4 Things: Why won't they GTOW, "Jokes" aren't always "jokes",
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- Another man loudly NOT going his own way. When we they go their own way?! #MGTOW #NCLB #Someshouldhavebeenleftbehind #punctuationmatters
"Tonight I broke up with my boyfriend because he kept joking about murdering me"
"I can't help but feel lied to by Red Pillers. Help me understand?"
"Dasher sits outside of my home & sends creepy message. DoorDash does nothing. Help."
#burbnbougie #storytime #relationships #feminism #marriage #personalexperience #emotionalstruggle #support #reddit #aita #NotLikeOtherGirls #redpill #redpiller #manosphere #doordash #jokes #pranks
Sir, do not threaten us with a good time.
If these men did stop trying to date women, then it would be a prime example of the rubbish taking itself out.
sucks that they keep teasing us 😞
like .... don't talk about it, BE about it & go 👻
haha 😅
@@karmAnonymousactions speak louder than words
Exactly. Men already have a loneliness and a self deletion epidemic going on. If women WTOW, a large percentage of men would completely unravel.
I mean there will be the bunch of “I need my man men this men that”… the pick mes but also women do weird stuff too so I feel like the crime will definitely go down but it’ll still happen
Yep one's worth it don't have issue's with women no problem finding one. They are telling on themselves what type of guy they are when they attack women or whine about not getting laid yes please remove themselves from harassing anyone.
the one saying that men suffer in silence? Then why am I always hearing about it?
TOOK ME TF OUT 🤣
For real, they create a new slur for us everyday minute they get. I guess they are silent for every 58 seconds.
One on Twitter said men aren't allowed to voice their opinion. This was after writing a trash opinion bashing women that was not well-received. All men have done since inception is have opinions about things that they aren't knowledgeable about or that don't concern them. Even when corrected, they just double down cos they feel they are men, and their opinion on anything qualifies as a fact.
Yess...I actually laughed out loud!!
@@daddydiavolo8378 my favorite is when they take what we say or do... then don't even bother to attempt to repackage it to create a semi-believable rebranding to throw back in our faces as if THEY did/said it first 💀😭🤣
It is so deeply 2nd hand embarrassing... I physically cringe from the blatant ICK HAHA‼️
Exactly! As soon as a man suffers, we get a hundred news articles about “THE EPIDEMIC OF LONELY MEN”. Bro, that is the opposite of silence.
MGTOW, SYSBM, Passport Bros, etc. it’s all the same thing. Sleep around and demonize any woman who wouldn’t let you
While simultaneously degrading the ones who did. They deserve to be alone.
LOL the difference between a slvt and a bltch is a s will f anybody, and a b will f anybody BUT YOU...😂
I’d go camping. I’d go hiking alone in the woods without fear. I’d set up a tent and watch the stars after I make dinner on my campfire. I’d go hunting. A world without men would mean I could actually go on solo adventures without everyone I know having to worry about me being deliveranced.
When someone asked what women would do in a world without men, the replies from women were overwhelming "be able to go out without worrying about my safety." Even so, some men came to "not all men" in the comments. Someone even tried "choose better." Tf? How do I choose better strangers? Women are unalived by men they don't know from Adam.
@@joylastname3035 this right here- my dad and brother are both Eagle Scouts and genuinely good men. I have a long term partner who I love dearly. This isn’t about choosing at all, it’s about predatory men who ruin spaces for both women AND other ‘good’ men.
@@joylastname3035😂😂😂 "choose better strangers"
U should find like minded women and buy land and build on it that's what I did with my sister's, aunts best friends mom and nieces but my nieces are too young so I had to pay for their share but worth it lol and everyone house is 1mile apart with every fruit trees from mango pineapple 4 different grapes leche peach etc the only time men are there are the contractor to finish building or to cut the grass n they always stealing something from fishing from one of my pools to stealing dozens of banana, plantains etc n selling it downtown my uncle even stole new sheets saying I don't need it cause I can get more from one of the other 8bdrms and he doesn't even have a king size bed n had the nerve to lie about it at first like it's cameras everywhere cause I only go out there 4 times a year they think I won't notice r need my stuff
@@shaypope4732 my partner and I are actually closing on a house tomorrow that has a little bit of space for me to do some homesteading stuff. it’s honestly the perfect size for the projects I want, I don’t want the responsibility of THAT much land!
Eventually my goal is to buy a cheap old hunting acre nearby and build a cabin there so I have somewhere private just for me when I need some solitude though.
I am so in support of women setting up intentional communities and providing for themselves and their families on larger pieces of land- I just don’t want to be in charge of more than three acres max lol.
Story 2. He's a ticking time bomb. He's way too detailed in his description of unaliving her & he doesn't respect her wishes not to joke like that. She definitely needs to leave that thing alone.
She needs a new roommate too.
And a restraining order
xys are soooo lucky we don't off them as much as we should
Yea, she needs to leave the roommate as well cause bleep are you slow? Nothing about that was funny, i’d have been out after the first ’joke’. Men don’t joke. Keep ignoring instincts and your instincts will eventually ignore you.
@@ChiannaNycoleoof that last sentence knocked me back.
This is why they’re so salty about the 4B movement. We’re actually doing what they kept threatening to do, but never did.
They're like addicts in denial that talk about how they can quit anytime, just not today because reasons... 😂
@@IzzenArt perfect analogy! They hate us, but are addicted to our attention. Time to make them go cold turkey! ❄️🦃
THIS!! All the MGTOW and INCEL guys turned into passport bros because they really couldn’t exist without women. The difference between us and them is that women don’t need sex like they do so we can REALLY stand on business.
Please go your own way and take your baggage with you. These dudes don't understand that we are fine with that as long as they leave us alone completely.
"Unalive man" is NOT a "good man that makes bad jokes." He's a bad man who pretends to be good but then tells on himself. You know what Ms. Angelou said.
Believe it the first time.
She needs a new roommate too.
Not to be too extreme, but that guy is enough of a red flag I wish he could go on some sort of watchlist. He thinks about it enough that he's going to do it someday.
@@IzzenArt right? Exactly what I thought immediately.
I mean, everybody's a good person except for all the bad stuff they do. 😂
I've always said that if a person say's they will delete you, believe them the first time they say it and act accordingly.
Yes, I’m sick of women labeling guys as good man even though they speak of violence. Stop giving them any credit. If they threaten violence towards you is not a good man. This is so unhealthy. The only time a man should threaten violence is in to protect you.
Yes! I said that out loud, "whoa! NOT a good guy!!!"
The bar for good behavior is in Satan's pantry
That's exactly why I don't trust when women say their partners are good men because most don't even know what that is. I had a friend like that. Delusional.
Sadly for some that might be a good man if he at least being polite in other ways, it shows how many horrible men are out there and some poor women only see extreme violent one's
These pickmess will call these unhinged males "good", but will crucify a woman for slightest thing.
Dc
The dude who joked about taking my life, actually attempted to kill me after trying to SA me... Imagine that shhh
They really do think withdrawing their attention from women will do us injury. When you listen to repillers talk, half of it is about women engaging in "attention seeking behavior" - social media, the way we dress, even our coffee orders -- they think all of it is about seeking their attention. Even "normal" guys (not redpillers) will occasionally show this bias. Like when a woman gets upset, how often do you hear a guy say something like, "Oh, she just wants attention." They really, REALLY, do think this about us. I can't even fathom it.
So yeah, they think if they stop paying attention to women, we'll freak out. Because in their minds, we don't have any genuine thoughts or emotions of our own, no agency, no independent decision making. It's all performative behaviors to get their attention. I mean....Could you possibly be more narcissistic?
because narcissism thinks everything is about them by definition, they cannot consider us as people apart from themselves
It's because the mass majority of them are extremely apathetic and/or selfish. All they care about is themselves and their own needs. That's why they want the 1950's traditionalist gender roles back. They go to work for stimulation while their wives do all the heavy lifting back at home. They get to cheat/have multiple families whilst they expect their "partners"(slaves) to cater to their every need and take any kind of abuse they feel like dishing out. They want a maid, a housewife, a mother; not a partner.
I’d say it’s projection too. People like this need and feel entitled to receive heaps of attention and think that clearly means it must be how everyone feels. Well, it’s not. It’s one-sided and they’re desperate to prove they’re not the pathetic ones.
@@sawyerharris3721 narcs lack self awareness it's part of the diagnosis
What kind of friends do the people in these stories be having?? They be in the MOST abusive relationships and they’ll be like “no work it out” wtf
Male-centered “friends”
As an Inexperiende woman who is in the late 20s. Yes. I watch a lot of these contents to remind myself I made the right choice of putting men at the side and paid no attention to them
Same
Same, and life is way less chaotic than the drama my friends go through.
Yes I watched the content. I don't get how any girl can watch red pill actually want one of them and act shock when they not pick. These men are very clear all they care about is sex and using women. They want young easy to control to wife up for a sex slave/servant to only throw away once over 25 all while sleeping around having fun treating nice the women they claim not to want
I don't even know you and I'm so proud. ❤
Same and wow definitely keeping my v card to my 23 year old self 😂
They need to leave sex workers alone because we all know they put up with too much anyways.
😂 yes but they can’t because they don’t have the organizational skill or domestic to live alone and I think if they tried they would get lonely or realize it would not change society
They can raise their rates now
@humancapital5196 to put up with this dusty group of individuals they should charge $1000 a minute 😆
Legalization of that profession would be great if only for the chance for unionization. Outside of $ex-worker unions, I really doubt the pros can get protection.
YES THEY LOVE TO ADMINISTER ABUSE ON THEM...THEY REALLY DONT CARE NOR SEE THEN AS HUMAN ITS SICK HOW ALOT OF MEN FEEL THEY DESERVE TO BE ABUSED BECAUSE OF THEIR JOB OF CHOICE.....MEN ARE PSYCHOPATHS
“Permanent goodbyes”. Girl take your passport, birth certificate, social, ID, banking information, cards,fine jewelry, anything that can fit in your pockets and leave when he goes to work. It’s no different when they say they’re going with the flow, words come from somewhere and they mean it.
I've never been dated. I'm 41 & haven't fallen to my knees from loneliness yet. I have friends, hobbies, chores, books to finish reading, movies to catch up on & a comfy duvet.
Story 2: Evil people ALWAYS tell on themselves in the early stages. That guy was hoping that girl would willingly become his victim by ignoring her instincts.
Ladies, the moment anyone says;
"I'm gonna break your heart"
"I am no good for you"
"You deserve better"
"I'm gonna destory you"
"I'm gonna ruin you"
"I'm gonna make you cry"
"I'm gonna hurt you"
"I cannot wait to see you vunerable"
"I cannot wait to have you all to my self"
"I cannot wait until I get to have you"
"I'd love to see you uncomfortable/in pain/at my mercy"
"I'm goona enjoy unaliving you!"
If you hear ANYTHING from anyone stating something so vile/compromising/unsafe/preditory/dangerous to you, LISTEN YOUR YOUR GUT INSTICTS and move accordingly like this young girl did.
No, you are NOT being over reactive, over sensitive nor are you over thinking it! Your instincts are hard wired to pick up danger to keep you safe and alive!
Do not listen to others where this is concerned. Listen to your gut and trust it always!
A guy that I've known for about 4yrs had been trying to date me for most of that time. After 3.5yrs I finally started to give him a chance and he starts making jokes about raping me.
I'm like why would you "joke" like that????
Then he even talked about me drinking 2 margaritas before sex if we ever did, he knows I don't drink! I said I don't need to drink before that....he said I know but ...ok but what? Sounded like he wanted me tipsy and intoxicated during sex?!?!?!
Scary thoughts.
It all sounded so sinister.
The dating never got far bc of those "jokes". Nothing funny about SA.
Sounds like he’s so incompetent in the bedroom dept that he needs the woman to be tipsy / basically unconscious. You had a lucky escape. I know of women who were roofied by their SOs. These nem are vile.
@@staceyranee5756
When I hear women ask questions like this, like when I hear a murdered person's family pleading for a perpetrator to answer why he killed their loved one, I always say the same damn thing: Could there possibly be a satisfactory answer!? Like, oh ok, now that you've given me your reason (justification), I'm somehow supposed to find his reasoning ...relatable? Comforting?
No. Stop. Women need to stop asking men WHY they say these disgusting, violent, misogynistic, etc. things and just stand in our own truth, and that is that we don't f'ing like it and it won't be tolerated. We don't need to explain, and we aren't obligated to give them opportunities to plead their case. No asking questions, no debating "reasons," no stretching our boundaries, and definitely no hashing out repeat behavior. Their reasons are wholly irrelevant. "Stop" and "no" are enough said. Frankly, once these kinds of things come out of their mouths, women should just walk without a word said as he's already given enough insight into his mind and character, and it ain't good.
@@NonyaSmith true.
I just heard the little Ghanaian girl has been placed in police custody! But a male spokesperson for the Tribe/kingdom angrily declares that "We will deal with the police!" Hopefully, she will remain safe and away from that whole sick situation!
What happened in Uganda?
@availanila A twelve year old girl was married in a ceremony to 63 year old man! The adults in the Tribe claimed it was their tradition! 😢
It happened in Ghana not Uganda
@@AxisBoldAsLov3Thank you for the correction!
Story 2: The guy was probably not going to hurt her, she has nothing to be afraid of, it was just a joke, etc., etc. Ok, yeah. Probably. But even if all that is true, she has another problem. As a woman married...22 years now, I can see this huge red flag from 100 miles, lol. When a guy apologizes for something and says he won't do it again, then does the EXACT same thing 3 months later, gives the EXACT same excuses, makes the EXACT same apology, and the EXACT same promises, you can be 100% sure he will do it again. No matter how many times you have this conversation, he will do it again. And again. Forever.
Because he never meant that apology. He thinks you're wrong, and he has nothing to apologize for. But he's internalized all the messaging about making your wife happy by just apologizing for everything, whether you're right or wrong, so that's what he does. When he's decided he's tired of arguing about it, he'll just say, "Ok honey, I'm sorry, it won't happen again." It will happen again.
This is the problem with having pickmeshas as friends. Theyre constantly downplaying dangerous abusive behavior from men. Guy gives off serial killer vibes.
I’m sorry if anyone threatens me, I’m taking their word for it. That is not a joke.
I believe many women have an issue realizing that men are dangerous in general just being around them. He was just verbal about it. Remember, just because the man you are with is not expressing it, doesnt make him any less dangerous with the right triggers. Only he knows what those triggers are if he is aware enough. Do you think all the women and children abused or unalived by men were warned or told beforehand? Probably not. This is the reality of choosing to be with men and definitely living with them.
Yup. Being around ANY man in general is a risk.
GYOWA = Go Your Own Way Already! 🤦🏻♀️
They are already paying ladies of the night AND texting their crushes. Why is the first guy threatening women with stuff they are already doing? Plus many women in relationships are ALREADY lonely, if they don’t have their own community because they typically aren’t good companions.
All the 4G men should use their newfound spare time to make connections with the children they've neglected if it isn't too late for them
I like night butterfly 🦋 instead of Lady of the night😊
Moth
I like that. 👍
Either way, it’s like he doesn’t actually acknowledge sex workers, as women!
@@donnaanderson2846this point. I don’t know why folks have such a problem with Sex Workers. Do people realize that most DO NOT choose this. Teen runaways, homelessness Trans Women sometimes this a way to have income.
I work in a fanch cheese/charcuterie and i cant tell you how many women ask me to help pick themselves a treat and i ask the occasion and its "my husband is out of town so im just gonna have a little me time." These women arent sad - theyre celebrating 😂
I think the second story woman with the boyfriend who kept inferring that he would unalive her, should be extremely careful because guys like that are potential stalkers. She would do well to get rid of the roommate too. Living with somebody that has their interests aligned with somebody talking about dismemberment is really uncool. I would suggest that she talked to a domestic violence program and get some tips on how to keep safe and always make sure that several people know where she is. She should also check any vehicle for being tracked and have her phone examined for the same reason. She should not take the same way to work or home and she should change the hours to be flexible. I truly hope she doesn't end up as another statistic in the morgue.
Good to know Ubereats is safer than doordash! Keeping that in mind when I order some food without a side of yucky xy!
Angie Harmon ordered groceries to be delivered, the guy showed up, delivered their groceries and THEN shot their family dog, Dixie 😢 He claimed self defense but had no scratches/bites or torn clothes!
Why are we continuing to call it a joke? It doesn't cease to be a threat just because he didn't carry it out. There should be 0 tolerance for this stuff. No explanation, no talking, none of that. You shouldn't have to explain to an adult how that threat is not only wrong, but manipulation. Why do women feel like they have to explain to these men like they're toddlers? Your job isn't to teach them right from wrong. That was their parents job. Your job is to insure your boundaries are upheld. Not by explaining why your boundaries should be respected. By LEAVING dangerous or unsatisfactory situations. You get to determine how people treat you by what you accept, but you don't get to determine what others find as acceptable behavior. Just LEAVE. Also, her friends are losers and need some space .
I think subconsciously allnof society has taught us to see men as toddlers thst have no capability to understand the consequences of their actions, which is wierd to me bc i thought they were all logical leaders 😂😂
@@sweatergod5386 yeah, I think it's a ploy for lack of accountability 😂
Why are they announcing it… just go away “We Don’t Care”
I had a boyfriend who'd joke about me dropping out and becoming a house wife (turns out he was serious about it)
He also joked about beating me
I replied that if he so much as bluffs or jokes about that again I'd leave with no hesitation, the alternative outcome not being pretty
He laughed it off awkwardly saying he was just asking to see what I'd do and he was glad his wifey was smart but he kept making jokes about people thinking he's a wife beater because he's middle Eastern
He's an ex, right??
@@kdphotos4691 definitely
I believe the relationship went on for way too long though
a guy i used to deal with would constantly flake on me. im an adventurous person, so i would constantly be finding stuff to do. new places to eat, different activities to do, etc. EVERY single time, he would tell me some outlandish BS about why he cant go or let me believe he wants to go, then at last minute cancel or ignore my messages until its too late and then claim he was busy when i sent them. (yes i know im an idiot). i clearly and directly told him that it was EXTREMELY irritating. hes and adult and if he doesnt want to go he needs to just say no. did he stop?...ofcourse not. i finally ran out of patience and rescinded an invitation and stopped talking to him. he got angry and was confused as to why i did it.
LOL, they've been going their own way for years and still won't leave. 2nd story, A man who jokes about unaliving his girlfriend is not a "good guy." She also needs to cut off the friends who are telling her to go back to an abuser. 3rd story, Women need to stop listening to men & thinking they're special because they tick all the boxes that men say they want in a woman. 4th story, Maybe if women started boycotting these services then they would take these incidents seriously.
Angie Harmon's dog got shot by an instacart delivery driver. For anyone wondering
😢
Y'all ....who the HELL is Chad?!
Their imaginary perfect man they think women want...these chads also treat us like garbage and we supposedly luv it😢😮💨its so tired 😫 anytime a man says chad i think of them swooning over a gym bro hopping they look their way😅
Lmao Chad is the "desired" man. Tall, handsome and chiseled
It's the name they use for the "bad guy." 🙄🙄
That’s their white version of Tyrone 😂
@@Ourladyofeyes bingo, Chad is supposed to be a bottom shelf wm.
All comedy is serious. The funny part is often the grain of truth. No truth, no funny.
That man joking about ending his girlfriend to her face, Yeah that dude is going to kill someone. He couldn’t wait to push her buttons as an excuse to hit her. He was so lazy he just triggered her to argue with him by threatening her.
Men often roast each other and it’s a way of bonding, but this isn’t that. I used to have a friend who went from roasting like he did with all his other friends, funny jokes, but over time the roasts became more common, cruel and unfunny comments. The roasts he did on other people remained the same, lighthearted and funny. When I called him out on it he told me he was just joking and I didn’t have a sense of humor. Gaslighting as the jokes used to be funny but they had morphed into bullying.
My point is some men do this. They push your boundaries and say things to harass or upset or threaten you, and when you call them out on it they gaslight, claim they were joking and blame-shift to you for having no humor.
The litmus test is: was it at all funny? Would anyone you know find it funny? If not, it wasn’t a joke.
I don't talk to men that "jokes" about killing me or anything like that. Because one day, it may not be a joke. I'm not taking any chances.
The truth usually comes out in a joke! Good for her for leaving him alone!
8:15 He’s not joking about unaliving her. He literally wants to but just hasn’t taken action…yet. When someone tells you how they feel, listen.
I’m going to speak in gender-based generalities here on this issue.
If it comes down men or women deciding not to date, the reaction on the other side would manifest differently. Why do I say that? Because women, in general, prioritize activities & hobbies OUTSIDE of sexual & romantic interaction as aspects of life, & so women in general are okay (maybe or maybe not completely happy or satisfied, but able to be just fine) w/ not being constantly involved in the romantic/sexual side of life. Men, on the other hand, in general, prioritize sexual & romantic interaction as a MAJOR aspect of life-so that sex (that is, having a sexual outlet) IS an activity & IS a hobby of the utmost importance to be prioritized, because lack of it (for most men or at least every man I’ve known, & I’m from a major city so it’s easy to know & be acquainted or friends or family w/ a huge number of men) breeds frustration which is then expressed outwardly through moping, aggression, agitation, & yes, violence or violent ideation.
The sexual urge in a man is an incredibly powerful & obviously often a very dangerous thing. That doesn’t mean that anyone owes men sexual satisfaction, not at all, because that kind of affirmation is something everyone has to earn from an interested & willing partner. That’s why men who speak about 1) what women should be like or 2) what women “owe” men as partners or 3) why women should accept certain unacceptable things talk that way-out of sexual & romantic frustration. It’s very simple, but it’s also very dangerous.
Thank you for your honesty.
Yup, we know which gender will buckle first.
Sweety if men want sex, they should please women. Treat us right. They abuse us and then throw tantrums when we run the F away. If mens sex drive is high and their need for women is more than womens need for men, then shouldnt men be wooing and courting us. Instead of their shit behavior. Sigh.
Men screaming, "what do you bring to the tableee??" . Nothing. I bring nothing. Dont even wanna come to your table. Why sit at the table with a violent, selfish, boring man?? Better be with my friends.
The second story: I’m so glad OP got out of that. I used to think my SO was joking because of the ridiculous and dark things he said. Marriage, 2 kids, and several years of therapy later…he was never kidding it was shroedinger’s douchbag the entire time😞
Many jokes hold truth. Especially if the jokes are recurring.
15:00 even the podcast redpillers are dating OF models
I had to report a Lyft driver over a year ago , it’s a traumatizing experience. I sometimes don’t want to talk to user or Lyft driver the men anyway.
Now is a good time to reintroduce the story of the Kenyan village of Umoja Uaso, where women have proven their value to the men around them by keeping it to themselves and letting the local misogynists suffer without their free labor.
9:19 that person needs to get rid of her friends bc who in their RIGHT MIND would sit there and basically say go back to the guy that might hurt you in the future…… like WHAT IN THE ACTUAL F*ck are u saying rn????? The fact that they had no interest in helping her or even comforting her is BEYOND ME
Kudos to the woman who left the boy that constantly made too many homic*de jokes. Even if he wouldn’t actually unalive anyone, he’s already subtly setting up a verbally abusive communication style. No need to stick around.
"We are GOING our own WAY! 😡😡😡"
"👍"
"??? 🤬🤬🤬"
Re the confused #PickMe: There's a great line in the movie "Dangerous Beauty" about the courtesans of Renaissance-era Florence: "All men, rich or poor, noble or peasant, believe in The Temptress - the aloof, untouchable goddess who quickly becomes pliant maiden when he's had a bad day."
It would probably take me years to figure out men were ignoring us 😂. The pickme's would notice though, lol.
I wonder if inflation has hit the oldest profession too? Like, what would $100 even get you these days?
A 5 min “Boebert” in the theater
To mister with the non existent grammer, don't "y'all" do that anyway?🤔 And how pray tell, would this affect the majority of us? I'll wait...
Story #2 No. You absolutely did the right thing!. What we are not going to do is give boyfriends and husbands second let alone third chances to make un-aliving 'jokes.' These twisted thoughts are not coming out of nowhere. As for your roommates, please put distance between yourself and them. They clearly do not have your best interests at heart.
THEY ARE THE AT LEAST HE DOESNT HIT YOU TYPE OF MORONS
The constant joking about killing is a technique to move attention away from you. Most people tend to conclude that someone who would commit murder wouldn’t broadcast it to everyone and have witnesses, and that is the reaction they are wanting. Because at some point the target is gaslighted so much they don’t react to it negatively which dulls the severity. I hope OP stays away from this person and their friends/roommate aren’t stupid enough to try and play Dr. Phil and get them back together.
2nd time women we need to also re think our friendships , why is her friend telling her to talk it out ! Like absolutely not !!
Love the first story. It made me chuckle, recalling how many times I've advised men from dating sites " I suggest you find a professional to take care of that".
I support sex workers!!!
I’d go running every night and when I wake up in the middle of the night I’d go walking without fear. I absolutely love late night strolls through the neighborhood.
The unaliving jokester sounds like a Dateline story or a story for the crime show The First 48. Yeah, I’m glad she left that walking dangerous red flag alone!!!
These men will warn you with their jokes!! One just has to pay attention and read between the lines.
Men ignoring me has been my reality my entire life. For so long I was used to being overlooked by men because they didnt find me attractive. Im married now but I find this whole movement to be very interesting. Love this for women.
They tell women to pick better but also say we dont pick the average guy we want chad. Like um dude youre telling us to find chad not average dude. Why the fq would we want to get a higher body count for an average dude.... sorry lol syke
Just going to add as a former Uber driver, the face scan is random, it typically happened to me in between trips, but seldomly the moment I signed on. Also the phone number thing, there is a lag after completing a trip which is why I assume he said save his number, you can message passengers after a trip but I am unsure of the time frame
14:36 no REALLY. WHY do they do that? Why attempt to turn women you WANT into women you don’t even LIKE or WANT?! Why
Conquering
Yikes second story reminded me of my ex. If i made a mistake he would say " you suck at life kill yourself" then he would laugh ....yea hilarious
1:37 I agree 💯 w/ him, they should take their $100, pay for the 🐱 and leave us alone 😅
That Red Pill woman is SO close to understanding! If she actually broke through her own internalized misogyny she would see that what’s happening to her is the men she shares values with all have one thing in common - they see all women as objects, either for consumption in one night stands (“for fun”) or to use as their domestic servants (trad wives). The fundamental issue is them not seeing women as complex humans, seeing them as objects and treating them as such.
I need to peruse the Red Pill women subreddit. Thanks for the comment
Lol 😂😂😂where is he going to buy anything of value for $100. Good luck chuck😂😂😂😂
Men..... please do it. PLEASE.
The gal whose boyfriend keeps “joking” about 😵her is the kill3r. His ID Channel documentary is on hold since she broke up with him. Run away and block him immediately.
I am 1,000% certain that 2nd woman saved her own life by leaving. He was absolutely going to kill her one day if they stayed together.
You know, anyone who has to say 'it's a joke'. . . .it's not a joke. As someone who's bodily autonomy was repeatedly ignored and then, when I got angry, was told 'can't you take a joke,' that's because it's not a joke. Girl said it right, 'Where's the punchline? How's it funny?' I've never had to TELL someone I've told/done a joke, they know.
I'm doing without men already. I have been for years. And no, my knees aren't callused.
9:07 second story. I’m super
glad she didn’t get in that car. Wow. I would go as far as to make a police complaint. You may get away but somebody else may not and your complaint can help them solve these cases. Keep your senses up.
"This man doesn't like punctuation. " Hee!!!😂❤
I love the imagery of an Indiana Jones treasure I’m gonna keep that for future use
1:33 Do men not realize "Ladies of the night" are also women?
19:36 this keep me mind is BLOWN!!! She don’t know her up from her down! Her left from her right! The reality check is wild.
Don't get mace or get a sap also with having the mace.
The problem with mace is if the breeze blows the wrong way, that stuff will go right in your face. It's terrible when that happens. You can make a sap for free and carry a couple of them including one on your keep, maybe even make one into a bracelet.
So RedPill Pick Me FOFO. 😂😂😂 Chile.
0:59 I know this was hard to read. The breath control is A1 because I couldn't even read that mess in my head without reaching for my pump.
I kinda feel bad for that red pill one, she sounds quite young and I'm glad she's making this realization earlier on. I hope she continues on this journey towards self realization, decenters men, and builds a good community around herself.
I do no contact deliveries and wait in my house for about 5 minutes before stepping out to grab it. Foods a little cold but it makes me feel safer cuz the drivers don't know what I look like.
I guess they haven't read the memo. We are happy with our teas ,books, pets, plants , and vacations.
These post are funny because they just talk in circles, but at the same time I'm a little concerned. These men really don't see that they're a part of the problem & that pent up anger will get innocent women hurt & the way these lawmakers are acting lately they might can get away with it. Ladies please pay attention & learn how to defend/protect yourself.
When I was in my twenties I was at a party and one of the guys I was talking to ask me a weird question...What would you do if you found out I was a serial killer...as I've gotten older I've come to discover I'm not a normal person in how I react in threatening situations, I've also been told I have a sinister smile and a creepy laugh... I looked at him and smiled and said, " it's highly unlikely there'd be two of us at any given event. " Then I chuckled Darkly. Apparently, this freaked him out so much he turned and walked away and refused to talk to me again. I still laugh about that.
😂😂😂💀💀💀
“Chad” is the hot popular guy. Not Pookie or Ray Ray.
Whoops.
Ayyyy I've made a lot of jokes about being unalived. A LOT of them. Wow I need to book with my therapist. I have a dark sense of humor, but that's too much.
Similar story to the joking boyfriend but in terms of continuous disrespect, not the same context.
I told a guy 3-4 times not to touch me on separate occasions when we dated. He would always claim he will control himself and progressively do something to make me uncomfortable in his presence even though i would have intricate, deep conversations with him. Our first date i already told him about it, and when we met where i worked, he hugged me and then didn’t pull away when i let go of the hug and held me there with his face looking at me, (this was right after i has a talk with him not to touch me) i said I’m uncomfortable and he let go, we went to a private area and he sat down and opened his legs and acted like i was supposed to sit on him. It disgusted me because why do exactly what I’m asking him not to ONE AFTER THE OTHER?. I told him ‘i will not be sitting on your lap’. I still sat down on another chair and explained that he cannot be doing this, and that i am a naturally affectionate person and touching is something i like doing but only after i know someone and i am uncomfortable, him doing this is making me pull back more of my very nature and not bringing out the affectionate side of me. I gave an ultimatum that if he does this again, I’m cutting it off and he needs to understand this is the final straw. He agreed he wouldn’t even bother me again if by chance he did it again.
Later i met with him, because he was crying due to something with his cousin and his family demanding a lot of him. So to make him feel better i agreed to meet and talk and… he did it again.
So, i asked him to drop me home, I’m done. I even said that i don’t normally pull out this card because i first just see if someone respects my boundaries without my history, but i do have trauma history with being touched. I thought this would drill even further his understanding.
He kept asking me in the car to not leave, that i deserve better, please stay, he wouldn’t do it again. He knows he screwed up because i communicated so clearly what i needed. I held my ground through the car ride.
I got out of the car, he didn’t even look at me, he looked at his phone and i said ‘you’re not even going to say bye to me?’ He said, bye. Looked away and i said ‘thank you for dropping me’ and he said ‘no problem’ while still looking at his phone and i closed the door and without even seeing if i went home safe, he drove off. (He did this even when he and i were good, never bothered waiting till i got inside my home safe).
He then persisted on text that i should give him a chance. He then once called me because he said i actively ignored him near where i work and i said ‘i don’t wear my glasses to work so really i can’t see faces at a distance’ and he was hyper saying ‘don’t use that as an excuse’. I calmly said ‘can i speak?’. And assured him my aim is not to just ignore him.
He then screwed up a conversation on text again and i asked him not to message me in which he said ok he won’t. He messaged again, saying to please meet him and talk, i said ok but just give me time, he wanted to meet that night, i said NO, I’d like to go home in the cold and go by bus because it relaxes me, he then said ‘sounds nice, I’m picking you up’. I said NO. He then said ‘u know what, nevermind’ i asked him why he keeps coming back, and then screwing up every time i say ‘yes we can talk’. He comes back another day, saying sorry for acting like a d*ck and his head isn’t right. He’s feeling so bad about what happened. And he asked for another chance just to talk. This was after sometime of saying No. so this time i gave conditions, i asked him to just have a decent conversation with me, with maturity, and talk without getting worked up. He said ok. (Mind you this is all after feeling so physically uncomfortable due to his touches that i asked him not to do). He then says he wants a hug from me. I got annoyed by this because i don’t even want to physically be touched by him and him asking for a hug is like acting like he doesn’t know the very thing that made me cut off connection to him.
He then asks if i can go to his house that night as he needs somebody.
I said no, we need to talk in a public place not his house. He then mocked the 3 chances i gave him and said it was ONLY 3 chances. (How do u mock the chances someone with touch trauma gives you) He then said i need to joke now and then and i am too serious. He then said all of my criticism (repeatedly telling him one boundary) has made him feel guilt and depressed when it’s not even worth feeling. And that he has been overthinking for days about it but it’s not really worth it. He then said if i need him (i don’t) he will be there but he won’t be messaging me again. I said OK, and ffs bye. He replied same.
It reminds me of the story about the k*lling.
She repeated herself of what she didn’t like so many times. She gave chances and he would screw up the day of. That is someone who is okay losing you or is willing to see how far they can go and still have u. The guy that snuffed my flame never got to see the affectionate funny goofy side of me because i never felt comfortable showing it to someone so willing to cross my boundary and have me put my foot down always. My aim is to make people smile around me and bring joy, he robbed himself from that experience.
The man gave me anxiety going to work, i would cry at my food court thinking ‘how am i going to work in a place he frequents’. He never knew this and how much him crossing my boundary affected me. It wasn’t about being scared, it was about his disrespected i felt after clearly communicating because guys tend to say ‘we can’t read women’s minds’ and here i am, not making someone guess and openly communicating for naught.
The story of the joking boyfriend reminded me so much of my experience… it’s horrible. I hope these people never find wives, but sadly i know they will.
Lol that first loser needs all men to participate in the game in order for women to crawl to him. He's like "Brothers. Please. I can't do this to them if y'all will give in!" Lol what an abusive weirdo.
That’s a red flag. This woman needs to run for the hills! When people show you who they are, believe them.
The mgtow thing happened around the early 2010s I remember watching a bunch of those cringey TH-cam videos, a lot of them were extremely offensive,
one in particular that I remember was called
MGTOW is freedom he got banned from TH-cam eventually thank goodness
But there was also the channel Sandman that guy has A Lot of issues towards women and I'm so happy that the mgtow movement is being called out for the trash that it is but why did it have to take so long ?
They should've been attacked from the moment they showed up but I guess it's never too late either since the mgtow's are still around and they're still not going their own way LOL
Mgtow is funny because they hate us but they need us. All the girly things they make fun of (feelings/ emotional intimacy, organization, appointments, unique experiences like traveling or new restaurants) are what prevent depression.
I don't know about anyone else, I just thought their online presence would eventually disappear because I thought that THEY WOULD ACTUALLY LEAVE.
Would we be that lonely? Idk about that one. Isn't it proven that we maintain more friendships and for longer and make new ones into later life while men do less so? The majority of our attention and close relationships isn't coming solely from our romantic partners. We have multiple close friends, family that we bother to maintain closeness with, and children that we are there for full time.
Wow! I would go anywhere I wanted day or night .
I’ve had a dasher’s family drop off my order when I worked at target. They made it errand and picked up some toys for their son.
I'm pretty sure that a hundred bucks is way below market value for pleasure worker service...😂
HELL TO THE NAW! Get out of there PERMANENTLY!
#1 $100 will not buy you companionship sir unless you plan on going to an animal shelter.
The same thing happened with dd but he took my number from the app and they didn't do anything cause it was his baby mother account and car and half my food was missing
totally fine with paying a lady of the night or being a passport bro, but not a local gf/wife 🤦♀