we are healed and attract damaged men., the sword cuts both ways. i honestly feel like there is just waaaaaay too much pressure on women to be *everything and more*. the men "have too many options", are addicted to adult content, are wounded, want instant gratification, are avoiding marriage and honouring women their rights in marriage and family hood. most men come from damaged families, have poor or no male masculinity modelled to them, out of touch with their deen, can't hold down jobs/convos/plan dates etc, psychologically impaired, don;t wanna do self work - i can go on. I'm tired.I am enough as I am. Allah is enough.
Calm down, this is the problem with you modern day Bint. In my time in highschool and the Islamic institutions the good nice men were always there, but you know what the problem was? You Bint always go for the "bad boy" or the guys WITH these issues because deep down you know that`s what you want. Now see the result of your poor decision making. "Allah is enough" yeah ok sister keep up with the cope. May Allah bless you sister.
Just left my ,,relationship of 3 months“ cause he was not meeting my core value. Many communication issues. My mum loved him, although he was not religious at all. She said I love him, Im happy meeting him and I was happy but coming Home I wasnt anymore. In my eyes I didn’t love him and the attraction was missing. I was forcing it tbh. I’m almost 30 Next year so I was also thinking about age as well and now I’m here again Single. I prayed istikhara lots and although it seemed it was Going well but I was always crying to Allah and always feeling upset at Players, lost within my duas. I’m that Type of person who doesnt really go out . He was introduced as a Family friend as well. I dont want to give him another Chance, cause I know its Not Going to Work out.
Assalamualaikum, I am 23 year old, from India....I have decided not to marry because of my family trauma, can anyone tell me what issue can a single women face in society and how to tackle it 😢
The prophets of Allah had way harder tests and they are the most beloved. They didn't ask 'why me' They embraced what Allah has given them and asked for guidance on how to deal with their hardships. So stop feeling sorry for yourself.
@@MuslimMessenger267 we peasants don’t compare to the Prophets. Allah gave them special tolerance abilities and were not sinners so that we peasants can look up to them.
@@user-zm3no5xb6tplease be careful how you talk about Allah and His Qadr. I have dealt with abusive parents, a narcissist man and was bullied relentlessly but this is my test and I have no idea how much blessings I will get in the next life for enduring these things.
@@user-zm3no5xb6t And they were still human beings. Allah tests those he loves. And we are supposed to look up to them, to understand how to deal with our hardship. We really have no reason to complain.
Thank you so much for this wonderful reminder,I resonate with everything you have said. I have a question, Would you recommend one to try seeking for a spouse through halal dating apps?
JazakAllahu khairan🤍 i always feel like you bring me back down to reality with your words, away from all the online jibberish and the fairytale stories. I don‘t think it‘s too harsh, it just sounds so realistic but in a kind way
Thank you
Thank you so much for bringing up believing in " predestination"
Because people who didn't go through this don't seem to consider this point
Nafisa we miss you dearly ❤❤
Jazakallahukyran for this sis this was reassuring. Please anyone reading this make a quick duaa that I get married this year ❤ Jazakallahukyran
we are healed and attract damaged men., the sword cuts both ways. i honestly feel like there is just waaaaaay too much pressure on women to be *everything and more*. the men "have too many options", are addicted to adult content, are wounded, want instant gratification, are avoiding marriage and honouring women their rights in marriage and family hood. most men come from damaged families, have poor or no male masculinity modelled to them, out of touch with their deen, can't hold down jobs/convos/plan dates etc, psychologically impaired, don;t wanna do self work - i can go on. I'm tired.I am enough as I am. Allah is enough.
Calm down, this is the problem with you modern day Bint. In my time in highschool and the Islamic institutions the good nice men were always there, but you know what the problem was? You Bint always go for the "bad boy" or the guys WITH these issues because deep down you know that`s what you want. Now see the result of your poor decision making. "Allah is enough" yeah ok sister keep up with the cope. May Allah bless you sister.
Exactly I’m focus 😊on pleasing Allah
Thank you sister, very balanced advice.
God bless you sis .
I love your videos especially the topics!
I cant even afford a car let along a wife😂😂😂😂
MashAllah Im climbing🤳
In sha Allah khayr
I just heard yesterday.. If you are a man, then you should get married. If you are a woman, don't bother. Lolz, I totally agree
Yeah, I don't know why am I watching this video, if this is something I don't care about :D
@@missyofficial365same here I’m tired hearing about marriage it’s more to life than that . I’m focus on my Allah n my Akirah at my age in life
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Allahuma Barik
For your content🎉🎉🎉
Just left my ,,relationship of 3 months“ cause he was not meeting my core value. Many communication issues. My mum loved him, although he was not religious at all. She said I love him, Im happy meeting him and I was happy but coming Home I wasnt anymore. In my eyes I didn’t love him and the attraction was missing. I was forcing it tbh. I’m almost 30 Next year so I was also thinking about age as well and now I’m here again Single. I prayed istikhara lots and although it seemed it was Going well but I was always crying to Allah and always feeling upset at Players, lost within my duas. I’m that Type of person who doesnt really go out . He was introduced as a Family friend as well. I dont want to give him another Chance, cause I know its Not Going to Work out.
Nafissa we miss your hope you and your family are okay
Assalamualaikum, I am 23 year old, from India....I have decided not to marry because of my family trauma, can anyone tell me what issue can a single women face in society and how to tackle it 😢
Mostly loneliness later in life and financial difficulties, May Allah make it easy for you and heal you
Jazaki Allah khair! The video is a bit lagging
Try having abusive parents, dealing with narcissist Muslim men, and bullying. Sure qadr. Allah blessed those people?
The prophets of Allah had way harder tests and they are the most beloved. They didn't ask 'why me'
They embraced what Allah has given them and asked for guidance on how to deal with their hardships.
So stop feeling sorry for yourself.
@@MuslimMessenger267 we peasants don’t compare to the Prophets. Allah gave them special tolerance abilities and were not sinners so that we peasants can look up to them.
@@user-zm3no5xb6tplease be careful how you talk about Allah and His Qadr. I have dealt with abusive parents, a narcissist man and was bullied relentlessly but this is my test and I have no idea how much blessings I will get in the next life for enduring these things.
@@user-zm3no5xb6t And they were still human beings. Allah tests those he loves.
And we are supposed to look up to them, to understand how to deal with our hardship.
We really have no reason to complain.
@@MuslimMessenger267 they had love and support in their life despite hardship.I don’t have any support
dear sister, how can i contact you ? I would like to get advice on an issue
And i dont have instagram
Sis are you okay! Long time no see
Thank you so much for this wonderful reminder,I resonate with everything you have said. I have a question, Would you recommend one to try seeking for a spouse through halal dating apps?
JazakAllahu khairan🤍 i always feel like you bring me back down to reality with your words, away from all the online jibberish and the fairytale stories. I don‘t think it‘s too harsh, it just sounds so realistic but in a kind way
Amiin 🙏
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What is this red pill nonsense?
Are people that medication dependent?
Alhamdulilah Tawakkul.
Alhamdulilah fisabillilah.
It’s an ideology that is very disturbing- just Google it
it's not literally a pill.
@@sab889 I found out afterwards.
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