I don't know Bisola personally but I really like her. She's so effortlessly funny, assertive, talented and a born hustler. Wishing her a beautiful life.
This resonates with me because it took me a while to arrive here. Some people are friends with you because they are better than you, but once you rub shoulders or it looks like you will get better, they change. Not everyone should be gifted the name of a friend. Let us make it commonplace to refer to people by their status: neighbor, churchgoer, former or current coworker, schoolmate etc.
Story of my life. I just started getting my 🧬 life together at 33 and I be seeing the "so called friends" for who they really are. Everybody loves u when ur down the minute u start succeeding or looking like ur finally getting ur sh*t together.. people start showing their true colours.
The quality of friendship doesn't depend on how long you have known a person.Also,some friendships are meant for a season and it's important to know when that season is over.
Yes, indeed it’s not. It’s not the length of time. It is the quality of the friendship and the intentionality that matters. My best friend we have been best friends for five years but that friendship is even deeper for me than the people I’ve known for over 30 years.
Please 🙏 I will like to see bisola again, this particular episode got me glued to my phone, the interaction, emotional intelligence and witty humor😂😂I totally enjoyed this episode.
Lord! I love Bisola soooooooooo much. The last statements she made vey needed. Thank you sooo much Bisola for an educative and fun time. Ife love, thank you soooooo much. God bless you.
This is why I love Bisola, I agree with everything she said. We are so much alike and I see that every time we have a conversation. She is so real and sweet. When she is for you, she goes all in and thats the person you should have in your corner.
I had someone like this in my life. She’s friends with me because she’s better than me, if she knows I have something she doesn’t have or better than hers, she’s getting it and way higher than what I have😂. She’s friends with my enemies too. I’m gradually distancing from her. Praying for more meaningful friendships because I’m a good friend too❤
I don't support inheriting enemies but being chummy is questionable. My ex-husband was at my so-called best friend's 40th. The shock reset me. All the way in Canada, person wey no de support im children but 'child of God' no understand or claims not to. She said she's not on anybody's side. Bisola is sooooo correct. You see the true person in such times. Loyalty is a thing. Jealousy is a thing too. Friendship of almost 30 years
BIsola's face when Ife was reading and when she was summarizing this gist was how i was too, smh. who needs enemies when you have friends like this?, as Bisola said, run o, sa lo!
How people treat others often reflects how much they value those relationships. While some might argue that certain actions “aren’t that deep,” boundaries and respect are crucial, especially in close friendships. For example, if someone you consider a best friend continues to interact with your ex-fiancé without drawing clear boundaries-despite knowing how it affects you-it’s a blatant disregard for your feelings. A big red Bedsheet, not a common red flag. Friendships require mutual respect, and if she valued you as deeply as you value her, she would prioritize your feelings over maintaining unnecessary connections. Some might justify this behavior by claiming neutrality, saying they don’t want to “take sides,” but neutrality can sometimes come across as passivity or even complicity in situations like this. I’ve been in a VERY similar situation with a close friend also from secondary school. In our 30s, I finally had to end the friendship after multiple instances of what I saw as disloyalty, selfishness and etc. It’s painful when someone you see as a sister doesn’t align with your expectations of respect and loyalty, but sometimes, protecting your peace means walking away.
I wouldn’t ever comment on a TH-cam video. In fact I often joke that if it were for only me, TH-camrs wouldn’t make any money. But I stumbled on this video today and I read your comment. All I can say is - Thank You. It’s very validating to know that someone somewhere has the same line of reasoning as I do where friendship and values are concerned. The scenario you described was me a few years ago. For the longest time I had put up with what I felt was disloyalty from a friend whom I considered a sister. After she pulled a last stunt in 2020, I finally summoned courage to tell myself the truth which was that she clearly didn’t see me the same way I saw her. I was in my 30’s and I walked away from a 20+ year old friendship. No one understood it and everyone tried to get me to talk with her but I had had enough. I’ve shied away from getting too close to people since then but fortunately, I’ve met some great people and I feel a lot safer with them. So, thank you. Contrary to what other people may have thought at the time, reading your comment makes me feel like my feelings were valid.
Thank you Ife and Bisola... I'm a 38 and I've been worried sick about getting married but watching this have reset my thinking. Money 1st and if love comes yay
I’m so glad I came to watch this. I really enjoyed this episode… Bisola has too much sense❤ I loved how she said “best friend B never hears what best friend A tells her”.. we all need a friend like her in our lives.
This is an interesting one. Thank you, Aunty Ife, for bringing Aunty Bisola on the show. I enjoyed watching her speak and learn from her. She is indeed the right person for this question.
If there is someone I don’t know but I love her person is Bisola,girl you are just a vibe,any movie I see bisola I must watch.You see that age thing you gave yourself and it’s like you are giving up already cos it has passed,my darling I assure you,you will marry right and you will not remember how old you are,you deserve love and a perfect love must surely find you in Jesus name.I heart you big time Bisola
Never seen someone speak so truly about my situation 😢 From not wanting to see people when I'm down, (for me it's because I want to always be happy around people) I eat a lot when I am stressed, I don't pick calls, call people or respond to some people's messages when I'm broke, because I don't know what they may want.... I cook a lot to relieve the stress, and I don't even know how to speak to confide in people 😢 I am a first child, and all I know is how to be strong.... most times, I cry really hard because I wish I also had that one person in my family that I could open up and break down in front of them in my down moments
I’ve been following you on TikTok for a while now, and I love your videos, especially the Bible stories (refined version) and other social tips. This is the first time I’m stumbling on your video on TH-cam. I literally screamed saying “OMG, Ife is on TH-cam! How did I not know😂”. As always, I’ve learned a lot watching your videos (this is definitely not an exception). I’ve been having so many questions about “Friendship”, and this episode answered a few of them. Thank you so much for inviting Bisola (One of my FAVs in the entertainment industry).
Bisola you are who you think you are … Please people listen and read that again… There are some people (I refuse to call them friends) that are only close to you because they believe there are aspects of their life that is superior to yours. These people will badmouth you every chance, and talk bad about you without hesitation all the while staying close enough to glean information about you to ensure you’re not doing better than they are. These are household enemies. Please keep them at a distance and learn to not share every aspect of yourself and life with these cankerworms. At the same time, before you call someone a friend, ensure you’re also a ‘friend’. If you don’t know what being a friend means, what loyalty means, what sacrifice means, what longstanding means, please stay alone. Thank you.
I’ve always loved Bisola I wish I could see her More in films. Listening to the conversation I said to myself Bisola demonstrates all the behaviors attitudes loyalty of an Aquarian then when she spoke on the matter of the concern Ife read about I just had to google her DOB She is Indeed An Aquarian Woman , Very Objective Very Loyal Realistically Aware This woman speaks DEEP That Topic was definitely A masterpiece This lady question turning it around is Nonsense Nonsensical Bisola I love you and share your Sentiments
Bisola made a whole lot of sense! Ife, thank you for bringing her. Now, to the story. I can so relate to what the sender sent in cos I was once in her shoes. A best friend who I confide in so much meet with our other friend to mock me when my the bf broke up with me. She did more things that hurt, yet she laughed like nothing happened. This is someone who I did most things for o. Some friends are enemies in disguise. Sender, that lady is not your FRIEND!!! Run far away from her.
Sorry about your experience. It’s usually borne out of envy. I feel like when we’re close friends with people, we should have heightened sensitivity eg pick up red flags etc. We shouldn’t be clouded with emotions honestly.
@nnennaukoha you're right. The enviness was obvious. But just as the sender said in her story that she has been friends with the lady since they were 15. Mine was something more that because we attended the same secondary. I'm glad we're no longer friends. Thank you
I totally enjoyed this video. I have watched Bisola from ‘I need to know, education is the key so why do u deny it’ days…. That sound track still rings in my head! Yes, she is someone that I feel like I ve known for a long time and if I see her I will still refer her as my friend, yet she doesn’t even know me! Lol. I’m a fan I guess….. keep up the good work!
About this inheriting enemies and stuff. It actually depends on circumstance. You can’t do my friend wrong or something that really messed with her and expect me to even be cordial with you because you can do the same to me. And inheriting enemy doesn’t necessarily mean you hiss or curse or do anything crazy to the ‘enemy’ . It’s just simple boundary.
This resonates with me like mad! Bisola is me. So, run abeg. Anyone who chooses to be friends with your enemies is your enemy. Who knows What she’s saying to them or has said to them to even get to this point???
I love this episode so much. 2024 is a year where I have been deeply hurt and I don't even want to have friends. I realized so many were not friends even though I try to treat people nice because that is who I am and want to be treated same way. But I am thankful to God for opening my eyes. It is bad too if you only have people that drain, I was overwhelmed cos I kept on pouring out of empty well. BUT 2025 is going to be on a clean slate by God's grace
18:33 the reason they always sound better or seem better before death is because of something called the “surge of energy” or terminal lucidity it isn’t fully understood. Scientists think it might happen because of chemicals in the brain, a burst of adrenaline, or the brain’s final activity. It’s still a mystery.
Your best friend seems to be intentionally hurting you😢 Holding onto that friendship will hurt you a lot more because how can your friend not care about your feelings? Dismissing it as she's an amazing person seems like she's doing a good job at being a two-faced person. Anyone that doesn't like Bisola has probably just only met her a second ago. Too loveable 😊☺️
Really good point: being friendly is far different from being friends. Let's normalise prefixes like, "Meet my office-friend / old secondary school friend" etc😏 Toxic friendships where you feel unsafe will only end in tears, no matter the number of years. People grow apart!
Using these prefixes might be a little hard in our society. I think it’s still okay to use the term “friend” like we’ve always done, however, we should know exactly where people belong in our lives, where we are in their lives and treat them accordingly. Set boundaries, know what to and what not to share about your life, with whom.
I stand with bisola’s answer on this and that’s true. People disguise themselves to be your friend while they are wolves in sheep clothings. A lot of people pretend for years but you can’t say what’s in their mind and that’s why you need the Holyspirit for discernment, before you call anyone to be your best friend, tell the Holyspirit to reveal if you’re making the right decision or not. This is my personal opinion on this. Thank you.
You see that lady that asked the question, what if your friend was wrong,Na them.Your friend was wrong and someone push her out of her office no better way to handle it. LOYALTY is very hard to get,when people are not loyal to you take it or leave it, they don't love you. If my friend is wrong I will tell her but will still do everyone who did her dirty,dirty too.I owe anyone I genuinely love that . Dear poster you are besting yourself.For everytime you were hurt,your friend was happy or indifferent about it. You really need to reevaluate that friendship.Sit her down tell her to choose between your friendship and your ex.I already know the answer, I can only hope you are prepared for unveiling.Goodluck!!!
This is my favourite episode!😂I absolutely adore Bisola❤, she’s so interesting to watch. I won’t inherit a silly fight that makes no sense, but yeah, if it’s a thing where my friend is friends with the person and that how I know the person, it will create a distance for sure
you brought the perfect guest for this episode..i loved it so much and i totally agree!more like she's gathering a team of enemies to use against you or what
I really took out time to watch this. Thank you Ife, for this community, thank you for this episode, thank you for bringing Bisola. I just redefined my definition of friendship from this episode, thank you so much Ife.
Wow! I just want to thank Ife and Bisola for dissecting this. Funny enough, Bisola and I are a lot alike...temperament and all. I have really learnt a lot from this conversations. Gracias! Biko, is'nt there a "love" button? Dis like thingy is'nt expressing my emotions enough o!😒
Bisola🤣🤣😅🥰😂😍😍, she is such a blessing. Very true honestly people have become selfish too especially important things, value is very scarce now, we are still open to do our best. Life lessons everday👏👏👏, manythings that's not right is no w the right things . The society is really awkward a lot of times😊😊
Because of being truthful and straight forward I love you, you will be a truthful friend because you are the only one that came on this podcast an said it straight not others will be talking with one corner of their mouth instead of them to give it raw.
I thank the Almighty GOD for social media. I detach and cut people off easily when disrespect is constant or intentional and people used to say its petty and aggressive of me. Thank God I have always chosen me all the time and stay true to Me over anything and anyone. Thank You Bisola and everyone online who have helped me know I am not wired
Here for Bisola ❤, and yes that friend is definitely not a friend. I would advice you use sense to follow her from now on because something is definitely off
I don't know Bisola personally but I really like her. She's so effortlessly funny, assertive, talented and a born hustler. Wishing her a beautiful life.
Co-wishing 😍.
I like her too ❤
I really like and admire her as well, she seems like she would 'feel like home'
me too I LIKE HER
This resonates with me because it took me a while to arrive here. Some people are friends with you because they are better than you, but once you rub shoulders or it looks like you will get better, they change. Not everyone should be gifted the name of a friend. Let us make it commonplace to refer to people by their status: neighbor, churchgoer, former or current coworker, schoolmate etc.
This!!! Call them by their name. Introduce them by their name. Not everyone is a “Friend”. We use the word too loosely
Louderrrrrrrrrrrr
Wow! I thought I was the only one who experienced this
Yup!
Story of my life. I just started getting my 🧬 life together at 33 and I be seeing the "so called friends" for who they really are. Everybody loves u when ur down the minute u start succeeding or looking like ur finally getting ur sh*t together.. people start showing their true colours.
Don’t we all love Bisola ❤❤❤
We all do oooo😂❤
Oh... we do
If I don't love bisola waiting I gain
❤❤we dooo❤❤❤
The part where Bisola said ‘which number?’ NIN threw me off😂😂😂
Honestly, that was so funny 😂
Eight billion people in this world, and you're comfortable with those who have hurt me. Speaks volumes.
Oh lorrrrrd 😢
The comment I was searching for!!! Liiiiiiikee????
deep
The quality of friendship doesn't depend on how long you have known a person.Also,some friendships are meant for a season and it's important to know when that season is over.
Gbam!!
Yes, indeed it’s not. It’s not the length of time. It is the quality of the friendship and the intentionality that matters.
My best friend we have been best friends for five years but that friendship is even deeper for me than the people I’ve known for over 30 years.
Please 🙏 I will like to see bisola again, this particular episode got me glued to my phone, the interaction, emotional intelligence and witty humor😂😂I totally enjoyed this episode.
Lord! I love Bisola soooooooooo much. The last statements she made vey needed. Thank you sooo much Bisola for an educative and fun time. Ife love, thank you soooooo much. God bless you.
Bisola is smart, wise, beautiful, talented and every other thing in between ❤
This is why I love Bisola, I agree with everything she said. We are so much alike and I see that every time we have a conversation. She is so real and sweet. When she is for you, she goes all in and thats the person you should have in your corner.
I had someone like this in my life. She’s friends with me because she’s better than me, if she knows I have something she doesn’t have or better than hers, she’s getting it and way higher than what I have😂. She’s friends with my enemies too. I’m gradually distancing from her. Praying for more meaningful friendships because I’m a good friend too❤
I ran here because of Bisola! Everything she touches is gold ❤️
🤣😂😂 If Bisola do Comedy , she go successful diiiiiieeeee!!!!!!!!!!!
She flows naturally 😂❤
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ah ah you see it too😂
Honestly speaking🎉🎉🎉🎉😅😅😅😅❤❤
I don't support inheriting enemies but being chummy is questionable. My ex-husband was at my so-called best friend's 40th. The shock reset me. All the way in Canada, person wey no de support im children but 'child of God' no understand or claims not to. She said she's not on anybody's side. Bisola is sooooo correct. You see the true person in such times. Loyalty is a thing. Jealousy is a thing too. Friendship of almost 30 years
what! the friendship is over
Bisola is so blunt and honest. Love her❤️
BIsola's face when Ife was reading and when she was summarizing this gist was how i was too, smh. who needs enemies when you have friends like this?, as Bisola said, run o, sa lo!
I tell u 😂😂
Immediately I saw Bisola, I knew I had to watch and not just watch. I must comment!! She is just pure gold!! I agree with everything she said!❤
How people treat others often reflects how much they value those relationships. While some might argue that certain actions “aren’t that deep,” boundaries and respect are crucial, especially in close friendships. For example, if someone you consider a best friend continues to interact with your ex-fiancé without drawing clear boundaries-despite knowing how it affects you-it’s a blatant disregard for your feelings. A big red Bedsheet, not a common red flag.
Friendships require mutual respect, and if she valued you as deeply as you value her, she would prioritize your feelings over maintaining unnecessary connections. Some might justify this behavior by claiming neutrality, saying they don’t want to “take sides,” but neutrality can sometimes come across as passivity or even complicity in situations like this.
I’ve been in a VERY similar situation with a close friend also from secondary school. In our 30s, I finally had to end the friendship after multiple instances of what I saw as disloyalty, selfishness and etc. It’s painful when someone you see as a sister doesn’t align with your expectations of respect and loyalty, but sometimes, protecting your peace means walking away.
@@ohhheyasantwaa you worded it so well. Sometimes, protecting your peace means walking away!!! Bless you.
I wouldn’t ever comment on a TH-cam video. In fact I often joke that if it were for only me, TH-camrs wouldn’t make any money. But I stumbled on this video today and I read your comment. All I can say is - Thank You. It’s very validating to know that someone somewhere has the same line of reasoning as I do where friendship and values are concerned.
The scenario you described was me a few years ago. For the longest time I had put up with what I felt was disloyalty from a friend whom I considered a sister. After she pulled a last stunt in 2020, I finally summoned courage to tell myself the truth which was that she clearly didn’t see me the same way I saw her. I was in my 30’s and I walked away from a 20+ year old friendship. No one understood it and everyone tried to get me to talk with her but I had had enough. I’ve shied away from getting too close to people since then but fortunately, I’ve met some great people and I feel a lot safer with them. So, thank you. Contrary to what other people may have thought at the time, reading your comment makes me feel like my feelings were valid.
Thissssssss o... I Choose WALKING AWAY everytime.❤
Most people don't understand what friendship is all about. Thank you Bisola for the enlightenment.
Truly you choose the best person to discuss the topic 😂😂😂
Love Bisola's energy
Thank you Ife and Bisola... I'm a 38 and I've been worried sick about getting married but watching this have reset my thinking. Money 1st and if love comes yay
Not everyone has boundaries, not everyone is loyal and values friendship.
I only found out 😢
Bisola is sooooooo WISE. I totally enjoyed this. Thank you Ife and the DANG fam
I’m so glad I came to watch this. I really enjoyed this episode… Bisola has too much sense❤ I loved how she said “best friend B never hears what best friend A tells her”.. we all need a friend like her in our lives.
This is an interesting one. Thank you, Aunty Ife, for bringing Aunty Bisola on the show. I enjoyed watching her speak and learn from her. She is indeed the right person for this question.
I see Bisola as one loyal friend that everyone craves. She is blunt, and I like it.
If there is someone I don’t know but I love her person is Bisola,girl you are just a vibe,any movie I see bisola I must watch.You see that age thing you gave yourself and it’s like you are giving up already cos it has passed,my darling I assure you,you will marry right and you will not remember how old you are,you deserve love and a perfect love must surely find you in Jesus name.I heart you big time Bisola
Never seen someone speak so truly about my situation 😢
From not wanting to see people when I'm down, (for me it's because I want to always be happy around people) I eat a lot when I am stressed, I don't pick calls, call people or respond to some people's messages when I'm broke, because I don't know what they may want.... I cook a lot to relieve the stress, and I don't even know how to speak to confide in people 😢
I am a first child, and all I know is how to be strong.... most times, I cry really hard because I wish I also had that one person in my family that I could open up and break down in front of them in my down moments
Virtual hugs dearie...same with me❤
@beapearl Hugs my Love. We will be ok
Hugs and love my darling ❤️ You are not alone. May God be our strength
The very first time I’m leaving a comment. I enjoyed this episode a little bit too much 😊. Bisola is a gem. Spilled truth all through
I’ve been following you on TikTok for a while now, and I love your videos, especially the Bible stories (refined version) and other social tips. This is the first time I’m stumbling on your video on TH-cam. I literally screamed saying “OMG, Ife is on TH-cam! How did I not know😂”.
As always, I’ve learned a lot watching your videos (this is definitely not an exception).
I’ve been having so many questions about “Friendship”, and this episode answered a few of them.
Thank you so much for inviting Bisola (One of my FAVs in the entertainment industry).
Bisola is such a pure vibe... Lovable!!
It's not even a debate. That's not your friend. Run!
I mean...again and again sisterhood is proud of Bisola❤❤❤🤣🤣👏👏👏 Her energy and realness here is unmatched🙌🫶 I loveeeeee her❤️❤️❤️
I love this lady soo much, her smiles, her words,her jokes, her acting gosh I love her
Bisola you are who you think you are … Please people listen and read that again… There are some people (I refuse to call them friends) that are only close to you because they believe there are aspects of their life that is superior to yours. These people will badmouth you every chance, and talk bad about you without hesitation all the while staying close enough to glean information about you to ensure you’re not doing better than they are. These are household enemies. Please keep them at a distance and learn to not share every aspect of yourself and life with these cankerworms. At the same time, before you call someone a friend, ensure you’re also a ‘friend’. If you don’t know what being a friend means, what loyalty means, what sacrifice means, what longstanding means, please stay alone. Thank you.
I’ve always loved Bisola I wish I could see her More in films. Listening to the conversation I said to myself Bisola demonstrates all the behaviors attitudes loyalty of an Aquarian then when she spoke on the matter of the concern Ife read about I just had to google her DOB
She is Indeed An Aquarian Woman , Very Objective Very Loyal Realistically Aware
This woman speaks DEEP
That Topic was definitely A masterpiece
This lady question turning it around is Nonsense Nonsensical
Bisola I love you and share your Sentiments
Bisola made a whole lot of sense! Ife, thank you for bringing her. Now, to the story. I can so relate to what the sender sent in cos I was once in her shoes. A best friend who I confide in so much meet with our other friend to mock me when my the bf broke up with me. She did more things that hurt, yet she laughed like nothing happened. This is someone who I did most things for o. Some friends are enemies in disguise.
Sender, that lady is not your FRIEND!!! Run far away from her.
Sorry about your experience. It’s usually borne out of envy. I feel like when we’re close friends with people, we should have heightened sensitivity eg pick up red flags etc. We shouldn’t be clouded with emotions honestly.
@nnennaukoha you're right. The enviness was obvious. But just as the sender said in her story that she has been friends with the lady since they were 15. Mine was something more that because we attended the same secondary. I'm glad we're no longer friends. Thank you
I’m just happy I heard Bimbo’s name on the best friend list ❤
I totally enjoyed this video. I have watched Bisola from ‘I need to know, education is the key so why do u deny it’ days…. That sound track still rings in my head! Yes, she is someone that I feel like I ve known for a long time and if I see her I will still refer her as my friend, yet she doesn’t even know me! Lol. I’m a fan I guess….. keep up the good work!
About this inheriting enemies and stuff. It actually depends on circumstance. You can’t do my friend wrong or something that really messed with her and expect me to even be cordial with you because you can do the same to me. And inheriting enemy doesn’t necessarily mean you hiss or curse or do anything crazy to the ‘enemy’ . It’s just simple boundary.
I’ve always loved Bisola since I met her at WFM ❤ Beautiful soul ❤
This resonates with me like mad! Bisola is me. So, run abeg. Anyone who chooses to be friends with your enemies is your enemy. Who knows What she’s saying to them or has said to them to even get to this point???
Bisola is really a friend to have in your corner, a loyal ride or die kind of person.
I love this episode so much.
2024 is a year where I have been deeply hurt and I don't even want to have friends. I realized so many were not friends even though I try to treat people nice because that is who I am and want to be treated same way.
But I am thankful to God for opening my eyes.
It is bad too if you only have people that drain, I was overwhelmed cos I kept on pouring out of empty well. BUT 2025 is going to be on a clean slate by God's grace
I totally agree with you
18:33 the reason they always sound better or seem better before death is because of something called the “surge of energy” or terminal lucidity it isn’t fully understood. Scientists think it might happen because of chemicals in the brain, a burst of adrenaline, or the brain’s final activity. It’s still a mystery.
Sad
It's also called "eye of the storm"
Your best friend seems to be intentionally hurting you😢
Holding onto that friendship will hurt you a lot more because how can your friend not care about your feelings? Dismissing it as she's an amazing person seems like she's doing a good job at being a two-faced person.
Anyone that doesn't like Bisola has probably just only met her a second ago. Too loveable 😊☺️
Bisola is such a vibe
Its really okayy
Fantastic Episode everrrr🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Bisola is so meeeeee 😅😅😅😅 na she dey best herself oh. Been in that situation, i didnt realize inwas bestyin myself for so long😅😅
Me too
Bisola is an amazing human. I love her so much. Well done Ife. I love what you’re doing.
That's not your friend. Don't be a fool. Run! She has no boundaries, she's dangerous. Meanwhile, I love Bisola.She's real. Incredibly talented too.
This series is so heart warming...
Bisola is such an intelligent girl❤❤❤
I learnt a lot from this episode 💜🫶thanks to our amazing guest🙏❤️I love you Ife
Really good point: being friendly is far different from being friends.
Let's normalise prefixes like, "Meet my office-friend / old secondary school friend" etc😏
Toxic friendships where you feel unsafe will only end in tears, no matter the number of years. People grow apart!
Using these prefixes might be a little hard in our society. I think it’s still okay to use the term “friend” like we’ve always done, however, we should know exactly where people belong in our lives, where we are in their lives and treat them accordingly. Set boundaries, know what to and what not to share about your life, with whom.
This is a beautiful show......thank you ❤ 😍 🤩
This is how I expect every of my friends to be… thought I was crazy expecting that but…❤
I absolutely loved and enjoyed every second of this episode😂‼️
A big well done to you two 🙌
Kindly bring her back again 🙏
I love Bisola so much and this episode is so good!❤️
I enjoyed watching every bit of it. Plus I love Bisola. She's so open
I loved this episode soooo much
Thank you Bisola😊
Bisola is so wise i love her vibe. All she shared and said i stan❤
I stand with bisola’s answer on this and that’s true. People disguise themselves to be your friend while they are wolves in sheep clothings. A lot of people pretend for years but you can’t say what’s in their mind and that’s why you need the Holyspirit for discernment, before you call anyone to be your best friend, tell the Holyspirit to reveal if you’re making the right decision or not.
This is my personal opinion on this. Thank you.
This is so homely and feels like chatting with your home girls ❤ I feel and understand every bit of this conversation 🫂
Loyalty is such a rare gift 💝
You see that lady that asked the question, what if your friend was wrong,Na them.Your friend was wrong and someone push her out of her office no better way to handle it. LOYALTY is very hard to get,when people are not loyal to you take it or leave it, they don't love you. If my friend is wrong I will tell her but will still do everyone who did her dirty,dirty too.I owe anyone I genuinely love that . Dear poster you are besting yourself.For everytime you were hurt,your friend was happy or indifferent about it. You really need to reevaluate that friendship.Sit her down tell her to choose between your friendship and your ex.I already know the answer, I can only hope you are prepared for unveiling.Goodluck!!!
😂😂😂😂😂 laughing at the stray bullet that hit the lady who asked that question 'what if your friend was wrong?'
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Bisola is exactly who ever she thinks she js. When i see her or hear speak ,i think of myself. I see myself in her 😊
This is my favourite episode!😂I absolutely adore Bisola❤, she’s so interesting to watch. I won’t inherit a silly fight that makes no sense, but yeah, if it’s a thing where my friend is friends with the person and that how I know the person, it will create a distance for sure
I’ve always loved Bisola.
I love her aura.
you brought the perfect guest for this episode..i loved it so much and i totally agree!more like she's gathering a team of enemies to use against you or what
I just love bisola's vibes. I really do lover her kinda person ❤
I love this Bisola podcasts 🙌
I enjoyed it...
I really took out time to watch this.
Thank you Ife, for this community, thank you for this episode, thank you for bringing Bisola.
I just redefined my definition of friendship from this episode, thank you so much Ife.
Tis truly said people that smile alot r most dangerous when angry. She was so honest with that❤
I loved this conversation 🥹✨ Bisola is such a good conversationalist.
Can we please have Enado Odigie as your guest 🙏🏾 I love her dzown 💛
Had a good time streaming this video❤
This episode was so good! I’ll always listen to bisola talk! Love listening to her so much ❤ everything she said 👏
Wow! I just want to thank Ife and Bisola for dissecting this. Funny enough, Bisola and I are a lot alike...temperament and all. I have really learnt a lot from this conversations. Gracias! Biko, is'nt there a "love" button? Dis like thingy is'nt expressing my emotions enough o!😒
Bisola🤣🤣😅🥰😂😍😍, she is such a blessing. Very true honestly people have become selfish too especially important things, value is very scarce now, we are still open to do our best. Life lessons everday👏👏👏, manythings that's not right is no w the right things . The society is really awkward a lot of times😊😊
Thanks for sharing and for also practising what you say. Merry Christmas 🎅
Bisola is effortlessly funny, one can’t help but love her ❤
Because of being truthful and straight forward I love you, you will be a truthful friend because you are the only one that came on this podcast an said it straight not others will be talking with one corner of their mouth instead of them to give it raw.
I love this episode. It’s the absolute truth.
I love bisola. I could listen to her all day😅
You just gained a new follower, for the love of Bisola 🎉
lmao. I love Bisola. This is my best episode yet! Enjoyed this a little too much
I thank the Almighty GOD for social media. I detach and cut people off easily when disrespect is constant or intentional and people used to say its petty and aggressive of me. Thank God I have always chosen me all the time and stay true to Me over anything and anyone. Thank You Bisola and everyone online who have helped me know I am not wired
I enjoyed this episode fully, especially the last part. Bisola is so funny😂 I love her
One of the best so far. I laughed so hard. Bisola is so funny.
Yeah, run! That person isn't your friend.
Bisola is my friend in my head😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. She’s real and genuine and I love that.
First time watching this particular podcast
But I can tell that it is really amazing,
Well done dear ife
You are great
Kudos to my fav bisola 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤
I love everything about this episode ❤❤❤ bisola is a vibe
This is one of the best episode ever ❤
How can I love this episode over and over again 😂 our guest bisola is the sauce of the episode. Love you so much dearie ❤
Yaaaayyyyyy!!!!the episode I have been waiting for
Just gleamed my life in a new perspective.. Thank you Bisola ❤
Here for Bisola ❤, and yes that friend is definitely not a friend. I would advice you use sense to follow her from now on because something is definitely off
Bisola is all and More ❤❤
Much Love 😊
Bisola and Ife, I love this session
Bisola is so full of Joy .
So sorry to hear about your loss
Always love bisola thinking
God will continue to give you more wisdom 🙏 🙌 ❤❤
this was a lovely watch. I love Bisola