I love hookup culture, nothing better than getting it on the same night you meet her. Don't need to know her name or anything about her. Get it in, she get hers I get mines then we go about our way. Maybe change numbers to do it again next week if it was good
Its because the technology we are using which is a very amateur version of it. Was not meant for us to use. I know we are using it right now. But thats because god knew it would happen regardless. We are using things god did not put here for us to use. Thats why fallen angels were punished they showed men things that belong in heaven. Because THEY ARE TRULY PURE and use it the right way. Alot of the tech we have access has demons put within it, and opens portals. Until we can truly cleanse what has been truly corrupted. Technology specifically and nature. Nature was our technology, and so many basic looking tech. That was miles ahead of these traps they have invented for us. Social media was always made to destroy humans and keep the masses away from the way God wanted it. We didnt bring this to the world. The ones who talk to the devil and his demons did. The very ones who came from heaven and got kicked out. Hence to why they know to teach the ritchest men how to make it. Same way they did with the nephelim.
She’s right the hook up culture destroys everything , let’s face it 304 , fuck boys , simps , gold diggers , pookiesha , pookie and rays , And thugs are the main reasons why good men and women don’t want to be in relationships anymore due to the fact there’s no trust And it makes it hard to be with someone because of the list I mentioned. Misery loves company , there’s always going to be problems when dealing with them . Your friends and family which is why good people isolate from them
Imma be honest im a former simp and i hooked up with a escort before i came to the realization that stuff dont fill the empty void in my heart only my mindset and positive vibes and trying to talk to women can fill the emptiness in my heart
You first most be responsible for yourself and your choices. When you see red flags address them asap and if it's something you can not deal with move on. We need learn to choice better people we let in our lives.
When things aren’t done God’s way, the end result is failure. And then also, we live in a time where most people don’t want to do the hard things anymore. I get it. Doing hard work is not fun. Who said it was ? But it is a necessity.
Relationships should be fun and light. Of course it takes work to hold it together but if you really want to be with someone then it can be nice. Also ppl have to learn to be happy with one person
@@lonestar2024 True this Hook up culture nowadays like its nothing smh that's why people can't be in a relationship all they do is go from this one to that one etc. They have no experience or no what a relationship is they seem to don't care. My grandma and mom told me you are going to get older that running around is going to get old what you look like in your 40 50 and older playing games man you beata sit down some where who gone want you no one then what you gone do. 🤷🏾♂️
Women have taken all the fun out of life, in many aspects, in pursuit of women progression and women equality. They care nothing about the negative consequences of their actions and only focus on the immediate temporary ego boost.
Hook up culture, immoral people, etc has always been a thing even before social media. Back then you’d have to go by word of mouth or run into them if someone was homewrecking. Now a days, social media helps expose these things with much ease thanks to a digital foot print.
If you're single stay that way. You're right it gets lonely but just take some time. As you grow you will find someone. And if you don't then you don't. Life is more then just being in a relationship with someone. We got to love ourselves too.
Feminism and women having too many options and too much freedom to be 304s destroyed relationships. Men will gladly grow old together with an average woman. Women want the most superior man, despite them being highly imperfect and ran through. But when all hell soon breaks loose, the humbling for women will come order will be restored. As written.
You are absolutely right People are not humane & caring anymore. You are gorgeous & mature. The good loving ones are in the house on the job & out the way. Everything else that’s no good outside, on social media & in everybody business with no motion. I’m str8 single for life
As a 27M. It always comes down to expectations and how you were raised. I’ve talked to a lot of women while dating and after I start to ASK THEM QUESTIONS you get a sense that a relationship is not what they desire. They want the feeling of a man or even worse a father figure and not an actual man And plus it’s 2025 man everybody is working their ass off and conflict in schedules is the primary reason talking stops with women over time or we actually never meet It’s a different game today. Hard to find people who have done the work to know who they are and actually have a good heart Most women I’ve talked to are honestly looking for a business partner, mentor, or something similar AND not a relationship OR understands what it takes to be a wife
I pray for everyone who struggles in relationships. I pray you are healed, whole and able to trust and love again. I pray you remain vulnerable to love and trust that your heart will be fine in your endeavors.
If a person is dating, they should ask the person they’re dating what their intentions are. Whether they’re in it just for a fling or in it for the long haul or whatever they are in it for. That would help a lot of people not put in time on something that is not gonna give them the outcome that they want.
Keep being righteous💯💯🗣️‼️ I appreciate the truth and transparency. I would imagine finding love in “SIN CITY” to be impossible too, but with Yah all things are possible. Shalom Sister and be encouraged.
I started my celibacy at 19 yrs old was tired of the bs found my woman at 29 we started dating and now we're married anyone can do this to you just have to be willing to wait for your person and train yourself untill you do so that you will be ready.. ppl think they can be out there 1 day then be married the next day this takes time and not being afraid to be TRULY ALONE until you find what works for you good luck yall🙏🏿
I’ve learned that even relationships and marriages are with people passing time! If your relationship is not on business, it’s running on pleasure, and that’s counterproductive too!
You know I’ve been listening to you for a while. You speak a pure truth that I really like to touch on social media. I got rid of that long time ago because if I’m gonna ask somebody not to be commenting on stuff I definitely shouldn’t be cruising through social media and commenting. The old values are almost dead now. Things are looking pretty grim. I literally took three years off away from being with anybody. I have to say I bought a home about 20 acres. I’m gonna buy another 5 acres tomorrow. I’m literally worth millions of dollars because I got out of a dysfunctional relationship that kept me so crazy that I couldn’t get back into what I used to do. Sometimes relationships just aren’t worth it. I would rather leave my legacy and money from my family.
“A man who finds a wife finds a good thing, and finds favor from the Lord.” -Proverbs 18:22 I thank God everyday for my wife. These “liberated” people are really missing out. My life got so much better after I got married.
It's hard to have a relationship now if you don't have a partner that pray and believe in God the couple that pray to give us stay together in my opinion but it's not too many couples that's like that nowadays
I used to think the casual hookup culture was the goal in life in my 20s But, i realized, it isnt. I wasn't even that kind of dude. I lied to myself on that. Now, im in my 30s, and i honestly want someone i can be with, marry and have kids with. But, i am scared to death i get with a toxic woman. I have been taking my interest overseas, but even still. It's still potentially dicey. I just have this want to be a provider, and build. I guess it's natural. I just want the right woman. Not a hoe.
@youngmeezy7635 I mean, I only had a few bodies in my 20s. Not like i was really clapping cheeks. It was a mindset i had hanging around dudes who had the motto, fuck em all or die trying. Most of them ended up played, with a thot, or baby momma dramma. I always been the type to love hard. Fugured that out in my 20s. But the way a lot of women are, I just ended up staying out of the way and to myslef. I poke my head out into the dating world now, and it's just even more chaotic. It's like i want a traditional relationship, but at the same time just unsure. The causual hookup culture was never for me.
Too expensive as well with the inflations and no degree lol a man can't take care no woman especially if she has kids without a side hustle and u still Gon get cheated on because u never home.
I agree with being direct about what you want for the few who are actively looking for a relationship. Like if you don't want marriage and kids say that so the people who want that kind of love can find it.
A brotha made a vid in the 80's that broke this down simply with this "When the economy changes, the family structure changes". Once society, technology, laws, economics etc. Developed to the point, that day to day survival became easy enough to go at it alone? That's when dating and the practice of seeking a mate went to trash. There's no longer a need for each other on a individual level. Just a want. You go hard and compromise for what you feel a need for. Wants are nice to have but not worth making changes to have it. Either you'll get what you want completely on your terms, or do without it
I am 5' 7" single 35 years old, home owner with two cars fully paid off for, two rentals in my name with No debt and live with 2 dogs with and amazing custom design backyard perfect for parties here in Florida 🎉 i want more brothers to live happy with no stress. I will not change my life for anything right now.
I have the same (two dogs too and no debt) with the exception of two rentals. Own my home as well. I'm twice your age and I'm good! I knew it would come down to days like this and I'm not a fortune teller but I knew it.😆 Oh well
I’m retired military and with my job I bring in about 70-90k Yearly. Not quite 6 figures but a little cushion. I’m also 6 feet and in shape. I love womens company and the softness of a woman and would LOVE to cohabitate. After sacrificing tho it seems people naturally become ungrateful and thats the part that keeps me from relationships. No one seems to be able to maintain happiness so I’ll just choose peace
EVERYTHING IS ABOUT SEX and Superficial/Materialistic and surface level mess. It gets old and pathetic. I am 32 years old, single and will likely stay single for the rest of my life looking at the dating pool available to us. I am glad I do not have kids. I am glad I did not get trapped by an unwanted pregnancy with a bonafide red flag/loser!
It's not that hook up culture messed marriage up, it has always been that. The problem is Marriage itself is DEAD because, men lose, when women are no longer happy, bored, or just no longer grateful. Women only want money, not love. Men are in it for love, women are in it for business. The first question a prostitute, opps, I mean a, 'woman', asked a man is, 'What do you do for a living'? They don't asked, are you saved, are you a good man, or do you believe in love? Nope, the very first thing a prostitute, opps my bad, I've done it again, force of habit. I meant to say, 'woman'. The very first thing they asked a man, upon first meeting them is, 'what you do'? Fellas, as soon as they ask that gold digging question, tell them what they want to hear, used them for all they're worth, and block her. ✌🏾
It's hell out there dating. After a while it just makes you numb to the emotional pain you can encounter. I just leave it to God and work on improving myself day by day. That's all we can do but it gets better. Just have faith 💪🏿
Hey sis I'm also born and raised in Vegas and I feel what your saying. I just focus on elevation and basically stay away from drama. I feel like it's a waste of time to deal with people that choose not to grow up and take responsibility or they try to use people for their personal gain. Stay strong sis.
Women are more atteacted to the type of guys that just want a fling. The kinds of guys that want a real genuine relationship women have no interest in. Soo i just laugh i could care less.
It’s fine just love someone you trust and live happily ever after 😊 Relationships become difficult when people make it harder than it has to be. just chill
My narcissistic ex-wife committed adultery so I'm not in a rush to get in another relationship. If the right woman comes along cool. Being in a relationship is a gamble. I don't gamble
Patients is key to true love and happiness, see here's the thing. God knows best and he knows that we're not ready to be with the perfect soul mates yet. So through the heart breaks, God is just building you up to be the perfect match for your soulmate in the future. So never look at it like a curse, instead looking at it as your blessing. Because God is always blessing us without our dum asses not even knowing it Amen 💯💕
I literally just said to myself last week that I’d truly rather be DEAD than to be another baby daddy on child support. The fact that I’m still a virgin doesn’t even bother me anymore neither. If anything I’m actually becoming proud of it.
I blame social media for destroying the dating game and marriage life,opening the door for everybody to have other options,weather it's a man or woman,social media destroyed relationships
Aint no more trust thats all ....break up with my ex in 2018,she was pregnant a month after the breakup.Not beating every woman with the same stick but women got too many options 😅
God’s curse for man was that he had to work until he goes back to dust.God’s curse to women is that they will experience pain in childbearing. The reason relationships are dead is because women want to carry both curses. The other reason is that people don’t worship the creator but the created which is very vain and perverse which is the very def of materialism. Relationships should be built something that is firm. Emotions and feelings come and go, and 90% of relationships are built off of those 2 qualities that is also why they are fading away. The last point is that there are a lot of people that have no standards or their standards are based on materialism.
When you are the opposite of those doing what you don’t do then you will never understand. However, a lot of people don’t like to be held accountable in today’s culture. It comes down to a lot of that.
Too many men are afraid to leave a woman because they dont want another man hitting it... FELLAS YOU CANT CONTROL THAT SO DONT TRY!! Stop putting up with B.S.due to your insecurities .. The moment her attitude changes and her energy shifts.. Start your exit strategy Stop catering to a womans emotions..It is not said Men are supposed to be miserable so a woman can be happy.. if she isn't trynna make you happy like you're willing to do for her run!!!!?!!?!🏃🏿♂️💨
Yep, cuz everybody want something from each other and can't get it especially with poor communication skills. Money talks and BS runs the Marathon. Like everybody wants a free ride on the bus but don't wanna pay the fare to get on. 🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾
I'm dealing with a woman that wants me to pay child support for a child I haven't seen in over 3 years on top of that I provide for my daughter this whole time that I haven't been able to see her so if you're going through the same thing I am keep ya head up and keep fighting your child NEVER give up fighting especially if you have a daughter NOT say boys don't need their fathers BUT girls do need their fathers especially in this day and time 💯
I makes sense for men to just date bc most women all want the same guy so he got 20+ girls fighting for him the average guys miss out and is only wanted for help after they get tossed out
Dating as it's done in modern times should NOT exist. "Dating" and "Relationships" have led people to function in a hybrid marital status where you have single/unmarried people thinking and behaving as if they're married. That dynamic creates many preventable problems. Cheating is the single version of adultery. Breaking up is the single version of divorce. Having an ex is similar to having an ex-husband or ex-wife. "Being together" or "being in a relationship" is the single version of being married, etc. Single people's and married people's lives should look and sound COMPLETELY different and problems like this video would become much less frequent. Society has blurred the lines even more by creating the "situationship."
💯Well said. Now they’re making up even more nonsense “stages” to relationships, like first is “just talking,” then “casual dating,” but now there’s “exclusively dating” (basically undefined situationship that could last forever ) …and that’s all before even “commiting” to just a basic gf/bf “relationship” status 🤦🏼♀️ …. Wish we could bring back standard courting-engagement-marriage, but that’s only possible within fringe religious groups; seems hook up culture has already destroyed most of society
I wish you were my age because you have a great mind. And you would make someone a great wife . So unfortunate that this social media has destroyed society. Even for the people my age the 50 and over and we know better. But it has affected my generation as well. You might benefit with a man that is at least 10 years older and I did say might. But you are absolutely right about what you are saying. Great content!
This is what all this is leading to Isaiah 4:1 (KJVA) And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.
Absolutely for wise moral and loyal people finding partner who physically attractive with character is veeery hard. Hoeflation and simpflation is real.
This is a crazy world we live in today where do one of the most dirty, disgusting things has been normalized back in those days you wouldn't see that, sleeping around with multiple people, it's very dangerous both physically and spiritually.
I was in a relationship for 8 months now and now I have been single for 4 months now it’s way to be by myself then to be in a relationship with someone that doesn’t any effort in making the relationship work modern dating now is just terrible now a days
304's are the equivalent of a taxi cars mileage with a new paint job. While trying to convince you to purchase this used car as with new a car. Price . Get it together
I don't even date anymore. if i go out on a "date" it's with my homegirls. this past weekend me and my highschool mate from back in the day went to go get massages and facials and we had a great time. no sex, no fooling around just chillen and I loved it.
I truly believe you ladies choose badly , I do to but anyway. Hell Im moving to panama next to panama, to find me a girl, Im old but you get it. Sometimes you have to leave your postion. Grew up in chi town , city life people , forget about it. Love , peace and hair grease.
Hookup culture killed everything.💀
💯
@@Sparrow_OCE True
I love hookup culture, nothing better than getting it on the same night you meet her. Don't need to know her name or anything about her. Get it in, she get hers I get mines then we go about our way. Maybe change numbers to do it again next week if it was good
And the internet. It became the new porn for women. All the artificial attention along with feminism destroyed it all.
most def
Social Media was meant to bring the world closer together but has driven us apart in more ways anyone could ever have imagined.
Exactly
Social media was designed to do exactly what it’s doing
@Free-q7s Touché 🍻
Its because the technology we are using which is a very amateur version of it. Was not meant for us to use. I know we are using it right now. But thats because god knew it would happen regardless. We are using things god did not put here for us to use. Thats why fallen angels were punished they showed men things that belong in heaven. Because THEY ARE TRULY PURE and use it the right way. Alot of the tech we have access has demons put within it, and opens portals. Until we can truly cleanse what has been truly corrupted. Technology specifically and nature. Nature was our technology, and so many basic looking tech. That was miles ahead of these traps they have invented for us. Social media was always made to destroy humans and keep the masses away from the way God wanted it. We didnt bring this to the world. The ones who talk to the devil and his demons did. The very ones who came from heaven and got kicked out. Hence to why they know to teach the ritchest men how to make it. Same way they did with the nephelim.
@@Free-q7sexactly. Since it’s inception
She’s right the hook up culture destroys everything , let’s face it 304 , fuck boys , simps , gold diggers , pookiesha , pookie and rays , And thugs are the main reasons why good men and women don’t want to be in relationships anymore due to the fact there’s no trust
And it makes it hard to be with someone because of the list I mentioned. Misery loves company , there’s always going to be problems when dealing with them . Your friends and family which is why good people isolate from them
Sexial Liberation caused all this
Imma be honest im a former simp and i hooked up with a escort before i came to the realization that stuff dont fill the empty void in my heart only my mindset and positive vibes and trying to talk to women can fill the emptiness in my heart
You first most be responsible for yourself and your choices. When you see red flags address them asap and if it's something you can not deal with move on. We need learn to choice better people we let in our lives.
This isn't new. Bible talk about hoes
So glad you are fair in your assessment & blame both sides!
When things aren’t done God’s way, the end result is failure. And then also, we live in a time where most people don’t want to do the hard things anymore. I get it. Doing hard work is not fun. Who said it was ? But it is a necessity.
Facts
I find it’s way more fun and doable when you put your spirituality/ morals in the center of all you do. Not a weak ego. Nice comment from you 💯
Man cut the shit bruh. Not everyone believes in that nonsense
This💯
It's only going to get worse and the suffering increase, so they will receive him when he comes.. ikyk
Relationships should be fun and light. Of course it takes work to hold it together but if you really want to be with someone then it can be nice. Also ppl have to learn to be happy with one person
Facts
@@lonestar2024 True this Hook up culture nowadays like its nothing smh that's why people can't be in a relationship all they do is go from this one to that one etc. They have no experience or no what a relationship is they seem to don't care. My grandma and mom told me you are going to get older that running around is going to get old what you look like in your 40 50 and older playing games man you beata sit down some where who gone want you no one then what you gone do. 🤷🏾♂️
@bernardwilliams4071 exactly 💯
Women have taken all the fun out of life, in many aspects, in pursuit of women progression and women equality. They care nothing about the negative consequences of their actions and only focus on the immediate temporary ego boost.
Key thing here, BE HAPPY WITH JUST ONE PERSON!!!
Tic Tok, Facebook, Instagram, got the world where's it at now.
💯
Exactly and Reality T.V. and celebrties
Hook up culture, immoral people, etc has always been a thing even before social media. Back then you’d have to go by word of mouth or run into them if someone was homewrecking. Now a days, social media helps expose these things with much ease thanks to a digital foot print.
@@seanwilliams3390 That’s true for those trying to live in a fantasy world
I don't like being single but I also don't like mind games that come with relationships.
If you're single stay that way. You're right it gets lonely but just take some time. As you grow you will find someone. And if you don't then you don't. Life is more then just being in a relationship with someone. We got to love ourselves too.
FACTS FACTS FACTS!!!
The question is who will continue your family lagacy if you don't make a family ?@burgersbiblesaeh849
Fellas protect your sanity and your wallet in these current times!!
Absolutely
Feminism and women having too many options and too much freedom to be 304s destroyed relationships. Men will gladly grow old together with an average woman. Women want the most superior man, despite them being highly imperfect and ran through. But when all hell soon breaks loose, the humbling for women will come order will be restored. As written.
Lol Ran Though 😂😂 Like a 1991 Toyota Camry Corolla V6 .
Humble or not ITS TOO LATE.
@@fixcpuTrue it's getting worse out here tbh
I love being single. I come and go as I please.
Economically though you'll be homeless unless you make enough to live through retirement
No such not a single person on the facr of the earth loves that life style if they do they have a lot of baggage.
I can't help but feel that you made a pun of some sort.
Same
Facts,I'm single with no kids so I'm good and loving life.Dudes gets some side chicks and be good
I been cheated on twice. Thats enough for me to never date again.
Same fr some girls can’t b loyal nowadays
Better to have felt love for a brief fleeting moments then have lived a life without ever feeling or knowing love
@@iqmar4301just like Chris brown said these girls ain’t loyal
@@iqmar4301 Exactly fuck relationships .
@@DarkStr23-fm1lw I wished never did experience it. I'd be better off.
You are absolutely right People are not humane & caring anymore. You are gorgeous & mature. The good loving ones are in the house on the job & out the way. Everything else that’s no good outside, on social media & in everybody business with no motion. I’m str8 single for life
As a 27M. It always comes down to expectations and how you were raised. I’ve talked to a lot of women while dating and after I start to ASK THEM QUESTIONS you get a sense that a relationship is not what they desire. They want the feeling of a man or even worse a father figure and not an actual man
And plus it’s 2025 man everybody is working their ass off and conflict in schedules is the primary reason talking stops with women over time or we actually never meet
It’s a different game today. Hard to find people who have done the work to know who they are and actually have a good heart
Most women I’ve talked to are honestly looking for a business partner, mentor, or something similar AND not a relationship OR understands what it takes to be a wife
Yea they live in a ME ME ME kinda world and... I don't need anymore burden.
Love isn’t dead, respect is.
If there's no respect there's no love... gtfo here
@@fixcpu lol, big fax
I appreciate your thoughts, Sister from your Brother. You are on point!!!!
Marriage is a death sentence anymore. I was married once, I got cheated on and my ex wife bragged about it to my face.
Im sorry that happened to ya but there’s always hope if you have faith in it.
That would've traumatized me. I am very sorry to hear about that bro. 😢
You know what to do brother
But can you stomach it 🤔
I pray for everyone who struggles in relationships. I pray you are healed, whole and able to trust and love again. I pray you remain vulnerable to love and trust that your heart will be fine in your endeavors.
Listen I completely agree I don't even know what to say! This is the truth!
If a person is dating, they should ask the person they’re dating what their intentions are. Whether they’re in it just for a fling or in it for the long haul or whatever they are in it for. That would help a lot of people not put in time on something that is not gonna give them the outcome that they want.
Keep being righteous💯💯🗣️‼️ I appreciate the truth and transparency. I would imagine finding love in “SIN CITY” to be impossible too, but with Yah all things are possible. Shalom Sister and be encouraged.
I wish everyone had the mentality you have. I agree with everything you always say. 1000% woman right here🙏🏼
How do you know this isn't the play?
Dating is down the drain because of pretenders 😅
It’s sad too be quie honestly
People who are not loyal and genuine
I started my celibacy at 19 yrs old was tired of the bs found my woman at 29 we started dating and now we're married anyone can do this to you just have to be willing to wait for your person and train yourself untill you do so that you will be ready.. ppl think they can be out there 1 day then be married the next day this takes time and not being afraid to be TRULY ALONE until you find what works for you good luck yall🙏🏿
I’ve learned that even relationships and marriages are with people passing time! If your relationship is not on business, it’s running on pleasure, and that’s counterproductive too!
You know I’ve been listening to you for a while. You speak a pure truth that I really like to touch on social media. I got rid of that long time ago because if I’m gonna ask somebody not to be commenting on stuff I definitely shouldn’t be cruising through social media and commenting. The old values are almost dead now. Things are looking pretty grim. I literally took three years off away from being with anybody. I have to say I bought a home about 20 acres. I’m gonna buy another 5 acres tomorrow. I’m literally worth millions of dollars because I got out of a dysfunctional relationship that kept me so crazy that I couldn’t get back into what I used to do. Sometimes relationships just aren’t worth it. I would rather leave my legacy and money from my family.
“A man who finds a wife finds a good thing, and finds favor from the Lord.” -Proverbs 18:22
I thank God everyday for my wife. These “liberated” people are really missing out. My life got so much better after I got married.
Facts on everything you said I love how you spoke on both sides i still believe in love one person is i need
It's hard to have a relationship now if you don't have a partner that pray and believe in God the couple that pray to give us stay together in my opinion but it's not too many couples that's like that nowadays
Religions don't play that partnership bs. Keep playing that feminist game deal with the consequences
@evos469 who said anything about religion...We're talking about a relationship with God as the center. Hedonism is ruing people and relationships.
Nope non-believer long term happy relationships exist, what bs idea is that?
@@ChristianGreene-py8sy 💯
@@TheDrink69420Haven’t seen it yet.
Dating is overrated peace is underrated 😊
Facts, I been saying it's overrated
Yup! So much has changed
Yup times have changed sadly
Alot of people need to hear this blessings to you
I used to think the casual hookup culture was the goal in life in my 20s But, i realized, it isnt. I wasn't even that kind of dude. I lied to myself on that. Now, im in my 30s, and i honestly want someone i can be with, marry and have kids with. But, i am scared to death i get with a toxic woman. I have been taking my interest overseas, but even still. It's still potentially dicey. I just have this want to be a provider, and build. I guess it's natural. I just want the right woman. Not a hoe.
Well karma is a bih ain't it u seem ran through
@youngmeezy7635 I mean, I only had a few bodies in my 20s. Not like i was really clapping cheeks. It was a mindset i had hanging around dudes who had the motto, fuck em all or die trying. Most of them ended up played, with a thot, or baby momma dramma. I always been the type to love hard. Fugured that out in my 20s. But the way a lot of women are, I just ended up staying out of the way and to myslef. I poke my head out into the dating world now, and it's just even more chaotic. It's like i want a traditional relationship, but at the same time just unsure. The causual hookup culture was never for me.
@@youngmeezy7635 🤡🤡🤡
@@youngmeezy7635 why ar u gae
@@youngmeezy7635 Men dont get ran thru.. You sound like a woman
Trust me you need waaay more than love to make a relationship work. It's too many people out there trying to date and have mental and emotional issues
Too expensive as well with the inflations and no degree lol a man can't take care no woman especially if she has kids without a side hustle and u still Gon get cheated on because u never home.
Tay Tay is so beautiful 💯✊🏿
I agree with being direct about what you want for the few who are actively looking for a relationship. Like if you don't want marriage and kids say that so the people who want that kind of love can find it.
I agree with you so much about that
I still believe in love, but self-love matters the most!
A brotha made a vid in the 80's that broke this down simply with this "When the economy changes, the family structure changes". Once society, technology, laws, economics etc. Developed to the point, that day to day survival became easy enough to go at it alone? That's when dating and the practice of seeking a mate went to trash.
There's no longer a need for each other on a individual level. Just a want. You go hard and compromise for what you feel a need for. Wants are nice to have but not worth making changes to have it. Either you'll get what you want completely on your terms, or do without it
I am 5' 7" single 35 years old, home owner with two cars fully paid off for, two rentals in my name with No debt and live with 2 dogs with and amazing custom design backyard perfect for parties here in Florida 🎉 i want more brothers to live happy with no stress. I will not change my life for anything right now.
You are blessed 🙏🏽
I have the same (two dogs too and no debt) with the exception of two rentals. Own my home as well. I'm twice your age and I'm good! I knew it would come down to days like this and I'm not a fortune teller but I knew it.😆 Oh well
I’m retired military and with my job I bring in about 70-90k Yearly. Not quite 6 figures but a little cushion.
I’m also 6 feet and in shape. I love womens company and the softness of a woman and would LOVE to cohabitate.
After sacrificing tho it seems people naturally become ungrateful and thats the part that keeps me from relationships.
No one seems to be able to maintain happiness so I’ll just choose peace
I agree 100%
Its rough when people are coming from a place of selfishness...
Wow, you said a lot, and I'm in the state as you are. I feel the same way
EVERYTHING IS ABOUT SEX and Superficial/Materialistic and surface level mess. It gets old and pathetic. I am 32 years old, single and will likely stay single for the rest of my life looking at the dating pool available to us. I am glad I do not have kids. I am glad I did not get trapped by an unwanted pregnancy with a bonafide red flag/loser!
It's not that hook up culture messed marriage up, it has always been that. The problem is Marriage itself is DEAD because, men lose, when women are no longer happy, bored, or just no longer grateful. Women only want money, not love. Men are in it for love, women are in it for business. The first question a prostitute, opps, I mean a, 'woman', asked a man is, 'What do you do for a living'? They don't asked, are you saved, are you a good man, or do you believe in love? Nope, the very first thing a prostitute, opps my bad, I've done it again, force of habit. I meant to say, 'woman'. The very first thing they asked a man, upon first meeting them is, 'what you do'? Fellas, as soon as they ask that gold digging question, tell them what they want to hear, used them for all they're worth, and block her. ✌🏾
Before you date someone...know yourself. Learn about yourself, before someone teaches you about yourself.❤
dating used to have a purpose. Now people date just for fun 😂
Absolutely, I'm single happy and unbotherd. It's the best life 4 me at this particular juncture n my life true talk word up B... BUNG !!! 💯🎯🗣️🧠💫💥🤔😇🔵
Yooo! Straight FACTS! No filler, nothing missing.
Too many people leading people on to keep their attention. No empathy, just caring about stroking their egos.
AMEN!
It's hell out there dating. After a while it just makes you numb to the emotional pain you can encounter. I just leave it to God and work on improving myself day by day. That's all we can do but it gets better. Just have faith 💪🏿
Hey sis I'm also born and raised in Vegas and I feel what your saying. I just focus on elevation and basically stay away from drama. I feel like it's a waste of time to deal with people that choose not to grow up and take responsibility or they try to use people for their personal gain. Stay strong sis.
Women are more atteacted to the type of guys that just want a fling. The kinds of guys that want a real genuine relationship women have no interest in. Soo i just laugh i could care less.
Exactly.
You are speaking facts yes Vegas,Miami LA we are in the same boat and we are cooked!!!
Then, lay off the Abdullahs, Pookies & Ray Ray's then. 💯
People don't want to see no one happy
And they be the same people to wonder why people are the way they are now. 🤦🏽♂️
@@LykanPrototype amen to that 🙏
Facts 👌 Misery Loves Company.
It’s fine just love someone you trust and live happily ever after 😊
Relationships become difficult when people make it harder than it has to be.
just chill
My narcissistic ex-wife committed adultery so I'm not in a rush to get in another relationship. If the right woman comes along cool. Being in a relationship is a gamble. I don't gamble
Patients is key to true love and happiness, see here's the thing. God knows best and he knows that we're not ready to be with the perfect soul mates yet. So through the heart breaks, God is just building you up to be the perfect match for your soulmate in the future. So never look at it like a curse, instead looking at it as your blessing. Because God is always blessing us without our dum asses not even knowing it Amen 💯💕
I’m in Vegas too, bless our pretty lil hearts 😮💨💜
I literally just said to myself last week that I’d truly rather be DEAD than to be another baby daddy on child support. The fact that I’m still a virgin doesn’t even bother me anymore neither. If anything I’m actually becoming proud of it.
Stay that way.
Because loyalty an love and the good things come in time not overnight we expect people to be faithful and loving but yet haven’t grown to do so ❤❤❤❤
I definitely believe in what you said towards the end. You stay safe as well
Sleeping around sharing other people's bodily fluids is not just sleeping around
I blame social media for destroying the dating game and marriage life,opening the door for everybody to have other options,weather it's a man or woman,social media destroyed relationships
Soon the word love will just be another title for a movie. I’ve honestly lost all hope at this point.
Isaiah 13:12 (KJVA) I will make a man more precious than fine gold; even a man than the golden wedge of Ophir.
Aint no more trust thats all ....break up with my ex in 2018,she was pregnant a month after the breakup.Not beating every woman with the same stick but women got too many options 😅
Men got option too especially when you have no kids
@ltod2 No we dnt.
God’s curse for man was that he had to work until he goes back to dust.God’s curse to women is that they will experience pain in childbearing. The reason relationships are dead is because women want to carry both curses. The other reason is that people don’t worship the creator but the created which is very vain and perverse which is the very def of materialism. Relationships should be built something that is firm. Emotions and feelings come and go, and 90% of relationships are built off of those 2 qualities that is also why they are fading away. The last point is that there are a lot of people that have no standards or their standards are based on materialism.
Ding dong hellooo lol 💯💯
Amazing to read I honestly thank you to however wrote this x1000 thank you humbly
When you are the opposite of those doing what you don’t do then you will never understand.
However, a lot of people don’t like to be held accountable in today’s culture. It comes down to a lot of that.
It's like people want you to be someone else and they don't want to work as a team the 304 rap culture and tinder messed up the dating pool
Too many men are afraid to leave a woman because they dont want another man hitting it... FELLAS YOU CANT CONTROL THAT SO DONT TRY!! Stop putting up with B.S.due to your insecurities .. The moment her attitude changes and her energy shifts.. Start your exit strategy Stop catering to a womans emotions..It is not said Men are supposed to be miserable so a woman can be happy.. if she isn't trynna make you happy like you're willing to do for her run!!!!?!!?!🏃🏿♂️💨
It is so hard to find love. So when you find that one you better consider yourself beyond blessed. Hold her like God looked out for you personally.
Women with Tattoos = 🚩
@itstaytaybaybee 😂😂😂
@@luisherrera2301😅😅😅
😂 Certain tattoos are definitely red flags, but otherwise, we gotta bring it back to just yellow flags
I'm 32 still a virgin guy. Will not give it up to these modern women. Also I'm handsome.
Yep, cuz everybody want something from each other and can't get it especially with poor communication skills. Money talks and BS runs the Marathon. Like everybody wants a free ride on the bus but don't wanna pay the fare to get on. 🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾
exactly. we have even villainized wanting something from each other as if relationships are not based on exchange.
@theebonymaw Yep!!!! They will weaponize it to their greatest advantage.
Preach!!!!!!! Queen !!!
Come out East Queen
I'm dealing with a woman that wants me to pay child support for a child I haven't seen in over 3 years on top of that I provide for my daughter this whole time that I haven't been able to see her so if you're going through the same thing I am keep ya head up and keep fighting your child NEVER give up fighting especially if you have a daughter NOT say boys don't need their fathers BUT girls do need their fathers especially in this day and time 💯
I makes sense for men to just date bc most women all want the same guy so he got 20+ girls fighting for him the average guys miss out and is only wanted for help after they get tossed out
They’re ya go
Dating as it's done in modern times should NOT exist. "Dating" and "Relationships" have led people to function in a hybrid marital status where you have single/unmarried people thinking and behaving as if they're married. That dynamic creates many preventable problems. Cheating is the single version of adultery. Breaking up is the single version of divorce. Having an ex is similar to having an ex-husband or ex-wife. "Being together" or "being in a relationship" is the single version of being married, etc. Single people's and married people's lives should look and sound COMPLETELY different and problems like this video would become much less frequent. Society has blurred the lines even more by creating the "situationship."
💯Well said. Now they’re making up even more nonsense “stages” to relationships, like first is “just talking,” then “casual dating,” but now there’s “exclusively dating” (basically undefined situationship that could last forever ) …and that’s all before even “commiting” to just a basic gf/bf “relationship” status 🤦🏼♀️ …. Wish we could bring back standard courting-engagement-marriage, but that’s only possible within fringe religious groups; seems hook up culture has already destroyed most of society
I wish you were my age because you have a great mind. And you would make someone a great wife . So unfortunate that this social media has destroyed society. Even for the people my age the 50 and over and we know better. But it has affected my generation as well. You might benefit with a man that is at least 10 years older and I did say might. But you are absolutely right about what you are saying. Great content!
5:22 😢 that hit me hard… it hurts and I’m speaking from experience
Self love and divine love is the only love I believe in
This is what all this is leading to Isaiah 4:1 (KJVA) And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.
Absolutely for wise moral and loyal people finding partner who physically attractive with character is veeery hard. Hoeflation and simpflation is real.
This is a crazy world we live in today where do one of the most dirty, disgusting things has been normalized back in those days you wouldn't see that, sleeping around with multiple people, it's very dangerous both physically and spiritually.
I was in a relationship for 8 months now and now I have been single for 4 months now it’s way to be by myself then to be in a relationship with someone that doesn’t any effort in making the relationship work modern dating now is just terrible now a days
304's are the equivalent of a taxi cars mileage with a new paint job. While trying to convince you to purchase this used car as with new a car. Price . Get it together
I take my turn and keep it moving. See you out there 😂❤ I wish you all the best 🌹💋
Relationships aint dead, as long as I want red…she pretty af
I don't even date anymore. if i go out on a "date" it's with my homegirls. this past weekend me and my highschool mate from back in the day went to go get massages and facials and we had a great time. no sex, no fooling around just chillen and I loved it.
None build a Connection anymore. God first and foremost.
Your beautiful
I agree with Tay 📝
No you tell the truth but we are cocked and I was to rise up like that but sometimes it’s hard and I agree with you on that
My type 🙏🏽❤️
99% of women hate God's structure that's why
It makes me sad too. I love love. I hate that life has to be this way.
I truly believe you ladies choose badly , I do to but anyway.
Hell Im moving to panama next to panama, to find me a girl, Im old but you get it.
Sometimes you have to leave your postion.
Grew up in chi town , city life people , forget about it. Love , peace and hair grease.
Man i just want someone who is gonna put in just as much effort into us as I am.
The Champ is here
today, most women rather hookup than want to be married
Social gave everyone a lot of options
Ya tu sabés . Thank you 💡💡💡💡💡💡💡💡💡