Aw to see waka momma take responsibility in how she raised her son n know she plays a part in how he is as adult is life because most black parents wont
When waka said I can’t deal with. I just wanted to give him a hug. He has so many buried feelings. There’s no way he got over his brothers deaths in just days.
Tammy loves him. She is protecting herself and that is the hardness everyone is seeing. She isn't willing to be too soft with him because he took it as a weakness. He does have to work very hard to show her differently and he should.
Men if you make your woman insecure, you lie, you cheat you make her feel disrespected etc she can forgive you but the female you had before is not gonna be the same you met before.... she started reflecting how you have been treating her even if she don’t want to change it just happens.... and that’s what I see with Tami
@@curiousspectator6846 women especially a woman you have build unconditional love and trust with CAN NEVER BE REPLACED!!! Women are not dogs or pets you can’t just replace them
@@curiousspectator6846 maybe.. but the next won’t be SHIT compared to the one you lost, and you can best believe what goes around comes back! Karma a bitch! BOW!
I applaud Deb for being able to identify her short comings as a mom. Now that she knows where she failed they need to work on fixing those issues. I just want to hug waka deeply like he has so much hurt and pain. He is living with so much trauma
I agree. I'm the type that loves affection, to me you tell someone you love them but you also show them. My husband's parents didnt show much affection and that was how he was to me. Luckily as we got serious I showed him how to show affection. Children follow what you do way more than what you say.
The daughter is so disrespectful. Waka needs to realize he’s a dad not a friend and not disagree with his wife in front of their daughter because if he can choose not to listen to his wife then she will feel like she can too.
@Ashley D'Nea you right, but also him making her lie will come back and bite waka in the ass bc when she dating or seeing lil dudes that he may not approve of then he wont be able to tell her shit for going behind his back n lying and being deceptive...so he better be a dad and not too much of a friend
She knows how much Waka loves her. And she's gonna milk it for what it's worth. And when she finds out it will not always go her way. She'll understand adulthood. Waka is a softy. Just preparing for when they have another 👶
Ashley Da’Nea kids can disagree with their parent . It like telling your kid their opinion don’t matter then your kid will be scared to speak up for themself because their parent said their opinion don’t matter .
Tammy is aggressive with Waka because she really loves him and he hurt her deeply. Like she said in the clip when Waka asked her to stop talking aggressive, she’ said when I was soft you didn’t Respect me! Her aggressiveness reminds him of his mother who he only received tough love. So when Tammy came along and truly showed him she loved him he didn’t know how to receive it because he never had love like that but he took it for granted.
Faith Love & Dreams and that’s how Gemini’s are. They run from stuff like that. They want the drama and all that and then it gets to be too much for them and they want the calmness again. It’s nerve wracking.
Shout out to Tammy’s mother for accepting and acknowledging the fact she hurt her children rather than make excuses for it. That’s something you rarely see parents do is taking ownership of the trauma they cause their children. So it’s wonderful for to see how apologetic she is because you can tell she really is sorry.
I think Waka is a softy for Charlie because that’s the softness he needed from Ms. Deb growing up. No shade, cuz I know that hurt, but because he’s tryna give it with no structure or boundaries, it creates chaos. And Charlie is merely being a teen, taking advantage of what comes easy. Is this an excuse? No. Should her behavior be condoned? Absolutely not. Maybe they all need individual therapy (including baby girl), and then come together as a unit for family therapy, so that everyone can be on the same page.
Charlie and wakas relationship is literally adorable. she is mad spoiled and a little disrespectful towards her mom tho. but all and all she's not a bad kid, she just a regular teenager.
I don’t think Charlie is a brat like people in comments are saying, I think she’s smart and has waka wrapped around her finger and decided to take advantage of that because her mom was gone 😂 typical teenager behavior
This is what happens when you trauma bond with someone and so addicted to hurt. How are you married and been with someone for years and you don’t know what genuine love is?
Tammy is such a sweet genuine woman who deeply loves those around her, but doesn't always get the appreciation she deserves . She's a selfless woman who deserves the upmost respect especially from her husband and daughter. I can really relate to her being so tired and exhausted juggling all areas of her life. Woman have it the hardest and men do not appreciate it.
That is a biased opinion. Marriage is a relationship that requires the participation of the both of them. Tammy doesn't speak or treat him respectfully much of the time. She seems very self-centered to me. She has also consistently refused to give him a child.
@@joypyne3467 no shade, but if my husband kept cheating on me every other month, I wouldn't have a baby with him either. And after all that hurt he just want her to forget about it and not give her time to heal. Tbh it's selfish and as much as I don't condone her attitude she's being selfish right back as she should.
I love the growth in Waka, he has matured so much over the years. I’m praying they can get their relationship back on track. They really love each other. 🙏🏽
Waka never wanted to be married and still doesn’t. Tammy would be me if I stayed with a man who continuously emotionally abused and cheated on me. You disrespected her for years now she doesn’t respect you anymore.
I agree. They give me anxiety. Undermining her authority with her child is childish. What’s wrong with saying “what did your momma say?” Also not doing stuff to Tammy. Who wants to see their man on social media after you telling me something else. 🤦🏽♀️. The Brat is correct about Deb
Melanin Princess omg I was just saying this that child is very disrespectful and I understand why Tammy reacts the way she does cuz waka doesn’t respect her word or how she feels .
I don’t think waka should tell Charlie to lie to her mom and he shouldn’t undermine Tammy’s authority. You would think Deb would be supportive of Waka going to therapy especially since she lost a son to suicide. Deb shouldn’t pressure them to have a baby if neither of them are ready.
@@Crystal-rj5is lol how can you form that opinion when they both literally said they dont want a child because they're too busy. everybody doesn't want more kids just because and to get pressured for it is not ok.
Sometimes the abused can become the abuser. When you find your voice and strength after being beat down and scared sometimes that rage comes to life and against the wrong people. I had to learn that myself.
Waka is giving charlie the love he never got from his mom & now his wife has the same personality as his mom . both of them are hurting rt now & i think there such a perfect couple but regular people that have issues .
Tammy even asked waka but he jus said he ok or Wateva and said he talked to his mom but she asked why can’t u talk to me she’s trying he gotta let her in
Fuck outta here.. we did teenager shit without ANY adults around to validate.. this lil broad got camera crew and all that.. and using leverage.. plzzzzz
Honestly Tammy cutting out Charlie’s braids was the right thing to do. She’s at that stage where she’s pushing boundaries and Tammy gotta dead that before she walks around being a spoiled brat. I get that they want to have some fun, but c’mon now Waka on IG, Charlie gets BLONDE braids and Tammy was supposed to miss that???? I don’t like how violent she is by slapping Waka so hard she has to shake off her hand, but they did try her bad that day.
They need some counseling.I don’t agree with Walka teaching the daughter to lye to her mother that’s wrong.I was very shocked to see Tammy smack Walka in his face. I don’t condone violence in any shape or form.Now if the shoe was on the other foot and Walka smacked Tammy then it’ll be a whole different situation.She probably will call the police, press assault charges, restraining orders and so on. It’s not ok to put hands on anyone.Then Tammy cut her daughters hair. The whole family is dysfunctional.
That was a form of abuse. She could have sat her down and made her take them out 1 by 1 just like she sat there and let whoever put them in 1 by 1. Those little fingers would have been in pain.
I’m not ever going to tell people how to raise their kids, but they definitely need to get on the same page with how to discipline Charlie. You can tell the girl isn’t taking Tammie serious. It’s all funny & cute until things get real and Charlie completely disrespects them both
Charlie needed to take those braids out anyway. They were a mess. & why Waka lie ab something so small? I see why Tammy be blowing up. She can't discipline her child if Waka lets her get away w. everything & she undermines Tammy.
Understandable because if Waka tells Deb stuff and she said this the FIRST time she won’t say anything. Why wouldn’t she have her own backend??? Deb will step to Tammy and Waka going to his MOM before sharing those feelings with his WIFE would have opened the door for vulnerability and she wouldn’t be as mad so he shouldn’t have hid it. Trying to “be productive” instead of treated her like a woman and respecting their marriage LITERALLY is the reason he wants to see a therapist.
I've seen clips where Debra repeated her conversations with her son to someone else , but I haven't seen clips of Tammy's mom and sisters repeating what they talked about
I know this is an old post but I gotta say, Flakka’s mom is real. Down to earth and willing to question herself like all women should do without prompting. The definition of a fool is a person who denies the chance to learn.
@@Laoriginal718 lol i know. Its tammy's previous but again he been raised her so its his daughter and THAT'S WHY i added that comment BECAUSE a lot of step dads don't act this way.....
Janice Richards Yes it does he’s a father figure to her not her blood dad big difference I grew up in a broken home and it’s not right to say those things because if he had actual kids it hurts them as well!
When deb talked about how she was with flaka made me realize a lot of mothers do that there’s no guide to motherhood or fatherhood just what society tells us how to be and I definitely feel her I don’t always feel like I’m doing my best when it’s for my children
Looking from the previous episode.. Deb didn’t want him to seek individual counsel because she was scared of what would be discovered. She said herself she was not an affectionate person while raising him because she was so hell bent on being “strong.” In the end, the past is the past. But he is allowed to internalize those things. She wanted to make it seem like his problems only stemmed from the relationship and not necessarily him. Any person needs to get themselves right to be of any asset to another. A man wanting to seek therapy is honestly a step in the right direction. Sometimes you just need an unbiased opinion on things/challenges you’re going through and dealt with. It’s okay. We all have pain.
This is what it looks like when you’re looking for God and don’t know how to truly reach Him!! He gave us the ultimate gift of love! If you don’t know what it is or where to find it, you will feel lost😢
They’re looking for God and don’t even know it. Their marriage, the money, sex, nothing is going to completely fill that void but God. I pray they get it right.
When she said, "I have to be hard, because when I was soft you didn't respect me." I felt that.
@Alissa very true.
Wooow
She’s not over how many times he cheated on her. Actions speak louder than words- she still hasn’t healed.
@@NessaGee-hx1et absolutely
@@NessaGee-hx1et are they still togetger?
Aw to see waka momma take responsibility in how she raised her son n know she plays a part in how he is as adult is life because most black parents wont
Nope don't go there just parents period, trust me it's universal.
Most parents in general. That was amazing to see. I hope it inspired other parents to acknowledge their parenting.
So true!!!!!!
DAT PART
At mfing all! This was beautiful to see! We as adults have to grow up though!!!
Tami still hurt. You can tell she hasn't forgiven him. Charlie is a typical teen. Waka is maturing.
best comment thus far
facts my lil sister act just like her thats just todays world
that and her past....but...like you said.i see the growth in waka and charlie is honestly a good girl...
@@Laron.G she could be a whole lot worst
Brittany Bonnie yea the kids is not bad at all but just think is it going to get better or worse as they get older
I feel like Waka giving Charlie that life he didn't have when growing up as a kid, but he gotta know when to be a father and when to be a friend
“I refuse to raise a snotty , snobby ass daughter”. Yesss Tammy !
I see two hurt people who are trying to build on pain ...
GirlKodesbyKris u said it best sis
Say that shit again!
Sounds like something Iyanla would say. They should consider going to her and learn how to heal.
Preach!
@@karima8927 yes yes ill watch that
When waka said I can’t deal with. I just wanted to give him a hug. He has so many buried feelings. There’s no way he got over his brothers deaths in just days.
You'll never get over loved ones deaths.
I believe he meant he only mourned for one week/two days.
My oldest brother died 16 yrs ago and everyday is a new day to get through it.
Hurt hearing that. Hope the doctor helps him learn how to heal from the past.
@@Babywyde Keywords here... Getting OVER & then Getting THROUGH!! He definitely skipped 1 of the 2.
right
Da Brat has not aged a SINGLE MINUTE!!!
Truth.
Adrenochrome makes everyone stay young
Shes so pretty that it's unfair. Lol.
its like oh my god . scary actually
True dat....Brat & Deb around the same age
Tammy loves him. She is protecting herself and that is the hardness everyone is seeing. She isn't willing to be too soft with him because he took it as a weakness. He does have to work very hard to show her differently and he should.
Yeah.. especially she got cheated on tv .that hurts
Men if you make your woman insecure, you lie, you cheat you make her feel disrespected etc she can forgive you but the female you had before is not gonna be the same you met before.... she started reflecting how you have been treating her even if she don’t want to change it just happens.... and that’s what I see with Tami
Nah. We'll just find another one.
@@curiousspectator6846 women especially a woman you have build unconditional love and trust with CAN NEVER BE REPLACED!!! Women are not dogs or pets you can’t just replace them
@@cupcakepatrice8418 yup!
@@curiousspectator6846 maybe.. but the next won’t be SHIT compared to the one you lost, and you can best believe what goes around comes back! Karma a bitch! BOW!
@@InwardBeautyMinistries LMFAOOO the “BOW” killed me 😂😂
I like Deb and Da Brat's relationship. They're friends, but Brat still has a certain level of respect while keeping it real with her. It's amazing!
So true
Love love love their bond
Me too! Da Brat is so level-headed it's beautiful. She cuts to the quick and sees what's really there.
Yes they have a great relationship..I love it.
I know cuz if Idk anyone else that could check deb like that and not take a big ol gulp
I applaud Deb for being able to identify her short comings as a mom. Now that she knows where she failed they need to work on fixing those issues.
I just want to hug waka deeply like he has so much hurt and pain. He is living with so much trauma
@Shari Patrice you are being weird. No one meant in a sexual way
I agree. I'm the type that loves affection, to me you tell someone you love them but you also show them. My husband's parents didnt show much affection and that was how he was to me. Luckily as we got serious I showed him how to show affection. Children follow what you do way more than what you say.
facts a lot of mother don't even acknowledge the hurt they cause, its commendable that she acknowledged her
She is Amazing💕💗💖✨
The daughter is so disrespectful. Waka needs to realize he’s a dad not a friend and not disagree with his wife in front of their daughter because if he can choose not to listen to his wife then she will feel like she can too.
@Ashley D'Nea you right, but also him making her lie will come back and bite waka in the ass bc when she dating or seeing lil dudes that he may not approve of then he wont be able to tell her shit for going behind his back n lying and being deceptive...so he better be a dad and not too much of a friend
She knows how much Waka loves her. And she's gonna milk it for what it's worth. And when she finds out it will not always go her way. She'll understand adulthood. Waka is a softy. Just preparing for when they have another 👶
Ashley Da’Nea kids can disagree with their parent . It like telling your kid their opinion don’t matter then your kid will be scared to speak up for themself because their parent said their opinion don’t matter .
At the age, they do that. It will stop, or get worse honey. Story of my life.....
#ihateteenagers😂
The daughter is disrespectful bc Tammy is
Da brat is so damn beautiful. Love her energy too. She's just unapologetically herself. Love that.
She looks stupid with them bit clothes on. I don't think she's pretty to me. Her make up is off.
@@armellentalaja3972 you kind of don’t matter
@@GuyAye agree
I can respect Deb for being honest with herself. It's hard as a mom when you are doing your best by yourself. Single moms have to do it all
He's clearly DEPRESSED..he is happiest helping others and it doesn't look like he is getting the opportunity to do that.
I agree
Good assessment
🤔that makes alot of sense. If you're calling is helping people and you don't feel you're fulfilling that, I can see how that could lead to depression
Monique White I don’t think he’s happy being married it just don’t seem like it
especially he’s a pisces so i honestly believe this
Tammy is aggressive with Waka because she really loves him and he hurt her deeply. Like she said in the clip when Waka asked her to stop talking aggressive, she’ said when I was soft you didn’t Respect me! Her aggressiveness reminds him of his mother who he only received tough love. So when Tammy came along and truly showed him she loved him he didn’t know how to receive it because he never had love like that but he took it for granted.
Faith Love & Dreams and that’s how Gemini’s are. They run from stuff like that. They want the drama and all that and then it gets to be too much for them and they want the calmness again. It’s nerve wracking.
What?
Damn nicelyyy said, you guys are giving me life with these observations
So true...
🎯🎯🎯
Brat spoke the truth. Her face when Deb was talking about the grandbaby. Brat like WTH are you saying.
love how he lights up talkin bout charlie
Shout out to Tammy’s mother for accepting and acknowledging the fact she hurt her children rather than make excuses for it. That’s something you rarely see parents do is taking ownership of the trauma they cause their children. So it’s wonderful for to see how apologetic she is because you can tell she really is sorry.
Waka’s dreads are everything 😍😍😍😍
Wow this show is good
Denise Vasquez They are. So healthy and thick 😍.
@kaykay69 you must be dumb.
kaykay69 what yu talkin bout
The Truth they’re dreads that are twisted into twists 🙄
He talking about wanting to go to counseling and she talking about she wanna grandchild you don’t think that’s selfish deb 🙄
I thought that the dead son left a daughter tho🤔
Yessss the girl stated that in the video 😒😅
@Ba Hashem Yeshua my MIL was an Eastern 🌟 and my ex a Mason🤔I have learned their histories and in the order of things our family is no longer 🙏
Tiffany Lacole Deb is very selfish
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I think Waka is a softy for Charlie because that’s the softness he needed from Ms. Deb growing up. No shade, cuz I know that hurt, but because he’s tryna give it with no structure or boundaries, it creates chaos. And Charlie is merely being a teen, taking advantage of what comes easy. Is this an excuse? No. Should her behavior be condoned? Absolutely not. Maybe they all need individual therapy (including baby girl), and then come together as a unit for family therapy, so that everyone can be on the same page.
KRYS SHÁDEL 👏🏽👏🏽 Deep!
KRYS SHÁDEL yes sister
Exactly
Shiddd when can you fit me in??? You called that thing out....
Shawn M. Martin 🙌🏽😂
Charlie and wakas relationship is literally adorable. she is mad spoiled and a little disrespectful towards her mom tho. but all and all she's not a bad kid, she just a regular teenager.
“I gotta learn the ugly in a person to enjoy the good in them” that line is very deep and true
The way he sitting on that thing giving me anxiety 😭
Especially with Tammy walkin up, and she likes to slap people. 🙄
Taylor 😩🤦🏾♀️
I was saying the same thing.. He could've fell all the way off the rail!
I don’t think Charlie is a brat like people in comments are saying, I think she’s smart and has waka wrapped around her finger and decided to take advantage of that because her mom was gone 😂 typical teenager behavior
Yes
Thank you females are females. We think were entitled even when we dont have a dime so I can only imagine when you're parents have two coins
Chelsea Webb facts
Chelsea Webb We all have our moments why people act like they were never a teenager
They're talking about "Da Brat" the rapper who was talking to Deb! 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 They haven't called the child a brat! Lol you must be super young 😂
This is what happens when you trauma bond with someone and so addicted to hurt. How are you married and been with someone for years and you don’t know what genuine love is?
Tania ikr? It’s SAD! It hurt me when he said that. You’re wife is suppose to give you love. They been together all those years and don’t know love?
Jasmine Fletcher that’s why I said trauma bonding bc that’s what it is. There is no genuine love in trauma bonding.
Damn
Wow truma bond. That's deep.
Codependency that's what it's called..
Everything aside wake and Charlie’s bonds is so adorable I can’t lie
Waka is so fine, those eyes just melt you away. Mom Ded has those eyes. He got them honestly.
Kudos to Tammys mom for overcoming her drug addiction. Keep it up
Bless his heart. His words said it "gotta learn the ugly to enjoy the good in them"( "some people's ugly you can't deal with")
The love waka have for Charlie is unmatched. ❤️❤️❤️
Tammy is such a sweet genuine woman who deeply loves those around her, but doesn't always get the appreciation she deserves . She's a selfless woman who deserves the upmost respect especially from her husband and daughter. I can really relate to her being so tired and exhausted juggling all areas of her life. Woman have it the hardest and men do not appreciate it.
Ok but us MEN need that exact support too, we have feelings too
Communication and trust is key on both ends
That is a biased opinion. Marriage is a relationship that requires the participation of the both of them. Tammy doesn't speak or treat him respectfully much of the time. She seems very self-centered to me. She has also consistently refused to give him a child.
@@joypyne3467 no shade, but if my husband kept cheating on me every other month, I wouldn't have a baby with him either. And after all that hurt he just want her to forget about it and not give her time to heal. Tbh it's selfish and as much as I don't condone her attitude she's being selfish right back as she should.
How can waka cheat on this beautiful woman I mean she’s a loving mother supportive she’s such a package deal. It doesn’t make sense.
He was lost
Hurt ppl hurt ppl
Most men never see it like that unfortunately
I love the growth in Waka, he has matured so much over the years. I’m praying they can get their relationship back on track. They really love each other. 🙏🏽
Charlie is spoiled. Tammy needs to stop being aggressive & Waka need to talk to his wife about his feelings and be more open.
Her aggressiveness is centered around something though. I can tell shes frustrated and lashing out
Charlie didn't raised her self she reflection of her mom
I agree
YolanaG Vlogs spoiler isn’t even the word but it’s waka and Tammy fault
Da Brat is gorgeous! I need her makeup tutorial.
Wakas genuine love for Charlie 🥲 wow. I respect him for that.
Brat is the friend that'll tell you what you gotta here, not what you want
To see all the perfect mothers, perfect wives, and psychologists commenting is hilarious to me..
Paige Smith it’s always funny to see people who don’t got they shit together judge someone else lol
Paige Smith Precisely
Right like ANYTHING and EVERYTHING is PERFECT NEGATIVE!!!!
Facts!!!!! Like they so perfect!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Mann Nobodies Relationship, perfect gotta "Go Through it to Grow Through It"...
Waka never wanted to be married and still
doesn’t. Tammy would be me if I stayed with a man who continuously emotionally abused and cheated on me. You disrespected her for years now she doesn’t respect you anymore.
Titaness Writes “NO VICTIM SHIT!!!” Love that sis
I agree. They give me anxiety. Undermining her authority with her child is childish. What’s wrong with saying “what did your momma say?” Also not doing stuff to Tammy. Who wants to see their man on social media after you telling me something else. 🤦🏽♀️. The Brat is correct about Deb
I think he loves her but is emotionally abusive. Tami is a abuse victim who now is abusive.
But he was the one pushing for them to elope
Simple get a divorce
Brat is so pretty. She has hardly aged!
That Therapest had me tripn with those facial expressions 😂
😂
“It was straightened with a style. This side was longer than that side”😂😂😂😂😂
Everyone has their own pushing points , lying is one of mines.
SAME HERE!!
Girl yes!
Mine 2
👿😡😡😡😤😤😤🔪🔪🔪!!!!
I can't stand it.
Da Brat always somebody counselor... Bow Wow, J Dee, now Deb. Lol
Lol true sometimes Ricky, Gary and her sis Lisa Ray
She give good advice tho. She said everything that I was screaming at the screen to Deb last episode 😆
Lol
S Spain - SHES LISA RAY SISTER ?!
@@jaynicole23 yes
Best marriage advice: keep your marriage to yourself!... but that’s just my single ass opinion 🥴
Deadass!
Right it's supposed to be sacred anyway
Your single? Your picture is so beautiful tho hon.
Lol I feel you girl
Facts
"the hell happened to yo head" had me fucking dead otc🤣
"I gotta learn the ugly in person to enjoy the good in them"
Wisdom right there
That child is disrespectful. Wake needs to try to be a parent and not a friend and agree more with Tammy on parenting.
Melanin Princess omg I was just saying this that child is very disrespectful and I understand why Tammy reacts the way she does cuz waka doesn’t respect her word or how she feels .
LondynCharlize Chanel 💯
She's a teen what do u expect
I saw this comment already like almost exactly but u changed the words u copied ashley
Melanin Princess, exactly. She isn't just being a teenager, she's being a spoiled brat.
Dude him sitting on that balcony railing was making me nervous AF
h c Omg me too!
🤣
Same as
Facts
Same
I don’t think waka should tell Charlie to lie to her mom and he shouldn’t undermine Tammy’s authority. You would think Deb would be supportive of Waka going to therapy especially since she lost a son to suicide. Deb shouldn’t pressure them to have a baby if neither of them are ready.
she's being selfish and only thinking about herself, especially with this baby.
YEEEEEESSS!!!!💯🎯💯🎯💯🎯
They dnt want a baby cause even though they been together they dnt knw if its really gonna last...and they knw tht would be the end if them...ijs
@@Crystal-rj5is lol how can you form that opinion when they both literally said they dont want a child because they're too busy. everybody doesn't want more kids just because and to get pressured for it is not ok.
@@theedailyshannon it's not fact...but it is my opinion and how I feel yeah thts wht they say but is tht the truth?
The way Waka talks about Tammy, I was scared for her to come home too 😂 like we all in trouble messing w Tammy.
I thought Tammy was in a domestic violent relationship before Waka so why is she putting her hands on him??? Hitting your partner is not cool
Exactly
Sometimes the abused can become the abuser. When you find your voice and strength after being beat down and scared sometimes that rage comes to life and against the wrong people. I had to learn that myself.
This is so true. I hate the double standards.
I did not like that either. Not cool.
I love Da Brat. No matter what platform she's on ,she keeps it real.
😂😂Why did the camera 🎥 zoom in on Deb’s kitten heels😂😂😂😂
😂😂
Right like 3 damn times
Antwanita Durham they didn’t do Deb right at all😂😂😂😂😂
Tomessa McGraw I had to watch it like 3 more times and every time it tickled me😂😂😂😂😂😂
Girl !!!!
No one can fix someone when they're broken. Healing is going to hurt and it's going to hurt like hell.
Um only God can
“That’s photoshop” had me weakkkkk😂😂
Waka your Mother is AMAZING and your so lucky to have her . much respect.
Waka is giving charlie the love he never got from his mom & now his wife has the same personality as his mom . both of them are hurting rt now & i think there such a perfect couple but regular people that have issues .
She emasculates the hell out of him because she resents him for what she endured in their relationship.
T_Harris2_4 Maybe that is just her personality
T_Harris2_4 so true
T_Harris2_4 facts
come throuuuugh therapy queen
And it'll never work longterm if the emasculation doesn't stop
Ayooooo Charlie’s hair was more busted looking afterwards than it was before Tammy left 😭😭😭😭😤😭😭 I’m wheezinggg
I’m sorry deb slayed that grey lace
Legit, Da Brat don't age at all. Gorgeous
He starts shit and then plays victim... he knows all the things that trigger her and he constantly does them. Then gets mad at her response
Nah
like sir you know how she is you just chose to do what you wanted to do
Tammy is tired of being sick and tired..
Honestly
They need to actually listen to each other
I appreciate the fact that this man realizes he needs help and to seek counseling. This is a great minority❤
I think I need to go watch this whole show lol. When Tammy said "When I was talking soft you didn't respect me!" I felt that!!!!!
Tammy is mean to him cause she still harboring feelings of his cheating. She needs to really sit and listen to him. And work in herself
and talk about the marriage before this one with him. strong women can be venerable too
Franny BayBe Late Night Adult Talk and she should never let that go he’s disgusting for cheating
@@Rose-tm5kt that was years ago it was just sex
Tammy even asked waka but he jus said he ok or Wateva and said he talked to his mom but she asked why can’t u talk to me she’s trying he gotta let her in
Agreed
Hold up, so you just slap your man in front of your child?? NO.
They seem so draining😭 if this is marriage ion want it
I AGREE
Stay single nothing worth having comes easy in this life
Marriage is alot of work
This ain't marriage, this is their marriage, don't let that define your marriage if you desire it
and yet here we are watching it
The way they both smiled at each other 😂😂😂. They both knew they were about to come up with a master plan lmaoooo
Charlie is so spoil but in the wrong way, she’s grounded and doing what she wants with Waka he needs to show her sometimes tough love.
I think it’s so amazing that Waka is open to going to therapy.
Charlie too comfortable coming up with all kind of lies...she clearly does it often....
every teenager lies. y’all acting like this is something SOOOO out of the ordinary
yes we all do/did this as teens.. lol cmon now
@@kierra3825 right i hate how everyone acts likes they weren't teenagers once
Fuck outta here.. we did teenager shit without ANY adults around to validate.. this lil broad got camera crew and all that.. and using leverage.. plzzzzz
@@kingcook-we7vw "lil broad"??? What is this useless comment??
Honestly Tammy cutting out Charlie’s braids was the right thing to do. She’s at that stage where she’s pushing boundaries and Tammy gotta dead that before she walks around being a spoiled brat. I get that they want to have some fun, but c’mon now Waka on IG, Charlie gets BLONDE braids and Tammy was supposed to miss that???? I don’t like how violent she is by slapping Waka so hard she has to shake off her hand, but they did try her bad that day.
They need some counseling.I don’t agree with Walka teaching the daughter to lye to her mother that’s wrong.I was very shocked to see Tammy smack Walka in his face. I don’t condone violence in any shape or form.Now if the shoe was on the other foot and Walka smacked Tammy then it’ll be a whole different situation.She probably will call the police, press assault charges, restraining orders and so on. It’s not ok to put hands on anyone.Then Tammy cut her daughters hair. The whole family is dysfunctional.
That was a form of abuse. She could have sat her down and made her take them out 1 by 1 just like she sat there and let whoever put them in 1 by 1. Those little fingers would have been in pain.
@@GeorgiaWhisper thats not abuse
@@loveyb3347 yes it is
Right !!
Tammy is such a Leo! She’s been through a lot and now her lioness is started to come out!! ❤️♌️
♌
Don't everybody just love Charlie like she's the funniest kid ever
I’m not ever going to tell people how to raise their kids, but they definitely need to get on the same page with how to discipline Charlie. You can tell the girl isn’t taking Tammie serious. It’s all funny & cute until things get real and Charlie completely disrespects them both
Charlie needed to take those braids out anyway. They were a mess. & why Waka lie ab something so small? I see why Tammy be blowing up. She can't discipline her child if Waka lets her get away w. everything & she undermines Tammy.
tee lovee periodt
Tammy hair be clean, but Charlie's be looking a mess sometimes.
Ronda S I think she be letting one of Charlie’s lil friends do her hair sometimes.
@@TijasWorld girl me too.. lol
Ronda S 😂😂😂
Tammy: Waka, you shouldn’t have any secrets from your wife
Also Tammy: There’s no one else I trust with my secrets other than my mom and my sisters 🥴
She really was just feeling some type of way when waka was telling his mom they’re problems , but spills the whole tea to her SISTERS AND MOM .
Right I’m like wtf 🥴💀
Understandable because if Waka tells Deb stuff and she said this the FIRST time she won’t say anything. Why wouldn’t she have her own backend??? Deb will step to Tammy and Waka going to his MOM before sharing those feelings with his WIFE would have opened the door for vulnerability and she wouldn’t be as mad so he shouldn’t have hid it. Trying to “be productive” instead of treated her like a woman and respecting their marriage LITERALLY is the reason he wants to see a therapist.
I've seen clips where Debra repeated her conversations with her son to someone else , but I haven't seen clips of Tammy's mom and sisters repeating what they talked about
Your mom and your sisters? One secret amongst so many is no longer a secret
Tammy is stunning wakka is a blessed man he has a great wife , daughter and mother fr.
I know this is an old post but I gotta say, Flakka’s mom is real. Down to earth and willing to question herself like all women should do without prompting. The definition of a fool is a person who denies the chance to learn.
It’s always that 1 friend that say “go check yo man IG girl” 🤦🏾♂️
🤣🤣🤣
Always starting stuff!
😂😭😭😂😂😂okurrrrt!!!
Love how much flocka love his daughter hahaha
Abigail Meza that’s not his daughter 🤦🏽♀️
@@Laoriginal718 lol i know. Its tammy's previous but again he been raised her so its his daughter and THAT'S WHY i added that comment BECAUSE a lot of step dads don't act this way.....
Abigail Meza 👏🏾jst because they not blood doesn’t mean that’s not his kid.
La Original Right! I’m tired of people saying this shit!
Janice Richards Yes it does he’s a father figure to her not her blood dad big difference I grew up in a broken home and it’s not right to say those things because if he had actual kids it hurts them as well!
Waka the one making Charlie feel entitled
Waka has the most beautiful mom she is so understanding about her son daughter in law and life. She amazes me.
She putting too much pressure on him
Damn she makes me rethink how I talk to my husband
The way the manager totally disregarded him saying he had his daughter and his wife was out of town. 🤦🏾♀️
Not his real daughter lol
@@curiousspectator6846 blood doesn’t make you a real parent
@@curiousspectator6846 boy stfu
The way she slapped him just blew mine...When it gets physical something gotta give because it only gets worse.
Crystal Ramos slapping somebody in the face is so disrespectful to me
if the roles were flipped Waka would be in jail rn
He straight lied to her. And so did her daughter..
@Jayla Ro obviously it is justified in their relationship. Clearly they interact in a toxic manner.
@@thatraspyshxt hitting some is not justified stop riding Tammy
Da Brat is so much wiser than I knew. Love it! Go Brat-tat-tat-tat!😊
Lol. Brat tat tat tat tat tat foe dat ass!
When deb talked about how she was with flaka made me realize a lot of mothers do that there’s no guide to motherhood or fatherhood just what society tells us how to be and I definitely feel her I don’t always feel like I’m doing my best when it’s for my children
Looking from the previous episode.. Deb didn’t want him to seek individual counsel because she was scared of what would be discovered. She said herself she was not an affectionate person while raising him because she was so hell bent on being “strong.” In the end, the past is the past. But he is allowed to internalize those things. She wanted to make it seem like his problems only stemmed from the relationship and not necessarily him. Any person needs to get themselves right to be of any asset to another. A man wanting to seek therapy is honestly a step in the right direction. Sometimes you just need an unbiased opinion on things/challenges you’re going through and dealt with. It’s okay. We all have pain.
😂😂😂 was she just running with scissors I thought all of my mom's told us not to do!!!🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😂
This is what it looks like when you’re looking for God and don’t know how to truly reach Him!! He gave us the ultimate gift of love! If you don’t know what it is or where to find it, you will feel lost😢
antiquevenom if you watched the video you would know what I was speaking on. Thanks
Yes so true
Amen!
They’re looking for God and don’t even know it. Their marriage, the money, sex, nothing is going to completely fill that void but God. I pray they get it right.
Yes ma'am, there ya go!
I love tammy and her mama relationship🥰.. thats how me and my mama is!!
Da Brat don’t age! She gets more beautiful as time goes by!
Wake was raised like 99.9% of Jamaican kids never hugged or even were told I love you gang life