I admire that Ms Fle is not afraid to speak her mind! She has been extremely reasonable...I don't think she has done anything wrong. Great conversation bro!❤❤
All this young lady did is speak and voice her mind which many ppl don’t know how to express correctly! Her emotions are to be taken into consideration. Kudos🎉 for saving yourself from decades of trauma👏 The quality of the mothers happiness is an indicator of how children grow to thrive in life Ms. Fle deserves the world Nasto. Coming from an 83 yr old mother/granny/great grandma with ❤.
Ms Fle, Your feelings are valid.... I understand how you feel. He should've taken you with him... You need a break too from the baby just like him. You're always cleaning and take care of your son which is good but you need time to breathe❤❤❤❤
Miss Fle cheer up,time will come when you will be able to move around.There is a saying that goes like happiness is a choice, choose happiness and always love and treat your self whenever you can.
The festive season is for family. Communication before traveling and not at the appointed time is important. Man's job is to provide and lead his family. Supporting your wife involved in being there for her during tough times, listening to her concerns, and validating her feelings. It means showing empathy and understanding and being a source of comfort. I can understand Ms. Fle boredom. I'm happy she express herself and not keeping it inside. The conversation she share is happening to many couples. The weather, festive season and time was no excuse. The moment for her is to help relieve boredom and more was what important. Anywhere he sleep she would sleep etc. Ms. Fle continue to be strong and always express yourself. Never keep it in❤❤❤❤
Ken, young man, this is the Rev. Dr. Henry L. Causly (United States).Thanks Ken for mediating the situation between Nasto and Miss. Fle. Great job. I am a Christian Minister, I have counseled Couples. Nastro, Miss. Flee just want to be with her husband, when you travel to those places sometimes, that's what a couple do is support each other. Traveling together sometimes, give you both a chance to get away from the Village. Nasto and Miss Flee, you are both young, enjoy your time with each other. Don't never be to busy Nasto to spend some time for getting away from the Village. Yes, you and Miss Flee have a very beautiful Compound, a beautiful home. But, spending time traveling together, traveling out of the Village, even if you going to buy Materials sometimes, take Miss Flee. Nasto, don't get so caught up in Construction, that you don't spend more time with Miss Flee. Take her with you, then she won't need to complain about being bored. I know you cannot take Miss Flee every time, but take her more often with you, even when you are picking up Materials, it give here a chance to get out of the village also. Stay Positive. And great Counseling Session Ken Digest. God Bless!
Reverend, I hope counseling couples cannot be best solved on social media. This subject is digging into the cordial relationship that existed between this family before now. From my point of view, Nasto is more concerned of the TH-cam financial future and intends to maximize from it as long as it lasts. I understand Miss Fle's sentiments but this would have been done out of camera and openly with all financial implications. Tell Miss Fle that private couple life on social media will strain her marriage.
All things happen for a reason and can be an eye opener. Put yourself in the proper perspective and realize that no walking, talking human can hurt you but can make you hurt yourself. Pray that God gives Nesto the grace of wisdom. Its a weak and foolish man who destroys his own domain.
Nasto is up to some thing so stop making excuses for him. He's acting sneaky. Miss Fle wasn't asking for a vacation, she just wanted to go with Nasto to Nairobi and back the next day for a change. Simple. Your excuses only make it worse, Miss Fle wasn't asking Nasto for a family vacation, just a simple trip to Nairobi with her husband. The truth always comes out you know. I used to trust Nasto, but I am beginning to suspect he may be playing games.
I totally agree with Miss _Fle. ( Let little Limb stay outside with you both.. He wants to be with everyone outside). He can take you and you can help pick out the items. Come on Nasto, listen to your girl.
MissFle You are perfectly right I think whenever Nasto going out of town it's important that he should take Ms Fle with him getting opinion on certain things he is choosing for their home communication is the key note to make a relationship grows to the Glory of God . Women like to see different things out of their areas Not beating on you Nasto you are a good person please do togetherness Nasto likes to give Ms Fle surprise.which is very thoughtful and amazing be bless my brother and sister You two could be my children Please for the Mercies of God please grow together with the Love of God Let nothing comes in between . Please remember to sit down and plan things together. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Ken , You may understand Miss Fle to a point , But she is the one that is Married to Nasto no one can understand how she feels. I am very proud of her for expressing herself I was surprised that all he think about is money. He said he built a house ,But is it a Home ?
She was happy 3 days ago. Why a turn around all over sudden. Gotta make yourself happy. Your happiness is your responsibility no one else’s. I personally was miserable, but when I discovered to make myself happy… sky is not even the limit
@ . Life will be full of joy, this little huddle will be a memory. Nasto has goals and like we see, he works hard and sometimes forgets about himself. If he is not at home doing 1,2,3.. he’s in the community doing 4,5,6… then to the orphanage doing 7,8,9 and so on. I just hope he gets time to rest while traveling . This young man must be physically and mentally very tired.
Miss Fle, I get your point you would like to go out explore places as couples. However, if traveling as a family does not allow you can do alone.,I guess you have friends or relatives in Nairobi or Mombasa. You can hit these cities and show they show you around. I have gone places with my husband and there are times I have done it by myself.
😢 it's good to express yourself : and the fact that you wanted to go together 😊 that is so sweet and make memories: Nasto you are doing your best but just hear your woman out communication is key .
Your sister, Miss Fley, is TOTALLY in the right! If she really needs a break from the ordinary everyday maybe she and a couple of girlfriends of hers can take a getaway trip together to enjoy themselves and then come back feeling refreshed. That would be a good solution in my opinion. Miss Fley needs a getaway, if not with her husband then with female friends of hers, but not by herself.
Why should she travel alone? Nasto never travels alone, he always travels with friends. However, friends and your spouse are different, every couple needs that time to refresh their relationship, even away from the kids. I am with Miss Fle on this.
MissFle I understand the way you are feeling. Which should be understood by the viewers In certain things if you are a couple and been left out of planning or doing things especially for your home who wouldn't feel bad like your opinions not valid Ms Fle please sit down one day and express your feelings about going places with Nasto which you have never been before and you would like to do a video it's not that you want him to spend extra because you are still building although construction never ends Nasto is a very good person always taking things to consideration whenever things needed to be done in his community. Which is very good that's what I admire about him and taking interest wanting his home to look good Hope Nasto listen to you carefully you are not asking or wanting much just to travel with him sometimes as a couple in later days to come you both can converse. about the experiences you had at a certain place please continue to pray some day God will work things out Please don't let this destroy your friendship and love you have for each other . Haters just sitting aside to hear the out come of your story please don't give them any thing to laugh or talk about Let the beauty of Jesus Christ be in the midst of everything Blessings Blessings always 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👍
Ms fle , your emotions are valid and the point raised is in high concern in couple relationship dynamisme, if even it can be done once or twice a year to go away as 2 or/and with your son, it's very resourceful , and creating memorables moments as all enjoy/experience the journey of life. Look at wode maya , he seemed he had listened to his bottled up frustrations, trudy is in kenya now , it may help her to grow oneself
Don’t be stuck because Nasto won’t take you. Ms Fle don’t be afraid to face your fears. Travel alone. Go out and get your own life experience. You will get healing ❤️🩹
I've never seen Ms Fle this annoyed. I totally understand your sister 's perspective about change of scenery and her input into the choices of household things for the home are necessary. She feels slighted that the budget to travel was not made for two persons. It's her home too, and it's hubby 2nd trip to Nairobi.
If you continue discussing your marriage issues on social media, that is the end of it. Social media people will just scatter you. Be careful. Your husband is a good. Stop this.
I get the impression ( from Nasto ). " I've provided a roof over your head, put food on the table, paid for expenses, etcetera It's like, ? what else does she need🤔 kinda situation. This is how men back in the day reasoned.. Sending big hugs to you, Ms. Fle 🤗
Great video, Ken. I personally think that some of the subscribers were giving bad advice for her to travel alone. I know that Miss Fle is a very intelligent person but I believe that they should travel togather so that she can get some experience. Nothing is wrong for her to express how she feels but, I think that some take it out of proportion. I love my beautiful family ❤❤
Youall have a great day at home Make youall day a happy one on the compound until z Nasto returns. Keep that spirit lively on the compound Its a Bless compound with lots of love❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ BOLD LOVE DOUBLE UP ON IT NOW MISS FLE look out😅
Ms. Fle is normally a very happy lady but it shows on her face her unhappiness. Her request is very simple and Nasto should really pay attention to her needs. it does not matter what he is doing for his family but what matters is what the family is doing together. At the end of the day, they both should work together and Nasto should actually pay attention to his lady's needs and happiness. Happy wife Happy home. Nasto, do not be defiant or think you should be providing and getting things on your own. Involved Ms. Fle and make her feel important.
Ms. Fle, you didn't do anything wrong. You can express how you feel. I think every negative or positive suggestion one but take them all and learn from them. You are not wrong or right. This is a marriage you guys have to compromise with each other.
You guys seem to have the mentality that if you have a young child you can't do anything my goodness how backwards perhaps you all need to come to the UK and see how young families go out on the weekends and go on holidays perhaps you would change your all mindsets this is 2024 for goodness sake expand your minds
Nasto is cheating...don't ignore this..your sister is not stupid either..she replaced the first wife easy now he doing to her what he did to the first wife..kick his ass to the curb..women don't need this emotional trauma.
These African men in this village think a woman should be home making babies,cooking, cleaning, and should not have a say..This home belongs to her also why can't she not shop for the chandeliers for the home..
There is a another couple that is building their house and they buy everything together, choose everything together, consult each other about everything regarding the house. This is really good.
This young lady needs a better man than this baby daddy of her. She's gorgeous,smart, and a good home maker,she needs a man who appreciates her..My opinion.
Your opinion is rubbish because what you’re trying to create is trouble in these young people’s marriage and for your information nasto is not just a baby daddy he is a husband he married that lady so get it right, no relationship is perfect, and in life you may not get everything you want at the same time so patient is key.
This is not traveling like on a vacation Nasto is going shopping what's the big deal with taking your sister along I don't understand or agree with Nasto on this one. It seems like Everytime he goes shopping in Nairobi he leaves your sister behind and always says maybe next time but the next time never happens. You say that they should travel together because that's what couples do well it doesn't seem like Nasto feels the same . Liam doesn't have to go you heard your sister say that they could leave Liam with his aunt but Nasto still said no. Nasto doesn't have a valid point STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR HIS BEHAVIOR in this situation he is wrong. He saw how hurt your sister was by his decision but he still went without her that's not good it comes off like he didn't care about how she feels about the situation. Remember Ken he's just going shopping according to him❤❤❤
May be Nasto has some hidden agenda beyond buying materials for the house. I am beginning to suspect that Nasto has some shenanigans in Nairobi, he didn't even have a valid reason when Miss Fle asked him why she couldn't go with him to Nairobi this time leaving Liam with his aunt. Nasto still refused and moreover, it appears Miss Fle wasn't even aware of the trip till the last time.
Miss Fle you were not wrong, never feel bad about speaking your mind! I'm an outspoken old woman too. What's the point of being a couple if you can't enjoy everything as a couple? My advice to you is to communicate your feelings privately with him and not bring this on social media again. I understand you must have done it this publicly this time around due to a frustration of talking to someone not seeing your perspective. Good luck, I love your young family and I pray for you both plus Liam. ❤ from 🇿🇦
My dear you are not asking for much so don't feel embarrassed you are young now is the time to enjoy yourself you stuck with him building that house He needs to take a break you both go somewhere and relax clear your Head to start building the other house
Ken Digest your sister Ms Fle is still upset as to why Nasto left her behind.when he left for the big coty Nairobi. Please do not make Ms Fle guilty she had to.open up about
It's important to ask not on the media or TH-cam. That was a good question, but not to this platform. It's Trending and turning a good thing into a bad things.
You're between the proverbial rock and a hard place, Ken. Miss Fle is your sister with whom you share maternal bonds, and Nasto is the "brother-in-law" with whom you have a good relationship. As you said, you certainly can't pick sides. It's a tough one. Not to put my head on the block for anyone, however, I don't think Nasto has sinister or ulterior motives for wanting to go alone, as some have inferred and directly stated. It's only my two cents bit. This is not a major family rift; this too shall pass.
ms.flee is right she just want to feel and see the other side of the city.im nasto subscriber but i think ms.flee have the right to express her feelings and that is understadble.ms.flee you travel alone sometimes and experience what life is....go girl...
I'm glad she expounded on the situation. I've been married 26 years, and my husband hates shopping for the home. I have a question: Was you guys married when you got the property?
Ms Fle..you should have the opportunity to spend time with your husband outside of the village. Nasto said he would plan something and do better. I hope he does, because we are watching. Continue to communicate with your husband. He will have to listen. Keep your head up. Well done with this video ken digest. You have a new subscriber from Ms Fle.💕🙏🏽🇯🇲
Ken Digest, Nasto doesnt have no valid excuses. Money should not be an issu when it comes to his family. He didnt want Miss Fle to come with him period. Nasto need to change his macho attitude. In that case he should have stayed single. Miss Fle, you dont need Nasto to travel with. Go with a girl friend, you will enjoy it as much. Stop depending on him for everything. You need to be more independant. He prefers to travel with his friends.
No ken he has brought that extra rock and sand just sitting there and no marriage yet also wo my en should choose things for yhe jome he just comes home with lights and curtains and she has no say its like his home its what he wonts eomen dont be treated like there parents were marwa has learned this also miss fle look u need to have your say marriage is half and half not one way
Nasto is not cheating but he is working on budget first things first, however his family needs vacation he better ans for that, miss flee is a wonderful wonderful wife mother and home manager.
Yes miss Fle agree with you but it should not be done on social media..let us go back to olden days in your bedroom and lock the door and discuss matters...........we are just too open.........bangarang start in your relationship...... hope you learn a lesson discussion must be off camara please please ❤❤
Nasto stop making your self busy!you and miss flee who is busyier?she does laundry,cook,looks after your son,cleans and on top of that does content 😮 Nasto be loving to your wife and listen to her,stop disregarding her feelings you're not special dont creat issues in your relationship
Nasto worries about finances and supporting his family. He is very protective so he sees it as being financially aware as important, that the reason he built such a small house instead of his ‘ dream ‘ house . Nasto should now include his family in his travels sometimes so they too can take some time off from the village. It took us a long time to meet his family because of his overprotectiveness and even longer to meet his son. Ms Fle is tired of him telling her she can’t go to places he can, even small celebrations around the village he choses to go alone. Nasto listen to your subscribers and get this right before it’s too late and she is no longer there one day when you come home.
The most important decision that can be made at this point is to agree to never again bring such personal discussions/matters to this platform! This is the worse place for the resolution relationship matters. You will get thousands of different opinions and perspectives! Less, it will begin to look like a Soap Opera and threaten a great relationship. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
I totally agree once you bring your personal issues in the public domain then you are opening a can of worm for the world, bad idea (social media) is not the platform, NEVER💯⚠Ken thanks for your advise to your sis..
Miss Fle, as a married Lady, I quite understand you, what I decided to do is to create my own happiness. Period. I was in that same boat.but I am still with my husband married from 2010 till today.
I see someone cheating. That excuse has no valid reason, this woman said that; she requested him several times to travel together but he refuses. Your brother is giving a wrong advice; weather cold or it's festival season, you can travel, it's not even festive season yet! Too much excuses from Nasto 🙅
@Ken Digest how the heck can Miss Fle and Nasto both be right? That’s not possible. Nasto should have taken the time to listen to her concerns. He always goes alone, even when picking out items for their home. You made it sound like she was going to melt in the rain. Nasto should want her to travel with him whenever he goes. He’s never offered to take her. I don’t think you are a good person to explain how your sister feels. You totally chose the male point of view, giving every excuse for her to be left behind. All of the things you named were done by Rocio while 5 months pregnant. She did not melt in the rain. She survived many bus rides and many countries. You should not make excuses for your sister’s unhappiness. Please don’t give her that male perspective again. It’s not helpful.
Hey Ken Ms Fle Is Very Disress She Needs To A Hoilday OR Dump Nasto😊 Making Promises He Can't Keep! As His Interasted Is Only Money Construction. Travels Around. The Sooner Its Sorted Out This Matter The Better Plus ken Tell Nasto To Stop Talking Over Ms Fle During There Convesation😂 OR She Dump Him.😊
She should also limit too much association with unmarried women especially the village youtubers that travel, you don’t know what else they do to afford traveling plus they are oblique of marital responsibility and may incite her negatively. You’re right Ken, they should plan and your sister can spearhead the planning, participation is very important but on the other hand I’ve noticed Nasto is frugal with money and controlling, we all have insecurities and weaknesses but in a relationship we have to resolve to work on them, either way, they are both good people, maturity is not water 😂👍🏾
You might be right, she should avoid those socialite concubines of Marwa, people like peris and miss T, they will mislead her, they are probably the ones that stirred up all these problems
Nasto's wife inputs doesn't matter to him, that's why he left and travelled alone - atleast this time around he would've listened to her, he prioritise his side only, he doesn't care - guy is CHEATING!
I don't understand the language but I agree with you ,not online ,she knows that her husband is hated on the TH-cam street and now she is giving them all the ammunition to go for him,hope ,it's worth it for her.
Brother Ken, I love your videos but you should have not interfered and posted this video. I believe your intention is pure but it’s not your business. Please remember you are a guest in their home.
I admire that Ms Fle is not afraid to speak her mind! She has been extremely reasonable...I don't think she has done anything wrong. Great conversation bro!❤❤
All this young lady did is speak and voice her mind which many ppl don’t know how to express correctly! Her emotions are to be taken into consideration. Kudos🎉 for saving yourself from decades of trauma👏
The quality of the mothers happiness is an indicator of how children grow to thrive in life Ms. Fle deserves the world Nasto.
Coming from an 83 yr old mother/granny/great grandma with ❤.
Ms. Fle your feelings is totally understandable!❤️🇺🇸.
Ms Fle, Your feelings are valid.... I understand how you feel. He should've taken you with him... You need a break too from the baby just like him. You're always cleaning and take care of your son which is good but you need time to breathe❤❤❤❤
Miss Fle you are perfectly correct ,change of scenery is good all work and no play make a dull man,something for Nasto to think about
Miss Fle cheer up,time will come when you will be able to move around.There is a saying that goes like happiness is a choice, choose happiness and always love and treat your self whenever you can.
As you invest you also need to create time to enjoy n re -energize.
The festive season is for family. Communication before traveling and not at the appointed time is important. Man's job is to provide and lead his family. Supporting your wife involved in being there for her during tough times, listening to her concerns, and validating her feelings. It means showing empathy and understanding and being a source of comfort. I can understand Ms. Fle boredom. I'm happy she express herself and not keeping it inside. The conversation she share is happening to many couples. The weather, festive season and time was no excuse. The moment for her is to help relieve boredom and more was what important. Anywhere he sleep she would sleep etc. Ms. Fle continue to be strong and always express yourself. Never keep it in❤❤❤❤
Nesto please listen to you wife she need to feel appreciated. We all feel her pain
You are not alone in this Ms Fle your feeling are valid. Just know me and my wife both agree with you❤❤❤😂
Miss Fle you are right and I appreciate Nasto allowing you express yourself life is a learning process and both of you have learnt something
Ken, young man, this is the Rev. Dr. Henry L. Causly (United States).Thanks Ken for mediating the situation between Nasto and Miss. Fle. Great job. I am a Christian Minister, I have counseled Couples. Nastro, Miss. Flee just want to be with her husband, when you travel to those places sometimes, that's what a couple do is support each other. Traveling together sometimes, give you both a chance to get away from the Village. Nasto and Miss Flee, you are both young, enjoy your time with each other. Don't never be to busy Nasto to spend some time for getting away from the Village. Yes, you and Miss Flee have a very beautiful Compound, a beautiful home. But, spending time traveling together, traveling out of the Village, even if you going to buy Materials sometimes, take Miss Flee. Nasto, don't get so caught up in Construction, that you don't spend more time with Miss Flee. Take her with you, then she won't need to complain about being bored. I know you cannot take Miss Flee every time, but take her more often with you, even when you are picking up Materials, it give here a chance to get out of the village also. Stay Positive. And great Counseling Session Ken Digest. God Bless!
Thank you savant of God, it couldn't be put any better. God bless you for the advice.
You are right man of God. Rev. Hope you visit our church too in the western part of Kenya. It needs you too.
Reverend, I hope counseling couples cannot be best solved on social media. This subject is digging into the cordial relationship that existed between this family before now. From my point of view, Nasto is more concerned of the TH-cam financial future and intends to maximize from it as long as it lasts. I understand Miss Fle's sentiments but this would have been done out of camera and openly with all financial implications. Tell Miss Fle that private couple life on social media will strain her marriage.
@@bonfacewasike2764so true
Well put 👏🏽
All things happen for a reason and can be an eye opener. Put yourself in the proper perspective and realize that no walking, talking human can hurt you but can make you hurt yourself. Pray that God gives Nesto the grace of wisdom. Its a weak and foolish man who destroys his own domain.
Much love ❤️ to Both of them
Thank you ❤️
Hi Miss Fle and Ken. A good open discussion there. Miss Fle is crying for help, Nastro should sort this out before it gets really bad.
Ms Fle is very sincere.
Nasto is up to some thing so stop making excuses for him. He's acting sneaky. Miss Fle wasn't asking for a vacation, she just wanted to go with Nasto to Nairobi and back the next day for a change. Simple. Your excuses only make it worse, Miss Fle wasn't asking Nasto for a family vacation, just a simple trip to Nairobi with her husband. The truth always comes out you know. I used to trust Nasto, but I am beginning to suspect he may be playing games.
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I totally agree with Miss _Fle. ( Let little Limb stay outside with you both.. He wants to be with everyone outside). He can take you and you can help pick out the items. Come on Nasto, listen to your girl.
MissFle You are perfectly right I think whenever Nasto going out of town it's important that he should take Ms Fle with him getting opinion on certain things he is choosing for their home communication is the key note to make a relationship grows to the Glory of God . Women like to see different things out of their areas Not beating on you Nasto you are a good person please do togetherness Nasto likes to give Ms Fle surprise.which is very thoughtful and amazing be bless my brother and sister You two could be my children Please for the Mercies of God please grow together with the Love of God Let nothing comes in between . Please remember to sit down and plan things together. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Go for it! Take a trip
Ken , You may understand Miss Fle to a point , But she is the one that is Married to Nasto no one can understand how she feels. I am very proud of her for expressing herself
I was surprised that all he think about is money. He said he built a house ,But is it a Home ?
Ken, your sister is unhappy and I totally understand her. I hope everything will be okay
She was happy 3 days ago. Why a turn around all over sudden.
Gotta make yourself happy. Your happiness is your responsibility no one else’s.
I personally was miserable, but when I discovered to make myself happy… sky is not even the limit
@@2000mamusa good for you
I don't think Ms. Fle is unhappy! She was disappointed that she couldn't go on this trip!
I love that all she wants is to make memories!!!!
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@ . Life will be full of joy, this little huddle will be a memory. Nasto has goals and like we see, he works hard and sometimes forgets about himself. If he is not at home doing 1,2,3.. he’s in the community doing 4,5,6… then to the orphanage doing 7,8,9 and so on. I just hope he gets time to rest while traveling . This young man must be physically and mentally very tired.
@@2000mamusanasto is a snake he is not as innocent as he always pretending to be
Miss Fle, I get your point you would like to go out explore places as couples. However, if traveling as a family does not allow you can do alone.,I guess you have friends or relatives in Nairobi or Mombasa. You can hit these cities and show they show you around. I have gone places with my husband and there are times I have done it by myself.
😢 it's good to express yourself : and the fact that you wanted to go together 😊 that is so sweet and make memories: Nasto you are doing your best but just hear your woman out communication is key .
Good advice to them. Nasto and Miss Fle is a couple I admire. Blessings ❤🎉
Any season is good. Don’t make up excuses for him not taking her. Women are not stupid. We have intuition
Hi Ken it's good to give your sister advice keep up the good work - from San Diego California
Your sister, Miss Fley, is TOTALLY in the right! If she really needs a break from the ordinary everyday maybe she and a couple of girlfriends of hers can take a getaway trip together to enjoy themselves and then come back feeling refreshed. That would be a good solution in my opinion. Miss Fley needs a getaway, if not with her husband then with female friends of hers, but not by herself.
Nasto should plan for weekends away from home,one in a monthly,it's so relaxing to a couple.
You both will have a takeaway ❤
Why should she travel alone? Nasto never travels alone, he always travels with friends. However, friends and your spouse are different, every couple needs that time to refresh their relationship, even away from the kids.
I am with Miss Fle on this.
Nasto has traveled alone all the time. It must have gotten out of hand for her to go public
Their married
MissFle I understand the way you are feeling. Which should be understood by the viewers In certain things if you are a couple and been left out of planning or doing things especially for your home who wouldn't feel bad like your opinions not valid Ms Fle please sit down one day and express your feelings about going places with Nasto which you have never been before and you would like to do a video it's not that you want him to spend extra because you are still building although construction never ends Nasto is a very good person always taking things to consideration whenever things needed to be done in his community. Which is very good that's what I admire about him and taking interest wanting his home to look good Hope Nasto listen to you carefully you are not asking or wanting much just to travel with him sometimes as a couple in later days to come you both can converse. about the experiences you had at a certain place please continue to pray some day God will work things out Please don't let this destroy your friendship and love you have for each other . Haters just sitting aside to hear the out come of your story please don't give them any thing to laugh or talk about Let the beauty of Jesus Christ be in the midst of everything
Blessings Blessings always 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👍
Ms fle , your emotions are valid and the point raised is in high concern in couple relationship dynamisme, if even it can be done once or twice a year to go away as 2 or/and with your son, it's very resourceful , and creating memorables moments as all enjoy/experience the journey of life.
Look at wode maya , he seemed he had listened to his bottled up frustrations, trudy is in kenya now , it may help her to grow oneself
Miss Fle has all the right to go on holiday maybe she should go with a family member or friend... Nothing wrong with that. Shes young...
Don’t be stuck because Nasto won’t take you. Ms Fle don’t be afraid to face your fears. Travel alone. Go out and get your own life experience. You will get healing ❤️🩹
I've never seen Ms Fle this annoyed. I totally understand your sister 's perspective about change of scenery and her input into the choices of household things for the home are necessary. She feels slighted that the budget to travel was not made for two persons. It's her home too, and it's hubby 2nd trip to Nairobi.
If you continue discussing your marriage issues on social media, that is the end of it. Social media people will just scatter you. Be careful. Your husband is a good. Stop this.
I get the impression ( from Nasto ). " I've provided a roof over your head, put food on the table, paid for expenses, etcetera
It's like, ? what else does she need🤔 kinda situation.
This is how men back in the day reasoned..
Sending big hugs to you, Ms. Fle 🤗
She feels lonely when Nasto aint around coz of those perimeter walls, most homes in the village are live fenced without gates
Pray and ask God to guide you, take a look at the women who are vloging alone and enjoying themselves, you can do it its all in the mind.❤❤❤❤
Great video, Ken. I personally think that some of the subscribers were giving bad advice for her to travel alone. I know that Miss Fle is a very intelligent person but I believe that they should travel togather so that she can get some experience. Nothing is wrong for her to express how she feels but, I think that some take it out of proportion. I love my beautiful family ❤❤
Both of you work hard together.
very bright boy good advice God bless you
Youall have a great day at home Make youall day a happy one on the compound until z Nasto returns. Keep that spirit lively on the compound Its a Bless compound with lots of love❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ BOLD LOVE DOUBLE UP ON IT NOW MISS FLE look out😅
Ms. Fle is normally a very happy lady but it shows on her face her unhappiness. Her request is very simple and Nasto should really pay attention to her needs. it does not matter what he is doing for his family but what matters is what the family is doing together. At the end of the day, they both should work together and Nasto should actually pay attention to his lady's needs and happiness. Happy wife Happy home. Nasto, do not be defiant or think you should be providing and getting things on your own. Involved Ms. Fle and make her feel important.
Nasto definitely need to include her more in the decision making instead of bringing stuff home without her input.
Ms. Fle, you didn't do anything wrong. You can express how you feel. I think every negative or positive suggestion one but take them all and learn from them. You are not wrong or right. This is a marriage you guys have to compromise with each other.
You guys seem to have the mentality that if you have a young child you can't do anything my goodness how backwards perhaps you all need to come to the UK and see how young families go out on the weekends and go on holidays perhaps you would change your all mindsets this is 2024 for goodness sake expand your minds
Hi Ken first time watching ur Chanelle good video keep them coming watching from Jamaica 🇯🇲 nuff nuff love ❤👏
Nasto is cheating...don't ignore this..your sister is not stupid either..she replaced the first wife easy now he doing to her what he did to the first wife..kick his ass to the curb..women don't need this emotional trauma.
Serenity Lee
Ken digest...you have an amazing family...it's nasto,miss fle ,yeyo kama yeyo and Liam❤❤
@@letinina thank you ❤️
These African men in this village think a woman should be home making babies,cooking, cleaning, and should not have a say..This home belongs to her also why can't she not shop for the chandeliers for the home..
What a culture 😭
@@marjoriebent5439a backward culture I must say
I agree, they are trying to be modern but still being old fashioned
There was no animosity. Ms Fle just asked him a question. Nothing more. He was honest with his answer as well.
It was ok to talk😊
There is a another couple that is building their house and they buy everything together, choose everything together, consult each other about everything regarding the house. This is really good.
linet-ke and charlowkush
This young lady needs a better man than this baby daddy of her. She's gorgeous,smart, and a good home maker,she needs a man who appreciates her..My opinion.
Your opinion is rubbish because what you’re trying to create is trouble in these young people’s marriage and for your information nasto is not just a baby daddy he is a husband he married that lady so get it right, no relationship is perfect, and in life you may not get everything you want at the same time so patient is key.
@@eliasnestor9482 Absolutely true she must be patient indeed
She also have her own money from TH-cam what is she assisting nasto with ?
@@eliasnestor9482they are not married maybe Nasto need to make that right as well! Make her your true wife instead of calling Ms Fle ‘wife’
Keep quiet they are married, even if they are not married where is your problem?
This is not traveling like on a vacation Nasto is going shopping what's the big deal with taking your sister along I don't understand or agree with Nasto on this one. It seems like Everytime he goes shopping in Nairobi he leaves your sister behind and always says maybe next time but the next time never happens. You say that they should travel together because that's what couples do well it doesn't seem like Nasto feels the same . Liam doesn't have to go you heard your sister say that they could leave Liam with his aunt but Nasto still said no. Nasto doesn't have a valid point STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR HIS BEHAVIOR in this situation he is wrong. He saw how hurt your sister was by his decision but he still went without her that's not good it comes off like he didn't care about how she feels about the situation. Remember Ken he's just going shopping according to him❤❤❤
May be Nasto has some hidden agenda beyond buying materials for the house. I am beginning to suspect that Nasto has some shenanigans in Nairobi, he didn't even have a valid reason when Miss Fle asked him why she couldn't go with him to Nairobi this time leaving Liam with his aunt. Nasto still refused and moreover, it appears Miss Fle wasn't even aware of the trip till the last time.
Miss Fle jump out of the box and go in your marketplace and do some vlogs,,,
Miss Fle you were not wrong, never feel bad about speaking your mind! I'm an outspoken old woman too. What's the point of being a couple if you can't enjoy everything as a couple? My advice to you is to communicate your feelings privately with him and not bring this on social media again. I understand you must have done it this publicly this time around due to a frustration of talking to someone not seeing your perspective. Good luck, I love your young family and I pray for you both plus Liam. ❤ from 🇿🇦
I feel you miss flee and thanks for understanding your husband.Next time try and face your frustrations with your husband especially private matters.
You know it take him long to introduce you to people, he didn't want you to be seen at all
Oh dear God, what an awful thing to say . how does that statement helps?
He used to hide her for the whole year
@Ken,what your sister was asking for is so basic and not wrong,she doesn't have to explain herself so much
My dear you are not asking for much so don't feel embarrassed you are young now is the time to enjoy yourself you stuck with him building that house He needs to take a break you both go somewhere and relax clear your Head to start building the other house
Ms Fle you didn’t do anything wrong.
Ms Fle you can travel alone!!!
You are an intelligent person. Ken stop being biased
Ken Digest your sister Ms Fle is still upset as to why Nasto left her behind.when he left for the big coty Nairobi. Please do not make Ms Fle guilty she had to.open up about
Wave the flag sister! THE BIG RED ONE....🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Ms Fle is no idiot 🙃
It's important to ask not on the media or TH-cam.
That was a good question, but not to this platform.
It's Trending and turning a good thing into a bad things.
Both of you need time together and time apart, the child can spend time with Grandma or auntie
You're between the proverbial rock and a hard place, Ken. Miss Fle is your sister with whom you share maternal bonds, and Nasto is the "brother-in-law" with whom you have a good relationship. As you said, you certainly can't pick sides. It's a tough one.
Not to put my head on the block for anyone, however, I don't think Nasto has sinister or ulterior motives for wanting to go alone, as some have inferred and directly stated. It's only my two cents bit. This is not a major family rift; this too shall pass.
ms.flee is right she just want to feel and see the other side of the city.im nasto subscriber but i think ms.flee have the right to express her feelings and that is understadble.ms.flee you travel alone sometimes and experience what life is....go girl...
I'm glad she expounded on the situation. I've been married 26 years, and my husband hates shopping for the home. I have a question: Was you guys married when you got the property?
Please please people, let us not stop judging, this is a young couple and need a lot of advice
Well said even Psychologies never give advice. They just give suggestions and recommendations
Ms Fle..you should have the opportunity to spend time with your husband outside of the village. Nasto said he would plan something and do better. I hope he does, because we are watching. Continue to communicate with your husband. He will have to listen. Keep your head up. Well done with this video ken digest. You have a new subscriber from Ms Fle.💕🙏🏽🇯🇲
Ken Digest,
Nasto doesnt have no valid excuses. Money should not be an issu when it comes to his family. He didnt want Miss Fle to come with him period. Nasto need to change his macho attitude. In that case he should have stayed single. Miss Fle, you dont need Nasto to travel with. Go with a girl friend, you will enjoy it as much. Stop depending on him for everything. You need to be more independant. He prefers to travel with his friends.
He wants you to be a kitchen wife
Blessings ken
Thank you ❤️
Good tell him he has a lady in Nairobi
Ken take in the lessons from this incident for yourself😂.
It's hard not to 😂
👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
Let her speak Ken.Nasto must do better
No ken he has brought that extra rock and sand just sitting there and no marriage yet also wo my en should choose things for yhe jome he just comes home with lights and curtains and she has no say its like his home its what he wonts eomen dont be treated like there parents were marwa has learned this also miss fle look u need to have your say marriage is half and half not one way
What you call cold is nothing compared to our cold weather here in USA
Moreso Canada.
😅for us it's cold because we are used to warm weather
You are not wrong.
Nasto is not cheating but he is working on budget first things first, however his family needs vacation he better ans for that, miss flee is a wonderful wonderful wife mother and home manager.
Agreed
Miss Fle you have a point but expressing yourself on social media, it's not good because people going to take it wrong
She might have fought it off Camera before voicing it out
She should make a video msg to her husband if she feels upset about his decision. However, she is the outspoken one in the marriage😊
Yes miss Fle agree with you but it should not be done on social media..let us go back to olden days in your bedroom and lock the door and discuss matters...........we are just too open.........bangarang start in your relationship...... hope you learn a lesson discussion must be off camara please please ❤❤
Nasto stop making your self busy!you and miss flee who is busyier?she does laundry,cook,looks after your son,cleans and on top of that does content 😮 Nasto be loving to your wife and listen to her,stop disregarding her feelings you're not special dont creat issues in your relationship
Nasto worries about finances and supporting his family. He is very protective so he sees it as being financially aware as important, that the reason he built such a small house instead of his ‘ dream ‘ house .
Nasto should now include his family in his travels sometimes so they too can take some time off from the village.
It took us a long time to meet his family because of his overprotectiveness and even longer to meet his son.
Ms Fle is tired of him telling her she can’t go to places he can, even small celebrations around the village he choses to go alone.
Nasto listen to your subscribers and get this right before it’s too late and she is no longer there one day when you come home.
Nasto is very correct he decides for his family his wife is not supposed to discuss this with her brother
The most important decision that can be made at this point is to agree to never again bring such personal discussions/matters to this platform! This is the worse place for the resolution relationship matters. You will get thousands of different opinions and perspectives! Less, it will begin to look like a Soap Opera and threaten a great relationship. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
I agree. Seeking attention from these imaginary friends (subscribers) is dangerous.
I totally agree once you bring your personal issues in the public domain then you are opening a can of worm for the world, bad idea (social media) is not the platform, NEVER💯⚠Ken thanks for your advise to your sis..
Yep, now we all have an opinion on their personal business. Not a good look
Miss Fle, as a married Lady, I quite understand you, what I decided to do is to create my own happiness. Period. I was in that same boat.but I am still with my husband married from 2010 till today.
@ amen!!!
I see someone cheating.
That excuse has no valid reason, this woman said that; she requested him several times to travel together but he refuses. Your brother is giving a wrong advice; weather cold or it's festival season, you can travel, it's not even festive season yet! Too much excuses from Nasto 🙅
@Ken Digest how the heck can Miss Fle and Nasto both be right? That’s not possible. Nasto should have taken the time to listen to her concerns. He always goes alone, even when picking out items for their home. You made it sound like she was going to melt in the rain. Nasto should want her to travel with him whenever he goes. He’s never offered to take her. I don’t think you are a good person to explain how your sister feels. You totally chose the male point of view, giving every excuse for her to be left behind. All of the things you named were done by Rocio while 5 months pregnant. She did not melt in the rain. She survived many bus rides and many countries. You should not make excuses for your sister’s unhappiness. Please don’t give her that male perspective again. It’s not helpful.
He is young and lack experience .
Hey Ken Ms Fle Is Very Disress She Needs To A Hoilday OR Dump Nasto😊 Making Promises He Can't Keep! As His Interasted Is Only Money Construction. Travels Around. The Sooner Its Sorted Out This Matter The Better Plus ken Tell Nasto To Stop Talking Over Ms Fle During There Convesation😂
OR She Dump Him.😊
Overcome your fears
Nah😂.. it's respect
@ you are projecting on the woman
She needs to feel valued. That is respect for her also.
She should also limit too much association with unmarried women especially the village youtubers that travel, you don’t know what else they do to afford traveling plus they are oblique of marital responsibility and may incite her negatively. You’re right Ken, they should plan and your sister can spearhead the planning, participation is very important but on the other hand I’ve noticed Nasto is frugal with money and controlling, we all have insecurities and weaknesses but in a relationship we have to resolve to work on them, either way, they are both good people, maturity is not water 😂👍🏾
You might be right, she should avoid those socialite concubines of Marwa, people like peris and miss T, they will mislead her, they are probably the ones that stirred up all these problems
Nasto's wife inputs doesn't matter to him, that's why he left and travelled alone - atleast this time around he would've listened to her, he prioritise his side only, he doesn't care - guy is CHEATING!
Yeah but not online mutaanguswa na online vibaya sana
I don't understand the language but I agree with you ,not online ,she knows that her husband is hated on the TH-cam street and now she is giving them all the ammunition to go for him,hope ,it's worth it for her.
For my thinking my brother and my sister for the greater way not to attract reactors in Nyabohanze village.
Take your step
Brother Ken, I love your videos but you should have not interfered and posted this video. I believe your intention is pure but it’s not your business. Please remember you are a guest in their home.
You are right, also he is Fle sister. Is he married to FLE? at this point, BLOOD IS THICKER THAN WATER !