My Chemical Pregnancy Story... Miscarriage at 5 Weeks/ Early Miscarriage *Christian*

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  • @zebrawithspots8866
    @zebrawithspots8866 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I found your channel today looking up thrift hauls for baby clothes. I am pregnant for the second time in the past year. I lost my first baby at 6 weeks and 4 days. I FEEL for you while watching this and I understand the heartbreak. Your angel baby is a blessing and so precious 💕 it reminds us to be all the more thankful for life. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing.

  • @lisafrancis977
    @lisafrancis977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your story, it was so brave of you, but I know God will reward you for your faithfulness. When you were praying for us I was praying God would bless and strengthen you too. I had a miscarriage 6 weeks ago. It’s been especially hard as even before I found out I was pregnant I believed God gave me a specific word saying that I would be pregnant and that I wouldn’t miscarry. So when I started bleeding I held on so tightly to his word and believed he would heal the baby. It’s been so hard as I’ve been doubting his promises and whether I even hear his voice, but the truth is his promises never fail and will all come to pass in his timing not mine. I have to choose to trust that he knows what he’s doing even when I don’t. Nothing can separate us from his love and he is a loving father and our comforter in the middle of it all. Xx

  • @danitornetta97
    @danitornetta97 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everything… everything you shared is exactly what I needed
    1 year and six months of infertility… 6 months since I lost my baby at 6 weeks and I am feeling so hopeless but your story and gods words spoken through you is what I need

  • @jocelynzichterman6250
    @jocelynzichterman6250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For some reason my phone is acting up and I can't get messages through, but now I can view the videos here. So I've just watched this today.
    I am crying so hard for you that I can't even call and talk...I need the silence to process it all... and I imagine that is the way God feels when we suffer as good souls.
    His silence is the way He is processing our pain.
    So I'll step up to the plate and just tell you a little about my journey when Kidz go missing or are in harm's way or who have died...
    Here's what we know for sure:
    1. The Soul Never Dies. So that Independent Little Personality is still moving forward with a new life.
    2. That Soul then has the awareness that he/she would have been born to you and you are "Mommy."
    3. And maybe, just maybe, this happened, to spare that Soul some greater pain in this life. So you may want to view it more as "God's Rescue Mission."
    4. And now that your baby is safer than ever, you can look up to the Heavens and find him/her again...on a special mission...showing you things about Heaven that you would have missed if they were here and unable to see and hear from Heaven as clearly as they do now.
    So keep looking up my sweet and beautiful girl! God is making sense out of non-cents, one step at a time...and your baby is just another messanger to you of greater things to come!
    I love you so much and we WILL get thought this ....together...and stronger than ever! 😘🤗

    • @mamas_on_a_budget
      @mamas_on_a_budget  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      love you and thank you for all of your support

  • @brendabenitez7359
    @brendabenitez7359 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Something similar happened to me. I had a miscarriage and during my grief, I felt the word of the Lord tell me that “my next pregnancy will be the one”. So 2 months later I get pregnant, I don’t bleed at all. Pass my 9th week. Happy that I wasn’t bleeding at all. Thought this is it and when I go for my ultrasound, there was no baby, just a fertilized egg. I felt so betrayed and disappointed because I really thought I was hearing from the Lord. Still working on getting over that

  • @tammylarson1255
    @tammylarson1255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When we can't see his plan,when we can't trace his hand ,when we don't understand trust his heart. I will be praying that God gives you peace.

  • @encouragingwife5939
    @encouragingwife5939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for sharing ❤️ I needed this TODAY. The Lord knew and He is faithful in timing. All our hope has to be in the Lord. Keep speaking truth over yourself and others. Psalm 23 has been comforting to me during this. The Lord is still good and works all things out for the good of those who love Him. I am praying for you, sister. Thank you for being obedient and for encouraging us.

    • @mamas_on_a_budget
      @mamas_on_a_budget  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So good to hear and very encouraging. Thank you for blessing me with this ❤

  • @brendabenitez7359
    @brendabenitez7359 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Btw so much testing, doesn’t really show trust. You have to let things be and let go. After a loss it can be really easy to become obsessed with getting pregnant again and that road will just lengthen the process and lead to heartbreaks

    • @mamas_on_a_budget
      @mamas_on_a_budget  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm not sure what you mean by the first part, but totally agree with the second! I read your first comment as well, I'm so sorry for your heartbreak. I've had 2 more losses since this video. It doesn't make sense but God is our greatest comforter ❤

    • @brendabenitez7359
      @brendabenitez7359 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mamas_on_a_budget now I don’t know which was my first message 😆 but what I was just trying to say to you is what usually happens after a miscarriage. We tend not to let things go and continue to focus on becoming pregnant. I say it out of experience. I’m learning to forget and let it go. It has left me with so much anxiety, sadness, and disappointments. I have to heal and find my happiness again. After my 1st loss, I continued to try, thinking if I get pregnant it will take the pain from my loss. Boy was I wrong! Completely wrong thinking. That’s what I meant by lengthening the process and lead to more heartbreaks.
      I also tested many times to confirm to myself I was really pregnant this time. I am learning the hard way that nothing is a guarantee in pregnancy just like in life. I had no blood for weeks, tested positive, hcg went up weekly, everything was looking like this was it and at the end it was a “Blighted Ovum”.
      I am learning to accept any outcome, not attach myself to one. Everything is working for my good. There’s a reason for these experiences and I have to trust the process God has for me to get to where I want because only he knows how to make a way for me. It seems like it Usually happens when we forget, focus on something else and let go of when and how it will happen. That’s what I was trying to say. Sorry if I said it wrong way

    • @mamas_on_a_budget
      @mamas_on_a_budget  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@brendabenitez7359 don't apologize! Thank you for saying that, such great reminders. I'm so glad your finding comfort in God. He is SO FAITHFUL in the midst of our struggles. He has a reason for allowing the loss (not causing it but allowing it). Our babies are being raised in the best place they could be which is a huge comfort. I've found a lot of healing in praying for the babies and naming them. I asked Jesus to give a message to them for me (not sure if it works like that but I tried haha). All that to say, it's an upward battle trying to heal from this. Prayers to you! 🙏 thank you for all of your advice, very helpful and encouraging to me ❤

  • @珍珍-r7h
    @珍珍-r7h 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m experiencing my 3rd miscarriage and feeling so disappointed with God at the moment. Your message have reminded me how much God might be loving me, thank you so much for your prayer, this is the first prayer I’ve received after past darkest 2 weeks... especially when I told my priest I was angry with God, he only told me to be humble to keep on praying, but I’m 43 years old and I just don’t see the light through tunnel

    • @mamas_on_a_budget
      @mamas_on_a_budget  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh my goodness I am so so sorry. Since making this video I had two more. We both have 3 sweet babies in Jesus' arms. It's okay to tell the Lord how you are feeling. A verse in Psalms was written by David where he tells the lord he drowns the couch with his tears. Psalms is a great book to read right now, it shows the real and raw emotions of the people of God. God wants you to bring your heart to him, the good and the bad ❤ prayers for healing sister 🙏

    • @珍珍-r7h
      @珍珍-r7h 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thought you’ve made this video 3 months ago, I’m very sorry to hear that you’ve suffered more. I’ll be reading the Psalms as you recommend 💕 meanwhile, please take a good care of your body.

    • @mamas_on_a_budget
      @mamas_on_a_budget  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@珍珍-r7h 4 months ago, just TH-cam doesn't hasn't refreshed. One at 5 weeks and one at 6 and a half. Thank you, you as well ❤

  • @LovingGodLovingOthers
    @LovingGodLovingOthers 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just had a chemical pregnancy 4 days ago. I want my baby back so badly, I tried to forget this and distract myself a lot but it keeps hitting me so hard again over and over. I think the same day it happened, God put a post on Instagram of a drawing of a pregnant woman with Jesus holding the baby in her womb, with the verse Isaiah 43:1 “I have called you by name, you are mine.” … I knew right away that He was telling me that I may not have named my baby or knew him/her, the baby may not be mine anymore. But Jesus knows my baby’s name and my baby is in His hands now.
    I want to have my baby back so badly. God made this happen for a reason, whatever it may be.

  • @JosieWilliams316
    @JosieWilliams316 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh babe I’m so sorry. I cried with you. I have no doubt God has a plan in all this. I can’t tell you what it is or that I understand why, but God has never ever forsaken me and I know he will not forsake you love. Your desire will be reality at his time. I love that your saying he is a GOOD God in the middle of your storm. Proclaim it. Praying for you.

    • @mamas_on_a_budget
      @mamas_on_a_budget  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Josie, this was so thoughtful of your to say and so true! ❤❤❤

  • @KellyTilley
    @KellyTilley 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So sorry for your loss. I’ve been down this road and it’s not an easy one. But God was still good through the hard times! Praying for y’all! 💚

    • @mamas_on_a_budget
      @mamas_on_a_budget  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes so true. I'm so sorry you have been here. Thank you for your prayers ❤

  • @GLAMTHATFACEWithLALAxoxo
    @GLAMTHATFACEWithLALAxoxo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so sorry hun , I went through a miscarriage last year and still haven’t shared my story . I’m so sorry you experienced that cyber hugs my friend💜

    • @mamas_on_a_budget
      @mamas_on_a_budget  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so sorry you went through this. I pray comfort for you as well ❤

  • @LivingwithCharnelle
    @LivingwithCharnelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Selah, i am so sorry you had to go through this. It is very important to talk about this and how you experience it. it is okay to be vulnerable. We have been though for centuries that miscarriage should not be talked about, but the truth is that so many women experience this. It is such a joy to be able to carry a child to full term, but we should also celebrate the women who are not able to do so. I will keep you in my prayers as well. I have learned about this type of pregnancy today, and didn't know about it. In God's time you will carry the next child you desire, and i hope and i am excited to one day carry my own kid (s) and celebrate and see them grow as you do with your son.
    Stay strong.

    • @mamas_on_a_budget
      @mamas_on_a_budget  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes so good! Thank you for sharing all of this, it is very encouraging ❤

  • @HomemakingWithFarrah
    @HomemakingWithFarrah 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for sharing your story with us, Selah....I guess I was unaware of a “chemical pregnancy”, but have experienced a stillbirth and 3 miscarriages of my own.😞💔I’ve got a story too, my friend.🥺You can rest assured, you’ll see that precious child, again!!🙌🏼✝️

    • @mamas_on_a_budget
      @mamas_on_a_budget  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you Farrah, I'm so sorry, my heart aches for you and the losses you have had. God has our babies in his hands 🙏 thank you for your encouragement!

  • @japanesehafufamilylife9067
    @japanesehafufamilylife9067 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen sis. Thank you for sharing your miscarriage story. I also experienced the same thing. Praise God still. God bless you and your family❤️

  • @LoveCleanTina
    @LoveCleanTina 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So sorry for your lost! I send you a big hug! 💖

  • @DIYwithJJackson67
    @DIYwithJJackson67 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so sorry for your loss and I'm praying that the Lord gives you peace. He is the God of all comfort❤

  • @TheMumfordMob
    @TheMumfordMob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hugs. So so sorry for your loss. 💛

  • @CupcakeFurmama927
    @CupcakeFurmama927 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Precious Selah, Arvy & Judah, I’m so very sorry. I’m praying for your weary 💜 hearts. Love you and thank you for your raw emotions. You are such an uplifting woman always and I send you my love & peace!

    • @mamas_on_a_budget
      @mamas_on_a_budget  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Jennifer, that is so encouraging. ❤❤❤

  • @HomemakingWithFarrah
    @HomemakingWithFarrah 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can’t tell you how many times I’ve read Psalms 13🙌🏼

  • @BrittanysBeautifulChaos
    @BrittanysBeautifulChaos 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your story, very brave of you. Sending you hugs 🤗💜

  • @CorinneThians
    @CorinneThians 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    sending love honey 💕 i know it’s not easy 🙏🏾

  • @KeepingUpWithTheGriffins
    @KeepingUpWithTheGriffins 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing your story 🙏🏽 ❤

  • @SaraHeight
    @SaraHeight 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Selah thinking of you and praying for you 🙏💕

  • @annabellafilipinha8608
    @annabellafilipinha8608 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you and your family always🙏😊

  • @MommyMaine
    @MommyMaine 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sending so much love! 💓

  • @nondumisogasser7155
    @nondumisogasser7155 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    sorry for your loss. I am experiencing this...if it was a boy..i was going to name him. Judah.

    • @mamas_on_a_budget
      @mamas_on_a_budget  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so so sorry 💔💔 God is with you threw this!

  • @chantelgreig921
    @chantelgreig921 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so sorry