There's actually a longer version of this video on youtube that go's into more detail. It stood out to me that he said the mom had been abusing his brother since they were kids and then stabbed him when he finally fought back. It sounds like this "lady" has been physically and verbally abusing them their whole lives. I hope him and his siblings are doing ok. It's sad how many black children grow up in such toxic environments.
Half the culture is toxic and it's darn near impossible to fix it because those who are the reason for the toxicity think that what they are doing defines blackness. The only way we as a people can rise and build greatness is that we must divorce ourselves from these ninjas and let them destroy one another.
All of us in the LGBT community are raised with the same homophobia that everyone else is. Even when not exhibited to the extreme like this ‘mother’. It takes years to dispel all the nasty vitriol assigned to us and learn to respect who and what we are. It’s a journey but once you’re on the other side, there’s nothing more amazing than being at peace with and loving yourself.
I'm glad you brought this video up because too often Black women get a pass for their homophobia. Oftentimes we get the most bigotry and antagonism from our mothers and aunties.
I love the way the young man handled his mother, he kept a calm tone. God made me who I am🌈 Love your platform continue to uplift and spread positive vibe's. Everything will get better because of your good work's.
Preach Al preach thank you for being a voice in our community!!! As a queer person and black. I am proud to have found this channel thank you!!!! Peace and blessings to you ❤
Very sad however I’m not surprised. I wish that we in the gay community would stop using expressions like “ran a train on him” if there were two or three or more as long as they are of age and consenting, there is nothing wrong with being pleasured by more than one person. Whenever we say things like this we are adding to the shock and exaggeration that those outside of our community are bringing. These are three men enjoying intimacy and no there’s nothing weird about that!!!!
Girl byyyyeeeeee u sound crazy , first of all u can pleasure yourself, secondly its an option to have more than one partner at a time. It dont matter how it’s worded or sugar coated; if u found out yo special person had trains ran on them u not gone be interested like you initially was
When people think of gays, they think of sex acts between males. It doesn't help that the majority of open gay males make video after video, glorifying casual hookups and bragging in explicit details what they did sexually. More gay people need to stop feeding into the stereotypes that being gay is just about sex, drugs and hooking up in a society where dis-eases and death is still tied to both. Nobody can tell your story better than you, so shift your focus on your humanity, your gifts, your talent and your intellect and that's when you really start educating these people.
I relate to this a lot because my mom is similar but we will never get the stage where she would even accept an invite from a husband of mine, she'd probably crumble the invitation and send me prayer messages. It's sad because I love her but hate what she stands for and it's making have toxic thoughts but seeing this video sort of inspired me to reconsider why I've changed for the worst the past few years and why I've become toxic. I know this is deeper than it needs to be but that's how much your coverage of this topic resonates with me. Thanks for sharing this Alfred!
@zking2929 You have to pry it out of your mind, pry it out of your soul, and pry it out of your being King. I recommend a book, "it didn't start with you" by Mark Wolynn. You can listen to it on audible for free or very cheap. It will change your lfie!!
i feel this is why alot of gay men are traumatized heavily but they will never say they just let it slide. i remember every little word my mom said to me and cut her off in my now adult life she has no access cause she was nasty mouthed just like that little lady in that video, my thing is i would never understand how what someone does in their sexual life affects the women so badly… i honestly believe the moms see their sons as competition when you come out considering women are HEAVY pickme’s thats all the fuss is ever about
@@TheAlfredPlatform Therapy & psychiatry are NOT the same. Therapists are trained to listen & lead a person to healthy clarity surrounding their issues. Psychiatry is for people who need medication to deal with their issues. A psychiatry appointment doesn't involve deep, meaningful communication, you discuss symptoms and and potential side effects of medication. Insurance might pay for therapy (with a social worker or psychologist) but only for a short period (mine paid for 6 weeks) I had to pay out of pocket for several months. Unfortunately, most trauma takes months or years to process.
@@raymondtittle2918 I know this, but my point was that help is available. If you want to argue about access, then fine, but if you can't afford either, you can always read a book.
@@TheAlfredPlatform It's all good lil' brother, not here to argue, but clarify. Mental health is stigmatized in the black community, so I wanted to shed light on the difference. Most insurance provides short-term treatment, but the trauma of black people comes from generations of abuse in and outside the home, and takes YEARS to heal. Insurance won't cover that.
3:14 That being said, anyone who assumes that we are inherently from "the ghetto" is projecting. "The ghetto" is not our culture. This is a great video.
What’s up bro, I’m a masculine country gay guy, I’m laid back, I have cerebral palsy I use a walker and wheelchair, I’m 34 I agree with everything you said, I’m family don’t like that I’m gay, but I’m gonna keep being gay! I try to go to college to be a anesthesiologist but it was gonna be too hard because of my cerebral palsy, so now I donate to the anesthesiologist Foundation, I can’t drive because of my cerebral palsy, so I’m gonna get my all electric ford f-150 and let other people drive it for me! You rock man, do you like hocking loogies? I do!!!!
I have listen to your content, I can say you are completely right in your statements about being gay. What you go through and the harm that others can cause because they can't begin to understand you as a person. Like you said the only thing you can do is just do you to the fullness regardless of other people insight be life is about at the end of the day.
It happens in Catholic and Evangelical households in paste white families too. I was kicked out 2 months before I turned 17. I live in a mostly Black neighborhood and was talking to my neighbor about being single. She informed me that I needed to move to a mixed or white neighborhood, because homosexuality is a white thing 😂.
@thealfredplatform I agree with everything you said on a general level, though let's look at this specific case. Based on this small clip. This mother has seen a video of her son having sex. I cannot think of any case in which a parent supportive of him being gay or not who would be ok with that. This amateur videotaping of sex acts, OF etc. has become pervasive. It's damn near reckless behavior. So in this case, I think the mother has a right to be outraged.
Only if the son is underage or still living in her house. Otherwise what her adult/self-sufficient son does is his business. I'm 50 so this recording and posting myself having sex isn't my tea, but do you.
@@StevvieD You say it's inappropriate, I never said that. He's grown, he can do as he pleases. Would I do it? Probably not. But why is she watching gay porn? There are definitely consequences for being so open with your sexuality, but ABUSE is absolutely unacceptable.
I'm not going to select a group over the amount of disgust with homophobia. This goes back to why so many people need counseling early on in life. His mother is clearly projecting her own unresolved trauma issues towards her son. I also hope her son gets counseling to help understand how to deal with her and not pass on his own trauma towards other people down the road.
Alfred you are so right and me being white when I point this out I am the racist blue eye devil my partner Chris who as you know is black is so ashamed about how he says his people are. we know it is cultural Chris is very selfconscious I am not I tell him I know it is hard but hell with them. we are not well liked by our races because we will not put up with bullshit and take sides and people especially gay ones thrive on drama we want peace and do not.get it. I admire you and your husband you are an exception to the rule which is great. keep up the content.
I hate to say this but as long as the man is 18+ and lives independently of his mother, her opinion really doesn't matter. She can talk/act like it does until the cows come home but it still doesn't.
Well she found out watching a video that her son was gay? if so, stop it she was out of her mind and I can understand. Gay people we can't just drop this information on family or friends and expect them to just fail in line. We need to give them time to process shit. Some of us need to stop it. Give grace that we want. Some of us can be so self center.
@@tom-ss2mn Catching your son or daughter having a train ran on them on video, that is low class and disgusting. What Parent in their right mind would be Proud to see their child in the act?
There is a template. Written in books many over decades. Ignorance is ignoring these facts floating around the web and libraries. The basic ignorance is ignoring facts. Gay youth don't ask gay older just like heteronormative culture. Closed mouths don't get fed. Seek your template. 🏳️🌈🤯☮️🫶
There's actually a longer version of this video on youtube that go's into more detail. It stood out to me that he said the mom had been abusing his brother since they were kids and then stabbed him when he finally fought back. It sounds like this "lady" has been physically and verbally abusing them their whole lives. I hope him and his siblings are doing ok. It's sad how many black children grow up in such toxic environments.
Half the culture is toxic and it's darn near impossible to fix it because those who are the reason for the toxicity think that what they are doing defines blackness. The only way we as a people can rise and build greatness is that we must divorce ourselves from these ninjas and let them destroy one another.
All of us in the LGBT community are raised with the same homophobia that everyone else is. Even when not exhibited to the extreme like this ‘mother’. It takes years to dispel all the nasty vitriol assigned to us and learn to respect who and what we are. It’s a journey but once you’re on the other side, there’s nothing more amazing than being at peace with and loving yourself.
Agree
I'm glad you brought this video up because too often Black women get a pass for their homophobia. Oftentimes we get the most bigotry and antagonism from our mothers and aunties.
That video was crazy
The fact that she's doing all of this in public is CRAZY
@TheVonnieVonVonShow crashed out for nothin 😂
Most ppl in the black community will FOREVER be lost, unfortunately
Sadly this is true
I love the way the young man handled his mother, he kept a calm tone.
God made me who I am🌈
Love your platform continue to uplift and spread positive vibe's.
Everything will get better because of your good work's.
Preach Al preach thank you for being a voice in our community!!! As a queer person and black. I am proud to have found this channel thank you!!!! Peace and blessings to you ❤
Very sad however I’m not surprised. I wish that we in the gay community would stop using expressions like “ran a train on him” if there were two or three or more as long as they are of age and consenting, there is nothing wrong with being pleasured by more than one person. Whenever we say things like this we are adding to the shock and exaggeration that those outside of our community are bringing. These are three men enjoying intimacy and no there’s nothing weird about that!!!!
It's weird posting it 🙄
@@StevvieD true ..unfortunately
Girl byyyyeeeeee u sound crazy , first of all u can pleasure yourself, secondly its an option to have more than one partner at a time. It dont matter how it’s worded or sugar coated; if u found out yo special person had trains ran on them u not gone be interested like you initially was
When people think of gays, they think of sex acts between males. It doesn't help that the majority of open gay males make video after video, glorifying casual hookups and bragging in explicit details what they did sexually. More gay people need to stop feeding into the stereotypes that being gay is just about sex, drugs and hooking up in a society where dis-eases and death is still tied to both. Nobody can tell your story better than you, so shift your focus on your humanity, your gifts, your talent and your intellect and that's when you really start educating these people.
@@StevvieDAgreed
It’s the fact that she’s a school teacher and acting like that. SMH my heart goes out to her son. Praying for him and his peace of mind.
I relate to this a lot because my mom is similar but we will never get the stage where she would even accept an invite from a husband of mine, she'd probably crumble the invitation and send me prayer messages. It's sad because I love her but hate what she stands for and it's making have toxic thoughts but seeing this video sort of inspired me to reconsider why I've changed for the worst the past few years and why I've become toxic. I know this is deeper than it needs to be but that's how much your coverage of this topic resonates with me. Thanks for sharing this Alfred!
@zking2929 You have to pry it out of your mind, pry it out of your soul, and pry it out of your being King. I recommend a book, "it didn't start with you" by Mark Wolynn. You can listen to it on audible for free or very cheap. It will change your lfie!!
That young man needs to know that there is a whole community out there that will love him
i feel this is why alot of gay men are traumatized heavily but they will never say they just let it slide. i remember every little word my mom said to me and cut her off in my now adult life she has no access cause she was nasty mouthed just like that little lady in that video, my thing is i would never understand how what someone does in their sexual life affects the women so badly… i honestly believe the moms see their sons as competition when you come out considering women are HEAVY pickme’s thats all the fuss is ever about
I couldn’t watch anymore I’m so sorry my friend.
Momma would have been picking her teeth up off the ground that day
Nah bruh, you're still a Man, conduct yourself as such and walk away.
Therapy can be pretty expensive especially when you are low income
@@David-qj1po psychiatry is a legitimate medical profession covered by medical insurance including government insurance.
@@TheAlfredPlatform Therapy & psychiatry are NOT the same. Therapists are trained to listen & lead a person to healthy clarity surrounding their issues. Psychiatry is for people who need medication to deal with their issues. A psychiatry appointment doesn't involve deep, meaningful communication, you discuss symptoms and and potential side effects of medication.
Insurance might pay for therapy (with a social worker or psychologist) but only for a short period (mine paid for 6 weeks) I had to pay out of pocket for several months.
Unfortunately, most trauma takes months or years to process.
@@raymondtittle2918 I know this, but my point was that help is available. If you want to argue about access, then fine, but if you can't afford either, you can always read a book.
@@TheAlfredPlatform It's all good lil' brother, not here to argue, but clarify. Mental health is stigmatized in the black community, so I wanted to shed light on the difference. Most insurance provides short-term treatment, but the trauma of black people comes from generations of abuse in and outside the home, and takes YEARS to heal. Insurance won't cover that.
3:14 That being said, anyone who assumes that we are inherently from "the ghetto" is projecting. "The ghetto" is not our culture.
This is a great video.
She so hurt She done forgot he was a man she called him the b-word a thousand 😂
Parental envy is real & more common than you think!....Move on!
I love your channel ahd perspective ❤❤
What’s up bro, I’m a masculine country gay guy, I’m laid back, I have cerebral palsy I use a walker and wheelchair, I’m 34 I agree with everything you said, I’m family don’t like that I’m gay, but I’m gonna keep being gay! I try to go to college to be a anesthesiologist but it was gonna be too hard because of my cerebral palsy, so now I donate to the anesthesiologist Foundation, I can’t drive because of my cerebral palsy, so I’m gonna get my all electric ford f-150 and let other people drive it for me! You rock man, do you like hocking loogies? I do!!!!
I’m just speechless
SO....... AND GIRL BYE. A bear is eating a whole white family somewhere . Oh! And they dog
I agree with you my guy 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍🏾
I have listen to your content, I can say you are completely right in your statements about being gay. What you go through and the harm that others can cause because they can't begin to understand you as a person. Like you said the only thing you can do is just do you to the fullness regardless of other people insight be life is about at the end of the day.
Ummmm THEY ARE BOTH WRONG cause y tf u gettin a train ran on u and yeen got no mask tf 😂
Where is his father? Running around collecting baby daddies like Pokemon cards ain’t a damn bit of better.
@@litkj6071 😂🤣 sir, kindly log off.
It happens in Catholic and Evangelical households in paste white families too. I was kicked out 2 months before I turned 17. I live in a mostly Black neighborhood and was talking to my neighbor about being single. She informed me that I needed to move to a mixed or white neighborhood, because homosexuality is a white thing 😂.
I am a mother and I would flip out if my sons were having sex with anyone in my house. He should have gone to a hotel.
And with Two Men. I'm gay but that's a lot for a mother to see
I’m sure it was probably the fact that he was getting a train ran on him everybody seems to be skipping over that.
@thealfredplatform I agree with everything you said on a general level, though let's look at this specific case. Based on this small clip. This mother has seen a video of her son having sex. I cannot think of any case in which a parent supportive of him being gay or not who would be ok with that. This amateur videotaping of sex acts, OF etc. has become pervasive. It's damn near reckless behavior. So in this case, I think the mother has a right to be outraged.
Only if the son is underage or still living in her house. Otherwise what her adult/self-sufficient son does is his business.
I'm 50 so this recording and posting myself having sex isn't my tea, but do you.
@@raymondtittle2918 Right so you agree posting it is inappropriate. It's not his business anymore because it was posted online for everyone to see.
@@StevvieD The real question is why is his mother watching gay porn videos?
@@StevvieD You say it's inappropriate, I never said that. He's grown, he can do as he pleases. Would I do it? Probably not. But why is she watching gay porn? There are definitely consequences for being so open with your sexuality, but ABUSE is absolutely unacceptable.
I'm not going to select a group over the amount of disgust with homophobia. This goes back to why so many people need counseling early on in life. His mother is clearly projecting her own unresolved trauma issues towards her son. I also hope her son gets counseling to help understand how to deal with her and not pass on his own trauma towards other people down the road.
True facts 🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈
I wonder where they are now and if they have made ✌
MICHALA GARRETT---FIND A SEAT AND REMAIN SEATED. THANKS!
Thank you for that I need to hurry I need to hear that my friend
Alfred you are so right and me being white when I point this out I am the racist blue eye devil my partner Chris who as you know is black is so ashamed about how he says his people are. we know it is cultural Chris is very selfconscious I am not I tell him I know it is hard but hell with them. we are not well liked by our races because we will not put up with bullshit and take sides and people especially gay ones thrive on drama we want peace and do not.get it. I admire you and your husband you are an exception to the rule which is great. keep up the content.
I hate to say this but as long as the man is 18+ and lives independently of his mother, her opinion really doesn't matter. She can talk/act like it does until the cows come home but it still doesn't.
Well she found out watching a video that her son was gay? if so, stop it she was out of her mind and I can understand. Gay people we can't just drop this information on family or friends and expect them to just fail in line. We need to give them time to process shit. Some of us need to stop it. Give grace that we want. Some of us can be so self center.
The mother was being self centered. The son was being himself
@@tom-ss2mn Catching your son or daughter having a train ran on them on video, that is low class and disgusting. What Parent in their right mind would be Proud to see their child in the act?
@@kennethmaye no one said she needed to be proud
There is a template. Written in books many over decades. Ignorance is ignoring these facts floating around the web and libraries. The basic ignorance is ignoring facts. Gay youth don't ask gay older just like heteronormative culture. Closed mouths don't get fed. Seek your template. 🏳️🌈🤯☮️🫶
12:37 i have a islamic version of this… and idc .. jealous is ridiculous.. and yep boundaries is key sadly
And I bet you see southern Christian😊
12:21 as you should !!
So u have 2 deadbeat parents but only chooses to hold your mother accountable constantly, interesting 🤔
@@Franskie266 how do you know who I've held accountable??? Interesting.