This broke my heart. You tried and did what you could. You clearly tried so hard. And it's not your fault. I'm so very sorry that you're hurting. I hope she finds a good home.
Your love saved Grizzly and now she is getting the help she needs. Her new life is just beginning because of you, she has a chance to thrive. You are her angel. Thank you for your compassion and love.
Ariel we are so so sorry I was crying right along with you. you tried everything possibly. We are so so sorry it didn't work out she seemed like a lovely dog and a cutie. hopefully she will be happy in another place hoping that your emotional wounds will heal soon .sending you big hugs
@@FyNyth Cathy said it very well - heartbreaking, you did all you could - time heals, try again when you can. Cesar Millan - the Dog Whisperer maybe could help her at her new home.
I’m so sorry to hear that you’re without Grizzly. I can’t imagine how difficult it was to give her to one of the trainers and now you’re without a dog companion. Send you heart ♥️ ♥️❤️ & love 💕 🤗😘💗💜
Bless your gentle heart. I hope when you're healed from this situation you will allow yourself a pup, who you can train properly. I can see how painful this is for you, such a sad situation. Sending you love 💚
I have been watching some of your old videos. And this one broke my heart. I didn't know this is what happened. I am so sorry. I am so grateful she had you. Thank you so much for sharing your experience.
I'm so sorry, Ariel. It is totally understandable that you're upset about having to give her away. My personal opinion after listening to everything you tried (which was everything you possible could) is that her breed, breeding, being abandoned, being left in a shelter all conspired to cause the problems that Grizzle had. None of which is your fault and with all those things it was probably impossible for you to fix it. Hopefully, she'll be happy in her new home. I know you don't feel like you have the energy to try again BUT I'm sure in the future (maybe after you move to your own property) you might feel strong enough to try again with maybe a younger dog or even a puppy. Until then please know that you did EVERYTHING possible for Grizzle. You're a loving person and you tried, and tried and tried again. **hugs**
Fair comment. The dog used what it knew and did not want to leave you It wanted to protect you. It did not understand that the other dog was not a threat.
Awwww…..sooo sad and frustrating. I’m so sorry. We get so attached and fall in love with our pets. I know this has been a while ago now, but if you’re like me, it will always hurt. I’m sure she knows how hard you tried and how much you love her. I hope she’s doing well now. 💗
YOU certainly did all you could Ariel.....perhaps you can visit her from time to time....no blame to yourself over this......I feel your broken heart too...XOXO
You did the best you could possibly do---don't be down on yourself. Griz will always love you and you had wonderful times together. Your souls will always be entwined.
I'm so sorry, I think we all feel that way for you. You ran out of options, but you still gave her life to live. Many people would have had her put to sleep, but you gave her a chance for life somewhere else. That's love.
I know this was four years ago, but I just watched the video and that situation was heartbreaking. You’re obviously a fellow animal lover and invested everything you could to make the situation work. Losing our friends is hard, but giving her to a person she knew and trusted was a very loving gesture. Dogs have been my best friends since I got my first puppy at three years old. I’m sixty one now, and lots of dogs and other animals have left their paw prints in my heart. I’m glad you have Burley in your life and your sweet kitties. I love watching you interact so kind and gently with them. Love your channel and have learned so much from watching. ❤️
Ariel, thank you so much for sharing your story. I have had a lot of animals in my life, it's always hard when they leave. Thank you for your honesty--we LOVE your channel for the REAL element. There will be a fit for you...I've always found in my life that it's so worth the company and companionship.
Ariel, I can tell this is very hard for you as well for Grizzly. You are very brave to share this with everyone. I am sorry that you had to suffer through this tough decision to give up Grizzly. You are a very caring person to take the time to try to get help for Grizzly. Take Care.
Wow - that you found the strength to make this video shows what an awesome human being you are. A bright ray of sunshine in a somewhat dreary world is what your channel is.
You did all that you could. Sometimes nothing that you do can erase what she had been through before you got her. I am animal lover and I have taken in many cats and dogs and it's always a chance that you take.
Ariel, this was heart wrenching to watch. Please don't blame yourself...you went above and beyond to reach her. "Just a dog"...a dog is a living thing with emotions, personality and a right to life just like humans or any other living thing. Please don't let this stop you from adopting another dog, but this time I'd suggest getting a puppy. If you adopt an older dog, you don't know what went on in their lives that might surface as problems later...I'm sure your experience with Grizzly has taught you that. You gave her the best kind of love, care and home that a dog could have, but sadly her problems were too deep rooted. Please don't apologize...you can't be too emotional about this. Our pets (to many of us) are like our children. I'm so saddened by your loss. Best wishes for you.
She needed a lot of help from a lot of different people. You were one of the ones that helped her to heal. She has more challenges to face before her time is up. You were the turning point that allowed the remainder of her healing to happen, through the folks you got her in touch with. She needed those people, and you were the medium that got her there. And at the same time, she taught you, too. A part of you that had been tucked away for awhile re-surfaced. And only she could have done that for you. Love to you. It's not silly to cry over this at all. Our dogs are our family members.
What a brave video. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for letting us know how you feel, too. My son and I just had to ease the pain of our eighteen-year-old rescue dog with cancer; and so he went through the pain of loss that you are feeling. He couldn't be with her at the end due to being in another city and that hurt too. Thank you for telling us. I know nothing will ease the pain maybe not even time, so telling us was very brave of you. Thank you.
Oh Ariel, I'm so sorry that you and lovely Grizzy have had to part. No dog is ever 'just a dog', and it's clear from the photos that you and she had a marvellous time together. You did everything you could for her. Eventually your broken heart will heal, and there will come a day when another dog will be enjoying a wonderful life with you in Fy Nyth.
So sorry for all your pain, my heart goes out to you. Sometimes life throws you odd curves, but your survival becomes number one. Don't blame yourself -you gave her some good times and there is no telling why the dog reacted in that fashion.
Hi Ariel, I watched your video last night with great sadness. I, like many others here, have been following you for quite a while, always looking forward to your wonderfully informative and insightful chats. You have such a zest for life and a real pioneering spirit. The love for and from a pet companion is incomparable and when you lose that love it is almost physically painful and lasts for a very long time. I hope you have a supportive group of friends to help you through this. Sending a huge hug your way.
Ariel, As hard as it was for you to share your emotional story with everyone you still did. I honor that. You have given your dog another chance to lead a happy life. Hopefully you will hear good news about Grizzly's progress and you will be at peace knowing she's in as good a place as she can be. Thank you for sharing with us what happened.
You are beyond courageous to have shared this story and the agony that you have endured. Please keep focusing on the good-the joy that you received from this dog and the love that you were able to share with her. Because of that love, she now is in a safe place where she will continue to receive the special care that she needs. I join other commenters in the thought that trying again with a different dog and breed may be helpful and healing.
I am so sorry. It looked like everything was working out for both of you. I hope it all works for you and for Grizzly. Hugs to both of you at this time.
Ariel. I couldn't even finish watching this video. I feel so sorry for you and Grizzly...we all accepted Grizzly as yours (and ours) but life has its own ways and there's nothing we can do sometimes...i still love your content and seeing you so profoundly sorry like this is heartbreaking. Take a deep breath, look ahead and keep going, you're such fine, caring and hardworking girl. I'm sure you've done all you could. I love the way you face life. See you tomorrow. ; )
So sorry that you've had to walk this heart wrenching journey. It's hard to find our limits, especially when it breaks our heart. Prayers for the next chapters for you both.
I'm so sorry to hear this... it's a shame Grizzly had these issues. I wish I knew what to say to help out, but all I know is time heals all wounds... in time you will be able to once again open your heart to a new puppy or dog. Hopefully one that hasn't been abused like Grizzly must have once been. It's a shame that shelters don't always get the full or even vaguely true story on animals that get turned in.
I really do admire you, Ariel. You are a blessing in my life. God be with you. Thanks for sharing this. I am a relative new Subscriber and wondered where she was. You are so gentle and kind to share this. :)
Cathy, you did really good. You got her out of the shelter and you did not put her back. So basically you are the stepping stone that enabled her to have a life. She needed you to do that and you did. Now she has a chance. And maybe she will even stay with the trainer. I am a dog wisperer myself so i can confirm that we do not give dogs away to other people if they or the dog are not ready for eachother. We keep the “craziest“ or most difficult dogs ourselves. Those are the ones we love most. They are the ones who cannot be with anyone else so we keep them 😊. If the trainer gives het away, then that will be because he has found a perfect match. So in any case, you saved her!!!!!! Love to you and thanks for saving that poor dog.
So sorry Arial. Thank you for sharing the times y'all had together. Most dogs could only dream of such freedom in nature and someone who truly loves them.
Ariel, I feel heartbroken for you. What a heart wrenching/agonizing situation. You two were spirit pals. You brought joy and companionship into each other's lives. My heart goes out to you. Take a little bit of comfort knowing that you did everything possible to alleviate harm. 💜
You are such a beautiful and kind soul. You saved her from that shelter and put her on the path to a good life. I pray with time your heart heals and you are able to bring another four legged fur baby into your life. I send you hugs and many blessings. 💐😊
I lost my cat last month 2 days before my birthday. Losing her was the most traumatic thing that ever happened to me, but I thankful that she's no longer in pain. She was beautiful. I am so very sorry about your lost, peace will come.
Oh, Ariel! I am so very sorry for your loss. For many of us, our fur babies become our family and just like our own children. You did everything you possibly could. I too wish we could reach through and give you the hugs and love you so deserve. Sure, others may have greater issues, but these are yours and they are no less painful and heart rending. Now may not be the time to think about a new dog. We cant know all his hurts and what traumas befell him before coming to you, and what damage done. I hope you allow yourself to grieve and then to heal. There are so many out here that feel your pain and send their love. Feel it, Ariel.
I'm so sorry for you! Don't feel like you have to apologize for the way you're feeling. You did what you could and it's obvious you love her a lot. In the end you can say you've tried everything you could and made the right decision for her and yourself. It's heartbreaking to see you so sad. I'm sending you a big hug and hope you'll feel better soon! 😚
I've subscribed to your channel for about a year now. You're a good kind person and you gave Grizzly a very good life for as long as you could. Some dogs are hard to handle and aggressive you did the right thing getting her to another home. In a few months go online and find out what dog breeds are gentle and easy to train. Get one of those. Animals are such good company. I have had good luck with border collie mixed dogs my family has had golden retrievers that were great. I'm so sorry. It's horrible to lose a fur baby regardless of the situation.
I feel your pain darlin and I admire your resolve to fix your broken dog/family member. You gave everything you had to give. Your strength of character, your resolve, your courage in sharing your loss and suffering is admirable. I hope everyone touched by your shared life experiences gains a desire to grow their own strength until it is comparable to yours. And yeah I cried with you, I miss having a dog to love as well. Life is better with dog to share it with. Take care of your needs, heal your wounds and be well darlin.
I do feel your pain Ariel, I have gone thru a similar loss my self. Not the same situation, but none the less the feelings are the same. The bond between us and animals can be so strong. It has always amazed me how something like this can exist. Yet it does :) I wish there was more I could do for you and Bear. From what you expressed. he seems to be where he should be at this time. The trainer may work a miracle with him. I'm glad he did not become aggressive toward you. I know your situation will get better over time and I know you do too. I wish I could give you a big HUG and console you with more then just these words. HUGGGSS and More HUGGGGSS . I wish YOU better days ahead.
Thank you for sharing this Ariel I was curious why I did'nt see your dog anymore. I wish I was closer because I'd come and give you a big fatherly hug. You are a marvelous woman and you make my days better. Hang in there.
I am so sorry to hear this. It sounds like you did everything you possibly could to try and help her. I know you're grieving now. Please realize that you have done what's best for her.
I know what a loss this feels like. But you were such a wonderful dog owner and did everything in your power, exhausting every resource for her. Sounds like she is a great hands and that these people will find her the best possible new home. I am so sorry for your heartache. hugs
I never saw this video before since I’m relatively new to your channel. You should never apologize for being a loving person for a sweet old dog. Of course it was painful and sad for you! I’m a dog lover and have 2 of my own. Responsible dog owners do everything they can to help their furry kids, but sometimes it’s not possible to resolve the problem. My Martin passed away from heart failure after months of medications and treatments. We gave him as best a quality of life as we could until his breathing became extremely bad and all the meds couldn’t make it better. I admire everything you did for precious Grizzly, and made the ultimate sacrifice, putting her into a more appropriate setting to live out her last years. That’s true love. I’m happy you have your new adorable puppy now. It does take a while of grieving before one is ready to take on a new puppy. God bless you for your kindness.
That was obviously a very difficult and heart-rending situation to deal with. I'm sorry you had to contend with it, and I hope you're feeling better. It looks like your new dog has been a great help in the healing process.
It sounds like you did everything you could. It was clearly an untenable situation. I know you are grieving and my heart breaks for you. Grizzly is a wonderful dog who has some serious problems. Grizzly was a family member and when we can't live with family members it's tremendously painful. All of us who follow you are saddened I'm sure. We are here for you as best we can. Lots of love my friend.
I don’t know when you put this up, Ariel, but I share your grief. I’m a dog lover and know how awful it is to lose one of these special little souls. I’m sure Grizzly had difficult early years to have these problems. You really went more than the extra mile to try to help her, but you also gave her all the love and affection that she should’ve had from the beginning. I’m glad she has a person in the trainer to find her loving, caring people for her in her final years.
So sorry...Glade you were able to find help and is helping her. Don't be surprised if you end up with a pair of dogs...or a lot of toys...hope she get to come home.
Bless your heart...I'm so sorry you've had such a tough time. Your heart is always in the right place and you try so hard! It's not surprising that you are grieving. As a doggie-mama and one who has raised both rescues and pedigreed dogs, I can tell you that you have done everything you possibly could to help her. Don't let this experience sour you on all shelter animals, though. There are other dogs who would do really well in your environment and would be wonderful companions for you. Give yourself time to grieve and then give yourself permission to love another dog who needs a wonderful, loving home like yours...It will be worth the effort.
Thank you for sharing such a difficult thing with us. Go ahead and cry. You are going through grief. And yes, there are things that other people go through that might be "worse" but that doesn't invalidate what you are experiencing. She was a good companion for you and it's hard to lose a friend. Don't apologize for being real! I have been praying for you today that you will be comforted and find peace.
Ariel, I'm so sorry to hear of this heartbreaking situation. I wish I could reach through the screen and give you a big hug. I lost my dog (my avatar) 14 months ago, I had her almost 17 years. I said I'd never get another dog because the pain is just too deep. My heart was broken but time has healed it enough to look for another dog. Please know that your heart will heal too and in time you will find another friend. I pray you can find peace in knowing you did everything you could for Grizzly. God bless you and Grizzly.
I think your caring and love for Grizzly was enough. This small slice of compassion makes the world of difference. You have a good heart and animals recognize that. So well done young lady, well done.
Ariel, I've been watching your videos for the past 6 months or so. I'm building my own tiny home and just have been so encouraged by your videos. I also have a dog and I can only imagine the pain you're feeling right now. It's obvious though that you did everything you could and as a fellow dog owner, I know these things happen. Dogs sometimes act in inexplicable ways, and this decision you've made was probably the best decision for Grizzly's wellbeing. It's still a very sad situation, so your tears are justified. I'm not going to offer advice bc I've never been experienced that before, I can only believe that it's going to get better for you and Grizzly one day. Take care of yourself. You deserve it.
You don't have to do anything you aren't ready for when it comes to adopting a new dog. I like getting new dogs immediately but that is not for everyone. Most people wouldn't try as hard as you did for a dog. Thank you for picking an old girl to begin with and loving her enough to send her to a rehabilitating place instead if back to a shelter. You did such a wonderful thing taking her in. I hope, after time, and when you feel a little less heartbroken, this experience won't deter you from rescuing someone else. Love and prayer sent your way and hers. ❤
I am so sorry for your loss. You did everything in your power to help this pup. You made the right decision to give her up and I totally understand your pain in losing her. You are a caring, loving person .
I am so sorry Ariel... She was a lovely dog and obviously only needed one master and in her own mind was your protector ...And being left alone where she couldn't see you didn't know what was happening to you would make her crazy...You did everything you could for her more then most would and Please don't ever say she is just a dog they become as important as any family member and there are alot of us who need our dogs more then we need people in our lives some people don't get that but there are far more that do...God Bless You for everything you did for her
I'm very sorry to hear this Ariel- you deserve a lot of credit for trying so many things before giving her away. I totally understand your pain- and of course it's okay to be sad because of an animal! Hope you feel better soon 😊 Marit
I’m so sorry this happened to you and Grizzly. Unfortunately, the longer a dog lingers in a shelter is usually indicative of some kind of behavioral issue. I believe you did everything humanly possible to resolve her issues and keep her with you. I’m so sorry it didn’t work out for you. At the beginning of your story, I was sure the ending was going to be that you had to put her to to sleep and was very pleasantly surprised when that wasn’t the case. I do hope that, some day, you let another dog into your life. I wish you, and Grizzly, the best!
So sorry you had such sadness. I’m not sure that my words will help you; but, this has helped me through my years. It is the sad times that help us to enjoy the happy times. I wish for you balance, goodness and grace. I think your strength will pull you through. Texas
Whew, so very sorry. You certainly tried to be a calming influence in her life. It's good to talk and share your pain. Hopefully Grizzly will do better in the future. You will heal in time. I lost a dog in 2014; it's not the same as your situation, but it was a terrible experience. I'm sure others will share their stories. But know you have our love.
I think one of the reasons this is especially upsetting for you is because you're not the type of person to take commitments lightly. You adopted Grizzly with the best of intentions and when you love, you LOVE. Your devotion and dedication are obvious, and you've made the best decision in an impossible situation. I'm so sorry this happened. Grizzly will get the professional help she needs, and thankfully you were the one who was confronted with the situation. A different owner probably wouldn't have been that understanding or acted with such grace. I'm sending positive thoughts and vibes your way. ❤
So very sorry to hear about this. It has been such a troubling experience and you did so much more for her than many other people would have done. You had to make the right decision for her as well as yourself. I hope you find peace...you do have some brief and beautiful memories. As to getting another dog, that has to be when it works for you. It has been 14 months since my two Doxies died, 2 days apart. I finally figured it out...I wasn’t missing having a dog, I missed Cody and Miss Maggie, their antics, their playfulness. Just as you miss Grizzly. Thanks for sharing your story.
So sorry for your heartbreak. You did a brave thing taking a dog that has been in a shelter for two years. I hope it works out for Grizzly. I have a rescue dog who has a few issues she will likely never get over, but aggression is not one of them. We’ve had her three years and just got her s puppy. Whew!!! One day another dog will find you Ariel. Bless your efforts!
Heartbroken for both of you, Ariel. Thankfully, there was a safe placement for Grizzly for now . Hoping for the best for her. She was blessed to have you, someone who obviously cared so deeply for her. Stay strong. Wishing you the best, too.
Hey Ariel, Just watched this episode-such a heart wrenching situation for you-my heart goes out to you! It really sounds like you did all that you possibly could have to help Grizzly have a happy life sharing yours! I loved seeing you both so happy & your love for her was clearly shining through. I feel such sorrow for you both that even with such perseverance it just didn’t work out-must be hard to keep your inner critic at bay, you did the best you could, of that I am sure! I wish you healing, and hope that your self compassion is up way past maximum💜 Kindly, Sharlot🌟
Never apologize for being compassionate, empathetic and able to connect with another living being. You did your utmost. I sincerely hope Grizzly can find peace, trust, and love. I cannot blame her after being essentially in solitary confinement for two years, but I can't condone her behavior, either. I suspect she bit the other dog and your brother because she wanted your full, undivided attention and affection. That she was able to bond with you is somewhat of a miracle after what she went through. Hugs.
Oh gosh I'm so sorry to hear all of this, I am bawling my eyes out here!!! We''ll get through this Ariel.... Hope the other doggy is okay as well as your little brother.
I'm so sorry. Grizzly loved you and I know you love Grizzly. My prayers too you! She was protected of you, you showed her so much love! You made a wise decision. My heart goes out to you...I understand how you feel. I am a big lover as well. Get another companion, you are a loving individual.
Oh Ariel, I'm so sad with you and so know what you have gone through. I got a shelter doggy, a beautiful, young foxhound. Without going into all the details, I will say we went through much of the same thing. I spent a thousand or two trying to help our "Beverly", doing all the things you did. She finally became so aggressive in our home, protecting her food and areas in the home. She began hallucinating as well. She would follow objects(?) and look around at nothing in the house. She bit me as well. I became afraid for my daughter's safety. I finally had to have her put down. I cried all the way to the vet and for months afterwards. What a blessing that Grizzly can go on with others, you did your absolute best, far beyond what the average person would even consider doing. Since then we took in a little pug who was precious for 12 years and then we got a stray pit bull (can you believe that!) and she is a doll and has been for 4 years. Don't give up, you will heal and there is another doggy that is sweet and needs you!
Cheryl McNeely I think a little dog be good to have around my sister had two dogs that were good with kids and other animals Pomeranian and mintiure doxen sorry for mispelling phone is a pain.
You certainly did everything you could Ariel, but as you said, the situation was just untenable in the end. My old dog made about 18 before I had to call a halt - it's the hardest thing I've had to do. Hope there's someone there to give you a hug :o) x
I am so very sorry for all the other family and you have been through. You weren't told about all her problem. Again I'm sorry. May God keep you through this very difficult time. You have done all that you can!
I had a dog with anxiety issues and found like you did that they suck the life right out of you and occupy all your time. My dog's issues were a little less severe so I found a balance and we spent well over a decade together. This was a long time ago and reflecting back on it now I treasure the good times with that dog, but I would never go through it all again. Don't worry one bit about the judgment of others because it's only until you live through an ordeal like that can you know the right thing to do. You lived it and you know you made the right decision. Take some time for yourself and try to focus on the good times ahead.
You poor thing, I'm crying as I watch this. You DID try everything and it's obvious from your tears you loved her. Unfortunately, sometimes we just can't UNDUE the mess other people make of living creatures. I rescued a dog too and for the whole time I had him (he was 13 months old when I adopted him) he always flinched away from a hand coming at him to pet him. This is in now way near to what you dealt with, I only say it to show - some damage is more than we can handle it. Take comfort in knowing you didn't give up on her and just dump at some other kennel (I know people who have done this). You were a foster parent to her, a stepping stone for her to use in her recovery. You're a very sweet person Ariel.
My dog, whom I rescued from a shelter, was very aggressive to everyone and aninmals... But she was my shadow.... She was the sweetest to me but no one else. Found out from the vet that she was abused terribly. Breaks my heart thinking what her life was before me. I tried trainers and all the same thing you tried, but she still bit dogs and people. I put her down last year because she got sick with cancer... Still wish I could of saved her... I miss her everyday. I'm so sorry... I know you loved each other.
I'm so sorry to hear that. It's really hard when they love you so much. Yeah I just wish I could have had her since she was a puppy. I highly doubt there would have every been any issues. I've raised puppies, cats, chickens, turkeys, sheep, goats, cows, etc. with never an issue, but never tried to take on a fully adult animal. And I doubt I'll ever try that again personally.
So sorry about this. I also love animals, and it is very painful when you have to separate from one that proves unmanageable. Like you, I have always loved the outdoors, and all animals, and it is very difficult when you bond so closely to one, and that bond is broken. It is too easy to say, "Go out and get another dog." Yes, getting another dog is easy, but getting over the last one is hard. That is why I no longer have pets of my own - because losing them is heartbreaking, and this old heart has had enough. All the best wishes for you, and I hope you can feel better soon.
This broke my heart. You tried and did what you could. You clearly tried so hard. And it's not your fault. I'm so very sorry that you're hurting. I hope she finds a good home.
Thank you for your kindness and understanding.
Your love saved Grizzly and now she is getting the help she needs. Her new life is just beginning because of you, she has a chance to thrive. You are her angel. Thank you for your compassion and love.
Thank you for your kind words and thoughts.
Ariel we are so so sorry I was crying right along with you. you tried everything possibly. We are so so sorry it didn't work out she seemed like a lovely dog and a cutie. hopefully she will be happy in another place hoping that your emotional wounds will heal soon .sending you big hugs
Thank you for your kindness and understanding.
@@FyNyth Cathy said it very well - heartbreaking, you did all you could - time heals, try again when you can. Cesar Millan - the Dog Whisperer maybe could help her at her new home.
I’m so sorry to hear that you’re without Grizzly. I can’t imagine how difficult it was to give her to one of the trainers and now you’re without a dog companion.
Send you heart ♥️ ♥️❤️ & love 💕 🤗😘💗💜
Bless your gentle heart. I hope when you're healed from this situation you will allow yourself a pup, who you can train properly. I can see how painful this is for you, such a sad situation. Sending you love 💚
Thank you for your kindness and understanding.
I have been watching some of your old videos. And this one broke my heart. I didn't know this is what happened. I am so sorry. I am so grateful she had you. Thank you so much for sharing your experience.
I'm so sorry, Ariel. It is totally understandable that you're upset about having to give her away. My personal opinion after listening to everything you tried (which was everything you possible could) is that her breed, breeding, being abandoned, being left in a shelter all conspired to cause the problems that Grizzle had. None of which is your fault and with all those things it was probably impossible for you to fix it. Hopefully, she'll be happy in her new home. I know you don't feel like you have the energy to try again BUT I'm sure in the future (maybe after you move to your own property) you might feel strong enough to try again with maybe a younger dog or even a puppy. Until then please know that you did EVERYTHING possible for Grizzle. You're a loving person and you tried, and tried and tried again. **hugs**
Thank you for your kind words and thoughts.
Fair comment. The dog used what it knew and did not want to leave you It wanted to protect you. It did not understand that the other dog was not a threat.
Awwww…..sooo sad and frustrating. I’m so sorry. We get so attached and fall in love with our pets. I know this has been a while ago now, but if you’re like me, it will always hurt. I’m sure she knows how hard you tried and how much you love her. I hope she’s doing well now. 💗
YOU certainly did all you could Ariel.....perhaps you can visit her from time to time....no blame to yourself over this......I feel your broken heart too...XOXO
Thank you for your kindness and understanding.
This is for the best. You did all you could, and it didn't work out... and that's okay. Be kind to yourself during this period of sadness. :)
You did the best you could possibly do---don't be down on yourself. Griz will always love you and you had wonderful times together. Your souls will always be entwined.
Thank you for your kindness and understanding.
I'm so sorry, I think we all feel that way for you. You ran out of options, but you still gave her life to live. Many people would have had her put to sleep, but you gave her a chance for life somewhere else.
That's love.
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Beautifully said Daniel 👌
Aww Airel I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. You are so dear and honest about your love for Grizzly. She was very blessed to have you.
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Fy Nyth Ifeel the sadness, hope you will find another dog friend soon. You have my sympathy,love you dear.
christian sabado you are replying to my comment to Ariel. Perhaps a comment to her then she will see it.
I know this was four years ago, but I just watched the video and that situation was heartbreaking. You’re obviously a fellow animal lover and invested everything you could to make the situation work. Losing our friends is hard, but giving her to a person she knew and trusted was a very loving gesture. Dogs have been my best friends since I got my first puppy at three years old. I’m sixty one now, and lots of dogs and other animals have left their paw prints in my heart. I’m glad you have Burley in your life and your sweet kitties. I love watching you interact so kind and gently with them.
Love your channel and have learned so much from watching. ❤️
Sorry about your dog. My hearts goes out to you...God bless you.
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Ariel, thank you so much for sharing your story. I have had a lot of animals in my life, it's always hard when they leave. Thank you for your honesty--we LOVE your channel for the REAL element. There will be a fit for you...I've always found in my life that it's so worth the company and companionship.
Ariel, I can tell this is very hard for you as well for Grizzly. You are very brave to share this with everyone. I am sorry that you had to suffer through this tough decision to give up Grizzly. You are a very caring person to take the time to try to get help for Grizzly. Take Care.
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I'm so sorry it didn't work out. You did absolutely all you could... over and above what others might have done in the same situation.
Wow - that you found the strength to make this video shows what an awesome human being you are. A bright ray of sunshine in a somewhat dreary world is what your channel is.
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You did all that you could. Sometimes nothing that you do can erase what she had been through before you got her. I am animal lover and I have taken in many cats and dogs and it's always a chance that you take.
Ariel, this was heart wrenching to watch. Please don't blame yourself...you went above and beyond to reach her. "Just a dog"...a dog is a living thing with emotions, personality and a right to life just like humans or any other living thing. Please don't let this stop you from adopting another dog, but this time I'd suggest getting a puppy. If you adopt an older dog, you don't know what went on in their lives that might surface as problems later...I'm sure your experience with Grizzly has taught you that. You gave her the best kind of love, care and home that a dog could have, but sadly her problems were too deep rooted.
Please don't apologize...you can't be too emotional about this. Our pets (to many of us) are like our children.
I'm so saddened by your loss. Best wishes for you.
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She needed a lot of help from a lot of different people. You were one of the ones that helped her to heal. She has more challenges to face before her time is up. You were the turning point that allowed the remainder of her healing to happen, through the folks you got her in touch with. She needed those people, and you were the medium that got her there. And at the same time, she taught you, too. A part of you that had been tucked away for awhile re-surfaced. And only she could have done that for you. Love to you. It's not silly to cry over this at all. Our dogs are our family members.
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What a brave video. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for letting us know how you feel, too. My son and I just had to ease the pain of our eighteen-year-old rescue dog with cancer; and so he went through the pain of loss that you are feeling. He couldn't be with her at the end due to being in another city and that hurt too. Thank you for telling us. I know nothing will ease the pain maybe not even time, so telling us was very brave of you. Thank you.
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Oh Ariel, I'm so sorry that you and lovely Grizzy have had to part. No dog is ever 'just a dog', and it's clear from the photos that you and she had a marvellous time together. You did everything you could for her. Eventually your broken heart will heal, and there will come a day when another dog will be enjoying a wonderful life with you in Fy Nyth.
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So sorry for all your pain, my heart goes out to you. Sometimes life throws you odd curves, but your survival becomes number one. Don't blame yourself -you gave her some good times and there is no telling why the dog reacted in that fashion.
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Hi Ariel,
I watched your video last night with great sadness. I, like many others here, have been following you for quite a while, always looking forward to your wonderfully informative and insightful chats. You have such a zest for life and a real pioneering spirit. The love for and from a pet companion is incomparable and when you lose that love it is almost physically painful and lasts for a very long time. I hope you have a supportive group of friends to help you through this. Sending a huge hug your way.
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Ariel, As hard as it was for you to share your emotional story with everyone you still did. I honor that. You have given your dog another chance to lead a happy life. Hopefully you will hear good news about Grizzly's progress and you will be at peace knowing she's in as good a place as she can be. Thank you for sharing with us what happened.
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You are beyond courageous to have shared this story and the agony that you have endured. Please keep focusing on the good-the joy that you received from this dog and the love that you were able to share with her. Because of that love, she now is in a safe place where she will continue to receive the special care that she needs. I join other commenters in the thought that trying again with a different dog and breed may be helpful and healing.
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I am so sorry. It looked like everything was working out for both of you. I hope it all works for you and for Grizzly. Hugs to both of you at this time.
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I’m so sorry this breaks my heart for both of you. You have done what is best for her..
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So sorry. Feel your pain. Sending you hugs, you did everything you could
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Oh my gosh.... you did more than your best to support Grizzly. And you made the most loving decision to keep supporting her now. Take care Ariel.
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Ariel. I couldn't even finish watching this video. I feel so sorry for you and Grizzly...we all accepted Grizzly as yours (and ours) but life has its own ways and there's nothing we can do sometimes...i still love your content and seeing you so profoundly sorry like this is heartbreaking. Take a deep breath, look ahead and keep going, you're such fine, caring and hardworking girl. I'm sure you've done all you could. I love the way you face life. See you tomorrow. ; )
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So sorry that you've had to walk this heart wrenching journey. It's hard to find our limits, especially when it breaks our heart. Prayers for the next chapters for you both.
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I'm so sorry to hear this... it's a shame Grizzly had these issues. I wish I knew what to say to help out, but all I know is time heals all wounds... in time you will be able to once again open your heart to a new puppy or dog. Hopefully one that hasn't been abused like Grizzly must have once been. It's a shame that shelters don't always get the full or even vaguely true story on animals that get turned in.
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I really do admire you, Ariel. You are a blessing in my life. God be with you. Thanks for sharing this. I am a relative new Subscriber and wondered where she was. You are so gentle and kind to share this. :)
Aww welcome, and thank you.
I'm so sorry for the situation you are going through. It's very hard to "lose" a dog. I can totally understand. .
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Cathy, you did really good. You got her out of the shelter and you did not put her back. So basically you are the stepping stone that enabled her to have a life. She needed you to do that and you did. Now she has a chance. And maybe she will even stay with the trainer. I am a dog wisperer myself so i can confirm that we do not give dogs away to other people if they or the dog are not ready for eachother. We keep the “craziest“ or most difficult dogs ourselves. Those are the ones we love most. They are the ones who cannot be with anyone else so we keep them 😊. If the trainer gives het away, then that will be because he has found a perfect match. So in any case, you saved her!!!!!!
Love to you and thanks for saving that poor dog.
I am so sorry about Grizzly, at least you gave her every advantage. My prayers are with you!
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How painful for you too go through all of that with Grizzly! I think you did your best and that is all one can do. A big hug to you.kam
So sorry Arial. Thank you for sharing the times y'all had together. Most dogs could only dream of such freedom in nature and someone who truly loves them.
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Ariel, I feel heartbroken for you. What a heart wrenching/agonizing situation. You two were spirit pals. You brought joy and companionship into each other's lives. My heart goes out to you.
Take a little bit of comfort knowing that you did everything possible to alleviate harm. 💜
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You are such a beautiful and kind soul. You saved her from that shelter and put her on the path to a good life. I pray with time your heart heals and you are able to bring another four legged fur baby into your life. I send you hugs and many blessings. 💐😊
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I lost my cat last month 2 days before my birthday. Losing her was the most traumatic thing that ever happened to me, but I thankful that she's no longer in pain. She was beautiful. I am so very sorry about your lost, peace will come.
Oh man, I'm so sorry to hear that. Loosing a companion is always so hard.
Oh, Ariel! I am so very sorry for your loss. For many of us, our fur babies become our family and just like our own children. You did everything you possibly could. I too wish we could reach through and give you the hugs and love you so deserve. Sure, others may have greater issues, but these are yours and they are no less painful and heart rending. Now may not be the time to think about a new dog. We cant know all his hurts and what traumas befell him before coming to you, and what damage done. I hope you allow yourself to grieve and then to heal. There are so many out here that feel your pain and send their love. Feel it, Ariel.
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I'm so sorry for you! Don't feel like you have to apologize for the way you're feeling. You did what you could and it's obvious you love her a lot. In the end you can say you've tried everything you could and made the right decision for her and yourself. It's heartbreaking to see you so sad. I'm sending you a big hug and hope you'll feel better soon! 😚
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I'm so sorry, your an absolute lovely person with a big heart !!! Thank you for sharing!!!!🤗♥️♥️♥️
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I've subscribed to your channel for about a year now. You're a good kind person and you gave Grizzly a very good life for as long as you could. Some dogs are hard to handle and aggressive you did the right thing getting her to another home. In a few months go online and find out what dog breeds are gentle and easy to train. Get one of those. Animals are such good company. I have had good luck with border collie mixed dogs my family has had golden retrievers that were great. I'm so sorry. It's horrible to lose a fur baby regardless of the situation.
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I feel your pain darlin and I admire your resolve to fix your broken dog/family member. You gave everything you had to give. Your strength of character, your resolve, your courage in sharing your loss and suffering is admirable. I hope everyone touched by your shared life experiences gains a desire to grow their own strength until it is comparable to yours. And yeah I cried with you, I miss having a dog to love as well. Life is better with dog to share it with. Take care of your needs, heal your wounds and be well darlin.
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I do feel your pain Ariel, I have gone thru a similar loss my self. Not the same situation, but none the less the feelings are the same. The bond between us and animals can be so strong. It has always amazed me how something like this can exist. Yet it does :) I wish there was more I could do for you and Bear. From what you expressed. he seems to be where he should be at this time. The trainer may work a miracle with him. I'm glad he did not become aggressive toward you. I know your situation will get better over time and I know you do too. I wish I could give you a big HUG and console you with more then just these words. HUGGGSS and More HUGGGGSS . I wish YOU better days ahead.
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Thank you for sharing this Ariel I was curious why I did'nt see your dog anymore. I wish I was closer because I'd come and give you a big fatherly hug. You are a marvelous woman and you make my days better. Hang in there.
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I am so sorry to hear this. It sounds like you did everything you possibly could to try and help her. I know you're grieving now. Please realize that you have done what's best for her.
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I know what a loss this feels like. But you were such a wonderful dog owner and did everything in your power, exhausting every resource for her. Sounds like she is a great hands and that these people will find her the best possible new home. I am so sorry for your heartache. hugs
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I'm very sad that you are in such pain. You are a very gentle, loving and caring soul. May the peace of God be with you.
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I never saw this video before since I’m relatively new to your channel. You should never apologize for being a loving person for a sweet old dog. Of course it was painful and sad for you! I’m a dog lover and have 2 of my own. Responsible dog owners do everything they can to help their furry kids, but sometimes it’s not possible to resolve the problem. My Martin passed away from heart failure after months of medications and treatments. We gave him as best a quality of life as we could until his breathing became extremely bad and all the meds couldn’t make it better. I admire everything you did for precious Grizzly, and made the ultimate sacrifice, putting her into a more appropriate setting to live out her last years. That’s true love. I’m happy you have your new adorable puppy now. It does take a while of grieving before one is ready to take on a new puppy. God bless you for your kindness.
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I’m so sorry , thank you for sharing, thanks for all you do .
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That was obviously a very difficult and heart-rending situation to deal with. I'm sorry you had to contend with it, and I hope you're feeling better. It looks like your new dog has been a great help in the healing process.
It sounds like you did everything you could. It was clearly an untenable situation. I know you are grieving and my heart breaks for you. Grizzly is a wonderful dog who has some serious problems. Grizzly was a family member and when we can't live with family members it's tremendously painful. All of us who follow you are saddened I'm sure. We are here for you as best we can. Lots of love my friend.
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I don’t know when you put this up, Ariel, but I share your grief. I’m a dog lover and know how awful it is to lose one of these special little souls. I’m sure Grizzly had difficult early years to have these problems. You really went more than the extra mile to try to help her, but you also gave her all the love and affection that she should’ve had from the beginning. I’m glad she has a person in the trainer to find her loving, caring people for her in her final years.
So sorry...Glade you were able to find help and is helping her. Don't be surprised if you end up with a pair of dogs...or a lot of toys...hope she get to come home.
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Bless your heart...I'm so sorry you've had such a tough time. Your heart is always in the right place and you try so hard! It's not surprising that you are grieving. As a doggie-mama and one who has raised both rescues and pedigreed dogs, I can tell you that you have done everything you possibly could to help her. Don't let this experience sour you on all shelter animals, though. There are other dogs who would do really well in your environment and would be wonderful companions for you. Give yourself time to grieve and then give yourself permission to love another dog who needs a wonderful, loving home like yours...It will be worth the effort.
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Ariel, you did everything you could. I'm sorry things didn't work out. Sending you Enormous Hugs ....
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Thank you for sharing such a difficult thing with us. Go ahead and cry. You are going through grief. And yes, there are things that other people go through that might be "worse" but that doesn't invalidate what you are experiencing. She was a good companion for you and it's hard to lose a friend. Don't apologize for being real! I have been praying for you today that you will be comforted and find peace.
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Ariel, I'm so sorry to hear of this heartbreaking situation. I wish I could reach through the screen and give you a big hug. I lost my dog (my avatar) 14 months ago, I had her almost 17 years. I said I'd never get another dog because the pain is just too deep. My heart was broken but time has healed it enough to look for another dog. Please know that your heart will heal too and in time you will find another friend. I pray you can find peace in knowing you did everything you could for Grizzly. God bless you and Grizzly.
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I think your caring and love for Grizzly was enough. This small slice of compassion makes the world of difference. You have a good heart and animals recognize that. So well done young lady, well done.
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You have my sympathies, Ariel. All the best to you moving forward!
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Ariel, I've been watching your videos for the past 6 months or so. I'm building my own tiny home and just have been so encouraged by your videos. I also have a dog and I can only imagine the pain you're feeling right now. It's obvious though that you did everything you could and as a fellow dog owner, I know these things happen. Dogs sometimes act in inexplicable ways, and this decision you've made was probably the best decision for Grizzly's wellbeing. It's still a very sad situation, so your tears are justified. I'm not going to offer advice bc I've never been experienced that before, I can only believe that it's going to get better for you and Grizzly one day. Take care of yourself. You deserve it.
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Oh, I am so sorry for your pain and sadness. You did all you could and have found her a safe place to live. Sending you sympathy and hugs, Yvonne
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You don't have to do anything you aren't ready for when it comes to adopting a new dog. I like getting new dogs immediately but that is not for everyone. Most people wouldn't try as hard as you did for a dog. Thank you for picking an old girl to begin with and loving her enough to send her to a rehabilitating place instead if back to a shelter. You did such a wonderful thing taking her in. I hope, after time, and when you feel a little less heartbroken, this experience won't deter you from rescuing someone else. Love and prayer sent your way and hers. ❤
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Oh Ariel....big hug!!!!
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I am so sorry for your loss. You did everything in your power to help this pup. You made the right decision to give her up and I totally understand your pain in losing her. You are a caring, loving person .
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I am so sorry Ariel... She was a lovely dog and obviously only needed one master and in her own mind was your protector ...And being left alone where she couldn't see you didn't know what was happening to you would make her crazy...You did everything you could for her more then most would and Please don't ever say she is just a dog they become as important as any family member and there are alot of us who need our dogs more then we need people in our lives some people don't get that but there are far more that do...God Bless You for everything you did for her
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I'm very sorry to hear this Ariel- you deserve a lot of credit for trying so many things
before giving her away. I totally understand your pain- and of course it's okay to be sad because of an animal! Hope you feel better soon 😊 Marit
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I’m so sorry this happened to you and Grizzly. Unfortunately, the longer a dog lingers in a shelter is usually indicative of some kind of behavioral issue. I believe you did everything humanly possible to resolve her issues and keep her with you. I’m so sorry it didn’t work out for you. At the beginning of your story, I was sure the ending was going to be that you had to put her to to sleep and was very pleasantly surprised when that wasn’t the case. I do hope that, some day, you let another dog into your life. I wish you, and Grizzly, the best!
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So sorry you had such sadness. I’m not sure that my words will help you; but, this has helped me through my years. It is the sad times that help us to enjoy the happy times. I wish for you balance, goodness and grace. I think your strength will pull you through. Texas
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Honey. You gave her a wonderful life that she will always remember. You were an angel for her and she brought joy to us as well. We'll all miss Gris.
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Whew, so very sorry. You certainly tried to be a calming influence in her life. It's good to talk and share your pain. Hopefully Grizzly will do better in the future. You will heal in time. I lost a dog in 2014; it's not the same as your situation, but it was a terrible experience. I'm sure others will share their stories. But know you have our love.
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I think one of the reasons this is especially upsetting for you is because you're not the type of person to take commitments lightly. You adopted Grizzly with the best of intentions and when you love, you LOVE. Your devotion and dedication are obvious, and you've made the best decision in an impossible situation. I'm so sorry this happened. Grizzly will get the professional help she needs, and thankfully you were the one who was confronted with the situation. A different owner probably wouldn't have been that understanding or acted with such grace. I'm sending positive thoughts and vibes your way. ❤
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Samanther this is a lovely thing to say. xx
So very sorry to hear about this. It has been such a troubling experience and you did so much more for her than many other people would have done. You had to make the right decision for her as well as yourself. I hope you find peace...you do have some brief and beautiful memories.
As to getting another dog, that has to be when it works for you. It has been 14 months since my two Doxies died, 2 days apart. I finally figured it out...I wasn’t missing having a dog, I missed Cody and Miss Maggie, their antics, their playfulness. Just as you miss Grizzly.
Thanks for sharing your story.
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=/ sorry about the outcome but you did the right thing. Remember the times you had and cherish them
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So sorry for your heartbreak. You did a brave thing taking a dog that has been in a shelter for two years. I hope it works out for Grizzly. I have a rescue dog who has a few issues she will likely never get over, but aggression is not one of them. We’ve had her three years and just got her s puppy. Whew!!!
One day another dog will find you Ariel. Bless your efforts!
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Heartbroken for both of you, Ariel. Thankfully, there was a safe placement for Grizzly for now . Hoping for the best for her. She was blessed to have you, someone who obviously cared so deeply for her. Stay strong. Wishing you the best, too.
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Awe, I can't even finish watching this. I feel your sadness for everyone involved. I hope this doesn't change your heart. TFS and God Bless.
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my dog is my best friend and just listening to this breaks my heart...Not sure what to say but I’m sorry. Hope your not too lonely without her.
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Hey Ariel,
Just watched this episode-such a heart wrenching situation for you-my heart goes out to you!
It really sounds like you did all that you possibly could have to help Grizzly have a happy life sharing yours! I loved seeing you both so happy & your love for her was clearly shining through.
I feel such sorrow for you both that even with such perseverance it just didn’t work out-must be hard to keep your inner critic at bay, you did the best you could, of that I am sure!
I wish you healing, and hope that your self compassion is up way past maximum💜
Kindly,
Sharlot🌟
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Never apologize for being compassionate, empathetic and able to connect with another living being. You did your utmost.
I sincerely hope Grizzly can find peace, trust, and love. I cannot blame her after being essentially in solitary confinement for two years, but I can't condone her behavior, either. I suspect she bit the other dog and your brother because she wanted your full, undivided attention and affection. That she was able to bond with you is somewhat of a miracle after what she went through.
Hugs.
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Oh gosh I'm so sorry to hear all of this, I am bawling my eyes out here!!! We''ll get through this Ariel.... Hope the other doggy is okay as well as your little brother.
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I'm so sorry. Grizzly loved you and I know you love Grizzly. My prayers too you! She was protected of you, you showed her so much love! You made a wise decision. My heart goes out to you...I understand how you feel. I am a big lover as well. Get another companion, you are a loving individual.
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Ariel thank you for sharing. I hope comfort comes to your heart soon. Praying for you always.
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Oh Ariel, I'm so sad with you and so know what you have gone through. I got a shelter doggy, a beautiful, young foxhound. Without going into all the details, I will say we went through much of the same thing. I spent a thousand or two trying to help our "Beverly", doing all the things you did. She finally became so aggressive in our home, protecting her food and areas in the home. She began hallucinating as well. She would follow objects(?) and look around at nothing in the house. She bit me as well. I became afraid for my daughter's safety. I finally had to have her put down. I cried all the way to the vet and for months afterwards. What a blessing that Grizzly can go on with others, you did your absolute best, far beyond what the average person would even consider doing.
Since then we took in a little pug who was precious for 12 years and then we got a stray pit bull (can you believe that!) and she is a doll and has been for 4 years. Don't give up, you will heal and there is another doggy that is sweet and needs you!
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Cheryl McNeely I think a little dog be good to have around my sister had two dogs that were good with kids and other animals Pomeranian and mintiure doxen sorry for mispelling phone is a pain.
You're an incredibly sweet person, with a giant heart. I hope all the love you feel is reciprocated back into your life.
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You certainly did everything you could Ariel, but as you said, the situation was just untenable in the end. My old dog made about 18 before I had to call a halt - it's the hardest thing I've had to do. Hope there's someone there to give you a hug :o) x
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Once again, a video that I had not viewed. I'm so sorry you went through this pain. You are such a kind person.
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So sorry to hear but you tried your absolute best and did all the right things. Take care :)
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I am so very sorry for all the other family and you have been through. You weren't told about all her problem. Again I'm sorry. May God keep you through this very difficult time. You have done all that you can!
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I had a dog with anxiety issues and found like you did that they suck the life right out of you and occupy all your time. My dog's issues were a little less severe so I found a balance and we spent well over a decade together. This was a long time ago and reflecting back on it now I treasure the good times with that dog, but I would never go through it all again. Don't worry one bit about the judgment of others because it's only until you live through an ordeal like that can you know the right thing to do. You lived it and you know you made the right decision. Take some time for yourself and try to focus on the good times ahead.
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Ariel, I'm so very sorry! Sometimes you do everything right, and there is just nothing you can do! Hugs! My heart is with you!
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Ariel I'm so sorry for you and Grizzley...I pray peace and comfort for you both..you did your best for her
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You poor thing, I'm crying as I watch this. You DID try everything and it's obvious from your tears you loved her. Unfortunately, sometimes we just can't UNDUE the mess other people make of living creatures. I rescued a dog too and for the whole time I had him (he was 13 months old when I adopted him) he always flinched away from a hand coming at him to pet him. This is in now way near to what you dealt with, I only say it to show - some damage is more than we can handle it. Take comfort in knowing you didn't give up on her and just dump at some other kennel (I know people who have done this). You were a foster parent to her, a stepping stone for her to use in her recovery. You're a very sweet person Ariel.
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My dog, whom I rescued from a shelter, was very aggressive to everyone and aninmals... But she was my shadow.... She was the sweetest to me but no one else. Found out from the vet that she was abused terribly. Breaks my heart thinking what her life was before me. I tried trainers and all the same thing you tried, but she still bit dogs and people. I put her down last year because she got sick with cancer... Still wish I could of saved her... I miss her everyday. I'm so sorry... I know you loved each other.
I'm so sorry to hear that. It's really hard when they love you so much. Yeah I just wish I could have had her since she was a puppy. I highly doubt there would have every been any issues. I've raised puppies, cats, chickens, turkeys, sheep, goats, cows, etc. with never an issue, but never tried to take on a fully adult animal. And I doubt I'll ever try that again personally.
So sorry about this. I also love animals, and it is very painful when you have to separate from one that proves unmanageable. Like you, I have always loved the outdoors, and all animals, and it is very difficult when you bond so closely to one, and that bond is broken. It is too easy to say, "Go out and get another dog." Yes, getting another dog is easy, but getting over the last one is hard. That is why I no longer have pets of my own - because losing them is heartbreaking, and this old heart has had enough. All the best wishes for you, and I hope you can feel better soon.
Thank you for your kindness and understanding.