Good for you, sister. I'm surprised you put up with him this long. Should never have those kids. Poor kids. There is no forgive or forget especially for Hmong men. They feel they are entitled. Once you crossed the line, there is no turning back.
What both you and your ex-husband did was wrong---he for starting it, and you for revenge. Your mistake was not divorcing him after that first time he called you a maumdev. He maliciously called you that all the while ignoring the fact that he was txivdev first (in other words, he doesn't see what he did to be wrong, but sees what you did to be the ultimate wrong). It was a HUGE red flag that he was never going to let it go and would continue to degrade you every chance he gets.
Es nws twb yog niag txiv dev thiab es nws thiaj mus deev pog khej dawb ne. Nws hu koj maum dev ces koj hu nws ua niag txiv dev thiab seb nws ho.puas nyiam lub npe ntawd os.
2 wrongs don’t make it right. The best revenge you could have done was leave and find another man. Now you can’t say that you didn’t do wrong. I rather be the righteous one and just leave.
Poj niam thiab txiv neej lub siab zoo tsis sib xws. Yog nkawv ua sib pauj li no ces tus poj niam yog tus ris rawv tus txiv txoj kev tsawm tag ib sim neej. Thiab tus poj niam tab tom ua tsuas nws lub neej rov tom ntej xwb. Poj niam deev taus tus txiv neej twg lawm ces nws yuav taus tus ntawv ntag, tab sis txiv neej deev taus yuav tsis taus vim nws tsuas ua si nkaus xwb. Ib tug txiv neej twg tus poj niam deev hluas tas lawm los nws tseem yuav no ces nws yug los yog neeg, tab sis nws siab ntsws yog tsiaj nkaus xwb.
When a spouse have affair it creates a distrust within the marriage, it is best to divorce and move on, once you get caught. I am glad you are smart to divorce the moron and live in peace.
Txog kev ua sib sib hlub na lis tes laug hais yuav kab tsis tau laug no más cev yog nej xwb mog. Ua neej nyob koj ua phem rau kuv et kuv rov ua pau rau koj no ces kev hlub ces tag lawm xwb mog. Yog siab deg no más thiab rov los nyob tau ua kev tau lawm xwb ....mog.
Koj ua yog lawm os kuv ntshe yuav tau ua li koj thiab thiaj dim ho kuv uv los tau 10 xyoo lawm tiag nws hais tias kuv tsis tuag ces txoj kev nws tsim kuv yeej tsis tag no
Love your cheating story sis. We're all have different mind set and perspective. To me it doesn't matter man or woman, the majority of us will never forget and will never forgive either.
Txiv neej hmoob ces yog ib co siab phem tshaj plaws txhua txhia hais txiv neej vim nws xav kom nws tau noj ntau tau txhua yam ho pojniam ces khee nws qub xwb.
Yog tias twb ua sib pauj tag es tsi kam zam txim li ces sib nrauj nyias mus nyias xwb tseem yuav nyob uake tsi muaj kev hlub na tus niam tsev aw...nco ntsoov yog mus ua sib pauj lawm ces txhob rov qab sib yuav nawb.
never do things just because someone has wronged you...your character should never be compromised due to other people's action. if you know you cant get over it, then you just need to remove yourself from the situation.
Agree 💯 %I been there I know how you feel! Nrauj los zoo mas niag neeg lim hiam li ko nyob los twb niaj hnub rau tsim rov qab yuav los ntshe yuav mag tua tuag ib hnub twg thiab os!
Peb cov txiv Neej siab yeej me tshaj nej cov poj niam. Peb yeej zaam tsi tau txim li nawb. Peb Lam hai tias zam txim tab sis peb dag xwb ov. Once you get caught, it’s better to leave.
Ua cas yus tau zoo nyob g nyob tseem yuav mus ua pauj ces kawg tau ev lub npe maum dev xwb mas. Thaum g tau muaj me nyuam tsim nyog nrauj mus zoo tshaj os. Txiv neej mas g muaj hnub lawv zam txim rau poj niam nawb. Kawg tus tshiab lm xwb os.
HMONG MEN, OKAY FOR THEM TO CHEAT AND EXPECT US TO FORGIVE. BUT IF WE DO IT THEN OH IT IS THE END OF THE WORLD. SISTER DIVORCE HIM, THIS IS A LOVELESS MARRIAGE. MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND NO NEED TO PUT UP WITH HIS BS.
Hmong people can only do it to their own kind. Sue your own people but go cricket on the other kind. If you can’t implement the law on all, don’t have it all. Plus, don’t ever listen to the ogies about giving your cheating spouse a kid. That’s the dumbest reason.
Both parties are emotionally immature. Revenge cheating makes one look no better than the cheater. Idk why most of you Hmong women don’t take the high road to leave the cheaters and let the new woman take over your problems. Y’all love to add more drama to the problem. Majority of your headaches are preventable if you don’t care about ppl’s judgment on divorced women in the community and leave the loser be and let them suffer in their own mess. I know that it’s easier said then done, but some of you Hmong women love the drama and are willing to sacrifice your peace for it. Smdh
Peb Hmoob txoj kev coj tsis zoo li lwm haiv vim ib haiv neeg nyias muaj nyias txoj kev coj noj coj ua yog tus poj niam twg ua paun nws tus txiv li tus niam tsev ntawd ces yeej tsum nyog tau lub npe' md '. Yog leej twg muab luag txoj kev coj los siv rau nws ces 90% lub neej kawg puas, yog tau hom txiv neej twg tsis pub 100% mas thiaj rov qab yuav xwb hos cov pub 100% ces yog tsis muab nrauj ces lam khaws cia tau so taw thiab yuav raug kev lej siab tas mus lub neej xwb.
2 wrongs don’t make 1 right but of course in the narrow minds of Hmong people and especially hmong men, when a man cheats, it’s “okay” but when a woman cheats all hell breaks loose smh 🤦🏻♀️ no justification at all… but it doesn’t matter who start it, if you can’t forgive him in the first place then you should’ve just left him so you wouldn’t have to carry this name as a cheater later on too 🤷🏻♀️
If your husband cheats and you can’t marry him, divorce him before you cheat. Once you cheated and still marry him, he will only torture you to the end.
When a relationship is already at the point where there is no trust and disrespect all the time from your partner. There is no point of being together anymore.
He’s a txiv dev himself. Idk why you put up with it. If you cheated you should have just left because men thinks they are entitled to everything. Only they can do it, but when women do it it’s the end of the world.
They get married pay nothing but when not agree each other they got free too. Yog nej xav Tau qhov right ces nej nyiam tus tub/ txiv neej twg ces nej mus yuav es nej ho kuj pe tog niam txiv ntawm tus tub tod xwb ces nej yeej muaj cai mus deev hluas nej tus txiv hais tsis tau nej vim yog nej muab nyiaj mus yuav nws los ces Tau poj niam puav pw dawn txawm tias poj niam mus deev hluas los ok, not question no problem, equal right. Right right right and right!. That what I thinking.
Hmoob people including some wives too thinking that only the men can be the ones who can and have the right to cheat. It is so wrong. I believe in eye for an eye!!! Tooth for a tooth. You did the right thing to look for some sugar outside too then if the marriage does not work out then just divorce his @$$ before he do it to you.
Yuav kom cov poj niam yeej txoj cai no mas nej yuav tsum koom siab vote kom yeej es yog nej nyiam tus txiv neej twg ces nej muab nyiaj mus them nej tus txiv niam thiab txiv es coj lawv tus tub uas yog nej tus txiv los nrog nej nyob ces nej yeej muaj txoj cai mus deev hluas nraug los txoj cai equal right for both men and women. Not for all but only apply to our culture not for American society. They have their own right and culture.
Hais rau tus niam tsev tias yog koj ua paj ces Seb yog koj tus yuav koj es them nyiaj rau niam tais yawm txiv los yog koj mus yuav koj tus txiv es koj them nyiaj rau niam Pog txiv yawg?
Sis you wrong girl. We don't need to put up with a cheater. You did not play it right. If you got caught you should have divorced. You were asking to get mistreated. A dawg is always a dawg if he cheats in a marriage and you do too well then leave him while you have no kids. Please don't think getting even will make him care your youth will die when he is 60 and secretly flying to LAOS. Glad you eventually left and found a new lover.
Tsis khe khe lub Npe maum dev lis os. Yus ua rau yus xwb twb tsis yog leej twg tus maum dev na. Thiab koj ruam zog lawm koj tseem cia lawv muab koj tus hluas nraug nplua thiab. Yog kuv ces yeej tsis pub npluas lis. Tseem nplua thiab ces nrauj kiag ces nws ntshai ces kawg cia lis xwb los mas.
Vivncaus aw vim peb cov poj niam siab loj dua es yog lawv tuaj yuav yus thiab ces yog koj ruam es ua pauj ces kawg khaws tau dawb xwb tiag...Yeej tsim nyog tau lub npe maum dev kawg nkaus li poj hmoob ruam aw...Ruam kawg nkaus los tseem mus ua pauj thiab hehehe Lawv yeej tsi hlub yus ti txa lawm nawb hmoob aw...Vim yus yeej coj tau tsi zoo lawm ces kawg maum dev yuav nrog koj nyob mus txog hnub koj tuag li poj hmoob aw...peb muaj ib niag ntxhais es noj kam thiab ces hniaj hnub niam no los niag vauv yeej tseem hais some los khaws tau xwb tsi tag li nws muaj tub muaj nyab lawm los tseem tau lub npe nrog yus ib simmneej li os.
He call you a maum dev then you call him a txiv dev xwb mas! It will irritate the crap out of him that he'll stop....eventually. Tsis mob siab li os sister aws..txiv neej ces yeej tsis sawv zoo. Yog nws hais lus zoo ces koj hais lus zoo. Yog nws hais lus dev ces koj kawg hais lus dev rau nws xwb..tsis kk li os.
Koj yog maum dev los nws twb yog txiv dev ne!!!! Yog koj xwb os thiab tsheem yuav tus txiv dev ko! Yog yus tus pojniam ua yus zam tsis tau ces yus txhob xub ua zoo dua. Tus txaum yog tus txiv os, poj niam ua yog muaj yus tus ua txiv cob ne! I would have divorced him for putting that insecurity in me forever. Like you say, it will never be the same anymore. Should’ve never stayed together after what he did.
Nope, koj niag txiv Dev ko thiaj phem xwb. Lwm tus txiv tsev tsis coj li koj niag. Lawv muaj kev zam txim vim lawv xub ua. Thiab koj ruam2 es koj thiaj wv nws los laus li ko thiab
Yeap! you women know us men less. LOL. Once you decide to do, be prepared to leave and not try to work it out again. Same goes for the guys, stop being a wussy too.
Koj twb lees ua maum dev 1 zaug lawm ces koj yeej yog maum dev. Koj tseem yuav tsim txiaj npaum li cas los luag yeej tsis qhuas koj vim koj tau ua lawm ne.
Lol yog lawm lo koj hais yog lawm nws niag txiv yog tus txiv dev loj tshaj plaws ua ntej tab sis nws ho tsis lees. Nws yog maum dev li koj hais tab sis nws twb ho lees lawm. Twb niam tsev no thiaj li muaj peev xwm tshaj.
I would have done the same if my husband cheated on me, an eye for an eye 😆 🤣 😂
Then you'll be called a modae 4 life! Lol 😆
Good for you, sister. I'm surprised you put up with him this long. Should never have those kids. Poor kids. There is no forgive or forget especially for Hmong men.
They feel they are entitled. Once you crossed the line, there is no turning back.
One you cheat back the relationship was doomed. Should have just divorced and have kids with new husband.
You did everything right. Dont feel bad sis.
What both you and your ex-husband did was wrong---he for starting it, and you for revenge. Your mistake was not divorcing him after that first time he called you a maumdev. He maliciously called you that all the while ignoring the fact that he was txivdev first (in other words, he doesn't see what he did to be wrong, but sees what you did to be the ultimate wrong). It was a HUGE red flag that he was never going to let it go and would continue to degrade you every chance he gets.
Revenge will never end. You both were so toxic. Better to be divorced.
Cheaters can't take it when their poison is dished back to them. May you both find love again.
Es nws twb yog niag txiv dev thiab es nws thiaj mus deev pog khej dawb ne. Nws hu koj maum dev ces koj hu nws ua niag txiv dev thiab seb nws ho.puas nyiam lub npe ntawd os.
2 wrongs don’t make it right. The best revenge you could have done was leave and find another man. Now you can’t say that you didn’t do wrong. I rather be the righteous one and just leave.
Poj niam thiab txiv neej lub siab zoo tsis sib xws. Yog nkawv ua sib pauj li no ces tus poj niam yog tus ris rawv tus txiv txoj kev tsawm tag ib sim neej. Thiab tus poj niam tab tom ua tsuas nws lub neej rov tom ntej xwb. Poj niam deev taus tus txiv neej twg lawm ces nws yuav taus tus ntawv ntag, tab sis txiv neej deev taus yuav tsis taus vim nws tsuas ua si nkaus xwb. Ib tug txiv neej twg tus poj niam deev hluas tas lawm los nws tseem yuav no ces nws yug los yog neeg, tab sis nws siab ntsws yog tsiaj nkaus xwb.
Cov poj niam hmoob es mus deev hluas nraug tag ces tsis zoo yuav lawm nawb cov kwv tij hmoob aw...
Girl! You did good! I would have done the same thing! But I would never allow them to charge my bf.
when one person cheated, divorce is the best solution... any continuation will just cause more harm.
two wrongs do not make it right. Follow your morals, values and principals. Vengeance only lead to what happened to your life.
When a spouse have affair it creates a distrust within the marriage, it is best to divorce and move on, once you get caught. I am glad you are smart to divorce the moron and live in peace.
Txhua xeem Hmoob txhua tiam neej ntawm txhua zaus thiab txhua lub sij hawm ces:
Yeej cam tsis YEEJ lawv lub MAV TAIS TSWV YIM QAUJ thiab lub qhov ncauj tawg ua THAWD tha, THAWD tha thiab PLAWD PLA, PLAWD PLA... Uas YOG ncauj puam suav khawd, tes-taw tuag zawd xwb os!
Hmoob lub neej ces YOG TXHUA lo lus tawm hauv Hmoob lub neej thiab QHOV NCAUJ ces PUAD leej YOG tas nrho 100%!
Glad you divorced your cheating evil ex. Lived in peace is better than getting torment for every little accusations that’s not true n name calling.
Zoo qhov koj nrauj os vim nws tsis pom qhov nws ua koj mob
Txog kev ua sib sib hlub na lis tes laug hais yuav kab tsis tau laug no más cev yog nej xwb mog.
Ua neej nyob koj ua phem rau kuv et kuv rov ua pau rau koj no ces kev hlub ces tag lawm xwb mog.
Yog siab deg no más thiab rov los nyob tau ua kev tau lawm xwb ....mog.
Nraug pov tseg zoo dua nyob los tsis zoo lawm
You did nothing wrong sister, he got what should of happened a long time ago. Glad you had the strength to leave that verbal abuse, it's not healthy.
Ua neeg nyob nyias yuav tsum pom nyias qhov txhaum thiaj sib zam tau txim os
Koj ua yog lawm os kuv ntshe yuav tau ua li koj thiab thiaj dim ho kuv uv los tau 10 xyoo lawm tiag nws hais tias kuv tsis tuag ces txoj kev nws tsim kuv yeej tsis tag no
Love your cheating story sis. We're all have different mind set and perspective. To me it doesn't matter man or woman, the majority of us will never forget and will never forgive either.
Txiv neej hmoob ces yog ib co siab phem tshaj plaws txhua txhia hais txiv neej vim nws xav kom nws tau noj ntau tau txhua yam ho pojniam ces khee nws qub xwb.
Yog tias twb ua sib pauj tag es tsi kam zam txim li ces sib nrauj nyias mus nyias xwb tseem yuav nyob uake tsi muaj kev hlub na tus niam tsev aw...nco ntsoov yog mus ua sib pauj lawm ces txhob rov qab sib yuav nawb.
never do things just because someone has wronged you...your character should never be compromised due to other people's action. if you know you cant get over it, then you just need to remove yourself from the situation.
Agree 💯 %I been there I know how you feel! Nrauj los zoo mas niag neeg lim hiam li ko nyob los twb niaj hnub rau tsim rov qab yuav los ntshe yuav mag tua tuag ib hnub twg thiab os!
Peb cov txiv Neej siab yeej me tshaj nej cov poj niam. Peb yeej zaam tsi tau txim li nawb. Peb Lam hai tias zam txim tab sis peb dag xwb ov. Once you get caught, it’s better to leave.
Ooooooooooooopooopooooooooooooo
Ua cas yus tau zoo nyob g nyob tseem yuav mus ua pauj ces kawg tau ev lub npe maum dev xwb mas. Thaum g tau muaj me nyuam tsim nyog nrauj mus zoo tshaj os. Txiv neej mas g muaj hnub lawv zam txim rau poj niam nawb. Kawg tus tshiab lm xwb os.
Txiv neej mas zoo nws ua xwb ov .
HMONG MEN, OKAY FOR THEM TO CHEAT AND EXPECT US TO FORGIVE. BUT IF WE DO IT THEN OH IT IS THE END OF THE WORLD. SISTER DIVORCE HIM, THIS IS A LOVELESS MARRIAGE. MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND NO NEED TO PUT UP WITH HIS BS.
This story is so true of most hmong men. Should of divorce him when he cheated or when you did, when there was no kids.
Peb pj nam yog txiav txim siab deev hluas nraug ces yuav tsum nraug xwb txhob yuav lawm yuav los lawm tsum yus xwb
We as women need to teach our sons better for the future generation of women.
Qhia npaj rau nej cov poj niam tias yog deev hluas lawm ce 95%ntawm peb cov txiv neej ce qhov ntawv yeej mob lub qwv rau Nruab siab yeej zam tsi tau txim lawm
Hmong people can only do it to their own kind. Sue your own people but go cricket on the other kind. If you can’t implement the law on all, don’t have it all. Plus, don’t ever listen to the ogies about giving your cheating spouse a kid. That’s the dumbest reason.
This is probably my favorite, way to go sister! I would have done the same thing but leave him when he caught me cheating.
Ntseeg tsis tau koj lawm nawb.........
This is my opinion only if any lady not happy and think that I was wrong go contact your family leader he will explain more details.
Both parties are emotionally immature. Revenge cheating makes one look no better than the cheater. Idk why most of you Hmong women don’t take the high road to leave the cheaters and let the new woman take over your problems. Y’all love to add more drama to the problem. Majority of your headaches are preventable if you don’t care about ppl’s judgment on divorced women in the community and leave the loser be and let them suffer in their own mess. I know that it’s easier said then done, but some of you Hmong women love the drama and are willing to sacrifice your peace for it. Smdh
Peb Hmoob txoj kev coj tsis zoo li lwm haiv vim ib haiv neeg nyias muaj nyias txoj kev coj noj coj ua yog tus poj niam twg ua paun nws tus txiv li tus niam tsev ntawd ces yeej tsum nyog tau lub npe' md '.
Yog leej twg muab luag txoj kev coj los siv rau nws ces 90% lub neej kawg puas, yog tau hom txiv neej twg tsis pub 100% mas thiaj rov qab yuav xwb hos cov pub 100% ces yog tsis muab nrauj ces lam khaws cia tau so taw thiab yuav raug kev lej siab tas mus lub neej xwb.
Ua cas koj tsis Kom koj niag txiv niag hluas nkauj kho koj thiab.
C9v niag txiv tshob cuab quav dev qias neeg ntawd li ntawd txhob nyob nkim yus lub neej nrog nws...vim nws txoj kev xav yeej tsis huv ...mus tag tiam no...kav tsij ntxov nrauj ntxov Kaj siab poj hmoob e
Raw lis kuv paub los lus hai tsis yog tswb nyeej yog cib nyeej no.
Girl! Koj yuav tsum paub tias txiv neej hmoob tsis muaj kub zam txim. Thaum koj tseem zoo twb tsis tau ua Dab tsi es nws twb tsis hlub koj nws thiaj mus cheat on koj na. Thaum koj mus ua pauj kiag lawm thiab ces yog koj tseem tsis mus es tseem nyob nrog nws ces koj ham tsis kawg los nyob rau nws tsim xwb mas.
I can forgive husband for other things but not for cheating on me. There's no more trust in the marriage.
Telling the in law kub lug cuag lub txiv Apple is hilarious😂😂 Txiv neej lub siab mas once it's been broken it will never be mends
2 wrongs don’t make 1 right but of course in the narrow minds of Hmong people and especially hmong men, when a man cheats, it’s “okay” but when a woman cheats all hell breaks loose smh 🤦🏻♀️ no justification at all… but it doesn’t matter who start it, if you can’t forgive him in the first place then you should’ve just left him so you wouldn’t have to carry this name as a cheater later on too 🤷🏻♀️
If your husband cheats and you can’t marry him, divorce him before you cheat. Once you cheated and still marry him, he will only torture you to the end.
When a relationship is already at the point where there is no trust and disrespect all the time from your partner. There is no point of being together anymore.
He’s a txiv dev himself. Idk why you put up with it. If you cheated you should have just left because men thinks they are entitled to everything. Only they can do it, but when women do it it’s the end of the world.
They get married pay nothing but when not agree each other they got free too. Yog nej xav Tau qhov right ces nej nyiam tus tub/ txiv neej twg ces nej mus yuav es nej ho kuj pe tog niam txiv ntawm tus tub tod xwb ces nej yeej muaj cai mus deev hluas nej tus txiv hais tsis tau nej vim yog nej muab nyiaj mus yuav nws los ces Tau poj niam puav pw dawn txawm tias poj niam mus deev hluas los ok, not question no problem, equal right. Right right right and right!. That what I thinking.
I’m surprise you stayed that long but yes it’s good to leave than stay since your husband can’t fully forgive you.
Hmoob people including some wives too thinking that only the men can be the ones who can and have the right to cheat. It is so wrong. I believe in eye for an eye!!! Tooth for a tooth. You did the right thing to look for some sugar outside too then if the marriage does not work out then just divorce his @$$ before he do it to you.
Nws twb yog txiv dev ua ntej ne cas kj tsi txawj hu nws lub npe txiv dev li maj
Yuav kom cov poj niam yeej txoj cai no mas nej yuav tsum koom siab vote kom yeej es yog nej nyiam tus txiv neej twg ces nej muab nyiaj mus them nej tus txiv niam thiab txiv es coj lawv tus tub uas yog nej tus txiv los nrog nej nyob ces nej yeej muaj txoj cai mus deev hluas nraug los txoj cai equal right for both men and women. Not for all but only apply to our culture not for American society. They have their own right and culture.
Hais rau tus niam tsev tias yog koj ua paj ces Seb yog koj tus yuav koj es them nyiaj rau niam tais yawm txiv los yog koj mus yuav koj tus txiv es koj them nyiaj rau niam Pog txiv yawg?
Li ko tsawg peb tej twb tsi Tau pub ib xyoo deev txog 50_60 leej na
Yus zoo tsis cia zoo tseem nrhiav kev liam ces zoo qhov tsis mag tsuj xwb. Maum dev co tws ces yog koj mas.
Txiv neej Hmoob siab phem thiab siab me2 li os yog yus ua txhaum lawm ces nrauj xwb zoo dua yog tseem yuav ntiv mus thiab ces kawg lawv niaj hnub ntsw yus cem yus xwb
He forgot that he is the big txiv dev. Lmao.
Sis you wrong girl. We don't need to put up with a cheater. You did not play it right. If you got caught you should have divorced. You were asking to get mistreated. A dawg is always a dawg if he cheats in a marriage and you do too well then leave him while you have no kids. Please don't think getting even will make him care your youth will die when he is 60 and secretly flying to LAOS. Glad you eventually left and found a new lover.
YOG PEB POJ NIAM DEEV HLUAS NRAUG LAWM CES TAWM MUS ZOO DUA LAWM OS.
Koj yog maum dev los nws twb xub ua txiv dev ces koj tau ris nws lub npe txiv dev mas.
Tsis khe khe lub Npe maum dev lis os. Yus ua rau yus xwb twb tsis yog leej twg tus maum dev na. Thiab koj ruam zog lawm koj tseem cia lawv muab koj tus hluas nraug nplua thiab. Yog kuv ces yeej tsis pub npluas lis. Tseem nplua thiab ces nrauj kiag ces nws ntshai ces kawg cia lis xwb los mas.
Vivncaus aw vim peb cov poj niam siab loj dua es yog lawv tuaj yuav yus thiab ces yog koj ruam es ua pauj ces kawg khaws tau dawb xwb tiag...Yeej tsim nyog tau lub npe maum dev kawg nkaus li poj hmoob ruam aw...Ruam kawg nkaus los tseem mus ua pauj thiab hehehe Lawv yeej tsi hlub yus ti txa lawm nawb hmoob aw...Vim yus yeej coj tau tsi zoo lawm ces kawg maum dev yuav nrog koj nyob mus txog hnub koj tuag li poj hmoob aw...peb muaj ib niag ntxhais es noj kam thiab ces hniaj hnub niam no los niag vauv yeej tseem hais some los khaws tau xwb tsi tag li nws muaj tub muaj nyab lawm los tseem tau lub npe nrog yus ib simmneej li os.
Poj niam 21st century!! All the same!!
He call you a maum dev then you call him a txiv dev xwb mas! It will irritate the crap out of him that he'll stop....eventually. Tsis mob siab li os sister aws..txiv neej ces yeej tsis sawv zoo. Yog nws hais lus zoo ces koj hais lus zoo. Yog nws hais lus dev ces koj kawg hais lus dev rau nws xwb..tsis kk li os.
Koj yog maum dev los nws twb yog txiv dev ne!!!! Yog koj xwb os thiab tsheem yuav tus txiv dev ko! Yog yus tus pojniam ua yus zam tsis tau ces yus txhob xub ua zoo dua. Tus txaum yog tus txiv os, poj niam ua yog muaj yus tus ua txiv cob ne!
I would have divorced him for putting that insecurity in me forever. Like you say, it will never be the same anymore. Should’ve never stayed together after what he did.
It's your own fault, once an outside able to enter the house you will never feel safe again.
Both him and you are both stubborn and said you forgive but you really didn't so better to let go.
Koj yuav tsum ua tus chim tshaj nws thiaj haum nws ma vim nws pom qhov yus ua xwb nws tsis pom qhov ua yus mob siab li. Nws xav tias nws thiaj muaj siab muaj ntsws xwb
Nope, koj niag txiv Dev ko thiaj phem xwb. Lwm tus txiv tsev tsis coj li koj niag. Lawv muaj kev zam txim vim lawv xub ua. Thiab koj ruam2 es koj thiaj wv nws los laus li ko thiab
Yeap! you women know us men less. LOL. Once you decide to do, be prepared to leave and not try to work it out again. Same goes for the guys, stop being a wussy too.
Koj twb lees ua maum dev 1 zaug lawm ces koj yeej yog maum dev. Koj tseem yuav tsim txiaj npaum li cas los luag yeej tsis qhuas koj vim koj tau ua lawm ne.
Lol yog lawm lo koj hais yog lawm nws niag txiv yog tus txiv dev loj tshaj plaws ua ntej tab sis nws ho tsis lees. Nws yog maum dev li koj hais tab sis nws twb ho lees lawm. Twb niam tsev no thiaj li muaj peev xwm tshaj.
Mloog ua ke os
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