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Great Outstanding show..... This was a great show As you said now we need married women. And can Amber be on the show, even if she have to from Home or I'll raise to send funds to help her travel. She was good on the Live🙌🏾👏🏾🤗🙌🏾 Evie, Tavia, Breezes did great ladies, BEAUTIFULLY, Pleasant, Lovely, & Choxolately🍫👸🏾🤎🍫 So far Atlanta is up 2-100, New York Women is down. I always had Success of Black Women in the South I was just younger & bashful. I need to make it that way down there. I'm in Buffalo, New York my wife is a Southern or East African.
Alll y’all talking about relationships and ain’t no body married. No wedding rings on ring fingers. That means ur not inclined to give relationship advice when u haven’t championed such Please switch the topic.
I would agree with that if women allowed men also “practice” on them , letting a man fail financially 15 times until he gets his legacy and resources together because he wasn’t trained that way either; but we have all heard these same broads say the don’t want “struggle love” well, men also don’t want it. ✌🏼
Women can't allow a grown man to do nothing but enter into the womb, other than sex if it's not there we leave, controlling men is how we got here in the first place
Just remember the word “Chill” doesn’t work on the landlord when she late on her rent. Which why black women have the highest eviction rate of any group in America.
This is something that has always been confusing to me. Women complain and say that a Man needs to open up and communicate. But then, when you try to talk about an issue to look for resolution, the average woman today will refuse to take ANY accountability for ANYTHING, WILL NOT back down and get aggressive. Then, if you back down, she gets her way, and if this happens over time it appears as though you are not standing up for yourself, are being the submissive one and she will slowly lose attraction and interest. However, if you try to actually continue to look for a resolution to the issue, you are now arguing and "Going back and forth with her", which to them is a "Female trait", makes you look like a bitch, and once again she has lost respect for you 😐. But if you "Take charge of the Situation", now you are considered "Toxic", "Controlling", and "Misogynistic" by her and the majority of society 🙄 Honestly, I think they like who they like, respect who they want to respect, and submit to who they want to submit to. The rest of this shit just seems to be illogical emotional responses to justify whatever actions or feelings they are having at that time. I just can't with this BS 🚶🏾♂️
Thats men do too much talking, too much arguing, too much damn debating and going back and forth with them IS a female trait. Look a woman cant make you do SH!T. She can only run her mouth or use her pu$$y to ATTEMPT to manipulate you. Past that she aint got NO power.
Rules for dealing with women haven't changed over the centuries. Don't engage. My girl be wrong all day long and I refuse to spend energy arguing with her because she just wants to feed off the drama - the "argument" is just a vehicle for that, it ain't serious, women are time and energy vampires by nature, this why they get bored easy. Ignore the bs. Unlearn that sensitive man bs women say they need. They're experimenting with social philosophies because they don't have a clue what's right or what works so don't follow their lead off the cliff. Stay on your square, they low-key respect a dude who is unshakable
Words I live by, you're a fool if deal with a woman that makes more money than you... shlt goes my way, or you can find the highway, more women than men, chicks turn 18 every day!!!
In my 20s I donated sperm multiple times for $$$$ Gotta vasectomy even tho it's reversible. Lived care free for yearssss! I Started my own company, traveled the world, dated multiple women some at the same time with no fear of being tied down with babies and responsibility. Then I got tired of running through hoes and settled down and got married at 39 and thru God I was blessed with a baby boy at 40. Honestly, wouldn't of done it any other way.
Gotta be the best looking set of girls on the show. no bad weave, crooked wigs, level headed, little makeup, feminine, no surgery, and just chill/down to earth. Shot out to these sistas, so refreshing to see this.
EXACTLY! They, these three anyway, acknowledge needing to be trained… but will not just listen like an adult and do what females are supposed to do to be wives/partners.
Exactly the reason we want our women young and unexperienced and coachable. They're easier to train on top of her beauty, physical fitness, and her friendly personality.
The episode hit because I have been thinking about all the things that you guys brought up. Y'all gonna win because the questions y'all ask, helps people that's actually going through this.
I love the panel, the discussion, and the guest, they all are beautiful in their own right and was very respectful. Please continue with these type of discussions and keep up the good work.
This has to be the most self aware group of women I have seen on this show fellaz. Good shyt. This was a great show and I hope there are a plethora of women who pays attention to this.
Just an observation…Interesting how she was uncomfortable with the word Bitch for women, but cool with Nigga for men. I think the usage of both runs in tandem with the continued decline in our relationships. Been feeling this for a min. Particularly thru most of these conversations across multiple channels.
Are you also masculine ? I only ask because sometimes it seems the guys who do those nice things are either unattractive or lacking a certain level of masculine energy. Which I think is the reason women like “bad boys” I don’t think it’s the fact that they are bad I think it comes down to the fact they are usually attractive and come across more masculine which women like the same way men like feminine women.
@@charaboston1566 I think women going after bad boys is because women do not know what masculinity is or how to recognize it… not that the romantic/ nice man is inherently less masculine….
American BW as a majority are lost. Every other race and ethnicity appreciate a man that is romantic and nice. I’m considered attractive, and I’m a man’s man. I’ve found much more success with Caribbean women. They still have family values and believe in the man being the head of the house. In another 5-10yrs American BW are going to regret their poor mentality towards motherhood. It’s the greatest job a woman can hold 🤦🏾♂️
Romance is a big lie in America. Your future gf or wife will never be romantic unless you deal with a foreign woman that actually brings benefits to a domestic living situation. Taking women out on dates is weak. You know these women go straight to the weed man and nightclub with your money you gave them. Don't depend on women for emotional support either. American women are weird, paranoid and do not care about pair bonding. They all bring non stop baggage and insecurities.
Yep they say that more black women are saying the N word and the B word more then black man are. I mean somewhere in the world a women is calling everyone the B word.
You know how to be respectful. You don't talk to your dad, pastor teachers disrespectful. But a man is nothing so you can call them trash, toxic, problematic. No man should have to train you just like you shouldn't have to train a man not to be an abuser. Think
She wants paid training with immediate permanent vacation pay while you do so the work and she can leave with over half the business and most of the high grossing assets.
Once she said that they need to be trained what they should've immediately said was "You don't need anyone to train you to treat your significant other if you find significance in them, if you don't find significance in them you'll treat them insignificantly" you how to treat someone you respect stop the excuses.
11:20 Once she said that they need to be trained what they should've immediately said was "You don't need anyone to train you to treat your significant other if you find significance in them, if you don't find significance in them you'll treat them insignificantly" you how to treat someone you respect stop the excuses.
5:10 My job takes priority over my relationship and if my man can't follow me across the country or world be going to get left. 6:18 I'm going to do what I want and if it doesn't workout "it wasn't God's will" 18:50 "Ya'll supposed to lead", "I let my man lead, period" 34:56 When Eli called out the contradiction, the sign language begins.
@@myhunny2006 honestly, it pissed me off too until a woman said something very simple, "it's how we speak." Some say, to tell the truth, you know what gets me, so l was at this one place, one time, l remember. I no longer care. But with that said, its usually nonsense afterwards
This is probably the most balanced episode of this podcast I've ever listened to. Both sides showed accountability for their shortcomings and celebrated each other's strengths. I genuinely want to rewatch this episode with my fiancee. Thank y'all!!
Absolutely agree. I literally did. We need more women like this on the show who are not acting like a fool and embarrassing the rest of us. Great show guys, I absolutly loved it, it was just so wholesome.
At 45:00 time stamp As a single father full time and I work full time, I dont complain I do my job each and everyday as a father, from hair to cooking to teaching to playing to meaningful father n daughter conversations, to discipline, nurturing, plenty affection/love. Would it be good to have a woman there to help yeah but i no longer trust the “mom” and I do not have the tolerance to deal with another woman to see if she’s even suitable for me, I just don’t have the patience bc a woman is dealing with Multiple guys and for that reason i see no point in dealing with a woman like that, I rather her n I just fck n go our separate ways.
That’s almost all women. Women use feelings and men use logic. That’s why opposite attracts. You gotta use your logic thinking to make her understand your way of thinking or doing things are the best. Cmon fellas, y’all gotta know that It very easy to manipulate a woman and use her feelings against her. If you know you know.
My great grandmother is still, she almost 100. And man I can only imagine how the men in her time absolutely did not have the mess out of her generation of women. But they were respectful, kind, soft classy, hospitable, nice and submissive. And even in her old age she is still all these things. You won't ever find her any other way.
My grandmother was like that. She had that strong femininity. Never raised her voice or her hand and everyone respected her by how she carried herself. She's the mother of 5 boys so she had plenty of experience keeping my dad and uncles in line. That naturally gave her the ability to command respect from her 5ft2 frame with her pink suit, hat and white gloves. Always smiling too and was generous. They definitely don't make women like that anymore
Relationships is about give and take. Learning how to just be committed each other. In this day and age it's just easy to walk away from a relationship. Be able to delay that gratification.
@@spider-man1918 Yes, it is give and take. I give everything I have and work for. For my family to provide for mine. In return (I) take no crap from non of them and when I speak, that is it. That is the give and take and I would not have it any other way. I say, they do. So there you have it.
Family. If we continue to treat our relationships as they are just things to be discarded when something is not perfect. Is it not a wonder when others view us as having no morals. We are a very special people. These other groups know that. From slavery to reconstruction, jom crow and the black codes. To the white Supremist today we have survived. Love the one you are with.
@@spider-man1918 Well, from slavery to the near mid 60s. We had families and most importantly we had family roles. My wife don't play my role and I don't play hers. I help her when its needed. This is what is proven to work. This new age crap is just that (crap). Thats why its failures running rampant today. And broken homes and families galore.
I liked these ladies. They spoke their experience and let others do the same. They are very natural looking and weren’t being “extra”. Nice video guys 👍🏽
Don't over complicate life people. Know yourself. Then you'll know what you want in a person. Then seek those who already carry themselves in the way you like. The only exception to this. Are those who deem you valuable enough. To make themselves coachable and learn to move in a way you like.
These woman early in the show confirmed what I have always known have always done and if I wasn't extremely happily married would go out and do. Take personal assessment, move as a leader, have a vision and seek the type of woman that fits your style and leadership perfectly choose the one that likes you more then you like her continue to vet while molding her, set clear expectations and boundaries, stand on your square and don't ever be so in love you let things that bother you go with out a conversation. Repeat the following steps until you get a woman that passes all these stages start a family and live the best life you can imagine it's not hard at all. Just do it and hurry up stop failing.
Yall pull ya bootstraps type kill me lol. It really isn't that easy. If it was most men would be making 90k plus with a beautiful submissive woman. If you're wife don't look like Rihanna and 1930's submissive then stfu.
That first question shows the selfishness of modern people. A relationship is not suppose to "serve you" you are suppose to serve it. The fact that none of the women caught that but instead just focused on how it could benefit them shows that none of them are relationship material.
We are no longer goal oriented, interested in building, or about family, community or society. It's not about the bigger pic. She needs to bring this to my life, l need him do to this for me. My peeps who been married for 20 plus years do for everyone
Not really. The ladies sound modern and have no appreciation for the 60s generation or older for how those families thrived during those times in order for this modern generation of woman to think they way they do. These modern woman are not being raised to be a wife but ask for a man to boss up and accept them. A rebellious woman is not a good bet for a long term relationship.
On that first topic, I agree going through that experience my self. I found that the woman I was with was holding me back and not supporting. I would work double shift specially to have extra money to take her out to extravagant dates and vacations. Despite all that, I was still met with attitude , aggressions, arguments and stress. Dealt with it for 2 years, until I realized I’m not moving or growing I was actually loosing so much in money and working 10x harder. It didn’t make any sense, so I ended it. Do what’s best for you.
I like when Myron on fresh and fit asks women what that means. Its always different answers to that question which is why it should simply be ignored. If a woman asks me to be more emotionally mature, I just keep moving
Good discussion fellas, if i had one problem with the video was the audio would get loud sometimes. Other than that love the video keep doing what yall doing!!
Willie Lynch specifically said capture and break the female horse, because she would raise her (male)youth to be tamed. Instead of the stallion where the tameness won't be as generationally transfered.
12:00 The biggest issue “strong, independent women” have is giving respect to a man and patience with disrespect encourages more disrespect. Zero tolerance is the only response.
that man Eli def kept saying 20 20 20... lol but good show yall. young women on the left was a great presence to give insight. overall all 3 did great and gave great insight.
The woman in purple said “KS is dead” when someone quoted him. 1 min later she was quoting Kevin Samuels line for line and didn’t even give him the credit 💯
I'm all for women chasing their dreams, as long as they understand when I'm doin the same. And as long as we're together and trusting each other during our dream chasing. Because we'll end up retired and together early on in life ❤️
Honestly I can see why these younger guys are getting away from these younger women according to this young lady a man's maturity has something to do w/ what's between our legs SMH so men shouldn't express emotions or show any kind of disagreement especially if it's not in agreement w/the female POV which is completely ridiculous.
@@Neo.Jordon Jordon Bear It question how do y'all know what a real man is when a good majority of y'all don't know who your fathers are😆🤣😂 have you met or know who he is ? Now to my point of course you would agree with them your from the same stupid generation of dumb young women that don't understand trying to dominate the situation by trying to degrade your partners then can't figure out why you all can't hold a relationship lol or make one work and then complain on your phones about men on social media look take accountability for your own failures since women nowadays want to be men there's an old saying a team is only as strong as their leader's.
i love the women on this episode. i love that they are listening to what men want and have expressed their willingness to be malleable. this is one of the rare times that women have spoken on your show and they were more attractive.
Sometimes honestly it's like women don't get it like at all... I'm divorced and I gave all I had still wasn't enough. People have trauma or denial of what's haunting them and it painfully obvious when it shows.... Accountability is very much needed 1000% not when she wants to recognize it.
Ju got a lil tripped up at the married thing. He said he want to be a family man since he was a kid but need someone to pressure him to propose?? The math ain’t mathing
In the days where men had to keep their emotional maturity at a certain level, women were practicing STFU its 2 side to that coin. Women weren't talking with their chest
From the A and I went to work while my woman stayed at home and raised the kids. She left for the neighbor because I didn't give her enough attention and time. Her expectations were to spend time no matter if we live in cardboard boxes my mind set because we have kids is to make it better for my family.
@@myhunny2006 well..... It's hard to tell because all I've been around is women that is like that. I don't know any other kind of woman except damaged. A single father that has his kids work and go home is all I mainly do now.
I agree with the woman in the middle when she said men have to train their woman. I know it sounds horrible but its true. Im not saying he's ruling over her but he has to let her know how he expects to be treated.
The more women say "I think" and "I feel" without firm empirical evidence to back up those feeling and thoughts, the more men need to disregard anything that follows.🤷♂️
7:28 we need to be upfront about what we want, BEFORE the relationship, and we need to discuss how we are going to break up if it doesn't work so things can end in a mature fashion.
She thinks accountability is a buzzword. After she just got done saying that she's been held more accountable than what she normally did before and that now she knows what it is. She's talking out of her ass
This mentality is disturbing…most women only want to show they can be a wife when they get the ring???? You show up to an interview expecting to get the job without showing you can perform the necessary tasks??? How does that work???
Why are we allowing women to makeup sh*t without explanation 🤔. Emotional maturity, emotional intelligence, vibe, your truth, what the F is going on. Ask them to explain and watch them fumble. Smdh OK lets pretend that emotional maturity means someone that can control their emotions, that's definitely not women, at all. So please 🙏 break down what you mean with all these buzz words??
Funny they’re admitting to wanting a man to train them, but the moment a man chooses a younger woman because they’re easier to “train,” it’s used as a means to humiliate him and insinuate that he’s an abuser. They’re being hypocritical to the every day conversation that’s being had today.
Great observation 1.They say that a man should train them to remove accountability of their own behavior & place it on the men making it the man's fault for not training them. 2.While at the same time implying that if men teach them they'll be willing to learn. Its like the saying when pigs fly, it'll never happen, just had they know men training them & them being willing to be trained won't happen either 3.Example they say "black men have to build their own military, banks,schools,hospitals to get our respect" but they know its not likely that'll happen in mass just as its not likely Black men would get their respect. Its an unresolvable conflict.
Not submitting shouldn't be in a woman's vocabulary. DONT NOT PAIR WITH/MARRY a man u wouldn't submit to. Stop waiting for him to be worthy of your submission. He should show up ready just like a woman should show up feminine and ready to follow her man.
You got to train your women 👀🤣🤣🤣 they've got to be trainable...Like we ant out here taking losses because we ant trying...smdh THAT'S THE ENTIRE POINT ✊🏽
I hear her say train your woman but you'll put in work and then she go to her single friends and they tell her your crazy and you controlling and you trying to change her
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Why do females already expect to have their cake and eat it also or to respond and react as they would instead of as a man!
Great Outstanding show.....
This was a great show
As you said now we need married women.
And can Amber be on the show, even if she have to from Home or I'll raise to send funds to help her travel. She was good on the Live🙌🏾👏🏾🤗🙌🏾
Evie, Tavia, Breezes did great ladies, BEAUTIFULLY, Pleasant, Lovely, & Choxolately🍫👸🏾🤎🍫
So far Atlanta is up 2-100, New York Women is down. I always had Success of Black Women in the South I was just younger & bashful. I need to make it that way down there. I'm in Buffalo, New York my wife is a Southern or East African.
Alll y’all talking about relationships and ain’t no body married. No wedding rings on ring fingers. That means ur not inclined to give relationship advice when u haven’t championed such
Please switch the topic.
SOME OF YOU ARE TOO CLOSE TO THE MICROPHONE AND SOME ARE TOO FAR....... ITS TOO FAWKING HARD TO LISTEN TO...Dammit! its 2am in my city
I would agree with that if women allowed men also “practice” on them , letting a man fail financially 15 times until he gets his legacy and resources together because he wasn’t trained that way either; but we have all heard these same broads say the don’t want “struggle love” well, men also don’t want it. ✌🏼
It’s really disingenuous.
It’s interesting that she’d ask a man to give 15 chances but doesn’t want a man to “go back and forth” with her
Women can't allow a grown man to do nothing but enter into the womb, other than sex if it's not there we leave, controlling men is how we got here in the first place
FACTS Mami thank you
You are stating the extreme. Please clarify which professional that are high wage earners that are in the top 15%?
“ Chill” is womens way of saying “ shut up and let me win the disagreement I’m wrong about “
Let me avoid any accountability
Bars!!!
Just remember the word “Chill” doesn’t work on the landlord when she late on her rent.
Which why black women have the highest eviction rate of any group in America.
Ball Game 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Y’all get aggressive with woman when you can’t win the argument or have to take accountability 😂
@@Karmascars arguments are aggressive that’s why I pointed out disagreements. Words mean things
This is something that has always been confusing to me. Women complain and say that a Man needs to open up and communicate. But then, when you try to talk about an issue to look for resolution, the average woman today will refuse to take ANY accountability for ANYTHING, WILL NOT back down and get aggressive. Then, if you back down, she gets her way, and if this happens over time it appears as though you are not standing up for yourself, are being the submissive one and she will slowly lose attraction and interest. However, if you try to actually continue to look for a resolution to the issue, you are now arguing and "Going back and forth with her", which to them is a "Female trait", makes you look like a bitch, and once again she has lost respect for you 😐. But if you "Take charge of the Situation", now you are considered "Toxic", "Controlling", and "Misogynistic" by her and the majority of society 🙄
Honestly, I think they like who they like, respect who they want to respect, and submit to who they want to submit to. The rest of this shit just seems to be illogical emotional responses to justify whatever actions or feelings they are having at that time. I just can't with this BS 🚶🏾♂️
You've seen the light. Now Enjoy life
That's why you do what you want and ignore their inquiries
Thats men do too much talking, too much arguing, too much damn debating and going back and forth with them IS a female trait.
Look a woman cant make you do SH!T. She can only run her mouth or use her pu$$y to ATTEMPT to manipulate you.
Past that she aint got NO power.
Rules for dealing with women haven't changed over the centuries. Don't engage. My girl be wrong all day long and I refuse to spend energy arguing with her because she just wants to feed off the drama - the "argument" is just a vehicle for that, it ain't serious, women are time and energy vampires by nature, this why they get bored easy. Ignore the bs. Unlearn that sensitive man bs women say they need. They're experimenting with social philosophies because they don't have a clue what's right or what works so don't follow their lead off the cliff. Stay on your square, they low-key respect a dude who is unshakable
🎯 welcome aboard. you’ve arrived. now go be free! Lmaooooo I’m dead ass tho
Get a house before you get a spouse Get a life before you get a wife so there won’t be no hassle in your castle
Fax
Words I live by, you're a fool if deal with a woman that makes more money than you... shlt goes my way, or you can find the highway, more women than men, chicks turn 18 every day!!!
Amen
This is definitely a HUGE AFFIRMATION TO FOLLOW!💪🏾
In my 20s I donated sperm multiple times for $$$$
Gotta vasectomy even tho it's reversible. Lived care free for yearssss! I Started my own company, traveled the world, dated multiple women some at the same time with no fear of being tied down with babies and responsibility. Then I got tired of running through hoes and settled down and got married at 39 and thru God I was blessed with a baby boy at 40.
Honestly, wouldn't of done it any other way.
Mama in the middle just admitted woman aren’t emotionally intelligent enough to admit their wrong doings/decisions 🤯
Priceless
Gotta be the best looking set of girls on the show. no bad weave, crooked wigs, level headed, little makeup, feminine, no surgery, and just chill/down to earth. Shot out to these sistas, so refreshing to see this.
👸🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
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That in-between-the-leg tattoo kinda trash y though. Sorry.
You obviously don't know what femininity is! Neither of these creatures is feminine!
Marry before you carry!! The young lady that kept pushing that is one the right track. Love the show. Keep up with the good work.
Training a grown woman that sounds tiring and a high chance of unsuccess possibly!
Never do it. Any time I've played Capt Save, l got left when the struggle ended
EXACTLY!
They, these three anyway, acknowledge needing to be trained… but will not just listen like an adult and do what females are supposed to do to be wives/partners.
Exactly the reason we want our women young and unexperienced and coachable. They're easier to train on top of her beauty, physical fitness, and her friendly personality.
On God bro that ish sound like fail ready plan to go broke and be depressed
If you not training your woman, she training you
The episode hit because I have been thinking about all the things that you guys brought up. Y'all gonna win because the questions y'all ask, helps people that's actually going through this.
I love the panel, the discussion, and the guest, they all are beautiful in their own right and was very respectful. Please continue with these type of discussions and keep up the good work.
This has to be the most self aware group of women I have seen on this show fellaz. Good shyt. This was a great show and I hope there are a plethora of women who pays attention to this.
Thank you 😊
Just an observation…Interesting how she was uncomfortable with the word Bitch for women, but cool with Nigga for men. I think the usage of both runs in tandem with the continued decline in our relationships. Been feeling this for a min. Particularly thru most of these conversations across multiple channels.
You right. I’ve calculated that as well
I'm happy to see natural hair and no wigs 🙂🙂
Yesss natural is best 😊
Ikr
Being romantic and nice gets ignored but I'm not going to change my character just because women don't appreciate it.
Get a woman from a different country
Are you also masculine ? I only ask because sometimes it seems the guys who do those nice things are either unattractive or lacking a certain level of masculine energy. Which I think is the reason women like “bad boys” I don’t think it’s the fact that they are bad I think it comes down to the fact they are usually attractive and come across more masculine which women like the same way men like feminine women.
@@charaboston1566 I think women going after bad boys is because women do not know what masculinity is or how to recognize it… not that the romantic/ nice man is inherently less masculine….
American BW as a majority are lost. Every other race and ethnicity appreciate a man that is romantic and nice. I’m considered attractive, and I’m a man’s man. I’ve found much more success with Caribbean women. They still have family values and believe in the man being the head of the house. In another 5-10yrs American BW are going to regret their poor mentality towards motherhood. It’s the greatest job a woman can hold 🤦🏾♂️
Romance is a big lie in America. Your future gf or wife will never be romantic unless you deal with a foreign woman that actually brings benefits to a domestic living situation. Taking women out on dates is weak. You know these women go straight to the weed man and nightclub with your money you gave them. Don't depend on women for emotional support either. American women are weird, paranoid and do not care about pair bonding. They all bring non stop baggage and insecurities.
She said “ I don’t like calling women b’s” , yet feels that it’s ok to call men “niggas”. 😂 even still, these sistas made for a very good show.
That was pissin' me off too. I know some guys do it too, but damn. The gender tribes stay loyal.
This is why they the least desired, and the least married
I was thinking the same thing lol
I agree very unattractive
Yep they say that more black women are saying the N word and the B word more then black man are. I mean somewhere in the world a women is calling everyone the B word.
If we can’t save them in their early 20s with the strong independent women mindset, let alone can’t be saved wen they hit their 30s.
Men could save them by actually being a provider............
okay, they are probably my favorite panel y'all gathered ❤
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤
Best group of women y’all ever had
You know how to be respectful. You don't talk to your dad, pastor teachers disrespectful. But a man is nothing so you can call them trash, toxic, problematic. No man should have to train you just like you shouldn't have to train a man not to be an abuser. Think
She wants paid training with immediate permanent vacation pay while you do so the work and she can leave with over half the business and most of the high grossing assets.
Get your passports fellas yall think women gone negotiate things that don’t benefit them
Once she said that they need to be trained what they should've immediately said was "You don't need anyone to train you to treat your significant other if you find significance in them, if you don't find significance in them you'll treat them insignificantly" you how to treat someone you respect stop the excuses.
11:20 Once she said that they need to be trained what they should've immediately said was "You don't need anyone to train you to treat your significant other if you find significance in them, if you don't find significance in them you'll treat them insignificantly" you how to treat someone you respect stop the excuses.
@@IkeDiesel Can confirm! Cane from Thailand and the women were nice and respectful over there. I'm going back within the year
There’s so many layers to unpack and of course it’s always situational. Great episode ladies.
5:10 My job takes priority over my relationship and if my man can't follow me across the country or world be going to get left.
6:18 I'm going to do what I want and if it doesn't workout "it wasn't God's will"
18:50 "Ya'll supposed to lead", "I let my man lead, period"
34:56 When Eli called out the contradiction, the sign language begins.
This young lady knows nothing about GOD’s will. What is a wife ‘s purpose to her husband?
@@duanewoodson9804 Exactly, woman was made for man but she acts as if men were made for her.
This was a good one. They made their points, pushed back on a few things, and spoke well. Well done choosing these women.
Appreciate you guys. I really do. Keep doing what you’re doing
Pet peeve is now hearing anyone men and women say “I feel like”…..
Me too.... but I'll listen if you say something meaningful. I'll think you mean "I think"
Man as soon as they say that, I think here we go with opinions being stated like it's a fact
What should they say instead?
@@myhunny2006 honestly, it pissed me off too until a woman said something very simple, "it's how we speak." Some say, to tell the truth, you know what gets me, so l was at this one place, one time, l remember.
I no longer care. But with that said, its usually nonsense afterwards
You watch fresh and fit don’t you?? 😂😂
Best group of women y’all have had. Salute to them women it was a breath of fresh air. Smart intelligent and natural beauty I love it.
I am blown back by the agreements being achieved. It's a great sight.
This is probably the most balanced episode of this podcast I've ever listened to.
Both sides showed accountability for their shortcomings and celebrated each other's strengths.
I genuinely want to rewatch this episode with my fiancee.
Thank y'all!!
Absolutely agree. I literally did. We need more women like this on the show who are not acting like a fool and embarrassing the rest of us. Great show guys, I absolutly loved it, it was just so wholesome.
Also congrats on your engagement🎊🎆🎇
@@norahoyelowo9850 Thank you so much 😁
This is the best episode yet. Good work fellas 💪🏾
Thank you 😊
At 45:00 time stamp
As a single father full time and I work full time, I dont complain I do my job each and everyday as a father, from hair to cooking to teaching to playing to meaningful father n daughter conversations, to discipline, nurturing, plenty affection/love. Would it be good to have a woman there to help yeah but i no longer trust the “mom” and I do not have the tolerance to deal with another woman to see if she’s even suitable for me, I just don’t have the patience bc a woman is dealing with Multiple guys and for that reason i see no point in dealing with a woman like that, I rather her n I just fck n go our separate ways.
Fellas when females lead with I FEEL when answering questions just leave them alone. These broads lead by emotions and not logic
Fact.
WOMEN ARE EMOTIONAL!!! SURPRISE!!!!! Do you want a woman or a man?????? Yall dudes are gay.
That’s almost all women. Women use feelings and men use logic. That’s why opposite attracts. You gotta use your logic thinking to make her understand your way of thinking or doing things are the best. Cmon fellas, y’all gotta know that It very easy to manipulate a woman and use her feelings against her. If you know you know.
These are the best looking women y’all have ever had on the show. Most natural looking in the face if there’s any makeup it’s very subtle.
The two on the left.
A couple of those latina women they had on the show was nice too
@@jasonwolfe3252 all of them, the one on the right has a little eyeshadow on but it’s not overdone.
@@burnthrust these girls still the best looking in my opinion.
They are beautiful.
My great grandmother is still, she almost 100. And man I can only imagine how the men in her time absolutely did not have the mess out of her generation of women. But they were respectful, kind, soft classy, hospitable, nice and submissive. And even in her old age she is still all these things. You won't ever find her any other way.
My grandmother was like that. She had that strong femininity. Never raised her voice or her hand and everyone respected her by how she carried herself. She's the mother of 5 boys so she had plenty of experience keeping my dad and uncles in line. That naturally gave her the ability to command respect from her 5ft2 frame with her pink suit, hat and white gloves. Always smiling too and was generous. They definitely don't make women like that anymore
Relationships is about give and take. Learning how to just be committed each other. In this day and age it's just easy to walk away from a relationship. Be able to delay that gratification.
@@spider-man1918
Yes, it is give and take. I give everything I have and work for. For my family to provide for mine. In return (I) take no crap from non of them and when I speak, that is it. That is the give and take and I would not have it any other way. I say, they do. So there you have it.
Family. If we continue to treat our relationships as they are just things to be discarded when something is not perfect. Is it not a wonder when others view us as having no morals. We are a very special people. These other groups know that. From slavery to reconstruction, jom crow and the black codes. To the white Supremist today we have survived. Love the one you are with.
@@spider-man1918
Well, from slavery to the near mid 60s. We had families and most importantly we had family roles. My wife don't play my role and I don't play hers. I help her when its needed. This is what is proven to work. This new age crap is just that (crap). Thats why its failures running rampant today. And broken homes and families galore.
I liked these ladies. They spoke their experience and let others do the same. They are very natural looking and weren’t being “extra”. Nice video guys 👍🏽
Thank you 😊
I didn’t agree with everything they said but they spoke with intelligence. They weren’t ratchet. A welcomed change.
Don't over complicate life people. Know yourself. Then you'll know what you want in a person. Then seek those who already carry themselves in the way you like. The only exception to this. Are those who deem you valuable enough. To make themselves coachable and learn to move in a way you like.
These woman early in the show confirmed what I have always known have always done and if I wasn't extremely happily married would go out and do. Take personal assessment, move as a leader, have a vision and seek the type of woman that fits your style and leadership perfectly choose the one that likes you more then you like her continue to vet while molding her, set clear expectations and boundaries, stand on your square and don't ever be so in love you let things that bother you go with out a conversation. Repeat the following steps until you get a woman that passes all these stages start a family and live the best life you can imagine it's not hard at all. Just do it and hurry up stop failing.
FACTS!
Yall pull ya bootstraps type kill me lol. It really isn't that easy. If it was most men would be making 90k plus with a beautiful submissive woman. If you're wife don't look like Rihanna and 1930's submissive then stfu.
@@ChrisDaAce27 Bruh if you can’t find a good women chances are the problem is YOU
@@ChrisDaAce27 my wife doesn't look like Rihanna but she in the picture in the middle black dress and she is that submissive.
@@winloseorrug7099 just say you like masculine overweight woman.
That first question shows the selfishness of modern people. A relationship is not suppose to "serve you" you are suppose to serve it. The fact that none of the women caught that but instead just focused on how it could benefit them shows that none of them are relationship material.
We are no longer goal oriented, interested in building, or about family, community or society. It's not about the bigger pic. She needs to bring this to my life, l need him do to this for me.
My peeps who been married for 20 plus years do for everyone
One of the best episodes filmed. These women actually knew how to talk.
Not really. The ladies sound modern and have no appreciation for the 60s generation or older for how those families thrived during those times in order for this modern generation of woman to think they way they do. These modern woman are not being raised to be a wife but ask for a man to boss up and accept them. A rebellious woman is not a good bet for a long term relationship.
Thank you 😊
@@duanewoodson9804 compared to the normal interviews we see with the New York women, these women were way more respectable and worthy of conversation.
On that first topic, I agree going through that experience my self. I found that the woman I was with was holding me back and not supporting. I would work double shift specially to have extra money to take her out to extravagant dates and vacations. Despite all that, I was still met with attitude , aggressions, arguments and stress. Dealt with it for 2 years, until I realized I’m not moving or growing I was actually loosing so much in money and working 10x harder. It didn’t make any sense, so I ended it. Do what’s best for you.
strong independent and alone! Fellas avoid them at all cost and invest in chewy
The energy is so different in this episode… it’s so much more calm😌🧘🏾♀️ I love it .. great panel ✨
“Emotional maturity” - Buzzwords. They weren’t even looking at each other and started nodding their heads when she said that
I like when Myron on fresh and fit asks women what that means. Its always different answers to that question which is why it should simply be ignored. If a woman asks me to be more emotionally mature, I just keep moving
@@asundelgun3487 right!! There is nvr a standard answer to that. It’s always objective
Good to see you guys got some ladies who don't live by new lots
Good discussion fellas, if i had one problem with the video was the audio would get loud sometimes. Other than that love the video keep doing what yall doing!!
The best group yet! 💯💯💯
Thank you 😊
Women who said they are in situationships should not be on any platform or podcasts to start with..
Black man here, she not lying about the conditioning (willie lyinch) did play a major roll in conditioning of our men, and especially our women
“I let my man lead.”
Willie Lynch specifically said capture and break the female horse, because she would raise her (male)youth to be tamed. Instead of the stallion where the tameness won't be as generationally transfered.
The willie lynch speech/letter is a hoax.
12:00 The biggest issue “strong, independent women” have is giving respect to a man and patience with disrespect encourages more disrespect. Zero tolerance is the only response.
Ya need to permanently stick to this balance of women. Plus ya a balanced crew. So much balance in this video. Blessed
Fellas! Always put your dreams before a woman! Always!
Great episode my guys! Good conversation, some real levelheaded women on this one! Up top!
that man Eli def kept saying 20 20 20... lol but good show yall. young women on the left was a great presence to give insight. overall all 3 did great and gave great insight.
Honestly I like theses branch of queens 👸🏾 they on vibes
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Good group I like these ladies 👍🏿
Thank you 😊
The woman in purple said “KS is dead” when someone quoted him. 1 min later she was quoting Kevin Samuels line for line and didn’t even give him the credit 💯
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"Wilderness Behaviour on a Mass Scale". No compass, No markers, No logic, No guide, No trust.
💯💯💯
I liked this exchange. Great episode!
I love this one! I'm definitely looking forward for married women interview! 🔥 Great job!
"it's all about adding to another person....". Very rare to hear that these days.
My little Evie has gotten so big and I am so proud to see her holding her own on this show. Much respect to the show.
I'm all for women chasing their dreams, as long as they understand when I'm doin the same. And as long as we're together and trusting each other during our dream chasing. Because we'll end up retired and together early on in life ❤️
You young cats do an excellent job.. excellent idea for a podcast. The future looks brighter for “black love.”
Honestly I can see why these younger guys are getting away from these younger women according to this young lady a man's maturity has something to do w/ what's between our legs SMH so men shouldn't express emotions or show any kind of disagreement especially if it's not in agreement w/the female POV which is completely ridiculous.
Agree with them, and take their attitude, or you "can't handle them, and you're not a real man"
@@Neo.Jordon Jordon Bear It question how do y'all know what a real man is when a good majority of y'all don't know who your fathers are😆🤣😂 have you met or know who he is ? Now to my point of course you would agree with them your from the same stupid generation of dumb young women that don't understand trying to dominate the situation by trying to degrade your partners then can't figure out why you all can't hold a relationship lol or make one work and then complain on your phones about men on social media look take accountability for your own failures since women nowadays want to be men there's an old saying a team is only as strong as their leader's.
You guys are killing the podcast game. Love to see ya'll winning. Keep hustling 💪 💯
i love the women on this episode. i love that they are listening to what men want and have expressed their willingness to be malleable.
this is one of the rare times that women have spoken on your show and they were more attractive.
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No lie that would be a fire song. "Get your girl back!" would be chorus 1 and "Get your man back!" for chorus 2.
“ Chill” is womens way of saying “ shut up and let me win the disagreement I’m wrong about “
Sometimes honestly it's like women don't get it like at all... I'm divorced and I gave all I had still wasn't enough. People have trauma or denial of what's haunting them and it painfully obvious when it shows.... Accountability is very much needed 1000% not when she wants to recognize it.
18:50 This is a clear example of combative nature and not answering the question, not allowing them to lead the conversation
Ju got a lil tripped up at the married thing. He said he want to be a family man since he was a kid but need someone to pressure him to propose?? The math ain’t mathing
In the days where men had to keep their emotional maturity at a certain level, women were practicing STFU its 2 side to that coin. Women weren't talking with their chest
From the A and I went to work while my woman stayed at home and raised the kids. She left for the neighbor because I didn't give her enough attention and time. Her expectations were to spend time no matter if we live in cardboard boxes my mind set because we have kids is to make it better for my family.
I'm sorry...all of us aren't like that
@@myhunny2006 well..... It's hard to tell because all I've been around is women that is like that. I don't know any other kind of woman except damaged. A single father that has his kids work and go home is all I mainly do now.
Great video fellas.
I agree with the woman in the middle when she said men have to train their woman. I know it sounds horrible but its true. Im not saying he's ruling over her but he has to let her know how he expects to be treated.
The more women say "I think" and "I feel" without firm empirical evidence to back up those feeling and thoughts, the more men need to disregard anything that follows.🤷♂️
A panel of women that represents us well. Good work fellas.
Great pod, even if one of ya mics wasn't workin. 🙃 *ahem* Eli lol
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I've been saying this for months that many women tend not to be emotionally mature
I wish our community would demonizing/insulting our elders... your grandfather wasn't a vicious dictator and your grandmother wasn't a mindless slave.
Emotional maturity is for women. At the end of the day it was logic and masculinity that built the world not emotional maturity and chaos
This was one of the best!!!$$$+++
I enjoyed the show and all the opinions. Looking forward to the next show..
Appreciate the episode.
This episode was excellent
7:28 we need to be upfront about what we want, BEFORE the relationship, and we need to discuss how we are going to break up if it doesn't work so things can end in a mature fashion.
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She thinks accountability is a buzzword. After she just got done saying that she's been held more accountable than what she normally did before and that now she knows what it is. She's talking out of her ass
She doesn't like the "B word" but uses that "N word" like nothing.
Same sex marriages are now legal, hopefully all these independent women will have great luck finding a suitable wife.
They need to be 6 feet and make 6 figures, good luck to them
Thats the agenda...
@@Neo.Jordon thats they standard for men , not for women. Its the dark side of there Sexuality that they trying encourage to other women.
This mentality is disturbing…most women only want to show they can be a wife when they get the ring???? You show up to an interview expecting to get the job without showing you can perform the necessary tasks??? How does that work???
Why are we allowing women to makeup sh*t without explanation 🤔. Emotional maturity, emotional intelligence, vibe, your truth, what the F is going on. Ask them to explain and watch them fumble. Smdh OK lets pretend that emotional maturity means someone that can control their emotions, that's definitely not women, at all. So please 🙏 break down what you mean with all these buzz words??
Funny they’re admitting to wanting a man to train them, but the moment a man chooses a younger woman because they’re easier to “train,” it’s used as a means to humiliate him and insinuate that he’s an abuser. They’re being hypocritical to the every day conversation that’s being had today.
Great observation
1.They say that a man should train them to remove accountability of their own behavior & place it on the men making it the man's fault for not training them.
2.While at the same time implying that if men teach them they'll be willing to learn. Its like the saying when pigs fly, it'll never happen, just had they know men training them & them being willing to be trained won't happen either
3.Example they say "black men have to build their own military, banks,schools,hospitals to get our respect" but they know its not likely that'll happen in mass just as its not likely Black men would get their respect. Its an unresolvable conflict.
Not submitting shouldn't be in a woman's vocabulary. DONT NOT PAIR WITH/MARRY a man u wouldn't submit to. Stop waiting for him to be worthy of your submission. He should show up ready just like a woman should show up feminine and ready to follow her man.
I don’t see why people argue about certain topics at all anymore, got google right in the palm of our hands
Great counter question when the woman said she is 70% submissive. One of you guys asked, "Can I pay 70% of the bills ."
Am so liking the intro, it you made it.
drop the link where the middle women got her copper crystal necklace!!!! i want to order one asap!!!!!!!!!
All Men and Women deserve each other..We were created for one another..wether black, white or other
You got to train your women 👀🤣🤣🤣 they've got to be trainable...Like we ant out here taking losses because we ant trying...smdh THAT'S THE ENTIRE POINT ✊🏽
I hear her say train your woman but you'll put in work and then she go to her single friends and they tell her your crazy and you controlling and you trying to change her