Exploring Gay Cruising in Berlin: New Boiler Gay Sauna Tips!

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    Discover the fascinating world of gay saunas in Berlin with a special focus on the renowned Boiler Bath House. This video provides all the essential information you need to know about this unique place. From the importance of communication and consent to the diverse amenities and events that Boiler offers, we've got you covered.
    The Boiler Bath House in Berlin is not just a place to relax but a central hub for the gay Berlin community. Here, effective communication is key, and we discuss how to start conversations and overcome possible language barriers. Consent and respectful interaction are emphasized, offering advice on handling unwanted advances and highlighting the staff's role in ensuring your safety.
    Inclusivity within the community is another exciting topic. We discuss how Boiler welcomes trans men and potential improvements for greater inclusivity.
    Practical information is also a crucial part of this video. You'll get tips on how to prepare for a visit to a gay sauna, information about payment methods, and the unique bracelet system for transactions within Boiler.
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  • @b_he_him
    @b_he_him 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    As a gay indian guy in 30s no matter which sauna I go I am treated very differently in not so positive way because of my skin tone and stereotypes.. white skin or latinos are always considered attractive always the media needs more indian/men of color gay role models.. 🤷‍♂️🙄

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are @b_he_him! We definitely need more! On my OF you'll find it ;)))

    • @MrTuxracer
      @MrTuxracer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      If Latinos are considered attractive, the skin colour cannot be the reason. I admit, I am mostly into Caucasian guys, but there are Indian or black guys, I also find attractive. One's mind is shaped by what you grow up with.

    • @TheMarkbergeron
      @TheMarkbergeron 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You’re not entitled to sex with someone solely based on the color of your skin. Your arguments bogus. Perhaps there are some who don’t want to be intimate with you based on your skin color but I suspect those people are far and few in between. Has it occurred to you that maybe you just aren’t attractive to them?

    • @TheLucqui
      @TheLucqui 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Indian guys are hot! I don't think skin tone should matter!

    • @obiephillips9174
      @obiephillips9174 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Very true! You have to be a darker skinned person to understand this.

  • @brandonscomment1133
    @brandonscomment1133 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m moving to Berlin in Sept. I look forward to this exp. ❤❤

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Will be Great!!

  • @borge2014
    @borge2014 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Oh man, I love you! So honest and real. Gracias!

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for your feedback!

  • @michaeljohndennis2231
    @michaeljohndennis2231 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Hi Rob - as an older Irish gay man in the U.K. (Manchester) 23 years, I find this discussion about German gay saunas very interesting, as I’ve not been to a gay sauna in many years, so I’m wondering what has changed, especially in the post-Covid era - I had lived in Dublin for 3 years before 2002 and I recall that there was a “sauna war” going on in Dublin, which I believe has been detailed in the Irish Queer Archives website - the final result of this was that only one Dublin gay sauna was left and I’m aware that there is at least one gay sauna in Cork City (aside from other Irish cities like Limerick and Galway) - there are two gay saunas here in Greater Manchester that I’m aware of, but as is the case with many saunas, they don’t update their websites as often as they should

    • @dizzydevil547
      @dizzydevil547 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Michael im originaly from manchester but have live in Bristol for 18 yrs ....basment is still open BUT the one attached to Clone zone has been closed for a while In fact basment is the only one in the greater manchester apart from heat in Stockport .......its the same here in Bristol we had 2 saunas (one didnt last long) BUT the one that had been ther for yrs on old market changed hands so many times ( was a reg visitor if i had a weekend off work after a night out) and then covid hit and it went mixed from what i know then closed down so we dont even have a gay sauna here anymore sadly!

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey @michaeljohndennis2231, I can't really say what's changed, as I actually went to a gay sauna for the first time just a year ago, so only after COVID. The Boiler is very clean, and from what I've heard, it always has been. Many years ago, there were a lot more gay saunas in Berlin, like 4-5. I know of at least 2 others from hearsay, but they all closed one after another. I don't know why. Now, only the Boiler Sauna is left, and it's very popular.
      Best regards!

    • @iantojones8021
      @iantojones8021 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@insiderob two clesed bc of the owners didn't invest in renewing the interior, one closed due to a fire killing some people. they violated several fire and building policies. when the boiler opened, they set a higher standards regarding every aspect of a gay sauna (drugs, prostitution, hygiene, etc.) in berlin. every other sauna was now compered to the boiler and they all lost profoundly.

    • @MrTuxracer
      @MrTuxracer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@insiderob Apollo burned down, because someone threw a cigarette into a trash bin. People died.

  • @CrystalCarrington
    @CrystalCarrington 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is my favourite Sauna, I love Berlin's der Boiler. It's so clean, it's like a spa, and always had the best fun there. It's big too, an area to play, a coffee shop to replenish your energy, an outside deck, world class and modern x

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for your feedback: I agree with you!

  • @neorich59
    @neorich59 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great find. I'm in the UK. We have some pretty decent Saunas here and I've been to the Sauna in Amsterdam and Torremolinos. Always interesting to hear about experiences elsewhere and your "review" was really interesting! I've not visited Germany yet.
    Maybe I should! 😉😉Thanks and "subbed!"

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  หลายเดือนก่อน

      So you have a lot on your list when you come to Germany ;)

  • @albertjanik8532
    @albertjanik8532 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Deutsche Eiche is VERY nice (and that goes for the Bavarian men too! 😍).

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It is! There will be a video about it very soon!

  • @psremington
    @psremington 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    No I would not be comfortable with women there. I love the energy and comradery of male only environment. We have very few spaces like that left. Men’s saunas are for men!

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for your honest feedback! :)

  • @TheLucqui
    @TheLucqui 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    No women please!

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I understand

  • @MrTuxracer
    @MrTuxracer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    About the towels. If you enter the steamroom and leave your towel on a rack outside, esp. at the back entrance, be prepared that someone took your nice dry towel and you have to take any of the others.I wish boiler had towel lockers in the basement.

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh yeah! That's a big "problem"! BUT: most of the time when you go with a sad face to the Towel distribution center, you get a new one for free. ^^

    • @MrTuxracer
      @MrTuxracer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@insiderob I'll have to try.
      But I am sure, If you look at the towel-exchange-guy puppy-eyed and put up your killing smile, his heart will melt. Your cuteness might be the key to a dry towel.

    • @zouphout
      @zouphout 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I once brought my own towel - and one guy was about to take it as if it was the most normal thing in the world!

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@zouphout would be a funny idea to buy a towel with your name on it! Hehe

    • @zouphout
      @zouphout 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@insiderob I told that guy about my name!!

  • @kennethbailey9853
    @kennethbailey9853 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are a Blessing to the World !!!❤

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤️❤️

  • @bloomingberlin
    @bloomingberlin 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    There is a place and time for inclusivity. It is OK to have a sauna for men be a sauna JUST for men. If someone wants, they could open up a sauna for Trans people and one for Lesbians

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for you feedback!! 👍

  • @jasonsubhan8479
    @jasonsubhan8479 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hi Rob, I would love to see you singing or dancing 'Barbara's Rhubard' Rap.

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Look in my Instagram ;)

  • @TDavidPoe
    @TDavidPoe 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for the information. Fascinating insight into this facility.

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are welcome!!

  • @MrFox-xr9cc
    @MrFox-xr9cc 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like Babylon in Cologne the most too.
    The outside/center pool is really nice in summer.
    And it has a nicer feel to me than phoenix in cologne.
    Phoenix has louder music and whenever there is a new sauna infusion every hour or so, they play a weird bavarian music which can kinda kill the mood if you are doing certain activities.
    That being said, it helps a lot with tracking time if you don't have a watch with you.
    Overall big prefer for the Babylon.
    Can't really talk about the darker areas though since i don't really do those.

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for your feedback! I think it’s a thing of “taste” and what you like. Greetings!!

  • @ggiiaaccoommoo
    @ggiiaaccoommoo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You should go to the sauna in Oldenburg. It's a different experience compared to the big cities, but it's actually very good. They have events regularly, then it's very busy.

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I heard about Oldenburg! Maybe I’ll go there soon. Thank you!

  • @DominikKJakob
    @DominikKJakob 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    try out the Deutsche Eiche in Munich, it's a cool place. As for Cologne, I like the Badehaus/Babylon because of the outside pool area, which has a great relaxed atmosphere when the sun is shining and all of the guys are lounging around. The Phoenix is also nice, but their outside area is rather small, mainly for cooling off after the sauna. Inside, both of them have a bar & lounge area, jacuzzi, steam room, dark areas, etc. I've been to Berlin a lot, but never in the Boiler, guess I should try it some day ;-)
    Cheers from Düsseldorf

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hello to Düsseldorf!
      Deutsche Eiche, is on my bucket list for Munich Pride weekend! :) I'm so exited! :) And yes :you should definitely go to Boiler! Greeting! :)

  • @dagmarvandoren9364
    @dagmarvandoren9364 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh BERLIN, yes we absolutely need. Gay saunas......its a must

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😈🍆

  • @edwardt2417
    @edwardt2417 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Please no women in gay saunas! Re towels, saunas in the US and Canada will usually exchange your wet towel for a fresh one if you ask. The sauna in Orlando will give you one free exchange and then charge $1 for any further exchanges when they are busy (and they make an announcement before they start doing this); when they aren't super busy, they'll just exchange your towel without this limit. Obviously, guys should be reasonable as well in terms of how many towels they go through. As someone who is used to this system, I would find it annoying to have to pay for a towel exchange, especially considering that towels are bound to get wet at a sauna. To me, this is akin to a restaurant giving you one serviette or napkin, and wanting to charge you if you need more.

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts! It’s definitely interesting how different saunas have varying towel policies. It’s always good to know what to expect before you go!

    • @edwardt2417
      @edwardt2417 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@insiderob On the flip side, US and Canadian saunas typically rent you a locker or a room, so if you want to have a room, you have to pay more, which doesn't appear to be the case in Germany or elsewhere in continental Europe, so I guess German saunas have to make their money somehow. Good to know what to expect, as you say:)

  • @marlonelias
    @marlonelias หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wonder if this place is ASIAN friendly?!.

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for stopping by and sharing your curiosity! It’s important to find places that are welcoming to everyone.

  • @EdwardM-t8p
    @EdwardM-t8p 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Here in the US most gay bathhouses and saunas have fallen prey to gentrification. There used to be two in my city (New Orleans) and at least one in most major metros but now the only ones I can think of that are still open are in Berkeley California (Steamworks), Cleveland Ohio (Club Body Center), and Detroit Michigan (can't remember the name).

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh. Ok, that’s interesting!

  • @beaubritton2125
    @beaubritton2125 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Also Spartacus in Puerto Vallarta is a fun visit.

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for your recommendation!!

  • @gringobenedicto307
    @gringobenedicto307 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    are there other saunas apart from the boiler?

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      In Berlin is only one Sauna: Boiler! :)

    • @juergen07091973
      @juergen07091973 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There was Apollo splash club, but it burned down.

  • @Avenexful
    @Avenexful หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Is der boiler good place to find a bear or daddy and are there like special days to find them?

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  หลายเดือนก่อน

      The boiler can be a fun spot to meet interesting characters! As for special days, it really depends on the vibe of the day. Happy hunting!

  • @KaiThomasDonnerhak
    @KaiThomasDonnerhak 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Vieles gilt ja allgemein für jeden Gay-Sauna-Besuch ... Danke für die Aufklärungsarbeit!

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ja, denke auch! Danke für dein Feedback!

  • @iantojones8021
    @iantojones8021 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    every last thursday of the month is (half official) bears evening

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Oh Thanks for that information!

  • @azo9490
    @azo9490 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey. Thank you for the video it was very informative! Can i ask, do people go in completely naked or in swimming shorts or boxers? And can we bring our own slippers?

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Heyhey! Thanks for your feedback! You can bring your own slippers. In Party you have to be complete naked (in the Saunas) in other areas you can wear a towel or bathrobe swimming wear is mostly not welcome.

  • @tombauer3396
    @tombauer3396 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Financially, the Boiler is the biggest rip-off I know of! - Above all, it's a huge disgrace that you can only stay there for 6 hours with an entry ticket! I've never experienced such a rip-off in any gay sauna in Germany or Europe!

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for your feedback! I think it’s with every euro for me.

  • @DinoLevitin
    @DinoLevitin 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Babylon Köln ist the best. Phoenix in Köln und Düsseldorf Don't Do it, like you said, sleezy, to big space, Empty... Babylon, Babylon, Babylon all the way! ❤

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for your input!

  • @sgrfpprmnt
    @sgrfpprmnt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Pluto, Essen is very good.

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I also heard and it's on my list! :)

  • @JimmiAlli
    @JimmiAlli 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I think trans men are fine, but I wouldn’t know how one would know if a man is trans.

    • @otisberlin
      @otisberlin 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You can usually tell by the scars under the chest

    • @JimmiAlli
      @JimmiAlli 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@otisberlin yes true!

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @otisberlin yes. but of course @JimmiAlli it completely right: gender is not necessarily visible!!

    • @MrTuxracer
      @MrTuxracer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If I got to a gay Sauna, I only want to see male bodies. I am not attracted to female bodyparts and the look at a vagina is unpleasant for me. I respect everyone no matter what gender, sexual orientation, skin colour or religion a person has, as long as that person respects our social values.

  • @Vito-yp5wh
    @Vito-yp5wh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Was im Baedecker nicht steht.

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Was meinst du?

  • @dpb8780
    @dpb8780 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Did you try the Amsterdam bathhouse?

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not yet! But on my list!

  • @nikkilogan7726
    @nikkilogan7726 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Really a steamy information!!
    Thanks Rob!! 😎🥰🔥🔥🔥💦💦💦💦

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😘😘

  • @beaubritton2125
    @beaubritton2125 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’ve heard that the Babylon in Bangkok has been closed.

    • @player6970
      @player6970 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Was there in 2010.

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, it s closed

  • @SumithKumanda
    @SumithKumanda หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Looking

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  หลายเดือนก่อน

      for..?

  • @lafayettemoreira4423
    @lafayettemoreira4423 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lets review the obvious things, with months at 30 degrees Celsius, below zero, do not expect much excitation.

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In the big saunas it still full.

  • @Drigo30
    @Drigo30 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Keep it simple -> sauna and not let it become a circus lol

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A Circus? What do you mean?

  • @EgeKor-qk5vz
    @EgeKor-qk5vz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wish i had the confidents to go to one

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Just try! It's soooo easy!

    • @MrTuxracer
      @MrTuxracer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The worst that can happen, is, that noone takes notice of you. So there is no reason not to give it a try.

    • @mikipav1064
      @mikipav1064 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MrTuxracerOmg... i never thought about that. You just gave me one more reason not to go. I was always curious about cruising and saunas, but i never had to guts to do so because i was afraid that men would give me to much attention and try to do things to me that i didn't consent to. I'm 29 years old and i have a certain confidence in my looks. I don't think that i'm a bad catch. However, if i go to a place where men specifically go to get horny and have sex with each other and none of them notice me or want to engage with me while i'm basically naked infront of them, this would completely crush my confidence and self esteem. Especially if you consider that men tend to get less picky as soon as they are horny.
      So nope, i'm just to afraid to either get to much attention or to little. Both isn't fun to experience. I will remain by my usual method and get laid through dates where its easier to tell if someone is interested or not and were you can make sure that nobody gets sexual with you that you don't want to.

    • @MrTuxracer
      @MrTuxracer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mikipav1064 You should go there with a friend and just have the intention to observe what happens.
      I was never afraid, someone could do things without consent and it never happened. Of course there were some hands touching, but never further, if I didn't want to.

  • @kennethbailey9853
    @kennethbailey9853 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yum Imagine Boiling with You my Friend !!!🤪😁❤️

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😈❤️😇😎

  • @MrTuxracer
    @MrTuxracer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    In München ist die Deutsche Eiche ein Muss.

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I heard about and I will go there very soon! :)

    • @MrTuxracer
      @MrTuxracer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@insiderob We'll be curious about your Experiences.

    • @player6970
      @player6970 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Been there a few times.

  • @pinoyinausie
    @pinoyinausie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Ich liebe dich❤

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you! :)

  • @cactuarrockman
    @cactuarrockman 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Lots of talk I thought he was going in

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for you feedback! It‘s not possible to go everywhere. But soon I’ll have a video inside a sauna!

  • @sangthamkeurnoon7122
    @sangthamkeurnoon7122 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you!!🙏

  • @shawnsavage9341
    @shawnsavage9341 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Gay saunas are also a nice place to leave your soul and self respect.

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And homophobia is everywhere 🥸

  • @tradingonlygold3508
    @tradingonlygold3508 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    so cute😍 Do you have a bf?

    • @insiderob
      @insiderob  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😊☺️