Excellent advice, been doing a solo acoustic act since '99 and the only thing that I would add is: Try and look like you're having a good time - the tips are better when you smile. Great work, thanks.
@@coolramone If it's a slow gig, or people are just having a blast chatting it up, I "practice" songs I may need to brush up on the spot. That is, I'm less concerned about a possible mistake. Better this approach than the IPAD "'crutch". Audiences are kind, in general. Heck, I've stopped and started over a good song if I mess up too badly. Be Human!!!
@@douglesw I hear ya. I’ve restarted songs too. :) How long would you say to practice to prepare for a 3 hour gig? And what is a slow gig? A restaurant where no one is dancing?
@@coolramone Don't think of it as practice! It's called Playing Music, so PLAY. I play a bit everyday, some days more than others. I think a minimum of 50 songs for 3 hours with 5 minute breaks. My most difficult challenge is song choice. That said, you never know who's really listening and I'm often surprised and thrilled when I do an obscure song and somebody goes out of their way to give me props! I play daytime vineyard gigs and "slow" is when it's a small crowd. No dancing where I play
I agree wholeheartedly! This list basically outlines my rules as well. One of my favorite ways to gig is as an acoustic duet. When both guys can sing, harmonize, and play guitar well, that opens up tons of possibilities. Great video, Frank!
When playing an all request night, never ask anyone what their favorite song is. Ask them for their favorite band or artist and then you are not pinned down to one single song.
As an audience member I also agree with all of these. We notice. I like when the musicians have a venmo code for tipping- more discreet, and I don't always have cash.
I'm a guitarist who plays solo with a singer (I guess that's a duet) and we're just starting out by performing at open mics and small local events. Your commandments are timely and on point, and the comments are excellent. Thank you.
Amen brother! Been doing this for 60 years and agree with all of it... Once folks realize that you follow these commandments they will let you enter at the front door and walk near the liquor cabinets and dessert trays!
Great advice. Been a professional musician for 15 years now and a lot of it is because I follow your rules. Only thing I would add is : Thou shalt not stare at your tablet the whole gig.
That reminds me of an ESSENTIAL one. Know your stuff. Practise , practise, practise. Gigging bands do not have tablets or bits of paper to look at. I would reserve the tablet for requests. But if you can seriously engage an audience, then they wont have any requests.
My goodness Frank! With a career background as a professional speaker and trainer; these are spot on. My wife and I now play a weekly duo gig at our favorite hotel. Modeling your tips has helped increase our following! Thanks
Thanks for the comment. Nice to have some confirmation from someone out “in the field” so to speak … I’m sure being a pro speaker made ur comfort level much greater when it comes to performing … all the best to you
As someone who enjoys a good performance almost as much as giving one I'd have to say your first rule was the most important. When my wife and I or other family members or friends go out to a venue for an acoustic performance and we have to shout to have a conversation we generally leave.. and not to contradict talking too much between sets, but a great sense of humor sprinkled lightly between sets can be a real asset for the performance. Everyone loves a good laugh to steer clear of religion and politics. I love it loud when going to a concert, but not so much for acoustic performances. And we're not shy about telling the venue, restaurant or otherwise why we're leaving. not trying to be a jerk just being honest.. Anyway, love the channel and advice. Keep it up. ✌️
Lol... simple but effective. Start making videos! lol. thanks for the input i appreciate it. and you are right. very important especially having strings!!
Great information and I agree with about all of your advice. I will have a FEW drinks, but never overdo it. I am also a nut about being on time. Thanks Frank, glad I found your channel!
Well done, Frank. You've obviously done your share of gigs. Also, when playing originals, make sure you disperse them among known popular covers so as to keep your audience comfortable.
I’ve found it works better if you don’t announce it’s original, or at least save mentioning it in passing- after the song. Feels less like a “Look at me” moment, which if you’re doing it right they already are lol. Just play and let the music/lyrics stand for themselves.
Thank you for this. I'm very early in my journey, but I'm doing lots of research, ahead of time. Plenty of these things, I was already familiar with. However, you brought light to many MORE things, that I wasn't aware of, or hadn't even thought about, at all. Thank you again, for sharing your insight, from your own experiences.
OK I’m stopping early in your commandments, as you won me over with number one first and foremost., and I’m giving you the thumbs up. Outside of solo gigging, I recently joined in with a band where too much volume is a real problem. I’ve never heard of or had any one leave a performance, because people complain the volume was too low. All the time I see people walking out of gigs, myself included, because it is so loud. It is damaging my hearing, and I can’t even talk to someone sitting a foot away.
Volume is a weird macho thing. Bands play WAY too loud and no one can hear anyone else speak, and it's literally painful. But everyone in the audience pretends it's cool because only a clueless nerd would complain that 'waah, it's too loud and it hurts my ears.' But it does... I have learned to wear db-limiting earplugs to concerts, just as I do when I go shooting at the range. The music sounds fine.
Great video and terrific responses! I respectfully add the following; If I have something coming up like a songwriter event where I will be front and center to a sit-down crowd. or a recording session where spot on is the aim, I do this: For at least a couple of weeks, every day, I rehearse at the exact same time as my upcoming obligation, blessing, gift, privilege, opportunity, and gig. (That's what it is to me, all of those things.) When I put the work in this perspective and nail down times places and song sequences, gig time comes, and I am used to digging in with confidence, just in a different place. I hope this is helpful to some folks out there. It also helps to alleviate stage fright. Thank you for this video. Great work!
@@gdub999tub.DJ s are also too loud.Most weddings I ve been to lately I spend the reception outside.Really dont feel like going deaf or getting tinnitus for the sake of pretending how great it is.
Your well-placed advice and professional attitude are duly noted and much appreciated. Thanks for sharing this highly relevant, practical insight (I had to learn each and every one of these concepts before things really started coming together). 😎
Enjoyed that - came across your channel by accident, but very entertaining. We don't really do the "tip jar" thing in the UK,unless you're busking, but I know you're aiming at the U.S audience. I've been a pro singer/guitarist all my life (never got anywhere mind you😂) and my golden rule is - LEARN THE SONG! Has anyone ever seen a great live performance from someone looking at a phone or tablet?
Thanks for the comment and yes I’m totally aware of the fact that diff cultures have different norms when it comes to tipping. And to your point about “never getting anywhere” well you can say the same for me and for 99% of us “pros” without the credentials of what used to be considered success in this game. I really appreciate your taking time to comment and welcome to my channel.
Always appreciate your advice, Frank! I will live by these acoustic commandments. Your movie clips crack me up. Ha I’m progressing pretty rapidly with your tips and suggestions. I am building a set list so I can go out and play in a few months. I live in an RV and travel around. I will definitely come out and support you. When I make up the east coast. Thanks for helping me build that confidence and the great tips. Take care man! 🤜🏻🤛🏽
Don't swear. Don't put down any musical style, or song. Don't let them hear you tune { too much or too loud]. Don't forget to carry extra strings, batteries, cord.picks, pen paper, Don't finish your sets early.
Some one asks you if they can " check out your guitar dude " be nice but say no firmly, I let a fellow play mine and he lost his grip, dropped it on the monitor ...cracked the side...he slyly left before he was going write check...my 100 $ gig cost me 175 $ repair 1990(?)...just say no 6:58
I like most of what you’re saying but I’ve gotta disagree on the tuning one. As a spectator there’s nothing worse than someone not taking the time to get it right and saying it’s close enough. I don’t care if you’re Clapton. If you’re out of tune, you suck.
@@spiffokeenuse a true bypass tuner, this way its quick and QUIET. He didnt say dont tunr, he said dont let them see you do it too much or too loud. This is good advice. A guitar that stays in tune is the best investment. But you are right- def dont be out of tune.
I'm 67. Been playing since I was a teenager. I still love it and play out at least a couple times a month. Great rules. Especially liked the volume one. I get complimented on that all the time. The crowd needs to be able to hear you but they should be able to comfortably converse at their table and the waitress should be able to hear them call for a drink. I don't drink before starting but I drink beer during the whole performance. Three hour gig I have at the most four. I have about 8 hours of songs and play a 3 hour gig so I'm always mixing it up. Don't just shake it up, ask for requests. If you can do it, do, if you can't compliment the song and give your regrets and try to do something in a similar vein. I learned a couples' requests last month and they were very appreciative. They were songs I like OK, didn't think they would come across that well solo but did them anyway. She wanted to hear Brandy and he wanted Drift Away. They came out decent and like I said were well received. I don't talk much but I try to make eye contact, smile, nod at raised glasses, tell the crowd that people who sing along or dance are cool. I usually start five to ten minutes early and will play late if the crowd is into it. Not too much later, tho, one or two songs.
Fantastic Advice as Always Frank! Just to add to your advice on not having a tip jar for Private Events. I agree 1,000% and what I have found is that if people want to tip you at those Events, they find a way :)
Thanks so much. Yes that has been my experience as well. It’s insulting to the host I feel to solicit tips from their friends and family when you are actually getting paid to play
Some things I would add: 1. If it’s an important gig at which you want to do well and maybe play some new songs, then arrange for one or two „warm-up“ or „test“ gigs a few days before it. That way ypu can see how the new songs worked for you and the audience, build up the confidence in performing them and eliminate the anxietyof performing something new for the first time. 2. Have spare batteries, cables, strings.... 3. Learn all the lyrics by heart eventually so you can be more in the song itself rather than having to concentrate on reading. 4. Take time to chat with your hopefully satisfied audience after the gig. 5. Be very nice and helpful to the personnel of the establishment. You’re in a business partnership and interaction in that moment. Make your interaction a pleasant experience. 6. Don’t count your tips or your pay in front of the audience. Pack it up last,because some people come and tip you even after you‘re done while you’re packing up but count the money at home!!
Great list. After 20+ years, I no longer take a set list. I play requests. Might as well play what they want to hear. Never say anything about tips. No drinking! And arrive 1hr before to set up and be ready.
agree with all of this...and yes- don't "ask" people to put tips in your jar- no-one likes to be forced to "give"...the tip i struggle with the most is not getting upset regarding the reactions i'm "not" getting from people...the truth of the matter is that you're dealing with a very different group of people everywhere you play, so, you never know what that will be like from venue to venue...
I am not a professional musician but I enjoy your advice. Thank you very much Chief. That 10 commandment is excellent and you covered all the important aspects. Cheers feom Indonesia.
I find doing live music i usually fill exhausted after nervous exhausted energy drink helps its always good to take a friend with you if you can for helping get the sound test plus giving you some feedback love the video it really helps
Being too quiet has been bad for me as well. I hosted an open mic night.. and from the audience I could tell it needed to be turned up. From the stage it always felt too loud. Thanks for the video My go-to phrase when i gig has been "its not about what goes wrong... its about how I respond to it" - helps quell some anxiety - because things will go wrong
Frank, wisdom gained over time has made you the Moses of solo gigging LOL. This advice goes to the heart of doing the job right ie. being professional. I know I will be keeping it in mind while moving forward with my budding career. In case I lose track of any specific rule, my one overriding guide will be: be gracious.
Loving your content. Add “Thou shalt not use vocal chorus pedal”…..I’m sure there are some that have mastered the use if this little toy but I haven’t come across any of them yet. At best it sounded cheesy and I’ve heard some that (especially if they’re not great staying on pitch anyway) go off the rails pitch wise. While I haven’t tested the waters yet on looping, I agree with “thou shalt not loop too much”. One of our local artists is an extremely talented musician and plays 5 or 6 instruments. While it’s very cool, waiting for him to loop in each instrument before actually getting to the song gets old quickly.
I've been gigging professionally as a solo acoustic artist since 2019 and I couldn't agree with you more on all of these. I've seen too many of my fellow musicians showing up late, begging for tips, playing too loud, or being pissy when they don't get a reaction from the crowd. I love all of these "commandments" (even though I'm occasionally guilty of #5). This should be required viewing for all solo acoustic musicians !!
Thanks for the comment. Nice to see when an other pro is on the same page. Number 5… hahaha me too. Thats a tough one to completely break but the heck with it we deserve it! Lol
Glad I do all of these! I don't eat at a gig- with setting up, sound check, and playing, who has time for that? Also, drinking- if you are playing, it's sort of hard to drink too? If you are getting tipsy at a gig there may be a bigger issue there. Also add 11- Don't be "silent" during breaks- have a playlist of tunes so that vibe continues while you are not playing and 12- don't take long breaks (saw others stating that as well)- Support local live music!
I was recently at my music-friendly neighborhood bar where a guy set up in the corner during a sports semi-final of the local team. The owner, the night before, admitted the conflict he'd inadvertently set up and he was a bit nervous about it. It worked out. The dude played with the TV sound off for the first half, and waited until the game was over to play again. But you could still feel some tension in the room! As an occasional promoter, I've made the mistake of not checking out what's going on in the outside world... including, and especially, weather!
Good video/tips! I've been doing gigs for more years than I care to remember and totally agree with your guidance!! Here are a few of mine... Always keep one bit of knowledge in the back of your mind when playing gigs at bars/restaurants: the clientele is not there to see YOU! If you are drinking, you are the only person who's going to think you sound good. Totally agree with changing song order in sets and regularly adding new songs to sets. Heck, as was mentioned in the video, playing the same songs in the same order frequently would make ME crazy, not even thinking about the audience. In addition to constantly changing the order, I try to add a new song every couple of weeks. RECORD while practicing!!!!!! Sometimes you may find that a song you really like (whether a cover or an original) just doesn't work for you, even though you feel like you perform it well. You may think, "I sound great" after practicing a song and playback reveals...uh... not so much. Often it can alert you to change something in the performance - either vocally or on the instrument - to make it more interesting/effective. Recording/listening to yourself is, IMO, vital to ensure you actually sound as good as you think you do! ;) Have enough songs to play the gig, (however many sets that requires) without repeating songs. The only exception to the rule is if you get a request to play a song you already played. In that case, words to the effect of: "I just had a request for [name of song] that I played earlier. It's a great song [whether you think it is or not] by [whoever]." Somewhat related, if you get a request for a song you don't have in your sets, no matter how much you may dislike the song, ALWAYS say something complimentary and, if you have a song in your repertoire by the same artist perform it. NEVER criticize a requested song/artist. Always be prepared to sing Happy Birthday!
Excellent tip. It’s obvious that you have tons of experience. And sooo true with the happy birthday!! One of my pet peeves is when they come up to you while you are in the middle of singing something and ask you to sing happy birthday. I always tell them to give me a heads up so that I’m not just stopping everything abruptly. lol
Most of the banter stuff I hear musicians doing between songs I just don't want to hear it, but I have seen some people who had particularly entertaining or funny stories. So that one varies for me.
Yeah I get it. Some people do have a knack for it. Few and far between from what I’ve experienced .. some nights I’m more chatty… one night I heard a lady say “alright already” lol. Broke my own rule
Great advice! Cannot emphasize #1 enough, especially in bars and restaurants. Playing so loudly that guests have to shout at each other is a real downer. Dial the ego down and realize that people might want to talk to their dates!
I think if you are nervous I say just go for it I think if you got the right mindset you sound better sing and play better love the videos thanks frank
Number 7: I learned a long time ago when I was drumming in a cover band that drinking and playing was not a good combination. I'll sip on my complimentary beer while I'm playing, but even after a two hour set I'll still have a quarter of my beer left. I just drink enough to keep my whistle wet.
I was at a private event last evening and the performer was exceptional , he did follow most of your rules. one of the things I noticed is that he was sorely lacking in self promotion, I would love to hire him for an event we have coming up but there was nothing with his name , contact info , during his break he left the area with the person hosting the event so I didn't have time to ask him before we left , so maybe you can do a talk on how you recommend to self promote. ....
My biggest pet peeve is constant chatter about the Cds available, last album, next album, latest album, new album, did i mention the album available? Cheers!
I agree with all of these, plus the ones posted in the comments. I would add: tidy yourself up. Wear smart clothes that show you respect your audience and the people who've booked you. Learn the words and chords. It's ok glancing at a crib sheet now and again, but reading all the lyrics either from paper or (worse) a tablet while you're singing, sucks any believability out of your performance.
The first one is funny to me, for this reason. Years ago I was in a band but the other guitarist and I also did acoustic guitar duo shows. One night we were booked in a bar on the near north side of Chicago, a trendy place for the times. There was a stage but no PA (we were told by the club manager we didn't need to bring one so we assumed that they had one there). Anyway, we started to play to a somewhat rowdy crowd, were three or four songs into our first set, and the manager on duty that night walked up to the stage and told us to turn down. I don't know how much quieter we could have become but we soldiered through somehow.
I would add: Dress Appropriately. They see you before they hear you. T Shirt and jeans may be right for a private backyard party, Suit and tie for a fancy restaurant. Also: Have Fun! The audience is there to have a good time, not to be impressed with your virtuosity. If they see you smiling and putting out happy vibes (even if you're not happy) they are more likely to loosen up and enjoy the music.
Great list. Double thumbs up on the drinking/partying. Ric Beato has a great story about how his lead singer put too many back before a gig and as a result the singer definitely put his foot in his mouth and it sort of spelled the end for that band. Booze and work never mix. At least that been my experience. Even when they provide it and you think it's going great as you said someone is noticing.
@@FrankPersico I've been sober for a few winks and nods so I am biased but it's the same story I hear over and over and over ie loose lips sink ships. Enjoy your channel. Thanks.
As a pro with thousands of gigs behind me, I agree with all of these. I will point out that you won't be able to gauge nor react to your audience, or assess the reception of your volume properly if your eyes never leave the tablet. Learn your songs, and do all of these things too.
@@FrankPersicoI understand using it on a request you really don't know all of the verses to, but every song, nope. Real live music is totally about the interaction. When asked advice about playing restaurant/bar gigs I would usually tell players they first needed to understand where they fit in the restaurant hierarchy. They are usually stunned at the fact that they fit in just below the dishwasher. I explain that the restaurant can go on without you tonight just fine, not the DW.
I agree that one should not play too loud. As for the rest? It depends on your act, the venue, the age group, the local culture, etc. Many years ago, I would sometimes tell people that when the young lady passes the tip jar they should even give that money they were saving to buy their grandmother a hanky for Christmas, etc. But then, some spontaneous dark comedy was always a part of my act.
These are incredible commandments! Any tips for trying to connect to your audience? Do you single one or two people out and try to get some interaction?
I think I’m going to do a video on this. I scan for who is enjoying it and try to feed them music I think they will like. Once you get a cluster of people going it tends to be contagious. That’s when it’s going your way lol. Not always the case
If it's a café or coffee shop, I go right up to each table or I stroll. I thank every group personally for being there. Guitar/harmonica instrumentals are good to use for this idea.
I don't usually take breaks, so I have to consider fatigue on my voice...I try not to overdo the loop soloing, so I have discovered that I can do longer intros or outros... and multiple short solo breaks in some songs, quote other songs instrumentally, and add a solo break in songs that didn't have them originally...ie: solo break after the second verse on CSN 'helplessly hoping' or Greg Kinn 'breakup song'
It was sorta half and half. I did take lessons to help me with my weaknesses. At some point I am gonna do more vocal tips for singing guitarists on the channel. Just trying to figure out how to approach the topic
The tip jar can be an important part of a gig these days, especially since the pandemic. When I started playing professionally-almost 60 years ago; yup, I’m a dinosaur-no one put out a tip jar. In my opinion, the pandemic gave bar/club/restaurant owners a built in excuse to PAY LESS. Even in the early 2000s I began to see more tip jars. And, honestly, once someone puts something in the jar, more do so. I think people are inherently generous.. They get it. Good vid, good advice. Same goes for bands. “The schmooze factor” is part of it, too. If people like you, you’re in like Flynn. 7,000+ gigs down the road, that’s how I see it.
Excellent advice, been doing a solo acoustic act since '99 and the only thing that I would add is: Try and look like you're having a good time - the tips are better when you smile. Great work, thanks.
I absolutely agree thanks for sharing
Yeah! It’s the only rule that allows me to derogate (a little) to the « don’t drink rule ».
These rules are spot on and have worked for me. Rule 11, don't take long breaks.
Yesss that is a great addition
Rule 12, practice.
@@coolramone If it's a slow gig, or people are just having a blast chatting it up, I "practice" songs I may need to brush up on the spot. That is, I'm less concerned about a possible mistake. Better this approach than the IPAD "'crutch". Audiences are kind, in general. Heck, I've stopped and started over a good song if I mess up too badly. Be Human!!!
@@douglesw I hear ya. I’ve restarted songs too. :) How long would you say to practice to prepare for a 3 hour gig? And what is a slow gig? A restaurant where no one is dancing?
@@coolramone Don't think of it as practice! It's called Playing Music, so PLAY. I play a bit everyday, some days more than others. I think a minimum of 50 songs for 3 hours with 5 minute breaks. My most difficult challenge is song choice. That said, you never know who's really listening and I'm often surprised and thrilled when I do an obscure song and somebody goes out of their way to give me props! I play daytime vineyard gigs and "slow" is when it's a small crowd. No dancing where I play
I agree wholeheartedly! This list basically outlines my rules as well. One of my favorite ways to gig is as an acoustic duet. When both guys can sing, harmonize, and play guitar well, that opens up tons of possibilities. Great video, Frank!
Thanks so much. I rarely gig as a duet but I should try. Finally add some harmonies to those Simon and Garfunkel tunes I play 😬
Yep, my best friend and I have played as a duet for years. It is more fun to me, and like you said, it opens up many more possibilities.
When playing an all request night, never ask anyone what their favorite song is. Ask them for their favorite band or artist and then you are not pinned down to one single song.
That is a great piece of advice.
yep...nothing worse than trying to attempt a song you've never played or sung before to appease someone (unless you're really good at that)...
As an audience member I also agree with all of these. We notice. I like when the musicians have a venmo code for tipping- more discreet, and I don't always have cash.
The venmo code is key lol
I'm a guitarist who plays solo with a singer (I guess that's a duet) and we're just starting out by performing at open mics and small local events. Your commandments are timely and on point, and the comments are excellent. Thank you.
My pleasure … best of luck to you
Amen brother! Been doing this for 60 years and agree with all of it... Once folks realize that you follow these commandments they will let you enter at the front door and walk near the liquor cabinets and dessert trays!
Hahaah that’s a good one lol
Great advice. Been a professional musician for 15 years now and a lot of it is because I follow your rules. Only thing I would add is : Thou shalt not stare at your tablet the whole gig.
Ahhhhh good one!! I have committed that one lol
That reminds me of an ESSENTIAL one. Know your stuff. Practise , practise, practise. Gigging bands do not have tablets or bits of paper to look at. I would reserve the tablet for requests. But if you can seriously engage an audience, then they wont have any requests.
My goodness Frank! With a career background as a professional speaker and trainer; these are spot on. My wife and I now play a weekly duo gig at our favorite hotel. Modeling your tips has helped increase our following! Thanks
Thanks for the comment. Nice to have some confirmation from someone out “in the field” so to speak … I’m sure being a pro speaker made ur comfort level much greater when it comes to performing … all the best to you
As someone who enjoys a good performance almost as much as giving one I'd have to say your first rule was the most important. When my wife and I or other family members or friends go out to a venue for an acoustic performance and we have to shout to have a conversation we generally leave..
and not to contradict talking too much between sets, but a great sense of humor sprinkled lightly between sets can be a real asset for the performance. Everyone loves a good laugh to steer clear of religion and politics.
I love it loud when going to a concert, but not so much for acoustic performances. And we're not shy about telling the venue, restaurant or otherwise why we're leaving.
not trying to be a jerk just being honest..
Anyway, love the channel and advice. Keep it up. ✌️
Thanks for your perspective. I totally agree with u. I can’t stand when I go out and the music is so loud I have to scream at the person next to me
This was all awesome I’m preparing for my first solo gig in February I’m all over the place but this helps a ton
Thank you so much, excellent advice. Love from Scotland.
Thanks so much. I appreciate the comment :)
Great tips. When I sit back and think of things from the audience/consumer perspective ...the answers are obvious.
Thanks. I will be making another vid with. Few more or these “commandments”
I would add a number 11 - always have a backup, cables, power, mics, strings et.
Good point but hard to preface with “though shalt not” lol
@@FrankPersico Thou shalt not forget to pack extra ...............
Lol... simple but effective. Start making videos! lol. thanks for the input i appreciate it. and you are right. very important especially having strings!!
Batteries if you use them, too! This applies to any performance.
Right on brother! I agree 100%. I hope every young singer-guitarist sees this video.
Thanks 🙏. All the best to you
I wholeheartedly agree with everything you listed and said! Awesome video
Glad you enjoyed!
In Australia, we only have a tip jar if we are busking😜🎼🤘🏻
One of these days I’m gonna go out in Central Park and busk. Never did it properly
Great information and I agree with about all of your advice. I will have a FEW drinks, but never overdo it. I am also a nut about being on time. Thanks Frank, glad I found your channel!
Thanks for commenting and welcome
Well done, Frank. You've obviously done your share of gigs. Also, when playing originals, make sure you disperse them among known popular covers so as to keep your audience comfortable.
Great idea. And I need to make it a point of adding more of my originals: I seemed to have stopped doing it lately and it’s not good.
I’ve found it works better if you don’t announce it’s original, or at least save mentioning it in passing- after the song. Feels less like a “Look at me” moment, which if you’re doing it right they already are lol. Just play and let the music/lyrics stand for themselves.
yes- if you challenge them with a song you wrote, follow it up with something really familiar (give the crowd a bone)...
Dang, I'm 10 for 10 - it's a miracle, lol. This is ALL great & solid advice right here, well done!
hahaah. keep it up and thanks for the support
Thank you for this.
I'm very early in my journey, but I'm doing lots of research, ahead of time.
Plenty of these things, I was already familiar with. However, you brought light to many MORE things, that I wasn't aware of, or hadn't even thought about, at all.
Thank you again, for sharing your insight, from your own experiences.
I'm glad you found it helpful! Keep at it 👍
@@FrankPersico thank you, dude!
Don't worry, there's no stopping this train from rollin' 🤘
OK I’m stopping early in your commandments, as you won me over with number one first and foremost., and I’m giving you the thumbs up. Outside of solo gigging, I recently joined in with a band where too much volume is a real problem. I’ve never heard of or had any one leave a performance, because people complain the volume was too low. All the time I see people walking out of gigs, myself included, because it is so loud. It is damaging my hearing, and I can’t even talk to someone sitting a foot away.
Thanks for the comment. The volume things is a real issue. I can’t stand playing with other players who are in the volume war
Volume is a weird macho thing. Bands play WAY too loud and no one can hear anyone else speak, and it's literally painful. But everyone in the audience pretends it's cool because only a clueless nerd would complain that 'waah, it's too loud and it hurts my ears.' But it does... I have learned to wear db-limiting earplugs to concerts, just as I do when I go shooting at the range. The music sounds fine.
Great video and terrific responses! I respectfully add the following; If I have something coming up like a songwriter event where I will be front and center to a sit-down crowd. or a recording session where spot on is the aim, I do this:
For at least a couple of weeks, every day, I rehearse at the exact same time as my upcoming obligation, blessing, gift, privilege, opportunity, and gig. (That's what it is to me, all of those things.) When I put the work in this perspective and nail down times places and song sequences, gig time comes, and I am used to digging in with confidence, just in a different place.
I hope this is helpful to some folks out there. It also helps to alleviate stage fright.
Thank you for this video. Great work!
@@gdub999tub.DJ s are also too loud.Most weddings I ve been to lately I spend the reception outside.Really dont feel like going deaf or getting tinnitus for the sake of pretending how great it is.
Your well-placed advice and professional attitude are duly noted and much appreciated. Thanks for sharing this highly relevant, practical insight (I had to learn each and every one of these concepts before things really started coming together). 😎
Glad it was helpful! All the best to you and thanks for commenting
Enjoyed that - came across your channel by accident, but very entertaining. We don't really do the "tip jar" thing in the UK,unless you're busking, but I know you're aiming at the U.S audience. I've been a pro singer/guitarist all my life (never got anywhere mind you😂) and my golden rule is - LEARN THE SONG! Has anyone ever seen a great live performance from someone looking at a phone or tablet?
Thanks for the comment and yes I’m totally aware of the fact that diff cultures have different norms when it comes to tipping. And to your point about “never getting anywhere” well you can say the same for me and for 99% of us “pros” without the credentials of what used to be considered success in this game. I really appreciate your taking time to comment and welcome to my channel.
Been binging "Callums corner" videos and when this popped up in reccomemded thought "wow callums a man of many talents" 🤣🤣
Always appreciate your advice, Frank! I will live by these acoustic commandments. Your movie clips crack me up. Ha I’m progressing pretty rapidly with your tips and suggestions. I am building a set list so I can go out and play in a few months. I live in an RV and travel around. I will definitely come out and support you. When I make up the east coast. Thanks for helping me build that confidence and the great tips. Take care man! 🤜🏻🤛🏽
That’s great to hear. I appreciate you letting me know!!
Remember to smile some times when you’re nervous definitely don’t drink alcohol try and enjoy yourself good advice love the video
Thanks so much . Glad you can relate to it
Don't swear. Don't put down any musical style, or song. Don't let them hear you tune { too much or too loud]. Don't forget to carry extra strings, batteries, cord.picks, pen paper, Don't finish your sets early.
Fantastic tips! Thanks for sharing
Some one asks you if they can " check out your guitar dude " be nice but say no firmly, I let a fellow play mine and he lost his grip, dropped it on the monitor ...cracked the side...he slyly left before he was going write check...my 100 $ gig cost me 175 $ repair 1990(?)...just say no 6:58
I will always put down country music, it is pure 💩and I can’t stand the twang.
I like most of what you’re saying but I’ve gotta disagree on the tuning one. As a spectator there’s nothing worse than someone not taking the time to get it right and saying it’s close enough. I don’t care if you’re Clapton. If you’re out of tune, you suck.
@@spiffokeenuse a true bypass tuner, this way its quick and QUIET. He didnt say dont tunr, he said dont let them see you do it too much or too loud. This is good advice. A guitar that stays in tune is the best investment. But you are right- def dont be out of tune.
Totally concur on all points! ☝️😉 I‘ve seen all those mistakes made.....
I'm 67. Been playing since I was a teenager. I still love it and play out at least a couple times a month. Great rules. Especially liked the volume one. I get complimented on that all the time. The crowd needs to be able to hear you but they should be able to comfortably converse at their table and the waitress should be able to hear them call for a drink. I don't drink before starting but I drink beer during the whole performance. Three hour gig I have at the most four. I have about 8 hours of songs and play a 3 hour gig so I'm always mixing it up. Don't just shake it up, ask for requests. If you can do it, do, if you can't compliment the song and give your regrets and try to do something in a similar vein. I learned a couples' requests last month and they were very appreciative. They were songs I like OK, didn't think they would come across that well solo but did them anyway. She wanted to hear Brandy and he wanted Drift Away. They came out decent and like I said were well received. I don't talk much but I try to make eye contact, smile, nod at raised glasses, tell the crowd that people who sing along or dance are cool. I usually start five to ten minutes early and will play late if the crowd is into it. Not too much later, tho, one or two songs.
Thanks for dropping all this wisdom on us! I for one appreciate it and I’m sure everyone else does as well.
Fantastic Advice as Always Frank! Just to add to your advice on not having a tip jar for Private Events. I agree 1,000% and what I have found is that if people want to tip you at those Events, they find a way :)
Thanks so much. Yes that has been my experience as well. It’s insulting to the host I feel to solicit tips from their friends and family when you are actually getting paid to play
Nice. Keep it classy.
Some things I would add:
1. If it’s an important gig at which you want to do well and maybe play some new songs, then arrange for one or two „warm-up“ or „test“ gigs a few days before it. That way ypu can see how the new songs worked for you and the audience, build up the confidence in performing them and eliminate the anxietyof performing something new for the first time.
2. Have spare batteries, cables, strings....
3. Learn all the lyrics by heart eventually so you can be more in the song itself rather than having to concentrate on reading.
4. Take time to chat with your hopefully satisfied audience after the gig.
5. Be very nice and helpful to the personnel of the establishment. You’re in a business partnership and interaction in that moment. Make your interaction a pleasant experience.
6. Don’t count your tips or your pay in front of the audience. Pack it up last,because some people come and tip you even after you‘re done while you’re packing up but count the money at home!!
These are some gold nuggets u are dropping on us! Thanks so much. I think we may need to add a few more commandments
#6. Good add. Kenny said it best, “Never count your money while you’re sitting at the gig”. . . or table lol
@@noproblemguitar7395 I was coming to comment that 😂
Great list. After 20+ years, I no longer take a set list. I play requests. Might as well play what they want to hear. Never say anything about tips. No drinking! And arrive 1hr before to set up and be ready.
Sounds good. What area are you giving in?
@@FrankPersico Southeast Idaho
agree with all of this...and yes- don't "ask" people to put tips in your jar- no-one likes to be forced to "give"...the tip i struggle with the most is not getting upset regarding the reactions i'm "not" getting from people...the truth of the matter is that you're dealing with a very different group of people everywhere you play, so, you never know what that will be like from venue to venue...
So true. I can tell you’ve been out there in the field ;)
12:18 In my recording class, we were taught early is on time. On time is late. Late is fired
Exactly. I got my Intro to this at HS for Performing Arts here in NYC. You could miss math but you better not miss rehearsal lol
I am not a professional musician but I enjoy your advice. Thank you very much Chief. That 10 commandment is excellent and you covered all the important aspects. Cheers feom Indonesia.
Thanks so much. Best to u
I find doing live music i usually fill exhausted after nervous exhausted energy drink helps its always good to take a friend with you if you can for helping get the sound test plus giving you some feedback love the video it really helps
That’s true it’s also nice to know at least you have ONE fan in the room !!
Excellent video. I’m in my 26th year of acoustic performances.
Ahhh a veteran!
Being too quiet has been bad for me as well. I hosted an open mic night.. and from the audience I could tell it needed to be turned up. From the stage it always felt too loud. Thanks for the video
My go-to phrase when i gig has been "its not about what goes wrong... its about how I respond to it" - helps quell some anxiety - because things will go wrong
Good stuff thanks for sharing. Love that quote!
A close friend runs a band, they're always so loud no one can talk. I assumed they feel the purpose is dancing and watching them play. 🤷
I couldn't agree with you more. Well done my musical brother. Happy gigging.
Thanks so much. I appreciate the kind words
Played my whole life and learned all of this the hard way...but you're so right.
Thanks for commenting
Frank, wisdom gained over time has made you the Moses of solo gigging LOL. This advice goes to the heart of doing the job right ie. being professional. I know I will be keeping it in mind while moving forward with my budding career. In case I lose track of any specific rule, my one overriding guide will be: be gracious.
LOL moses...be gracious. thats a great tip in and of itself and so true.
Loving your content.
Add “Thou shalt not use vocal chorus pedal”…..I’m sure there are some that have mastered the use if this little toy but I haven’t come across any of them yet. At best it sounded cheesy and I’ve heard some that (especially if they’re not great staying on pitch anyway) go off the rails pitch wise.
While I haven’t tested the waters yet on looping, I agree with “thou shalt not loop too much”. One of our local artists is an extremely talented musician and plays 5 or 6 instruments. While it’s very cool, waiting for him to loop in each instrument before actually getting to the song gets old quickly.
I hear ya. I also am not fond of heavy effects on the acoustic guitar. I feel like many players hide behind it
I've been gigging professionally as a solo acoustic artist since 2019 and I couldn't agree with you more on all of these. I've seen too many of my fellow musicians showing up late, begging for tips, playing too loud, or being pissy when they don't get a reaction from the crowd. I love all of these "commandments" (even though I'm occasionally guilty of #5). This should be required viewing for all solo acoustic musicians !!
Thanks for the comment. Nice to see when an other pro is on the same page. Number 5… hahaha me too. Thats a tough one to completely break but the heck with it we deserve it! Lol
You’re very welcome! Glad to help! 😘👍
Glad I do all of these! I don't eat at a gig- with setting up, sound check, and playing, who has time for that? Also, drinking- if you are playing, it's sort of hard to drink too? If you are getting tipsy at a gig there may be a bigger issue there. Also add 11- Don't be "silent" during breaks- have a playlist of tunes so that vibe continues while you are not playing and 12- don't take long breaks (saw others stating that as well)- Support local live music!
Great input. Yeah the don’t take long breaks should have been in there!!! Pretty soon we are gonna be up to 20 commandments! lol
I was recently at my music-friendly neighborhood bar where a guy set up in the corner during a sports semi-final of the local team. The owner, the night before, admitted the conflict he'd inadvertently set up and he was a bit nervous about it. It worked out. The dude played with the TV sound off for the first half, and waited until the game was over to play again. But you could still feel some tension in the room! As an occasional promoter, I've made the mistake of not checking out what's going on in the outside world... including, and especially, weather!
Oh yeah. Especially post season sports like playoffs lol. Music comes 2nd :(
Good video/tips! I've been doing gigs for more years than I care to remember and totally agree with your guidance!! Here are a few of mine...
Always keep one bit of knowledge in the back of your mind when playing gigs at bars/restaurants: the clientele is not there to see YOU!
If you are drinking, you are the only person who's going to think you sound good.
Totally agree with changing song order in sets and regularly adding new songs to sets. Heck, as was mentioned in the video, playing the same songs in the same order frequently would make ME crazy, not even thinking about the audience. In addition to constantly changing the order, I try to add a new song every couple of weeks.
RECORD while practicing!!!!!! Sometimes you may find that a song you really like (whether a cover or an original) just doesn't work for you, even though you feel like you perform it well. You may think, "I sound great" after practicing a song and playback reveals...uh... not so much. Often it can alert you to change something in the performance - either vocally or on the instrument - to make it more interesting/effective. Recording/listening to yourself is, IMO, vital to ensure you actually sound as good as you think you do! ;)
Have enough songs to play the gig, (however many sets that requires) without repeating songs. The only exception to the rule is if you get a request to play a song you already played. In that case, words to the effect of: "I just had a request for [name of song] that I played earlier. It's a great song [whether you think it is or not] by [whoever]."
Somewhat related, if you get a request for a song you don't have in your sets, no matter how much you may dislike the song, ALWAYS say something complimentary and, if you have a song in your repertoire by the same artist perform it. NEVER criticize a requested song/artist.
Always be prepared to sing Happy Birthday!
Excellent tip. It’s obvious that you have tons of experience. And sooo true with the happy birthday!! One of my pet peeves is when they come up to you while you are in the middle of singing something and ask you to sing happy birthday. I always tell them to give me a heads up so that I’m not just stopping everything abruptly. lol
Well done Frank! Keep up the great work!!
Thanks so much
Good suggestions for sure. Thanks for doing this video
Thanks for watching!
Most of the banter stuff I hear musicians doing between songs I just don't want to hear it, but I have seen some people who had particularly entertaining or funny stories. So that one varies for me.
Yeah I get it. Some people do have a knack for it. Few and far between from what I’ve experienced .. some nights I’m more chatty… one night I heard a lady say “alright already” lol. Broke my own rule
Todd Snider....his stories are almost as good as his music.
Thank you for sharing your knowledge brother.
My pleasure
Great advice! Cannot emphasize #1 enough, especially in bars and restaurants. Playing so loudly that guests have to shout at each other is a real downer. Dial the ego down and realize that people might want to talk to their dates!
Absolutely. Really can be a deal breaker for sure.
Great insight Frank. You are a true seasoned performer. Thank you
Thank you so much. I hope you got something you can use from it.
terrific tips, thanks, also applyable for busking
Thanks. Glad you found it useful. I appreciate the comment
Thanks for sharing your wisdom.
It’s my absolute pleasure. Wish you the best
Thanks for the content and info. Do you have recommendations on gear? A "don't leave home without it" list perhaps.
I will try to make a video about this soon!
I think if you are nervous I say just go for it I think if you got the right mindset you sound better sing and play better love the videos thanks frank
my pleaure!
Number 7: I learned a long time ago when I was drumming in a cover band that drinking and playing was not a good combination. I'll sip on my complimentary beer while I'm playing, but even after a two hour set I'll still have a quarter of my beer left. I just drink enough to keep my whistle wet.
Good judgement indeed :)
I was at a private event last evening and the performer was exceptional , he did follow most of your rules. one of the things I noticed is that he was sorely lacking in self promotion, I would love to hire him for an event we have coming up but there was nothing with his name , contact info , during his break he left the area with the person hosting the event so I didn't have time to ask him before we left , so maybe you can do a talk on how you recommend to self promote. ....
That’s a good point. Just last night when I set up at my gig I realized I had forgotten to put business cards into my case! I was kicking myself!
You are the Bas Rutten of gigs. Great work!
Hahahah thanks
All these rules work for bands too!! Great advise
Yes it does! Thanks for the comment
Great tips, every one 👌
Lovin the feedback from everyone as well
Lovely video my friend. Keep inspiring.
Thank you. I appreciate the kind words
Also, put a small sticker with a smily face on the top edge of your guitar facing you, to remind you to smile. Works great.
That's a great idea!
Best advice I ever got was "Have a good time and look like it!"
@@douglesw thats a great one!
Your etiquette is incredible. Nothing more to say;)
Wow, thank you!
My biggest pet peeve is constant chatter about the Cds available, last album, next album, latest album, new album, did i mention the album available? Cheers!
Yeah the over selling is not a good look.
Excellent advice . Thanks 👍
My pleasure!
Great advice.
Thanks! 🙏
I took your advice and subscribed😊
Welcome aboard!
I agree with all of these, plus the ones posted in the comments. I would add: tidy yourself up. Wear smart clothes that show you respect your audience and the people who've booked you. Learn the words and chords. It's ok glancing at a crib sheet now and again, but reading all the lyrics either from paper or (worse) a tablet while you're singing, sucks any believability out of your performance.
Great input. Thanks so much
The first one is funny to me, for this reason. Years ago I was in a band but the other guitarist and I also did acoustic guitar duo shows. One night we were booked in a bar on the near north side of Chicago, a trendy place for the times. There was a stage but no PA (we were told by the club manager we didn't need to bring one so we assumed that they had one there). Anyway, we started to play to a somewhat rowdy crowd, were three or four songs into our first set, and the manager on duty that night walked up to the stage and told us to turn down. I don't know how much quieter we could have become but we soldiered through somehow.
That’s a tough one. Sometimes I have had venue owners make me play so low I wonder why they even bother having live music
On parking, check with the venue - they may have a loading bay you can use, at least to get your gear out, if the nearest parking lot is a way off.
Good call. Thanks for sharing
I would add: Dress Appropriately. They see you before they hear you. T Shirt and jeans may be right for a private backyard party, Suit and tie for a fancy restaurant. Also: Have Fun! The audience is there to have a good time, not to be impressed with your virtuosity. If they see you smiling and putting out happy vibes (even if you're not happy) they are more likely to loosen up and enjoy the music.
Couldn’t agree more. Thanks for sharing
Great Advice!
Thank you. Stay tuned for an updated version of this video coming this Friday
Great list. Double thumbs up on the drinking/partying. Ric Beato has a great story about how his lead singer put too many back before a gig and as a result the singer definitely put his foot in his mouth and it sort of spelled the end for that band. Booze and work never mix. At least that been my experience. Even when they provide it and you think it's going great as you said someone is noticing.
I vaguely remember that episode where Rick talked about this..
@@FrankPersico I've been sober for a few winks and nods so I am biased but it's the same story I hear over and over and over ie loose lips sink ships. Enjoy your channel. Thanks.
Well done, Sir!
Thank you 🙏
Good advice
Thanks so much. Welcome
As a pro with thousands of gigs behind me, I agree with all of these. I will point out that you won't be able to gauge nor react to your audience, or assess the reception of your volume properly if your eyes never leave the tablet. Learn your songs, and do all of these things too.
Yes the tablet was definitely one that could have made it in. Maybe we will have to add some amendments.
@@FrankPersicoI understand using it on a request you really don't know all of the verses to, but every song, nope. Real live music is totally about the interaction. When asked advice about playing restaurant/bar gigs I would usually tell players they first needed to understand where they fit in the restaurant hierarchy. They are usually stunned at the fact that they fit in just below the dishwasher. I explain that the restaurant can go on without you tonight just fine, not the DW.
I agree that one should not play too loud. As for the rest? It depends on your act, the venue, the age group, the local culture, etc. Many years ago, I would sometimes tell people that when the young lady passes the tip jar they should even give that money they were saving to buy their grandmother a hanky for Christmas, etc. But then, some spontaneous dark comedy was always a part of my act.
Hahaha I like the dark comedy bit. I always tend to say the wrong thing though smh :)
Great advice!!!
Thanks … have a great day
Great advice, well done!
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you big brother!
You are welcome ..🙏
Fantastic Advice, much appreciated!!
Glad you enjoyed it!
These are incredible commandments! Any tips for trying to connect to your audience? Do you single one or two people out and try to get some interaction?
I think I’m going to do a video on this. I scan for who is enjoying it and try to feed them music I think they will like. Once you get a cluster of people going it tends to be contagious. That’s when it’s going your way lol. Not always the case
If it's a café or coffee shop, I go right up to each table or I stroll. I thank every group personally for being there. Guitar/harmonica instrumentals are good to use for this idea.
brilliant
Thank u
Good tips - thanks.
My pleasure
I don't usually take breaks, so I have to consider fatigue on my voice...I try not to overdo the loop soloing, so I have discovered that I can do longer intros or outros... and multiple short solo breaks in some songs, quote other songs instrumentally, and add a solo break in songs that didn't have them originally...ie: solo break after the second verse on CSN 'helplessly hoping' or Greg Kinn 'breakup song'
Great tips. Thank you for commenting. I do have a bad habit of not taking breaks and pushing my voice
Good stuff!
Where’d you learn to sing or does it just come naturally?
It was sorta half and half. I did take lessons to help me with my weaknesses. At some point I am gonna do more vocal tips for singing guitarists on the channel. Just trying to figure out how to approach the topic
Michael Hedges used to talk for about 20 minutes between songs :)
Alas if I did that people would start to file out after 3 - to many "um"s and "er"s
Oh wow I didn’t know that. So I guess it’s not just me lol
Very great info! Thanks Man !
My Pleasure. Thanks for the comment
The tip jar can be an important part of a gig these days, especially since the pandemic. When I started playing professionally-almost 60 years ago; yup, I’m a dinosaur-no one put out a tip jar. In my opinion, the pandemic gave bar/club/restaurant owners a built in excuse to PAY LESS. Even in the early 2000s I began to see more tip jars. And, honestly, once someone puts something in the jar, more do so. I think people are inherently generous.. They get it. Good vid, good advice. Same goes for
bands. “The schmooze factor” is part of it, too. If people like you, you’re in like Flynn. 7,000+ gigs down the road, that’s how I see it.
Thanks for taking the time to comment and give your perspective. Good stuff man. All the best to you. Man 60 yrs of playing!! God bless
good stuff
Thank you
Amen, spot on.......Rule 11 don't play 2 minor key or major 7 key songs in a row and don't play all the same key songs in a row.
Good stuff
Spot on!!
Thank u
Another great video!
Thank you very kindly.
good tips
Glad you think so!🙌
1) Stay home if you need to read lyrics or music while playing a solo guitar gig. Instantly kills any chance of magic.
Thanks for the input.
Thank you!
My pleasure
spot on
Thanks so much