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Hey Anna why don’t you make a video on how to accessorise yourself according to the occasion and which accessories to buy in order to be feminine and elegant. Because many of us ladies end up over-accessorising ourselves for some occasion and others don’t know what to buy and what to wear. So please I’m requesting you we would love to have a video on the same.❤️❤️
I appreciate that Anna jumps right into the topic - "Point #1" on 0:01 of the video, none of the usual dragging out that most content creators do when it's obvious they're just trying to pad the run time of their videos. The content itself is always top-notch and Anna's increase in the upload frequency is very appreciated!
@@Eris3010 that is sooooo annoying. I can't stand it when they play with their hair every other second. Grrrr. Whenever I see that, I just close the video.
I agree with everything, except for the converse. I feel that converse can be very classy if you pair them with a blazer or maybe a trouser. I love my converse and they go with everything. Once you break them in they are extremely comfortable.
The people who feel empowered by that would disagree with you. No one person gets to decide what empowers women. There's nothing wrong with dressing more modestly but don't act like women who don't are in the wrong.
No! Bei g a feminist is supporting girls to wear whatever they want to wear because dignity is not built on your style of clothes! A true feminist does exactly the opposite and support a personal desicion!
You have a point! I think I gave you a thumbs down by mistake, I meant to reply! I once got talking to a guy that was high up on Zara, and he told me that you should always alter your clothes, because they try to make them with the minimal fuss to fit almost everyone and that they end up fitting no one. He also said that jackets are OK as they've done them so often they always do them "right" but things like a fitted dress are virtually impossible. Altering clothes is the key, I think, specially now that we buy things online and , not sure about you, but I always end up with things that are not quite right...
This would make sense! I don’t like too many dresses that are “straight” or “boxy”. Then you try to find something that gives more shape and they are ruined with cut outs, splits or backless etc.
Agree. it's so obvious that they're cutting the costs, fabrics are lower quality each season, especially after covid. And now ugly baggy shapes that make every woman look like a joke.
I sew, I noticed years ago that the thin flat chested model was popular, why? One does not need an shaping darts or curves, hang a length of fabric on that body shape and it fits!!
The cutout trend is driving me to tears too! I thought I was the only one! Some of the other trends are also pretty bad, but this one gets to me especially because I love dresses more than anything!! Almost everytime I see a lovely dress I end up not buying it because it has large chunks of fabric missing in some important places.🙈 I'm not sure I want to share that much of my skin with the general public.
Cutouts take a garment that is classic and dramatically reduce its versatility. It’s like the garment you know and love but now you can no longer wear to work, family, networking or daytime occasions… pretty much only to edgy restaurants.
And let’s trade all of the places that you could have worn the garment for the benefit of showing the world your back fat or having to wear a bizarre, uncomfortable and disfunctional bra
@@minnie9649 And with the dresses who have frontal cutouts...!!🙈🙈 I mean how do you even wear that to a restaurant without being anxious. If you're planning to eat, now everyone will see just how much you've enjoyed your meal. The idea mortifies me! It would be helpful to find a few good places that stock some beautiful classic pieces, because they seem harder and harder to come by these days.
@@purnimadas1712 It could be a clever possible solution, yes! Especially if I already owned a cutout dress, it could be a way for me to be able to wear it instead of leaving it to hang in the closet. But seeing that I currently don't, I'd rather not invest money in a cutout piece and then have to search for a top or undergarment in the same colour to match, which might not be super easy to do in some cases, depending on the colour. Personally for myself I prefer to purchase a whole dress that I don't need to wear items underneath in order to make it a wearable wardrobe piece.🙂
I'm so happy I found this channel. As a woman with pear shaped body, I can't wear oversized anything without looking like a rectangular and I started to hate my body for it. I agree, what is wrong with being feminine? And the 1st point was great, glad that someone finally said it!
I'm with you Anna, I find certain aspects of today's popular fashion not very feminine and I don't find them flattering or attractive. I think this may be why I am leaning more towards vintage clothing, especially from the 40's - 70's. The silhouettes from those time periods are beautiful and very elegant. Thank you for this video.
I'm looking at the 50's to find inspiration. Although the silhouettes from these time are amazing, I find it difficult to adapt them to today's fashion. I'm afraid I look a bit outdated now. Do you know where I can find garments based on this period but still with a modern touch?
Same! One of my friends owns a store with beautiful A shaped dresses and pretty blouses and I adore her. If it wasn't for her I don't know what I would do or wear.
@@isabellecarvalho9742 Look at online stores like Top Vintage, Pinupgirl Clothing, Vixen by Micheline Pitt, Collectif, Miss Candyfloss and Emmy Design. Some of their pieces can be a bit over the top, especially the wiggle dresses, but you will find nice and feminine dresses as well.
YOU ARE SOOOOOO RIGHT!!! Since when has over sexualizing ourselves ever been a benefit to anyone besides men?? It seems like there is no effort or taste being incorporated in women’s trends these days. So I’m really glad there is someone like you who’s here to remind us how to always carry ourselves in a tasteful but still very attractive manner!!!!! 😍😄👍
"Over sexualizing" can be in the eye of the beholder. One may be just trying to beat the heat or just dressing in a way that seems comfortable. There's also a thin line between sexy and sexual.
Not everything sexual is for men. Some people just feel confident in outfits that show their skin. I wouldn’t say that we “lack dignity” for dressing for ourselves. Sometimes it shows confidence and fearlessness. Another style, not another thing to women to bash each other on. Some people just prefer a different style, and only girls without dignity will be dressing for another persons approval. Nothing wrong with the video, but I feel like this needs to be said. Tearing down other women won’t make anyone feel better. It certainly isn’t feminist.
I so agree! Plus, think of message it sends to girls, and young girls. If people insist on normalizing the over-sexualization of women, well, then girls will pick up on that, and see that. I've already seen and known several women who were horrified to see overly-sexualized items and trends in clothing for tween girls. I knew one lady who resorted to buying boys shirts for her 12 year old daughter, because she was having a hard time finding ones in the girls section/stores that were not cropped, overly tight, had inappropriate messages, etc. I believe there was even one scandal where they were selling thongs at a tween store! Like, okay, if all these visible underwear and tight crop tops are so freeing, why don't men just and free themselves in the same way, hahahaha! 🙂
@carolinepoth9476 oh? So why did some women walk around with their thong stings pulled out of their pants? Did that look empower women? Was it for other women? Doubt it.
You’re absolutely right about the current trends in womens fashion. I try to purchase timeless, classic, lady-like pieces but even previously designer/high end department stores are selling cheap clothing namely Nordstrom & Macys. I think I will stick to purchasing my own fabrics and choosing my own design and have a tailor sew items to my liking. Luckily I’m from a country where this is relatively affordable
I am passing through a similar situation Adepa. Thanks god there is always a way. Staying classy and elegant can be challenging as Anna mentions often.
I find it difficult to locate nice fabric too. I end up buying multiple items just to rip them apart and use the fabric. How can the trends be so consistenly bad. ugh
I agree about all the cheap fabrics and sloppy tailoring coming in. Here and there, quality is still out there, and I have have a keen eye for it, but it's becoming more and more scarce. One recourse I find really refreshing is vintage that is still in very good condition. I have yet to take on a sewing machine, but I do like exploring new hobbies! More power to you!
Hello Anna, can you make a video about perfumes? Your opinion is very important to us, we need your advice. Which perfumes should we buy or not? Thanks a lot! 💕
She has a book where she talks about it and do your own research but niche perfumes . You’re on TH-cam seriously just search on TH-cam niche perfumes and make your own mind on what to wear damn
@@marinevaletudie9617 Obviously they want to hear Anna’s opinion?? Yes they could look online but the original comment specifically says WE NEED YOUR ADVICE
@@marinevaletudie9617 I could search other channels if I wanted to, but I like her advice. I don't think you need to act like that. Keep calm and don't be hateful.
Im 17 years old and some of the popular items are for sure the converse and tie dye shirts. I love classic and sophisticated style. I’m working on elevating my appearance and not seem like everyone else. Thank you for everything ❤️
I purchased some new work clothes this week. It’s incredibly hard at the moment to find clothes that are not ugly - so much of what was available was boxy, hideous printed patterns, ugly ruffles, oversized, or awful colours. Its been a long time since I have struggled so much.
Oh my goodness.. you are so right! I "tried" to shop some new clothes today and all of them were just so hideous! I mean the patterns, colours.. everything just screams HIDEOUS! 😭
It’s so nice to read the comments section. Your subscribers are self-confident, and that’s the best attribute of anyone. They’re at peace with themselves, their choices, and are open-minded to learn things from you and apply them to their own lives. Your subscribers are intelligent ladies of substance, and I’m glad to join this lovely crowd!
You are right on point this week. I am an older woman, so not tempted to wear any of those silly unflattering fashion trends. But wish young woman knew how they appeared to others……not too good ladies. You know what you are talking about Anna…..I wish more more women would listen. Many thanks….even at my age I have learned several things from you.
I love my converse shoes. I have 3 pairs of the converse knit shoes which are my favourite because they are soo comfy. I do want to elevate my style a little bit but I feel for myself personally, my style and wear I live it would be too formal to be too elegant. I love to throw my converse on to make my outfits more casual.
This video was refreshing & reading the comments was a breath of fresh air. Being a content creator I see the “baddie aesthetic” & it’s just not me. Sometimes I feel left out & pressured to look like that. It’s not me & I have to remember classy always wins & it’s timeless
Converse are comfortable because they're flat, which is also why they're ideal for skaters. Also A lot of sneakers are bulky and make feet look bigger. The shoelace free converse are super compact and hug your feet but are also flexible and won't cause blisters, making them perfect for spring and summer. I plan to buy the plain navy blue laceless converse again, wear them till I wear them out, and then buy them again and repeat the cycle for the rest of my life.
Disagree with your opinion on Converse shoes. I think they are simple and timeless. Regarding comfort levels, Converse shoes are much more comfortable than high heels. I can wear Converse to work 12hr shifts in the Emergency Department but can’t wear your most comfortable and elegant heels to walk for a half-hour. However, I agree with your other points. Thanks for the video!
thank you so much for sharing this. its a breath of fresh air to hear someone sharing that the tide needs to change. it's not at all an improvement to try to hide behind clothes that swallow you up or make you look like you're "an easy target" - we should embrace the beautiful feminine lady that we are, not try to "tone ourselves down" because culture and society tells us to. eager to share this information with others!
Thank you Ana !! I can not express how refreshing it is to hear someone speak about femininity. It's quite interesting because nowdays women either tend to go into the androgynous category or the vulgar one. They are complete opposites!! Yes women can wear whatever they want but one should consider the impression you send out to the world.
Could also add the “bikini trend”, which consists of wearing a bikini top whenever wherever. I’ve seen women go to restaurants and many other venues wearing a bikini top, mom jeans and sneakers for example. Quite bizarre to be honest
Oh dear lord yes.. do you live in Australia? I came back from living overseas and was shocked! In the last 5 years suddenly its everywhere here. Everyone has a big tummy blobbing out-(because it’s human to do so and these clothes aren’t made for people who aren’t photoshopped) It just looks so bizarre and I also can’t get over how strange it is!!! Haha
@@snowfoxxie I actually live in Brazil and it’s terribly hot here so in the beach area/cities is very common and acceptable, but I’ve seen they do this in the cold weather too and that’s what throws me off lol
I’m glad you stated the 4 seasons. I live in the desert! We’re already nearing the 100’s! I don’t do shorts and crop top, but I’m already in summer clothes mostly. The nights are still cool.
Finally someone I can relate to!!! Women showing too much skin is definitely not empowering at all and will definitely send out the wrong message regardless of whether that was her intention or not. Female empowerment is about sophistication, self worth and self respect and what someone wears shows whether they have that or not. It goes for both men and women. BTW, I love the dress. The color suits your complexion very well.
Empowered is about wearing what you like at the end of the day and still be respected for it. If you only respect women who dress modestly then it doesn't say much about you as a person - since you value their dress over whi they are in truth
As always, I agree with everything that Anna says, but this time I going to keep my converses 😂 shows a little bit of my alternative side. There are some one color options, like all black or all white if you’re not going for the “clown look”. I really think that the confort thing depends on the person who is wearing, some people like Anna find it really unconfortable, but I personally like it. After all this elegant journey, I decided to keep a few “non elegant” items, like my converses, a nice leather jacket, etc. I think that these little touches of another style that you like shows a little bit of personality beyond the elegant and polite. But of course, always respecting the occasion and the environment. Keep the casual where it belongs.
Yep lol im a feminine woman who is striving to be classy and elegant lady but im also a fit girl who set deadlift PR every week (if not month), keep my converse out of discussion please 🤣😂
Yeah those are classic. At some point you are not going to be able or have to wear heels and Converse are non negotiables 🤷🏾♀️ . A leather or denim jacket and converse will always be a vibe for American girls . Or at least in Cali 🌴🏝😎
Anna, you would LOVE Edith Head- she was a costume designer for Paramount pictures from back in the day. She passed away now, but her dresses are ICONIC!! She designed the costumes for movies like “breakfast at Tiffany’s” “funny face” and “Roman Holiday” (Audrey Hepburn) and one of my personal favorites “how to catch a thief” (grace kelly) I’d love to see you review these incredible dresses!
Just a note on neon, neon yellow and green looks great with neutrals and whites. Just have a neutral base and add a dash of neon like a camisole, clutch or accessories. I wear neon with my tan suits and trousers to make it look fresh.
I would actually say that it is easier to purchase feminine and elegant fashion today. I remember, about 15 yrs ago, when I was a little girl, I wanted my mum to buy a nice skirt for me. She told me it was very difficult to find any skirts in normal high street stores, only jeans... I would say that today wearing skirts and dresses and with e.g.the cottage core trend, wearing highly feminine clothing is much more popular than a few years ago ☺
The early 2000's were horrible for feminine fashion. Anything feminine and classy was regarded as downright straight out of your grandma's closet. I loved traditional fashion and couldn't find it or wear it!
@@antivenomadams6369 yes! I have needed to do that. I’m on the curvier side so I must have shape to my clothes or I will look heavier than I actually am
Love the video! And I’m so glad it was acknowledged how hard it is to find classic, feminine clothes. I have no idea where to shop because everything I see is unappealing to me.
Me too. I am learning to sew because of this. I buy some clothes and make adjustments. It is the only way for me. Because the ones that are in the shops are not my cup of tea🤔
@@tralaritralarajiju2652 i was about to reply the same thing! Where I live we have seamstresses who sew clothes in their shops And the prices are actually cheap compared to stores This is my option for now 🌸
Anne Fontaine (unfortunately bit expensive), Orsay (unfortunately closed shops in several countries, however maybe online shopping), all other shops: just being selective. It is a pity, that many women (at least where I live) nowadays are dressed casual, seldom a dress or a skirt. Lots of jeans or "male-ish"-style.
I'll wear my revealing clothing when the weather calls for it, but definitely not in spring when it's still raining constantly! The one thing I agree with is that there are women who wear revealing clothing because of a trend while not even being comfortable in it. If it's not comfortable for you then don't wear it! If you feel uncomfortable showing skin then don't, if you feel uncomfortable wearing clothing that covers you in warm weather then don't! Never let people pressure you into changing your style because it's too "prudish" or "trashy".
I agree with all these! The most awful one is the exposed “thong”. Most of the brands for my age have a lot of on trend/micro trends. I don’t consider myself elegant but I’m trying to buy clothes that I believe are more classic. I find it difficult to find nicer tops that aren’t cropped. I’m totally sick of seeing all these cut outs, they are not for me. The sneakers and the balloon sleeve dresses are not too bad, you can sometimes find something that is decent.
Exposed bra straps are ugly too. I'm a male, so maybe my opinion doesn't matter, or maybe I don't understand, but why not wear a sports bra or bikini top instead?
The visible thong thing was popular in the early 2000's and it was tacky then! You are dead right about people frowning on us looking feminine, I live in a small city that has a lot of farmers (I am not a farmer) but people often make fun of me for dressing feminine.
This is a thing. I grew up in a farming community and NOBODY wore dresses or skirts, unless it was to church. Only the very conservative religious groups (think Mennonite) wore dresses on a regular day.
Thong thing started in the 80s,if you were there you know. Tramp stamp mid 80s,people had nicer figures and obesity wasn't prevalent. Madonna started wearing her underwear as outerwear and baboom a trend was born.
You’re so accurate about the fashion market, I thought it was just me being too picky buying clothes. I can’t find any elegant everyday day dress that is not plain black, too tight or skanky… It will be wonderful if you make a video about brands with classy fun dresses… by the way I love the one you’re wearing on this video !
*Fast-fashion is taking over. The pro is that women like us, who like classic pieces stand out even more. Also, Neons can be muted by adding a white button down. Lovely video as per usual.*
I have been really enjoying the resurgence of some 90s fashions when designers take a Carolyn Bessette Kennedy angle, but now we’re seeing so-called “naughties” fashion trends that are bringing back the lowest points of that decade… vulgar, horrifying, offensive to the eye. The oversize and sloppy everything is also very much not for me. I guess that the fashion industry has to do super extremes to encourage people to buy buy buy rather than enjoying flattering, classic clothing for years!!
You are an inspiration! Thank you for sharing your views about what is appropriate, and when it is appropriate to wear. A lot of the younger generation are clueless regarding appropriate attire- what & when.
Thank you Anna for bringing back class and elegance to women! I have saved so much money by elevating my style with your tips! I am getting so many compliments from women and MEN! There is nothing better than a classy women and man!
I became a designer/seamstress over 30 years back because ugly and weird trends have always existed; I couldn't find anything in the stores even close to bringing out the best in the female form. Taking a basic dress/pants/blazer and styling it is probably one of the most important things I ever learned. Can't go wrong with the classics . . .
I really enjoy watching Anna while pretending I'm an elegant lady. Now I will dig out the converse, tie dye and cotton tanks from my closet for summer. It is, after all, 50 degrees out where I live.
I find myself chuckling because I think this is my first time disagreeing with my beloved lady Anna! I love my Converse shoes. 😊 But we're also on the same page still. I only wear them with casual outfits, and very much on purpose to be casual. Lol
100% on board with you Anna with everything you said in this video. I resent that the ultra-feminine. lady-like woman is under attack in our society. Not a fan of Instagram or TikTok classless fashion trends. Feel so bad for young ladies because we are all easily influenced at that stage of life. At least when I was in high school, social media wasn't that big yet, so my embarrassing fashion decisions only exist in memory.
You know, I have thought about what it must be like to be a high-school girl now, and I think it would be really difficult. I mean, social media didn't even exist when I was in high school, and the trendy clothing was not tight or revealing, and I was still very self-conscience, as I believe pretty much all teen girls are. So I'm thinking that if it was hard for me, and all the girls I knew, it must be so much harder now. Because now you have social media, and also the clothing for teens seems so much more revealing/tight, etc. I mean when I was a teen, in the late 80s/early 90s, the trendy clothing (here, anyway) was just things like regular jeans, and, oh, those slouchy socks, and maybe stirrup pants, and regular T-shirts from places like Club Monacoe, Au Coton, etc. But now I see teen girls and they all seem to be in super tight jeans, short shorts, tight crop tops, etc., and I think that must be really hard to deal with the pressure to dress like that, and feeling self conscience, and worry about their bodies, and social media on top of it.
It's so refreshing to see you address this issue. I have to hunt for pieces that fit my criteria. It is almost like an extra part time job!! I am intentional and I know what I am looking for and even then I have to really apply myself to finding the right items. I HATE the oversized, baggy, loose trend. Thankfully, I am a classic dresser and I have a good collection of clothes until this ridiculous androgenous, oversized, untailored trend blows over.
I really appreciate your personal growth for accepting women who are different from you, you now say my preference and style instead of better and worse.
I generally love these opinions, but Converse are timeless. 👌🏻 They’ve been around since 1908. We like tradition, right? And they make many styles - not just “clown shoes.”
agree with all of these above! I live in Germany, more and more girls dress with the big boyish blazers or tank tops with converse, as Anna said, they can dress however they want, although when i step outside the door with my feminine styles and mannerisms, which make me stand out among the rest. So in a way, i hope a lot more other girls can dress boyish so the elegant ladies can be more unique.. haha
Thank you for the validation: I have been trying to purchase new clothes and having a really difficult time finding flattering, classic feminine clothes !!!
I love your videos! There may be a few things here and there that I or maybe some other women may not agree on (fashion tips considered). But I cannot emphasize enough on how much I love your thought process on being elegant and not just looking elegant! 🫶🏼
I love your channel so much ! As a girl in college I’ve recently been trying to figure out a style becoming a women but still dress my age and it’s so difficult especially with the fast fashion trend. I’d love if you made a video about college outfits/ young adults to look elegant yet still young and fun !
A lot of people have this mentality of "Why should I get all dolled up to go out in public? I'm just going to Walmart", even if they're not just going to Walmart.
I’ve been following your channel for years and many things you say and recommend relate to modest fashion enthusiasts and Muslim women, like myself. Thank you, Anna! 🥰😍
Everytime I watching your videos about how to be elevated and look elegant in wearing clothes. I can tell and say to my self that I have a good sense when it comes to fashion,because all of the clothes that won’t look elegant to a woman is the clothes that I don’t like to wear even if it’s the trend fashion of the year.
I am so happy someone finally pointed these things out!! I have been disliking these exact trends for years and avoided them as much as I could. Besides, I prefer vintage looks. So happy to have found someone who agrees with me! Stay classic forever! ❤
I agree with all of these. And they come down to common sense. I personally don't dress for trends, but with neon, it would be smarter to use a neon accessory rather than a piece of clothing. I've seen Parisian women pull off neon pumps or a purse, paired with neutrals.
Anna I can’t agree with you more! I’ve been a classic my whole life also a minimalist, and never followed stupid trends, and I always stand out as elegant and sophisticated even when I’m wearing casual. One thing I know for sure is when I look at my old pictures one day I won’t be laughing at myself and saying what was I thinking!
As an older lady, I have seen all these trends before. They weren't elegant the first time. Neon reminds me of the black light posters we painted when I was a teen many years ago!
I follow ur suggestions while shopping but like u said it is getting harder and harder in malls especially as most of the clothes look like they emerged from the 60s . i end up liking nothing. but i am thankful for u and ur videos at least i know not to waste money on non sustainable fashion trends.
I really do NOT like the androgynous trend. I am very féminine and love it.. My husband was saying that he would never have given a second look if I looked like a guy. He loves my femininity and he is proud to be out with me.
These tips are very subjective and i might agree with some but i wouldn't call any woman cheap if she wears a crop top and shorts because putting a woman down even in my mind, is anything but feminism..in fact the very line that it might "float your boat but not my ship" ITSELF screams a sense of superiority. I've seen some ladies who look absolutely gorgeous in that casual ensemble.
Hi Anna could you do a video on what elegant moms should wear to school events with their children and what parents should not wear at the bus stop? My 6 year old daughter loves how my elegant style is no matter where I'm going. But i have seen parents with hot pants and showing to much or wearing pajamas.
Thank you for sharing your insights with us. My young teen daughter needed some dresses for school events and it was such a challenge to find something that appealed to her youth but stayed classy. I don’t understand why these so called dresses barely cover bottoms, have cut outs in inappropriate areas, spaghetti straps, and completely sexualize women. It’s disheartening.
I agree with almost every "Just don't do it" in this video. I simply can't see the point of any of these trends. As if designers are short on ideas and are just throwing anything out there to see what sticks. I will however admit that I am a big fan of tank tops. All it takes to elevate a bit is a sweater or fitted jacket and a pretty necklace or earrings. And by they way, you look amazing in the dress. Definitely my kind of style!
Anna, I can't agree with you anymore.!!! Nowadays, the fashion market is cheap, fast fashion, unsustainable and hard to find the good piece of elegant, classic and feminine dress or outfit. love you and your charming Anna!
YES I'm so glad I watched this video! I don't quite consider myself to be "elegant" or ultra feminine, but that's mostly due to my own self-confidence. I grew up mostly in t-shirts or blouses with jeans, wanting to WANT to wear more feminine clothes but feeling kind of embarrassed to do so because I felt like people would just think I'm trying too hard. When I dress for business though I 100% embrace that side, and that's where trouble hits. I HATE these same trends you listed. A lot of them honestly feel very juvenile and shapeless, and even if I wanted to step outside of my jeans it's SO hard to find anything to wear because the trends are just way out there. I went to the mall yesterday and couldn't buy a single thing because of EXACTLY the points you made in this video! Cut-outs, cropped, boxy, unflattering clothing... and that goes for casual and business dress, it's SO hard to find clothes and now I understand why
Love your videos! Inside of me I always loved elegant style but I don’t know what happened to me, I had these nice looking dresses hanging but still would wear momma jeans and not so good looking clothes every day. Your videos helped me see it clearly and just take a leap and get rid of all of it. Thank you
I always enjoy seeing that beautiful painting. I like one of my cotton tank tops if I tuck it into jeans with a belt and cowboy boots, but I also am dressing for the dog park or something outdoor and casual. Good to think about though. Good tips, thank you.
I heard that ppl who wear "immodest" clothing or not simple clothes may have a more humble heart than me even if wesr simple or modest clothes. I don't know their heart so I can't judge and I heard that from a guy so it's eye-opening. Thank you for this video that promotes preference and classiness.
I agree with you so much!! I wish there was a line of clothing for us, sick of the baggy clothes, I want to look chic, and feminine. Dress shabbily they remember the clothes, dress impeccably they remember the woman!!!
I used to hate converse until my bf got me the CDG ones. I tried them on and they've improved the sole a lot, much more comfortable than the older ones.
Thank god someone finally addressed tie dye and androgynous clothing! I feel like I’ve been fighting an uphill battle the past few years with all of these trends on the market.
Neon doesn’t work for anyone and everyone but one example I fell in love with was the neon dress Chelsea tried on Selling Sunset. Neon can also be couture and reminds us fashion has no rules. Also love my blazers
Tie dye actually originated from west Africa, it used to be one by regal and royalty before colonialism and even till date it is still worn by a lot of affluent women in Nigeria obviously with a very different style than the westernised trend (More feminine and elegant like a flowing gown for example)
tie dye can 100% be beautiful the example she show are casual oversize shirt obviously not feminine and not elegant .i did saw some gorgeous boho tie dye dress with better quality fabrics great for more flamboyant lady's like myself
Ah you said this SO well! Most people think that if you’re a feminist, you have to support all these crazy trends but you’ve said this so well, let’s keep our dignity!
Anna, You absolutely hit the nail on the head with these fashion trends. There isn't one single item I have purchased this spring as the designs and trends are horrifying. I am 58 years, 5'1" and wear a size Small or 4-6. I don't wish to look like I'm auditioning for Little House on the Prairie or for a strip show either. I have updated my classics with new belts and shoes and called it a day! Thank you for this video.
I thought I was the only one who was having a hard time finding nice clothes lately..Everything is cropped and shapeless! It makes me feel better that I’m not alone.
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Hey Anna why don’t you make a video on how to accessorise yourself according to the occasion and which accessories to buy in order to be feminine and elegant. Because many of us ladies end up over-accessorising ourselves for some occasion and others don’t know what to buy and what to wear. So please I’m requesting you we would love to have a video on the same.❤️❤️
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Your dress oh I love it! What brand is it?
I appreciate that Anna jumps right into the topic - "Point #1" on 0:01 of the video, none of the usual dragging out that most content creators do when it's obvious they're just trying to pad the run time of their videos. The content itself is always top-notch and Anna's increase in the upload frequency is very appreciated!
Agreed.
Plus, she is not playing with her hair every few minutes, she's not justifying some absurds.
Straight to the point, honest opinions.
Bad editing! Whomever is doing it is also missing chapter titles within the videos. Hopefully she will fix this.
Still miss her 'my dear elegant ladys'
I think It is always necessary to say at least “Hello”, I don’t know why she changed that… it does not take more than 5 seconds
@@Eris3010 that is sooooo annoying. I can't stand it when they play with their hair every other second. Grrrr. Whenever I see that, I just close the video.
OMG! Can we appreciate the fact that she literally started the first second with point 1 and not making a useless 5 minutes intro?
We love you Anna!
I agree with everything, except for the converse. I feel that converse can be very classy if you pair them with a blazer or maybe a trouser. I love my converse and they go with everything. Once you break them in they are extremely comfortable.
I love that Anna doesn’t beat around the bush. Straight to the point, calling things as they are.
Nope. Only what I say is what is.
@@changeeyecolor3891 ❤️
“ I prefer fashion where the woman keeps her dignity “ Wow this sentence summarized it all, well said Anna 💜💜
Revealing clothing has nothing to do with a persons dignity
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Love this, I went shopping couldn't find anything as most clothes looked like costumes.
Loved this ❤️ especially as a Muslim woman.
@@poisonedchalice Yesss sis!
Ah, you speak from my heart Anna! Fashion there days IS weird. Everything crop topped, extra short and looks cheap and vulgar
I agree. I’ll never get the style of people like Billie Eilish and Kik Kardashian. All the money in the world didn’t buy them elegance or style.
@@Behen786 exactly. Everything IS oversized, dont get me wrong, dome thing are great oversized, but people dont know how to style them
Also micro skirts and dresses with 50 cutouts
Ugh :(
@@flaccid6pancake agreed 👏🏼
And all those clothing items with purposefully made holes in the sides or front or arms or everywhere.
I’m really glad Anna brought up the whole “empowerment” excuse. There’s nothing empowering about dressing revealing, and sexualizing yourself.
The people who feel empowered by that would disagree with you. No one person gets to decide what empowers women. There's nothing wrong with dressing more modestly but don't act like women who don't are in the wrong.
@@mkg2124 yes, everyone can dress however they want, just don’t be surprised when the rest of society treats you accordingly.
@@Saiuriyon Some people choose not to care about how society judges them when the only thing that matters is being a functioning member of it.
@@mkg2124 how on earth women get empowered if men look at them lustfully. Wtf is good about it. They don't get respect they get the opposite
@@mkg2124 Well if you don’t care, then great. Do you. Anna is helping women that DO care about how they present themselves.
“I am a feminist. I believe women should keep their dignity.” WELL SAID!
Exactly !
True. Even when woman decide to show their nipples casually i just can’t relate to that.
No! Bei g a feminist is supporting girls to wear whatever they want to wear because dignity is not built on your style of clothes! A true feminist does exactly the opposite and support a personal desicion!
We are born naked and just cuz a women shows skin doesn't mean she has no dignity as a so called feminist you should know that
Oh my God you are not a feminist if you think this way you should be able to wear what you want without being judged or sexualized.
I just figured that the shapeless clothing trend is made by the brands so they can do less sewing to cut costs 😂
You have a point! I think I gave you a thumbs down by mistake, I meant to reply! I once got talking to a guy that was high up on Zara, and he told me that you should always alter your clothes, because they try to make them with the minimal fuss to fit almost everyone and that they end up fitting no one. He also said that jackets are OK as they've done them so often they always do them "right" but things like a fitted dress are virtually impossible. Altering clothes is the key, I think, specially now that we buy things online and , not sure about you, but I always end up with things that are not quite right...
This would make sense! I don’t like too many dresses that are “straight” or “boxy”. Then you try to find something that gives more shape and they are ruined with cut outs, splits or backless etc.
Agree. it's so obvious that they're cutting the costs, fabrics are lower quality each season, especially after covid. And now ugly baggy shapes that make every woman look like a joke.
I sew, I noticed years ago that the thin flat chested model was popular, why? One does not need an shaping darts or curves, hang a length of fabric on that body shape and it fits!!
Agree. Lots of influencers promote shapeless clothing and think they look elegant on them
The cutout trend is driving me to tears too! I thought I was the only one! Some of the other trends are also pretty bad, but this one gets to me especially because I love dresses more than anything!!
Almost everytime I see a lovely dress I end up not buying it because it has large chunks of fabric missing in some important places.🙈
I'm not sure I want to share that much of my skin with the general public.
Cutouts take a garment that is classic and dramatically reduce its versatility. It’s like the garment you know and love but now you can no longer wear to work, family, networking or daytime occasions… pretty much only to edgy restaurants.
And let’s trade all of the places that you could have worn the garment for the benefit of showing the world your back fat or having to wear a bizarre, uncomfortable and disfunctional bra
@@minnie9649 And with the dresses who have frontal cutouts...!!🙈🙈 I mean how do you even wear that to a restaurant without being anxious. If you're planning to eat, now everyone will see just how much you've enjoyed your meal. The idea mortifies me!
It would be helpful to find a few good places that stock some beautiful classic pieces, because they seem harder and harder to come by these days.
@@lynnegeldenhuys9176 it’s better to wear those dresses with matching satin crop top inside . Like that u can wear those dresses in different occasion
@@purnimadas1712 It could be a clever possible solution, yes! Especially if I already owned a cutout dress, it could be a way for me to be able to wear it instead of leaving it to hang in the closet.
But seeing that I currently don't, I'd rather not invest money in a cutout piece and then have to search for a top or undergarment in the same colour to match, which might not be super easy to do in some cases, depending on the colour.
Personally for myself I prefer to purchase a whole dress that I don't need to wear items underneath in order to make it a wearable wardrobe piece.🙂
I'm so happy I found this channel. As a woman with pear shaped body, I can't wear oversized anything without looking like a rectangular and I started to hate my body for it.
I agree, what is wrong with being feminine? And the 1st point was great, glad that someone finally said it!
I'm with you Anna, I find certain aspects of today's popular fashion not very feminine and I don't find them flattering or attractive. I think this may be why I am leaning more towards vintage clothing, especially from the 40's - 70's. The silhouettes from those time periods are beautiful and very elegant. Thank you for this video.
I'm looking at the 50's to find inspiration. Although the silhouettes from these time are amazing, I find it difficult to adapt them to today's fashion. I'm afraid I look a bit outdated now.
Do you know where I can find garments based on this period but still with a modern touch?
Look on etsy. Many designers will custom make to your needs. I love 50’s dresses too. I get a more modern feel to the 50’s dresses on stitch fix.
Same! One of my friends owns a store with beautiful A shaped dresses and pretty blouses and I adore her. If it wasn't for her I don't know what I would do or wear.
@@isabellecarvalho9742 Look at online stores like Top Vintage, Pinupgirl Clothing, Vixen by Micheline Pitt, Collectif, Miss Candyfloss and Emmy Design. Some of their pieces can be a bit over the top, especially the wiggle dresses, but you will find nice and feminine dresses as well.
Silhouettes from the 60's and 70's are actually in fashion right now! It's still possible to incorporate some trends into elegance :)
YOU ARE SOOOOOO RIGHT!!! Since when has over sexualizing ourselves ever been a benefit to anyone besides men?? It seems like there is no effort or taste being incorporated in women’s trends these days. So I’m really glad there is someone like you who’s here to remind us how to always carry ourselves in a tasteful but still very attractive manner!!!!! 😍😄👍
"Over sexualizing" can be in the eye of the beholder. One may be just trying to beat the heat or just dressing in a way that seems comfortable. There's also a thin line between sexy and sexual.
So maybe go wear a whole blanket or a curtain from your head to toe to not reveal skin as oppressed Muslim women do. LOlllll
Not everything sexual is for men. Some people just feel confident in outfits that show their skin. I wouldn’t say that we “lack dignity” for dressing for ourselves. Sometimes it shows confidence and fearlessness. Another style, not another thing to women to bash each other on.
Some people just prefer a different style, and only girls without dignity will be dressing for another persons approval. Nothing wrong with the video, but I feel like this needs to be said. Tearing down other women won’t make anyone feel better. It certainly isn’t feminist.
I so agree! Plus, think of message it sends to girls, and young girls. If people insist on normalizing the over-sexualization of women, well, then girls will pick up on that, and see that.
I've already seen and known several women who were horrified to see overly-sexualized items and trends in clothing for tween girls. I knew one lady who resorted to buying boys shirts for her 12 year old daughter, because she was having a hard time finding ones in the girls section/stores that were not cropped, overly tight, had inappropriate messages, etc. I believe there was even one scandal where they were selling thongs at a tween store!
Like, okay, if all these visible underwear and tight crop tops are so freeing, why don't men just and free themselves in the same way, hahahaha! 🙂
@carolinepoth9476 oh? So why did some women walk around with their thong stings pulled out of their pants? Did that look empower women? Was it for other women? Doubt it.
You’re absolutely right about the current trends in womens fashion. I try to purchase timeless, classic, lady-like pieces but even previously designer/high end department stores are selling cheap clothing namely Nordstrom & Macys. I think I will stick to purchasing my own fabrics and choosing my own design and have a tailor sew items to my liking. Luckily I’m from a country where this is relatively affordable
I am passing through a similar situation Adepa.
Thanks god there is always a way. Staying classy and elegant can be challenging as Anna mentions often.
I find it difficult to locate nice fabric too. I end up buying multiple items just to rip them apart and use the fabric. How can the trends be so consistenly bad. ugh
Which country do you live in?
I agree about all the cheap fabrics and sloppy tailoring coming in. Here and there, quality is still out there, and I have have a keen eye for it, but it's becoming more and more scarce. One recourse I find really refreshing is vintage that is still in very good condition. I have yet to take on a sewing machine, but I do like exploring new hobbies! More power to you!
Hello Anna, can you make a video about perfumes? Your opinion is very important to us, we need your advice. Which perfumes should we buy or not? Thanks a lot! 💕
Would love to see a video about perfumes.
She has a book where she talks about it and do your own research but niche perfumes . You’re on TH-cam seriously just search on TH-cam niche perfumes and make your own mind on what to wear damn
@@marinevaletudie9617 the same could be said about doing your own research about elegant clothing? Personally I would welcome a video on perfumes.
@@marinevaletudie9617 Obviously they want to hear Anna’s opinion?? Yes they could look online but the original comment specifically says WE NEED YOUR ADVICE
@@marinevaletudie9617 I could search other channels if I wanted to, but I like her advice. I don't think you need to act like that. Keep calm and don't be hateful.
Im 17 years old and some of the popular items are for sure the converse and tie dye shirts. I love classic and sophisticated style. I’m working on elevating my appearance and not seem like everyone else. Thank you for everything ❤️
I purchased some new work clothes this week. It’s incredibly hard at the moment to find clothes that are not ugly - so much of what was available was boxy, hideous printed patterns, ugly ruffles, oversized, or awful colours. Its been a long time since I have struggled so much.
The work clothes at Target are the worst.
Oh my goodness.. you are so right! I "tried" to shop some new clothes today and all of them were just so hideous! I mean the patterns, colours.. everything just screams HIDEOUS! 😭
We're you at Kohl's? Lol I have a hard time there! Floral patterns are often huge and outdated
@@lorrainebazydola816 Target too!
I hear ya. I have the best luck in thrift stores where clothes are a few years old. 💞
It’s so nice to read the comments section. Your subscribers are self-confident, and that’s the best attribute of anyone. They’re at peace with themselves, their choices, and are open-minded to learn things from you and apply them to their own lives. Your subscribers are intelligent ladies of substance, and I’m glad to join this lovely crowd!
You are right on point this week. I am an older woman, so not tempted to wear any of those silly
unflattering fashion trends. But wish young woman knew how they appeared to others……not
too good ladies. You know what you are talking about Anna…..I wish more more women would listen.
Many thanks….even at my age I have learned several things from you.
I love my converse shoes. I have 3 pairs of the converse knit shoes which are my favourite because they are soo comfy. I do want to elevate my style a little bit but I feel for myself personally, my style and wear I live it would be too formal to be too elegant. I love to throw my converse on to make my outfits more casual.
"I don't like to get that intimate with people", thank you, that was the best way I've ever heard that being said! Exactly, on point Anna!
Something I truly love about you is how you aren't afraid to talk about your opinions
This video was refreshing & reading the comments was a breath of fresh air. Being a content creator I see the “baddie aesthetic” & it’s just not me. Sometimes I feel left out & pressured to look like that. It’s not me & I have to remember classy always wins & it’s timeless
Converse are comfortable because they're flat, which is also why they're ideal for skaters. Also A lot of sneakers are bulky and make feet look bigger. The shoelace free converse are super compact and hug your feet but are also flexible and won't cause blisters, making them perfect for spring and summer. I plan to buy the plain navy blue laceless converse again, wear them till I wear them out, and then buy them again and repeat the cycle for the rest of my life.
Disagree with your opinion on Converse shoes. I think they are simple and timeless. Regarding comfort levels, Converse shoes are much more comfortable than high heels. I can wear Converse to work 12hr shifts in the Emergency Department but can’t wear your most comfortable and elegant heels to walk for a half-hour. However, I agree with your other points. Thanks for the video!
thank you so much for sharing this. its a breath of fresh air to hear someone sharing that the tide needs to change. it's not at all an improvement to try to hide behind clothes that swallow you up or make you look like you're "an easy target" - we should embrace the beautiful feminine lady that we are, not try to "tone ourselves down" because culture and society tells us to. eager to share this information with others!
Being modest is one form of self love. Thank you Anna, i find your videos very helpful❤
What a lovely way to phrase it! It really is a form of self-love. I really liked what you said, I'll remember it.
@@Julia-nl3gq thank you julia💛
Thank you Ana !!
I can not express how refreshing it is to hear someone speak about femininity.
It's quite interesting because nowdays women either tend to go into the androgynous category or the vulgar one.
They are complete opposites!!
Yes women can wear whatever they want but one should consider the impression you send out to the world.
Could also add the “bikini trend”, which consists of wearing a bikini top whenever wherever. I’ve seen women go to restaurants and many other venues wearing a bikini top, mom jeans and sneakers for example. Quite bizarre to be honest
Oh dear lord yes.. do you live in Australia? I came back from living overseas and was shocked! In the last 5 years suddenly its everywhere here. Everyone has a big tummy blobbing out-(because it’s human to do so and these clothes aren’t made for people who aren’t photoshopped) It just looks so bizarre and I also can’t get over how strange it is!!! Haha
@@snowfoxxie I actually live in Brazil and it’s terribly hot here so in the beach area/cities is very common and acceptable, but I’ve seen they do this in the cold weather too and that’s what throws me off lol
I’m glad you stated the 4 seasons. I live in the desert! We’re already nearing the 100’s! I don’t do shorts and crop top, but I’m already in summer clothes mostly. The nights are still cool.
Finally someone I can relate to!!! Women showing too much skin is definitely not empowering at all and will definitely send out the wrong message regardless of whether that was her intention or not. Female empowerment is about sophistication, self worth and self respect and what someone wears shows whether they have that or not. It goes for both men and women. BTW, I love the dress. The color suits your complexion very well.
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Nicely said
Empowered is about wearing what you like at the end of the day and still be respected for it. If you only respect women who dress modestly then it doesn't say much about you as a person - since you value their dress over whi they are in truth
As always, I agree with everything that Anna says, but this time I going to keep my converses 😂 shows a little bit of my alternative side. There are some one color options, like all black or all white if you’re not going for the “clown look”. I really think that the confort thing depends on the person who is wearing, some people like Anna find it really unconfortable, but I personally like it. After all this elegant journey, I decided to keep a few “non elegant” items, like my converses, a nice leather jacket, etc. I think that these little touches of another style that you like shows a little bit of personality beyond the elegant and polite. But of course, always respecting the occasion and the environment. Keep the casual where it belongs.
I'm with you. I agree with Anna 98% of the time but my Converse are never going away! But yes respect the occasion.
Same staying all white low top converse
Yep lol im a feminine woman who is striving to be classy and elegant lady but im also a fit girl who set deadlift PR every week (if not month), keep my converse out of discussion please 🤣😂
Same girl, I admire classiness but sometimes you have to break out the chucks especially when there's heavy lifting to be done lol
Yeah those are classic. At some point you are not going to be able or have to wear heels and Converse are non negotiables 🤷🏾♀️ . A leather or denim jacket and converse will always be a vibe for American girls . Or at least in Cali 🌴🏝😎
Anna, you would LOVE Edith Head- she was a costume designer for Paramount pictures from back in the day. She passed away now, but her dresses are ICONIC!! She designed the costumes for movies like “breakfast at Tiffany’s” “funny face” and “Roman Holiday” (Audrey Hepburn) and one of my personal favorites “how to catch a thief” (grace kelly) I’d love to see you review these incredible dresses!
Just a note on neon, neon yellow and green looks great with neutrals and whites. Just have a neutral base and add a dash of neon like a camisole, clutch or accessories. I wear neon with my tan suits and trousers to make it look fresh.
I would actually say that it is easier to purchase feminine and elegant fashion today. I remember, about 15 yrs ago, when I was a little girl, I wanted my mum to buy a nice skirt for me. She told me it was very difficult to find any skirts in normal high street stores, only jeans... I would say that today wearing skirts and dresses and with e.g.the cottage core trend, wearing highly feminine clothing is much more popular than a few years ago ☺
The early 2000's were horrible for feminine fashion. Anything feminine and classy was regarded as downright straight out of your grandma's closet. I loved traditional fashion and couldn't find it or wear it!
@@t.8936 Yes, exactly!!
👏👏👏 I agree 100%! It is hard to find more feminine dresses that don’t make it look like you’re wearing a shapeless bag!
Adding a belt to a shapeless dress does wonders
@@antivenomadams6369 yes! I have needed to do that. I’m on the curvier side so I must have shape to my clothes or I will look heavier than I actually am
Or look like streetwalker!
Love the video! And I’m so glad it was acknowledged how hard it is to find classic, feminine clothes. I have no idea where to shop because everything I see is unappealing to me.
Me too.
I am learning to sew because of this.
I buy some clothes and make adjustments.
It is the only way for me.
Because the ones that are in the shops are not my cup of tea🤔
@@tralaritralarajiju2652 i was about to reply the same thing! Where I live we have seamstresses who sew clothes in their shops
And the prices are actually cheap compared to stores
This is my option for now 🌸
Anne Fontaine (unfortunately bit expensive), Orsay (unfortunately closed shops in several countries, however maybe online shopping), all other shops: just being selective. It is a pity, that many women (at least where I live) nowadays are dressed casual, seldom a dress or a skirt. Lots of jeans or "male-ish"-style.
Or bad fabric😡
Everyone says why are you so dressed up?
I'll wear my revealing clothing when the weather calls for it, but definitely not in spring when it's still raining constantly! The one thing I agree with is that there are women who wear revealing clothing because of a trend while not even being comfortable in it. If it's not comfortable for you then don't wear it! If you feel uncomfortable showing skin then don't, if you feel uncomfortable wearing clothing that covers you in warm weather then don't! Never let people pressure you into changing your style because it's too "prudish" or "trashy".
I agree with all these! The most awful one is the exposed “thong”. Most of the brands for my age have a lot of on trend/micro trends. I don’t consider myself elegant but I’m trying to buy clothes that I believe are more classic. I find it difficult to find nicer tops that aren’t cropped. I’m totally sick of seeing all these cut outs, they are not for me. The sneakers and the balloon sleeve dresses are not too bad, you can sometimes find something that is decent.
Exposed bra straps are ugly too. I'm a male, so maybe my opinion doesn't matter, or maybe I don't understand, but why not wear a sports bra or bikini top instead?
@@kelle0285 sorry I only just saw this, I don’t like exposed bra straps either!
Finally! A women who agrees with dignity! Bravo.
The visible thong thing was popular in the early 2000's and it was tacky then! You are dead right about people frowning on us looking feminine, I live in a small city that has a lot of farmers (I am not a farmer) but people often make fun of me for dressing feminine.
This is a thing. I grew up in a farming community and NOBODY wore dresses or skirts, unless it was to church. Only the very conservative religious groups (think Mennonite) wore dresses on a regular day.
The whale tale🐋🤣
It would be interesting to hear how those conversations went. "Hahaha. You dress feminine.". "Well yeah. I'm a woman so..."
Thong thing started in the 80s,if you were there you know. Tramp stamp mid 80s,people had nicer figures and obesity wasn't prevalent. Madonna started wearing her underwear as outerwear and baboom a trend was born.
Things in the city are even worse. The current trends are really unflattering.
I liked this woman. Straightforward and no sugarcoating. 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
You’re so accurate about the fashion market, I thought it was just me being too picky buying clothes. I can’t find any elegant everyday day dress that is not plain black, too tight or skanky… It will be wonderful if you make a video about brands with classy fun dresses… by the way I love the one you’re wearing on this video !
*Fast-fashion is taking over. The pro is that women like us, who like classic pieces stand out even more. Also, Neons can be muted by adding a white button down. Lovely video as per usual.*
Totaly agree about the thong trend! I can’t believe this is coming back again.
I remember them in 2006-2009 too with the low rise jeans 🤢
I have been really enjoying the resurgence of some 90s fashions when designers take a Carolyn Bessette Kennedy angle, but now we’re seeing so-called “naughties” fashion trends that are bringing back the lowest points of that decade… vulgar, horrifying, offensive to the eye. The oversize and sloppy everything is also very much not for me. I guess that the fashion industry has to do super extremes to encourage people to buy buy buy rather than enjoying flattering, classic clothing for years!!
I know. Just trashy
Fashion does a full circle, each trend will come back eventually
You are an inspiration! Thank you for sharing your views about what is appropriate, and when it is appropriate to wear. A lot of the younger generation are clueless regarding appropriate attire- what & when.
Thank you Anna for bringing back class and elegance to women! I have saved so much money by elevating my style with your tips! I am getting so many compliments from women and MEN! There is nothing better than a classy women and man!
I became a designer/seamstress over 30 years back because ugly and weird trends have always existed; I couldn't find anything in the stores even close to bringing out the best in the female form. Taking a basic dress/pants/blazer and styling it is probably one of the most important things I ever learned. Can't go wrong with the classics . . .
I really enjoy watching Anna while pretending I'm an elegant lady. Now I will dig out the converse, tie dye and cotton tanks from my closet for summer. It is, after all, 50 degrees out where I live.
You are getting younger and younger anna! Love you sooo muchhh!!!
I find myself chuckling because I think this is my first time disagreeing with my beloved lady Anna! I love my Converse shoes. 😊 But we're also on the same page still. I only wear them with casual outfits, and very much on purpose to be casual. Lol
100% on board with you Anna with everything you said in this video. I resent that the ultra-feminine. lady-like woman is under attack in our society. Not a fan of Instagram or TikTok classless fashion trends. Feel so bad for young ladies because we are all easily influenced at that stage of life. At least when I was in high school, social media wasn't that big yet, so my embarrassing fashion decisions only exist in memory.
Masculine men are also under attack. Things that make you go hmmmm
Same I agree ! I don’t think the TIKTOK fashion trends are good either lol 😂
Ultra feminine lady like woman is not under attack where dis you get that bs from
You know, I have thought about what it must be like to be a high-school girl now, and I think it would be really difficult. I mean, social media didn't even exist when I was in high school, and the trendy clothing was not tight or revealing, and I was still very self-conscience, as I believe pretty much all teen girls are.
So I'm thinking that if it was hard for me, and all the girls I knew, it must be so much harder now.
Because now you have social media, and also the clothing for teens seems so much more revealing/tight, etc.
I mean when I was a teen, in the late 80s/early 90s, the trendy clothing (here, anyway) was just things like regular jeans, and, oh, those slouchy socks, and maybe stirrup pants, and regular T-shirts from places like Club Monacoe, Au Coton, etc. But now I see teen girls and they all seem to be in super tight jeans, short shorts, tight crop tops, etc., and I think that must be really hard to deal with the pressure to dress like that, and feeling self conscience, and worry about their bodies, and social media on top of it.
It's so refreshing to see you address this issue. I have to hunt for pieces that fit my criteria. It is almost like an extra part time job!! I am intentional and I know what I am looking for and even then I have to really apply myself to finding the right items. I HATE the oversized, baggy, loose trend. Thankfully, I am a classic dresser and I have a good collection of clothes until this ridiculous androgenous, oversized, untailored trend blows over.
I really appreciate your personal growth for accepting women who are different from you, you now say my preference and style instead of better and worse.
Love love love the 2 videos per week dynamic 😁🥳
Me too, I was so happy when I received the notification Thursday.
Absolutely, it's such a treat. 😍🥰
I generally love these opinions, but Converse are timeless. 👌🏻 They’ve been around since 1908. We like tradition, right? And they make many styles - not just “clown shoes.”
agree with all of these above! I live in Germany, more and more girls dress with the big boyish blazers or tank tops with converse, as Anna said, they can dress however they want, although when i step outside the door with my feminine styles and mannerisms, which make me stand out among the rest. So in a way, i hope a lot more other girls can dress boyish so the elegant ladies can be more unique.. haha
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I love to rock my converse sneakers. They work for me 😎 I agree with the rest though. Also, I think it’s important to mention shape wear.
Thank you for the validation:
I have been trying to purchase new clothes and having a really difficult time finding flattering, classic feminine clothes !!!
I love your videos! There may be a few things here and there that I or maybe some other women may not agree on (fashion tips considered). But I cannot emphasize enough on how much I love your thought process on being elegant and not just looking elegant! 🫶🏼
I love your channel so much ! As a girl in college I’ve recently been trying to figure out a style becoming a women but still dress my age and it’s so difficult especially with the fast fashion trend. I’d love if you made a video about college outfits/ young adults to look elegant yet still young and fun !
A lot of people have this mentality of "Why should I get all dolled up to go out in public? I'm just going to Walmart", even if they're not just going to Walmart.
I think im addicted from that ironic pictures you place often during speech...great...perfect job...Greet from The Netherlands💙🧡💚🌹
I’ve been following your channel for years and many things you say and recommend relate to modest fashion enthusiasts and Muslim women, like myself. Thank you, Anna! 🥰😍
Everytime I watching your videos about how to be elevated and look elegant in wearing clothes. I can tell and say to my self that I have a good sense when it comes to fashion,because all of the clothes that won’t look elegant to a woman is the clothes that I don’t like to wear even if it’s the trend fashion of the year.
I agree with everything except the large blazer. Depending on what you pair it with, it can look very elegant 💙
I am so happy someone finally pointed these things out!! I have been disliking these exact trends for years and avoided them as much as I could. Besides, I prefer vintage looks. So happy to have found someone who agrees with me! Stay classic forever! ❤
2 videos this week !! 😍 So happy !! 😁
Merci beaucoup Anna Bey.....all what you say here is so true🤓🙏🌺🌺🌺Dignity and Elegance❤️
I agree with all of these. And they come down to common sense. I personally don't dress for trends, but with neon, it would be smarter to use a neon accessory rather than a piece of clothing. I've seen Parisian women pull off neon pumps or a purse, paired with neutrals.
Anna I can’t agree with you more! I’ve been a classic my whole life also a minimalist, and never followed stupid trends, and I always stand out as elegant and sophisticated even when I’m wearing casual.
One thing I know for sure is when I look at my old pictures one day I won’t be laughing at myself and saying what was I thinking!
As an older lady, I have seen all these trends before. They weren't elegant the first time. Neon reminds me of the black light posters we painted when I was a teen many years ago!
I follow ur suggestions while shopping but like u said it is getting harder and harder in malls especially as most of the clothes look like they emerged from the 60s . i end up liking nothing. but i am thankful for u and ur videos at least i know not to waste money on non sustainable fashion trends.
I really do NOT like the androgynous trend. I am very féminine and love it.. My husband was saying that he would never have given a second look if I looked like a guy. He loves my femininity and he is proud to be out with me.
Good for you.
I’d worry he’ll dump you when you gain 15kg because you get sick
@@M_SC what?
Its find to dislike the androgynous trend but to bring women down just because she dresses in an unconventional way is distasteful.
@@cbgh4637 yea tbh a lot of comments here are not very lady-like. there’s no need to bring other women down, especially just for male validation. sad.
I love how you start your video without talking much unneccesary
Just coming to the point love it❤❤❤
These tips are very subjective and i might agree with some but i wouldn't call any woman cheap if she wears a crop top and shorts because putting a woman down even in my mind, is anything but feminism..in fact the very line that it might "float your boat but not my ship" ITSELF screams a sense of superiority. I've seen some ladies who look absolutely gorgeous in that casual ensemble.
Hi Anna could you do a video on what elegant moms should wear to school events with their children and what parents should not wear at the bus stop? My 6 year old daughter loves how my elegant style is no matter where I'm going. But i have seen parents with hot pants and showing to much or wearing pajamas.
Thank you for sharing your insights with us. My young teen daughter needed some dresses for school events and it was such a challenge to find something that appealed to her youth but stayed classy. I don’t understand why these so called dresses barely cover bottoms, have cut outs in inappropriate areas, spaghetti straps, and completely sexualize women. It’s disheartening.
I agree with almost every "Just don't do it" in this video. I simply can't see the point of any of these trends.
As if designers are short on ideas and are just throwing anything out there to see what sticks.
I will however admit that I am a big fan of tank tops. All it takes to elevate a bit is a sweater or fitted jacket and a pretty necklace or earrings.
And by they way, you look amazing in the dress. Definitely my kind of style!
I love your videos, Anna! 💕
Anna, I can't agree with you anymore.!!! Nowadays, the fashion market is cheap, fast fashion, unsustainable and hard to find the good piece of elegant, classic and feminine dress or outfit. love you and your charming Anna!
YES I'm so glad I watched this video! I don't quite consider myself to be "elegant" or ultra feminine, but that's mostly due to my own self-confidence. I grew up mostly in t-shirts or blouses with jeans, wanting to WANT to wear more feminine clothes but feeling kind of embarrassed to do so because I felt like people would just think I'm trying too hard. When I dress for business though I 100% embrace that side, and that's where trouble hits. I HATE these same trends you listed. A lot of them honestly feel very juvenile and shapeless, and even if I wanted to step outside of my jeans it's SO hard to find anything to wear because the trends are just way out there. I went to the mall yesterday and couldn't buy a single thing because of EXACTLY the points you made in this video! Cut-outs, cropped, boxy, unflattering clothing... and that goes for casual and business dress, it's SO hard to find clothes and now I understand why
Same! It’s a journey
Go to Ralph lauren shop! That’s where I shop!
You can never try too hard.
Try Ann Taylor, Loft and Banana Republic. These are my go to stores for both work and casual.
Love your videos! Inside of me I always loved elegant style but I don’t know what happened to me, I had these nice looking dresses hanging but still would wear momma jeans and not so good looking clothes every day. Your videos helped me see it clearly and just take a leap and get rid of all of it. Thank you
I agree with all but the tie dye is fun and I will wear it for very casual moments lol
I always enjoy seeing that beautiful painting. I like one of my cotton tank tops if I tuck it into jeans with a belt and cowboy boots, but I also am dressing for the dog park or something outdoor and casual. Good to think about though.
Good tips, thank you.
Thank you so much Anna, you cannot imagine how much my life has changed ever since I follow you 🥰
I heard that ppl who wear "immodest" clothing or not simple clothes may have a more humble heart than me even if wesr simple or modest clothes. I don't know their heart so I can't judge and I heard that from a guy so it's eye-opening. Thank you for this video that promotes preference and classiness.
I agree with you so much!! I wish there was a line of clothing for us, sick of the baggy clothes, I want to look chic, and feminine. Dress shabbily they remember the clothes, dress impeccably they remember the woman!!!
love every word and see it absolutely the same way..
Free peep show, exactly! No way for me
Give her comment a like if you don't want to give any free peep shows to men! They MUST earn it!
I used to hate converse until my bf got me the CDG ones. I tried them on and they've improved the sole a lot, much more comfortable than the older ones.
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You are so elegant and I agree with you!!
I cant buy anything in this time either!!
Showing to much skin!!
You should see Nigerian made tie dyes. They are beautiful! I agree with a few of your points. Everyone to his or her own taste of style.
Thank god someone finally addressed tie dye and androgynous clothing! I feel like I’ve been fighting an uphill battle the past few years with all of these trends on the market.
Neon doesn’t work for anyone and everyone but one example I fell in love with was the neon dress Chelsea tried on Selling Sunset. Neon can also be couture and reminds us fashion has no rules. Also love my blazers
Tie dye actually originated from west Africa, it used to be one by regal and royalty before colonialism and even till date it is still worn by a lot of affluent women in Nigeria obviously with a very different style than the westernised trend (More feminine and elegant like a flowing gown for example)
tie dye can 100% be beautiful the example she show are casual oversize shirt obviously not feminine and not elegant .i did saw some gorgeous boho tie dye dress with better quality fabrics great for more flamboyant lady's like myself
Ah you said this SO well! Most people think that if you’re a feminist, you have to support all these crazy trends but you’ve said this so well, let’s keep our dignity!
Anna, You absolutely hit the nail on the head with these fashion trends. There isn't one single item I have purchased this spring as the designs and trends are horrifying. I am 58 years, 5'1" and wear a size Small or 4-6. I don't wish to look like I'm auditioning for Little House on the Prairie or for a strip show either. I have updated my classics with new belts and shoes and called it a day! Thank you for this video.
I agree. I wear what I consider to be classical pieces and it doesn't matter if it's not in fashion at the moment.
I thought I was the only one who was having a hard time finding nice clothes lately..Everything is cropped and shapeless! It makes me feel better that I’m not alone.