@@marahmiller7151it just teaches the kid to scream at others trust me my mom loved to scream and argue about anything all day everyday would even switch arguments to argue longer and harder fucked me up and I didn’t know how to socially interact with people my cousin who was a ranger said he would go through the whole Ranger school again then spend a week with my mom😂
@hexagon2178 when she says "scream", she doesn't mean starting an arguement or even saying words loudly. She means mimicking child's behaviour. It's not about reasoning, it's about showing a kid their own reflection
@@TheOneYouCantBEARthat's true it could show the kid their behavior is bad or the exact opposite and now the adult and child are screaming at each other until one stops
Some of my favorite shorts videos with parents and their kids are the ones where the dad fake cries because their kid is crying. The sheer confusion on their face is hilarious 😂😂
It really works tho 😂 when my kid was younger (and even now sometimes) id just cry or scream back at him and it would distract him from what he was originally upset about. It is probably easier with babies than kids tho.
I've seen a video where a parent record their kid when they cry, and then they show them how they cry, their conciousness gonna tell that's them and then they'll realize how stupid they look lmao. They stopped crying after that
Dont mimic your child being upset... you teach them that their emotions won't be taken seriously. As someone with a narcicist parent, she did this even when I was crying because my best friend died.
I sympathize with your loss and that you had to go through both that experience and your parent's actions like that, but there's a pretty big difference between crying from your best friend dying and a baby crying cuz their mom won't let them eat tide pods
@@kittenmimi5326That's not how it works. People sometimes have kids without meaning to. Some decide to still keep the child. Some people also decide to have kids when they're in their late 30s. Not the ideal time imo but if it works for them it works. Either way, it's sad that this kind of parenting technique is even thought of cause it is, unfortunately, "the loudest wins" is a more common family arrangement than you'd think
yeah right? 😂 I think even toast missed that same fact because he continued the hypothetical scenario, oh wait, she also missed it too because she continued with it as well, oh god... so obvious... anyway, my comment is actually oriented to the sad reality that some parents actually try to shut their kids by screaming at them lauder, and the kids learn that... to which I added it's just comedy... since toast and lily are only doing an imaginary scenario for comedy, about the kid she won't have 😅 hgh
Kids are new to the world and are new to their emotions, they don't know how to deal with them besides screaming and beimg destructive , it is your job as a parent to teach them how to feel their feelings in a safe way. You dealt with feelings for at least 18 years, teach them better than screaming or they will be a Karen in a walmart whem they don't get their way. Because they learned you have to listen to whoever screams rhe loudest from their mom. TLDR: don't scream just be there for them
Thats a legit parent trick . Theh scream and cry for attention / they want something. So when you do the same the sorta glitch internally like Oh we have an impass sorta thing Ffeaky
No but that was literally my mom's parenting 😂 my niece used to throw tantrums and she'd sit down on the ground and throw a tantrum right back. The kid got confused and stopped and learned that tantrums did not get her what she wanted
Dw im not a teacher anymore lmaoo but at times I would resort to just monotonously yelling ahhhhh back at the kids screaming and then they stop. Consider it and laugh.
my mother actually took this approach once with me. she was homeschooling me and my two siblings at the time, and it was time for my spelling test. i threw a fit about not wanting to do it, and she threw a tantrum back at me. i really did think she was going crazy.
I have a 10 year old boy and a 2 year old daughter.. raising kids isn’t hard at all… my son was a cake walk but girls are ALOT more trouble they really put your patience to the test, luckily my daughter knows that of anyone I’m not the one she wants to test, daddy doesn’t put up with BS 😂
Okay but my grandma did that exact method. One time my brother was throwing a tantrum in the middle of Walmart so my grandma got down and started kicking her feet and screaming and he just stopped and looked at her and never did it again
It’s actually horrible to tell your kid “don’t tell dad” or “don’t tell your mother” it skyrockets the rate of cheating and lying in relationships when they grow up
Imagine the screaming is the normal atmosphere in the house that when theyr older and when they don't get what they want they will just scream and everyone around them will be so confused
I know an early years teachers who’s whole behaviour management strategy is screaming back. If a kid is screaming they’ll put out their hand and go “my turn” and then make a similar noise. It always makes the kid laugh.
"One bite, but don't tell dad." Dude, Michael would probably just dash to the freezer, grab the entire tub, and toss it to the kid the millisecond they ask.
Lily's advice legit works this is exactly what my dad did when my sister wanted something from the store when she was younger. He just starter throwing a tantrum in the middle of the store 💀💀
Bro, if it's 11 PM, I'm carrying my kid back to their bedroom and telling them to take their ass to sleep 😂. The hell you want ice cream this late for?
I do that too and it works!! My lil cousin is a cry baby so i fake cry louder and then she looks at me confused and she forgets why she even cried in the first place XD
My mom just don't do anything if she said no to me that means no every single thing I do to her she will ignore and I stop if I go too bad because if she blows up I'm just gonna die
Nah, this was not about shouting "against" them to do what you want. This is screaming against the _world._ Which basically makes them realize that: 1: other people also have to do stuff they don't want to 2: "Damn, am I really that annoying?" This is a very real parenting technique. It's not perfect, but it's completely different from what you're describing
Kids are new to the world and are new to their emotions, they don't know how to deal with them besides screaming and beimg destructive , it is your job as a parent to teach them how to feel their feelings in a safe way. You dealt with feelings for at least 18 years, teach them better than screaming or they will be a Karen in a walmart whem they don't get their way. Because they learned you have to listen to whoever screams rhe loudest from their mom. TLDR: don't scream just be there for them
Pretty much all you need to know is that kids have a very limited perception of reality and when that perception is broken they cry. That's it. Like, oh I thought my mom loved me and gets me anything I want but now I don't get ice cream? That's earth-shattering to a 4 year old.
Just remember: People who are overall a good person but grew up to be absolute gremlins CAN and WILL raise their children to be better. Either better well-behaved or better gremlins.
lily with some unique interesting parenting techniques.
It works tho I’ve done it with my friends kids
overkill pfp?
@@marahmiller7151it just teaches the kid to scream at others trust me my mom loved to scream and argue about anything all day everyday would even switch arguments to argue longer and harder fucked me up and I didn’t know how to socially interact with people my cousin who was a ranger said he would go through the whole Ranger school again then spend a week with my mom😂
@hexagon2178 when she says "scream", she doesn't mean starting an arguement or even saying words loudly. She means mimicking child's behaviour. It's not about reasoning, it's about showing a kid their own reflection
@@TheOneYouCantBEARthat's true it could show the kid their behavior is bad or the exact opposite and now the adult and child are screaming at each other until one stops
Interviewer: how u handle your child?
Lilipichu: be a bigger child ✨
555 likes? Now it's 556! :D
Bro if she did that michael would taze them asleep if it was 11pm
Did you just call Toast 'interviewer?'
@@sindieltaylor2147I mean it ain't _wrong,_ kinda?
“Interviewer”
“Cus mom’s gonna scream back twice as hard because she’s fucking crazy? …yeah” LMAOOOOO
"okay one bite, but don't tell dad" was so cute!
I couldn’t agree more!!
she's opposite of conventional asian mums lol
She's fucking crazy got me giggling (edit:how)
Michael reeves would be proud
Maybe
I mean, they already know she's crazy if she puts the icecream in the fridge
Do they not have a freezer?
@canadianboi326 Notice how you said freezer instead of fridge.
Some of my favorite shorts videos with parents and their kids are the ones where the dad fake cries because their kid is crying. The sheer confusion on their face is hilarious 😂😂
"i will scream back louder"
Classic asian household 🤝
I've actually seen someone do that irl before! There was a dad feeding his baby food in a restaurant and he did that, the baby was so confused 😂
Assert your dominance 💀
It really works tho 😂 when my kid was younger (and even now sometimes) id just cry or scream back at him and it would distract him from what he was originally upset about. It is probably easier with babies than kids tho.
michael and lily with children is chaos i would pay to watch
The kid gonna grow to be like "hey guys watch this"
Lily’s the cutest lmao
I've seen a video where a parent record their kid when they cry, and then they show them how they cry, their conciousness gonna tell that's them and then they'll realize how stupid they look lmao.
They stopped crying after that
That would definitely work with your high pitched voice.
Dont mimic your child being upset... you teach them that their emotions won't be taken seriously. As someone with a narcicist parent, she did this even when I was crying because my best friend died.
I sympathize with your loss and that you had to go through both that experience and your parent's actions like that, but there's a pretty big difference between crying from your best friend dying and a baby crying cuz their mom won't let them eat tide pods
If your best friend was imaginary I get it
LilyPichu uses Screech! It confused baby!
I've been saying the same to my friends for years, glad to see I'm not alone
I see lilly learned how to parents from my parents
the sad thing is that they learn that the one that screams louder or. does the biggest tantrum wins.... but anyways this is just comedy right? 😅
Did you miss the point of her explaining why she wouldn't make a good parent?
You know whats sad? You making this comment about a kid that WOULD NEVER EXIST she said she didnt want kids lmao
@@kittenmimi5326That's not how it works. People sometimes have kids without meaning to. Some decide to still keep the child. Some people also decide to have kids when they're in their late 30s. Not the ideal time imo but if it works for them it works. Either way, it's sad that this kind of parenting technique is even thought of cause it is, unfortunately, "the loudest wins" is a more common family arrangement than you'd think
yeah right? 😂 I think even toast missed that same fact because he continued the hypothetical scenario, oh wait, she also missed it too because she continued with it as well, oh god... so obvious... anyway, my comment is actually oriented to the sad reality that some parents actually try to shut their kids by screaming at them lauder, and the kids learn that... to which I added it's just comedy... since toast and lily are only doing an imaginary scenario for comedy, about the kid she won't have 😅 hgh
She's so ready, but she doesn't know it yet.
Kids are new to the world and are new to their emotions, they don't know how to deal with them besides screaming and beimg destructive , it is your job as a parent to teach them how to feel their feelings in a safe way. You dealt with feelings for at least 18 years, teach them better than screaming or they will be a Karen in a walmart whem they don't get their way. Because they learned you have to listen to whoever screams rhe loudest from their mom.
TLDR: don't scream just be there for them
Thats a legit parent trick . Theh scream and cry for attention / they want something.
So when you do the same the sorta glitch internally like
Oh we have an impass sorta thing
Ffeaky
Bed time at 11pm nahh
Michael:taser
Throw a tantrum back and scream back will actually embaress them
If the kid starts screaming dad gonna come in with that taser 😂
him, of course of course. I see Lilly and toast are really going the Asian parenting route. China would be proud
Is it crazy for me to think that Micheal nd lily would have the most talented nd cracked kids
No but that was literally my mom's parenting 😂 my niece used to throw tantrums and she'd sit down on the ground and throw a tantrum right back. The kid got confused and stopped and learned that tantrums did not get her what she wanted
Dw im not a teacher anymore lmaoo but at times I would resort to just monotonously yelling ahhhhh back at the kids screaming and then they stop. Consider it and laugh.
Crying back at babies is an actual technique
My thought was "why is your kid awake at 11 PM?"
If they're old enough to stay up past 11, they're old enough to have ice cream at 11.
I wanna see lily holding a mini Micheal 😅❤
my mother actually took this approach once with me. she was homeschooling me and my two siblings at the time, and it was time for my spelling test. i threw a fit about not wanting to do it, and she threw a tantrum back at me. i really did think she was going crazy.
Well, it works cause they will get confused really quick. I have 5 nephews.
She’s adorable 😂
What she's describing is called shadowing and it actually works 😂
Seems my neighbor practices this exact technique. And trust me it doesn’t work they regularly scream at each other at least once per week
Sounds like she'd be a great mom 😂
Nah they’re difficult sure but they’re also seriously amazing and will make you laugh a ton
I have a 10 year old boy and a 2 year old daughter.. raising kids isn’t hard at all… my son was a cake walk but girls are ALOT more trouble they really put your patience to the test, luckily my daughter knows that of anyone I’m not the one she wants to test, daddy doesn’t put up with BS 😂
Maybe try pulling out a mirror and put it in front of them.
Seeing themselves cry or look stupid will make them stop.
lily is so funny in such a natural way
I would start crying instead of yelling back, reverse psychology
Screaming back is what Roman catholic Italian moms do..... at least in the 80s and 90s.
Okay but ngl my mum had done the tantrum 1-upping with me growing up, and you can bet the # of tantrums took a nose dive
That's what I do when a toddler cries, I cry harder and they stop and stare
Honestly I needa remember this for the future😂😂😂
They say don't yell at your kids but hey it works and if you cuddle them after it's fine aslong as you're commanding about it and not a dick
ice cream in the fridge, yeah she is crazy.
Okay but my grandma did that exact method. One time my brother was throwing a tantrum in the middle of Walmart so my grandma got down and started kicking her feet and screaming and he just stopped and looked at her and never did it again
It’s actually horrible to tell your kid “don’t tell dad” or “don’t tell your mother” it skyrockets the rate of cheating and lying in relationships when they grow up
Why is no one talking about her putting the ice cream in the FRIDGE, it’s gonna melt!
Amazing parenting
Why is no one adressing the ice cream in the fridge?!
as a person with a mom who broke down emotionally more than i did and every single time me or my brother did, this isnt effective
Imagine the screaming is the normal atmosphere in the house that when theyr older and when they don't get what they want they will just scream and everyone around them will be so confused
Lily has the potential to become the best mom ideas 😂 to calm a kid need to be a kid
I know an early years teachers who’s whole behaviour management strategy is screaming back. If a kid is screaming they’ll put out their hand and go “my turn” and then make a similar noise. It always makes the kid laugh.
Dads gonna know when he checks the fridge and there’s a tub of icecream melted
I can already imagine 😂
Kid: *cries*
Lily: *T-POSE!*
Kid is like "game recognizes game."
I think she learned it from the Mikul Masterclass
Her and my mom would get along
Poor Michael
"One bite, but don't tell dad."
Dude, Michael would probably just dash to the freezer, grab the entire tub, and toss it to the kid the millisecond they ask.
Lily's advice legit works this is exactly what my dad did when my sister wanted something from the store when she was younger. He just starter throwing a tantrum in the middle of the store 💀💀
Might sound crazy, but what Lily said.. is a legit way. But not the tantrum part, that's just chaos 😂
Bro, if it's 11 PM, I'm carrying my kid back to their bedroom and telling them to take their ass to sleep 😂.
The hell you want ice cream this late for?
Glad there is one sane person here in the comment section. People are acting like it’s the kids who run the household
@@speaklife20 finally some common sense
11 PM is afternoon not midnight...
@@ringofdreal1374 Might want to look that up and make sure. Cause I'm 100% sure PM takes place during the night
@@ringofdreal1374 um thats not how it works-
It kinda sounds like Lily would be a great mom
The idea of Lily and Micheal having kids terrifies me. I completely understand why she wouldn’t want kids.
Funnily enough my mom did this with our nephew and it worked 😂
When u basically had yo raise your baby bro while also being a kid...shes not wrong.
… so we’re not gonna talk about putting the ice cream in the fridge and not the freezer?
I do that too and it works!! My lil cousin is a cry baby so i fake cry louder and then she looks at me confused and she forgets why she even cried in the first place XD
Surprised Lily wont do parenting "the Asian way"...
I’ve tried this - it rarely works haha 😂
My mom just don't do anything if she said no to me that means no every single thing I do to her she will ignore and I stop if I go too bad because if she blows up I'm just gonna die
That’s why you don’t be the parent. Be the fun uncle. Nobody rebels against the fun uncle
I think lily is secretly a Great mom.
Lmao
I'm working with kids and once screamed back and it worked. He stoped and looked at me weird 😂
Nono just call dad, we are not soft and have very sharp teeth.
That is usually enough to make a Kid skiddaddle and go back to bed
Except they'll learn that being louder than someone will get them what they want. Which is why you see all these Karens screaming for dear life.
Nah, this was not about shouting "against" them to do what you want.
This is screaming against the _world._
Which basically makes them realize that:
1: other people also have to do stuff they don't want to
2: "Damn, am I really that annoying?"
This is a very real parenting technique. It's not perfect, but it's completely different from what you're describing
How to handle your child being a problem
Lily: Be a Bigger Problem
Michael: I made you, i can unmake you
lil bro shouldn't be awake that late, set a bedtime and make sure they stick to it
I mean has anyone tried this? As long as they somehow realize screaming doesn't get them what they want
Kids are new to the world and are new to their emotions, they don't know how to deal with them besides screaming and beimg destructive , it is your job as a parent to teach them how to feel their feelings in a safe way. You dealt with feelings for at least 18 years, teach them better than screaming or they will be a Karen in a walmart whem they don't get their way. Because they learned you have to listen to whoever screams rhe loudest from their mom.
TLDR: don't scream just be there for them
As a mom to a 5 year old. It still works. It takes a couple minutes now. But he will eventually stop
Lily actually giving good mom advice lmao
cptsd moment
Pretty much all you need to know is that kids have a very limited perception of reality and when that perception is broken they cry. That's it. Like, oh I thought my mom loved me and gets me anything I want but now I don't get ice cream? That's earth-shattering to a 4 year old.
Ice cream? In the fridge?!???! She really is crazy
😂 lol i never thought to scream bsck lol thats great lol😂😂
Trust me, the scream back does not work.
it definitely didn't for the high evolutionary 💀
YO LET HER COOK!
bed time is 9pm till middleschool
Lily puts her ice cream in the fridge? 😢
My mum did that once when I was throwing a tantrum and I laughed so hard because I was so shocked.
Just remember:
People who are overall a good person but grew up to be absolute gremlins CAN and WILL raise their children to be better. Either better well-behaved or better gremlins.
You fight fire with fire