviously a (flawed) complex term. It exists in the sense that if people can reach out to advertisers or bosses to get others fired, they do. id be happy to discuss it further.
@@DaveNealComedian I’m talking about in general . But I can see Steve defensive response in regards to cancel culture … and like he specifically said he has not seen a drop in his site’s viewership. (So obviously he is not cancelled) All people did was hold him accountable. Of course he is going to get a few internet trolls here and there but he just needs to worry about continuing his journey on “doing the work.” But I do not understand his defensiveness with this topic when he has tried to cast several people on the show in a bad light like Peter, Jed , Matt, Eazy etc . I think you did a great job interviewing him , I just don’t get how he doesn’t see that he has played into trying to “cancel” several people. His previous blogs weren’t just spoilers but he also lived off of “exposing” people . Hopefully he has truly learned from this situation, but my mom has always told me when someone is sorry they will show you and tell you their sorry every time .. and I’m just not feeling like he gets it.
@@jillwade123 I don’t think he’s tried to cancel those people. His job is to comment on the show. He’s been critical of Peter as many fans are, but that’s not canceling him. Jeds situation was something that was happening as the show was filming and his ex even came forward. Steve was reporting on what his ex was saying about how they never broke up. Steve also refused to say what the allegation against Easy was until his accuser came forward about it publicly. If that’s canceling, then technically any news outlet that reports on negative things public figures have done is canceling.
@@jillwade123 100% agree!
@@jillwade123 I think you misunderstood what he was trying to say. I've been reading his blog for years and I can tell you that Steve completely agrees with you about cancel culture. You said cancel culture isn't a thing...he has been saying that exact thing for the past two years! Especially in regards to people saying Chris Harrison was unjustly canceled. Steve has been very consistent in saying that holding people accountable is NOT canceling. He has said numerous times that getting fired is a consequence and that doesn't mean anyone is canceled. Chris Harrison was fired & will be just fine. What you perceived as defensiveness I think is his frustration that people still don't get it. People think they "canceled" him. He wasn't, his income hasn't been affected at all and that's what he was trying to point out. That people think they did something but they didn't.
Great interview! Totally wasn’t expecting the spoiler at the end, but that’s my fault lol. Great content as always!
Just coming across this. Dave is a really great interviewer ☺️
Aw thanks so much! I interviewed game of roses and it comes out Monday!
@@DaveNealComedian Awesome! I’ll be watching. I hope that you can go on Chatty Broads or vice versa soon. Jess on Chatty Broads has brought up your channel before and I think it would be great!
Yes!! That is the one scene in Joe Millionaire I remember!!!🤣
Im so curious about it now! I've never seen it. I wonder if I can find it online somewhere? 😂😂
Came in really late, so I will try to watch this later. Thanks for doing this one, Dave. And thanks for donating the proceeds, I think that is an excellent idea.
of course, thanks for saying hi!
Awesome awesome awesome awesome man I'm watching your podcast a long time spoil when you used to stand up and Christmas lights on in the background LOL
I will watch all of the ads all the way through to maximize the donation to a great cause. Thank you Dave for driving positivity!
haha youre too kind, sometimes they play LONG ads, dont suffer through those, ill still get a couple pennies if you skip ;)
@@DaveNealComedian you’re my work companion so it’s no problem! I do it all the time! 😉
Great interview!
This is a great interview!!! Good job Dave
Thanks so much!
Jealous people will never like you. No matter what you say or do. So true.
Hearing what happened to Jenna made me TRULY DISLIKE. Reality Steve. I had doubts on wether Jenna did that or not but I also felt horrible seeing her trying to defend herself and seeing how Jordan handled it. Anyways just here to say ok I forgive this guy. I’m glad he is remorseful and learned from it! ❤️ Great Interview Dave!
Thanks for watching. For me it’s all about getting to truth and having the conversations.
So well done, Dave. Such a talent!
So interesting! Thanks Dave!
Love the background behind u, Dave
Great interview Dave!
Great interview
Thanks!
OMG...I totally remember watching Joe Millionaire! I had no idea that is where Reality Steve was born.
Wild right? I actually really enjoyed that show- it was so shocking and different and pre internet. In hindsight we see how flawed it all was lol - a genius premise but dangerous
@@DaveNealComedian oh yes, it was VERY different than the programs I grew up with and groundbreaking at the time.
Watching the final 20 minutes of your interview with Steve now. It’s fascinating- you did a really great job with the questions.
Have been waiting for this.. there is a live chat right now
Those with significant power are stressed about being held accountable ("cancel culture") for fear that their power will be taken away but look at how the lack of accountability in our culture has upheld systems of oppression. There's no cancel culture like colonization and we've been colonized to perpetuate, fuel, tolerate or ignore misogyny and racism since the beginning. Misogyny and racism is in the air we breathe. Accountability is putting on the oxygen mask in order to heal our systems of oppression.
How the heck does Steve remember the order and finals of each season?!?
I sure don’t lol
Bruh I forget before Peter 😂
What an amazing interview !!!!!
Loved itttt
I didn’t skip ANY AD especially for that video
Hopefully everyone does the same 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Enjoyed this interview, Love you Dave & Tasha thank you both for your hard work keeping us in the loop ❤ ❤ ❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
Yasssss! We love Tasha too!!!
Love the interview, it would be even better if u have split screen of both of u at all times.
Ya I meant to do that but I recorded the wrong format on zoom
This was a great interview. I have been a Reality Steve fan for the last few years. I was worried that the whole interview would be about the controversy with Demi so I was glad that it was touched on but not the central theme. Good job both of you!!
What a great interview! Dave, what CAN’T you do? And thank you for donating to a great cause. ❤️ It encouraged me to donate too.
aw thanks for donating!
Great job Dave
Great interview Dave!! I enjoyed you two chatting.
Thanks for listening
The spoiler I always thought was a plant was Desiree ending up with the man who told her repeatedly that he wasn't interested in her. That was the first time I ever heard of Reality Steve because people I was talking to about the show insisted that this man who left was coming back for her. I refused to believe it and after a while, they admitted that they got the info from Steve. I hope he one day explains how that one got so wrong because he's usually right.
Dave Neal X Reality Steve = 🙌🏻🔥❤️
Woman with Words of Affirmation here 🙋🏼♀️
You are a great mom! ;)
So - I LOVE RS's spoilers - but years ago was rather put off by some of his commentary. So - I wasn't pro RS at all - BUT after listening to him be brave enough to speak about some tough issues for him... am impressed. Hardly any of the folks who purposefully tear down or torment women - EVER admit to making mistakes (they just cover things up by making false accusations). I don't think that it was EVER ok to be misogynistic - and I had a career where being female was NOT the norm (and so have had WAY too much nonsense thrown my way - hence have little patience for it)... BUT - I am thinking that RS has learned some things along and he seems likely to take more care in the future - and that seems like a very good thing. Unfortunately - true equality seems ever so slow in coming .... doesn't matter whether it revolves around racism, sexism or any other type of ism.
Can anyone share time stamps? I'm not sure what I think about Reality Steve. I'm kind of scrolling a bit, but having trouble finding where he talks about the experience with Jade and Demi.
Also, I'm looking forward to watching it. I'm sure Dave did a wonderful job at creating a safe space.
@@dyslexiahelpforallages4176 I’ll add the time stamps for you once I watch :)
i was gonna add time stamps but my reasoning for not, is i think the conversation is best served from start to finish. I get people dont always have the time, but theres a method to my madness ;)
@@DaveNealComedian EXACTLY!!!!! The more serious the topic, the more critical the nuance
Did no one let him know that those were up beforehand? I'm sure someone would've gone into the backlogs before and seen it. Him deleting them afterwards feels very performative. I agree that if someone stops repeating their past, then they should be allowed a second chance, but what steps has he taken to not only stop being a problem, but also be a part of the solution? Has he donated to women's organizations, been promoting a less mysoginistic environment in Bachelor? Honestly curious about this, please let me know if he has done anything to make his impact not just a net neutral, but a net positive!!
Yes he has
Where do i find his podcast
Dreams happen just before you wake up.
It’s not so much the phone call. It’s the way he wrote about women earlier. I’m glad he’s apologizing now.
Ya both are separate subjects that are worth discussing
I need to know the whole Barcelona story
It’s not terribly exciting I just got conned in a street market
Dave you such a incredible interviewer ,and good at holding him accountable.
hey thanks, we could have talked for hours.
When people feel like they are in a safe space, you get a better interview. Well done Dave, truly! Thank you for being naturally good at interviews and with people :)
What was the news about chatty broads that was being referenced toward the end of the podcast?
they were the ones who most recently called steve out.
Good for him for owning it but still very inappropriate any way you think about it
Who have Reality Steve a black eye? Lol
Talk about having a niche!
Wait... I'm confused. The Jenna stuff was NOT real... he apologized. And now he says it was true? Is he trying to save his reputation on that?
No, there was another situation where he reported something that was true but made the person look bad- not Jenna
Spoiler? Oh I cant wait.
Get fired from where? He doesn't have a huge platform on TV like Chris Harrison. Chris Harrison had a disgusting manner and tone when he did his interview, and meant every word he said. Reality Steve hides behind a computer.
its a hypothetical.
I hadn't heard about the chatty broads last week. Can someone full me in?
Great video
It doesn’t matter if he “did it only once” to Demi and it wasn’t a whole bunch of women or the amount of information told to Demi, it is inappropriate. It shouldn’t happen, nor should take “one time” to know later it’s not something to do again. I think people can understand it was a mistake, but it shouldn’t minimize how much hurt or gross that feels as a woman to have happen. Despite remorse, it’s something now she unfortunately has to live with and carry-and that can’t be okay.
How about we say “I’m greatly sorry to anyone I hurt and I’m wrong” and stop trying to defend yourself because that’s where it goes sideways?
I don’t think he tried to defend himself.
Here’s the thing… Blame it on the white guy. Hellllooooo.... Come on Dave. You are not mansplaining, you are talking. I think you should learn some things from that older white guy over there. I think you should have some compassion for color.
What do you mean?
I’m sorry. Seriously I was being an asshole and I’m sorry.
You are looking younger and younger. Share the deets
I look younger?! It’s all the lighting lol
I don't like giving this guy a platform. He spoils the show year after year for so many people. Then there's the Demi and Jade issue.
We ah spoke about that
He deserves a platform like anyone else. You choose whether or not to read his spoilers which are always announced as a warning in his publishing’s
@@pondwaterwriter1625 that doesn't stop people from sharing his spoilers on social media. People post the winner in comment sections without warning, and the only reason they know is because of him.
I'm entitled to my opinion, if you don't like it you can scroll on by. He's been misogynistic at the very least. Of course he's going to say he's "sorry." You want to feel sorry for him go for it. I don't.
@@DaveNealComedian I know. I'm saying it still bothers me. I don't trust him at all.
@L. Tiller you and me both sis.
I mean look at his profile pic.
How can you trust someone like that??
And the way He called out contestants for texting 2 girls to just hangout and sensationalized it to the correeee everytime.
Now He literally sexually harassed someone He didnt even know & He wanted us to give him a pass??
Nah uh uh
Hi Rita
He’s boring…. Spoilers or not….
Great interview. Good job!
Great interview
thank you!
Great interview!