Here Is WHEN The
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ก.ย. 2024
- Insight on the time as to when the narcissist begins abusing the new supply.
For Coaching inquiries please email: theteaonnpdcoaching@gmail.com
For other inquiries email:
theteaonnpd@gmail.com
For those that requested contribution information and would like to donate please see the following links and information:
My PayPal information:
theteaonnpd@gmail.com
My Cash App information:
theteaonnpd@gmail.com
$TelshaQEdenburgh
Venmo: Telsha Edenburgh
Zelle: Telsha Edenburgh
mnredenburgh@verizon.net
For all of those that choose to contribute - thank you - all contributions are appreciated!
I discarded him a year ago. He hoovered a few times and I rejected each one. He finally moved on to a new supply and I suspect around 3 months of them dealing with each other they had a breakup and he tried to hoover again but of course I rejected. He was forced to makeup with her because I didn't want him. Well a mutual told me that he moved her and her teenage son in his house. I wish them all well. Better her than me.
This is so true! Ex narc and "new supply" were all smiles and together constantly for about the first 6 months. Harassed me at work, continually called my house, tried to catch me out socially to flaunt themselves. Now, new supply occasionally shows up at my work - ALONE! She's dyed her hair to my color. Has her son and other family members spy on me too. Just plain sad and disturbing!!! Guess you didn't win the "lotto" with that crusty old fool, did ya girl!!! 🤣
They are flying monkeys....
That part.. many of them love to gloat until the abuse kicks in. 💁🏾♀️
@@blackbutterfly7107 FACTS!!! 😔
My narc ex has been quiet. Not a single call or text or showing up to my gym I'm hoping she's too busy abusing new guy to the point she'll forget me😂😂. 1 month not a single hoover let's go!
She will be back! Be prepared!
If she has a new supply it’s a rap for you bro that’s what you want no call no show !! Means she fired right bro cmon !! Keep it moving if she comes back it not gonna change her mind about destroying you in any way possible I wouldn’t be looking back move forward to your healing
Oh don’t hold your breathe. Exhale she’s plotting,planning and waiting to catch you when you least expected it. WATCH
@Cali001 I'm having a hard time accepting she's that stupid to actually try and come back, especially after I told her to leave me alone. That and she's afraid of me, she has hoovered but I ignored her. She's blocked. Unfortunately the only way she can see me is either at my house or the gym but I think she's to much of a coward to actually approach me. And I hope she doesn't use her new supply because dude is also afraid of me. Unfortunately she brought out the worse out of me and new supply saw how violent I can be. I'm healing, using the gym as my outlet and meeting great people along the way. So I do hope she stays gone for her sake and mine. Honestly I hope for once I'm wrong and that I'm not such a grade A supply
@@csrrodriguez78lol i thought that too. They come back. Shes just trying to decide how to do it.
This explains why I got phone calls four months later I ignored sending mail to my house nope I move in silence , I'm the one that got away 🙌🙌🙌 my divorce is in the process those narc are puppets used by the enemy he would never ever get a chance at me again.
💯💯
Telsha I swear nobody breaks down narcissistic patterns like you do. Your channel helped me find the courage to heal and move away from the narcissist. That door is closed and sealed shut with cement, babay!! 🎉 Also, I close on my home in 11 days. To God be the glory. The narcissist tried to sow weed seed into my life, saying lies that 'It's hard to buy a home by yourself these days,' with that demonic, duper's delight smirk on his face. That was when I was still in the abuse and trying to find a home with him, and he was doing everything he could to hate every single house we looked at so I'd never find a home. Joke's on him. My loan is approved; my new build is finished. I close in 11 days. To God be the glory! You were pivotal in my decision to finally close that door. Thank you, Telsha.
Congratulations!
Hallelujah!! Yes to God be all the glory! Thank you Fam God is AMAZING!💗🙌🏽💯🙏🏽
Look at God🙌🏽🙌🏽. Congratulations 🎉
Thank you so much! I just closed a few days ago! I really appreciate you and this community. @@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
@@jlove8586Thank you! I just closed🎉❤
He was calling the new supply "wifey" now he calls her "best friend" is that devaluing? lol
💯
Think about it
A slow devaluation in stages waiting until his new supply has been trained well enough to take her place
I haven’t heard from my ex Narc since last Christmas, after a. 4-5 year relationship, I’m healed now but it’s impossible not to think about her and the trauma
My ex narc is calling my family member and stalking riding pass my house and trolling my family's social media. I don't have any social media and I blocked them on my phone... Im going to relocate so she can ride all night and half the day......
I lasted 2 years including 1 year of living with her. Her previous relationship was 3 years as it was long distance so I think her new relationship will be 2-3 years as it’s also long distance. The big difference is when you are close to the narcissist 24/7 you quickly see the mask fall off, which is why I only put up with a year of living with her
The disorder will always get in the way. Tiger doesn’t change its stripes…
And Telsha, your makeup looks stunning! Always a beauty and thank you for your sage wisdom and kindness.
Abuse?? Abuse?? My ex narcissist before me, her husband of 4 kids committed suicide over her cheating. She lied to me and said he was using drugs. The man took his life and I heard less than 30 days of him being buried, she had a new guy in her car.
Wow. This is sad.
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships and like you said, she always has another guy on the side, always. I wish I knew about narcissist before I met her.
I dumped that one legged one eyed bird 😂! I met someone great soon after and I’m living my best life!!!!
Congratulations🥰
Lol😂
😄🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽
😂😂😂😂
THE GREAT PRETENDERS
That big fake smile you hit when that new supply takes pictures with them lmmfao 😅, you had me rolling 😂😂😂😂😂😂….
It’s sad to me that people can be down right mean on the purpose of bringing harm to Aney one cruel nothing good will ever come from them
You’re makeup is hitting!🔥🔥
Thank you Sis!🙌🏽💗🙏🏽
Good afternoon Ms Tea and everyone I have been ignoring the narc it's been quiet but those demons watching us regardless 😅. I would never ever give that pigeon with the missing feathers a chance to ever talk or see me again Ms Tea had me ROTFL with the names 😂
Pidgin with a Missing Feather. 😅 I called them Village Goats 🐐. Farm cows
Lol!!😁😂🙌🏽🙏🏽💯💗
Mine answered ...." because i can", when i asked him why is he doing this to us" ....drinking....hurting me, devaluing me and never an apology. Down right disrespecting me, calling me all kinds of names during his rage fits. Well, i can live in peace now because i can. 32 years married last year and he discarded me, broke up our family, left financially ruined without a safe roof over my head. It hurts but not as much as when we were together. At least now, I'm healing snd its peaceful. Thanks Ms Telsha for all your videos and education. Youre helping so many of us around the world. God is good! Have a blessed day everyone! 🙏
Thank GOD for you, ❤🙏🏽 you taught me all about my ex, the lil backwards looking giraffe lool 😂
I am 2 years healed now from my ex Narc and she is now 5 victims in already, still repeating this same 3 month cycle/pattern with anyone or anything that moves.
IT is soooooooo hard having 2 bite my tongue on things( as we co parent) but I just mind my business n live my life, while she still peeping in on what I get up too. SMH
💯💯💯🙏🏽💙
I read an online survey taken on 100 survivors of Narcissistic abuse. And according to the survey, the average Love Bomb time frame was 6 months. It was 6 months for male Narcs and 3 months for female Narcs. I know all Narcs are different, but most ppl I know who are survivors started feeling the devaluing around months 6 or 7. In my experience, he love-bombed me a good 5 months before I started to feel a shift change. Then he started becoming more cold towards me. I remember feeling I had finally found my husband and thinking how I never felt so good in a relationship. And all of sudden, it was like I was with a different person.
I was so miserable I kept trying to get him to break up with me but I ended up having to do it. I don’t understand why he wanted to waste my time.
So accurate. I noticed the inconsistent behavior within about a month.
You are my " go to lady" for all the priceless knowledge about Narcissism. Thanks for all that you do ❤
My personal experience..My ex narc already moved onto the new supply while he was with me. They are cold. Once you find out who they are, leave em and never look back.
You look so beautiful my sister
Thank you Sis!🙌🏽💗🙏🏽
Yas that new ( next up supply) was busted when I 1st seen her entire social media accounts.. looking like Sasquatch: the Monster of the Northwest Woods. Don’t get me started with all her lopsided wigs😂and her favorite wig is the one that’s braids with a middle part but the way she wears that thing the part is confused if it’s a straight down the middle part or if it wants to be a side part 😂🤣😂🤣 the Narc went Ghost on all platforms and changed his profile pictures to a saying “ out of order” 😂” out for renovation “
They seem to keep the love supply longer because the long distance relationship that’s what happened with me.
I heard the new supply looks terrible and tired. She also called him several times while he was in the pub drinking. The poor thing is 9 months pregnant..
Yes Telsha! I will confirm that my love bomb lasted for about 7 months because we were long distance. We married, and then that mask fell off immediately!
Wow! I’m telling this how these birds get down. Thank you for testifying Sis!🙌🏽💗💯🙏🏽
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships you are on point! I thank God I'm free!!
Yep after I married him the mask started slipping 1-2 months later
Excellent content as ALWAYS!!! Thank you for the knowledge! Makeup flawless too, Sis. Love it!!! God bless you, Sis.
Thank you Sis!🙌🏽💗🙏🏽
My husband’s new supply has been going strong for 5-7 years because he was living a double life with her. Now, that i know, i suspect things have changed. I’m done however!!
🙌🏽🙌🏽💯💗🙏🏽
The wedding night was the beginning of my nightmare 17 years ago to the exact date.... 10/08/2005 Glad it's almost over... divorce in process
What did he do that made you feel that change on your wedding night?
Wow. I’m telling you they are abusers.
My person resurfaced yesterday after 6 months of not seeing her and little to no contact. And this is with us having 2 kids together. She went very hard with the discard and she was dating somebody else. Whatever tactic she using she called me with apologies, I’m sorry for what I did, I miss being able to talk to you, will you talk to me etc. This was my wife at the time and the divorce is still not final. So when I ask what the status of it was bc she filed, she responded like shocked that I’m ok with it going through. I was the calm to the storm and wasn’t appreciated.
All lies don’t fall for it.
I left him over 130 days ago. The first time, I tried to leave him. I wasn't quite ready. I waited 2 1/2 weeks later. I planned and prayed my escape. I blocked him on everything! I have been in No contact ever since. I don't want to go back to someone who hurts me. I thank God I got out. I just love my life now with no drama or chaos. Be strong 💪 and just leave if you can..
It's narcs 3rd marriage and we were together 11 years but never married. Thank God I never married her.
Tea you are so incredibly beautiful! You are glowing and knowing especially about those backwards walking birds known as narcissist! No more narcissist forever!
Thank you Fam!💙💪🏽
You look great, Ms. Telsha! Thank you for another great video!!❤
Thank you Family!🙌🏽💗🙏🏽
Hello Ms. Telsha. Good afternoon. You always look so beautiful. You are a very good example of womanly. One of the new supplies thought she was king dinggaling when the narcissist left me and chose her instead, so I don't care about the new supplies sometimes. Her new supply had much slick junk to say to me, so when they get what's coming, who cares, the new supply can go take a hike 😂 But for us lovely souls we rise 😂💯
Anyone with any sense will NEVER be jealous of the other supplies as they are ALWAYS downgrades and who wants a narc anyways ?! Walking STDs too! I dumped the narc never looked back 😂
You lost nothing Fam they don’t change!💯💯 Thank you Fam!🙌🏽🙏🏽💗
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships True! I'm excited about the future! 💯❤️❤️❤️
Love the videos your experiences tells me everything I was dealing with I had to deal with a malignant narcissist sycophant hope to see more videos thank you so much. 🙏
To God be all the glory you’re so welcome.🙌🏽💗🙏🏽
It’s so true. My narc ex and his gf already broke up within 3 months!
My narc is heavy on me rn😭 I blocked him on all stoicism media and have been keeping and swerving no contact. My only concern is he knows where I live but not my whereabouts. He's lurking in the background and just waiting and plotting to see how he can catch me off gaurd. But my God is Almighty and I'm prayer strong 💪🏾🙏🏾😇. I rely on him to keep me safe and strengthen me to stay away, be a shrewd one and stay out the way
The narc married new supply within 4 months. How pathetic!
The ex narc I was dealing with married the back burner supply 30 days after he discarded me! He did me the greatest favor by discarding me! Jesus saved me from a life of destruction and I’m rejoicing bout it. My peace has been restored unto me and it’s been a long time since I’ve felt this happy and good. They do SUCK the life out of u! Be happy and shine on! 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽😃😀😀👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Telsha, you are fine fine fine. 😊
That’s true ever 3month I had to leave him he would always call me back I went through this for14years and I married it for 2years and it got worse I need to get a divorce I learn now what it was
Happy Sunday Sis… listen …!!! Imma have to name your ponytail🥰🤣I love it just healthy and bouncing. Beautiful as ever sis ~Let that sooooulGloooow((in my coming to America voice 😂)))
Lolol! Thank you Sis!😄🙌🏽💗
Mines has been trying to get his family! & he’s been hiding a baby with the new supply! All while begging me for sex, his family back & wanting to come back home lol
HEY MRS. TELSHA. YOU ARE RIGHT THEY DO START THE DEVALUATION RIGHT AWAY ITS CRAZY HOW THESE BIRDS MOVE .. THEY WANNA DESTROY YOU IN EVERY WAY POSSIBLE BUT HUNNY THESE FAKE SMILES TELL IT ALL ABOUT HOW THEY ARE VERY UNHAPPY WITH THE NEW SUPPLY AND ETC.. IM BEEN DONE TRYING TO FIRGUE THESE IRONMAN LOOKING FROGS OUT!!! U LOOK PRETTY AS ALWAYS QUEEN ❤❤
Facts Sis!💯💯 Thank you Fam!💗🙏🏽🙌🏽
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships ❤️❤️❤️
Looking pretty 😊
My narc got married 😅
So did mine, I suspected he was on the DL, yuck, I'm glad I got away.
Telsha its been 3 months since the narcissist discarded me for new supply his new supply answers his phone all the time as i tried to speak to him about stuff of his the narcissist and new supply left town but i seen them yesterday my friend also seen them and she said they looked happy the way he discarded me was awful but it still hurts me so much thank you telsha for all your goid videos
It’s every three months my ex narc begs to have coitus with me😂 that’s how I know the homewrecker won her prize 😂 she fought for that she can HAVE IT. Clowns 🤡 the homewrecker is also his immediate family and 30 yrs old acting like a highschool girl, desperate and insecure they deserve each other
Peace family. Some of us might be involved with the same narc demon we all know they get around 😮
Amen to all of it
Amen.🙏🏽
You are soooo beautiful!
Thank you Fam!🙌🏽🙏🏽💗
My ex narc had to nerve to bring his new supply to divorce court she waited in the car for him the entire time! He then married her 2 weeks later he’s 60 she’s 28! I wish them well and so glad he is gone gone!
They put on a good front verry sad
Man this is prophetic 🙏🏿🙏🏿🤦🏿♂️
Besides the Tea Spillin', Sis keep serving us those looks w that personality!
He made feel horrible the day our honey moon 😢and he said I own you now I got papers on you ! It’s been 2 years since I filed divorce is not finished but at least my feelings body soul doesn’t not belong to him !never was only I was brutally mentally abused ! I am still trying to find my true identity ! It’s a long process of healing ❤ stay strong !!
It's so accurate again!!! 🙂
The Beautiful Goddess returns
💙💙
❤Thank you for the tea.Let those birds go!
The new supply moved in with them in October after them meeting in April, theyve both caused abuse to myself, probably both narcissistic! I havent been hoovered yet!
Its So Awesome How Helpful You Are Sharing Your Wisdom🎉🎉🎉🎉
My lovebomb phase lasted about 10 weeks! The old supply before me her lovebomb lasted probably less than 2 months. The new supply's lovebomb I believe lasted approximately 3-4 months. So, I believe that the info you gave was accurate with that.
It was exactly 3 months for me.
Hit that like button, Hit that like button...if you rock with your girl 🎶❤😘
🙌🏽💗🙏🏽
So thankful God opened my eyes and I left the broke, couch surfing pigeon! I broke free!!! 🥳🙏🏾❤️🩹
Glory to God you got out out!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽💃🏽
Desperate hoover attempts.. he’s catching hell with that demonic soul tie he’s got with the old but “ new” supply…hey Telsha if you mistreat me and favor that supply I’m going to leave you with it.. enjoy!
You’re so right. Mines where typically within those times frames. And the snare remakes here and there was during the love bomb
This Video, I have to comment I don't know if you noticed your makeup looks completely beautiful I am in shock, this would be my favorite. Thanks for making these videos. These are so helpful I do believe I have been abused by a Narcissist in my life, My Mother 😮 Journaling is also extremely helpful.
Thank you Fam!💗🙌🏽 It’s always the worst when it’s a parent.😐
Everything you said happened to me once i married her
Lovely lady, always looks well presented, love your make-up
You didn't let the narc win lol
Deffo glow up 😊
Honestly you never know … it can be years and years depending upon the person and circumstances which is sad for the new supply because it’s wastes years of their lives . So sad
Can you clarify on why the narc and new supply go private on social media but occasionally make a public post? Like they only want certain things to be seen by a certain person
Why are you looking at that?
You said it all, the want certain things to be shown to certain people.
@@browneyes9507 I don’t anymore but when I did it was because I could see both of them coming by my page watching my post and liking stuff so I would go to theirs and that’s what I noticed. Ive blocked them both because I felt like they were trying to get my attention to cause more hurt and triangulation.
@@Smokahontas623 YESSS! Exactly what they were trying to do more so the back burner supply ❤️
I went through this, too! They devalued us even after breaking up
Love bombing happened through the relationship and came with gassing up after ignoring and or gaslight then after 10 or 11 months there was a discard. We got back together a month later and after that he was flaking on me the first month and at that point not many nice things were done for me very often anymore no matter what they did. Blame started happening way more often instead. This person was very dismissive. From the beginning he would feelings personally and make it about him and leave and ignore. Also multiple problems were created on after the other as if making more problems would solve the other problems. Add and memory issues where used to explain this stuff away, yet there was no consideration to feelings. Empty promises were made and ofcaorse always broken
My narcs mask didn't fall off until month 7
❤ "plastic grin"😁
Thank you for an awesome channel ❤
I was the main supply trying to come back.i cut him off.he gave me time to heal from that 3mos apart from him.hes blocked gosted and i moving forward with my life 💯🤗❤️.HE WANT GET ME BACK.
Leaathenthat
Beautiful look ❤
💗🙌🏽🙏🏽
Yes he's private on messenger and FB.but watching me hard.
New supply is also a narc, so I can't imagine what goes on behind closed doors n honestly bc they do ppl like this on the regular, I feel God put them together to make them have to look at themselves in the mirror... Through the other. Just my opinion though. By the time my narc had spent 5 yrs playing the same games with me, I picked up real quick that the new supply was just like him, he was so busy thinking he was winning n hurting me, he didn't even see it coming with her. Good luck to them both. I don't have to wish ill on either of them. They are both living in hell having to face each other, going through the narc stages TOGETHER on repeat over n over. Cheating, lying, devaluing, one-upping, physical violence, projecting it onto each other, discards, triangulation tactics dragging others into their mess n yes he's tried to drag me into it about a dozen times now in one yr no matter what he's blocked on... Then they're back at square one, love bombing each other publicly as the stages start all over again, roller coaster on nightmare narc express. N I'm not even going to lie just bc I am not like them doesn't mean I won't tell him he's a pansy for letting another narc OUTnarc him, I add narc injury on purpose bc he should know better not to bother me anymore. They're trapped in each other's karmic web... N it looks n sounds like justice to me.
Telsha! That lipstick is stunning. What is it?
My ex narcissist girlfriend is done with me. Why am I sad?
Because of the mirroring and future faking at the very beginning mate
I love your full of joy smiley gorgeous face❤
Thank you Fam!💗🙌🏽🙏🏽
Thank you Ms. T. The book arrived today!!! The Essence of the Aristocratic Woman.
Which color marker to use? Orange or yellow? Yellow it is. I know I'll need a marker-Hardcopy!!!😊❤🙏🙏
Awesome!!! Enjoy the book. It’s a game changer!!💯🙌🏽💗🙏🏽
Mines wrote me on Facebook yesterday
All this is facts chillle….
💯
My narc is dating someone else but attempting to lovebomb me again after 3 months. But he is starting the toxic behavior with me again. Is he only being toxic towards me or her as well. He called me and said I’d rather be with you then over there arguing with her… idk why they’re arguing tho. But it seemed like they were doing good because they started working out together and going out with his friends…
Good content, but had to skip the 1st 2 mins just to get to it ;)
So my ex already hoovered me while being with the new supply, and went back. Do that mean that she is devaluing stage already? Its onlt been like 3 mos and of course im officially done. She really has a mentally disturbed and when i say its like talking to a big ass kid that love cake🤦🏿♀️😂 You will be literally talking in circles They're soooo fucking lost i almost lost my mind.
He lifted and got married and last night he called but I didn't answer but he left a message he wants to talk to me about something.
Nope..nope don't fall for it
He wants a reaction from you. It's like they feed off your energy
All he wanna do is hear your voice to feel better about what he done. Don’t give him that.
It’s a shit test to see if you’re still weak for him. Don’t fall for it, but get your own satisfaction by ignoring him! That’s a HUGE narcissistic injury. THAT’s what he deserves after all he did to you. Love yourself 🥰
DON'T ANSWER!!!!!!!!!
❤
Is this with a covert aswell??
Plastic grin sis😂
Lol!! Facts tho!😄
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL 🤩… SOMETIMES I WATCH JUST FOR THE 👁️ 🍭 😘🤭
💙
❤❤❤❤