Welcome to Hell - SNL
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 ธ.ค. 2017
- Women (Saoirse Ronan, Cecily Strong, Kate McKinnon, Aidy Bryant, Leslie Jones, Melissa Villaseñor) address the ongoing sexual harassment allegations.
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"we aren't a girl band, we travel in a group for safety"
holy shit
Cute Leper welcome to hell 😘
Cute Leper *men are more likely to be victims of violence brought by other men
Cute Leper I by no means mean that all men are evil, it's just random of you to throw a statement like that, what does it mean? We suffer more than you?I'm MRE likely to get attacked so your suffering is meaningless compared to mine? Statistics are a meh to me in this convo cuz it seems centers around the US and or other European countries so...
Cute Leper
not sure why care so much about my phrasing (unless you're a boomer) ,nor why you're so defensive... i agree that feminism is more needed in third world countries than western ones, but its existence in western countries shouldn't bother you unless YOU ARE what they're fighting against.
@@notapplicable9207 what's the point of trying to take the seriousness away from a certain situation to bring to another if you actually cared about you are saying you would being it up at a different more appropriate time bringing down real things that are happening to others does not make your point more valid and you could say you where just pointing it out but let's be real you weren't so please try and be a bit more considerate and a bit more of a decent human being
One of my favorite things in the world is Melissa Villasenor saying "Aw, man."
I laughed at every moment Melissa was on screen here. She's just a fantastic comedian.
the part where she says “i got two boobs!” randomly popped into my head & is the reason i’m currently watching this lol melissa must be protected at all cost
Lmfao. I read this before the video started and the best part is I didn't have to even think about what you meant. 😂😂😂
It always makes my day!
"Aw man, I'm all outta cash!"
Tip from a self defense class I took: don't "wolverine claw" your keys, you are actually more likely to be injured that way than you are to do and damage to an attacker. If your assailant gets a hold of your fist all they have to do is squeeze and your hand is in pain and you've probably lost your keys. Plus it didn't give you any leverage, and leverage is key if you find yourself pitted against someone with a height/weight/muscle advantage.
Instead: hold a single key in your hand like you would to unlock your door. If accosted, jab the key toward vulnerable areas (eyes, throat, etc.) and kick at the knees. Try to incapacitate and get away fast.
Bonus: since you're already holding your keys the normal way they're ready to unlock your door and you don't need to fumble for the right key.
i didn’t know this, thanks! similar thing for knives - it’s a bad plan to carry a knife for self defense unless you specifically have training in using knives for self defense bc it can also be easily used against you. really, using any kind of item for self defense, make sure you know how to use it (though intuitive stuff like pepper spray doesn’t exactly require lessons)
Yet another year of advising women on how to defensively carry their keys, and not telling men to leave us the hell alone when we are not approaching you.
Seems more like someone trying to impart some useful tips to deal with a sad terrible reality, but yes I definitely agree the current dynamic is very terrible. A good portion of it being unknown behavior taught while growing up for the majority, and being unwilling to acknowledge it plus probably a bit lost to how to approach the issue. Meanwhile those in power who benefit from the situation perpetuate it.
@@madalynlejeune8306 I’m 5’3” 120 lbs and 40 yrs old. No matter how we carry our keys and try to defend ourselves it will always be insufficient and lacking in some way.
Welcome to Hell, indeed!
See, thanks, I never thought about the possibility of them squeezing my hand! My thought always was "if I get assaulted and get out of the situation with holding the keys (like they showed in the video), I'd rather have an injured hand than be assaulted. So thanks very much for the tip!!
Since people only bring up male victims to invalidate women's experience, I just wanted to say that as one of those men I fully support all the women sharing their stories and speaking out. We all need a safer world, we shouldn't be taking anyone less seriously than anyone else.
It's not invalidate. Their experiences just agendas infact. When became a feminist because it I felt so done I actually felt sorry turning against the man apprecanted me and loved me. The feminist women I allied with only made things worse .
@@smartass0124 im not quite sure what feminists you’re with
Finally, a man with balls and heart! This was nice to hear. So sorry you were burdened by this, but thankfully you didn't let it turn you bitter and hateful. Keep shining that light!
@@ingwis "finally, a man with balls and heart!" I know the comment as a whole was meant to be a compliment and had positive intentions...but the one bit at the beginning just wasn't it...maybe it's just me but it came off as condescending?
@@raccoon_kun It refers to all the men who try to derail any any conversation about sexual assault on women by pretending to care about sexual abuse of men. Also I really don't care what you think of the comment I wrote in 3 seconds on YT vid
“My dad gave me a pink gun....so there’s a lot there” OMG
You don't have one? Weird..
Angelique Anime mine’s more of a light purple
@@beeleg I wish mines was. I love purple
What? You guys didn't bedazzle yours?
I'm so confused!?
This video isn’t targeting all men, just those of you feeling particularly defensive.
What men started complaining about women and being rejected was the least of their problems. Or sociaties problems
Wouldn't women get defensive to
Shaming being defense form hate 🐂💩 exaggerations from bias and hate. Sounds like you just want make easier to abuse men
@@smartass0124 well even if we are “abusing men” in making these vids, there is a terrible power imbalance all over the entire world, so no matter how many videos (that are MAKING PEOPLE AWARE OF THE TRUTH WE WOMEN LIVE) there are, we ain’t doing nothing wrong and nothing towards abusing you guys, which you do to us. Often. In many different way you can’t even fathom because it doesn’t personally effect you.
@@smartass0124 men get so personally attacked over a video just showing what we have to deal with! some can’t accept the world they’ve created ha
@Barb Chandler you'll I see feminist show women's tears
I remember hearing a guy speak that was a personal security expert. He talked about the potential threats to personal safety, and how it was different for men and women. He once decided to do a survey, and asked a lot of people about the last time they felt in fear for their lives. Men, unless they were emergency responders, often had to think back to their experiences in the military. Women, on the other hand, often could cite much more recent examples. "Last night, when I worked late, and had to walk through a dark parking garage to get to my car." "Last week, I looked out the window, and thought I saw a guy looking up from the corner outside. He looked just like the one that asked me for a date and couldn't accept No for an answer." I can't remember the rest of the examples, but the point was pretty well made that women live with the potential threat of violence on a regular basis.
You know Feminist own numbers and time scales . In context of populations four digit thousands out of Tens of millions in an entire year shows men's violence against women is extremely rare. Infact I heard from Trans man he no longer fears walking the street.
. I thought he's not any less danger infact she's in statistically less dangerous. But she was collage educated.
And she felt empowered because other women were afraid of her
So I guess Bl🖤 are very privileged then
@@Smartass012 This male feminist and avid newspaper reader thinks female violence against men is much rarer than male violence against women, even though I was a victim of the former and I've never perpetrated the latter. I think JL P's words have a lot of validity.
@@bobdavis4848 did You know according to news papers. White fare fare like to go Miss then Black.
@@Smartass012 What is fare fare? What is going Miss then Black?
I got called the B-word for not smiling back at someone. I've had male co-workers think it was ok to put their hands on me when talking to me and when I was 11 years old started to get cat calls from grown men. I didn't even understand why. It has and has always been a terrifying world for women and for girls.This has to stop.
I remember sitting with a big group of 20-something's in college, guys and girls, just chatting. Guys started telling their worst date ever stories, and they were all funny or embarrassing or lame. The girls got really honest and we all started swapping our worst date stories, where we were sexually assaulted, harassed, and in fear of our lives. It was sad to me how all of the guys were shocked and appalled.
Welcome to hell, dudes.
Lol
😂😂😂
So you never listened to their stories... Seems unfair. But that is the gender dynamic we are used to. Statistically the men have always had it harder, but they do not tell anyone, IF they had a shit time, as that still want that ..."SEX"! And no one wants that guy crying in the corner. I've listened to both gender's stories. The men's are always far worse and end worse. The statistics back that shit up. SNL does not care about men in problems. Neither do you. And to fantasize that women just all have it harder, is just purely stupid and narcissist. i guess - welcome to impoverished man's hell. Which will allways be wrose.
Whats even more appalling is that most of them had to pretend to be shocked 💁♀️
@lanitana100 The one's pretending to be shocked are also the one's that really wanted to tell stories about how they were on 'bad dates' simply because the girl wouldn't hook up, but they knew how awful that would make them look to the group.
Bro Code doesn't include covering up rape.
Yee Lol I love this comment 😂
Apparently it does
No bro code is getting your bros together and stomping the shit out of a rapist.
@@JonnySublime ohhh yeah
@@Livingdeadgrl1967 you tell him queen/king
“Not all men” is true but “too many men” is also very true!
Not all men harrass, but ALL WOMEN have been harrassed in one way or another. So, yeah
Manophere. com no
Males who are triggered by this comment, shut up. I’m a dude, and I can admit that a lot of men (no, not just “a few bad eggs”) are bad people who have harassed a girl in some way.
Manophere. com, I would reply to you about why whatever you’re saying is probably wrong, but I can’t understand a single word. If English is not your first language, that’s ok, but if it is you really need a lesson on grammar.
VIII Maus, that’s an impossible question to answer, as everyone has a different definition of a bad person. I would say at least 60% of men have minorly harassed a women in some way, and 50% probably do it regularly.
"not all man!"
If you had a box of chocolate and you knew one of them is just shit covered in chocolate, I'm pretty sure you'd be wary of the whole box
Change chocolate with skittles an that is the exact metaphors used by Donald trump jr against muslim refugees. To be clear, I like the sketch and it’s message, just really really hate that particular metaphor
@@lucagreco1835 Be quiet, that allegory is amazing. Just because Donald Trump used it to excuse his own Islamophobia, does not change that.
Hey isn't that the republican argument against Mexicans? Not sure it's a good one
@@bract62 a lot of good things can be used for evil or warped perceptions. doesn't change that this metaphor is a good example of how it feels (and trust it sucks. we don't want to live paranoid)
@@ggundercover3681 so how is this argument different for sex vs race? Just seems like bigotry to me eitherway
when i was thirteen years old, a man told me i had beautiful eyes, and when i didn't respond, he got annoyed and said, "what, not even a thank you?". my cousin told him he was being inappropriate and the two of us left, but when we met up with her mom later, she said that next time, my cousin shouldn't have said that because he could have gotten violent.
i told this story years later to a group of my friends. one of my male friends commented on the fact that i must be misremembering the age because 13 is way too young for something like that to happen. he also took issue with the "next time" comment because "how could she possibly know it was going to happen again?"
men really do see the world differently, huh?
So, if I understand correctly, he was mansplaining your assault to you and gaslighting you? That is like misogyny inception. And it’s not okay. I am very sorry that that happened to you.
Men that respond like that should NOT be trusted or befriended imo... they're basically allies for sex offenders
13 is too young? The first time I was catcalled I was 8, in my pajamas, going to the store to get bread for breakfast. I wish I could live in a man's world for an hour, must be nice.
It's not exactly nice, it's just different. Dunno if that's any consolation
They forgot “you should really smile more”
they also forgot to tell ppl to report to cops and get selfdefense weapons/classes incase that any crime happens,welcome to the adult world
@Taco Belle I understand the challenges they go through and infact is more than 90% of females doesn't report sexual assault ,but the lesson here is not teach men not to assault women has nothing to do with the assault itself men assault, knowing that assault is a crime ,these men took the decision to break the law which they though they're above the law they see something they want to do w/e it is they carelessly do it harming themselves and others with them, a biologist would tell you men has more testosterones which lead the man to be more aggressive more well built more sexual but always conscious of his action, the consciousness part of the brain take the lead on these desires and feelings or else a man or woman would feel they wanted this or that they would do it without thinking which proves your point that ''men are naturally sexual beings who can't control themselves wrong'' ,breaking the civil code leads to breaking the law which sanctions man or woman who agreed to live by these rules then this person is not qualified to live in the society due to your action and you get to be sent to prison . you have what's right and what's wrong as an adult you know you can't control others action and avoid all sort of troubles,its your job to keep yourself safe , a man is physically stronger than a woman proven by science which make women are more likely to be assaulted for any kind of crimes robbery,kidnap and ransom,domestic voilence, sexual assault , the lesson is you can not change the element of choice ,the law teaches everyone to respect a code yet people fail to apply these teaches whether it's a speeding ticket,or an assault ,in the most religious states where law is harsh in it's punishment Saudi arabia crimes still happens,
It sucks, but men get this too. As long as your not particularly happy, people will nag you to be more happy. That's just how it works.
“It’s hard to smile when I’m looking at your hideous face”
"youre never fully dressed without one" and people really wonder why we're done with the world?
Boys laugh about what they put girls through, but they won't be laughing when they're wiping tears off their daughter's face for the same reason~Will Smith
Well damn
Where did he say that ?
@@aileean19 Sorry,i had the idea of the quote down,but the wording was *way* off,lol.
proud2bpagan I tried to look it up by changing the wording a little but I couldn’t find it... Do you remember where it was from ? It’s a good quote :)
James Miller Around 1 in 20 women will be raped in their lifetime according to the CDC and more than a third of them happened before the age of 18. So yeah it’s pretty likely.
A few years ago I had a very eye-opening conversation with a woman who basically went over all these 'rules' and how different her life was as a woman from mine as a man. I never realized how much of a luxury it was to be able to walk around at night without fear.
Thank you SNL for this chipper, upbeat and utterly sobering peek behind the curtain.
Then you are a moron., you have a higher chance of getting mugged, as in stabbed or shot just because you are a man, that you are too stupid to know this and thereby be as scared as you SHOULD be. You think women are more sought after in the nnightlife? More mugged? More robbed and beaten? Think again. that you are not afraid is you trying to be strong. but you should be afraid as that may just be what keeps you alive. The women are not as insecure as you, you dolt. You being all whitey knightey here is just pathetic.
Don't forget to helpfully illuminate other men when you hear minimizing or dismissive comments regarding same.
BTW: there are quite likely women in your life who can share their insights.
If you are walking around at night alone without fear you're an idiot. It's not because you're a man its because you're an idiot.
lool you are hopeless .. way beyond help
Um...the subtitles say "men" instead of "vans" at 2:39.
I honestly can't tell if it was intentional.
A lot of the women I have ever had any personal conversations with have told me at least one story about how they were followed home, and/or stalked, and/or abused, and/or raped, at least once.
It didn't matter their age, level of attractiveness, appearance, race, or anything.
It has to stop.
We’re all going to die.
Now before you say *and?* , let me tell you this; people will die. Thousands of people are born and thousands of people will die.
I was assaulted by my landlord in my own home. He came over to check out the ceiling that was completely wrecked, and mold in the cupboards. He started yelling and gaslighting me. I kicked him out of the apartment and told him to never come back or I would call the police. I live by myself, so for months I was scared that he would come back or that I would get kicked out of my apartment. There is a really gnarly power dynamic at play here, but to add to that he is a man and I am a woman. Only thinking about “should I go to the police?” gives me headaches. I have been walking this earth for long enough to know that there is no justice here. Even if I were to go to the police, what would the best possible outcome be? I would probably lose my home.
He hasn’t come by ever since and the company that my landlord is a part of generally leaves me alone, but the fact that this is “normal” (it’s not), and it still scares me, and that it scares me to stick up for myself and kick him out for assaulting and disrespecting me, makes me really sad. What if he does decide to rape me/attack me/etc.? What then?
@@fleurjoesten sweet mercy....a bunch of over-privledged, entitled, white women crying and virtue signaling about how they love to "play the victim"
@@fleurjoesten you gotta put him in jail. Stop him from hurting you or anyone else. For the few months he'll likely get, at least... (if anything) 😪
I just stopped and realized that that's been my experience too! Huh, what girls do I know that that hasn't happened to?
Here is another way to explain it, not all bees will sting you, but you are wary of all bees now.
If you have a container of strawberries, and one is poisoned, you probably won't eat any of them.
Wrong animal. It was my little sister that taught me that bees can crawl all over you before they realise you're not a flower and move on, just let them get on with it.
You know as much about bees as you do men, ie very little.
@@johnbull1568 And another one outs himself! :D
If only rapists’ penises fell off like bees’ stingers.
@@rosep4630 and then they died as well
“This ain’t a girl group. We just travel in a pack for safety.”😂
I just got to that part as I read it
I. Wynn Wynn what the fuck?
@I. Wynn Wynn STFU TRIGGERED 7 YEAR OLD
@@hotdogpepper8410 lol
@I. Wynn Wynn No I'm not doing that and you're fucking stupid
In kindergarten I remember a man telling me he watched me get dressed every morning. I wish I told someone instead of taking it as a compliment
Sound he could have trying mess with you .
@@smartass0124 yeah but still a pretty creepy comment to make on a six year old
@@smartass0124 if you think that's okay there's probably something wrong with you
@@justaperson1998 scaring for sake of scaring 😂😂😛😛😛
@@smartass0124 you’re sooooo close to understanding why it was icky, and yet so far. A grown man is scary saying that sort of thing to a 5 year old because… you’re almost there, sound it out if you need to…!
The relevancy of this pisses me off so bad. This sketch originally aired years ago and we haven't taken even a half a step forward. #reclaimthestreets
God, i was just thinking that. And its so sad
Right now we are going at the rate of a toddler with a broken leg when we should be at the rate of usain bolt
its bee 4 years these things take TIME
wait.. were we supposed to go forward? cuz its lookin like we're takin some steps back, which is never a good thing
We can't even be bothered to take Rape Allegations from MULTIPLE WOMEN as being a serious enough issue to block a man from becoming President.
So yeah...if anything it's gotten worse in many ways.
HOWEVER....I WILL say that there IS a growing understanding among more guys about Consent. That there IS more Anti-Rape stuff.
UNFORTUNATELY, the ones in Power & Influence are STILL Pro-Rape, which is the real problem. Can't make progress when you have people in Power saying "We CANNOT Police Masks....but we can Police Girls Clothing!"
So my hope is in the Younger Generations.
I mean even a decade at this Anime Convention I went to, I could tell people were able to understand and take rape seriously. With the Popularization of "Cosplay is Not Consent" Signs, as a Primary Example.
But it will take DECADES before us younger generations are able to gather in large enough numbers with enough power to BEGIN to make a difference.
When one of them said “I go like this so he’ll think ‘she’s not worth the trouble’” that hurt. it had never really struck me the absurd situations women have to put themselves through in order to avoid harassment. Welcome to hell, indeed.
I didn't understand that part very well :'c, sure she looks "weird" when ahe starts spinning around, but how does that prevent harrasment?
Well what I actually meant is if the goal of doing that is to make it look like she has some kind of issue and banish the stalker
It seemed sad to me too, but under that reasoning, and I'd like to corroborate if that is what really happened
@@nicoleisabelvillenabustill5770 I used to take public transportation and I had to be "crazy" on purpose more times than I can count. I remember one time, when I was 17 or so, I was sitting in my seat, minding my own business, and this older, creepy gross dude kept looking at me and licking his lips and winking at me. It was very disturbing. So what did I do? Started to "bash" my head against the window and yell. That stopped him really quick and he moved to the front of the bus.
This actually used to be taught to women as a rape-prevention strategy: Act crazy, eat grass, urinate on yourself. I'm not kidding.
Some men think these events are “ “extremely rare” but I have more than two friends who have experienced a form of harassment; I’m 12
@Balmung Barbossa Maybe you should know the situation before you judge it.
I was sexually assaulted twice by the time I was your age. I'm 44 now. It breaks my heart that nothing has changed.
children get harassed too people
I don't get why guys can go on and say "this is rare" just because they or their friends have never harassed a girl or guy before.
And suprise suprise, they din't say "all men" in this video, neither do all girls.
And neither are you 100% of men's population are you?
Sounds terrible, I really hope it wont happen to them anymore!
Having to tell your teen daughters things like “scream, go for the eyes & never ever get in the car!” IS hell.
why never get in the car?
@@shreyaranjan6200I think with a stranger. Don’t get in the car with a stranger.
@@_letstartariot oh! I thought it meant never get in your car😅
Can verify. Telling your young teen girls how to avoid abduction & rape is traumatic for mom & daughters.
My mom had the same talk with me. Also taught me the key thing.
A friend was drunk. He didn’t do anything, but he overpowered me in a “joking” scuffle and took things too far. That made me realize that the men around me aren’t “safe”.
I had a very sobering moment with someone I trusted.
And what’s sad is he doesn’t even know what he did, doesn’t even think about it.
This would be funny if it wasn’t so accurate it’s scary
I know it's so common in Scotland.
I was fixing a car . And a cross the street. Wearing a kilt no Underwear. Had his legs open.
And worse the guy walked over to shame me for staring
i think its funny because its accurate.. at least it doesnt get sugar coated for once
@@Hi-hg4bg something tells me your "complements" end with a "bitch why won't you sleep with me? "
@@user-vz5lw2pu8t no, I'm saying this song DOESN'T apply to many men at all. I've said it once and I'll say it again, NOT ALL MEN ARE RAPISTS!!
@@Hi-hg4bg What is your point??? Yes not all men are rapists but this song clearly refers to these men. Quit it. If this song offends you, you're part of the problem.
I know this is irelevant but I love their freaking outfits
i know right? lol.
Omg ikr I love that girls long blonde ponytails
@@teatime8974 Her name is Saoirse Ronan!
We love a pastel moment
Christina Kefela Thanks! uwu
"My dad gave me a pink gun, so... there's a lot there" is an incredible line. This skit was too good for SNL
2:08 Thank 👏 you 👏 Leslie 👏 and 👏 SNL 👏. Not a lot of people point out the shitty racism that’s tangled into the disgusting ball of sexism, so props to you for including that.
“Nothing good happens in a van” - so true
th-cam.com/video/PfabKcoGFmE/w-d-xo.html
Woa woah woah what about ice cream and food trucks
@@edwardmccabe5447 th-cam.com/video/-U_IRXhodds/w-d-xo.html
@@edwardmccabe5447 not an issue since they are trucks not vans
I’m scared of vans actually 😂
*~If you’re offended you’re part of the problem~*
Oh, a MRA who only ever speaks about men's issues when he can derail a conversation about women's issues. So new & genuine! Wanna talk about your "hard work" to raise awareness for Movember, male suicide rates & mental health, workplace safety, Lgbt+ and POC men's struggles, disabled men, homeless men, and incarceration so far?
Or maybe about how famous MRAs rallied together to call Common (and Terry Crews) a "pussy" when he gathered the courage to speak out about being sexually assaulted?
Or about how Fidelbogen, writer for A voice for Man, literally said: "We need a movement that shelves men's issues or male rights, and focus narrowly on pulling apart feminism"?
Oh, my bad, you couldn't care less about men who are acutally suffering, nvm. You're more interested in selling us a brainless documentary that was endorsed by the former Knights of the KKK leader David Duke & produced by convicted rapist Cernovich who said date rape doesn't exist. Surely the right guy to preach to about others about awareness, but whatever, boomer.
@Manophire. com I want to reply to your points, but I'm having trouble.
"Out of such a hug charry tree to pick from the highest number they charry pick is 100"
I try not to dunk on people for poor grammar and spelling, usually assuming that English isn't their first language and I can't write in any other language to save my life, so who am I to judge? But....if your goal is to get a point across, to make arguments and have people listen to you, you have to communicate in an effective manner. You're not doing that.
Oh shut up
I'm not part of the problem
The only reason I'm not offended is because they've made other videos which imply that it's not always the man, in isolation, this is pretty offensive to a person who's never done this before, also it's funny
“Playing this guess who,” that’s the most perfect description I’ve ever heard
Alot of guys in this comment section throwing up some real red flags.
Exactly what all oppressors through history said. About anyone critizing them
Like Mr Pick Me here...
Anyone else do the 'keys in the knuckle,' thing?
Shhh don't let our little secret out
No, but I will now
I have a self defense rod that's sharp at the end attached to my keys, so it's like a double defense/attack. Luckily I haven't had to use it yet, but I won't jinx it.
Yep
Cause you can’t hide shit in woman’s pockets
When I was assaulted, my mom acted like it was something that was inevitable. She only looked at me in pity, and said, “Oh? It finally happened?” That’s when I knew something was wrong with the world.
Since I got boobs is optimistic, if you look at the statistics, you’ll cry
@@kcinara men's against is actually extremely rare .4Digit thousands out of Tens of millions.
Astrid Elara I'm so sorry to hear that.....I wish we lived on a safer Earth,for both women and children.
I’m so sorry that happened to you and I feel really hurt for you about what your mom said, just know I feel for you. May God Bless you and keep you safe at all times in the name of Jesus. You are in my prayers \8/
Oh my god you poor thing!!! I’m so, so sad for you. That’s fucked. That’s not okay.
do y’all also police yourself in public so nothing you do comes off as “sexual”?? i find myself constantly going over how i look and what im doing so i wont put out any signals or seem like im “asking for it”.
I did for a while before I realized they're just gonna do it no matter what. I had just turned 18 when this 40 something man approached me as it was getting dark asking me out and i kept saying no and I was sat there freaking out for 30-40 minutes because people who walked by ignored us. I was wearing a full chef's uniform. Now I wear what I want and carry things for self-defense.
When I was wearing my cosplays to my school I would ask that to myself but it never changed, I still wear em and anyone who wants to call it "sexual" can burn
I have stopped policing my body and what I wear. I drive everywhere so I’m unsure if I’d be so liberated if I had to take public transportation. I would be worried all the time and always looking over my shoulder if I had cleavage showing.
I still do this. but in many ways I've also relaxed on this. like I'll stop being so self conscious as I'm getting older (only 20 btw so not old yet lol) cuz I'm just....so damn tired. but that's not even much. and I notice I only started doing it in the presence of a male friend that I'm super comfortable with and know aren't creeps. or when I'm in a safe environment. But generally, I still police myself. and even with male associates or friends, I try to never give any signal ever. clarify always, etc. because I've had many fake "friends" when their intention was more than that.
@@imalwaysboredhelp I've found that I get approached more when I'm in professional clothing (literally me just looking neat and nice in that work pants and blouse). sometimes I wear makeup, other times I don't. doesn't matter. nothing revealing. in fact, I cover more skin when I dress professionally (don't worry, I love it! I like the outfits a lot) than when I'm dressing casual or to go out. if you look nice, you look nice. don't matter.
in my country, they have this slang called pop-down where you would look terrible. raggedy, not trying. like if you had messy hair and slacks and weren't dressed nicely. I purposely dressed like this a few times so I can do my shopping in peace or not get bothered when I went to uni...didn't stop a damn thing.
The worst part is every woman I’ve ever talked to has said they got harassed more from ages 10-17 than as an adult 🙄 (Most with kids also tell me there’s a sudden sharp uptick in adulthood while you’re pregnant so we all got that to look forward to.. ughhhhh). Its all horrifying.
As a boy been harassed by girls and women. I guess .it's a badge of honor for guy so I don't hold to annoying feelings if I remember them at all
@@osmosisjones4912 what kinda harassment? (Just curious to know)
@@user-scorp7 sexual
Yeah I think it’s a power thing, girls are less likely to defend themselves or even totally realize how inappropriate it is compared to women. Some men are actual pedophiles but I think many of them mostly get off on making girls uncomfortable and getting away with it. Disgusting.
I've had this happen when walking my dog in a residential neighborhood, when walking with my 11 yo sister, when I had four young children under the age of 6 with me. Honestly, I think the more vulnerable a woman appears, the more likely it is to happen.
One of my customers pulled my hair and my supervisor couldn’t understand why I was so upset.
Sorry about those fucking clowns that commented m8. That sucks
Manophire.com where the fuck did she say she hates all men.
@Manophire.com welcome to hell.
@Matt Smith imagine being as dumb as you. She clearly doesn't want a haircut. Men should just have common decency. That's like me telling your ugly ass "just be good looking, she'll like you then."
@Manophire.com getting sexually harassed and trying to speak up about it = hating men
Don't we love the misogynists revealing themselves in the comments?
Yeah it's great, you can have a good laugh at most of the idiots and then feel depressed at humanity when you see the really vile ones.
At least equality seems to be winning in the real world
That's _Mister_ ogynists! Harrumph.
@James Miller I'm more speaking casually, as in, I hate the societal group, culture, and effects of men. Few individual men would I describe my feelings about as hatred (though I do hate more men than women). I'm more referencing misogyny, but the actual comment was something along the lines of "why do you hate men" so I was mostly throwing back that at that person, though I fully detest mysogny and a lot of aspects and side effects of men-specifc culture and the effects. I hate that. Kinda like saying you hate Mexican food because it makes you sick, but not saying you hate Mexican people, to simplify it down. I'm very tired right now so if that's not incredibly clear or super well explained, apologies. I feel indifference towards most men, and have grown up with more male friends than female my entire life. But I've always had to deal with more racism, sexism, and homophobia from those friends than my female ones, not that that reflects on all men, but from a young age, men have had me tired of their bullshit, simply put. Again, literally a child so I can't say how verifiable or reasonable that actually is, but men have always given me grievances that aren't necessary or morally defend-able, partially because of toxic masculinity and the culture around raising boys vs girls, etc, etc, so I'm not particularly endeared towards men, whereas I'm much more sympathetic to women, but still willing to "destroy a bitch", so to speak. There's a lot on both sides, to be honest, and I'm not going to allow someone's sex from causing me to go soft handed on them. I've actually had that happen with men, which I won't explain because it was not a pleasant experience, but I do try to not allow sex of a person to alter my sense of judgement of them and their actions, or try and find an actual reason for why one's sex may change my perception. Like, higher rates of tramua, abuse, mannerism, pretences, etc.
As a psychology student, freudian slips are actually not super verifiable because the depend on a un-measurable subconscious, so I wouldn't ask people on the internet about that. I'm not fully interpreting your comment right now because I'm half awake, but that's alreadly highly unlikely to exists.
Oh, and I'm agender. I don't have a gender expression, essentially, though because of my physical appearance I am treated as one sex. I've never really considered myself either, sorry.
I’m not a misogynist, I just like 2:51, they always make me 1:33
@@Shadows-RC I think you're just reading too much into that mess. If you want to think of everyone as drops on the ocean, that's fine, but that doesn't make it so. Your argument is just begging the question there.
I have no issue with my sex, I just don't really experience gender, which is a social construct. Like not having a favorite food or being unable to taste things that are sour, I wouldn't describe myself as man or woman, simply just a person. The things that make me me are not inherently related to gender and I don't attribute them to that and so I basically don't expirence gender. My sex is biological and completely logical in my mind, and does have an effect on me and my perception of the world, so it doesn't bother me and I accept my sex. I don't feel the need or want to change it, and the fact you equate me not being cis to that just shows you don't understand what I'm talking about from the get go. Also, you sound sarcastic and bit transphobic so I'm not even gonna acknowledge it as part of your argument past that.
I think you're self projecting to say I don't see men as humans and have no empathy. I said "see the misogynists in the comments" and people went "Men! Why do you hate men?!" and I immediately went "So you think all men are misogynistic? All I said was misogynists, not men itself." and for someone reason explained my gender to further the conversation. I didn't call for men to be executed, I didn't call for men to be second class citizens, I said I hated the patriarchal system that has resulted in what we have today, including this song and a multitude of other issues. If you're somehow implying that men need to be better/in control/not have their unjust social status and systems challenged to be human, you're just misogynistic yourself. You're not some mystical Oracle come to lecture me about enslaving men through comments on TH-cam, just say what you want and go. Be plain about it so I can just call you what you are and go. It's not that hard.
I'll take the bear.
This hits a little differently after the news in the UK this week. #justiceforSarah
ya, my rage is basically uncontainable
Wait, what happened? I don’t live in the UK, sorry.
@@hugomanrique4763 A woman, Sarah Everard, was walking home at night when she was abducted and murdered by a police officer. The anger came from the fact that she had done everything ‘right’; she was wearing bright clothing, walking down well lit streets, was on the phone to her boyfriend and she was murdered by someone who should have been trusted; a police officer
Watching this now after hearing the news about the currently missing TH-camr girl, Gabby Petito. This song is unfortunately always going to be relevant isn’t it? 😞😞
For all the men saying this is an exaggeration,,,I wish it was. I really really wish it was.
Leena 3771 I know there are dudes saying that it’s extremely rare and stuff. Like I wish it was rare but it has happened to so many people
@@amelier430 and those reports where Peale LOOKING AT FRICK ING PEAPLE
Yeah um I’m 12 and I don’t like walking alone. I walk briskly and constantly look around. I get it from my mom and I’m honestly glad she has taught me how to be prepared.
I'm pretty sure they think it's exaggerated because IT MOST LIKELY NEVER HAPPENED TO THEM!
Not only that, how often do you see a woman or girl talk about this subject openly and that to men? Most prefer to stay silent about it.
It is
Sent this to a sexist guy in my class. He stopped talking to me... SCORE
Ava Kletti
👍 💯 points !
@Manophere. com watching grown ass people argue over nothing in youtube comments is the best. thx for making my day
@Manophere. com Yes, if a woman doesn't want to hear you fantasizing over her she shouldn't have to. Save that shit for someone you know. It's tacky to get that personal with a woman up front. That's been the case for a very long time and you have to be an actual TRASHMAN to behave like the dudes they are talking about in this song. WOMEN ARE TELLING YOU THAT THEY DON'T LIKE IT, why the fuck won't your dumb ignorant ass listen?
Manophere. com I’m sorry but ur English sucks. I think it’d be best for all of us if your dumb ass would shut the fuck up
@Manophere. com dont use marvel to justify or relate your sexist crap if they existed in our world steve rogers would beat the crap outta you.
My "little trick" when I was being followed home from work at 12am? ... I threw myself on the ground and started faking a seizure. He got scared and ran away. Sad that this is the reality for the majority of women in America.
Yet when start avoiding you you still get angry .
Shut up wdym majority
I cant help but feel Gerwig got some inspiration for the Barbie movie from this
this is one of those rare sketches thats hilarious but also super real and on point. lowkey its genius
@@jackfrost9512 dude chill
@@massimoserafini4999 Jack Frost is right, however. It is a moronic sketch..
Jack Frost I can absolutely understand where you are coming from. Although I am a female, I know there is some huge feminist bullshit out there and false accusations that could ruin your life. But these things do happen and way too often, we just need better people and representatives that aren’t crazy SJW feminists. We also have to remember that there are extremes on both sides
Teshura Rose this is the least funny video I’ve ever seen
Look at the two guys comments on your thread, enough said.
When I watched Despicable Me 2 for the first time, all I could think was how useful that lipstick taser would be for me. I was 13 when I watched it.
Same. Age & all
they exist!
Same. Except I was 9.
I’m only 12 and whenever I go to a big city I bring a knife
I'm so sorry that so many young girls had the same experience :((
Insane how I keep coming back to this sketch because it keeps being relevant
No it just keeps reinforcing memes that help you erase rapes inflicted on the male-assigned which is why SNL's favourite dead-eyed TERF features prominently.
lame
Here's hoping for the time when it is no longer relevant. Maybe in our lifetime, maybe...
"History keeps repeating itself"
Sucks to be you.
Kinda weird that we were taught to fear witches and not the men who burned them at the stake.
Because they were afraid. If your offended by that your guilty
@@Smartass012 Irrational fear has caused a lot of problems.
@@Smartass012 they weren't afraid lmfao they just hated women. The so called witches were tried and executed for things like being poor, not being poor enough, having too many kids, having too few kids, being able to read. Are we really going to defend people who burned women at the stake and threw them off cliffs by saying they were afraid of some of the most powerless people in their society ohhhh my god
@@nathanmccoy9188 don't you want punish people for having to many kids. Bill Gates what's to save the planet by releasing Small pox
@@Smartass012 go away redpill cosby
Being a woman is like playing among us all the time. Sure, not everyone's the killer, but at least one is, and that means you have to be suspicious of everyone you meet and know, even your own family. Not all men, but one man is enough to hurt you.
That was a perfect comparison 😬
Yup.
Oh come on
That's this mindset which brings trouble
Being careful is a good thing, being paranoiac isn't
@@PLAKIPLAKI14 And, of course, as a guy, you would perfectly know how we, as women, should act.
@@pixiexmanic oh my godddddd, by that logic everyone should fear everyone always because all it takes is one bad seed to ruin anyone’s life. It’s not even a woman thing at that point, it’s people fearing for their lives. I’m a guy who HAS gotten raped BY A WOMAN and I don’t hate women like you women seem to so spitefully hate so many men. Because I’m a guy, people think it’s funny every single time I’ve ever opened up about it. So I CAN put myself in your shoes, except the way women treat men nowadays is fucked up, and it doesn’t fix anything.
I was 9 when I experienced my first sexual harassment. I have a 9 year old kid of my own now, and I have realized how young that actually is.
@balance.of.the.sexes I keep seeing your comments on this video. Nothing wrong with that, it's just cool to me that I found the same person's comments more than once.
Deidre Westover tbh nobody care go get a life
@Manophire.com she meant from an older man
Manophire.com ya but the difference is girls grow out of that behavior and boys don’t
#metoo
To deliver such a dark and sad reality for our women and girls in such a catchy song is a stroke of friggin genius! I remembered when one of my cousins was sexually assaulted 😢😢😢 we cried for her! It was awful
Fucking hell, the amount of men that learned literally nothing from this video hurts.
I’m a man and I didn’t “learn literally nothing”, I learned that you got 2:51 and they make my life 1:33
there was nothing to learn in for me in the first place
Literally. Nothing. No where in this video did they say all men are bad. No where did they say this doesn’t also happen to men, but people still have to All Genders Matter this.
Virtue signaling is the wrong approach. If men are tired of hearing about sexual harassment tell your friend the next time he tells you during locker room talk about some girl he slapped on the ass that what he did was wrong. Tell your friend to stop touching women’s lower backs at clubs. Being passive is validating that behavior. I know too many guys who see inappropriate behavior and sit in the car on the way home discussing among themselves how inappropriate their friend was that night and how they’d never do that but they don’t want to actually have that discussion with that friend.
@@gordithefrog617 ok, some random nobody from utube named gordo the frog thinks I’m a bad person, and knows literally nothing about me. That cuts deep😂😂😂🤦♂️🤦♂️
@@bumpasaurus487 You probably shouldn't troll strangers when you've got a mailing address posted on your profile.
You're not doing this on other comment threads, I hope?
See, here’s the thing: in school, they tell you to seek help if you get harassed. But when you seek help for being harassed, no one believes you.
Anyone else see the problem?
@Matt Smith True Ig
@Matt Smith Obviously but if there's a claim, it needs to be investigated, which is the entire point of the MeToo movement because when there was a claim, it was never looked into, just dismissed.
I was being groped and molested and followed by the guy in the cafeteria, he was practically raping me at the table grabbing my boobs and trying to slide his hand in between my legs. This was happening in FULL VIEW of the staff table having lunch, with the teachers and principals even occasionally glancing our way. I stormed over and told them to do their jobs and do something about it. They rolled their eyes like I was being dramatic and told me not to bother them while they were eating. The boy started to follow me when I went to sit somewhere else. So I started attacking him and landed a few punches on his other two friends who were laughing. Only THEN did the teachers get their fat asses out of their seats and come to restrain ME.
The administrator who told the other teachers not to bother and made me go back was Scott Finch. He went on to work at a high school in Texas.
Yes
Exactly the same things seen.
How many sketches does Melissa say, "Oh, man!" on? It never gets old.
Haha! This is so funny! Reminds me of the time I parked three blocks away walking to meet my boyfriend, and got chased by a van full of guys who shouted out they were gonna rape me, so I ran into the front yard of a random apartment complex shouting “Dad! Get the gun!” and hid behind a hedge to make it look like I went inside. And they drove off yelling “We know where you live! We’ll be back.” Lol! I didn’t live there! But I hid for about fifteen minutes, then ran back to my car and drove home to decompress, and irritated the guy who was dating me by being almost an hour late. Oh, memories. I didn’t mention it because I was embarrassed. The experience made me feel like a goof for letting my guard down. Those were the fun times. Ain’t it a blast being young!
Wtf
I'm so proud of you for going through all of that. Have an amazingly feminine day
I know, right? Society tries to make you feel afraid of growing old, when actually if you do your homework (work body, mind and character to get better and not worse), life gets better and easier the older you are. Apparently, once you hit your 40s, your chances of being raped are reduced to less than the chances of a 15 year old boy being raped (predators go for the young). So the moment I hit 40, I decided to go out at nigh as if I were a boy. With a pepper spray, you know, because boys get violently attacked too. But at least the odds are with you after 40. So it's cool to grow older. You just have to make sure you keep doing strength exercise and eating healthily after your 30s, so as to avoid losing muscle mass, and you must continue learning so as to avoid losing mental acuity.
@@isabelguzmanmiranda5025 sweet mercy....a bunch of over-privledged, entitled, white women crying and virtue signaling about how they love to "play the victim"
You know… reading this two years later, it’s not as funny as I originally assumed. It’s kind of horrific, in fact! I guess I was just used to that sort of thing happening when I was young. But looking back now- “lol” might have been the wrong reaction.
this reminds me of the time i was going to a school event and a couple of girls were just wearing shorts (not even super short ones), and my dad said, "all of these girls wear such revealing clothing and then complain about getting raped". i was FOURTEEN (14) at the time and my DAD said that to me, his DAUGHTER. it just makes me scared - i feel like if i get sexually harassed in the future, he'll probably say it's my own fault. honestly disgusting.
Edit: This is in 2022, and since then my dad has definitely changed :) he has been educated and i love him so much
Ask him how does he then explain fathers who rape his own daughters or people who rape toddlers. Seriously - ask him in a calm manner how does he respond since you remember he said that thing to you. Ask him is he aware how are women dressed when they get raped (google that, you will be shocked). No one is above being questioned when they say something like this. Come back to me for any statistical or factual support, I am a psychologist who specializes in sexual assault.
S Y D N E Y jesus christ that’s horrible. I’m sorry
@Matt Smith Lol why were you at a titty bar then? That is like the entire point of them.
Austin Michael the workers are there to put on a show and dance, not get touched inappropriately
It means your dad doesn't respect women and was probably a creep in his day. Luckily not all men are dicks. Find some nicer ones
"Oh, and this ain't a girl group - we just travel in a pack for safety" LMAO
Misandry:
noun
dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against men (i.e., the male sex).
"her brand of feminism is just poorly disguised misandry"
Adam A
Off-topic
Adjective and adverb
not relevant to the subject under discussion.
"his second comment is entirely off-topic"
Adam A Not untrue
Currently Unavailable less true but i get what your saying to XD
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Type in off-topic in Google, I didn't even have to make the example up.
I saw a comment that is now deleted that said something to the affect “Aidy and Leslie are ugly so no one would bother them, and the others are only harassed because they’re famous” I wish it was left up because people need to know what kind of ignorance there is in the world. I was FLOORED.
i showed this to my dad and he said "this is just unpleasant" like dad....... you think the truth is unpleasant? your daughter has to deal with all this.
I had to deal with homelessness for years paying child support for a daughter I didn't even want the first place until she murdered on the street and now I'm free from slavery 😅
@@smartass0124 that’s horrible
@@lemonblossom0 go never went through homeless . Forced to support an ungrateful child who Hates you .
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New Jersey became number 1 in reducing chronic homelessness 2 years after ending life time alimony.
Child support can endanger the man's life .
And unlike fetuscide the Troli argument doesn't ..even though terminating a pregnancy defeats the purpose of male disposablity.
So men have to pay child support but When can have your tubes tied
How Would feel if a male voter base voter you couldn't have your tubes tied an when had to be held their responsibilities.
So can you give One good reasons.
Men should care what go through
@@smartass0124 very sorry that happened to you. Hope you’re doing well now
I remember showing this to my dad and he’s like “I think they’re exaggerating” like ........ dude
Yes they I even try dressing like woman and making my face more feminine just so could get some positive attention. And most got guys smiling at me saying high. That's still more then ever got as a man.
I guess when your privileged the privilege it self feels like oppression
Smart dad
@@smartass0124 What privilege? Getting raped? Getting catcalled? Getting harassed? Please tell me because i am honestly confused, and before you answer me learn how to write so i can understand you the first time
@@isabelasolari3261 I would think so you get to much of it you don't appreciate what you have
@@smartass0124 so you really think those things are something to be happy and thankful about? Dude get yourself some therapy because you really are out of your mind
the “been worrying about this since we got boobs” line is so spot on. i remember being twelve and getting felt up on a bus, i felt disgusting, just paralyzed by fear. you feel so helpless as a woman, because no matter what you do, no matter how careful you try to be, you always know that if a man really wanted to assault you, he could just overpower you and do it. i think about it’s every time i go out in public, and the emotional weight we as women carry is indescribable.
Have ever bean drafted has your. Great grand left behind on titanic based on her gender alone. If get divorce are one pays alimony and child support. Or one getting alimony and child support. And is you faced with homeless. And blamed for pro creating with women then. Put down as incel for avoiding. Is it you who's guilty to proven innocent. . or then one who can make false accusations. . are you the one expected make first movie on something of interest. And the attention men dream about from women.
I guess when privileged one moment of being uncomfortable really stands out in your memory. Really the very fact worse that happen to a woman is rape means women don't go through much
@@smartass0124 1: i am in the military. 2; i invite you to experience sexual assault and “not go through much” and come back and repeat that. obviously court cases should be handled on a case by case basis. incels regularly advocate for the genocide of women. getting catcalled at 12 is not “positive attention that men dream of”. i advocate for the rights of all homeless people regardless of their gender. i’ll blame the poor phrasing of your arguments on the fact that it doesn’t seem like english is your first language, but jeez, i can barely tell what you’re saying beyond the copypasta MRA bullshit. please go out into the real world.
@@kaiabater3415 it be some relief from constantly getting shot at. Wounds getting infected. All hard military stuff. But what would you know. They lower the standards so more can make it. But yeah I'd like that relief you complain about. I won't tell if no one ask😉
@@smartass0124 i literally don’t understand what you’re trying to say. have you passed a FORCE test? everyone is held to the same standards.
A man can't overpower you if you beat his ass first ;) but yeah, i used to feel alright, but now I get strangers approach me in public to ask me out or try to pay for my purchases, and I just don't like that they literally don't know me, and have to be basing it off looks alone. I guess in a way it's flattering, but I'd rather be appreciated for, ya know, myself (plus I have a boyfriend). But seeing that, I do get worried that some guy will overreact or something when I decline, plus you hear so many stories of sex trafficking and things like that, that is still a major problem that people are shedding light on, but not really fixing. I don't like people or crowds anyway, and I am a bit prone to anxiety, but I hear about so much and there's so little people are doing, ESPECIALLY on college campuses (mine, at least). Theres a whole Instagram account for students who have experienced harassment to anonymously speak, and too many of those stories mention how the dean was super unsupportive, like "well why didn't you fight back?" or how the assailant got their family involved, and they applied pressure to yhe school with lawyers so they can just walk away with a slap on yhe wrist. Sometimes the victim changes schools because so little was done, but the other person gets to stay. I honestly believe if you want fewer politicians/people with power who sexually harassed or assaulted women in the past, their schools (where a lot of it happens) should ACTUALLY punish them and even report them to legal authorities so they have a record and their futures might get messed up and they can't gain power. Don't commit crimes if you don't want the consequences. But anyyyywayyy, at the very best, it's annoying as hell trying to work outside and some asshole drives past multiple times and yells every time, or just having people honk or yell things like hey baby while you're out there sweating and doing physical labor. Like I'm gross and hot, leave me alone in my own damn yard. At the very worst, it's a serious problem that very little is being done to help. I used to not really believe it was so common, and theeeeeen I started college and it's impossible to not know someone who has had a problem, and they aren't all happening at frat parties either. And theeeeen my younger sister was physically assaulted by her ex because she broke up with him. She is about 5'11", but he was 6'5" at LEAST and massive. She wasn't hurt physically besides some bruises, but guys need to get it out their minds that they can just overpower or control a girl. I had to end a friendship because he argued that my widowed mom is incapable of taking care of my sisters and I, because that's a "man's job" and women have their own jobs and can only do those. I've always hated being thought of as weak, so yeah, my goal is to be able to take down at least an average man, possibly end his life, should I ever find myself in a bad situation. There are plenty of great guys and most of my friends actually are guys, but you're scum if you think you personally have the right to control another person, physically or mentally. Men OR women, because some women are just as nasty about control. It is sad to think so many women have people close to them who have been sexually harassed or assaulted. Of course we carry those stories around anytime we go out late, or are alone, and it really doesn't feel like an overreaction to carry a knife or pepper spray at all times.
I'm sorry my comment is so long, but after what my "friend" said about my mom and what happened to my sister, among other things, I am seriously upset. On the bright side, all this anger is motivating me to get in shape :)
For everyone thinking "But not all men..." let me put it like this, if a wasp stings you, you will be wary of all wasps, even though not all wasps will sting you. If someone you know is stung by a wasp and tells you about it, you will be wary of all wasps, even though not all wasps will sting you.
(Normally people say bees but I used wasps because they can sting you and not die)
This is perfect
This should play in every sex offenders jail cell at full blast for eternity
i chuckled when Kate showed her keys...but then realized it wasn't just because it was funny, but also because i can relate so much. then i got sad. that's literally how i walk home, and i have a whistle for a keychain.
Pau Art The part about the pink gun was the funniest to me. I’m very creeped out by the way we make self defense weapons “cute.” I have mace on my keychain for safety, not fashion. I don’t want it to be immediately obvious to someone so that they snatch it out of my hands immediately.
The fact that these items are common enough to be accessorized and made more “girly” is fucked up.
QueenRedRosemary Not really its for money and some girls COUGH most girls Ike pink. So why not?
Holding your keys like that is very dangerous, you got lucky. The keys in your palm can cause your hand to break as your punch connects and the keys between your fingers can slide around, slicing your hand and putting you at risk of exposure to any bloodborne illnesses you assailant may have.
@@mztikrainflower NO THEY DON'T PUNK BETA!
Miss. King Emery Okay partner but they do as I have female friends and my older sister has Female friends more than me actually and... most of them really like Pink
Still trying to find the part of the video that accuses all men of harassment. Months have gone by and it still never presents itself. Strange.
It is probably targeted to Indian men who chase blonde female tourists who arrive there xD
IN FACT, she mentions her dad gave her a pink gun, so it says the opposite. It's saying definitely no, not all men, but the good ones KNOW how bad it is for women.
@@stinkyjoe4720 Well, as she says, "there's a lot there" -- her dad gave her a gun, which means that he thinks that she needs one, but he got her a PINK one, which means that they sell pink guns that are clearly marketed to women in the first place, and also that he probably thought he needed to make it cute for her because maybe he wouldn't be interested in a standard one, so he's trying to protect her but he's also condescending to her, and...
@@stinkyjoe4720 Somehow...I've been wondering for minutes about the story behind your name. Who is "Stinky Joe"? Is that a nickname you've given yourself or a nickname schoolmates have given you? But...most importantly, why is Joe stinky? I've got so many questions...
That's because there's no such part.
All the video does is explain what women have had to live with for thousands of years.
The only ones seeing an accusation in that are those guilty of harassment, or worse.
I hadn’t thought about this song in years. Then tonight I was at the grocery store and a guy started following me around, at one point came up behind me and stuck his hand in my face, then later followed me down another aisle and grabbed my wrist. I told the manager but didn’t stick around to see what happened since I was so shaken up. While walking home this song popped up in my head. So spot on.
Kate McKinnon's ' And this is how I walk home at night. Rawwrr' always makes my day🤣💀
For the guys who don’t understand why ponytails are ruined- you are WAY more likely to be targeted by someone if you have long hair or a ponytail BECAUSE it makes you easier to hold onto and grAb to drag away.
Didn’t know boys over the age of 5 still pulled hair. It’s a good way to deal with a bad hair day or keep hair out of our face when exercising, running errands, etc
@@dazzlestarcannon9728 and if it tails under the arms?
Yeah, I guess it puts into perspective that I got that straight away but had to explain it to my guy friend
Coke i think, for yours, girls, needed vikings helmets with horns.... instead of ponytails
HOH ! -th-cam.com/video/K-MmIt2ogqc/w-d-xo.html
Remembered. :)
Is this the world now? But here's a little secret that every woman knows:
Oh, it's BEEN the damn world!
Angela Hyewon Jang
It’s at the beginning of the song
Angela Hyewon Jang it’s literally the song dumbass
VIII Maus suuure. I agree that it is not one gender that gets harassed, but saying men have had it worse is just... UGH YOU HAVE NO CLUE
VIII Maus I’m done with your ignorance
VII Maus That is such a distorted view of history. History we are taught is mainly focused on the male side of the story, not the female. Did you know that women were beat my police and thrown out of their houses whe they fought for their rights? One women even got trampled by a horse for us, but no one knows her. Women have had the horrible factory condition jobs in malls and other places, while men got the better, cleaner areas (not to mention the boss sexually assaulting you). There is so much history that is drowned out and made to look like women had it so easy, but that's the furthest from the truth
Roe v Wade just got turned over today... This literally popped up on my feed after watching a video about dandelions and catears.
It's like they made it this skit today. Why. WHY DOES THIS KEEP HAPPENING?!?
the 21k dislikes are all alpha males who can't stand reality.
Or living in objective reality .
SNL Women: So this thing that often happens to us doesn't feel great and --
Not All Men: STOP EXPRESSING YOUR FEELINGS AND THOUGHTS HERE ARE ALL MY FEELINGS AND THOUGHTS.
SNL Women: But we never said all men anything --
Not All Men: ALSO HERE IS SOME MISPLACED AGGRESSION AND CONFUSION. CALM DOWN I'M NOT UPSET YOU'RE UPSET STOP BEING UPSET.
And the internet spins madly on.
FallOutGirl86 preach that sweet gospel girl!!
😂...😭
Lol im picturing this as a south park episode now... it might already be one...
almost as if when your really aggressive towards someone who hasn’t done anything they don’t tend to like it huh
tam exhibit A
I’m a guy and I don’t get why other guys have a problem with this video? The video is shedding light on an issue that DOES happen. They aren’t saying that all men do these things or that guys are bad, just that all women have to deal with the issue. Maybe I don’t have a problem because I know I have NEVER disrespected a woman, and guys who do have a problem with the video are ones who do disrespect women?
thank you kind sir
Exactly
Guys who have problems with videos like this are the guys with issues for sure. Thank you for standing up and sharing. It matters (:
I really hate the puritans :)
Thank you. Your comment gives me hope.
I’m 63. I’ve been thru a lot with this crap. Just when you start thinking you are person, a stranger comes along, grabs your tits and now you’re nothing.
My first sexual assault happened when I was 12. I developed big boobs very quickly. My elderly male neighbour stopped me on the street, prodded me three or four times in my right breast with a pound of butter saying “That’s a fine pair of breasts you have there”. That’s the most PG example I can offer.
What the absolute fuck.......
😡🤮
I never get harassed by men. I also never leave my room.
I leave my room, but I've never gotten harassed. I never had to worry about stuff like that. I didn't realise that stuff like that was a problem until I reached adulthood...
People mostly mistake me for a pre-pubescent boy, even though I'm a woman. That's probably why nobody harasses me.
Oh same, people have no chance to harass me bc even when I leave the house I wear 7 coats and carry some heavy things to hit people with.
pro tip
you are a nun, right? :)
Go to reddit friend. Or twitch. You're on youtube for that matter, have fun
"That's why your mom was/always so tired" is one of the most profound things to come out of mainstream comedy in a while. My mom's generation was like the Moses of feminism, they led us to the promised land but they didn't get to go in.
Isn't most mainstream comedy putting down the male gender.
Did you know female ferrets when in heat mate or they die of high blood pressure from high estrogen.
@@smartass0124 oh do I hear the tender warblings of that special snowflake of fragile masculinity? Soooooo sad these male victims of females standing up for themselves. Such terrible terrible sufferings. Funny how I never went to an open mic where one woman after another got up and made rape jokes. It’s almost like the basis of most comedy is male rage and then the poor precious feelings of the big brave men get hurt when they are not the positive center of any given piece of comedy.
@@KelliDunham aren't many examples of misogyny men standing up for themselves.
How being heart give women the right to hurt others especially their sons how do you know the thousands of of patriarchy isn't males standing up for themselves after millions of years. Before even homosapians or primates the vast majority of human history was hunter gather with ate socially matriarchal.
Yawn.
@@KelliDunham so your fight your nature being a good person is easy for its their nature
I need SNL to make an updated sequel to this.
This is like half of the songs on the internet-
Song: 💕✨🍬🍭
Lyrics: 💣⛓🖤💀
"Why didn't you say something babygirl?"
"Well dang double daddy, we did"
Absolute favorite line.
@@auschili well let's see when I was harassed I told my father and his response was "well, you shouldn't have been there". I was outside sitting on a bench waiting for my lift. But yes we do need help, help to stop this behaviour towards people.
@@auschili ever think you are the one who can’t see?
Not trying to start an all out war here but just think
What if this was the case?
Thinking?
Welcome to hell
Definitely not single....
@@auschili facts = brainwashing? Huh I guess we brainwash preschoolers when we teach them the alphabet too
@@auschili lmao wtf
The keys between the fingers, so you can gouge out someone's eyes.
Getting into the car super fast and locking the door in a parking lot.
When you think someone's following you, so you drive around in circles until you lose them or drive to a police station.
Mace or a taser, mace or a taser?
Having to tell little girls that older guys who compliment them with 'you're so much more mature than girls your age' are just grooming them because you unfortunately fell that crap yourself.
Drive by harassment.
Walk by harassment.
Sitting on the bus harassment.
At the grocery store harassment.
Pumping gas harassment.
Picking up meds at the CVS harassment.
Being hit on by the funeral director at my aunt's funeral, who died 5 months after a cancer diagnosis.
Welcome to Hell.
Matt Smith No one said that wtf! After that long list of harassment that's what you have to say.
@Matt Smith downplaying her experiences and trauma? You're part of the problem bud
@Matt Smith oh I just saw your other bs comments lmao, your just tryna stir shit up
@@cati896 I reported him
Sitting with your best (male) friend of 6 years and being sexually assaulted when you’re only sixteen and a virgin, welcome to hell.
In elementary school I experienced early puberty so the boys laughed and made fun of my body. When I was in middle school and walking home when this guy in a vehicle followed me and tried to take a picture of me IN FRONT OF MY HOUSE. I ran inside to tell my parents. A few years later I’d walk home from high school and see these boys in the same spot every day and they’d verbally harass us. One day it was the worst. The one boy said to me as I passed by, “If you went to our school I’d get you pregnant.” I was so scared and felt disgusting. MY MOM WAS MOLESTED BY HER GRANDFATHER UP TO ADULTHOOD. SHE HAS MAJOR PTSD NOW AND WE ARE TRYING TO GET HELP. WELCOME TO HELL.
Culturally it's male body called Gross. See how you women like walking a mile in men's shoes. The Facebook whistle blower about girls learning natural women's bodies are not naturally aesthetically pleasing either instead of taking their own advice they give to guys telling Dicks are Objectively ugly ..they go straight to ☠️ themselves.
Shows you can't walk s foot in men's shoes. I that really makes laugh
Oh my- i am so sorry to hear that
Stop the capitalization.
I was harassed by a girl when i was 12
The fact people are arguing about this in the comments further drives their point.
some men are more offended by other men being called sexual predators than they are about the fact that sexual predators exist in the first place
Danielle. That's a really good point. They direct their anger at the issue toward who they perceive to be the easier enemy to defeat: women. The same way the bad men they're defending are more likely to victimize women because they're weaker and it's more socially acceptable.
The whole core of the argument is literally semantics. If the English language had different words for "certain men" and "all men" none of this would happen.
Women talk about men (some men) harrassing them and how they're sick of not feeling safe around men (some men). Then guys are like "how dare you act like men (all men) are exactly the same and are all dangerous to be around". All these long drawn out arguments just because it's unclear whether someone is accusing ALL men or just certain assholes.
Men aren't offended by other men being called sexual predators. They're offended because they think they're having that label attached to them (and who wouldn't be pissed off at that). It's no different than when women get pissed if a guy talks about women (some women) having trouble making up their minds about things and a woman thinks he's bashing all women.
bunyip wow poor men I feel so bad boohoo
Thats a very interesting point. But there is a big sentiment that this sort of behavior applies to all men. With things like teach boys not to rape and other nonsense. Really at the end of the day people need to stop idolizing celebrities so much. It makes them untouchable to a certain extent. And when people think there will be no consequences for their actions they are more inclined to do it.
Haha. You sprouts shoukd look up NAMALT. great memes there. THING IS THOUGH: YES, ALL MEN. name a single man who had never said or done a misogynistic thing. Anyway, men CHOOSE to interpret "Xs" as "all Xs". If they're too stupid to apply logic to language, there's no helping them. Except they're actually just lying.
I’m a 28 yo guy, and I was followed home by another guy who had apparently been catcalling me for a while from a van. I caught the footage on my smart doorbell, and posted it on social media to let others in the area know. It took me 28 years to experience something like this. The response between men and women was staggering. Every single woman responded with concern and empathy. Most guys just laughed and shrugged it off. On videos like these, Men love to say shit like, “mEn aRe HaRRaSsED tOo” but when a man opens up about sexual harassment, most men are nowhere to be found. That’s the problem women in the comments are trying to illustrate, that even though both men and women experience sexual harassment, men are most likely to have never even experienced it, or completely dismiss it, even when it’s other men, and especially if it’s a woman
I hope you are well after that incident. Prayers.
Or maybe real men are not looking to be victims
so sorry you had to deal with that. :( Not ok.
@@smartass0124 something tells me you're a guy and if so you absolutely proved his point
What I've noticed is many men who are dismissive of it, but then I ask them why they stand by the girl's bathroom while their daughter uses it and the answer? "Well, I'm here in case something happens... she has to be in there alone..." Wait? I thought women were making this up.... OHHHHH! You believe it! It's just when you're with your bros, you have to be all alpha/beta male chimps in your attitudes. Gotcha.
When I was twelve, my cousin and I would sometimes have to walk past a Portuguese Social Club. The men would be gathered outside, cat calling and howling and shouting out filthy things to any girl walking by. It was terrifying, like going through a rabid pack of wolves. And the worst thing about it was how tolerated that behavior was, because, after all, boys will be boys, especially European men. It was to be expected. Did I mention we were twelve?
You should have told your parents what was happening and that you were afraid
Friday June 24th 2022.... "and again."
this is LITERALLY spot on and not an exaggeration at all. i wish i was being sarcastic.
Manophere. com I don“t know a single girl from my friend group who hasn't been sexually harassed
Manophere. com
Because they don’t want to talk about it .
@@reynhacoezy5510 or act like it stop projecting on other all women . . Not all of use as stupid as you
@@seebothways9630 oh so you victim blame. Thanks for showing who the disappointment of your family is.
@@mavel2038 what's the point of blame the logical what happened and what do with are emotional who we should be made at .
Your reason everyone think we can't think rationally and actually prevent bad things. You only think emotionally and being taken advantage of create dictatorships so you feel safe with responsibility. Some very dangerous in a democracy. Why should be IQ standards. And judgment test. To prevent people from voting in dictatorships.
I gotta say... the line about the key brass knuckles hit hard.... I didn't even think much about the fact that I've done that
Wolverine hands are a must
Right
Little of topic but my sister did that with those connect toy things in like 1st grade she was pretending to be something I guess
HeroHeart14z I've been doing that since I was about 12 years old and still do it at age 24. It's scary to walk home alone from school/work.
Don't carry your keys like that. They're not secure in that position and the moment your fist connects they'll slide around and slice up your hand, distracting you because of the pain, and putting you in danger of catching any bloodborne diseases the creep might have. Plus holding a keychain in your hand like that can actually cause you to break your hand when the punch connects.
Notice how there wasn't much laughter because in this skit, SNL got a little bit TOO real.
The lines “Hey what was that? Whew just a cat. Wait, who owns the cat?” is giving me Rachel Bloom vibes. It sounds like it could have come straight from Crazy Ex Girlfriend. 🥰
"I love ethnic girls" "ur pretty for an ethnic girl" "I'm not usually into ethnic girls"....
It's not a compliment, shut up.
@VIII Maus of course, but the video is about women's struggles
@VIII Maus we aren't blaming you, we are blaming predatory men and if you aren't a predatory man, great!
@Matt Smith too bad I'm a lesbian
VIII Maus dude no. Don’t be that man. Don’t center yourself here. I’m a man and I don’t sexually harass women but I don’t need a reward or ribbon to celebrate that. I know that this video isn’t about me. I don’t need reassurance. Women are sexually harassed way more than men and deal with bullshit much more than we ever have to think about. Acknowledge that and work to dismantle those systems of oppression because right now you’re whining about the wrong thing
@MJ Jordanson I get 100%. I’m Latino and gay and i fucking hate when white dudes hit me with that “hey papi” shit. It’s not a compliment.
Every one: I have weapons
Other girl: I spin around like I'm having a seizure
bluejellybean i prefer the use of a poisonous condom inside the vajina
It works for some guys, I acted crazy and weird when this guy told me that he was going to follow me home from the park where I was walking my dog. I kept telling him to leave me alone and I left my phone in my car which I didn't want to go to so he could see what my car looked like. Luckily my great Dane mix wasn't friendly and tried to bite him when he got too close and I acted crazy psycho enough that he said it didn't want to deal with that so yeah from my experience it works.
I taught my daughter that if she is being followed, she should drop her pants immediately and start defecating on the sidewalk while howling.
Megan Wilson me!
Esther Yogman really you have to clarify that you don't care if someone's a hermaphrodite after making that statement. It's a sad world you live in. 😔
If you feel the need to yell "not all men" you're most likely one of the men
Why are against me warning boys about dangers you
this walked so barbie could sprint
To the not all guys guys:
Listen, I know it isn't you. But there are some of them, and I can't tell the difference. Actually, you look cute and normal, but so did the guy that threatened to kill me when I said 'No, thank you' to a date. So if I'm alone, or its dark, or anything else along those lines, don't approach me. Not because you're afraid that I'm going to falsely accuse you of assault for innocently flirting, but because you're such a great guy, and you care about me as a human, and you don't want me to put me in a position where I'm afraid for my life or safety.
Maybe wait till you see me in a Starbucks in broad daylight with my friends? Thanks.
LittleLionFlower the problem I have with the "not all guys" defense is that- if it's not you- then who gives a fuck. The "good" guys I know would listen to this and go "damn I'm so sorry that's the world for you guys." They wouldn't yell "BUT NOT ME THOUGH, RIGHT?" The good guys I know marched with me at the women's March because they understood the problem- they had no reason to get defensive. Men who get defensive are probably plagued by guilt at something maybe not so respectful they did at one time. Innocent people don't take offense. We're glad you've changed but show us- don't tell us. Seriously- don't tell us cuz you sound like a jerk.
Meagan Marie That was exactly my implication. I was being ironic.
LittleLionFlower I know. And I was agreeing with you and expanding on that......... not ironically.
People react with 'not all (blank)' because it is basic human psychology. Our brains are wired to think of ourselves in a group. So when a group we see ourselves a part of is attacked we become naturally defensive.
It goes for pretty much any group. Men, women, blacks, feminists, Catholics, yodelers, anything that puts a person into the 'us versus them' mindset makes people defensive and less likely to think clearly and rationally.
I'm not saying that this makes the 'not all men' reactions automatically valid and right, just that I notice lately that there are a lot of people out there making statements starting with 'men are blank' or 'the majority of men are blank' and then immediately telling anyone who says that broadly labeling a whole group isn't a great thing as being either part of the problem or too dense to understand that even when the original statement is indeed 'men are' it doesn't mean all men.
If you don't mean all men then maybe don't make wide blanket statements about men.
The ‘not all men’ trope is getting old and tired now... sure, ‘not all men’ might have harassed a woman but I guarantee all women have experienced harassment to some degree.
Danielle Treadwell so have men? Im a gay man and ive been harrassed by a woman
it is funny how women hatr the "not all men" but use the not "all women" all the time.
@@kealanmccrarren8161 I have been harassed by gay men many times.
melvina628 yeah, thats my point. Anyone can get harrassed by anyone and people should wise up about gender and sexuality. If someone harrasses someone no matter their gender or sexuality. Its still harrassment
@@kealanmccrarren8161 Yes, harassment is harassment is the point of this video. Well done.
Awww memories 🥺 I remember the first time I was sexually harassed in middle school, I was wearing a winter jacket and ugg boots and I was terrified
:(
7 years old for me walking home from grade school
11 years old for me. Walking home from a friend's house
The relevance that this video STILL has until now is just sad lol
This made me laugh for about 30 seconds, and then I got really really sad. Still, an important message.
Manophere. com wtf did you just say
@Manophere. com Dude wtf is wrong with you- your replying to every fucking comment- all she was sa y i n g was that it was a good message about what women go through- why are you talking about collage girls-
@Katie F hey ignore him. In almost every comment he's spewing some misogynist shit.
Same. It's good. But it's not funny, only because it's true.
EXACTLY