I have a 23 year old son who is autistic and I Love him to the moon and back. He will not be able to hold a job. He has never had a friend. Never got invited to parties. I worry about when I no longer here because he needs help with him through out his day. He is the most happiest kindest person and loving that I have ever known.
No....pls dont be embarrassed of your kids. Who cares if ppl dont want to reach out. I know it can be tough, very very tough but have faith. Ppl have all sorts of issues of their own, even in so called nomal families like ours. Sending lots of love m healing your way.
I’m a foster mother and have 3 adults with disabilities that live with me. I’m single and have chosen this work which I absolutely love. My adult children and grandchildren are all welcoming to all of us. Food definitely affects behavior. As well as the environment. Since I am single and like quiet - our home is peaceful (most of the time)
CS, please try to be slow to judge. The parents are doing their best. I remember my son used to try climbing up the fridge almost all the time. It was dangerous. Physically, like the dad in the video I had to take him down tirelessly for only God knows how many times per day. Once he became too tired, he stopped. He has classic autism & intellectual disability & was non-verbal. He started verbalising quite suddenly from 7 & became intelligible from 10. When I asked him why, he told me that the 'noise' (a very soft sound [to my ears] emitted by the fridge) pained his brain so much! He had to climb up to stop the noise/pain. He is not safety-aware: physically forcing him down countless times was the only safe thing I could do. We had no idea that the buzz hurt his brain. Had I known I would have taken him to another room with me. Now that he can speak, he can sometimes tell us why he did things differently. He can still hear sounds acutely but now he has healthy & sociable obsessions that (1) lessen the impact of his hyperacusis emotionally & (2) bring him fulfilment. We also tried everything [we could afford] like the lady said in the video. Now I am sure we made many mistakes along the way. Yet, his classic autism & intellectual disability combined are such that he has no recollection of our past errors/parenting. Presently, he's full of joy & faith: he is a very here & now teenager. A real blessing as his family learn so much from being with him. Thank you so much, Attitude, for making many wonderful, mind-opening & encouraging videos. Keep up the good work! : )
wem uk Hi I just wanted to say that when you mentioned that he has no past recollection of your past errors, its because these special needs kids are very forgiving and loving. They just don't know how to hold grudges. My son has been diagnosed with developmental delay and disorder. However sometimes I will study him when I go into my own crazy mother trance, and pick out x y and z put him on the spectrum. He might not even be autistic but I just cant help thinking the worst sometimes. My son bless him is 6yrs old now. Only recently he has started telling me about his own feelings, where he is in pain and if he is hurting. This is a huge milestone for us. God bless you all for caring and loving these special children. May you keep on doing so. Stay blessed.
Big hug to your beautiful boy this video made me cry because my baby is 10 and still can’t talk or communicate but he his such a kind heart my forever baby we have a face book page called Isaacs autistic journey ❤️
In a recent survey it showed that females were a higher ratio than males , just better at masking it. Although realistically males are still possibly higher at the severe end. . Sadly many females are diagnosed with borderline or ADHD because so little is understood and the diagnosis is based on males. One difference but not in this program is the females are better at language skills and mimicing, similar visual geometric pattern thinking and the same sensory overload/dampening and some have less numerical presentation.
C Forest I believe that I think I am an aspie but was dx as bipolar 1 ADHD borderline personality disorder. I heard alot of females are misdiagnosed as these instead of being autistic
@Amanda D Yeah, I'm A Girl (My Picture Is Patrick Troughton BTW) And I Have Classic Autism (Level 2 Or Whatever You Call It). I Blended In Quite Well Except I Didn't Talk In Front Of The Class, I Had Been Asked A Few Times And I Just Responded "I Have Autism" Or "I'm Autistic" And They Just Moved On, No-One Really Cared, They Treated Me The Same And That Was Awesome.
Im cringing at home much information people still believe from things like this that just isnt true.... Like girls arnt a rare thing to autism, they just dont present the same so they dont get a diagnosis. If anything it shows one extreme end of autism, but as a spectrum disorder, there could be people you interact with regularly and never know they have autism. Personally id love to see a doc like this that shows people of all ages and all areas of that spectum presented together over this, because these docs dont really help people on the aspie portion who are curious on the disorder and want to know more and can sometimes cause doubt when you only see very severly physically dibilitating cases online
There are just as many girls with ASD as boys. They just go missed because we are able to mimic social cues better. Me and my daughter are both on the spectrum I wasn’t diagnosed till 30!
The "noise" he makes recalls exactly the "OM" chanting... Maybe it is time that the so-called "neuro-typical" people stop thinking "normal" and start thinking broadly
It is just so archaic to consider autism an illness or a deficiency, just because it doesn't fit any current understanding or does function in the highly dysfunctioning societies we've built.
Do you have a hobby something you like to do and if so what is it? I have autism too. Unfortunately I was never diagnosed and found out I had it until I was an adult. ✌️
For anyone suffering the best way if you dont know is to go and get help from the Sun Rise Program and the Option Institute, to fix anything that have to do with Sight and Sound over- sensitivity go to The Sound Learning Centre England, now for a complete allergic test so the person can be cure from the inside go to Celestine Clinic in England. This will end you nightmares😇
I agree I can't not stand to hear people wanting to help raise money to "CURE" Autism. I try to raise AWARENESS for autism, I was a mom who God forbid my child act up in public and people stare at you I don't like attention on myself and have whispers about my child. So when my last child my baby boy was having anger or melt downs I would feel so embarrassed and flushed putting myself almost into a self induced panic attack that I confined myself and child at home. We now walk for the awareness of Autism I made a shirt for I don't need your comments and stares I need patient and understanding.
Why wouldn't you want to find a cure? My son doesn't have autism, autism has him and they need to figure out what is causing this. Don't get me wrong I love my son to death with or without his autism but what parent doesn't want nothing but the best for their child. I know for a fact I gave birth to a normal healthy boy and I was robbed. After a couple of Dr visits and all of a sudden I'm being told my son has autism. Something needs to be done so more families are not affected by this. My son is not aggressive but have you seen the videos of children with severe autism that hurt themselves and their family members and it's not the child's fault cause they don't know but c'mon how can you not want to find a cure to help child that is constantly hurting themselves.
That is child abuse. The treatment of that little girl. She gets forced to pee? Wtf. She looked terrorized. And even tough the coercion isn’t working the parents keep tormenting that poor child.
ClassicSynthesizer. If the child is not potty trained at that age things will be worse if she never learns how to do it. Imagine having to leave her with a babysitter. Poor, loving, caring, misunderstood self-sacrificing parents. Pray for the families. 💝
It reminds me of ABA therapy. I am not a fan, and never have been. It feels very abusive to me, but because it's done to an autistic child nobody cares. SMH.
The father of that girl is my father in law, I know for a fact she wasn't getting angry in real time, they made her angry to throw a tantrum, whether it happens all the time, I don't know he lives in New Zealand and I live in australia
Redacted, You gotta get up and try and try and try! You gotta get up and try and try and try! Where there is desire there is gonna be a flame! And where there is flame, someone's bound to get burned! But just because it burns doesn't mean your gonna die! You gotta get up and try and try and try! You gotta get up and try and try and try!
@@brucewayne3074 *Corus:* We all go through struggles, Like we don't shuggle, And shuffle (shuffle shuffle shuffle...) Just try, And maybe you won't die!
I have a 23 year old son who is autistic and I Love him to the moon and back. He will not be able to hold a job. He has never had a friend. Never got invited to parties. I worry about when I no longer here because he needs help with him through out his day. He is the most happiest kindest person and loving that I have ever known.
No....pls dont be embarrassed of your kids. Who cares if ppl dont want to reach out. I know it can be tough, very very tough but have faith. Ppl have all sorts of issues of their own, even in so called nomal families like ours. Sending lots of love m healing your way.
I’m a foster mother and have 3 adults with disabilities that live with me. I’m single and have chosen this work which I absolutely love. My adult children and grandchildren are all welcoming to all of us.
Food definitely affects behavior. As well as the environment. Since I am single and like quiet - our home is peaceful (most of the time)
CS, please try to be slow to judge. The parents are doing their best. I remember my son used to try climbing up the fridge almost all the time. It was dangerous. Physically, like the dad in the video I had to take him down tirelessly for only God knows how many times per day. Once he became too tired, he stopped. He has classic autism & intellectual disability & was non-verbal. He started verbalising quite suddenly from 7 & became intelligible from 10. When I asked him why, he told me that the 'noise' (a very soft sound [to my ears] emitted by the fridge) pained his brain so much! He had to climb up to stop the noise/pain. He is not safety-aware: physically forcing him down countless times was the only safe thing I could do. We had no idea that the buzz hurt his brain. Had I known I would have taken him to another room with me. Now that he can speak, he can sometimes tell us why he did things differently. He can still hear sounds acutely but now he has healthy & sociable obsessions that (1) lessen the impact of his hyperacusis emotionally & (2) bring him fulfilment. We also tried everything [we could afford] like the lady said in the video. Now I am sure we made many mistakes along the way. Yet, his classic autism & intellectual disability combined are such that he has no recollection of our past errors/parenting. Presently, he's full of joy & faith: he is a very here & now teenager. A real blessing as his family learn so much from being with him. Thank you so much, Attitude, for making many wonderful, mind-opening & encouraging videos. Keep up the good work! : )
wem uk
Hi I just wanted to say that when you mentioned that he has no past recollection of your past errors, its because these special needs kids are very forgiving and loving.
They just don't know how to hold grudges. My son has been diagnosed with developmental delay and disorder. However sometimes I will study him when I go into my own crazy mother trance, and pick out x y and z put him on the spectrum. He might not even be autistic but I just cant help thinking the worst sometimes.
My son bless him is 6yrs old now. Only recently he has started telling me about his own feelings, where he is in pain and if he is hurting. This is a huge milestone for us.
God bless you all for caring and loving these special children. May you keep on doing so. Stay blessed.
it's beautiful to see Claude and his sister interact
Big hug to your beautiful boy this video made me cry because my baby is 10 and still can’t talk or communicate but he his such a kind heart my forever baby we have a face book page called Isaacs autistic journey ❤️
In a recent survey it showed that females were a higher ratio than males , just better at masking it. Although realistically males are still possibly higher at the severe end. . Sadly many females are diagnosed with borderline or ADHD because so little is understood and the diagnosis is based on males. One difference but not in this program is the females are better at language skills and mimicing, similar visual geometric pattern thinking and the same sensory overload/dampening and some have less numerical presentation.
C Forest I believe that I think I am an aspie but was dx as bipolar 1 ADHD borderline personality disorder. I heard alot of females are misdiagnosed as these instead of being autistic
Granted, females on the spectrum hide their so-called symptoms better. This doesn't necessarily mean that females are less severely affected.
Fathering Autism is a great channel to follow showing the success of the behavioral mod Jessica is on.
The girl's name is Abbigail!
Girls aren't rare on the spectrum, we just hide it better. We learn early on how to better blend in.
Amanda D yeah we do. I have aspergers and I’m a girl. We just copy our peers in what they say and do, so we don’t seem to have the syndrome to others
Natalie Anderson exactly.
Amanda D yeah you said it!
So Jessica in this video can hide it and blend in? Not! Girls have no control neither. If you have a mild case, that's different.
@Amanda D Yeah, I'm A Girl (My Picture Is Patrick Troughton BTW) And I Have Classic Autism (Level 2 Or Whatever You Call It). I Blended In Quite Well Except I Didn't Talk In Front Of The Class, I Had Been Asked A Few Times And I Just Responded "I Have Autism" Or "I'm Autistic" And They Just Moved On, No-One Really Cared, They Treated Me The Same And That Was Awesome.
Thanks for the video. But so misunderstood
I have autism myself
Well I have autism and I was digenoesed at 10
Im cringing at home much information people still believe from things like this that just isnt true.... Like girls arnt a rare thing to autism, they just dont present the same so they dont get a diagnosis. If anything it shows one extreme end of autism, but as a spectrum disorder, there could be people you interact with regularly and never know they have autism. Personally id love to see a doc like this that shows people of all ages and all areas of that spectum presented together over this, because these docs dont really help people on the aspie portion who are curious on the disorder and want to know more and can sometimes cause doubt when you only see very severly physically dibilitating cases online
As a black autistic woman, I agree 💯 I wasn't diagnosed until 19, and I'm now in my late 20s.
There are just as many girls with ASD as boys. They just go missed because we are able to mimic social cues better. Me and my daughter are both on the spectrum I wasn’t diagnosed till 30!
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Do you think he had CMV
The "noise" he makes recalls exactly the "OM" chanting... Maybe it is time that the so-called "neuro-typical" people stop thinking "normal" and start thinking broadly
It is just so archaic to consider autism an illness or a deficiency, just because it doesn't fit any current understanding or does function in the highly dysfunctioning societies we've built.
O no
Already know what triggers me But like most people with the spectrum mind set of Societiey play the main & only factor Were the attitude comes from
I have got autism and dispraxer and dislexer
Do you have a hobby something you like to do and if so what is it?
I have autism too. Unfortunately I was never diagnosed and found out I had it until I was an adult. ✌️
I have autism
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For anyone suffering the best way if you dont know is to go and get help from the Sun Rise Program and the Option Institute, to fix anything that have to do with Sight and Sound over- sensitivity go to The Sound Learning Centre England, now for a complete allergic test so the person can be cure from the inside go to Celestine Clinic in England. This will end you nightmares😇
"Autism is much more rare in girls". You can tell this is an old programme 😅
Why do these parents want to cure their kids? They are fine just the way they are.
I agree I can't not stand to hear people wanting to help raise money to "CURE" Autism. I try to raise AWARENESS for autism, I was a mom who God forbid my child act up in public and people stare at you I don't like attention on myself and have whispers about my child. So when my last child my baby boy was having anger or melt downs I would feel so embarrassed and flushed putting myself almost into a self induced panic attack that I confined myself and child at home. We now walk for the awareness of Autism I made a shirt for I don't need your comments and stares I need patient and understanding.
Because autism is a curse. If you haven't dealt with severe low functioning autism then you have no clue what you're saying.
Yeah, right!
Why wouldn't you want to find a cure? My son doesn't have autism, autism has him and they need to figure out what is causing this. Don't get me wrong I love my son to death with or without his autism but what parent doesn't want nothing but the best for their child. I know for a fact I gave birth to a normal healthy boy and I was robbed. After a couple of Dr visits and all of a sudden I'm being told my son has autism. Something needs to be done so more families are not affected by this. My son is not aggressive but have you seen the videos of children with severe autism that hurt themselves and their family members and it's not the child's fault cause they don't know but c'mon how can you not want to find a cure to help child that is constantly hurting themselves.
Why wouldn’t you want to help these children struggle & SUFFER less?
That is child abuse. The treatment of that little girl. She gets forced to pee? Wtf. She looked terrorized. And even tough the coercion isn’t working the parents keep tormenting that poor child.
ClassicSynthesizer. If the child is not potty trained at that age things will be worse if she never learns how to do it. Imagine having to leave her with a babysitter. Poor, loving, caring, misunderstood self-sacrificing parents. Pray for the families. 💝
It reminds me of ABA therapy. I am not a fan, and never have been. It feels very abusive to me, but because it's done to an autistic child nobody cares. SMH.
It's easy to judge from the sidelines...
The father of that girl is my father in law, I know for a fact she wasn't getting angry in real time, they made her angry to throw a tantrum, whether it happens all the time, I don't know he lives in New Zealand and I live in australia
It's not child abuse. They are trying hard to potty-train her.
what about vaccines??! No amount of help from a geneticist will help you out there...
Redacted, You gotta get up and try and try and try! You gotta get up and try and try and try! Where there is desire there is gonna be a flame! And where there is flame, someone's bound to get burned! But just because it burns doesn't mean your gonna die! You gotta get up and try and try and try! You gotta get up and try and try and try!
@@brucewayne3074 *Corus:*
We all go through struggles,
Like we don't shuggle,
And shuffle (shuffle shuffle shuffle...)
Just try,
And maybe you won't die!