Be Careful Who You Marry!

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  • @montricec8795
    @montricec8795 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    My mom used to tell me to ALWAYS keep my credit good, have a couple of emergency credit cards, a good car, and some cash on hand.

  • @TheindyG
    @TheindyG 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +32

    Yes ! I've been celibate a little over a year now because I'm not into casual sex anymore, I just desire to do BETTER now... waiting on my husband ❤ pray fuh me 😂 it ain't easy but I know it's worth it ...

  • @deneciaanderson4267
    @deneciaanderson4267 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +142

    I always say be careful who you marry and who you have kids with. I'm glad I'm single and God got a hold of me before I made more stupid decisions because of my brokenness. Forever grateful 🙏 not the same woman I was 10 years ago 😭

    • @ambermedlock9004
      @ambermedlock9004 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +14

      Amen sis, there is a reason God has us to wait, it's better to wait on the Lord. Keep the faith it will happen in due season

    • @deneciaanderson4267
      @deneciaanderson4267 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

      @@ambermedlock9004 that's it! He makes everything beautiful in his time. I met a lot of women and men who didn't wait so I know God is showing me to trust and wait. With that being said let's catch these flights ✈️ not feelings lol.

    • @jessicalynn9563
      @jessicalynn9563 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

      @deneciaanderson4267 same here sis! God is simply amazing to us for shielding 🙏🏾

    • @lwarfield52
      @lwarfield52 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

      Gurl! You said a mouth full be careful who you have kids with! That's important and valuable information. Thank you.

  • @TamBella80
    @TamBella80 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +88

    If I don’t hear the “y’all gotta forgive me now”, how do I know it’s a TG video? OG fans already know the vibes 🎉

    • @Sugarput1
      @Sugarput1 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Sorry i am missing it Tony I was having phone issues

    • @misguidedpearls7456
      @misguidedpearls7456 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      😂😂😂😂❤❤❤

    • @manisymone8622
      @manisymone8622 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      😂❤

    • @divinebydesignladyrenee
      @divinebydesignladyrenee 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      😂😂😂😂 Exactly

    • @yerushalom87
      @yerushalom87 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      😂

  • @driaaxxo8663
    @driaaxxo8663 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +38

    I always feel so much joy when you talk about your wife. Its so amazing seeing a man truly care for and love a woman. I didn't grow up seeing that. I hope to have that one day😊

    • @sadiaforfun
      @sadiaforfun 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      ❣💛🧡

  • @Visionary79-m2t
    @Visionary79-m2t 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    Tony ain't playing this Season!! Let the Lord use you T!! Thanks for this amazing word!

  • @nicolebalmier
    @nicolebalmier 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +36

    I have been a “that’s what he gets” kind of person & I see the error in my thinking, we all deserve compassion regardless of our choices ❤

    • @heather7119
      @heather7119 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      me too! But looking at it from a Godly compassionate perspective is key, something I'm praying about.

  • @shereewhite4828
    @shereewhite4828 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    ●Dr. Gaskins explains what "ya'll gotta forgive me nah" means, 😂then after explaining says...."ya'll gotta forgive me nah!"
    👏🏽Today 1/11/25 is my 11th year of being abstinent. I know that there are many women who have been abstinent way longer than me, but I just want to encourage ladies no matter their age, that it's ok to be abstinent until marriage. I'm two weeks away from my 56th birthday.🎂🎉🎈🎊

  • @yx5991
    @yx5991 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

    Yes that’s true we have to remember we’ve all made bad decisions and just because we’ve learned the lesson and changed doesn’t change we once made a bad choice.

  • @linw5643
    @linw5643 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +9

    I love how TG is able to dream and come up things that will bless others. It inspires me to dream big🎉🎉

  • @JaySmith.
    @JaySmith. 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    I’d like the fasting challenge group. I fast myself but being able to do it with others is encouraging to push through and overcome.

  • @a.a.12945
    @a.a.12945 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +12

    Yes please Tony to the singles group !!! I’ve recently been struggling to keep up the body/fashion/lifestyle and working on my goals because it can be a lonely journey! When u reach the goals and then nothing outside of u changes it’s hard to stay focused. Especially as a single parent. You want to give up on yourself. Would love to see other singles and be held accountable!! Amazing idea

  • @manoniemoments
    @manoniemoments 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +55

    💡If you don’t have 3 months worth of rent at a decent gated apartment in yo city, you not ready to go into a relationship. - Tony Gaskins Jr.💡

    • @montricec8795
      @montricec8795 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      💯

  • @ladynottingham89
    @ladynottingham89 9 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    If there’s anything I’ll take with me forever will be those words from your grandma “want who wants you, not who you want”. I learned that the hard way, but I’ll pass it on to my daughter.

  • @Nikita_848
    @Nikita_848 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Lots of ppl marry for the wrong reasons...and then down the road, that's when the penny drops

  • @zilimude8759
    @zilimude8759 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    Watching from Zambia 🇿🇲, thank you Mr Gaskins for your daily dose of wisdom. I am addicted to your content. Your videos are the highlight of my day.. What a time to be alive. You are a blessing to mankind, keep doing the Good work 🙏🏽
    God Bless.

  • @Sunshine-r6s3w
    @Sunshine-r6s3w 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +17

    I’m not sure if you know this and I’m not saying it’s right but typically when black women say, “he chose her” that’s something that black men specifically have said to black women. In specific events where a man doesn’t take care of his kids, unalives the woman, etc. Men (specifically black men) say, “you chose him.” That’s just a background of where that came from. I’m not justifying anyone’s behavior but that’s what’s happening out here.

    • @GingerSpices
      @GingerSpices 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

      True a lot of those guys are very bitter so they say stuff like that to shame the women that don’t want them.

  • @montricec8795
    @montricec8795 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    "Anything is possible!"....T.G.

  • @QuiteTheLady
    @QuiteTheLady 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +36

    I personally
    like men of other cultures and races because Im more appreciated and my beauty is more appreciated and there are things that are understood that don’t have to be explained. And I like that.

    • @simplyameeraj
      @simplyameeraj 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

      💯

    • @annwideman8760
      @annwideman8760 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      Good evening, My Y T Son and everyone. Thank you for always bringing us up to speed and constantly. constantly reminding us of critical issues in relationships. Especially when you marry. Yes, we as women need to be careful about who we trust our hearts to.

    • @ange2122
      @ange2122 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

      In all honesty, lack of appreciation is a sad reason to experiment

  • @QuiteTheLady
    @QuiteTheLady 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +19

    I always say the faithful, biblical proverb… “Houses and wealth are the inheritance of fathers but a prudent wife is a gift from the Lord”. A lot of these men that go after aesthetic can sometimes miss an actual prudent and wise woman who they would actually have a deep connection with who will truly love them. I also feel like a good woman will add years to a man’s life. My stepdaddy was diagnosed with three types of cancer plus copd but my mom took such good care of him he fought to live for her and his years were multiplied. I love my dad and he is a hard worker but had it not been for my stepmom, I don’t think my dad would be alive. She takes such good care of him. I couldn’t imagine him having a wife who cared nothing about him but just wanted his money. Choose wisely people!

  • @Blu-om
    @Blu-om 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +9

    Empathy is high emotional intelligence when paired with faith and discernment.

  • @monicamayberry9313
    @monicamayberry9313 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    Those Black women that you blocked were not rejoicing in his death ..he did choose her..thus the video prompt..be careful who you marry!

  • @chameljackson4512
    @chameljackson4512 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you for creating something for singles

  • @Skylimited55
    @Skylimited55 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    No problem, Tony.💙💙💙💙

  • @CourtneyB
    @CourtneyB 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    25:28 Not the rapture coming in the middle of you lyin on the phone with the bank 🤣

  • @cindyharris3201
    @cindyharris3201 32 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    Yes sir!! ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE!!!

  • @angelicher
    @angelicher 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Tony: I DON'T KNOW HIM!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @lifewithJeanae
    @lifewithJeanae 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    If it doesn’t make sense in the relationship it wouldn’t make sense marrying I’m just saying marrying isn’t going to fix anything you gotta work on self and choosing to look other then your self

  • @purplelotusflower888
    @purplelotusflower888 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thanks for posting this video!!! I’m watching on our hour break from the masterclass!!! Im obtaining knowledge on both ends today!! See ya 2nd half of class!!!!

  • @eagles-soar
    @eagles-soar 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Thank You , man of god for sharing, what it means the little things/for nothing gifts that's another. Love Language to and to acts of service!!🎉🎉🎉 be blessed

  • @hingreddiniz5835
    @hingreddiniz5835 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

    Almost walked down the aisle with who the Lord never wanted me with. If I ever heard my Savior so clearly I heard him say to me IT'S EITHER ME OR HIM! That shut the whole thing down. I'm sticking with Jesus and I thank him for sparing me from a disastrous marriage.

  • @suzettecaruthers7822
    @suzettecaruthers7822 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Amen! God send men the person who you have for them

  • @Desie380
    @Desie380 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yasss can’t wait for the bootcamp 😊

  • @tierraherbert5454
    @tierraherbert5454 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    Can we start with me getting a date first 😂😂.

  • @niki-mars955
    @niki-mars955 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Amen to the singles group# I've been doing training for he past three to four years to prepare myself for marriage. I'm definitely joining the singles group chat! This year,I'd like to meet my hubby

  • @Visionary79-m2t
    @Visionary79-m2t 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    Tony this single group is about to be as big as the growth club.😂

  • @trishabratton1124
    @trishabratton1124 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    I don't think he committed suicide. His mom has spoken out about what that wife did. We are praying as family that no weapon formed against Ms. Boss's name in JESUS MIGHTY name amen.
    Thank you Mr. Gaskins for speaking on this.
    GOD BLESS
    SHALOM

    • @devinicole1278
      @devinicole1278 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Wow

    • @mzyotruthnlove8263
      @mzyotruthnlove8263 18 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      I never believed he unalived himself. The story the wife gave when it happened didn't add up. Who walks to a hotel when they have a car 🚙 to plan to leave the earth 🌎? And he was there for awhile before being discovered, and no one heard anything. May The Most High deal with all who were involved in this development and his untimely demise.

  • @virtuous__woman7
    @virtuous__woman7 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    Hello Tony. I am very interested in joining the group chat for singles. Please continue to keep us posted. Thank you in advance for all you do for us!

  • @Ms.Sipp40
    @Ms.Sipp40 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I take pop the balloon serious but it is very entertaining as well…..if I went on pop the balloon you’d light me up too…😂😂😂that’s why I’ve gotten into some of your courses for the new year. We’ve all made bad choices at one point it’s what do we do to correct it.

  • @casablanca6657
    @casablanca6657 29 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks

  • @BlancaRosa79
    @BlancaRosa79 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    21:50 yessssss please!!!!!! Thank you 😊

  • @Visionary79-m2t
    @Visionary79-m2t 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Tony … Stop not crispy!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😂🤣

  • @FaceysFitnessJourney
    @FaceysFitnessJourney 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Nice topic , can't wait to reach to listen 🇯🇲

  • @niki-mars955
    @niki-mars955 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Wow, the car is driving itself while he creams his arms. Wow

  • @devinicole1278
    @devinicole1278 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +9

    I hurried and click on . I don't want a pop the balloon marriage lolololol

  • @JuliaHitt-b8n
    @JuliaHitt-b8n 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I would love to be part of that group Tony!!!!

  • @keeidoeee
    @keeidoeee 27 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    Get your hunny after you get your money

  • @misguidedpearls7456
    @misguidedpearls7456 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Had a very very serious convo with my kid last week on b this topic
    🔥🔥🔥🔥 Extremely serious

  • @tiffanyRenee26
    @tiffanyRenee26 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    As a half white woman I can unbiased say that when dating other races a big problem can be when there’s disagreements between u as a couple n parents. She maybe inclined to side with her family over her man n leave him to fight the battle alone,luckily I know my family isn’t the sweetest or healthiest n to always side with my other half no matter who the battle is up against

  • @anitaeast9201
    @anitaeast9201 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

    But seek ye first the kingdom of GOD and his righteousness and
    all these things shall be added unto you (Matthew 6:33)!
    FATHER GOD IN JESUS NAME I COME TO YOU ASKING THAT YOU GIVE US STRENGTH AS WE NAVIGATE THROUGH THIS WORLD. HELP US TO PUT YOU FIRST IN OUR LIVES THAT WE MAY FEEL YOUR JOY and PEACE! TOUCH THOSE WHO ARE FEELING LONELY AND HURT AS A RESULT OF A BAD RELATIONSHIP/BREAK UP! PLEASE HEAL THEIR BROKEN HEARTS. PLEASE FIX THEIR MIND THAT IT BE STAYED ON YOU AND I KNOW YOU WILL KEEP THEM IN PERFECT PEACE; AS YOU PROMISED US! HELP US TO KEEP YOU FIRST IN ALL WE DO, SAY, AND THINK! THANK YOU FOR BEING A LOVING FATHER. JESUS THANK YOU FOR BEING OUR SAVIOR! In JESUS NAME! AMEN!

  • @kimtaylor5277
    @kimtaylor5277 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    Well I can't get in 😢 please send the link to me for the 2nd half of class thanks.

  • @thehustleandteashow7331
    @thehustleandteashow7331 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    We forgive you uncle Tony 😂

  • @AdamlovsEve
    @AdamlovsEve 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    Tony I would love to join that group for singles. where do I find that information when you launch it?

  • @montricec8795
    @montricec8795 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    "Use OPM...Other People's Money!"....T.G.

  • @Nashay97
    @Nashay97 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Dudes using Mr. Toni name to smash is crazy work lol

  • @Visionary79-m2t
    @Visionary79-m2t 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I hear you, T! Some women aren’t happy and love to throw the race card out there. People need to stop with that! Twitch's wife should be ashamed. She’s about to open up a can of worms, and she doesn’t realize how she’s about to hurt his family and kids.

  • @MoonAnderson-g5g
    @MoonAnderson-g5g ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    But IN ALL HONESTY TONY...DO U REALLY BELIEVE HE DID NOT SEE THE RED FLAGS...THE HOLY SPIRIT DIDNT GIVE HIM NO TYPE OF INSIGHT ON WHAT WAS GOIN ON...I MEAN HE HAD TO SEE AND KNO SOMETHING NOT RIGHT ABOUT HER....

  • @Nikita_848
    @Nikita_848 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I don't see the issue between races, but more between different cultural and religious backgrounds.

  • @camsteph67
    @camsteph67 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Don't mess around and come up missing...didn't think about that....👀

  • @Rae_0234
    @Rae_0234 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    6:48 This is so goofy! I haven’t been following that story, but if any of the ladies said that is who he chose, then that is who he chose! It’s the truth! You all don’t have any other vocabulary other than to call people bitter when they express the truth. 🙄 Those ladies are simply saying that is who he chose and it’s no need of talking about it when that is who he chose as his wife.

  • @manoniemoments
    @manoniemoments 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

    ✨He who mocks the poor reproaches his Maker; He who is glad at calamity will not go unpunished.
    Proverbs 17:5

  • @chameljackson4512
    @chameljackson4512 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Get your monty up and then get your hunty up lol

  • @Destinee36
    @Destinee36 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    Checking in!

  • @pamelacallahan6156
    @pamelacallahan6156 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    😂I can't with Tiny on the whyt men... SMH 😅

  • @cindyharris3201
    @cindyharris3201 45 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    Is this for ol folks like me😊

  • @JuliaHitt-b8n
    @JuliaHitt-b8n 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    oh no Tony!!!!lolo

  • @Aja-u8j
    @Aja-u8j 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    I don’t like that “that’s what he gets” at all. It’s so disrespectful.

    • @nataliet.3023
      @nataliet.3023 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I agree. Because it's not about race, an evil person is an evil person. They're only saying that because she's white, but there are BW wives who have done the same to a BM side of his family etc. I know firsthand because that's a part of my testimony.

  • @Visionary79-m2t
    @Visionary79-m2t 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    BBB Season!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @FullyChargingNoDoubt
    @FullyChargingNoDoubt ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    🎉

  • @BlancaRosa79
    @BlancaRosa79 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    23:04 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @MrsEarth-pf4cr
    @MrsEarth-pf4cr 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    How can I get in class

  • @BlancaRosa79
    @BlancaRosa79 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    39:10 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @marieb6381
    @marieb6381 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    38:46 😂 lol

  • @iliassoudiallo6146
    @iliassoudiallo6146 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I like your analysis on Elon Musk hes actually broke

    • @JaySmith.
      @JaySmith. 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      He’s wealthy people “broke” not poor people broke. The man has many businesses so his money is probably in stock value but either way, he’s not broke in the way you might be thinking.

  • @markjibrilkalel8903
    @markjibrilkalel8903 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Your singles group will be a sham.

  • @misguidedpearls7456
    @misguidedpearls7456 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤❤❤truth

  • @tiat2738
    @tiat2738 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Black men through history have dreamt just as big or maybe even bigger. The inventors of things we use to this day, as well as creators of towns, the Black Walk street, Banks, Surgeons, and many others. Don’t put too much on others… just saying

  • @porshasing
    @porshasing 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Brokeana!!! 😩😩🤣🤣

    • @montricec8795
      @montricec8795 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      😂😂😂

  • @yx5991
    @yx5991 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Yall gotta forgive me for this comment 😅

  • @chameljackson4512
    @chameljackson4512 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    The fact that you are planning to do the chat for this year for sure is a lot of confirmation for me

  • @DogMommy.
    @DogMommy. 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Tony I found out in December that my boyfriend of 4 years was having a emotional affair for 4 months and I'm still hurt everyday. I choose to forgive him but I'm still sad and randomly start fights again about the same thing. Idk 😢

    • @ms.camillewarrenempress31
      @ms.camillewarrenempress31 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      That why relationships and marriages are dumb nowdays

    • @DogMommy.
      @DogMommy. 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @ms.camillewarrenempress31 definitely

  • @devinicole1278
    @devinicole1278 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thats bad to use your name to get women....

  • @eleanorjamison1985
    @eleanorjamison1985 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Amen

  • @mrnorthcounty8447
    @mrnorthcounty8447 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    No shit

  • @manoniemoments
    @manoniemoments 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

    ✨He who mocks the poor reproaches his Maker; He who is glad at calamity will not go unpunished.
    Proverbs 17:5

  • @QuiteTheLady
    @QuiteTheLady 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +13

    I always say the faithful, biblical proverb… “Houses and wealth are the inheritance of fathers but a prudent wife is a gift from the Lord”. A lot of these men that go after aesthetic can sometimes miss an actual prudent and wise woman who they would actually have a deep connection with who will truly love them. I also feel like a good woman will add years to a man’s life. My stepdaddy was diagnosed with three types of cancer plus copd but my mom took such good care of him he fought to live for her and his years were multiplied. I love my dad and he is a hard worker but had it not been for my stepmom, I don’t think my dad would be alive. She takes such good care of him. I couldn’t imagine him having a wife who cared nothing about him but just wanted his money. Choose wisely people!

    • @canditate740
      @canditate740 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

      I know a couple like this - except it was the husband that took care of his wife who had so many health challenges that developed many years after their marriage. She told me had she married the man she was going to marry before he asked her that she would have passed away already. Her husband loved her so well it was like health to her. She passed many years after doctors gave her a bad prognosis. She taught me with that one comment the power of love and choosing the right spouse.

  • @grapevine6868
    @grapevine6868 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Amen