Madam i respect n appreciate wht u saying, par koi parents ke stress aur frustration level ki bhi to baat kare. We don't become super humans miraculously right after becoming parents. We try n try hard to give our child the best still things tend to go out of hands, we are no robots we too go thru emotions and anxieties trying as hard as we can. One should also understand each child is unique, it bcms so dfclt to figure out wht sort of child u have. It's jst we helplessly trying to manage things. Please try to think from a parents perspective too , it's very easy to stand and lecture on a podium. No parent wud willingly choose violence for their child. But things do go out of our hands we do get crazy. Please stop sending parents on a guilty trip too.
But even I also agree that we should not be violent to our children/child. When for the first time the child is doing wrong rectify him/her at that very moment and keep on rectifying each time the mistake is repeated.. after five or six times the child will definitely learn what is wrong and why is that wrong... And to some extent we should give relaxation to our children too... how can we forget that what kind of suffocating childhood we had with our parents!! Shall we also carry forward the same suffocation for our children? Please think about it as well... It's absolutely fine to be mad at children sometimes because we as parents too have our limits of taking things but at the same time let the role reverse also happen... let our children also vent out their anger, frustration, emotions at us when they feel it over the limits... then it will be a different parenting we can give to our children... at least different than we got from our parents.. And please don't worry.. i am not lecturing.. 😅 I am a single parent and this is my 'hands-on' experience I felt to share with you.. ❤
One should just remember that child is never our trigger to get angry , we should learn to identify our trigger, then only we will not blame them everytime for our anger
@@riritrivediI don't know even if it's right or wrong because my husband is always shouting & telling me that I'm wasting my money on her activities. Our daughter is not academic & likes sports etc. She is a single child. So in the pretext of work, I live a little far from our main home & we go back during the weekend. Our daughter is neurodivergent so often we have dramas at home if we all are together. My husband doesn't believe in role modelling & as you said, we can't control others behavior!! Ever since I keep them far, less drama. I didn't tell him that you are always scolding us. I just said, let money go maintaining two places but it's hard for me to do up & down. My daughter' school is near my work place. It works out well for us. I take her to her dance lessons, music concert which she enjoys a lot!
True but in today’s scenario kids are completely forgetting basic ethic culture of minimum listening and agreeing to the parents and this will impact their future only!!
My parents, sisters,my husband and also full in- law family narcissist hain...i have 6 years baby boy...so iss narcissist logo ke bech mai, kaise mere bete ko acche parbarish du??? And i need to know ki mera 6 years beta bhi kya narcissist ho sakte hain?? Main kaise save karu aur acchi parenting katu mere bacche ka???? Pls give me suggestions
Absolutely true. I realised after a year that I’m forcing my son to study and learn for exams. Later I realised he has his own time to study and I felt I shouldn’t make him study study study. I left him explore life first and then I won’t force unless he says let’s do study or reading… Younger age is more of tender age.
my daughter is 3 year old i always try to make her understand things by talking, whatever u have is best p, never make her fool n say lies etc it really works
My daughter is 4 year old ..through this journey most of days i have been kind loving n supportive parents hence on other days specially in her todler years someday i hit her n do not understand her..everyday i m thinking that i want to be more on understanding n loving n supportive side ..i want to do lot of work on myself ..still as a parent i do mistake ..and thats y i m here watching this video
I am a single working mom.mere bacche k sath mera bonding bahut accha hai.but abhi to bas 5 yrs ki hai.mujhe ye soch k darr lagta hai k main sara kuch akele kaise manage karungi.its a long way to go 😢
My dearest friends. Being in control of your parents is the most beautiful thing in life . I am 42 yrs old. I proudly say I am in complete control of my mumma. I am in her control because I respect her and the values she have given to me. I have a good job and decent salary and 42 yrs but this does not mean that you overlook your parents. Avoid negativity feel proud by saying that your parents never permit you drink, or to do this. I am sure that taking permission from your parents makes them proud
Somethings are not in our control, continue doing what's best for your child from your side and support them in everyway which will balance their confidence.
I had such narcissistic parents, my mom always said that I left job because of you. As I was not good in maths, my parents discontinued my hobbies since class VI. My father used abusive language and there was a perpetual disconnect between me and my parents. My father expired three years back but I was not in grief. I did my motal duty of last rites. I did my duty. My parents always said that we did our duty to our daughter. Even at the age of 40,my mom still tries to control me.
I could feel your pain. We cant live in the pain of past and create a Happy present or future. Whats not of no use we throw in the dust bin. What is valuable we preserve. Liberate yourself and your father by forgiving and forgettig. Passing on fatherly love to wounded daughter
Koi bhi parents ke intentions galat nahi hote. Aap unke side se socho. aur aap aaj ke generation ke hisab se soch rakhte ho par unke generation me sab aise hi chalta hoga jaise ki vo vaise pale badhe he to uska Asar bhi rahega Aap bhi apne baccho ke liye kuch chije sacrificed karoge aur fir Aap ke soch jaisa socha vaisa nahi hua to Aap ke muh se bhi Aap ke sacrificed ki baate niklegi baccho ke samne na nikali to man me par Aap bhi vaisa hi sochoge so pls parents ko hate mat Karo Aap jo apne liye aapke baccho se expect karte ho Aap khud bhi Aap ke parents sath vaise rahe kyoki aakhir Aap ke bacche bad me Aap ka hi follow karenge aur sau baat ki ek baat Aap ke soch ka Asar Aap ke health par bhi hota he to pls sab ignore maro life jio huske pyaar baatke na ki nafrat Aap ko behtar mehsoos hoga Aur fir jaiske ko vaisa dushman ke sath karte he ma bap ke sath nahi Bade budho ne kaha ma bap ke charno me swarg hota he to sach he bhai unke karm agar galat ho to bhagwan dekh lega tum apne karma par focus Karo Kyonki acchai ka fal bhagwan deta koi ma bap nahi unke hat me hota to duniya ka koi baccha kamnasib nahi hota . Last me bhai meri baat ka bura laga ho to maaf kar dena maine Aap ki khushi hi chahi Hai... Vaise Maine video dekha nahi sidhi aapki coment padhi he
Children are taking advantage of parent being easy with them spending time with video gaming , playing , chatting . If we are not making them study now , we are worried , how many become Sachin & shariah . if there is no alternative talent , then we are worried of their future.
I can vouch whatever she has said is 💯 percent correct. But at times it’s very hard to follow the basic rules . Coz we have grown up like that where parents n grandparents had no clue about correct parenting. Scolding n comparisons ke bina din shoru nahi hota hai 😊. It’s still going in every household. Most of Asian parents are like that . Chinese n Korean upbringing is worse intact . I work with them so I can tell they are much more harsh than Indian parents with there kids. . So it’s in human DNa . We can change gradually by this kind of awareness n rolemodeling I guess . Also as u said balancing is the key .
Hi ma'am my first child is 8 years old he is mild autism and my second son is 4 years old am telling about second son he is too good in studies he is went to school studing in nursery the complaint is in school he is not behaving well ziddi hai jaldi nahi sunta aur agar writing reading time achha communication karta hai baad mai bachho ke saath marna peethna karta hai please help me how can i control this
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Aap shi bol rhe madam , but i feel stress by getting know reality through u , about my parents. I am pregnant. And i feel to learn good parenting so that i can be a good parent to my coming kid atleast despite of i dont get good treatment from my parents .and i feel to study psychology .how to study ?? Where to get admission ?
Child becomes stubborn when he/she feels unheard or when child’s needs are not met consistently. Pls use 80-20 rule and do not keep saying no to everythign. Be choiceful and selective on what u keep correcting and what you can allow for that time. Stubborn child is an angry child or child who has to fight for what he wants. Let it not become a habit. Do not give in to tantrums - be firm but also kind and receptive. You don’t have to stop the child in too many things - alllow a few things and stop selectively on what is most important. Pick your battles . Stubbornness is a way the child learns to be assertive and it can be a positive quality if handled well
I am grandmother of 12 year old boy. He doesn't want to study at all he says it is boring. All time he wants to play football or he will play see vedios of football games. He lost his mother in 2022. He has father who goes to work. Wr have started giving him pvt tution but the result is not good. He tells lies also many time and we tell him he doesn't agree that he is wrong and lying. Now pl suggest what should we do. This month terminals are starting but he doesn't open the book in house at all only school and tution he sees the books
He would have experienced trauma of losing his mother and that might make him distracted or disinterested - he has to learn from his mistakes. With whatever he is doing in school and tuition let him get the marks - then let him experience failure and he might learn from it. Or talk to him and understand what is going on in his mind - does he want to study or make a career in football? At 12 he understands that he needs to study if he wants to work - pls talk to him and understand what is his understanding on this
Mam mera masika beta. 10th me bad usne 10th ke marks ka boht pressure liya hai. Ab o khud se hi badbana laga hai. Usne boht hi pressure leliya hai. Medical bhi chal raha hai usala. Apke hisab se kya thik hoga ki o pahle jesa ho
Mam sorry but you are too constricted in your thoughts, everything is needed in various phases of life as a child grows. Same was given to me as well daant ladai pyar sab, parents also have their own life, they are not slave to their choice of having a child. You are just referring to the few negative cases that you solve. Just spreading negativity also excites or increases the negativity exponentially of someone who maybe even have just a small problem. Just making a business. Great mam. You are doing a noble job, but atleast don't spread hatred in the unique and sacred relation of a child and parent(*Don't plant seeds of doubt in teens with a difficult pre-teen life, their parents did the best of their capability*) . And it's life mam every family has it's own issue and struggles and they overcome it by various ways., you are no one to judge. Rather you should preach about the real struggles and the root cause of a teen coming running to you complain about parenting. If anyone is not able to handle the way of parenting whatever be it a rough one or a pleasent one, how will they face actual problems of life. It's goes on mam. You are doing a Noble job great, earning a great amount awesome you should. But atleast don't poison the teens mind of India. India has its own culture and struggles so stop thinking ki western way of parenting (always pamper, love, understanding and freedom, etc.) will solve anything. Rather it would lead to a western culture where teen will start living without parents. #Shame on such thoughts. #Embrace and learn from the western culture but don't adopt it.
I don’t think my talks or videos are poisoning anyone’s mind. I am a parent to 2 kids myself so last thing I would do is blame parents! But yes if parents are doing things that are damaging the child - even if intentions are right, needs to be called out. Today’s youth knows what i am talking about and also most parents who follow me. I don’t just find faults but I also give solutions and positive parenting tips - if u have seen the full video
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Agreed with the thoughts and understand that you want to convince all 😊 however the voice sounds stressful. As a parent primary thing to avoid stress in kids or any one is to talk softly and wisely 🥰
Failure handle karna keise sikhaye bachcho ko ? Pls give video on that .. kyoki aaj kal parents sucessful banna sikhate hai , par failure handle karna nahi sikhate. Aur depression ke case isi karan se increase hote hai .
How to deal with controlling parents? At the age of 27, i still find my mother policing me and poking nose in almost all business. I somehow feel she lacks boundaries. Apart from this whatever i try to do, i am not supported by them unless i do what they say or decide for me. I have huge trust issues with them as they being the controlling pillars have tried to put a full stop to my independence, career and the freedom i deserve as a woman of 27. At times its so difficult that i only vent out my anxiety, emotions infront of my friends. How do i deal with this? I am a post grad, B.Ed, Ex teacher and now i dont work because i am unable to find a job in my state and wishing to relocate but i am controlled and guilt tripped by my parents as they keep on saying who will look after us, despite there are 2 siblings who are well settled in different states and i am unable to settle and my scope has also become limited by them. What should i do Ma'am?
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I'm not a counselor however with personal experience, it's very important to find a job for yourself, even if it's in a different city. Find a project for your mother, may be she visits your siblings. Start saying your point of view for very simple things. This will give them a subtle message that you have your own opinion. At 27 you should be independent. You should be seeking advice & opinions only and not following them with resentment. We love our parents and respect should be there. However you are an individual with such good academic achievements. Please utilize them. Take small steps. The fear of making mistakes & guilt trap is not good. My life changed when I watched movie Beta! (Funny but so many things were true). Stay blessed!
1.build you connection with children. 2.donot stress 3. Calm and understanding 4. Observer you own behavior 5.be consisent . 6. Don't user fear methods, Don't threat them. 7. Manage expectation 8. Don't make your child a project
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Mam mera beta 12 years ka h usko ADHD H last year wo mobile se addict ho gya tha abhi addiction nhi h pr adhd h to usko consantration bilkul nhi h padhai me uska mn nhi lgta h abhi uska occupational tharapy chal rha h mam use hm kaise treat kare jisse uska padhai me consantration bne please guid kare
Experiencing Brief Moments of Mind Blanks - Seeking Advice I am 18 year Old Boy, My mind goes blank for 5-10 seconds when I'm stressed, thinking too much about topic / thing , or scared. I can feel it coming also... but can't do anything, it's scary! Any idea what's happening with me? Thanks,
Madam you are absolutely correct. Children r like mitti ka gola. We give them a shape as per our wish. But it's sad to that in India around 1.50 lakhs children forcefully growing with hatred mentality against #Father. Who will save those children. If you have a time then kindly make speech on #ParentalAlienationOfFather & #GrandParentAlienation. A big problem now in India.
Maam jis age group ko aap spich de rahe ho .wo to na jane kitne bache ka jivan barbaad kar deye.is se acha garib log hote hai jinke bache ka budhi vikash apne halat se taal mel kar lete hai.
I am going through this phase, my son turned me abusive, I try my best to keep cool but he checks my patience!! He is not even 10 but seems he is 20 He is argumentative, he doesn't listen to me, he ignores to what I say to him!! He has hanged a lot in his 10th year I just hope your video will help me❤❤ I subscribed to your channel ❤❤ to listen to you regularly ❤❤❤
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Madam i respect n appreciate wht u saying, par koi parents ke stress aur frustration level ki bhi to baat kare. We don't become super humans miraculously right after becoming parents. We try n try hard to give our child the best still things tend to go out of hands, we are no robots we too go thru emotions and anxieties trying as hard as we can. One should also understand each child is unique, it bcms so dfclt to figure out wht sort of child u have. It's jst we helplessly trying to manage things. Please try to think from a parents perspective too , it's very easy to stand and lecture on a podium. No parent wud willingly choose violence for their child. But things do go out of our hands we do get crazy. Please stop sending parents on a guilty trip too.
But even I also agree that we should not be violent to our children/child. When for the first time the child is doing wrong rectify him/her at that very moment and keep on rectifying each time the mistake is repeated.. after five or six times the child will definitely learn what is wrong and why is that wrong...
And to some extent we should give relaxation to our children too... how can we forget that what kind of suffocating childhood we had with our parents!! Shall we also carry forward the same suffocation for our children? Please think about it as well...
It's absolutely fine to be mad at children sometimes because we as parents too have our limits of taking things but at the same time let the role reverse also happen... let our children also vent out their anger, frustration, emotions at us when they feel it over the limits... then it will be a different parenting we can give to our children... at least different than we got from our parents..
And please don't worry.. i am not lecturing.. 😅 I am a single parent and this is my 'hands-on' experience I felt to share with you.. ❤
One should just remember that child is never our trigger to get angry , we should learn to identify our trigger, then only we will not blame them everytime for our anger
Sir ma'am is saying right think children are your full time project
It is very difficult to make understand my husband all these things. He always just points out mistake of my son, doesn't try to rectify mistake.
Same problem mere sath v h
Your husbands behavior is not in your control
@@riritrivediI don't know even if it's right or wrong because my husband is always shouting & telling me that I'm wasting my money on her activities. Our daughter is not academic & likes sports etc. She is a single child. So in the pretext of work, I live a little far from our main home & we go back during the weekend.
Our daughter is neurodivergent so often we have dramas at home if we all are together. My husband doesn't believe in role modelling & as you said, we can't control others behavior!!
Ever since I keep them far, less drama. I didn't tell him that you are always scolding us. I just said, let money go maintaining two places but it's hard for me to do up & down. My daughter' school is near my work place. It works out well for us. I take her to her dance lessons, music concert which she enjoys a lot!
Look at sister Shivani's concentration. Such a knowledge soul but still giving full attention to Riri Ma'am
Exactly 💯
True but in today’s scenario kids are completely forgetting basic ethic culture of minimum listening and agreeing to the parents and this will impact their future only!!
Thanks ma'am aapke videos sahi time pe mile just one year of married no kid's yet but video dekh ke kafi kuch pehle hi prepare kar sakte hain.💚
My parents, sisters,my husband and also full in- law family narcissist hain...i have 6 years baby boy...so iss narcissist logo ke bech mai, kaise mere bete ko acche parbarish du??? And i need to know ki mera 6 years beta bhi kya narcissist ho sakte hain?? Main kaise save karu aur acchi parenting katu mere bacche ka???? Pls give me suggestions
Assalam o Alaikum
I am from Pakistan. Your lecture is very informative. Kindly deliver a lecture on how parents control their anger before children.
This madam should also take some initiative on keeping students school bag much lighter in this digital way of academics.
Absolutely true. I realised after a year that I’m forcing my son to study and learn for exams. Later I realised he has his own time to study and I felt I shouldn’t make him study study study. I left him explore life first and then I won’t force unless he says let’s do study or reading…
Younger age is more of tender age.
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my daughter is 3 year old
i always try to make her understand things by talking, whatever u have is best p, never make her fool n say lies etc
it really works
My daughter is 4 year old ..through this journey most of days i have been kind loving n supportive parents hence on other days specially in her todler years someday i hit her n do not understand her..everyday i m thinking that i want to be more on understanding n loving n supportive side ..i want to do lot of work on myself ..still as a parent i do mistake ..and thats y i m here watching this video
Mam ese seminar sabhi school me bhi ho to hum 21 vi century ko energy me convert kar sakte hai ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏
sahi!! pls organize! i will come!
My parents destroyed my childhood. But I'll try my best to give the best environment to my baby.
Yes you can be the change maker who breaks the cycle of trauma :)
@@shrishtikhare4037 Hope your children are enjoying the childhood
I am a single working mom.mere bacche k sath mera bonding bahut accha hai.but abhi to bas 5 yrs ki hai.mujhe ye soch k darr lagta hai k main sara kuch akele kaise manage karungi.its a long way to go 😢
Same same
My dearest friends. Being in control of your parents is the most beautiful thing in life . I am 42 yrs old. I proudly say I am in complete control of my mumma. I am in her control because I respect her and the values she have given to me.
I have a good job and decent salary and 42 yrs but this does not mean that you overlook your parents.
Avoid negativity feel proud by saying that your parents never permit you drink, or to do this.
I am sure that taking permission from your parents makes them proud
Somethings are not in our control, continue doing what's best for your child from your side and support them in everyway which will balance their confidence.
Excellent..bohut sare mistakes krti hu..sudharungi khub ko
yes pls. iss liye videos daali hai
I had such narcissistic parents, my mom always said that I left job because of you. As I was not good in maths, my parents discontinued my hobbies since class VI. My father used abusive language and there was a perpetual disconnect between me and my parents. My father expired three years back but I was not in grief. I did my motal duty of last rites. I did my duty. My parents always said that we did our duty to our daughter. Even at the age of 40,my mom still tries to control me.
This is me. At the age of 43 controlling parents
I could feel your pain. We cant live in the pain of past and create a Happy present or future. Whats not of no use we throw in the dust bin. What is valuable we preserve. Liberate yourself and your father by forgiving and forgettig. Passing on fatherly love to wounded daughter
Truly sad about it and pls forget their mistake and learn from it for your children. So much support to you.
Koi bhi parents ke intentions galat nahi hote. Aap unke side se socho. aur aap aaj ke generation ke hisab se soch rakhte ho par unke generation me sab aise hi chalta hoga jaise ki vo vaise pale badhe he to uska Asar bhi rahega
Aap bhi apne baccho ke liye kuch chije sacrificed karoge aur fir Aap ke soch jaisa socha vaisa nahi hua to Aap ke muh se bhi Aap ke sacrificed ki baate niklegi baccho ke samne na nikali to man me par Aap bhi vaisa hi sochoge so pls parents ko hate mat Karo Aap jo apne liye aapke baccho se expect karte ho Aap khud bhi Aap ke parents sath vaise rahe kyoki aakhir Aap ke bacche bad me Aap ka hi follow karenge aur sau baat ki ek baat Aap ke soch ka Asar Aap ke health par bhi hota he to pls sab ignore maro life jio huske pyaar baatke na ki nafrat
Aap ko behtar mehsoos hoga
Aur fir jaiske ko vaisa dushman ke sath karte he ma bap ke sath nahi
Bade budho ne kaha ma bap ke charno me swarg hota he to sach he bhai unke karm agar galat ho to bhagwan dekh lega tum apne karma par focus Karo
Kyonki acchai ka fal bhagwan deta koi ma bap nahi unke hat me hota to duniya ka koi baccha kamnasib nahi hota .
Last me bhai meri baat ka bura laga ho to maaf kar dena maine Aap ki khushi hi chahi Hai...
Vaise Maine video dekha nahi sidhi aapki coment padhi he
I have also faced these things
Lovely maam.. i wish n pray it reaches to more n more parents.. om shanti
What should I do ...if im having toxic husband??😢😢😢
Ma'am m the mother of 1 year old.. and working women... All ur videos have always helped me wenever i felt frustrated about parenting..
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Mam I have question inlaws ager toxic hn to kase kren parenting
That is called OLD IS GOLD....Ma'am Salute to yoir Knowledge❤
I am only 50!! he he he!! Yes old is gold!!
@@riritrivedi 😂😂
Welcome from Nepal Dr ma'am, You're great.
Mera to bacha hi nhi hai😢.wish i had one
शादीके पहले हर लडके मम्मी डॅडी को हर चीज बताते ही है....लेकीन उनके शादीके बाद....बच्चोमे चेंज दिखता है....तो उसके जिम्मेदार मा बाप नही होते....न
सही कह रहे हैं। मैं भी यही बात पेरेंट्स टीचर्स मीटिंग में कहता रहा,पर कुछ ही अभिभावक फोलो करते हैं।
Children are taking advantage of parent being easy with them spending time with video gaming , playing , chatting . If we are not making them study now , we are worried , how many become Sachin & shariah . if there is no alternative talent , then we are worried of their future.
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Absolutely true I HV tried all this to my son,n believe me he is a bachelor now n perfect in all things.
I can vouch whatever she has said is 💯 percent correct. But at times it’s very hard to follow the basic rules . Coz we have grown up like that where parents n grandparents had no clue about correct parenting. Scolding n comparisons ke bina din shoru nahi hota hai 😊. It’s still going in every household. Most of Asian parents are like that . Chinese n Korean upbringing is worse intact . I work with them so I can tell they are much more harsh than Indian parents with there kids. . So it’s in human DNa . We can change gradually by this kind of awareness n rolemodeling I guess . Also as u said balancing is the key .
Thank u
It's worth watching every parent should watch this.
Hi ma'am my first child is 8 years old he is mild autism and my second son is 4 years old am telling about second son he is too good in studies he is went to school studing in nursery the complaint is in school he is not behaving well ziddi hai jaldi nahi sunta aur agar writing reading time achha communication karta hai baad mai bachho ke saath marna peethna karta hai please help me how can i control this
Your child is small you can take parental consultation for yourself which will focus on how to handle such situations.
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Once you submit the form our team will reach out to you in the next 48 hrs
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Aap shi bol rhe madam , but i feel stress by getting know reality through u , about my parents. I am pregnant. And i feel to learn good parenting so that i can be a good parent to my coming kid atleast despite of i dont get good treatment from my parents .and i feel to study psychology .how to study ?? Where to get admission ?
I treated my children as friends - results are perfect. Both are educated and well settled. ❤️🙏
Good to hear that
Teacher specialy Convent teacher must be needed to learn something about how to teach and what to teach it will be proved helpful for a healthy child.
अहिंसा परमो धर्म है लेकिन हमें आने वाले समय आने वाले समय
Please make videos on child stubborness and not listening to you
Child becomes stubborn when he/she feels unheard or when child’s needs are not met consistently. Pls use 80-20 rule and do not keep saying no to everythign. Be choiceful and selective on what u keep correcting and what you can allow for that time. Stubborn child is an angry child or child who has to fight for what he wants. Let it not become a habit. Do not give in to tantrums - be firm but also kind and receptive. You don’t have to stop the child in too many things - alllow a few things and stop selectively on what is most important. Pick your battles . Stubbornness is a way the child learns to be assertive and it can be a positive quality if handled well
Your voice is not soothing,I listened half and it
Created tention sort of
My intention was not to relax anyone woth a soothing voice 🙏🏼
Few parents know the value of life ... , value of money , value of people, value of trust, truth.....
Will try to follow... Very nicely explained.
All the best
Thanks madam my baby 3 years old kuch dino se meri mar kha rhahe but ab nhi hoga thanks so much
I am grandmother of 12 year old boy. He doesn't want to study at all he says it is boring. All time he wants to play football or he will play see vedios of football games. He lost his mother in 2022. He has father who goes to work. Wr have started giving him pvt tution but the result is not good. He tells lies also many time and we tell him he doesn't agree that he is wrong and lying. Now pl suggest what should we do. This month terminals are starting but he doesn't open the book in house at all only school and tution he sees the books
He would have experienced trauma of losing his mother and that might make him distracted or disinterested - he has to learn from his mistakes. With whatever he is doing in school and tuition let him get the marks - then let him experience failure and he might learn from it. Or talk to him and understand what is going on in his mind - does he want to study or make a career in football? At 12 he understands that he needs to study if he wants to work - pls talk to him and understand what is his understanding on this
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May to I stand with my children masha-allah
Mam mera masika beta. 10th me bad usne 10th ke marks ka boht pressure liya hai. Ab o khud se hi badbana laga hai. Usne boht hi pressure leliya hai.
Medical bhi chal raha hai usala.
Apke hisab se kya thik hoga ki o pahle jesa ho
aap usko emotional support dijiye aur ashwashan dijiye ke aap hamesha uske sath hai!!
Thanks Madam it was nice
Mam sorry but you are too constricted in your thoughts, everything is needed in various phases of life as a child grows. Same was given to me as well daant ladai pyar sab, parents also have their own life, they are not slave to their choice of having a child. You are just referring to the few negative cases that you solve. Just spreading negativity also excites or increases the negativity exponentially of someone who maybe even have just a small problem. Just making a business. Great mam. You are doing a noble job, but atleast don't spread hatred in the unique and sacred relation of a child and parent(*Don't plant seeds of doubt in teens with a difficult pre-teen life, their parents did the best of their capability*) . And it's life mam every family has it's own issue and struggles and they overcome it by various ways., you are no one to judge. Rather you should preach about the real struggles and the root cause of a teen coming running to you complain about parenting. If anyone is not able to handle the way of parenting whatever be it a rough one or a pleasent one, how will they face actual problems of life. It's goes on mam. You are doing a Noble job great, earning a great amount awesome you should. But atleast don't poison the teens mind of India. India has its own culture and struggles so stop thinking ki western way of parenting (always pamper, love, understanding and freedom, etc.) will solve anything. Rather it would lead to a western culture where teen will start living without parents. #Shame on such thoughts. #Embrace and learn from the western culture but don't adopt it.
I don’t think my talks or videos are poisoning anyone’s mind. I am a parent to 2 kids myself so last thing I would do is blame parents! But yes if parents are doing things that are damaging the child - even if intentions are right, needs to be called out. Today’s youth knows what i am talking about and also most parents who follow me. I don’t just find faults but I also give solutions and positive parenting tips - if u have seen the full video
Connection before correction.
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Agreed with the thoughts and understand that you want to convince all 😊 however the voice sounds stressful. As a parent primary thing to avoid stress in kids or any one is to talk softly and wisely 🥰
Thanks for sharing!
Every word is heart❤touching❤
thanks buddy !
Failure handle karna keise sikhaye bachcho ko ? Pls give video on that .. kyoki aaj kal parents sucessful banna sikhate hai , par failure handle karna nahi sikhate. Aur depression ke case isi karan se increase hote hai .
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Ma'am मैं तो आपका कॉन्फिडेंस देखकर हैरान हूं 😮high level 🎉
Thank you 🙏
You are wonderful and helped many. Thankyou
Thank u❤
How to deal with controlling parents?
At the age of 27, i still find my mother policing me and poking nose in almost all business. I somehow feel she lacks boundaries. Apart from this whatever i try to do, i am not supported by them unless i do what they say or decide for me. I have huge trust issues with them as they being the controlling pillars have tried to put a full stop to my independence, career and the freedom i deserve as a woman of 27. At times its so difficult that i only vent out my anxiety, emotions infront of my friends. How do i deal with this? I am a post grad, B.Ed, Ex teacher and now i dont work because i am unable to find a job in my state and wishing to relocate but i am controlled and guilt tripped by my parents as they keep on saying who will look after us, despite there are 2 siblings who are well settled in different states and i am unable to settle and my scope has also become limited by them. What should i do Ma'am?
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I'm not a counselor however with personal experience, it's very important to find a job for yourself, even if it's in a different city. Find a project for your mother, may be she visits your siblings.
Start saying your point of view for very simple things. This will give them a subtle message that you have your own opinion. At 27 you should be independent. You should be seeking advice & opinions only and not following them with resentment. We love our parents and respect should be there. However you are an individual with such good academic achievements. Please utilize them. Take small steps. The fear of making mistakes & guilt trap is not good. My life changed when I watched movie Beta! (Funny but so many things were true).
Stay blessed!
Ms. Trivedi, its a great advice for every parents. Excellent 👌🏽👌🏽🙏🏽♥️
For teachers to take account too
1.build you connection with children. 2.donot stress 3. Calm and understanding 4. Observer you own behavior 5.be consisent . 6. Don't user fear methods, Don't threat them. 7. Manage expectation 8. Don't make your child a project
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@@riritrivedi thanks mam . Could you please tell me the fees?
Nicely said
thank u ma'am
Useful . Thank you mam.
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Mam mera beta 12 years ka h usko ADHD H last year wo mobile se addict ho gya tha abhi addiction nhi h pr adhd h to usko consantration bilkul nhi h padhai me uska mn nhi lgta h abhi uska occupational tharapy chal rha h mam use hm kaise treat kare jisse uska padhai me consantration bne please guid kare
It helps alot and its related
Ma'am mere 2bete h dono apas me bahut jhagarte h 11year and 8year ka beta h mam please koi solution bataeye
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Thanks Mam definitely i will change my behaviour
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thank you so much ma'am 👏😊
welcome!
perfect rules…
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Experiencing Brief Moments of Mind Blanks - Seeking Advice
I am 18 year Old Boy, My mind goes blank for 5-10 seconds when I'm stressed, thinking too much about topic / thing , or scared. I can feel it coming also... but can't do anything, it's scary!
Any idea what's happening with me?
Thanks,
this can happen due to lot of stress and anxiety. pls do some calming and relaxing practises
also doing 10 mins of simple humming can help you focus and concentrate
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You’re welcome 😊
What a wonderful way
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Well said!
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Great job ma'am
Madam you are absolutely correct. Children r like mitti ka gola. We give them a shape as per our wish. But it's sad to that in India around 1.50 lakhs children forcefully growing with hatred mentality against #Father. Who will save those children. If you have a time then kindly make speech on #ParentalAlienationOfFather & #GrandParentAlienation. A big problem now in India.
Absolutely 💯 percent. True
Maam jis age group ko aap spich de rahe ho .wo to na jane kitne bache ka jivan barbaad kar deye.is se acha garib log hote hai jinke bache ka budhi vikash apne halat se taal mel kar lete hai.
So wonderful mam..... ❤❤❤❤
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I am going through this phase, my son turned me abusive, I try my best to keep cool but he checks my patience!!
He is not even 10 but seems he is 20
He is argumentative, he doesn't listen to me, he ignores to what I say to him!!
He has hanged a lot in his 10th year
I just hope your video will help me❤❤
I subscribed to your channel ❤❤ to listen to you regularly ❤❤❤