I’ll be honest I used to have the same ideology as FnF when I was younger.I didn’t like black girls because of all the reasons they said but when I turned 18 and started going to college my whole reality cracked and I met all different types of black women and I realized the reason I disliked black women as far as dating went was because of the environment I came from where most of them were like that.When i got college I met all different kinds of black women and one particular girl I developed a crush on was one of the most sweet ,kind,feminine woman ive ever met and she is a black woman.I do feel guilty for my ignorance and I wish I could’ve traveled more outside of the environment I was in.But I do love black women and also I realized anyone could have those preferences that FnF said it’s not exclusively for black women.
I don't date loud, ratchety, materialistic women. I can't stand being around that type. If you fit in that box then you have to go. The fuuny thing is that the type exists across all spectrums. It's just that it only gets called out in one group.
Agreed. It’s even worse considering how most people with common sense who look around know this but the narrative still falls to one group. Until everyone can see how things can apply to many groups and not just one, then this crappy narrative will persist.
You're right! But to be honest, as much as I don't like those clowns I do understand they're referring to a stereotypical group of black women. There should be a universal name but unfortuntely black culture is the only culture that has a group that take pride in their stereotype (look at all the songs that refer to being "rachet" made by black women).
The sad part is a lot of it is the blame of social media and entertainment industry who would often uses or show that stereotypes onto black women mostly (like about 95% of time is shown on black women instead another other race).
Fools be sleeping on darkskin. Its because they're brainwashed. And they live with being shamed about themselves because they have no knowledge. If you look at the facts darkskin women are actually the MOST beautiful in the world.. I remember being in the locker room and it was like 10 guys talking about how they be lusting for darkskin girls.
I missed this video. Haven't been on their channel in a while. I agree with Preach in a way that the manosphere amplifies the concept of misogynoir to an unnerving degree. However, I believe that the biggest problem and a glaring issue is that many black men on media platforms do not call the manosphere and hold them accountable. I honestly have not seen any other males from other races disrespect and viciously attack their women like black men do to black women and it's very telling. We as black women are not protected in the same light as white women or women of color. So, it is an easy tactic for black men to abuse the female side. Which sheds a horrible light on their character. I find it shocking they aren't disturbed about that and that many of them revel in it.
I know a lot of men of all nationalities who would find those comments disgusting. A lot of men protect women regardless of race. There’s “truth” to what he said but not in blanket statements like that. That’s just damaging. If he was trying to help black women he could address some of those things in regards to some black women having trouble tying a man down. I could see that angle being approached with compassion. That was just rotten and hurtful. I could describe plenty of white women exactly how he described black women. I’d never suggest all women are because it’s not even close to true about any group of people.
@@jaketaylor3129 what they said isn't racism. They said they wouldn't "date" black women because of their behavior. Behavior has nothing to do with skin color. Only that a large percentage of black women consistently have bad "behavior" for dating. The fact that they still find black women "physically attractive" means there is no racism.
@@davecirlclux they are self-hating. And they simply used racist stereotypes to describe black women. Just because you're attracted to someone doesn't mean you aren't racist against them. Just because you f***k black people doesn't mean you can't still be racist against them. It's like the stupid "I can't be racist because I have a black friend" bullshit excuse.🤦🏽♀️
As an African girl born and raised in Africa it baffles me at how black men on that side of the world don’t like black women. Never did I grow up hearing such negative things said to black woman. Only when I started watching content from America did I hear such terrible things said about black women.
As an African too, I ain't never seen a Black man perceiving or saying directly to my face that opinion on darksin Black women, even in a joking way. How can you talk down on the most populated race of women of our continent lol. I think that type of shit is just mostly engrained on outside Africa Black men
@@TheTokkie Race and culture. I am actually surprised by some of the comments I see and hear. What's even more alarming is they are racially and culturally obsessed, but know little to nothing about it. They don't know the difference between race, culture or ethnicity. It's pretty interesting.
As a black woman I am not offended,I'm relieved. Given how I perceive and conduct myself I would feel uneasy attracting someone like Fresh. Internalised racism,self hatred,insecurity and emotional illiteracy are not traits I find attractive,they are however traits his type values. No one bleeds money like an insecure man trying to buy the love of a woman he knows is only attracted to his money.
Same. I’m black, but when black men say they don’t like black women, I hit the Kanye shrug 🤷🏽♀️. I don’t really care. I can’t imagine even being friends with dudes like that.
As a black women myself, seeing how much people were saying negative things about us made me lost all self confidence growing up. I thought I was ugly, not good enough and not worthy to be loved. I remember a girl calling me a white girl recovered with black painting, because I wasn’t « ghetto » or « ratchet ». Because I had really good grades, I never engage in fight, I was calm, and I really liked reading. As if a black person means being guetto and once you’re not like that, you’re white. But I kept going and I didn’t change who I was and I eventually started attracting men (white, black, arab, but more white because I live in a very white country). Whenever a man showed interest in me, I’d feel like he was probably playing or not being serious. I couldn’t accept that some men would find me desirable or attractive because in my head, all the stuffs people says were true (I was really young tho I was 13/16. It’s only when I turn around 18/19 that I realised that what they say wasn’t the truth. (I’m turning 20 soon). I eventually manage to accept that I was not ugly and that some men would find me attractive and I do deserve them. It was pretty hard to grow up as a black girl because I remember some people would laugh at me and one day a boy in my class pulled my hair so strong because he thought I was wearing a wig (it was my actual hair in an Afro puff). But now things get better. I still see people trash talking about is black women, but it doesn’t affect me anymore. And tbh men who trash talk on black women, especially if they’re blank themselves are so unattractive to me that I just don’t care. There are a lot of men who treat us like actual human being so I rather give my attention and love to them.
Sounds like you and I have had basically the EXACT same experiences with being “white” “Oreo” “not like the other ones/one of the good ones” “pretty for a black girl” etc etc etc and I just wanna say I’m so happy and proud of you for staying true to who you are, what you like, and realizing what you deserve and raising your self esteem along the way 👏🏽👏🏽
I grew up feeling the same way, I even had people tell me I wasn't pretty because I was dark-skinned. I also was told that I was white on the inside & just black on the outside because I read a lot, played the violin, enjoyed learning in general. It hurt my feelings because I had no problem being black & I still don't hate them skin I'm in
All they literally had to say was “we typically don’t date black women,” but they proceeded to say “if you want to date a bunch of shaniqua’s…” etc. Like, you can state your preference without disrespecting and entire group of people. There’s no way that they didn’t recognize how fucked up they sounded.
They don't care. Those two clowns live a superficial, pretentious lifestyle and lack the capacity to understand what's wrong with their mentality. It goes beyond the Miami scene, these two guys are broken
my black friends call those type of men bounties you know black on the outside white on the inside. if they could have a choice of turning white tomorrow they would. the self hate is real.
The damage that will transpire from this will galvanise the already violent tendencies of our men. Please stop drawing false parallels between how YOUR women treat you - and these men. The way they disrespect us goes beyond mere rejection
@Michelle Lmao. Didn't dispute that. Simply said that their "talking down" to Asian men isn't on the SAME scale of vitriol, SADISTIC violence and degeneracy that BW receive from their men. Doesn't even compare...
As a black woman my new years resolution is to ignore racist and self hating black men. Who really cares what these guys think tbh I don't want to date them either💁🏽
@@threzzy_ because they are labeling ALL dark skinned black women as ghetto, ratchet, annoying, ignorant, masculine. Those hateful, prejudiced stereotypes is what they are basing their preferences on. They have a skin deep thought process
Having a preference is fine, but they straight up threw a stone at a whole group of women and tried to hide their hand. Leave it to Fresh to make things worse 😂😂
As a college educated, dark-skinned black woman I am very happy that these “men” are not checking for women like me. I’m 41, but I have nieces, also dark skinned and college educated that I wouldn’t want anywhere near these “men”.
@UCpWC7aZ1RS0Z3okCB9Jv08Q 99.9%? Where is your source? Did you just assume this? Why did you even feel the need to state that a whole demographic of women are sensitive just because this woman didn't want her nieces around the type of men that would hurt them? Tbh, I think it's just you exposing yourself. 99.9%? Just isn't plausible, and frankly unrealistic.
I'm Asian from the Southeast Asia region and the lBl lLl lAl lCl lKl immigrants & foreigners here behave exactly like Fresh described. Not gonna lie, lBl lLl lAl lCl lKl women are generally more masculine, ratchet, uncultured and lack discipline. Those lBl lLl lAl lCl lKl girls F&F kicked out constantly speak for themselves. If you look at the dating demographic of USA, lBl lLl lAl lCl lKl women and Asian men are the least desirable. The statistics don't lie.
well, considering I've heard the same shit being said by black woman and men towards white people, I'd have to agree but change it to "if you're surprised that someone of a certain race isn't a total asshole, it means you likely had a racist environment that taught you to expect the worst from other racial groups." I've met stupid doctors, but I'd never say, "You're pretty stupid for a doctor" now would I? That tells me that whoever you're speaking to was just an asshole.
@@CircmcisionIsChi1dAbus3 yea it can definitely be said by any person about any group but I was just considering the context of the video and personal experience
Fresh in the studio with brown and mixed girls: "It's just a preference" Fresh in the studio surrounded by white women: "Black girls are annoying and rachet"
If you look at the dating demographic of USA, lBl lLl lAl lCl lKl women and Asian men are the least desirable. The statistics don't lie. Americans are obsessed with race and will turn everything into a racial battle when it's really just about a dating preference based on an opinion about a race. There's some truth to the stereotype of lBl lLl lAl lCl lKl women as ratchet, loud, uncultured and lacking discipline. Even if the generalization is wrong, why can't they have their opinions?
@@Waterbug1591 Dude how do you have incorrect prejudice views about groups of people then cry when people talk about it? How do you make racial comments then whine about people "pulling the race card". You want to be loud and racist but youll question why you cant just hold an opinion.
As long as she's sexy, intelligent, and has a good personality I don't care what color, nationality, or whatever she is. Just be a decent human being, have a sense of humor, and be cute
@@JAYJAYBEBE that's a lot of projection my dude!!! You alright?? I don't care what you're into!! You could be into goats for all I care!! I just stated what I was into
I'm a white guy who grew up in a black neighborhood and then moved to a small town with not a single black person. When they asked me what black people were like, I always had the same answer. Look around this school and community. You see how every white person has their differences? Black people are no different than what you see here.
I'm Asian from the Southeast Asia region and the lBl lLl lAl lCl lKl immigrants & foreigners here behave exactly like Fresh described. Not gonna lie, lBl lLl lAl lCl lKl women are generally more masculine, ratchet, uncultured and lack discipline. Those lBl lLl lAl lCl lKl girls F&F kicked out constantly speak for themselves. If you look at the dating demographic of USA, lBl lLl lAl lCl lKl women and Asian men are the least desirable. The statistics don't lie.
I’m Irish and 3 out of the last 5 girls I dated were black. They weren’t “ghetto” at all. They were sexy, sweet, funny, and feminine. But if you only talk to the type who get twisted up at the club, well then I’d say your impression is gonna be way off.
@@johnnyboy9001 I mean sometimes shit just doesn’t work out? Just cuz he didn’t marry and have kids with all of em didn’t mean he didn’t find positive attributes with in them.
Yo Aba & Preach, stating that I don't eat chocolate doesn't make me a foodcist, I just don't like to eat chocolate, I don't hate Black people because my dating preference doesn't align with wanting to date Black people. If I only date Asian girls, am I being racist for not dating White or Hispanic girls? My dating preferences can form around the opinions I have about other races, why not? AP I agree with you guys 90% of the time but you missed big one on this...That's disappointing.
I'm a Bajan. He don't speak for us. Ppl that knew him when he was in barbados said he was weird af. So I'm not surprised. Nonetheless Aba and preach stay fit and keep it fresh on ya vlogs. 👊🏾
Yeah, his classmates constantly email us and say he is lying about getting women in Barbados. All those lies fresh told about being with a 1000 women in Barbados whilst hanging around beaches is just a fabrication for his image.
@@AbaNPreach I love the way he emphasizes the "no cap" before he lies his ass off 😂😂😂😂😂. I bet he thinks that if he repeats the phrase enough times, he'll start believing it himself
Fresh : “I don’t like black girls cause they’re ratchet & ghetto* then proceeds to date certain white & Hispanic women with those same attributes 😂 can’t make this stuff up
@ria rel Yes, Ruslan is Christian and what does that have to do with him watching or commenting on this video? I'm a Christian and I follow Ruslan and Aba and Preach. Stop putting Christian people in a box. God bless your heart 😉
Im black and feel the other way. When it comes to dating, you should be as discriminatory as you please. Aslong as you don't bash that specific race theres no issue. Sure theres beautiful black girls, but I'm just not attracted to black woman in general.
@Tait Carrillo, the skinny one doesn't prefer women. His "preference" is WM. He doesn't even date BM and he's blk. I agree there is something weird about him.
@@VideoSpectator1223 Football?! There are photos all over the internet of him and 2 other men in bed. Others with him getting kissed, and embracing another man, etc. Lol football.
It's always so wild to me when I see other black men stereotype black women like their aren't a bunch of stereotypes about us being thugs, lazy, deadbeat dads, overly sexual, and overly aggressive. Then they told that girl that she was one of the good ones who didn't fit the stereotype. I know if a white person told them that they would feel some type of way.
This is what I've been saying for a long time. If you just want a light skin because you hate your own skin just say that don't blame it on stereotypes because others can do that same to you with your dark skin tone too.
These type of black don't realise that they exactly the same as racist white people. Also, if ALL the black woman they know are ratchet, ghetto and all they other stereotypes all that tells me is that is their community, those are there peers/counterparts so they are likely the same.
FnF live in Miami and come across materialistic, superficial, opportunistic women DAILY. So it’s only fair to say their perception of Black Women (and real women in general) is CLEARLY WARPED. They think Black Women are “annoying and ratchet,” yet Fresh is a sugar daddy to a caucasian gold-digger.. but I guess she’s a polite, respectful, submissive gold-digger which makes the difference.🤷🏾♀️ What I learned today is… nothing.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
As a black man i can say I’ve had the same thoughts as these goobers when i was younger. Growing up on the south side of Atlanta and not being very athletic or in to the typical high school meta, i was classified as a weirdo cause i liked anime and video games ect. Most of my interactions with black women were negative cause they thought i wasn’t “cool” so i ended up being around other ethnicities and they were accepting of who i was. That lead me not to liking black women for a while until i grew up and understood myself more of why i had that view.
I got the same treatment from BM I was too dark and spoke too "white." BM didn't want anything to do with me period. I never used that an excuse like many BM do to degrade BM.
As a Latin Male I have dated black women in my past. It was not a preference. I just loved them for who they were and respected them just like how I have dated other latinas, white women, etc. If you go looking for the good and the negatives in women then that's all you're gonna see. You cannot blame them for your faults. I never look at their color or where they were raise. If they treat me right and respect me then I'll reciprocate. Edit: Wow! I did not expect this many people give like to my comment. Thank you for the likes and responses.
I'm brazilian, and the difference between your words and the words of the majority of the african american guys here is depressing. This is how a real man who isn't drowning in self hate,speaks.
@@jackelinealves8685 thank you brother. I never look at someone's race or where they are raise from cause they doesn't make them who they are. If you give you will receive it back. I was brought up in a broken home and in the ghetto but it didn't make me. I love anyone beside their race as long as they respect me as a person.
I think this is being talked about is because black girls have decided to burn the cape for black men. I am one of those black girls who doesn't even consider black men as a dating options because of all the anti-black women sentiments on the internet. It's just safer for me to avoid them. White Supremacy isn't the biggest threat to black women, it's males like Fresh and Fit. I don't live next to white supremacists and black men have made it clear how they feel about us, therefore I won't entertain them. They want white women, white women can have them. I am happy for both parties.
Those are their opinions, they can form their dating preferences based on the opinions they have about that whole group of people. The black chick asked for the reasons, they gave her their opinions, what's wrong with that?
@@godemperorletoatreidesii6971 Wait, so not wanting to date shorter men makes you a shortist now? Or not wanting to date fat people makes you fatphobic? Not wanting to date a transwoman makes you transphobic?
Whenever I hear comments like that, I think of my mother, and it pains me because she went through so much in her life. Leaving the Caribbean for America at age three, being poor, abuse from certain family members and even through all of that, she still persevered and is now buying land in the Caribbean to build a house, buying another house in New Jersey, on top of the one we currently live in, which is a 1900 sqft house in Brooklyn, on top of a 6 figure salary. So to hear fresh of all people call black women rachet shaniquas, night riders and darkies, is just beyond infuriating. Edit: Just to add, my mom isn’t a single mom, she’s happily married to my dad for what will be their 20th anniversary this year. It just pisses me off to fresh speak so badly of black women due to a type of woman that lingers in Miami. Not every black woman is like that. Edit: please don’t go in the replies. A war has started and I don’t know how to handle it
To add that, it's common in the manosphere to bash and shame single moms. These guys are know to pump n dump but why does the shame of being a single parent always has to be labeled on women??
@@tonymistreacts4158 My guess is because raising a kid takes 2 people and one parent is gonna do half the job (at their very best) if the other parent is gone.
fresh and fit are the guys who think everyone who criticize them are stupid..which in itself proves that they like to live in their own bubble, instead of learning things from their surroundings
As a black woman it’s already hard dealing with how society portrays us but then to see men of color talk so badly about black woman is truly heart breaking like I have a baby brother that listens to them. Like I know we not prefect but I’ve been surrounded by so many successful, kind hearted black women and to just throw stereotypes at our entire group it just 100% disrespectful and makes other races think they can do the same and see us the same
Honey it’s not society...it rap and hip hop. These images are generated by🇮🇱producers and executives of record labels. So are the images of black men. Those 🇮🇱 make other races think we the enemy bc of our skin
It really is. I was born in 1980, grew up being ostracized by the black community for not being black enough. Speaking well, and being an individual is shunned. My first loves were black men but they teased me mercilessly because i wasn't "black enough". So I started dating white men. They weren't judgmental but unfortunately their families were. Didnt matter that I was kind, educated, respectful, I was still black and what will people think?!?!?!? So these men wouldn't stand up for me and single I am. Then I would date some other men and they would be disappointed because again I wasn't "black enough". Seems like men in NY (this is where i live) only want the stereotype hood chick that brings nothing but drama and chaos. Then these SAME men say AWALT, black women suck, blah blah but they passed over the good black woman that just wanted to be happy and live life. I'm single and happy. Do I wish i had a companion, sure, but its not worth the bs i have to deal with with men.
@@aliciawilliams8817 If a black man isn't into black women. then black women don't lose anything because? you obviously are racist against them. If you liked black men then you would be losing something
I dislike most types of internet drama, but THIS has me thoroughly entertained! You two don't need to do ANYTHING to tarnish their reps. They can do that themselves!
Literally are giving aba n preach free content 😂, then the little fans complain aba n preach are too focused on them but in reality, the social media is literally clowning you.
@@realty634 Yeah Cynthia G is actually insane bro lmao , I honestly listen to it just to remind myself that people who think like that actually exist. 😂
Myron when he was talking about the BLCK app, he called black women “darkies”… if that ain’t racist, then I don’t have anything else to say. And what’s crazy about that is that they bring black women onto their platform in order to get a reaction from them to justify their “preference” smh. It’s sooo weird to me
As an outsider of the situation, I think some of these guys use their distaste for black women as a status thing to separate themselves from their own race in other people’s perspectives. I think it comes from a feeling of shame towards their origins and it is highly influenced by the culture they’ve grown up in, much more so than their own individual thoughts. It is a cheap shot aimed to make themselves an “exception” of the negative stereotypes they’ve grown up hearing about and attributed to their own race through exposure.
The most insulting thing is when they say you are the exception, you aren’t like the others. I’m literally college educated, hold a director position and I’m well spoken. I don’t hangout in clubs, I’m not an Instagram model and I can guarantee a person like me will never be asked on that show because we don’t push their narrative. Also no one cares about your preference, but your preference shouldn’t involve downing a whole demographic of women. Let your preference be your preference and keep it pushing
@@parveltstone8214 I don’t believe in sitting in rooms where I’m not wanted lol A major key in being feminine is to not put yourself in positions to be masculine. That isn’t a safe environment for feminine women
This comment is 100% facts but fresh and fit also do and say a lot of things that are factual and true that hold up to all men, that being said this afterhours show with all the girls is a waste of time because they really drop gems in their other shows.
Toxic/Discriminatory preferences is everywhere these days. Some people date out of their culture while bashing their own. Some people will even let their partner bash their entire culture without saying nothing.
Not really. Reasonableness is not for you to decide about other peoples preferences. And all preferences are discriminatory. I agree you can state your preference in a rude way, but if that’s who you want to date it is what it is.
@@johnr8095 the problem is…if a girl says they don’t want to date an Asian man because of the stereotype that all Asian man have small penises. That’s being discriminatory against a whole sector of people based off a stereotype you don’t even know. Don’t act like that’s not an issue.
@@scro910 why is it an issue? There's plenty of other people who don't have those preferences. No need to pretend it's an issue. It's a bit entitled to demand people change their preferences for you. If I'm Asian and I find a girl who doesn't want to be with Asians, that's cool! I'll move on and find another one.
On behalf of black women, we couldn't be happier that they aren't interested in us. Saves time from having to deal with their degenerate mindset. Thank you FnF, we appreciate your willingness to reveal your warped pathology and spare us all. ✊🏾
As a black man I don’t think it a requirement to be sexually attracted to black women. Personally growing up the white girls loved the boy. black girls were always kinda mean and distant. Different races women act differently and sometimes you just don’t mesh.
@@klickingkayasmr7585 That's why Myron didn't even try to explain it hahaha. And offcourse Fresh is hurt... When he had nothing black women didn't even see him(atleast that is what I think).
I am personally happy they are letting their "preferences" be known. Spare black women the anguish. However, I'd like to point out that these aren't "preferences," they are aversions. If your "preference" is based on something you don't like, then that's not a preference. A preference is based on something you do like. They need to pick a battle, but they shouldn't be self hating AND stupid.
@Sham Kala-Kadima I would hope that if a black man finds himself in the company of a black woman, but frankly anyone person, that has an aversion to them, they would excuse themselves of that company. It doesn't make sense to want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you.
@@silentwitness536 What is the point you are trying to make by saying this? Surely it couldn't be that black women should just accept a self hating black man, because she can't get anything better? Lol, listen sweet heart, if what you say is fact, black women are better off alone than with someone that goes out of their way to make them miserable.
I was dating an asian girl… one night in bed she goes on this long rant about how ghetto Mexicans are and how she hates them for being loud, obnoxious, etc…. It dawned on me she had no clue I was Mexican. I told Her I was and she said “oh but you’re the exception, you’re not like the rest of em” Mind you, this relationship was after another girl i was seeing broke it off because she “couldn’t see us having a future” and admitted she wanted her kids to be half-white and she had trust issues with latin men because they are “all cheaters and liars” Its fine to have preferences, but then there is just straight up internalized racism that does real harm to people. EDIT: I don't mean to point out Asians in general or shit on women in general. These are specific examples and I shared it because it was relevant to the video. Gentleman, and ladies...if you come across this style of scenario, don't let someone project bullshit onto you and bring you down. Know your value, let shit people go and keep grinding.
@@TheTokkie for Americans it is considered only one race, but you are right, it's actually a Big mixtures of a lot of different types people. Brazil alone have the biggest number of Portuguese, Italians, Germanic, Japanese and Arab people,outside their on country. And the indigenous people from Bolivia are also slightly different from the ones in equator or Peru for example. And there was also colonies from other contrys too, like France and Holland, that also mixtured with the locals.
This is how it feels like to me. A guy does not like me. Okay no problem. He moves on and dates someone else. No issue. THEN I start dating on my own and each time I'm dating, the same guy who told me he didn't like me is messing up my chances of being in a relationship EACH TIME I START ONE.
There Are sophisticated, ghetto, beautiful, ugly, annoying women from every racial and cultural background. Whenever anyone tries to pin behavior on one group, its the first sign they are not too intelligent. I can also understand something not being your preference, especially when it is not of your culture or background. But to be dark-skinned and at the same time find dark-skin unattractive is a different kind of hate. You should not be allowed to have a platform to influence anyone on such backwards thinking.
^This. I don't understand how any man could eliminate an entire race of women from being attractive. I look at butts, brains and boobs. Skin color is not a factor in that decision at all. I only disagree with the not having a platform thing. Everyone should be allowed to have a platform. No matter what they think.
Yes, but there are certainly tendencies that certain cultures and localities impose on the mindsets of people. These should not be disregarded. Granted, each individual should be judged on their own merits, but if a person comes from a tribe of cannibals, it is a good idea to be cautious to make sure she isn't just playing nice to get you in a vulnerable position so she can kill you and eat your corpse. Of course, that is an extreme example, but you get the gist. In other words, a person's cultural background can give you an idea as to how they really think and/or behave. Sure, it is not 100%, but it never hurts to be cautious.
There’s a BIG AS$ difference between: “I don’t like ratchet girls” And “I don’t like black girls because y’all are ratchet and annoying af” One is a preference based on a character trait and the other is a prejudiced assumption predicated from a toxic environment. Plain and simple. As long as the girl your dating isn’t “ratchet”, it’s hard to imagine why her skin color would be an issue. But that’s just me.
A lot of these dudes been around nothing but ghetto black women and ghetto people in general and when they got around women who weren’t ghetto they were probably not the same race
why can't both things be true? for example if someone has dated multiple black women and had the same experience with a majority of them. Then i think its fair to say this person might just avoid black women altogether in hopes of having a better chance at a successful relationship. becuase of their past bad experience? also why is it ok when black women generalize black men and say things like "all black men are deadbeats" based on thier past experience?
OMG I just have to admit I TOTALLY love you two! So hilarious...sounds in your logic...good guys. I thought you were firmly in the Manoshere because they often shout you guys out...so glad I listened more.
What makes me cringe most about them man channel n platform is them broads just chasing clout they have up in that tight set up every week. Huge reality check coming for them soon. No girl that sat up in their pad i will ever look at remotely serious after hearing that these man pay for box n be in their dms talking about you can't get on if you don't smash. Best believe all them chicks are smashing that still choose to come on afterwards.
As a black man I love black women my wife is black my son is black I couldn’t imagine life any other way. I don’t think dating outside your race is bad but please don’t drag yo people down to make others look good is all I’m saying
@Marion Delgato that has nothing to do with you telling this random BM to get a dna test on his children if I misunderstood and you were not speaking on his children then I apologize
In my experience of dating women of different races, there is really no difference. Classy is classy and trashy is trashy. Shit, my kids mom is Hispanic and I'll leave it at that!
What I find is the cultural differences that is the biggest difference. Someone from any race from North America... I have more in common with than someone from other continents.
"Classy is classy and trashy is trashy. Shit, my kids mom is Hispanic and I'll leave it at that!" But if your dating experience in certain groups is that most of the women in that group you dated are trashy, then it will probably determine whether you keep dating from that pool.
@@johnr8095 My main point is about a person's character not their race. But, if a woman isn't apart of my program, I'm not tolerating her BS. NO matter race, color, ect. That's the way I roll!
Most of these preferences are just internalized racism and self hatred. That's why it turns into negative statements, generalizations and insults for the non-preferred...who most often come from the same race or cultural background.
Don't say that too loudly, someone might think you're applying that mentality to other topics and issues (which you should) and that might not sit well with them
A lot of people base their preferences on bad experiences... or sometimes on good experiences. The issue here for me, is that he had bad experience because of certain characters traits, and instead of trying to know the people and avoid those characters traits, he made a generalization on a whole group of people !
Girl be glad, these types of black men best women senseless especially people like Myron. Let them thumbstone Beckies, ill be sitting here with popcorn
I don't get it.. he not into shaniqa why he gotta lik shanay nay or la- crayshay..or laq- ish cra-? I don't get who tf named them delusional Blake woman that was crazy also
In England the working class have a saying that "you judge other people by your own contempt", its interesting that wherever you are in the world we all know that people have a habit of projecting onto others.
The vast majority of black women I’ve met personally have been some of the most self driven and self made people I’ve met. I think people in the “mansophere” don’t like them because they’re intimidated by successful and self made women
You would think other wise so many sistas get mad as soon as they see us bm dating out now it’s y’all don’t like bw yall hate bw your mother black and all this other bs
@@redsavage2141 the majority of us don't care. Ofc there could be a minority that might not like it but sincerely most of us just want to left alone and not dissed for existing.
@@redsavage2141 Trust and believe we do not care, just stop bashing. Black men are not a prize at all, their the most abusive, unintelligent and unemployed group of men in America… Not to mention you all swirling did nothing but increase the incidents of single mothers for nonblack women. Look it up 🤣🤣
it's a blessing being a black woman in these times. The blackness is protection from black men like fit and fresh. Let them destroy the lives of their preferences and make them baby mommas
@@noonecares808 you intentionally misquoted what she said to fit your narrative 🤡 but that’s all the attention you get from me. Try begging your parents for some lol
The best relationship I've ever been in is with my black girlfriend. She's the most amazing, hard working and intelligent woman I've ever come across. Together we are thoroughly supporting each other to grow and achieve our dreams I life. These two FandF clowns own mouths are their worst enemy. I'll just sit here eating more popcorn watching them self destruct.
I think the part that y'all as creators also didn't touch on here is that this is the kind of thing that goes viral. It just is what it is. These "manosphere" content creators realize they can get people to share their content if you can piss them off enough which inevitably either gets them views or broadens their audience. It's in their best interest to be as outlandish and polarizing as possible because it's free PR.
I've always heard that I was ugly because I didn't have light skin. As I grew older, the stereotypes in this video were applied to me immediately. Some people see your skin and instantly place you into one of their preconceived categories. Those people can kick rocks.
Hey, I want you to understand that whoever came up with these bullsh*t stereotypes never met a black person in their lives. You’re beautiful and if nobody can see that, then they should go fuck themselves. The next time somebody calls you ugly, tell the the following words “Hey, I want you to know that just because I may not fit the standard doesn’t mean I’m ugly. I’m beautiful the way I was created and if you don’t have anything nice to say to me, then don’t say anything at all.” I know it will be hard, but trust me, they won’t ever bother you again after that.
If you can't explain why you prefer your preference without talking negatively about those who fall outside of said preference.....it's not a preference....it's an issue. Whether it be colorism, racism, misogyny, self-hatred, low self esteem...the list goes on! Pick an issue.
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Why should we as black men be forced to explain what we're sexually attracted to in woman? Whys it your business? We're attracted to, what we're attracted to at the end of the day.
See, you immediately had attention because of your hair. Thank you for being natural. Black men overwelmingly prefer natural. However, your weight is an issue. You're about 80 pounds overweight mam.
@ see that’s what you are not getting, NO ONE ASKED! No one asked you to explain, because no one cares. No one asked fake and pits to say, they aren’t night riders they offered that information on their own. Just do you hun and date who you want without dragging someone else down.
Incorrect. Maybe that race of women need to fix thier behavior. Especially if said group has the lowest rates of marriage than any other race of women. Meaning NO RACE of men is marrying them
During training for a job, I picked up a male co-worker that was carless and needed a ride. During our drive, he told me that he didn’t date BW. I hit him back with, I don’t date BM (which wasn’t true) and he had the hall to be offended. I literally saw him shrink into MY seat and got quiet for a second. It took him a few more to gather his thoughts and words. First of all, I don’t care who BM date, keep BW out of your mouths. I’ve even had non-BW try and brag or attempt to make me jealous by oversharing that they date BM, again…I don’t care. It’s weird and I feel like those type of BM and the women they date are obsessed with BW.
@@chevon1920 Most likely, I think he thought she was hitting on him by offering a ride. Maybe she was, maybe she was just being kind. Dumb that people jump there instead of just accepting a nice gesture, but it is what it is.
@@lydiabennett1780 same! I have been called mammy, bed wench etc for marrying a white man even though the very men saying those things prefer non BW. I think they expect us to sit around lonely and miserable without them or something 🤣.
There's also a difference between prejudice and racism. Not knowing because you've never experienced it and you're going by what other people say is prejudice. Knowing and staying ignorant is racist. So many people think prejudice is racism. Not talking about you, just adding to your statement.
@@pvtchancheung true. But racism is a form of prejudice. But like u said if they know and still be ignorant then they are being racist. So if they know they are being prejudice and don't care that is racist. But if someone was just prejudice by their ignorance there is a big difference cause they might change and don't know what they are wrong
My cousin married an Eritrean girl and he loves her. Another cousin married a Caribbean girl. We are Middle Eastern…. I love their wives a lot they’re warm hearted, welcoming, and take care good care their families.
@@Natasha19999 what? Eritrea is at the horn of Africa. Official East African countries are Tanzania, Kenya, Uganda, Burundi, Rwanda and South Sudan. Ethiopia and Eritrea are not officially counted and the aforementioned states are majority homogeneous black. Ethiopia and Eritrea count themselves as African.
I'm from Barbados and my friend sent me these guys months ago. I could not fathom why anyone would take advise from these guys. I also could not believe how popular these guys were because I saw right through them immediately.
They are popular because they stole everything Rollo tomassi said for the red pill. Most likely stole it all from reddit and put it on TH-cam for a black audience. Interviewing a few idiotic women that helped them go viral and here we are. And it's not just them but all the other black redpill guys.
I would be beyond humiliated if I were their mothers….not only are they internalizing and projecting self hatred and racism, but they are also out here displaying that they lack basic human decency and kindness…
And many refuse to admit that it is indeed self hate. They'll say it's just a preference, when really it's not. A preference would be: I prefer white chicks, but will date others. That's called a preference Self hate / colorism is : I only date White chicks. People keep throwing around the word preference incorrectly because they don't want to be labeled as a colorist, but that's exactly what they are when they exclude a whole group of people. Take myself for example. My preference is short guys, but would date tall men as well. However, if I solely dated short men, and didn't date tall guys at all, then I would be considered a heightist.
As a black person from a Caribbean background like one of the Fruit and Fraud guys is their mentality is common among black immigrants I wouldn't be surprised if they were both raised in a anti black home and their parents spoke badly about African Americans the first thing a lot of them do when they come to the States is to find a white girl unbeknownst to them white women on average aren't really checking for them nor do they take them seriously
@@Model_Roe African american are not the only black...African, Caribbean are black too...so being anti African american doesn't mean being antiblack...these dummies are black too...
This opens up a vortex for me and it’ll be too much to discuss. That aside- What gets me is we get caught up with the sting of WHAT these men say and not WHO is saying it. Whether it’s a rapper or these two. Why should any black women want to deal with them?? With the way they like to treat women they DO prefer: smashing and dashing across Miami - trying to avenge every year they were rejected before they “reinvented themselves”… pain literally fuels their campaign. Couldn’t care less what they prefer or what they think.
@@Kidblurr02 lol you don’t even know me to know what my natural texture or length is and this is my point! If my ceiling was marriage and kids maybe I’d be foolishly caught up tweaking my appearance and seeking validation from men. But I’m not concerned with being taken seriously by anyone other than my father and family. 🤣
I can't respect a black man that so blatantly throws his own kind out like that even if it's dating preference. That's got to be a red flag when it comes to character flaws
It's interesting. I've never seen other races of men bash their women like this. But it's not unusual to see in the black community. It's hidden behind the word preference but it's a hate for blackness.
Just imagine having a black mom who sacrificed so much to raise you just to get guys out here saying they dirty. Sorry man but most black women are so “strong” becuase they have to be. Society hasn’t given them anything and in most cases not even loyal sons who can exhalt them for their work mostly done alone
Unfortunately...we are becoming tired of being 'strong'...tired of fighting to be respected....tired of fighting to be valued. Losing hope for us as a community
Why does that even matter, maybe he do hate himself and the way he look you talking like buddy asked to be born like stop with the mother shit I hear it so much and it really don’t hold that much weight I don’t need to praise you because you my mom I never asked for none of this shit 💀
@@xLamont_ hahah true and I understand for me though my mom sacrificed a lot some moms suck my mom doesn’t she could’ve aborted me gave me up for adoption or abandoned me all together she didn’t that says something for my life :)
Man, I recently came to the realization that I've been in denial about my father's racism. My mom was so blatant I couldn't deny it. It pains me to think that somebody I care about who I consider to be intelligent (was) racist. I see racism as a form of ignorance, something that intelligent people are unable to be, though perhaps I have some very deep-seated denial here. I also see racism as an inability to be sympathetic, which I also categorize as "lacking". Perceptive people are able to separate stereotypes from individuals.
Thank you for acknowledging this. As a black person who grew up in the burbs, it was horrific to see the amount of racism among whites. What was even more sick is that racism among whites was not shunned but condoned. I encountered so many whites married to a racist spouse but didn't see how flawed that was. A lot of them were also Christians, that's part of the reason I questioned marriage and Christianity.
Don't acknowledge this or buy into the encouragement given to you. The self hatred mindset your being encouraged to is exactly why certain groups are collectively unable to achieve, the mindset takes over send holds the whole community down, don't be the weak link that let's it into yours. Talk to your father, you may find that his real-life experiences inform what your perceiving as a bias
Granted, this is diagnosing from afar, but having seen enough of Myron and Fresh over the last year: I think Myron was bullied by the guys and rejected by the girls growing up. He has the "shoved into lockers" syndrome with a massive chip on his shoulders. He was likely attracted to pretty much any girl growing up, but the black girls likely rejected him the harshest so he is "getting back" at them by saying they aren't worth dating. It is nothing more than a coping mechanism. I think Fresh has a slightly different mentality. Specifically, I think he views white girls as trophies. He probably watched all the guys on the island hooking up with the white tourists (who wouldn't give him the time of day), and he wants that status so much that he cannot lower himself (in his mind) to say he is attracted to black girls. In reality, both of them would drool over any girl (black, white, purple, green, whatever) that gave them the time of day because lets face it, they are not used to getting attention from women when it doesn't involve some sort of business transaction.
On your analysis on Fresh, almost hit the nail. I recall him saying that he used to smash a bunch of women tourists in his home country, gotta deduce mostly white women. That in itself gave him a false sense of masculinity, while not realizing he was being used as a mandingo, literal sex slave. Plus, he has a face only his mom can love, so I can predict girls from his youth did not find attractive in the least. So in his mind, “Well, I don’t want you.” These guys are so predictably textbook, it’s sad.
@@realty634 stfu cause there are so many people that watch Cynthia G and don’t agree with everything that comes out her mouth, now at times she hit it on the nail, but when she started talking about abort black men or something like that she lost me.
And for the women who see "you're not like them other girls" as a compliment when being compared to black women... My friends, your insecurity is showing.
@@jane90094 Why r u making it about race?? When someone says that they are referring to ur not a hoe like the other girls regardless of race. Were not saying “ur not like the other black girls.” Are we??
As a black man black women are my main preference. I love them. Thats why I fell out of the red pill community. Too many hateful bitter dudes instead of men just wanting to grow.
I understand your point but it's also very important to know that there's a difference between men "growing" and letting them be walked all over. I know that relationships is about mutual respect between BOTH parties.
@@gamemediafan1714 agree and some dudes like aba and preach I can follow. Not getting walked over doesn't equate to walking over others. So people like F&F don't understand that.
@@Vincent-zz4hl Define "culture". Just because my skin is brown doesn't mean I share the same interests and values with every other brown-skinned person. Are you going to seriously tell me that everyone in your "race" is the perfect match for you? "Race" is a term that was used by scientists to justify attitudes towards groups of people based on their geography, skin color and phenotypes. It is not real.
Indian man here, 80% of the women I've dated were black, and they were all classy, intellectual and cultured. Honestly the most ghetto girl I dated was fresh out of the Dominican Republic. She would twerk on me at a TGI Fridays lol. Pretty fun still.
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Successful indian male like yourself and you're messing with these bonquishas? Kind of embarrasing. I could never bring a black woman home
Here’s my thing… where are they finding these woman who are willing to date them with this mentality?? How can you possibly be willing to date someone who $h*** on their own race??? If you speak like this of woman who look like your mother, sister or cousins I can only imagine wtf you will say about me!! I have ran into dudes that are exactly like this and I’ve had to excuse myself and walk away. The second they start with the “ I love Latino woman” “ I can’t mess with Black, White or whatever race” I immediately leave. You can compliment me without having to put your race or any other race for that matter down!! But especially their own race!! That mentality is disgusting however there is more to say about the woman who entertain this mess than the raggedy men who display this behavior.
The crazy thing is when it comes to these “preferences” or non-black women that they claim to date majority of their dads probably say the same thing about them as black men🥴
@Joske Vermeulen lmao my black dad said the same thing. He knows how black guys are. Any loving father would tell their daughter to stay away from blk men.
@@AT-bt1cu exactly! Also alot of these men are knocking up their preferences and leaving them to be single mothers… they are all over social media in high numbers crying because BM have impregnated them and ran away from the responsibilities lol. So it’s really not a badge of honour since in the end there is rarely preferential treatment
I’ll be honest I used to have the same ideology as FnF when I was younger.I didn’t like black girls because of all the reasons they said but when I turned 18 and started going to college my whole reality cracked and I met all different types of black women and I realized the reason I disliked black women as far as dating went was because of the environment I came from where most of them were like that.When i got college I met all different kinds of black women and one particular girl I developed a crush on was one of the most sweet ,kind,feminine woman ive ever met and she is a black woman.I do feel guilty for my ignorance and I wish I could’ve traveled more outside of the environment I was in.But I do love black women and also I realized anyone could have those preferences that FnF said it’s not exclusively for black women.
Pin of honor?
Same here bro. Now i only smash blk chicks and i aint even blk.
@@neversurge1962 I'm thinking pin of respect for being truthful
Pin of neutral opinion?
Nice
Myron is like that one villain who comes up with the plan and fresh is the minion who somehow fucks everything up
On some pinky and the brain type shit 😂
Except pinky and the brain are adorable and these guys are just pathetic.
literally
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I don't date loud, ratchety, materialistic women. I can't stand being around that type. If you fit in that box then you have to go. The fuuny thing is that the type exists across all spectrums. It's just that it only gets called out in one group.
Agreed. It’s even worse considering how most people with common sense who look around know this but the narrative still falls to one group. Until everyone can see how things can apply to many groups and not just one, then this crappy narrative will persist.
You're right! But to be honest, as much as I don't like those clowns I do understand they're referring to a stereotypical group of black women. There should be a universal name but unfortuntely black culture is the only culture that has a group that take pride in their stereotype (look at all the songs that refer to being "rachet" made by black women).
The sad part is a lot of it is the blame of social media and entertainment industry who would often uses or show that stereotypes onto black women mostly (like about 95% of time is shown on black women instead another other race).
Factz
@@thephilosopher7173 the problem is that he only said that about DARK black women
As a dark skinned black woman, I am unbothered. Best of luck to the women dealing with these guys.
Fools be sleeping on darkskin. Its because they're brainwashed. And they live with being shamed about themselves because they have no knowledge. If you look at the facts darkskin women are actually the MOST beautiful in the world.. I remember being in the locker room and it was like 10 guys talking about how they be lusting for darkskin girls.
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We will see them cry on tiktok.
Best believe they don't treat their preferences any better.
As a representative of black women every where we are simply delighted that we are not FnF preference. Black women take a collective sigh of relief 😔.
I missed this video. Haven't been on their channel in a while. I agree with Preach in a way that the manosphere amplifies the concept of misogynoir to an unnerving degree. However, I believe that the biggest problem and a glaring issue is that many black men on media platforms do not call the manosphere and hold them accountable. I honestly have not seen any other males from other races disrespect and viciously attack their women like black men do to black women and it's very telling. We as black women are not protected in the same light as white women or women of color. So, it is an easy tactic for black men to abuse the female side. Which sheds a horrible light on their character. I find it shocking they aren't disturbed about that and that many of them revel in it.
I know a lot of men of all nationalities who would find those comments disgusting. A lot of men protect women regardless of race.
There’s “truth” to what he said but not in blanket statements like that. That’s just damaging. If he was trying to help black women he could address some of those things in regards to some black women having trouble tying a man down. I could see that angle being approached with compassion. That was just rotten and hurtful.
I could describe plenty of white women exactly how he described black women. I’d never suggest all women are because it’s not even close to true about any group of people.
@@jaketaylor3129 what they said isn't racism. They said they wouldn't "date" black women because of their behavior. Behavior has nothing to do with skin color. Only that a large percentage of black women consistently have bad "behavior" for dating.
The fact that they still find black women "physically attractive" means there is no racism.
Dark skinned women are some of the most beautiful of all time. Glowing skin and smells like coco butter.
@@davecirlclux they are self-hating. And they simply used racist stereotypes to describe black women. Just because you're attracted to someone doesn't mean you aren't racist against them. Just because you f***k black people doesn't mean you can't still be racist against them. It's like the stupid "I can't be racist because I have a black friend" bullshit excuse.🤦🏽♀️
As an African girl born and raised in Africa it baffles me at how black men on that side of the world don’t like black women. Never did I grow up hearing such negative things said to black woman. Only when I started watching content from America did I hear such terrible things said about black women.
America is very race obsessed it's in their culture to judge and hate based on race stereotypes
As an African too, I ain't never seen a Black man perceiving or saying directly to my face that opinion on darksin Black women, even in a joking way. How can you talk down on the most populated race of women of our continent lol. I think that type of shit is just mostly engrained on outside Africa Black men
Mirroring your experience, very sad!
Hey lil mama
@@TheTokkie Race and culture. I am actually surprised by some of the comments I see and hear. What's even more alarming is they are racially and culturally obsessed, but know little to nothing about it. They don't know the difference between race, culture or ethnicity. It's pretty interesting.
"Annoying, rachet, and not reserved" he literally described himself. Self hate is real 🤣🤣
Someone should give that man a mirror 😂
Daaaamn Ella! Why you gotta do the poor man like that?! Excellent EXCELLENT observation!
@@aeoligarlic4024 exactly
That is projecting and i noticed myself that
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As a black woman I am not offended,I'm relieved. Given how I perceive and conduct myself I would feel uneasy attracting someone like Fresh. Internalised racism,self hatred,insecurity and emotional illiteracy are not traits I find attractive,they are however traits his type values. No one bleeds money like an insecure man trying to buy the love of a woman he knows is only attracted to his money.
Now THIS is a Fresh take that FITS the situation.
Solid Comment!
Same. I’m black, but when black men say they don’t like black women, I hit the Kanye shrug 🤷🏽♀️. I don’t really care. I can’t imagine even being friends with dudes like that.
Well f***in said
Dayum, this hit.
As a black women myself, seeing how much people were saying negative things about us made me lost all self confidence growing up. I thought I was ugly, not good enough and not worthy to be loved. I remember a girl calling me a white girl recovered with black painting, because I wasn’t « ghetto » or « ratchet ». Because I had really good grades, I never engage in fight, I was calm, and I really liked reading. As if a black person means being guetto and once you’re not like that, you’re white.
But I kept going and I didn’t change who I was and I eventually started attracting men (white, black, arab, but more white because I live in a very white country). Whenever a man showed interest in me, I’d feel like he was probably playing or not being serious. I couldn’t accept that some men would find me desirable or attractive because in my head, all the stuffs people says were true (I was really young tho I was 13/16. It’s only when I turn around 18/19 that I realised that what they say wasn’t the truth. (I’m turning 20 soon).
I eventually manage to accept that I was not ugly and that some men would find me attractive and I do deserve them. It was pretty hard to grow up as a black girl because I remember some people would laugh at me and one day a boy in my class pulled my hair so strong because he thought I was wearing a wig (it was my actual hair in an Afro puff). But now things get better. I still see people trash talking about is black women, but it doesn’t affect me anymore.
And tbh men who trash talk on black women, especially if they’re blank themselves are so unattractive to me that I just don’t care. There are a lot of men who treat us like actual human being so I rather give my attention and love to them.
Sounds like you and I have had basically the EXACT same experiences with being “white” “Oreo” “not like the other ones/one of the good ones” “pretty for a black girl” etc etc etc and I just wanna say I’m so happy and proud of you for staying true to who you are, what you like, and realizing what you deserve and raising your self esteem along the way 👏🏽👏🏽
@@Kjyoutubeforcomments Oh tahnk you!!! working on yourself is hard but always worth it!! Hope you are doing alright
I grew up feeling the same way, I even had people tell me I wasn't pretty because I was dark-skinned. I also was told that I was white on the inside & just black on the outside because I read a lot, played the violin, enjoyed learning in general. It hurt my feelings because I had no problem being black & I still don't hate them skin I'm in
All they literally had to say was “we typically don’t date black women,” but they proceeded to say “if you want to date a bunch of shaniqua’s…” etc. Like, you can state your preference without disrespecting and entire group of people. There’s no way that they didn’t recognize how fucked up they sounded.
They don't care. Those two clowns live a superficial, pretentious lifestyle and lack the capacity to understand what's wrong with their mentality. It goes beyond the Miami scene, these two guys are broken
my black friends call those type of men bounties you know black on the outside white on the inside. if they could have a choice of turning white tomorrow they would. the self hate is real.
Dark riders is pretty funny tho ngl 😂
They don't care... They're not that sensitive, unlike the rest society. 🙄
@@kaytee7607 Nah, when Fresh said Laquesha I was done 💀💀💀🤣
Imagine negatively stereotyping your own women, fresh and fit honestly never fail to impress with their ability to embarrass themselves
Imagine thinking having the same color skin makes someone yours. Shut up
@@thatdude4257 no the comment it’s true! You sick lol have preference without being distasteful human.
I mean if that's the type of women they've been around u cant really blame them
@@thatdude4257 Take your cringe ass out of here.
The thing is
It's black women's actions that have done this.
The stereotypes didnt just appear out of thin air.
As an Asian guy, I understand the pain, lots of Asian women put down Asian men, sadly.
The damage that will transpire from this will galvanise the already violent tendencies of our men. Please stop drawing false parallels between how YOUR women treat you - and these men. The way they disrespect us goes beyond mere rejection
@Michelle Lmao. Didn't dispute that. Simply said that their "talking down" to Asian men isn't on the SAME scale of vitriol, SADISTIC violence and degeneracy that BW receive from their men. Doesn't even compare...
As an asian man, I can see why I never seen a single asian man on fresh and fit podcast. I seen a lot of asian males participant on whatever
As a black woman my new years resolution is to ignore racist and self hating black men. Who really cares what these guys think tbh I don't want to date them either💁🏽
@taco trader 🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
@taco trader loooooooooool
@taco trader cringe
Explain to me how having preferences is self hating I’m a little confused
@@threzzy_ because they are labeling ALL dark skinned black women as ghetto, ratchet, annoying, ignorant, masculine. Those hateful, prejudiced stereotypes is what they are basing their preferences on. They have a skin deep thought process
Having a preference is fine, but they straight up threw a stone at a whole group of women and tried to hide their hand. Leave it to Fresh to make things worse 😂😂
@@realty634 I think they're in the same group too. No one is saying some bw don't do it too.
@@realty634 she is the type of fresh and fit, stupid persons that type
@@tiredox3788 there’s no backlash when women do it. How about the women that compare short men to literal roaches?
@@realty634 Manosphere and divesters got the same messed up ideologies my dude
@@lnvoke8544 They do get backlash mostly male backlash
As a college educated, dark-skinned black woman I am very happy that these “men” are not checking for women like me. I’m 41, but I have nieces, also dark skinned and college educated that I wouldn’t want anywhere near these “men”.
i have a daughter too. she is never dating any of them gremlins. imma make sure of that. i am here to stay and i'll protect her heart.
@UCpWC7aZ1RS0Z3okCB9Jv08Q 99.9%? Where is your source? Did you just assume this? Why did you even feel the need to state that a whole demographic of women are sensitive just because this woman didn't want her nieces around the type of men that would hurt them? Tbh, I think it's just you exposing yourself. 99.9%? Just isn't plausible, and frankly unrealistic.
Dude just deleted his comment. What a clown😂😂
Dang so you’re in your 40s, single, no kids. You hit that wall head first. 😂😂
@@unwelcomemotivation lol ikr..she doesn’t realize how bad her comment sounded
It baffles me why any woman is willing to go on their show to be demeaned and disrespected.
They give them a platform. It's just that simple
They pay 24k - 70k
“Fresh is the scammer that tells on himself.” I’m dying!
He is such a 🤡🤡🤡
I'm Asian from the Southeast Asia region and the lBl lLl lAl lCl lKl immigrants & foreigners here behave exactly like Fresh described. Not gonna lie, lBl lLl lAl lCl lKl women are generally more masculine, ratchet, uncultured and lack discipline. Those lBl lLl lAl lCl lKl girls F&F kicked out constantly speak for themselves. If you look at the dating demographic of USA, lBl lLl lAl lCl lKl women and Asian men are the least desirable. The statistics don't lie.
The worst type of scammer
On some HushPuppy shit
@waterbug shut your square as up.
Being told “you’re pretty for a black girl” or “you’re different from other black girls” is the most ass backwards compliment ever
well, considering I've heard the same shit being said by black woman and men towards white people, I'd have to agree but change it to "if you're surprised that someone of a certain race isn't a total asshole, it means you likely had a racist environment that taught you to expect the worst from other racial groups."
I've met stupid doctors, but I'd never say, "You're pretty stupid for a doctor" now would I? That tells me that whoever you're speaking to was just an asshole.
But it could be the dudes truth?! Might be backwards to the woke but may be his truth
@@CircmcisionIsChi1dAbus3 "You're pretty stupid for a doctor" ehm that is not good comparison hahaha.
@@CircmcisionIsChi1dAbus3 yea it can definitely be said by any person about any group but I was just considering the context of the video and personal experience
@@dubrootz209 it could be someone’s truth but it’s also true that they have some underlying negative stereotypes and beliefs.
Fresh in the studio with brown and mixed girls: "It's just a preference"
Fresh in the studio surrounded by white women: "Black girls are annoying and rachet"
Thank you for pointing that out!! I was watching like 🤔 hmmmmm
Simping at a whole new level
If you look at the dating demographic of USA, lBl lLl lAl lCl lKl women and Asian men are the least desirable. The statistics don't lie. Americans are obsessed with race and will turn everything into a racial battle when it's really just about a dating preference based on an opinion about a race. There's some truth to the stereotype of lBl lLl lAl lCl lKl women as ratchet, loud, uncultured and lacking discipline. Even if the generalization is wrong, why can't they have their opinions?
@@Waterbug1591 they can have them but no one has to respect their ignorant opinions.
@@Waterbug1591 Dude how do you have incorrect prejudice views about groups of people then cry when people talk about it? How do you make racial comments then whine about people "pulling the race card". You want to be loud and racist but youll question why you cant just hold an opinion.
As long as she's sexy, intelligent, and has a good personality I don't care what color, nationality, or whatever she is. Just be a decent human being, have a sense of humor, and be cute
Us with those qualities are at the bottom of the dating pool also
@@JAYJAYBEBE that's a lot of projection my dude!!! You alright?? I don't care what you're into!! You could be into goats for all I care!! I just stated what I was into
I'm a white guy who grew up in a black neighborhood and then moved to a small town with not a single black person. When they asked me what black people were like, I always had the same answer. Look around this school and community. You see how every white person has their differences? Black people are no different than what you see here.
You a real one Cory 💯
You’re a solid dude! 👏🏽
Yep. Wisdom right there
Shout my nigga Cory!
Cory has an invitation to the cookout and I’ll be dammed if he doesn’t have a seat at the spades table 😤
Self destruct ?
Fresh & Fit : YES
seems like there subscribers keep going up dont think thats self destruction
Lol no but for real tho
I'm Asian from the Southeast Asia region and the lBl lLl lAl lCl lKl immigrants & foreigners here behave exactly like Fresh described. Not gonna lie, lBl lLl lAl lCl lKl women are generally more masculine, ratchet, uncultured and lack discipline. Those lBl lLl lAl lCl lKl girls F&F kicked out constantly speak for themselves. If you look at the dating demographic of USA, lBl lLl lAl lCl lKl women and Asian men are the least desirable. The statistics don't lie.
@@Waterbug1591 not true, they are only the least desired online in the real world we all know who the least desired is.
Sbscrbers and viewer says otherwise
I’m Irish and 3 out of the last 5 girls I dated were black. They weren’t “ghetto” at all. They were sexy, sweet, funny, and feminine. But if you only talk to the type who get twisted up at the club, well then I’d say your impression is gonna be way off.
Is that you Rory?
Love it 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
So Y didn't u settle down with the 3 out of 5? High ratio to good things to just skip them all, Just curious
@@johnnyboy9001 I mean sometimes shit just doesn’t work out? Just cuz he didn’t marry and have kids with all of em didn’t mean he didn’t find positive attributes with in them.
@@johnnyboy9001 maybe he wasn't ready to settle down, or maybe they weren't.
My preference was always for kind intelligent thoughtful men, so lucky to have finally met my husband.
When they start bringing out negative stereotypes to prove why they have a preference, it’s showing underlying issues that they need to resolve
Bingo.
Truth
Facts
hell even positive sterotypes are no different
Yo Aba & Preach, stating that I don't eat chocolate doesn't make me a foodcist, I just don't like to eat chocolate, I don't hate Black people because my dating preference doesn't align with wanting to date Black people. If I only date Asian girls, am I being racist for not dating White or Hispanic girls? My dating preferences can form around the opinions I have about other races, why not?
AP I agree with you guys 90% of the time but you missed big one on this...That's disappointing.
I'm a Bajan. He don't speak for us. Ppl that knew him when he was in barbados said he was weird af. So I'm not surprised. Nonetheless Aba and preach stay fit and keep it fresh on ya vlogs. 👊🏾
Yeah, his classmates constantly email us and say he is lying about getting women in Barbados. All those lies fresh told about being with a 1000 women in Barbados whilst hanging around beaches is just a fabrication for his image.
@@AbaNPreach lmaoooo. The women on his show text me about how fresh tries to get their numbers. Less game than monopoly
Fresh was always in the corner playing Pokémon
@@AbaNPreach I love the way he emphasizes the "no cap" before he lies his ass off 😂😂😂😂😂. I bet he thinks that if he repeats the phrase enough times, he'll start believing it himself
What's sad is that am a bajan with the last name weekes, everday I pray that this nigga ain't related to me.
Fresh : “I don’t like black girls cause they’re ratchet & ghetto* then proceeds to date certain white & Hispanic women with those same attributes 😂 can’t make this stuff up
They just can’t admit they hate the way they look
Dudes who think like this are weird
Yeah but Whyte and Hispanic don't make it look like a personality.
Thats what makes them entertaining. Its a modern day jerry springer
I’m glad he doesn’t like black women. Don’t want him for any of my sisters.
My wife is Black and honestly she's the best person in the world in my eyes. I'm Mexican too.
This video is everything. The bit about only talking to women at night clubs summarizes this entire convo!
@ria rel lmaooooo 😂😂😂😂
@ria rel Yes, Ruslan is Christian and what does that have to do with him watching or commenting on this video? I'm a Christian and I follow Ruslan and Aba and Preach. Stop putting Christian people in a box. God bless your heart 😉
@@lserr8409 Imagine being a black Christian and worshiping your slave master's fairy tale God. That's a form of mental illness.
I hope you're going to do a video about this Ruslan..Would love to hear your thoughts on this 😊
Neh, he's pretty accurate about bw in general.
They digging themselves a hole bigger than the plug on the back of Myron's head...
Exactly. Fresh is gonna expose himself and Myron even more this year and it’s gonna drag them both down.
🤣🤣😂😂
I'm seeing you everywhere lately
And yet theyre growing 🤣😂.
Their subscribers are increasing so I don't think so hahaha
"They don't dabble in the dark" but invite dark-skinned women to their show and Fresh is dark. Wow. Those two are something else.
Apparently they also sleep with all of them before they come sit in the podcast
Maybe those single digit IQ clowns will finally get banned
According to myron the only way they get on the show is if they let him hit prior too.... I mean sooo....
That happens more than you think. The darkest men with the most coarse hair and pure african facial features are project a ton of self hate.
@@Sevencoins7 ok dont spread cap that shits weird
I feel like omitting an entire racial group from your dating pool is really weird.
There are pretty ladies of every race.
Im black and feel the other way. When it comes to dating, you should be as discriminatory as you please. Aslong as you don't bash that specific race theres no issue. Sure theres beautiful black girls, but I'm just not attracted to black woman in general.
@Tait Carrillo, the skinny one doesn't prefer women. His "preference" is WM. He doesn't even date BM and he's blk. I agree there is something weird about him.
@@abigailyah3462 Uh stop spreading rumors, they're not gay. It was just a football photo
@@VideoSpectator1223 Football?! There are photos all over the internet of him and 2 other men in bed. Others with him getting kissed, and embracing another man, etc. Lol football.
@@VideoSpectator1223 You are black but not physically attracted to black? How does that even work? 😳😳. Another day on the inanet.
It's always so wild to me when I see other black men stereotype black women like their aren't a bunch of stereotypes about us being thugs, lazy, deadbeat dads, overly sexual, and overly aggressive. Then they told that girl that she was one of the good ones who didn't fit the stereotype. I know if a white person told them that they would feel some type of way.
These 2 dummies Fake and fraud aren't bright enough to see it like you explained it...perfect Logic...
This is what I've been saying for a long time. If you just want a light skin because you hate your own skin just say that don't blame it on stereotypes because others can do that same to you with your dark skin tone too.
These type of black don't realise that they exactly the same as racist white people.
Also, if ALL the black woman they know are ratchet, ghetto and all they other stereotypes all that tells me is that is their community, those are there peers/counterparts so they are likely the same.
@@pistachioonut6683 exactly there are just as many "ghetto" black men as there are black women
Lol you a female stop playing dummy
FnF live in Miami and come across materialistic, superficial, opportunistic women DAILY.
So it’s only fair to say their perception of Black Women (and real women in general) is CLEARLY WARPED.
They think Black Women are “annoying and ratchet,” yet Fresh is a sugar daddy to a caucasian gold-digger.. but I guess she’s a polite, respectful, submissive gold-digger which makes the difference.🤷🏾♀️
What I learned today is… nothing.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😭😭😂
😂😂😂
Lol
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Meanwhile if a girl said she didn't date black dudes she would immediately get kicked out of the show...
And called a self hating you know what
😕😳🥺 now that's their preference ain't it?🙄
This is cap. Do u even watch the show clown
@@rondojulius8619 No it’s fact, black men lost their shit when Doja Cat said she liked white men. 🙄
@@rondojulius8619 def. Facts. You seen what they said about eve when she married and had a kid with a wm.
As a black man i can say I’ve had the same thoughts as these goobers when i was younger. Growing up on the south side of Atlanta and not being very athletic or in to the typical high school meta, i was classified as a weirdo cause i liked anime and video games ect. Most of my interactions with black women were negative cause they thought i wasn’t “cool” so i ended up being around other ethnicities and they were accepting of who i was. That lead me not to liking black women for a while until i grew up and understood myself more of why i had that view.
I got the same treatment from BM I was too dark and spoke too "white." BM didn't want anything to do with me period. I never used that an excuse like many BM do to degrade BM.
Many black girls had similar experiences from BM. Liking anime, fantasy books, science and all, and getting made fun of
😒cuz you racist
I feel bad for the sad men/women that take fresh and fraud's advice. Such depressing souls
They’re aren’t men or women they’re kids.
true, but that aside, just wondered if you've proposed any cuts to the parks budget lately?
I need a custom chair, Ron. I'll pick it up, from the park. Lmk. 💀
I don’t watch their show but I’m pretty sure the girls are there for clout.
@@moufou4life dont they pay them?
As a Latin Male I have dated black women in my past. It was not a preference. I just loved them for who they were and respected them just like how I have dated other latinas, white women, etc. If you go looking for the good and the negatives in women then that's all you're gonna see. You cannot blame them for your faults. I never look at their color or where they were raise. If they treat me right and respect me then I'll reciprocate.
Edit: Wow! I did not expect this many people give like to my comment. Thank you for the likes and responses.
I'm brazilian, and the difference between your words and the words of the majority of the african american guys here is depressing.
This is how a real man who isn't drowning in self hate,speaks.
@@jackelinealves8685 thank you brother. I never look at someone's race or where they are raise from cause they doesn't make them who they are. If you give you will receive it back. I was brought up in a broken home and in the ghetto but it didn't make me. I love anyone beside their race as long as they respect me as a person.
I think this is being talked about is because black girls have decided to burn the cape for black men. I am one of those black girls who doesn't even consider black men as a dating options because of all the anti-black women sentiments on the internet. It's just safer for me to avoid them. White Supremacy isn't the biggest threat to black women, it's males like Fresh and Fit. I don't live next to white supremacists and black men have made it clear how they feel about us, therefore I won't entertain them. They want white women, white women can have them. I am happy for both parties.
There u go👌🏽
@@AlejandroRamirez-rx1py i agree and respect men like you! Btw, i'm a girl xD
You can have a preference without bashing a whole group of people.
Bro actual wmn do that with short men, it's only fair.
facts
@@MegaIIII one wrong does not justify another
Those are their opinions, they can form their dating preferences based on the opinions they have about that whole group of people. The black chick asked for the reasons, they gave her their opinions, what's wrong with that?
@@godemperorletoatreidesii6971 Wait, so not wanting to date shorter men makes you a shortist now? Or not wanting to date fat people makes you fatphobic? Not wanting to date a transwoman makes you transphobic?
The gag is...they're not preferences....they're prey!
Yikes 😳 that’s sounds right
Whenever I hear comments like that, I think of my mother, and it pains me because she went through so much in her life. Leaving the Caribbean for America at age three, being poor, abuse from certain family members and even through all of that, she still persevered and is now buying land in the Caribbean to build a house, buying another house in New Jersey, on top of the one we currently live in, which is a 1900 sqft house in Brooklyn, on top of a 6 figure salary. So to hear fresh of all people call black women rachet shaniquas, night riders and darkies, is just beyond infuriating.
Edit: Just to add, my mom isn’t a single mom, she’s happily married to my dad for what will be their 20th anniversary this year. It just pisses me off to fresh speak so badly of black women due to a type of woman that lingers in Miami. Not every black woman is like that.
Edit: please don’t go in the replies. A war has started and I don’t know how to handle it
To add that, it's common in the manosphere to bash and shame single moms. These guys are know to pump n dump but why does the shame of being a single parent always has to be labeled on women??
Single mothers statistically raised the worst members of society. 77 percent of the prison population for example
@@tonymistreacts4158 That’s interesting. Where’d you get the stats?
@@tonymistreacts4158 and the men did what exactly?
@@tonymistreacts4158 My guess is because raising a kid takes 2 people and one parent is gonna do half the job (at their very best) if the other parent is gone.
Fresh and fit are a pure example of insecurity.
I think those guys are being paid to do such. Anyone with good sense knowing they have a mother and sisters who are blk won't do such.
They define insecurity
They're 30+ going on 13. They're about as secure as a highschooler pretending they're not a virgin
fresh and fit are the guys who think everyone who criticize them are stupid..which in itself proves that they like to live in their own bubble, instead of learning things from their surroundings
Weak sauce for real.
As a black woman it’s already hard dealing with how society portrays us but then to see men of color talk so badly about black woman is truly heart breaking like I have a baby brother that listens to them. Like I know we not prefect but I’ve been surrounded by so many successful, kind hearted black women and to just throw stereotypes at our entire group it just 100% disrespectful and makes other races think they can do the same and see us the same
Honey it’s not society...it rap and hip hop. These images are generated by🇮🇱producers and executives of record labels. So are the images of black men. Those 🇮🇱 make other races think we the enemy bc of our skin
Stay away from hip hop and rap
They are weasels
@@truthmatters758 music is reflective of a societies culture…
It really is. I was born in 1980, grew up being ostracized by the black community for not being black enough. Speaking well, and being an individual is shunned. My first loves were black men but they teased me mercilessly because i wasn't "black enough". So I started dating white men. They weren't judgmental but unfortunately their families were. Didnt matter that I was kind, educated, respectful, I was still black and what will people think?!?!?!? So these men wouldn't stand up for me and single I am. Then I would date some other men and they would be disappointed because again I wasn't "black enough". Seems like men in NY (this is where i live) only want the stereotype hood chick that brings nothing but drama and chaos. Then these SAME men say AWALT, black women suck, blah blah but they passed over the good black woman that just wanted to be happy and live life.
I'm single and happy. Do I wish i had a companion, sure, but its not worth the bs i have to deal with with men.
Any black man that doesn't want to date black women, I say THANK YOU. Let them date outside their race with that mentality, to their detriment.
Well it sounds like it would be to the woman’s detriment also. Not sure why any woman would invite him into their culture lol.
So you hate black men. Okay
@@DustinStich-iy8eoI never said that, reading is fundamental. Read again
@@aliciawilliams8817 If a black man isn't into black women. then black women don't lose anything because? you obviously are racist against them.
If you liked black men then you would be losing something
Didn't know I needed your permission but thanks. ❤
I dislike most types of internet drama, but THIS has me thoroughly entertained! You two don't need to do ANYTHING to tarnish their reps. They can do that themselves!
Literally are giving aba n preach free content 😂, then the little fans complain aba n preach are too focused on them but in reality, the social media is literally clowning you.
Fresh basically a magician. He just pulls out Ls
ABA and preach are being hypocrites. You can't say it's ok not date BC you don't culturally gel with som1 and then say what f&f said is racist.
To be honest i dont know why Aba want to talk about Fresh and Fit at all. They love drama the same as the other side.
@@watchonjar They're not hypocrites. You're simply uneducated on nuance.
When "The gift that keeps on giving" is a person..or people.
@@realty634 ………once again you skipping to negative shit. It’s weird cause that’s not what this video was about.
@@realty634 cynthia g a menace but this video not about her lol
Yes!😂😂😂😂😂
A nose, mostly 👃🏿
@@realty634 Yeah Cynthia G is actually insane bro lmao , I honestly listen to it just to remind myself that people who think like that actually exist. 😂
Myron when he was talking about the BLCK app, he called black women “darkies”… if that ain’t racist, then I don’t have anything else to say.
And what’s crazy about that is that they bring black women onto their platform in order to get a reaction from them to justify their “preference” smh. It’s sooo weird to me
I think they like to rub some salt on them or something.
@@realty634 we’re not talking bout them. stop spamming the same comment everywhere
That’s racist af. I listen to Kevin samuels, and know the big difference. Shit is wrong
@@realty634 ok that doesnt change what they did everyone needs accountability
@@realty634 you really fighting to write this all over the comment section
As an outsider of the situation, I think some of these guys use their distaste for black women as a status thing to separate themselves from their own race in other people’s perspectives. I think it comes from a feeling of shame towards their origins and it is highly influenced by the culture they’ve grown up in, much more so than their own individual thoughts. It is a cheap shot aimed to make themselves an “exception” of the negative stereotypes they’ve grown up hearing about and attributed to their own race through exposure.
Coming from a black woman.. You two nailed this! Nothing wrong with having a preference, but keep all that extra stuff to yourself.
They don't have a personal preference
Do you say that to divesters and swirlers, when all they do is put down BM and praise WM?
Why ? Why not say publicly?? Women air their extra stuff with no restrictions
@@exterminateexterminate because like them, WE BM and Women look weak for praising another race
@@exterminateexterminate it’s wrong when anyone put down a race in such a way, but we are talking about fresh and fit.
The most insulting thing is when they say you are the exception, you aren’t like the others.
I’m literally college educated, hold a director position and I’m well spoken. I don’t hangout in clubs, I’m not an Instagram model and I can guarantee a person like me will never be asked on that show because we don’t push their narrative.
Also no one cares about your preference, but your preference shouldn’t involve downing a whole demographic of women. Let your preference be your preference and keep it pushing
You can actually Dm their producer chris Aaron c pogson and ask to come in, so you can give them a piece of your mind
@@parveltstone8214 I don’t believe in sitting in rooms where I’m not wanted lol
A major key in being feminine is to not put yourself in positions to be masculine. That isn’t a safe environment for feminine women
@@fatimalathan2090 damn that’s a bar! Great recognition much respect 💯
This comment is 100% facts but fresh and fit also do and say a lot of things that are factual and true that hold up to all men, that being said this afterhours show with all the girls is a waste of time because they really drop gems in their other shows.
@@xxbingettinghumbled3032 I definitely believe that fresh and fit should have their platform. They do say some good stuff!
In summary:
There's a difference between having Healthy/reasonable preferences as opposed to Toxic/Discriminatory preferences.
Toxic/Discriminatory preferences is everywhere these days. Some people date out of their culture while bashing their own. Some people will even let their partner bash their entire culture without saying nothing.
Not really. Reasonableness is not for you to decide about other peoples preferences. And all preferences are discriminatory. I agree you can state your preference in a rude way, but if that’s who you want to date it is what it is.
@@johnr8095 the problem is…if a girl says they don’t want to date an Asian man because of the stereotype that all Asian man have small penises. That’s being discriminatory against a whole sector of people based off a stereotype you don’t even know. Don’t act like that’s not an issue.
@@scro910 no one checks women when they 💩 on a whole group of men, only men get heat for it.
@@scro910 why is it an issue? There's plenty of other people who don't have those preferences. No need to pretend it's an issue. It's a bit entitled to demand people change their preferences for you. If I'm Asian and I find a girl who doesn't want to be with Asians, that's cool! I'll move on and find another one.
“Wow, You’re not like the rest of them”
Me: “Na we all the same 🙂..”
On behalf of black women, we couldn't be happier that they aren't interested in us. Saves time from having to deal with their degenerate mindset. Thank you FnF, we appreciate your willingness to reveal your warped pathology and spare us all. ✊🏾
As a black man I don’t think it a requirement to be sexually attracted to black women. Personally growing up the white girls loved the boy. black girls were always kinda mean and distant. Different races women act differently and sometimes you just don’t mesh.
@@UnoThePast But your explanation is valid, though. The guy on the video was being a douche. Sounded like he was hurt..
I agree with you sis! ❤️❤️❤️
@@klickingkayasmr7585 That's why Myron didn't even try to explain it hahaha.
And offcourse Fresh is hurt... When he had nothing black women didn't even see him(atleast that is what I think).
I absolutely agree. Black men are the weakest link to be honest. Them not liking us is a blessing is disguise.
I am personally happy they are letting their "preferences" be known. Spare black women the anguish. However, I'd like to point out that these aren't "preferences," they are aversions. If your "preference" is based on something you don't like, then that's not a preference. A preference is based on something you do like. They need to pick a battle, but they shouldn't be self hating AND stupid.
Black Women are the least preferred demographic but ok.
@@silentwitness536 because BM are the weakest, most treasonous trash bags as a demographic. And BW are their counterparts.
@Sham Kala-Kadima I would hope that if a black man finds himself in the company of a black woman, but frankly anyone person, that has an aversion to them, they would excuse themselves of that company. It doesn't make sense to want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you.
@@silentwitness536 What is the point you are trying to make by saying this? Surely it couldn't be that black women should just accept a self hating black man, because she can't get anything better? Lol, listen sweet heart, if what you say is fact, black women are better off alone than with someone that goes out of their way to make them miserable.
@@missy1e23 That’s for sure especially since our life expectancy goes down after marrying a man. Theirs goes up.
I was dating an asian girl… one night in bed she goes on this long rant about how ghetto Mexicans are and how she hates them for being loud, obnoxious, etc….
It dawned on me she had no clue I was Mexican. I told Her I was and she said “oh but you’re the exception, you’re not like the rest of em”
Mind you, this relationship was after another girl i was seeing broke it off because she “couldn’t see us having a future” and admitted she wanted her kids to be half-white and she had trust issues with latin men because they are “all cheaters and liars”
Its fine to have preferences, but then there is just straight up internalized racism that does real harm to people.
EDIT: I don't mean to point out Asians in general or shit on women in general. These are specific examples and I shared it because it was relevant to the video.
Gentleman, and ladies...if you come across this style of scenario, don't let someone project bullshit onto you and bring you down. Know your value, let shit people go and keep grinding.
Honestly when the stereotypes are internalized...that's where the problems start
Should of told her mexicans are just spicy Asians.
Is Latin a race? It's South American cultural group there are white, black indiginous, asian etc latin people no?
@@TheTokkie for Americans it is considered only one race, but you are right, it's actually a Big mixtures of a lot of different types people. Brazil alone have the biggest number of Portuguese, Italians, Germanic, Japanese and Arab people,outside their on country. And the indigenous people from Bolivia are also slightly different from the ones in equator or Peru for example. And there was also colonies from other contrys too, like France and Holland, that also mixtured with the locals.
Because she love Mexicans that's why
This is how it feels like to me. A guy does not like me. Okay no problem. He moves on and dates someone else. No issue. THEN I start dating on my own and each time I'm dating, the same guy who told me he didn't like me is messing up my chances of being in a relationship EACH TIME I START ONE.
There Are sophisticated, ghetto, beautiful, ugly, annoying women from every racial and cultural background. Whenever anyone tries to pin behavior on one group, its the first sign they are not too intelligent. I can also understand something not being your preference, especially when it is not of your culture or background. But to be dark-skinned and at the same time find dark-skin unattractive is a different kind of hate. You should not be allowed to have a platform to influence anyone on such backwards thinking.
^This. I don't understand how any man could eliminate an entire race of women from being attractive. I look at butts, brains and boobs. Skin color is not a factor in that decision at all. I only disagree with the not having a platform thing. Everyone should be allowed to have a platform. No matter what they think.
@@richspeck8932
"Pretty is pretty, doesn't matter what color."
-Alex Jones
@@ltlibby6220 There's worse people to be compared to quoting
@@richspeck8932 100%
Yes, but there are certainly tendencies that certain cultures and localities impose on the mindsets of people. These should not be disregarded. Granted, each individual should be judged on their own merits, but if a person comes from a tribe of cannibals, it is a good idea to be cautious to make sure she isn't just playing nice to get you in a vulnerable position so she can kill you and eat your corpse. Of course, that is an extreme example, but you get the gist. In other words, a person's cultural background can give you an idea as to how they really think and/or behave. Sure, it is not 100%, but it never hurts to be cautious.
There’s a BIG AS$ difference between:
“I don’t like ratchet girls”
And
“I don’t like black girls because y’all are ratchet and annoying af”
One is a preference based on a character trait and the other is a prejudiced assumption predicated from a toxic environment. Plain and simple.
As long as the girl your dating isn’t “ratchet”, it’s hard to imagine why her skin color would be an issue. But that’s just me.
the fresh and fit beef is like the youtube equivalent of a business being liquidated XD all the youtubers all taking bites. I love it.
@@CircmcisionIsChi1dAbus3 Lol and for the viewers' entertainment too. It's funny this all stemmed from a viewer's superchat as well.
A lot of these dudes been around nothing but ghetto black women and ghetto people in general and when they got around women who weren’t ghetto they were probably not the same race
Well said, that's exactly what it is
why can't both things be true? for example if someone has dated multiple black women and had the same experience with a majority of them. Then i think its fair to say this person might just avoid black women altogether in hopes of having a better chance at a successful relationship. becuase of their past bad experience?
also why is it ok when black women generalize black men and say things like "all black men are deadbeats" based on thier past experience?
Taking one good look at this so-called "Fresh" individual and black women should be proud to say "Rejection Is Protection"
Dude is a Gremlin
Being out of the pool of weirdos like these is definitely a god send lbs
You can tell he hates the way he looks
@@tunjilegba he not a superstar 😹😹👎
He literally looks like Freddy Kruger.
OMG I just have to admit I TOTALLY love you two! So hilarious...sounds in your logic...good guys. I thought you were firmly in the Manoshere because they often shout you guys out...so glad I listened more.
Aren't you a divestor?
♥️ you christelyn
I think I can speak for every Bajan here we def don't claim that man. He can stay in the ocean under the sea lol
he stutters alot also
I second this. The whole island and every descendant doesn’t claim that man.
We don’t know him! 🤷🏾♀️
Say it louder what a rsl rabbit
What makes me cringe most about them man channel n platform is them broads just chasing clout they have up in that tight set up every week. Huge reality check coming for them soon. No girl that sat up in their pad i will ever look at remotely serious after hearing that these man pay for box n be in their dms talking about you can't get on if you don't smash. Best believe all them chicks are smashing that still choose to come on afterwards.
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As a black man I love black women my wife is black my son is black I couldn’t imagine life any other way. I don’t think dating outside your race is bad but please don’t drag yo people down to make others look good is all I’m saying
@Marion Delgato your smart SMH
@Marion Delgato too late for that
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@Marion Delgato highly disrespectful not all bw are aldutrsses
@Marion Delgato that has nothing to do with you telling this random BM to get a dna test on his children if I misunderstood and you were not speaking on his children then I apologize
In my experience of dating women of different races, there is really no difference. Classy is classy and trashy is trashy. Shit, my kids mom is Hispanic and I'll leave it at that!
What I find is the cultural differences that is the biggest difference. Someone from any race from North America... I have more in common with than someone from other continents.
Perfectly said human are just human...
Facts!
"Classy is classy and trashy is trashy. Shit, my kids mom is Hispanic and I'll leave it at that!" But if your dating experience in certain groups is that most of the women in that group you dated are trashy, then it will probably determine whether you keep dating from that pool.
@@johnr8095 My main point is about a person's character not their race. But, if a woman isn't apart of my program, I'm not tolerating her BS. NO matter race, color, ect. That's the way I roll!
Most of these preferences are just internalized racism and self hatred. That's why it turns into negative statements, generalizations and insults for the non-preferred...who most often come from the same race or cultural background.
It’s ok for a person to have a preference! However, don’t base your preference on a bad experience or a bad person.
Well said. This.This right here.
Don't say that too loudly, someone might think you're applying that mentality to other topics and issues (which you should) and that might not sit well with them
A lot of people base their preferences on bad experiences... or sometimes on good experiences. The issue here for me, is that he had bad experience because of certain characters traits, and instead of trying to know the people and avoid those characters traits, he made a generalization on a whole group of people !
Girl be glad, these types of black men best women senseless especially people like Myron.
Let them thumbstone Beckies, ill be sitting here with popcorn
@@deeznutz8320 I think no women black or white should fall victim to these clowns.
Now I understand why my mother says “Don’t talk bad about others” over time they will show that bad about themselves
😀😀 i was just saying this to my husband yesterday while watching this! so true bro.
I don't get it.. he not into shaniqa why he gotta lik shanay nay or la- crayshay..or laq- ish cra-? I don't get who tf named them delusional Blake woman that was crazy also
@@YasminMahnaz he don't have to like them. He also dont have to talk about them. Both things can be true.
In England the working class have a saying that "you judge other people by your own contempt", its interesting that wherever you are in the world we all know that people have a habit of projecting onto others.
The vast majority of black women I’ve met personally have been some of the most self driven and self made people I’ve met. I think people in the “mansophere” don’t like them because they’re intimidated by successful and self made women
I was told I was handsome for a black guy once, I got to admit that shit did not hit right.
A lot of black men don’t understand that them having their preferences is not a loss for us.
You would think other wise so many sistas get mad as soon as they see us bm dating out now it’s y’all don’t like bw yall hate bw your mother black and all this other bs
@@redsavage2141 the majority of us don't care. Ofc there could be a minority that might not like it but sincerely most of us just want to left alone and not dissed for existing.
@@AngelMonic exactly
It's funny how the preferences are baby mothers.
@@redsavage2141 Trust and believe we do not care, just stop bashing. Black men are not a prize at all, their the most abusive, unintelligent and unemployed group of men in America… Not to mention you all swirling did nothing but increase the incidents of single mothers for nonblack women. Look it up 🤣🤣
it's a blessing being a black woman in these times. The blackness is protection from black men like fit and fresh. Let them destroy the lives of their preferences and make them baby mommas
That is a good way to think about it and it’s true lol, look at the baby and Khloe kardashian 😂😂😂😂 a mess
Your fixation and confusion around black is confusing.
@@noonecares808 🤡🤡🤡 obsession? Stating you’re blessed to be in your own skin is an obsession? Get the fuck outta here cornball.
@@ericjohnson9136 "it's a blessing being a black woman in these times. The blackness is protecting them" hahahahah ooookkk
@@noonecares808 you intentionally misquoted what she said to fit your narrative 🤡 but that’s all the attention you get from me. Try begging your parents for some lol
The best relationship I've ever been in is with my black girlfriend. She's the most amazing, hard working and intelligent woman I've ever come across. Together we are thoroughly supporting each other to grow and achieve our dreams I life.
These two FandF clowns own mouths are their worst enemy. I'll just sit here eating more popcorn watching them self destruct.
Want a cookie?
You may have lucked out. For everyone else, depending on where you live and some other factors. You up shit's creek.
@@TheAustrianPainter87 if you can't celebrate, don't hate. You're a whole dilemma.
@@TheAustrianPainter87 No, do you?
@@TheAustrianPainter87 Uh oh.. your jealousy is showing. :)
I think the part that y'all as creators also didn't touch on here is that this is the kind of thing that goes viral. It just is what it is. These "manosphere" content creators realize they can get people to share their content if you can piss them off enough which inevitably either gets them views or broadens their audience. It's in their best interest to be as outlandish and polarizing as possible because it's free PR.
I think everybody is aware that it could be a PR stunt but that doesn't negate the fact that their statements are offensive and hurtful.
I've always heard that I was ugly because I didn't have light skin. As I grew older, the stereotypes in this video were applied to me immediately.
Some people see your skin and instantly place you into one of their preconceived categories.
Those people can kick rocks.
Hey, I want you to understand that whoever came up with these bullsh*t stereotypes never met a black person in their lives. You’re beautiful and if nobody can see that, then they should go fuck themselves. The next time somebody calls you ugly, tell the the following words “Hey, I want you to know that just because I may not fit the standard doesn’t mean I’m ugly. I’m beautiful the way I was created and if you don’t have anything nice to say to me, then don’t say anything at all.” I know it will be hard, but trust me, they won’t ever bother you again after that.
@@melodysafo5437 ☺️ Thank you. I really appreciate that.
Dear Goddess in Training,
You're beautiful. (Be You To Full)
Sincerely,
Love
@Luv Supreme Thanks, love. I appreciate that.
Us black women need to stick together
If you can't explain why you prefer your preference without talking negatively about those who fall outside of said preference.....it's not a preference....it's an issue. Whether it be colorism, racism, misogyny, self-hatred, low self esteem...the list goes on! Pick an issue.
Why should we as black men be forced to explain what we're sexually attracted to in woman? Whys it your business? We're attracted to, what we're attracted to at the end of the day.
See, you immediately had attention because of your hair. Thank you for being natural. Black men overwelmingly prefer natural. However, your weight is an issue. You're about 80 pounds overweight mam.
@ see that’s what you are not getting, NO ONE ASKED! No one asked you to explain, because no one cares. No one asked fake and pits to say, they aren’t night riders they offered that information on their own. Just do you hun and date who you want without dragging someone else down.
Incorrect. Maybe that race of women need to fix thier behavior. Especially if said group has the lowest rates of marriage than any other race of women. Meaning NO RACE of men is marrying them
@ if nobody asked your preference, keep it to yourself. Date who you want to date.
During training for a job, I picked up a male co-worker that was carless and needed a ride. During our drive, he told me that he didn’t date BW. I hit him back with, I don’t date BM (which wasn’t true) and he had the hall to be offended. I literally saw him shrink into MY seat and got quiet for a second. It took him a few more to gather his thoughts and words.
First of all, I don’t care who BM date, keep BW out of your mouths. I’ve even had non-BW try and brag or attempt to make me jealous by oversharing that they date BM, again…I don’t care. It’s weird and I feel like those type of BM and the women they date are obsessed with BW.
Why did he offer up that information? Where you hitting on him, what’s the point of saying that, 🤣
@@chevon1920 Most likely, I think he thought she was hitting on him by offering a ride. Maybe she was, maybe she was just being kind. Dumb that people jump there instead of just accepting a nice gesture, but it is what it is.
Omg the same thing happened to me.. the blk dude called me a sell-out for dating outside my race. However, his preference is white women. Just crazy
@@lydiabennett1780 same! I have been called mammy, bed wench etc for marrying a white man even though the very men saying those things prefer non BW. I think they expect us to sit around lonely and miserable without them or something 🤣.
They like bw, in fact it’s what they truly want, they’re just insecure and too weak to go after what they want and use excuses to justify it
Black queens remember this, rejection is protection. 🙌🏾🙌🏾👸🏿👸🏿👸🏿👸🏿
There is a difference between preference and prejudice. I said this before, and I’ll say it again.
There's also a difference between prejudice and racism. Not knowing because you've never experienced it and you're going by what other people say is prejudice. Knowing and staying ignorant is racist. So many people think prejudice is racism. Not talking about you, just adding to your statement.
@@pvtchancheung true. But racism is a form of prejudice. But like u said if they know and still be ignorant then they are being racist. So if they know they are being prejudice and don't care that is racist. But if someone was just prejudice by their ignorance there is a big difference cause they might change and don't know what they are wrong
What's the difference?
I like the guts profile pic
@@haqoe9857 Google the meanings of both words and find out nigga.
My cousin married an Eritrean girl and he loves her. Another cousin married a Caribbean girl. We are Middle Eastern…. I love their wives a lot they’re warm hearted, welcoming, and take care good care their families.
They’re not black thou
@@Natasha19999 there are black Caribbeans and why would you not consider Eritrean black?
@@tee3835 they don’t have the same stereotypes as us African Americans.Also East African Women have European Facial Features and are mixed with Arab .
@@Natasha19999 what? Eritrea is at the horn of Africa. Official East African countries are Tanzania, Kenya, Uganda, Burundi, Rwanda and South Sudan. Ethiopia and Eritrea are not officially counted and the aforementioned states are majority homogeneous black. Ethiopia and Eritrea count themselves as African.
@@Natasha19999 we are not mixed with arab stop talking about shit you don’t know. Thank you.
I'm from Barbados and my friend sent me these guys months ago. I could not fathom why anyone would take advise from these guys. I also could not believe how popular these guys were because I saw right through them immediately.
It shows how f.ucked UP the World has become lol...taking advices from dumb and dumber...
They are popular because they stole everything Rollo tomassi said for the red pill.
Most likely stole it all from reddit and put it on TH-cam for a black audience. Interviewing a few idiotic women that helped them go viral and here we are.
And it's not just them but all the other black redpill guys.
You and I both.. It doesn't take much to see through the non sense. lol.
@@MikeBNumba6 so basically the advertise to incels .
@@NaijaMonroe I wouldn't call it incels if we go by the real definition of incels
As a black guy I cringe so hard whenever I hear other black guys say they don't date black girls.
I would be beyond humiliated if I were their mothers….not only are they internalizing and projecting self hatred and racism, but they are also out here displaying that they lack basic human decency and kindness…
Man I feel SO bad for their mothers. But than again they raised this low IQ dummies
Now Rihanna gotta ban the Bajan one from the island...😩
And many refuse to admit that it is indeed self hate. They'll say it's just a preference, when really it's not. A preference would be:
I prefer white chicks, but will date others. That's called a preference
Self hate / colorism is : I only date White chicks.
People keep throwing around the word preference incorrectly because they don't want to be labeled as a colorist, but that's exactly what they are when they exclude a whole group of people.
Take myself for example. My preference is short guys, but would date tall men as well. However, if I solely dated short men, and didn't date tall guys at all, then I would be considered a heightist.
As a black person from a Caribbean background like one of the Fruit and Fraud guys is their mentality is common among black immigrants I wouldn't be surprised if they were both raised in a anti black home and their parents spoke badly about African Americans the first thing a lot of them do when they come to the States is to find a white girl unbeknownst to them white women on average aren't really checking for them nor do they take them seriously
@@Model_Roe African american are not the only black...African, Caribbean are black too...so being anti African american doesn't mean being antiblack...these dummies are black too...
This opens up a vortex for me and it’ll be too much to discuss. That aside- What gets me is we get caught up with the sting of WHAT these men say and not WHO is saying it. Whether it’s a rapper or these two. Why should any black women want to deal with them?? With the way they like to treat women they DO prefer: smashing and dashing across Miami - trying to avenge every year they were rejected before they “reinvented themselves”… pain literally fuels their campaign. Couldn’t care less what they prefer or what they think.
I see now why wmn always say “who hurt u” 🤣💀🤣 i always get asked that when i debate wit wmn but dam f&f seriously been hurt 😂💀😂
some women literally sell themselves. if that isnt you then its not about you.
No mam. First wear your hair natural if you wanna be taken seriously.
You can do anything or say anything when you got money cause you can buy a girls morals …..
@@Kidblurr02 lol you don’t even know me to know what my natural texture or length is and this is my point! If my ceiling was marriage and kids maybe I’d be foolishly caught up tweaking my appearance and seeking validation from men. But I’m not concerned with being taken seriously by anyone other than my father and family. 🤣
I can't respect a black man that so blatantly throws his own kind out like that even if it's dating preference. That's got to be a red flag when it comes to character flaws
Agreed! I give them the side eye.
Preferences are really becoming an excuse most preferences based on race are based on racism if you ask them it will never be about looks
It's interesting. I've never seen other races of men bash their women like this. But it's not unusual to see in the black community. It's hidden behind the word preference but it's a hate for blackness.
They definitely do though
@@erboch7124 I know it must happen. But the vast majority know to stick on code and not do it publicly
Definitely Anti Black coming from Black, on Black, Black em
@@arcticbeach I can't make vast majority statements like that but sure I guess
@@erboch7124 I feel like they don’t do it publicly though.
Just imagine having a black mom who sacrificed so much to raise you just to get guys out here saying they dirty. Sorry man but most black women are so “strong” becuase they have to be. Society hasn’t given them anything and in most cases not even loyal sons who can exhalt them for their work mostly done alone
Unfortunately...we are becoming tired of being 'strong'...tired of fighting to be respected....tired of fighting to be valued. Losing hope for us as a community
Thank you. This is the absolute truth.
Why does that even matter, maybe he do hate himself and the way he look you talking like buddy asked to be born like stop with the mother shit I hear it so much and it really don’t hold that much weight I don’t need to praise you because you my mom I never asked for none of this shit 💀
Yup, another reason not to have kids. Couldn’t imagine being in labour for 24 hours and giving birth to dudes like this.
@@xLamont_ hahah true and I understand for me though my mom sacrificed a lot some moms suck my mom doesn’t she could’ve aborted me gave me up for adoption or abandoned me all together she didn’t that says something for my life :)
Man, I recently came to the realization that I've been in denial about my father's racism. My mom was so blatant I couldn't deny it. It pains me to think that somebody I care about who I consider to be intelligent (was) racist. I see racism as a form of ignorance, something that intelligent people are unable to be, though perhaps I have some very deep-seated denial here. I also see racism as an inability to be sympathetic, which I also categorize as "lacking". Perceptive people are able to separate stereotypes from individuals.
Thank you for acknowledging this. As a black person who grew up in the burbs, it was horrific to see the amount of racism among whites. What was even more sick is that racism among whites was not shunned but condoned. I encountered so many whites married to a racist spouse but didn't see how flawed that was. A lot of them were also Christians, that's part of the reason I questioned marriage and Christianity.
Don't acknowledge this or buy into the encouragement given to you. The self hatred mindset your being encouraged to is exactly why certain groups are collectively unable to achieve, the mindset takes over send holds the whole community down, don't be the weak link that let's it into yours. Talk to your father, you may find that his real-life experiences inform what your perceiving as a bias
@@m.p.s8137 He's been dead for 8 years. I don't have any self hatred about this.
@@m.p.s8137 Wow, that sounds like you're condoning and excusing racism? Which within itself is perverse.
Granted, this is diagnosing from afar, but having seen enough of Myron and Fresh over the last year:
I think Myron was bullied by the guys and rejected by the girls growing up. He has the "shoved into lockers" syndrome with a massive chip on his shoulders. He was likely attracted to pretty much any girl growing up, but the black girls likely rejected him the harshest so he is "getting back" at them by saying they aren't worth dating. It is nothing more than a coping mechanism.
I think Fresh has a slightly different mentality. Specifically, I think he views white girls as trophies. He probably watched all the guys on the island hooking up with the white tourists (who wouldn't give him the time of day), and he wants that status so much that he cannot lower himself (in his mind) to say he is attracted to black girls.
In reality, both of them would drool over any girl (black, white, purple, green, whatever) that gave them the time of day because lets face it, they are not used to getting attention from women when it doesn't involve some sort of business transaction.
Exactly 💯!!!!!
This is an excellent analysis! Very true... couldn't have said it better myself
On your analysis on Fresh, almost hit the nail. I recall him saying that he used to smash a bunch of women tourists in his home country, gotta deduce mostly white women. That in itself gave him a false sense of masculinity, while not realizing he was being used as a mandingo, literal sex slave. Plus, he has a face only his mom can love, so I can predict girls from his youth did not find attractive in the least. So in his mind, “Well, I don’t want you.” These guys are so predictably textbook, it’s sad.
That's not cool. You can't be exposing their life like that 😂😂
@@beeg9423 so u are saying ugly guys dont get box? lmao.
I think I speak for all black woman when I say WE DON’T WANT THEM 😂👏🏾
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@@realty634 please go cry somewhere else 🙄
@@realty634 stfu cause there are so many people that watch Cynthia G and don’t agree with everything that comes out her mouth, now at times she hit it on the nail, but when she started talking about abort black men or something like that she lost me.
Exactly 💯
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Myron called black women “darkies” and has no self awareness.
We in Barbados DON'T acknowledge nor accept him.
And for the women who see "you're not like them other girls" as a compliment when being compared to black women... My friends, your insecurity is showing.
A lot of women tend to do this.. they love that shit.. smh.
Now this shit, is very annoying. Someone make a PSA for dudes to hear that
@@jane90094 Why r u making it about race?? When someone says that they are referring to ur not a hoe like the other girls regardless of race. Were not saying “ur not like the other black girls.” Are we??
Oh Heeeell no! What the fuck going with your hair!?
@@jane90094 I am latino so thats why I said that. I will never ever mention that phrase again lmao I kind of get it now its cringy.
As an Asian American guy, this hits close to home. But instead of the men, it's usually the women saying these stuffs about their own people
I feel you as Lightskin male
True, blk men and asian women are the most problematic demographics on interracial relationships...
@@fideletamo4292 there’s nothing problematic dating outside your race or even having a preference outside your race.
@@fideletamo4292 Black women married to white man are doing miles better than white women with black men.
Look at the divorce rates
@@andresgamba1478 I think he means the least desired
Using the term "Night Riders" to refer to black women is crazy 😭 like goddamn do not they not have black women in their own lives?
I can’t lie that line had me weak 😂
I legit saw that on stormfront years ago. Know thy enemy and all that.
Myron is not Black.
His dad was a night rider
@@michalis75 Yeah, Myron is right wing racist so you can expect those types of phrases from him.
Is that Ben what's his face singing WAP? LOL
As a black man black women are my main preference. I love them. Thats why I fell out of the red pill community. Too many hateful bitter dudes instead of men just wanting to grow.
Its human nature to want to protect/be with their own culture. Thats why alot of people and families want to date their own race.
@@Vincent-zz4hl not for me I love all women I prefer white but I still love them all
I understand your point but it's also very important to know that there's a difference between men "growing" and letting them be walked all over. I know that relationships is about mutual respect between BOTH parties.
@@gamemediafan1714 agree and some dudes like aba and preach I can follow. Not getting walked over doesn't equate to walking over others. So people like F&F don't understand that.
@@Vincent-zz4hl Define "culture". Just because my skin is brown doesn't mean I share the same interests and values with every other brown-skinned person. Are you going to seriously tell me that everyone in your "race" is the perfect match for you? "Race" is a term that was used by scientists to justify attitudes towards groups of people based on their geography, skin color and phenotypes. It is not real.
Indian man here, 80% of the women I've dated were black, and they were all classy, intellectual and cultured. Honestly the most ghetto girl I dated was fresh out of the Dominican Republic. She would twerk on me at a TGI Fridays lol. Pretty fun still.
Successful indian male like yourself and you're messing with these bonquishas? Kind of embarrasing. I could never bring a black woman home
@ I hope you heal.
@ you’re embarrassing yourself
@ bro im asian but thank you for leaving more black queens for us 🤤😩
I appreciate that you didn’t disparage the Dominican young lady.. 😂 at the twerking at tgif though
It's nice to "rest in my femininity" and listen to men defend us. Not arguing with dusty logic.
True indeed leave it to us to clean up our trash, these dudes have issues for real.
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That part!
This!!!
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Here’s my thing… where are they finding these woman who are willing to date them with this mentality?? How can you possibly be willing to date someone who $h*** on their own race??? If you speak like this of woman who look like your mother, sister or cousins I can only imagine wtf you will say about me!! I have ran into dudes that are exactly like this and I’ve had to excuse myself and walk away. The second they start with the “ I love Latino woman” “ I can’t mess with Black, White or whatever race” I immediately leave. You can compliment me without having to put your race or any other race for that matter down!! But especially their own race!! That mentality is disgusting however there is more to say about the woman who entertain this mess than the raggedy men who display this behavior.
The crazy thing is when it comes to these “preferences” or non-black women that they claim to date majority of their dads probably say the same thing about them as black men🥴
If the dad was there at all...
@Joske Vermeulen internalized racism? 🤔🤔
@Joske Vermeulen lmao my black dad said the same thing. He knows how black guys are. Any loving father would tell their daughter to stay away from blk men.
@@AT-bt1cu exactly! Also alot of these men are knocking up their preferences and leaving them to be single mothers… they are all over social media in high numbers crying because BM have impregnated them and ran away from the responsibilities lol. So it’s really not a badge of honour since in the end there is rarely preferential treatment
@@chazj2425 yeah they leave every race of woman busted, broke and with children. I'll try my luck somewhere else lmao.