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My daughter who is not a stupid woman by any means, tell me I am paranoid because I keep ALL my doors locked when I am home day or night. She does not and when I tell her how foolish that is, she says "but Mom I live in a safe neighborhood". I tell her everyone thinks their neighborhhod is safe until something bad happens. Criminals will always seek opportunities to exploit the weak.
I live in a very nice area, & 5 houses down there was a break-in, & the robber even took their safe. I felt very vulnerable hearing this bc I was a victim 20ish yrs ago to a break-in, but worse. We're moving 5hrs away to a very small town, & I can't wait bc there are just too many ppl around here now. So many ppl have been moving here, & they just keep bldg more neighborhoods. More ppl, more crime. Not worth it! Til we move, I don't trust strangers!
I live in a very small village- only about a dozen houses. A man who moved in nearby used to pass our house every day walking his dog. We got talking, became quite friendly, and were surprised when he disappeared. We later found out he had been arrested charged and convicted of child molestation and rape - now serving 15 years in jail. You just cannot tell who you can trust - be cautious.
@@Trish.... I live in the county. There are regular break-ins. We have to lock our car to keep people from breaking into it. They aren't trying hard becuase there's always another car or house to go to if yours is too difficult, but there is no such thing as a safe area, any more. Always lock your doors and windows. Make sure you know who's around.
I've owned my house for 20 years. I keep all doors and windows LOCKED.
Mom, you are correct. Does she have the NextDoor app? People post about local crimes there.
12 yrs ago I walked out of a restaurant, and a guy decided to follow me home. He knew where I lived & my car license.
It doesn't get any scarier then that.
I wasn't a young cute thing, nope just the average 40 something, dressed modesty.
Wake-up gals.... Patera's right. This country isn't safe thanks to the borders being opened.
Stay off your phone in public! Keep your head up & be aware of everything around you.
When I was 17 I was almost abducted by Arther Shaw ross a serial killer in Rochester New York. It was by the grace of God I got away. I heard the loudest voice telling me to run
Wow! Terrifying!
34 years ago I was at a Ford dealer in Virginia Beach when I heard a loud voice tell me 'Leave Now'. I did and five minutes later a fired employee shot the place up. I actually saw him entering when I was driving out.
You were blessed from on High!
Wow
I’ve been a victim of a violent rape by a stranger many years ago when I was in my 20’s. I was asked for a ride by a man in a parking lot and I told him “no” but he gave me a sob story and I stupidly let him in my car and drove him to his apartment. He asked me to go into the apartment to see his cat because I mention in the car that I had to get home to my cat. This guy never came across as evil and after a lot of persuasion, I went in to see his cat. I pet his cat for a few minutes and went to the door to leave and he grabbed me and threw me on the floor. I couldn’t get away. I was raped and he laid on top of me all night so I couldn’t get away as he prayed to every god I’ve heard of and some I haven’t. Daylight came and he got off of me and went to take a shower and had mentioned taking me into the mountains. I grabbed my clothes and purse he threw across the room and ran out half naked to my car and pulled away as he ran out after me wrapped in a towel. Needless to say, I prosecuted his behind and he only got 1 year in prison out of a possible 10 due to a plea bargain.😢
God saved my life in more ways than I can count and he saved me that day. I’m in my late 60’s now and I owe it all to God.
To the young people who subscribe to Patera’s channel, please heed her warnings. It’s not safe for anyone these days especially women. Don’t risk your life thinking it’s safe when it isn’t out in the world. I would never dream of walking or running in a park even if I was with a friend. I think we tend to feel somewhat invincible when we are young and can make unwise choices that can be costly. Listen to that small voice inside when you are being warned of danger because that voice is coming from God.🙏
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I hope someone reads my post here. My Dad was law enforcement (Air Force AP, Federal Agent and Sheriff's Deputy) over a 50 year span of his life. I'm the only daughter and I have 3 brothers. I'm also the youngest. Dad taught me from about 4 years old how to defend myself. I am now 60 years old. Dad put me in self defense classes sponsored by the Police Department, he took me to the firing range and he taught me pressure points. I'm here to tell anyone who has any inkling of the violence in this world. Please take the advice, and don't let your pride kick you in the ass. Be vigilant, aware of your surroundings, and watch your six. Always be out with either a man or another woman who is vigilant. Me personally, I am tired of the high maintenance woman who walks around like no harm will come to them. In my Dad's words...."Don't be a victim." Stay frosty folks.
Thank you for sharing this!
Excellent advise for those who have an ear to hear!
Your dad was wise. I served too. I regret my decision to shelter my kids and not teach them.
My Daddy made sure I could protect myself and sent me to Judo classes in the 1960's. Of course growing up in an area known for hunting, we learned how to respect and use firearms at an early age. Helping my son practice Karate added more skills. Plus, my Daddy taught my brother and me about Street Fighting. After having experienced Marital Abuse years ago, my BS Meter is non existent at the age of 69. I'm beginning to understand why there's no mention of the US in The Book of Revelation, because we're seeing the collapse of our Society, much like the Fall of Rome. 2nd Timothy 3:2 is unfolding as we watch.
A couple of years ago, I was walking from the parking lot to the grocery store. Two men came from behind and started walking, one on each side of me. They were speaking to each other in a foreign language. I began walking faster so I could get to the store entrance. When I reached the entrance, they backed off. This was in broad daylight. Yes, be aware of your surroundings constantly.
There was a woman who was raped on a full public transit car and no one stopped the guy. If that goes on then why would any woman think she’s safe in a park.
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I remember that and it’s APPAULING. But people did sit and record it on their phones! UN-BELIEVABLE!!
I suppose the witnesses got their cell phones out and recorded it! Who have we become as a society?
Truth
Unbelievable right?
You’re 100% correct. I worked in law enforcement and I can tell you rapists will admit that they look for victims who are alone or distracted. The days are evil! Be prepared!!
It's not living in fear to be cautious and careful! It's being smart!
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Exactly!!
I agree!
AMEN to that Statement🙏🌹
When I got my conceal carry permit, my instructor said never park next to a van, always park close to the cart return and that female Realtors are in sooooo much danger. Meeting strangers in empty houses.
Crimes are no longer being punished and crime is running rampant even in smaller towns. I work in a small community where people felt safe and we had a mass shooting that rocked their world . 3 people dead and 1 injured while the shooter attacked them on their break at work. 2 of those shot were family members of mine. The shooter will walk with parole. It's happening everywhere. Preach it to masses. Appreciate all that you do! Much love
I agree that even in small towns things are not as safe as before. Huge increase in meth heads committing crimes with very little consequences.
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Sad but so true Prayers for your family members 🙏
The powers that be are letting criminals out of prison daily and not telling us about it. Then there’s the problem at the border…. so yes, I don’t go anywhere alone.
Prayers for you and your family.
Bravo for telling everyone to be more safe. I'm 76 and this world is not the same as when I was growing up!
I saw a young lady being followed in WalMart yesterday, so I went up to her and let her know where the men were and to put her head on a swivel! She thanked me and I went back to my shopping. They were in an all fired hurry to shoot past me (I'm 63 and overweight) to get on her tail...and her tail was covered in workout pants that show everything. She was probably late 20's to early 30"s. I pray she watched over her shoulder and got out safely!
Thank you for telling her! 💜
Way to go!
Thank you for telling her and watching out for her
I have been saying this for years!! My husband used to teach handgun safety classes. We even did women only classes. The 1st line of defense is not putting yourself in those situations. DON'T BE THERE!! Any woman who thinks she can overpower a man is delusional. Your reaction won't be quicker than their action. They've already sized you up and put their plan into action. Keep preaching it Patara!! Love you and your channel. Been watching since the beginning! ❤
I have met feminists who denied men were stronger than women. Mind you, I'm a woman, I'm very athletic, fit and aggressive. I'm also in my forties and stronger than these much younger women who claim men aren't stronger than women. I know for a fact men are stronger AND faster.
That's very true
We don't have to live in Fear. We Live in Faith! And we use discernment. Being prepared and staying safe is responsible. Thank you for all of your advice.
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Amen! So true.
Well said!🙏✝️❤️🕊
The book, The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker, really opened my eyes to trusting your God given instincts. We tend to brush off danger signals because we feel silly, that we’re overreacting, or even rude, when in truth we are shutting down a natural survival instinct.
I just got that!
I bought that book years ago and it's a great book. I need to read it again to refresh my awareness.
I bought the book for my teenage daughter years ago. I read it first. Great book!
You are never a victim until you are… some survive some do not.
Been there. Done that.
And some become rougher and more observant
I agree Chamama, and Patara is absolutely correct, on everything she said!
Thanks for saying the truth! I wish I could get that across to all the lady’s in my family & friends! Blessings❣️❣️
Everything is always fine until it isn’t. In a split second your life could change forever.
When we let murderers and rapist out of jail, but lock up the Amish for selling food. This country is in for a very rude awakening.
Our property backs up to National Forest and we have all kinds of large predators snaking through our property on a regular basis. What that girl is doing is about like me going for a walk after dark after frying a mess of chicken.
Yep. I believe you. I live and work on a homestead next door to a juvenile delinquent rehabilitation center for teenage convicts. We get the escapees and some were convicted for violent crimes. We also get trespassers or as I call them uninvited 2 legged bandits. I have security up in several layers to give warnings when someone is here. I would never risk my life with those people.
I believe you! I watched a "Missing Persons" show. One of the deputies who helped search a National Forest said, they were amazed at how many 'homeless' they found.
My neighbor almost lost his little (unleashed) dog to a bear a couple summers ago because he didn’t believe any of the posted. You see a pet but predators see a tasty snack!
I appreciate your straight-forwardness, Patara. I wish my 37 year old daughter could understand this. SHE gets upset with ME when I beg her not to hike or run alone! AND...she's a shorter, slight woman! Telling someone where you're going won't make a hill o' beans if something happens!
My daughter is the same age, same attitude - and she is a truck driver to boot . . . I think she's more careful driving but . . .
I wonder if you could convince her with actual proof of the dangers.
I think I will and show my granddaughters and grandsons.
I would like to find out statistics and actual crimes in the US in the last 50 yrs.
TELL HER TO ASK HER LOCAL POLICE DEPARTMENT TO SETTLE THE ARGUEMENT. (P.S. MOM WINS)
@@ninnymuggins5159 Very, very smart idea!
I absolutely agree with everything you just said. We live rural Tennessee. Everyone knows everyone. Low crime, friendly little town, BUT… My granddaughter works nights at Subway in our little town 14 miles away. They go by twos to dumpster at close, she calls me when she leaves and we talk till she pulls in the driveway. Anything could happen at any given time no matter where you live. So preach on sister!!
Prayers for protection for your granddaughter 🙏
@@Loretta318 Many thanks for prayers 💞🙏🏻💞
Absolutely! Glad she is being safe!
daughter gets off after 10 p.m.
she calls when she is locked in the car and in know to go out on the porch about 15 minutes later and i wait for her
when she went to college is when we got her a cell phone
it was in our town but safety paramount!
even for your sons
My granddaughters work there. Found a man sitting in the dumpster. 😮. Scared em to death.
Please address the subject of Yard and garage sales. I have a lot to get rid of...but will not have either due to a safety issue. I do not want people coming to my home...and looking around and possibly coming back layer. Thank you for your words of wisdom. 🤗
A woman I went to high school with went to the grocery store to buy ice cream for her grandkids. She was attacked and had her throat slit. This was in a very small town where people all knew each other. It can and does happen anywhere. Be vigilant, be safe, carry protection AND NEVER BE ALONE!! Thank you, Patara for trying to open the eyes of the sleepy ones! ❤️
I agree with everything you are saying. I have been very vigilant about my surroundings for years...especially not safe at night...go tell it on the mountain sister
Horrific.
Oh no💔
That's horrific
@Busy S I am 64 y/o I was staying at a hotel in San Antonio. I had a young man approach me after dark when I was getting my bags out of the car. As he approached me he looked over his shoulder to see if anyone was around. He reached for my bags & I pulled my shirt up over the handle of my *** as I had it holstered at my waste & that dude couldn't get away from me fast enough. Maintain awareness & be ready & certain that you can defend yourself at all times! He had a nefarious plan but this weak elderly lady wasn't so meek & mild & had no plan of being a victim!!!!!
It is also a good idea to switch up your routine whether jogging, running, shopping etc. you never know if someone is studying your routine. My car was stolen while I went into the bank, something I did every Monday. The bank was in a mall so I usually did some shopping since I was out. This time I was in there exactly 3 minutes! The police recovered my totaled vehicles 3 weeks later. I was told to change my routine to different times, days and even locations where I banked. What would have happened if I had returned even sooner while they were in the process of stealing my car? What if ..............BTW I was 38 weeks pregnant and had my 3 year old with me!!!!
Smart phones have turned many into “zombies”. People don’t look around anymore…while in their vehicle or walking around. I see it everyday. My heart sinks each time I see it.
My 15 year old started driving last June & I constantly remind her when we go out to be aware of her surroundings. Looking at your phone, walking into/out of stores with headphones on, and not being alert can and will make you an easy target.
I have a dear, dear friend who was sexually assaulted in a state park while running alone so I know what you are saying is true. I stand with you and thank you for being so bold with the truth. It's opened my eyes and increased my awareness by 1000%. Many blessings!
Being careful is different from being afraid.
As a single woman I shop no later than 1:00, usually on my lunch break. If it's not the middle of summer, my 100 lb chocolate lab is with me and I open carry, on my hip. When available I shop with friends. You are correct, we must keep our head on swivel and think smart!
He's your emotional support animal! 😘🤎🐕🦺
Nothing like a chocolate Lab. Mine is so protective
You are 1000% right! Seniors also please beware, it’s not the 1950’s out there anymore!
Agreed 💯 ❤
It's not victim blaming or fearmongering to protect yourself from becoming a victim at all costs.
You are right better safe than sorry. I’m 43 and at the age of 6 my neighbor friend was taken from her lawn and killed in The woods. That same year another child almost performed a sexual act on me but my grandfather walked in and saved me. At age 8 I ran from a stranger in my apartment complex and the next day he was in the news for kidnapping a child. Age 19 I was hit by 5 hit and runs in 6 weeks time 5 times!!!! At the same light! Then at 19 I was lured and groomed by a sex trafficker and held for 2 days until I escaped. So better!!!!!!! Safe!!!! Than !!!!!! Sorry!!!!!! Use wisdom!!! And ask the lord for discernment and protection and use common sense!!!!
After watching a video the other day that you put out on this subject, I realized that when I shop alone (dumb) I’m not aware. But when I have the grand babies, I’m super aware of everyone and everything around me. We don’t protect ourselves enough for sure.
I’m 63 and learning to become aggressive was a difficult obstacle for me to overcome. It’s not how I was raised but it has become necessary in todays world.
I'm 57 and I'm right there with you!
Amen preach it girl! Ladys the weirdo's out there pick their victims. 9 times out of 10 the perps will pick out the ones that make themselves a target! The world is run by evil principalities for sure! As a single lady, I keep my eyes open, and avoid going to places, or out after dark by myself. I don't go to odd places! When I go out I get my business done and I come home. World is not as it seams! Thanks Patara
People are so sensitive these days, enough is enough. Well said Patara! Stay busy friends ❤️
They should have grown up in my family, just me and my brothers, and they didn't take pity on the girl. They stood up for her, but she had to keep up.
amen!
@@donnafountain4471 that's my daughter, she has two older brothers and all older male cousins, she keeps up. We forget sometimes she's only 7, 😅
You are so right!! We can’t be too safe these days. Be aware of your surroundings, wherever you are!! Keep your doors locked in your home and close your blinds at night. Immediately lock your car door as soon as you get inside. Patera is telling you the truth every day!
Omg!!! You got that right!!! No more babying these folks!!!!!
Complacency is the devil's playground. Great video, thank you!! God bless you and yours. ❤
We must stay vigilant at all times.
Preach girl. I have a family member almost killed. DO NOT worry about hurting feelings. You’re speaking truth.
Great video, Patara!! Florida (Pasco County), we just had a Uber Eats driver murdered as he delivered food to a house in Holiday. The 30 yo man that killed..and dismembered that Uber Eats driver was a MS 13 member, on parole from Indiana, that had just moved to Florida. Please say a prayer for the drivers family. We are NOT living in the same America that we grew up in!!
These gangs from across the border are Satanists. For real
I saw that too, he was scary looking!!
I miss Florida(Pinellas Cty), I’ve been in East TN for 3 years. It’s beautiful here but I miss my Florida😢
Praying 🙏
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I heard about this one on the news. I live in FL. Terrible !!!!
Please watch everything around you! I personally had a female approach my vehicle. I was at a gas station just happens I was watching and saw her approx 20 yrd heading strait toward me. She was in zombie land so bad! Stood at the front of my vehicle as I instructed her to move away . She continued to the side to attempt to get into my car. I firmly ordered her away as I was already making decisions. I am a small framed female making decisions on the right defense decisions. Ladies be ready at all times for male or female.
If "Steph" doesn't listen to Patara's loving and caring advice, then we all need to Pray for her. 🙏 ❤
Yes prayers sent up 🙏🏽✝️
Agree
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Agree...
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And prayers for all who have no choice but to be alone.
I lived in one of the safest cities in the world. And when I taught a high court judge, he told me to be aware, take the headphones out and stop thinking you're so safe! This was Tokyo before 2010 😂 I don't at all feel that you are pushing fear. You are recommending folks Be Aware and Beware. And I'm so grateful ❤
I uses to be one of those women that camped alone after all my children moved away. I was involved in a domestic abuse and now I have ptsd. Wow! What a wake up call of what could of happened all those times alone years ago. I'm listening Patara!!!
I camp alone but carry at all times when I do!
I thought you were talking about a friend of mine, until you got to the yapping Chihuahua! My friend, who is also a single woman, goes dry camping alone and brings her dog. He is a German Shepherd, but I still think she's crazy for camping out in the middle of nowhere. I will encourage her to watch your video. Thank you, Patera, for all you do. 🙂
Exactly. Sadly, German shepherds are not bullet proof. I wish they were.
About five years ago I was in a large market shopping for food. A very nice woman was near me a lot to the point i was noticing her. She asked me if I could shop with her as she felt a man was following her. I said sure. And I will be damned I saw a guy shadowing us until I told her to hug me. When we hugged he left. I never saw the woman again. We live in a small town.
Thank you for doing that!!
I grew up in a lovely neighborhood. My mother warned us of only 2 men to steer clear of and to be aware of the transients/hobos under the bridge. At 10 my friends and I weren't expected to be home until 4pm. We'd be out roaming around, exploring, riding our bikes even miles from home. Now? If my grandkids are 10' away? I can't do it. People don't realize just how serious a matter this is.
Finally...THE TRUTH IS SPOKEN...you go Patara...Love in Christ ❤️🙏
Patera, you are SOOO RIGHT!! People need to wake up and look around. It’s sad that we are forced to live this way and the world IS becoming more evil. Thanks for your great videos and helping to wake people up!
We are living in unprecedented times. People are not living in reality.
Totally agree and not just women but men too.Even my 6ft6 survivalist son knows better than to go somewhere risky alone.He won't go fishing at the lake alone and not out of fear but out of caution.He's actually had conversations with other men that have been robbed at the lake when they were by themselves.
When I was teaching, I taught in a school district that had a 4-day school week. On friday's, my daughter and I would shop together. Now that I'm retired, my husband takes me shopping and my daughter's husband takes her shopping. My granddaughters grew up watching all of us shop together and they WON'T shop alone. If they can't find someone to go shopping with them they just wait for a day that someone can go with them.
Sometimes the truth hurts...you are spot on Patara. Wish more people were like you!
I've needed a knee replacement for years but came up with every excuse in the book to put it off. I listen to each and every video on this channel...it finally occurred to me that I could not run if I was in danger. Made an appt today, gonna get it done. I'm not going to be afraid I'm going to be smarter and safer!!
I'll pray for your quick healing. ❤
I had a friend who at 83 got BOTH knees done, kind of scary but his choice. He was fine though and must have known himself better than me for sure. You got this, hang tough and do the therapy and you will be fine and dandy in a bit.
Go for it! You will be glad you did🎉
@@thelmaavila3685 Thank you so much!!
@In The Kitchen It hit me like a brick (the last Patara video) and I just knew now was the time...before it gets any worse out there!!
My only sister, Rosario Gonzalez, was kidnapped from the Miami Grand Prix in 1984. In broad daylight, in a crowd of people. She was 20 years old. She has never been found. The world today is a much more dangerous place than it was back then! I don’t live in fear. I didn’t raise my children to live in fear. BUT, being cautious and not making yourself an easy victim or putting yourself in dangerous situations is SMART! Everyone thinks it can’t happen to them until it does. I have 4 Doberman dogs. And own a firearm and know how to use it. But I still don’t put myself in dangerous situations! All you can do is warn people, and if they make stupid choices, then that’s on them. Keep preaching Patara!
I've been a victim and echo your sentiment Patara. If those who do not want to listen and disagree with you, well, I call them sitting ducks. Their luck will run out. Their self preserved attitude of being invincible that nothing will happen to them they Are Stupid As Rocks!
I also trained in self-defense, and the instructors all teach their students the first thing is to not willingly put yourself in situations.
Being smart is not being paranoid.
I live life by being smart, not stupid.
Exactly right!
And never get in the car with them! Better to be killed on the spot than taken off, tortured, raped and then killed.
you are very smart
@@connievaughn8468 happened to me @13, fought for my life, got away. I knew back then that I would've rather died there than get worse than death. Stay up 🤗💐✨💜
Fact fact fact fact!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mid 60s here and a packing Nana but I still never go out on my own any more. My husband or Son go with me. This world is too crazy. After a few close calls several years ago I got my conceal carry permit but even then I am glad my men love me enough to want me protected with their presence. Keep up the good work Patara! Sometimes the truth hurts but oh well.
I’m not that sensitive but with that said-I’d rather have my feelings hurt than my body hurt! Always appreciate your insight ❤
I'm so glad you're talking about this. I think the only women or people that think you're being dramatic about what can happen out there are people that never seen any real danger. I was in a very scary situation pretty early in life and ill never forget it.
Even when I'm out riding fences, no distractions! Proper dress, a rifle and side arm are my constant companions as well as a couple highly trained dogs.
Sounds awesome
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That should be normal for out doing farming, at anytime do to wild cridders, snakes, and the hi*man kind as well
@@hands2hearts-seeds2feedamu83 you should see how I travel, lol. Plus, I have a functioning cannon in my yard.
I do the same. Head on a swivel at ALL times!
This is so true in South Africa it is now common to see missing person on fb ever other day. 98% of the time you will see a week or so later they found the body. Please be safe
That's awful!
What's going on there?
I have been worried about South Africans for years. Used to listen to a couple of different channels out of South Africa and this was years ago. South Africans were trying to warn Americans. Stay safe.
Thank you...people NEED TO HEAR THIS NOW! Leaving your front door open with a silly screen door to let the sun in IS A THING OF THE PAST!!!!!!!! Wish people would HEED the warning.❤
As a mom of only daughters, I appreciate your honesty. We should be very vigilant. Thank you.
As Katherine Watt suggests, “If the globalists don’t like it, do it more and harder.
Yep. Snek sticker stays on the truck. Just put a Betsy Ross flag and a Henry pew sticker on it day before yesterday. Cheers!
Everything you said is 100 percent true. I’m a 57 year old man who concealed carries and I no longer go to the gas station, grocery store, or restaurants after 10pm. It isn’t worth it to put yourself in potential harms way if it isn’t absolutely necessary.
Completely agree. This coming from a former female Marine.
Thank you for your service! (Sister & neice of former Marines). And Patara speaks truthfully!
@@Diceprincess Thankyou for your service❤
Thank you for your service, it is Truly appreciated !
I'm a daughter of a Marine, aunt to 2 Marines, granddaughter of an Air Force man, great-granddaughter and sister to Army men, the military has been our life for several generations.
Thank you for this message Patera. In general over the past 2 crazy years especially I've become overly cautious when going anywhere. However when riding my bike alone out on rural quiet backroads of east TN, I haven't been so cautious. It has always seemed safe. But recently while camping in a national forest with my husband, I decided to ride alone after my husband got called into work (he typically would ride with me). A man sitting in a car by the side of the road, suddenly seemed to be following me and thankfully I wasn't far from the campground and nothing happened but that really opened my eyes to how stupid it was to ride alone outside of the campground. And your message today has reinforced the fact that I need to be safer near home also. God bless you Patera! ❤
Ive been a victim had to learn the hard way. Your 100% on the mark!
If it's predictable, it's preventable! Preach girl! 20 years ago is long gone! Most people have no clue, until it happens to them.
Some people just can’t handle reality. Spot on.
If you don't put yourself in bad situations, then you don't have to try and get out of that situation. My mom raised me not to be in fear, but also not to be stupid. To not put myself in a situation where something, anything could happen. That includes everything I do, not just going out in public, but everything I do, everyone I meet and every situation I am in.
Patara, you are 💯 correct with your words. I am a female retired State Correctional Officer, and even with all my training, I use extreme caution regarding when and where I go... and then question myself if I even need to go. As you were discussing your conversation with Stephanie, I was literally saying every word you said before you said it. Your words and advice are excellent. Hopefully, people out there are smart enough to take the advice. As you said, so far, Stephanie has been lucky, and again, as you said, one day that luck may run out, and when it does it will be too late. I do not live in fear, but I live wisely. I have always told my kids and their friends that I realize we are not immune to something bad happening but I can darn sure say it wasn't because I wasn't taking precautions because as we know even the most prepared people can have the worst situation present itself. Please be smart people, especially you ladies.
Amen
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Amen thank you.
If you have an obvious disability you are instantly a target and need to play smart. Don't put yourself in situations that are likely to turn dangerous. When out anywhere (Including church) you need to be vary aware of who is around, watching you and strategically position yourself to get away if needs be.
Preach it !! This world is not safe. And I dnt live in fear. But I’m not dumb I pay attention and go out with others . Eyes wide open .
Amen!!! Preach!!!! From a former police officer and female you are on point!!!!!!! Thank you!!
Woot!!! AMEN! I have been a runner for 50 years, I conceal carry initially for cougar and bear up here in the mountains. I stopped running the 4 mile road 2 years ago. My husband built me a gym in our home and I am safer, stronger and sexier then I have ever been. Keep on Patera. We need you.
I only work out at home now too. I love walking in the early morning, but don't feel safe to anymore.
You are so right about being a victim. 29 years ago I went to visit my father’s grave and on my way back to my vehicle a man flashed me in broad daylight. It’s worse now days.
Patara, you are the Mamaw that some folks were never BLESSED to have!! Keep it coming sister!
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Only she looks really young 😉💪
Amen Patera. God is Working thru lady. Thank you. I’m one of those tiny, 61 yr old divorced ladies that use to go everywhere alone. Now, I order groceries online and curbside p/u. I cannot thank you enough for you past sev videos as you made me “Wake Up”. I will not be going on errands etc alone. And I pray that I can depend on a friend to ride with me to out of town dr’s visits. Those trips alone, I can only put my trust and faith in God.
My husband is the same way !! I go with him and we don’t go out at night hardly at all. We are older and have to be even more aware of our surrounding. We aren’t as strong as we used to be !! We
Are prepared but being
older makes you more vulnerable!!
You are wise and do is James to protect his wife !🤗
You are correct !!! I worked a couple of years in corrections here in DFW area and oh my Lord the evil stories of how people were targeted and killed. I’ve taught my kids from a young age to keep their heads on a swivel at all times and to pay close attention. It’s sad I came from a place where we slept with windows open and doors not locked and we are way passed those days. We are fighting things seen and unseen!!
Patara, you forgot to mention one thing: people can be targeted while they are driving. If someone gets on your back bumper and taps you like they're trying to bump draft, you need to take the f*ck off immediately. Do not pull over. Do not get out of your vehicle. This is the set-up for a carjacking.
Some other stuff that could save a life:
>Train your kid to call out very specific phrases which will call attention to a danger situation, such as "you're not my mom or dad, get away from me" or "you're a pedophile, get away from me". A kid screaming willy-nilly gets ignored or told to shut up.
>If you have to send your kid to school, avoid school uniforms at all costs UNLESS IT'S GENERIC, ATHLETIC DEPARTMENT ISSUE POLO SHIRTS, SWEATSHIRTS AND KHAKIS. Why? School uniforms scream money. A blazer with the school crest on the pocket is like putting a target on your kid's back.
>If you are a female, do not start screaming "rape" if you are being attacked. Why? Because the first person to hear you may be someone like my father, who will ignore you because, according to him, rape doesn't exist and a female is always asking for it. For anyone who has read my posts on the topic of self-defense on this channel, the reason why I bring a physical, smash-mouth, nasty mentality to the table is because this is the kind of bullshit I had to listen to come out of the mouth of a father who would not think twice about selling you down the river for a ham sandwich.
Yelling "fire" may be a better thing to yell. It attracts everyones attention.
@@jefferymitchell9574 That's correct!
Kids can change at school, bring the uniform but don't wear it out. Better yet, HOMESCHOOL.
@@ninnymuggins5159 Here's the one concern I have with the first part of your comment: most of the schools concerned are laid out like campuses, where kids walk from building in school uniform. Plenty of opportunity for someone to case out a kid for a ransom kidnap. The more plain vanilla the uniform, the lower the risk.
Thank you for courageously speaking the truth. You have such a big heart, Patera!❤
People just don’t like to hear the truth, so many people offended by everything. Love hearing your thoughts❤
Everyone needs to speak the truth and not worry about people's feelings, if they had to tell you bluntly then you didn't listen before. Good on you Patara they needed someone to tell them!
You are so right. I’m a husband, father and grandfather and I am very concerned for my family.
Preach it! I am sick and tired of the stupid people. I've got relatives that laugh out loud when I bring up stocking up for a rainy day and fortifying our property and ourselves. So, I stopped mentioning it around them. I'm sharing only with people who are waking up or wide awake like we are.
Just remember you’ll be the first person they run to when shtf!
I have family members that laugh, and they choose to have deaf ears.
As my sister was saying to me as we were having a conversation. About stocking up,and fortifying. Those that choose not to accept Reality.
"They are laughing now, but will be crying later "
I admire your straight up advice to us. If you don't tell it like you do, they won't understand at all what you're trying to say. I'm tired of sugar-coating the truth. Say it dear one. We want it straight...not watered down. God bless you and your family.
Patara, We must recognize that those who are unwilling to or unable to see reality, will be the most dangerous during hard times.
These are the people who will betray their neighbors, family and friends In Order to save them selves and justify it as survival.
I refuse to burden myself trying to providing them wisdom they don’t want!!
Well get me a coloring book and a puppy!😂
Spot on lady! I am always watching people whenever I go out, demeanor, dress, physical and verbal awareness. Walk with confidence, head up and scan.
It has always been said, never go hiking alone! Especailly being a woman! Patara, you speak the TRUTH!!!
Keep your head on a swivel and eyes on our children and grandchildren... People are sick and mean, and I do not trust anyone... ❤❤ ❤ what u say!! You r so right!!!
Amen!
Being a victim is horrible. Listen to Patara. She cares enough to tell you how it is. Thanks for this video ❤
The truth hurts sometimes! Keep preaching the truth, Patara. ❤
For years I have carried a larger wallet instead of a purse. I would put it in the shopping cart and then go shop. I've known my wallet is very susceptible to theft, and boy would that create problems I don't want. Well, last week I got a small wallet I can carry in my pocket. All I need is my DL, couple of cards, and cash.......it is very freeing to shop without too much worry.....
At some point in time, everyone is going to be a victim of crime. She's playing a dangerous game that could cost her, her life. A woman out alone is begging to be a victim. I don't go anywhere alone, and I have situational awareness at all times. I don't live in fear, I live by being smart about what I do.
I'm seeing this 3days later, but Lord it put a smile on my face an hour after getting up. Common sense, sister in spirit. All this goes through my mind every day about other folks. Keep doing what you're doing. It's beautiful.
Every single word you said was absolute truth. Hopefully someone will wake up after listening to you.
AMEN!! Thank you for all you said here! This needed to be said to especially women who think they couldn't possibly be a victim. We live in a different world than anything we've lived in before!