Unfortunately marriage and kids aren't in a man's interest these days. The duvorvmce rate is too high and in the family court the man is always utterly obliterated. For that reason I decided not to marry. I made that decision in the spring of 1997. Now I'm about to retire (12 years early).
To be honest the best bet for a women over 35 is to get a older man whose at least 50 years old. A lot of men in their 30's are not ready to settle down until much later in life.
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ebonynaomi1085 Yep. Agreed. But women like this were too used to picking from a more youthful market. Unless she worked in prostitution worlds, going to a 50 year old is too big of a jump. Shed rather go to the beta guy she never would have gave pussy to 10 years ago whos closer to her age.
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ebonynaomi1085 And yeah, 30 year old guys with any self esteem dont want relationships due to how women treated them up until now. Im divorced and completely happy at 32. Women will only drag you down in relationships for the most part. I would pass on her if I knew her personally now. At 22, I wouldve jumped all over her lol. Wisdom is key...
VentionMGTOW All the bitter males...sure some got screwed over but I bet many others were very poor quality husbands who were used to having their parents do everything for them. When time came to get moving and working and raising a family of their own they chickened our. Raising a family is not for sissies.
I just turned 33 and recently gave up on dating and love. My last serious relationship was a year and a half ago, thought we were going to get married until I found out he lied to me about something important. But awful date after awful date, disappointing relationship after disappointing relationship, have taken their toll. Now I'm taking control, and am honestly glad I will never be dragged out to an event I don't want to go to or spend my precious time on people who aren't worthy of it ever again.
Why are so many men so angry and bitter in the comments? Shes having a normal conversation about it. Stop tearing her down. Why does it matter why shes single? So many ‘taken/married’ women are miserable and with abusive/bad partners (not all, obviously). Why the anger? That some women are existing without you? She hasnt bashed you at all in the comments. Shame on your attitude.
as a man im going to say you dont see the point. from a male perspective women who are single and over like 32 are difficult. we have been around women and having to deal with a difficult female in a relationship is horrible. from our perspective(reality) you can in fact get men very easy. this 35 year old is hot and could so get a man her age in a sec. but she is the one who is being picky, no one else. men can settle for way less. that chick is hot, lots of guys would love her, but shes the one holding the process up, you see women dont hit on men as in seek them out. they want to be sought out, in the courting process a man must make the move, so you have to have a man who does the courting, that she finds attractive to even have a first date. then the man has to have a career that she accepts is good enough for her, regardless of money, women love being married to people with titles, doctors even construction worker. so the guy has to have some sort of work job that makes a living. then the guy must have time for her and all in the while all she does is put on make up and dresses and picks and chooses what she wants, this is the same weather the female is a career women. yes men can be mean but they have a valid perspective. shes difficult and has thus created the situation. a women must work to keep her man, that is why divorce is seen as a failure for women but not men, for men its a benefit to get another girl, (any)
zee zee, great point, i did end up here through some whole. i have been thinking abought it, and instead of making a point it does seem hatefull, i will appoligize for hurting her feelings with my post, but i do have my opinions
Now imagine being 34 and still broke. I am a Man 34 years and broke. At least if you have some money you could get Married. What has hindered me from dating is lack of Cash😅 Honestly i think you women have it way easier than Men.
I am 34 and single. There is no true man and love. Many came and went but I was never truly loved. Without love what is the meaning of marriage? After 30 I lost my interest in marriage. Break up hurts for long but after my decision of remaining single by giving up finding true love life has become calm. You seem from a foreign country with liberated society but I am from a small state of India where gender role and sacrifice from women's side are must. So now I feel enlightened for not being after men and family :)
I m 35 now.. and single... Can I try to make a good relationship with you..? And one more thing... I have nothing.. no job.. no career.. no properties.. only because of a girl.. I deeply love her.. but she left me.. I want to spend more time with her.. may be that is my fault.. I preferred her than my career.
It's really funny to see all these men commenting on how she is gonna hit the wall soon. She is single and making a video about it, why are you men so worried about her pregnancy? She isn't your responsibility then why spam her? Live and let live
Wall wall wall Chad and tyrone are gone Where is my beta male who can take my born again virgin self And provide me for the rest of my life in a blissful sexless marriage 😂😂😂 P.S: sex is only for chad and tyrone by the side during marriage 😂😂😂
Finally feeling happy to see someone like me. I M 31 and still single. But most of the time I find so many negative videos on single women's of 30s age. I am glad that I came around this video.
@@theworldofsa8671 you couldnt find a good partner in ur prime because you decieved by feminist movement created by crypto lesbians. And focused ur carrier and education forget about create a strong relation with a good guy. Now Good luck with getting old alone.
Wall wall wall Chad and tyrone are gone Where is my beta male who can take my born again virgin self And provide me for the rest of my life in a blissful sexless marriage 😂😂😂 P.S: sex is only for chad and tyrone by the side during marriage 😂😂😂
The men commenting on this video are so predictable. Butt hurt that she is beautiful and inteligent enough not to have made a wrong choice. She is probably happier than any of you in a marriage with someone you don't love.
My Auntie was widowed in her forties, and she ended up meeting someone else. They are now married and have a beautiful relationship. Follow your dreams whatever they are, picture the life you want, go for it. It is never too late. I'm divorced now at 35, so not the exact same situation as you, but similar. I'm having to start over completely, I understand how you feel. I'm a believer though, and I think anything is possible. You are very beautiful (not that looks are everything either) and seem sweet, I'm sure you make many people happy single or not. I wish you the best. Beleive in yourself!!! You are loved!!!
This may seem cruel but men are generally more sympathetic to widows than a divorcee, as the latter is seen as someone who couldn't maintain a marriage.
Reading the comments is sad. I have created a TH-cam channel and it was mainly because being 36, single and childless; society makes me feel as though I have failed my life task. It's really hard to come across ladies in a similar position...especially on TH-cam. However, I can see why very few speak about their experiences because they're met with comments like the ones I've read. It would be lovely to be in a relationship but I'm equally happy not being in one. Many find this hard to believe! If anything, the only time I feel embarrassed about my situation is when I'm around people who make me feel as though I should - when they ask me why I haven't had children, why I don't just have one and why I haven't got a partner. It makes me feel as if I need to explain myself. Its crazy!
In my 30s and recently single. Really appreciate this video. I feel that there is a lot of bachelor videos but not so much from a female perspective being single in mid-ish age. Last relationship took a lot of my time and I wasn’t prepared to be single but here it is. I want to learn to be genuinely happy single. I’m trying to date but they have been really hard because of my health problems. I think I need to learn to embrace being single.
Hi I'm feeling so connected to your words . I'm 37 , quit my Human Resource job and trying to follow my dream , being a writer . I'm single , never being in serious relationship . But I'm happy with my life .
For all the sad men making fun of somebody online for opening up her soul, why? You wouldn’t say it to her face. Literally you’re an internet bully at the ripe old age of too old.
I think the point everyone is making, is that she is alone at 35 because of her poor life choices. She is the unfortunate product of Feminist influence. The FACT is, no man wants an old woman; we pick a young fertile girl to invest in. She should do what elder men do and teach the next generations of the perils of poor decisions; not telling them it's ok. Wammen tend to say things that make people feel better, not what they need to hear in order to change their situation.
No I would say it to her face. She's got like, two years, maybe. She's still pretty. But its close to that point where, well... you know things are going to get bad. Get out there be humble, honest, Direct and be faithfull to a man. Lightning does strike. Good luck.
@@glynmog8851 They still overrate themselves after 30, the only difference is they don't really believe it and have to give themselves a pep talk every day to tell themselves differently.
I am an introvert too. I get compliments all the time about my skin, and looking young for 35. I have always worked, since I was a teenager, and never really dated. I married young and he left me quickly. I just work and don't really know how to define who I am outside of what I do, and what I like. I think a woman who is single definately wants it in a small way. Like you, I weigh my life, the changes, and the impact of a family. The answer is... I like the quiet, peaceful, ordered life I have. It can get lonely, but that first scream at the cafe lets me know I am in no way able to have children. I am too set in my ways.
Go back to hell, spawn of Satan. I rebuke your mean spirited comment, and your douchey photo. Clearly you are only focused on vanity and your sexual prowess, as is evident from your effboi, gym body photo. Your attempt to make her feel like less that her worth as a woman and a child of God, speaks Volumes about your mental, emotional, and spiritual state. You need it to get it together, because nobody likes an a-hole. Looks can only get you so far, but a kind healthy spirit will bring blessings. Evilness only begets evilness...you reap what you sew.
God bless you, God will bring the right one along, if it is of his will. Do not be depressed, remember your worth is not tied to your ability to have a boyfriend/girlfriend. A good relationship will enhance your life, but it can't always promise you happiness. Find that within yourself, then some great people will come into your life as a result. Cheer up, and try to focus on the things that are going well in your life. We all have at least One. The rest can come later. Be blessed and I claim in Jesus name, that God will bring you a wonderful and faithful Partner who adores you!
I have just discovered this video. It’s exactly how I feel. I just turned 31, never had a boyfriend, no experience, Im so intense and think that my intense-ness scares guys away...but as an introvert I dont know what to do. Thank you for this
Yeah, because NOT being in a relationship is just the absolute worst thing that could Ever happen to a person! Get into a toxic relationship, such as with a full-blown narcissist, move in, endure 2 years of pure Hell, then finally extricate yourself from said relationship, and tell me you wouldn't want to be happily single, at least for a good time - like a few years. After hearing what this woman went through with the cheating a-hole, I can see why she has decided to be single for some time. Some of us singles actually Are living good, stress-free, and pretty damn awesome lives. Perfect? No. But single life is nice, when the alternative is a risk of being with someone who drains you an wastes your precious years.
I'm single too. I'm 33 years old. I wish you a good life. I travelled this year. I feel good. I left my old memories back. I feel better than before now. l felt lonely sometimes. But I if you keep do something you'll never feel bored. You become more independent. If we lose a relationship doesn't mean we loosed our lives. We can build a new life. Age is just a number. Even if I become 40 or 50 years old I can search for a partner😊
@Dennis Haberl Jepsen there are men that will look for 40's women.😂 Some widowed or divorced man who have children and finished raising them. They will value companionship of a woman.
You're not alone on this. I'll turn 35 years old in a few months and I'm single without kids. I don't want children, but I always wanted a significant other that loves me and respects me. I gave up, I attract nothing but garbage man, but lately, I don't even attract trash. Once I hit 30, men stopped looking at me. Men want young bimbos and disregard strong and smart women.
It helps me to think that it's actually just the *wrong* men that stopped looking at me. Consider it many bullets dodged. Now, whoever does look at us who we're also interested in is more likely to be a good man who sees women as whole human beings. But it is really frustrating that there are so few men out there who are available and think like this.
The men who wrote comments here remind me why I'm 36 and single. I only feel disgust when I see "the options" I have. I had a long term relationship up to 30. But finished it. The result? I'm happier, healthier and have more energi. Even more friends. I have tested new relationships after the long one, but the only one that has benefited is the men, getting my love, support and energy. They have no clue why I end it. Because THEY are happy. They dont seem to grasp that its a 2 way street.
You're sweet. I am in the same position as you now. And I just turned 35. How has life treated you in the meantime? I hope wherever you are and also everyone else who reads this ...that you are loving yourself and that you can feel happiness inside of yourself. Sweet single ladies. You're very lovable.
Oh Sophie, I hope you don’t read the majority of these comments. They make me despair for society. You are beautiful inside and out, unlike these cretinous oafs.
To you men who post positive comments love to you. To all the other men who post negative comments, learn the data, the data you are refering to is old. "Among women aged 27-34, the study showed that 86% will have conceived within a year of trying. So the 82% figure for women aged 35 to 39 is only a little lower." Read this post and learn, mens sperm becomes worse with age..>30 sooo tuff luck for you men too....www.bbc.com/news/magazine-24128176
Hi! Thank you for your video! I’m 36 and still single and I feel exactly like you! I have experienced the same things and have the same thoughts! I do get lonely but must try and stay positive.xx
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Mahmoud abd elhay Once westernized women hit 30, she may actually do it. They'll marry a dead frog on the street if it has 20 extra dollars....
W Radford hello dear I want to marry this woman im interested I will love her true love and I will take care of her and I will make her happy and fun always please connect me with this woman I want to hook up her she will feel safety with me
Being alone while feeling and experiencing the loneliness is more dangerous than taking drugs and killing ourselves slowly. It gives killer thoughts and devastated feelings and eventually makes us feel that we are worthless… I was facing horrible situation from last 6 months closely. I know that feeling, to be alone while experiencing loneliness. Even after having 17 years of aloneness, I'm feeling really difficult to come out of this… We don't feel to talk to anyone yet we have many people around us, we have enough money to buy things we like to eat or like to have but we don't feel to go out and face this world. We don't feel to interact with anyone. We have 1000’s of things to share with someone, but, we don't get that one person with whom we wanna share yet we'll have 100’s of friends just for the sake of calling them as friends. We try to cry our heart out, even tears don't wanna be with us at those dark moments. We are already running out of emotions. We want so many things but we are not sure what exactly we want. We know everything will be alright in the end but we don't know when that end will come and show us new beginning. We have 100’s of dreams to fulfill and make them true but already our past dreams became really dreams forever. We have that voice which encourages us to wake up and do it again, but we don't get to listen that voice, at least our ears are working to listen those Arjith Singh's killing songs and to feel like 'more' lost in life… Living our own life alone by choice is a blessing and one who enjoys living that life will have an entirely different approach towards life… But, living the life lonely is a curse and it is devastating, even our enemies (whom we feel to take revenge) should not face these kinda days. We can't die but more worsley we can't even live… Climax: Now I've habituated living this life and enjoying this one as well. I mean, I've practiced being alone and started coming out of loneliness… Fighting for survival and striving to excel in whatever I'm doing. Always a warrior, so, no looking back and always have that ray of hope in the deepest layers of the heart. Because hope is dangerously best thing in life. To end up with single line, “Living alone is a bliss, living lonely is a curse”. Hope it helps… Thanks for reading… Enjoy your time… PS: Despite of these hardships in life, I've really some well wishers with me in the form of my favourite collection of Quotes… Some of them are for you as a vote of thanks…
Belated birthday greetings, Sophie. Repeated Dating Disasters could also keep a person single for several years. I am 35 and am single, too. I do not wish to marry a shape-shifting, wily woman, and then whine about her until she drags me to court of law for a bitterly fought divorce, with she seeking hefty monetary compensation from me for physically abusing her and emotionally damaging her while she stayed married to me. I am happy to die poor. But I am not willing to die poor and hurt by false accusations from a witch ex-wife. Whoever I dated so far, proved me a jerk. Glad they all did that. I could figure out myself how compatible I would have been had I married any one of those judgemental girls or women. I am looking forward to meet a genuine lady wherever she is. Wish you the best in your partner search if you are looking for one. If not, wish you the best in your life. 😊
I'm 34 and is in exactly the same situation, but I've realized why and working on that. On the other hand, it is really hard to find a good man nowadays who wants a family. There are many married women who are unhappy in thier marriages, because they married infantile, abusive men. So sometimes its better to stay single untill you find the right person. After all you are the only one who is responsible for your life.
I'm 60+ and single. I had a few relationships but none ever lasted. So I didn't stop living. I traveled overseas and around the US. I had good hobbies, took single cruises, and did ministry work with my church. I just don't have a wife. My biggest fear was that I would have to remain celibate as Christians who are single are not to engage in any physical intimacy ie sex. But I didn't have a choice. I was abstinent because I never had a chance to make love. But now I guess I have changed because now I don't want to have sexual relations. I am content with singleness and no longer desire marriage. So there you have it!
I'm going to be 36.. I have no husband no kids no boyfriend. Just a dog and cat.. I've given up on dudes, just going to accept being alone, and being alone forever.
I’m the same. It takes a long time for me to become attached to someone. When I do become attached I’m all in. When it’s over it takes me even longer to move on.
Girl, I feel you! I am going to be 35 soon, still have no kids, and I am in a relationship, but not married. I feel the pressure of not waiting too long to have a baby, but at the same time... I still feel very young, and like I have a lot I want to do before I am tied down with a child to care for! I have 3 cats and they are my babies for now and they give me lots of love. The reason we feel the way we do is because 30 is the new 20! Its so true. People are living longer, waiting to get married and have kids later... and its all good. You look very good for your age, much younger than you are!
@Johnny Tramain : First of all, I am NOT a feminist. Second, I do understand biology and the fact that fertility does decline after 35... I'm not delusional. I am just simply stating that this girl still has a chance to find a man and have a baby if she wants to. She might not have 10 more years, but she still has some time. I was just trying to support a woman who feels the pressures of getting older. And as for youth and beauty? What is your point exactly? Nobody is denying what men find attractive. Personally, I do look very young. I don't have a single wrinkle, my skin is smooth, and most people still think I am in my mid 20s. So at 34 I don't feel old, but at the same time I am aware of basic biology regarding fertility and my "appeal" to men. My man finds me very "appealing" by the way. So what was your point again?
Even way back in the day, my grandma was 42 when she had my mom...a perfectly healthy baby and my grandpa was one year younger than her..And no way...my grandma was not a feminist and I'm not either.
I feel like some of us want a fairytale love that is very very rare to find. Perhaps it’s better off left as a dream but I don’t want to accept that yet :’)
No you don't want fairy tail love. You want to fuck Chad. Then you get old, and Chad doesn't want to fuck you anymore, and then you settle for the next best thing going. But I bet you'll tell Billy Beta that you love him tho. Another born again virgin looking for a sucker. AWALT
I hope things work out for you. I'm a man so I have different pressures on me, but I'm also experiencing a lot of the same feelings as you too - that's why I stumbled across your video. I was looking to see how people deal with being 35 and single because yeah, it can be rough. I know some people just stop caring after a certain age and they'll tell you they don't even want to be in a relationship, but unfortunately I'm not one of those people. Anyway, you seem like a good person and I hope things work out for you--
I don't really believe anyone who says that they don't even want to be in a relationship. That sounds like sour grapes. What pressures are you under as a man? Have you got a decent income? You don't have a biological time clock! Meet some young ladies and interact with them!
I'm 35, soon to be 36 and my 3.5 year relationship just ended 2 weeks ago. I don't have any kids either. What I've always wanted more than anything in life is to find the right man for me, commit to each other and start a family together. I have so much love that I want to give, but I haven't yet found a man who truly chooses me, wants to commit and returns that depth of emotional connection. It feels so far off right now, and I'm so scared that I won't find the right man in time to have biological children. I see from your more recent videos that you've since found love, which gives me hope. I hope you've found the love, contentment and fulfillment you've been searching for. And I hope I will too, in the not too distant future.
I am 31 and very single. I have never been in any meaning relationship, like never. Just happenstances, per se. Lol. And what's worse? Am in love with someone who doesn't love me back (and probably never will😁). But it's all good. I strongly admire your bravity. In this part of the world, we are blamed for our singleness, particularly the women. So being single isn't a happy place. It's a scary and lonely place. But I am hopeful. I am very hopeful. So, Thanks for sharing. I wish you could do more of this. It does feel like I baring my heart out to whoever cares to listen, but through another voice.
"And what's worse? Am in love with someone who doesn't love me back (and probably never will😁)" ^^^THAT right there^^^ That is one of those "poor life choices". You have control over that. So CHOOSING to be in love with someone who will never love you back is even MORE WORSE than loving someone who will never love you back. You are WASTING YOUR TIME with this "user" and you are willingly being his doormat. BUT . . . . it is your choice to make.
@@hippo-potamus You sure about that, though??? Cos from recent findings, women in their early to mid thirties do, infact, have the higher tendency to give birth to twins. So no, I still have my eggs. And they are just fine But let's talk about your name...
remember this: some people live just to play the game. most people don't live the life they want to because they just follow the system's rules. People who change the world don't live by the system they change the system. why do you think they ask those questions? because it was beating in you to get married, have kids, and die. some people live just to play the game
thank you for your video, it inspired me, I'm 29 and I'm single, no children, no boyfriend, no finance, no husband,, i have trauma in my previous relationship,, hehe,, so I'm searching video like this,, just to be motivated,, i love your thoughts. I'm from Philippines by the way :)
Wow you look 25, and beautiful! I’ve noticed my friends who got married in their 20s, look older faster than my single friends, especially the ones in their 30s. I’m 33 and single. I’ve done a lot of cool thing, this year I’m taking it easy. But I think having your own personal goals is great and pursing them, if it’s in your heart to be in a relationship I believe you will meet someone along the way. Make an update video when you find the one!!
Lindsey LaVida You are either really gullible or you are lying to support her. She does NOT look 25. I would have thought a woman who looks as sophisticated as yourself would know about the properties of fake up, but in this case you can see it miles off. She looks like an old woman wearing clown makeup. Hell, YOU look younger than her, if that’s your image.
Herodotus Farmer first how old are you second she looks young lol does not look old your not old in your 30s middle age starts at 40 to 45 not 30 you guys commenting are prob 14 or something no person in ther 20s would think she is or looks old lol
I dont know why this was in my rexommendations, but ur very adorable. Happy birthday! Girrrrl do u, who cares if ur single or not. I am not that far b3hind u in age n I am single af. It gets lonely sometimes, but I'm ok. It's definitely never too late, it will happen for u at the right time. Be patient n keep loving ur cute doggie. 😍
@@CornellBillingsWorth She is but most of the women in my family get married at that age. Genetics. Probably. In my twenties guys would barely talk to me . In my 30’s guys are asking me out. It depends on the woman and personality as well. My other aunt was married at 55. Crazy right, I’m not telling anyone to wait that long. Just not to give up if they haven’t found anyone. Some of these woman are getting angry and desperate. That isn’t a good look on anyone, man or woman. Also please actually look at the data, it’s from 1969 current 2019 days shows women have a 86 percent chance after 30 Men have a 82 percent chance. In 2021 average age of marriage for a female was 31 for a male 33. Keep in mind that means average not mandatory. Now if you want to go ahead and shoot the numbers you have in all ears. However if it’s from red pill don’t bother. Red pill thrives off of men with no self esteem thriving off downing females who aren’t married because they don’t have the guts to go out there and try very hard to get what they want.
You sounded regretful and kinda sad, and it’s okay. You don’t have to say things you don’t actually believe in. Life actually moves on after the wall and you are more than what men objectify you to be. If I loved as intensely as you, I’d put all that passion into a hobby, a business, something of your own creation. Making a family does not need to be the only fulfillment in life.
I can really relate to this video being single at 32 (but with a child) all i can say that is different for me is I'm aware I've made mistakes in who i pick as partner's in the past & it's bought me to still being single now but having been single raising my daughter alone it's made me do a lot of inner work to raise my self esteem & worth so i don't keep repeating mistakes & my daughter doesn't learn men are horrible & scary like i did from my mum. There's nothing wrong with being alone & working on yourself but there's also nothing wrong with working on you & wanting a partner the only advice i can give is work on being the best version of you to attract better men & don't accept lesser men through loneliness xxx
What if every inch of your body wants love and family ????what if your not happy being lonely how to convince urself of the opposite should you lie to yourself and tell her that you don’t want kids you don’t want love !!!its so sad to be attached to something that is out of your reach
I have been trying to tell many girls in early 20s you should start dating.. or at least goin out with guys.. you don’t know what you are missing, being in a relationship is good lives is more exciting and there is someone always watching and be with you, you share more work and you build more longer bonds... when you get really old it will ve even harder
I'm 36,but still single,,, sometimes I feel bad but still happy to b single bcoz I can do whatever I like.,,,, keep my words .....just chill dear girl ,,,,,n spread peace n humanity
If you were a man there would be a name for what you are.. a loser! But because you are a woman you get to live in fantasy land however the truth is that we all know the reality it’s a cruel joke.
People on these threads are nuts! Don't worry, lots of people have anxiety and it can take just meeting the right person for you to be able to be yourself. You absolutely can get there.
Thank you for sharing darling 🙏 I am 36 this year (born in 1985) and I am still single. I also get many questions and I feel sorry for people who do see other questions like: Are you happy? Are you fulfilling your life purpose? Are you living your dream? Do you live a life that makes YOU happy? These are the right questions. You are brave and beautiful. Koko is a happy kid. MUCH LOVE 💞
@@jamesparker722 u wanna bet? Women are happier being single than married after a divorce... It's dealing with society screaming in our face "TICK TOCK" before we get hitched that causes anxiety and unhappiness. Then women find out what marriage is usually like and we realize we were conned.
schmoo conned?? How when marriage is 100% in a females favor? You sound narcissistic and selfish most men marry to make the female happy , women are miserable single or not married maybe not in early 30s but 40s and up definitely
I'm 36 and a virgin but I had to work on myself because I had some mental and emotional issues that needed to be taken care of because I lived in a town where it was scarce. I had no life in my 20s because of that. I hate feeling like I've hit the wall but my anxiety issues and incorrect meds kept me from happiness. I just want that one person to love.
I just found this video and realized you are vegan, that's cool 🙂 I'm 35 and single too, and vegan. my last relationship was almost like a marriage, but the guy was abusive. It's taking me a long time to recover too, especially since I tried so hard to make it work. I'm a single mother of a disabled child and it has really made dating quite difficult.
Yes, some of us have been treated horribly by guys and just have not met the right guy yet. I was sexually assaulted and almost raped, I was lied to and led on by some guys. It's not like I didn't try. I was even married once from 21 to 24 years old...the guy was horrible to me...won't go into detail.
Zone 9 hello dear I want to marry you I'm interested I'm single man 44 years old never been married and no kids I'm from Egypt I looking for long term relationship a and true lm honest message me my WhatsApp number 2001270455282 my email address abdelhaymahmoud070@gmail Com
Hi am Rolly and 54 now. Am from the Philippines and a Veterinarian by profession. Am separated for 11years and have 3 kids. Hope I can have your attention
Has any of you men -who are insulting women over 35 here- higher social level or much more money than Prince Harry? Or Is any of you more worried about having a healthy child more than royal family?!..In which world and age are you living in? Any access to health care?!!
Ha, even if men where "insulting women over 35"... who cares? Women are strong, independent, and dont need no man. Plus, women berate men under six feet tall constantly. Thus, all is fair in love and war sweety :)
I am 37 and single..I stay with my parents and have no intentions of getting married in future also as I am leading a very comfortable and happy life with my family
Awww what a sweet video, thank you for not making me feel alone. I also love so hard, I will do anything for them and then once its over I need time to recover. Once the time passes I think what was I thinking about lol, nice to find someone who thinks the same
The MGTOW/MRA comments on all these videos are hilarious. It looks like these men literally spend their days searching out every last video of older single women and spamming them - and ironically seem to believe themselves superior while doing so. The 'wall' is grossly over-exaggerated nonsense that right-thinking people should ignore. While women's *apparent* marketplace value inevitably does decline with time, this is a dangerously simplistic view as it disregards factors that are more important than youth alone, mainly intellectual maturity. Older women are more likely to have cultivated this and thus tend to be far more grounded, realistic and resourceful. Younger women have almost no incentive to do so and it usually shows. This is obviously leaving out the truly degenerate types that wasted themselves away in their younger days - most older women are not this way and should not be grouped together as such.
Its crazy!! Like I see all the time the same type of profile. They watch these videos aml the time so youtube put these videos up for them... so sad. At first I was shocked by their words, but it's just a small part of men.
Yes, a small but growing number who are buying into an alternate victim ideology whilst criticising feminism for being a victim ideology - the joke really writes itself.
The inherent irony in your comment is apparently lost on you. Endlessly bitching about women being selfish narcissistic bitches, and in the same breath dismissing their need for intellectual development seemingly without connecting the dots...lol. Your second paragraph is even more laughable. It's precisely my being a Muslim woman that motivates me to improve my mind above all else. Islam requires men to be protectors and providers - it has no equivalent binding role for women. Presumably this is because women have something of an in-built role as birth-givers and primary nurturers to their young while men are left relatively free in that regard, hence the need for the explicit religious directive. Age and household chores are secondary to the basic Islamic requirement of choosing spouses based on character. Unlike the embittered losers of MGTOW, there are many Muslim men who have their priorities right and know the value that educated, intellectually competent women will bring to the table and most importantly, to the upbringing to their children.
I turned to 35 yesterday. I celebrated alone but its ok . I don’t feel sad but sometimes I think somethings could be different. Pray to God for everything that he gave us.
Kris She’s beautiful and can have anyone she wants. I was 30 when I married and had very high standards. I married a high quality man. Jack Pot! We act as if men don’t have a wall. It’s 35-40. Looks have faded as your hair grays and thins, skin becomes weathered and blotchy, skin becomes lose and muscle mass declines, ect.
Diamond Roses lol men don't have a wall. Only women have a wall lmao. You don't understand the concept because what's attractive to men and what's attractive to women are different.
John Smith lol the only way you would have found this video is if you searched for videos by single 30 something women who would still not want anything to do with your creepy ass
Me and my sister where black Friday shopping at Walmart when we both end up talking to a guy who was literally "hitting" (not physical) on both of us at the same time. We are both in our early 30's. Not married with children. When he found out he was such in shock. He just couldn't believe it. But, hello! This is a different era and women now get married later or not at all.
Worst thing any men throughout his 20s who were constantly rejected, used, being cheated on and falsely accused can do now is date chicks like this. Who are desperate and constantly bashing the guys around her age that she probably rejected throughout her life, or sweep. Why would a dude who have probably gotten use to living alone, successful or not date a chick. Who has finally hit the wall. And the same person who didn't even glance at them or brushed them off like dandruff. Keep it simple men.
Its hard to find genuine men today. I am a doctor and obviously Im very picky. I do not want to lower my standards because society has eyes on my life.
Hypergamy. It’s in our biology and there’s a social pressure, sure. But finding the right man who’s a good person, can hold his own, and sticks by your side is someone still worth giving a chance. Also a doctor, I get it.
Mr Alpha men hit the wall as well. Many cannot even get it up. Younger women will date them to use them for their money(if they have any) but secretly feel repulsed by their saggy appearance. Older people are less desirable period, but go ahead and let yourself think it’s just women and that men are magically immune to aging.
*Yawn* Clearly a demonically influenced comment. Ladies move on, nothing to see here... "The mouth speaks what come from the heart." Having said that, this man Clearly has a black, bitter heart. Something happened to make him say such a mean-spirited thing. Pity him, don't let anger take root in you. He is a pawn of the enemy. Remember, Satan and his minions Hate women.
What do women even have above 30, 40 is complete isolation but after those diseapearing looks, thousands of dollars on makeup and decreasing fertility, unable to approach men when all their life have been constantly hit on or approached, they truely do age like milk, well for modern day feminist females. Oh well back to being my fake self, fake happiness, fake face constantly looking for approval.
Unfortunately marriage and kids aren't in a man's interest these days. The duvorvmce rate is too high and in the family court the man is always utterly obliterated. For that reason I decided not to marry. I made that decision in the spring of 1997. Now I'm about to retire (12 years early).
To be honest the best bet for a women over 35 is to get a older man whose at least 50 years old. A lot of men in their 30's are not ready to settle down until much later in life.
ebonynaomi1085 Yep. Agreed. But women like this were too used to picking from a more youthful market. Unless she worked in prostitution worlds, going to a 50 year old is too big of a jump. Shed rather go to the beta guy she never would have gave pussy to 10 years ago whos closer to her age.
ebonynaomi1085 And yeah, 30 year old guys with any self esteem dont want relationships due to how women treated them up until now. Im divorced and completely happy at 32. Women will only drag you down in relationships for the most part. I would pass on her if I knew her personally now. At 22, I wouldve jumped all over her lol. Wisdom is key...
Migy forever
VentionMGTOW
All the bitter males...sure some got screwed over but I bet many others were very poor quality husbands who were used to having their parents do everything for them. When time came to get moving and working and raising a family of their own they chickened our. Raising a family is not for sissies.
I’m 37 and no kids, just living my life and being kind to others and myself.
Thats good. No need to pass on your genes, just live your life.
@@שםשםמִשפחה welp carols is single cause he is a asshat, how rude internet bully. Shine B keep being kind and she will notice.
Girl be proud
@@שםשםמִשפחה Isreal has a baby boom.
I’m doing well Cassidy
I just turned 33 and recently gave up on dating and love. My last serious relationship was a year and a half ago, thought we were going to get married until I found out he lied to me about something important. But awful date after awful date, disappointing relationship after disappointing relationship, have taken their toll. Now I'm taking control, and am honestly glad I will never be dragged out to an event I don't want to go to or spend my precious time on people who aren't worthy of it ever again.
Easy to say at 33 wait till 45 hits with no kids or husband…you’ll be sitting in a house by yourself in your own head it’s not a fun place
Depends on how you make it. Sometimes we end up alone and if we dwell in it miserably, we won’t ever find peace
Why are so many men so angry and bitter in the comments? Shes having a normal conversation about it. Stop tearing her down. Why does it matter why shes single? So many ‘taken/married’ women are miserable and with abusive/bad partners (not all, obviously). Why the anger? That some women are existing without you? She hasnt bashed you at all in the comments. Shame on your attitude.
as a man im going to say you dont see the point. from a male perspective women who are single and over like 32 are difficult. we have been around women and having to deal with a difficult female in a relationship is horrible. from our perspective(reality) you can in fact get men very easy. this 35 year old is hot and could so get a man her age in a sec. but she is the one who is being picky, no one else. men can settle for way less. that chick is hot, lots of guys would love her, but shes the one holding the process up, you see women dont hit on men as in seek them out. they want to be sought out, in the courting process a man must make the move, so you have to have a man who does the courting, that she finds attractive to even have a first date. then the man has to have a career that she accepts is good enough for her, regardless of money, women love being married to people with titles, doctors even construction worker. so the guy has to have some sort of work job that makes a living. then the guy must have time for her and all in the while all she does is put on make up and dresses and picks and chooses what she wants, this is the same weather the female is a career women. yes men can be mean but they have a valid perspective. shes difficult and has thus created the situation. a women must work to keep her man, that is why divorce is seen as a failure for women but not men, for men its a benefit to get another girl, (any)
zee zee, great point, i did end up here through some whole. i have been thinking abought it, and instead of making a point it does seem hatefull, i will appoligize for hurting her feelings with my post, but i do have my opinions
As a man, I agree entirely.
YES you are right!
Sama r white night beta male
I'm 33 and single. The pressure from the society gives me anxiety.
Don't be anxious, find a nice man and go for a walk in the park. Enjoy the moment and dont over think it.
Me too 33 and people are start to think that I'm an aunty..
It’s not society pressuring you. It’s the fact that you’re not meant to be alone.
I turn 35 in March and I’m single and not a mother. I would have wanted things to be different but watching this video made me smile. 💕
get a kid NOW!!
Now imagine being 34 and still broke. I am a Man 34 years and broke.
At least if you have some money you could get Married.
What has hindered me from dating is lack of Cash😅
Honestly i think you women have it way easier than Men.
The best explanation for why you are still single, is because of the monogamy lie. Read "The History and Philkosophy of Marriage".
I am 34 and single. There is no true man and love. Many came and went but I was never truly loved. Without love what is the meaning of marriage? After 30 I lost my interest in marriage. Break up hurts for long but after my decision of remaining single by giving up finding true love life has become calm. You seem from a foreign country with liberated society but I am from a small state of India where gender role and sacrifice from women's side are must. So now I feel enlightened for not being after men and family :)
I m 35 now.. and single... Can I try to make a good relationship with you..? And one more thing... I have nothing.. no job.. no career.. no properties.. only because of a girl.. I deeply love her.. but she left me.. I want to spend more time with her.. may be that is my fault.. I preferred her than my career.
It's really funny to see all these men commenting on how she is gonna hit the wall soon. She is single and making a video about it, why are you men so worried about her pregnancy? She isn't your responsibility then why spam her? Live and let live
If you were a man they’d say you are a loser. Fact
@@user-ni4bc2bm7c it seems these are good times to invest in cat food in india too
Pregnancy is out of the options for the fact of being vegan, even if she was 20.
Wall wall wall
Chad and tyrone are gone
Where is my beta male who can take my born again virgin self
And provide me for the rest of my life in a blissful sexless marriage
😂😂😂
P.S: sex is only for chad and tyrone by the side during marriage
😂😂😂
thats we call toxic masculinity
Finally feeling happy to see someone like me. I M 31 and still single. But most of the time I find so many negative videos on single women's of 30s age. I am glad that I came around this video.
Where are u from?
You’re pretty btw I’m 32 and single too
I'm 32 and I feel ashamed now because how ppl look at me
@@theworldofsa8671 you couldnt find a good partner in ur prime because you decieved by feminist movement created by crypto lesbians. And focused ur carrier and education forget about create a strong relation with a good guy. Now Good luck with getting old alone.
You are exquisite 🥰🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍😍
Being desperate makes us an easy target so let's wait until we meet someone who is looking for the same.
True I’ve been looking desperate recently and I only met guys who wanted to use me
I appreciate your frankness , your not alone in this boat, I'm 36 and single.
What are you doing on this Chanel is your MGTOW life is going so well? 😂🤣😂 lonely old man, pissing on himself no wife no kids. Gee how wonderful 😂
33 single too keep motivating each other
Same. Poor too.
Soooo in other words u are an unproductive loser...
Wall wall wall
Chad and tyrone are gone
Where is my beta male who can take my born again virgin self
And provide me for the rest of my life in a blissful sexless marriage
😂😂😂
P.S: sex is only for chad and tyrone by the side during marriage
😂😂😂
The men commenting on this video are so predictable. Butt hurt that she is beautiful and inteligent enough not to have made a wrong choice. She is probably happier than any of you in a marriage with someone you don't love.
She's miserable, did you even watch the video!!!!
She admitted to wrong choices in men... She fell in love with badboy assholes who knocked up other chicks.
@@countryasjed1690 probably because she thought she can change bad boys and rejected nice guys ..
@samie solanas Please provide evidence that "most married women end up abused ,divorced or dead."
@sam 7 Nah, just awake to what is actually being said and I would also like to see solid research that backs your claim
My Auntie was widowed in her forties, and she ended up meeting someone else. They are now married and have a beautiful relationship. Follow your dreams whatever they are, picture the life you want, go for it. It is never too late. I'm divorced now at 35, so not the exact same situation as you, but similar. I'm having to start over completely, I understand how you feel. I'm a believer though, and I think anything is possible. You are very beautiful (not that looks are everything either) and seem sweet, I'm sure you make many people happy single or not. I wish you the best. Beleive in yourself!!! You are loved!!!
This may seem cruel but men are generally more sympathetic to widows than a divorcee, as the latter is seen as someone who couldn't maintain a marriage.
Reading the comments is sad. I have created a TH-cam channel and it was mainly because being 36, single and childless; society makes me feel as though I have failed my life task. It's really hard to come across ladies in a similar position...especially on TH-cam. However, I can see why very few speak about their experiences because they're met with comments like the ones I've read.
It would be lovely to be in a relationship but I'm equally happy not being in one. Many find this hard to believe! If anything, the only time I feel embarrassed about my situation is when I'm around people who make me feel as though I should - when they ask me why I haven't had children, why I don't just have one and why I haven't got a partner. It makes me feel as if I need to explain myself.
Its crazy!
Sometimes it is better not to read comments. ;) Stay strong Sweetheart!
In my 30s and recently single. Really appreciate this video. I feel that there is a lot of bachelor videos but not so much from a female perspective being single in mid-ish age. Last relationship took a lot of my time and I wasn’t prepared to be single but here it is. I want to learn to be genuinely happy single. I’m trying to date but they have been really hard because of my health problems. I think I need to learn to embrace being single.
Can I get your friend
being single is much much better than wrong marriage.LUCKY U♥️
Hi
I'm feeling so connected to your words .
I'm 37 , quit my Human Resource job and trying to follow my dream , being a writer .
I'm single , never being in serious relationship .
But I'm happy with my life .
God bless you
Hi
For all the sad men making fun of somebody online for opening up her soul, why? You wouldn’t say it to her face. Literally you’re an internet bully at the ripe old age of too old.
I think the point everyone is making, is that she is alone at 35 because of her poor life choices.
She is the unfortunate product of Feminist influence.
The FACT is, no man wants an old woman; we pick a young fertile girl to invest in.
She should do what elder men do and teach the next generations of the perils of poor decisions; not telling them it's ok.
Wammen tend to say things that make people feel better, not what they need to hear in order to change their situation.
@@lowpull622 they fall into the trap! They may have a degree but zero wisdom...
kyle shut yo simp ass up
No I would say it to her face. She's got like, two years, maybe. She's still pretty. But its close to that point where, well... you know things are going to get bad. Get out there be humble, honest, Direct and be faithfull to a man. Lightning does strike. Good luck.
@@glynmog8851 They still overrate themselves after 30, the only difference is they don't really believe it and have to give themselves a pep talk every day to tell themselves differently.
I am an introvert too. I get compliments all the time about my skin, and looking young for 35. I have always worked, since I was a teenager, and never really dated. I married young and he left me quickly. I just work and don't really know how to define who I am outside of what I do, and what I like. I think a woman who is single definately wants it in a small way. Like you, I weigh my life, the changes, and the impact of a family. The answer is... I like the quiet, peaceful, ordered life I have. It can get lonely, but that first scream at the cafe lets me know I am in no way able to have children. I am too set in my ways.
Cantara Bella omg we are spirit animals. How you described yourself is exactly how I describe myself.
How are you doing cantara
I'm 33 few days ago and single. Well, nothing we can do about that so just I will move on and live my life
Go back to hell, spawn of Satan. I rebuke your mean spirited comment, and your douchey photo. Clearly you are only focused on vanity and your sexual prowess, as is evident from your effboi, gym body photo. Your attempt to make her feel like less that her worth as a woman and a child of God, speaks Volumes about your mental, emotional, and spiritual state. You need it to get it together, because nobody likes an a-hole. Looks can only get you so far, but a kind healthy spirit will bring blessings. Evilness only begets evilness...you reap what you sew.
God bless you, God will bring the right one along, if it is of his will. Do not be depressed, remember your worth is not tied to your ability to have a boyfriend/girlfriend. A good relationship will enhance your life, but it can't always promise you happiness. Find that within yourself, then some great people will come into your life as a result. Cheer up, and try to focus on the things that are going well in your life. We all have at least One. The rest can come later. Be blessed and I claim in Jesus name, that God will bring you a wonderful and faithful Partner who adores you!
Mr Alpha incel comment alert
Spiritualchick82 God is tired with that cuz he Gave her a million good man lol stop playing ok
exactly the world doesn’t stop because your single I’m learning this!! At 35
I have just discovered this video. It’s exactly how I feel. I just turned 31, never had a boyfriend, no experience, Im so intense and think that my intense-ness scares guys away...but as an introvert I dont know what to do. Thank you for this
Can we connect
❤😍🌷
How are you doing markeya
she definitely cried after the camera stopped
ahhahahaha
LOL that is a brutal comment.
Not everyone is as fragile and self-loathing at you ☺️
Why would she? She has all the freedom to eat what she wants, travel wherever she wants to go and sleep all she wants. She has the BEST life ever.
Yeah, because NOT being in a relationship is just the absolute worst thing that could Ever happen to a person! Get into a toxic relationship, such as with a full-blown narcissist, move in, endure 2 years of pure Hell, then finally extricate yourself from said relationship, and tell me you wouldn't want to be happily single, at least for a good time - like a few years.
After hearing what this woman went through with the cheating a-hole, I can see why she has decided to be single for some time. Some of us singles actually Are living good, stress-free, and pretty damn awesome lives. Perfect? No. But single life is nice, when the alternative is a risk of being with someone who drains you an wastes your precious years.
It seems like she's faking her happiness.
PHTX Looks like she’s about to bust out in tears😬
Her facial expressions are saying she's not happy being 35 and single. Body language says it all.
Women are strange. They will only find happiness when they are miserable, like when someone puts a baby in them.
PHTX ....they always fake happiness because they are always miserable
Scared and in denial
I have lots of respect for you for talking about this. I appreciate seeing real people in real situations just doing their own thing. Thank you ❤
Chloe Neffers hello my name is David Addo and l am 29 and I am single piece wassup me on+233556619966
This ought to make you sick to your stomach how the monogamy lie has caused so much pain.
I'm single too.
I'm 33 years old.
I wish you a good life.
I travelled this year. I feel good.
I left my old memories back.
I feel better than before now. l felt lonely sometimes. But I if you
keep do something you'll never feel bored. You become more independent.
If we lose a relationship doesn't mean we loosed our lives.
We can build a new life.
Age is just a number.
Even if I become 40 or 50 years
old I can search for a partner😊
From a Mgtow guy, I wish you best of luck. I love your healthy outlook that shows a new spring coming. It'll take you far. Good for you!! Peace
Ibtisam Al- Jahdhami
Where did you travel? I wanted to travel too but looking for a travelmate. Any advice
I need u really am single 48💏👪👫💑❤❤😍😍🌷🌷
@sam 7 hahahaha that bigot is salty!
@Dennis Haberl Jepsen there are men that will look for 40's women.😂
Some widowed or divorced man who have children and finished raising them. They will value companionship of a woman.
Its ok to be single regardless of age. Just be yourself and enjoy the journey of life.
i'm also 35 single , been there done that..bla bla.. too many relationship, broken up ..etc life still worth while
Tha k for summing it up
we know that you been ran through living the (promiscuous life) which will ruin your value
This is five years ago I wanna know what she looks like now
For someone saying their happy with being 35 and single. Your body language is saying something completely different.
looks to me she about to cry
t k That’s a mirror you’re looking at.
@@ClaudiaKensit come on really ? Come on lady just be honest does she look happy. She looked like she was about to cry.
I just feel bad for her.
Claudia Kensit You are an idiot...
You're not alone on this. I'll turn 35 years old in a few months and I'm single without kids. I don't want children, but I always wanted a significant other that loves me and respects me. I gave up, I attract nothing but garbage man, but lately, I don't even attract trash. Once I hit 30, men stopped looking at me. Men want young bimbos and disregard strong and smart women.
It helps me to think that it's actually just the *wrong* men that stopped looking at me. Consider it many bullets dodged. Now, whoever does look at us who we're also interested in is more likely to be a good man who sees women as whole human beings. But it is really frustrating that there are so few men out there who are available and think like this.
@@Marie-bu9pq where are you from Marie?
The men who wrote comments here remind me why I'm 36 and single. I only feel disgust when I see "the options" I have.
I had a long term relationship up to 30. But finished it. The result? I'm happier, healthier and have more energi. Even more friends.
I have tested new relationships after the long one, but the only one that has benefited is the men, getting my love, support and energy.
They have no clue why I end it. Because THEY are happy. They dont seem to grasp that its a 2 way street.
You go gradma!!
You're sweet. I am in the same position as you now. And I just turned 35. How has life treated you in the meantime? I hope wherever you are and also everyone else who reads this ...that you are loving yourself and that you can feel happiness inside of yourself. Sweet single ladies. You're very lovable.
Oh Sophie, I hope you don’t read the majority of these comments. They make me despair for society. You are beautiful inside and out, unlike these cretinous oafs.
Her 10 years ago bet you'll change your mind very quickly.
To you men who post positive comments love to you. To all the other men who post negative comments, learn the data, the data you are refering to is old. "Among women aged 27-34, the study showed that 86% will have conceived within a year of trying. So the 82% figure for women aged 35 to 39 is only a little lower." Read this post and learn, mens sperm becomes worse with age..>30 sooo tuff luck for you men too....www.bbc.com/news/magazine-24128176
@@AManInAGreySuit they have to tell themselves lies to sleep.
@@AManInAGreySuit if they where really that happy why do they always make videos about being single and 30+?
Hi! Thank you for your video! I’m 36 and still single and I feel exactly like you! I have experienced the same things and have the same thoughts! I do get lonely but must try and stay positive.xx
Mahmoud abd elhay Once westernized women hit 30, she may actually do it. They'll marry a dead frog on the street if it has 20 extra dollars....
W Radford hello dear I want to marry this woman im interested I will love her true love and I will take care of her and I will make her happy and fun always please connect me with this woman I want to hook up her she will feel safety with me
Magic 8ball says... "outlook looks bleak."
@@mahmoudabdelhay4355 I think this Arab is the only real choice for you 28+ ladies
@@walkersmith2791 I hope that friend
Being alone while feeling and experiencing the loneliness is more dangerous than taking drugs and killing ourselves slowly. It gives killer thoughts and devastated feelings and eventually makes us feel that we are worthless…
I was facing horrible situation from last 6 months closely. I know that feeling, to be alone while experiencing loneliness. Even after having 17 years of aloneness, I'm feeling really difficult to come out of this…
We don't feel to talk to anyone yet we have many people around us, we have enough money to buy things we like to eat or like to have but we don't feel to go out and face this world. We don't feel to interact with anyone. We have 1000’s of things to share with someone, but, we don't get that one person with whom we wanna share yet we'll have 100’s of friends just for the sake of calling them as friends. We try to cry our heart out, even tears don't wanna be with us at those dark moments. We are already running out of emotions. We want so many things but we are not sure what exactly we want. We know everything will be alright in the end but we don't know when that end will come and show us new beginning. We have 100’s of dreams to fulfill and make them true but already our past dreams became really dreams forever. We have that voice which encourages us to wake up and do it again, but we don't get to listen that voice, at least our ears are working to listen those Arjith Singh's killing songs and to feel like 'more' lost in life…
Living our own life alone by choice is a blessing and one who enjoys living that life will have an entirely different approach towards life…
But, living the life lonely is a curse and it is devastating, even our enemies (whom we feel to take revenge) should not face these kinda days. We can't die but more worsley we can't even live…
Climax: Now I've habituated living this life and enjoying this one as well. I mean, I've practiced being alone and started coming out of loneliness…
Fighting for survival and striving to excel in whatever I'm doing. Always a warrior, so, no looking back and always have that ray of hope in the deepest layers of the heart. Because hope is dangerously best thing in life.
To end up with single line,
“Living alone is a bliss, living lonely is a curse”.
Hope it helps…
Thanks for reading… Enjoy your time…
PS: Despite of these hardships in life, I've really some well wishers with me in the form of my favourite collection of Quotes… Some of them are for you as a vote of thanks…
Belated birthday greetings, Sophie. Repeated Dating Disasters could also keep a person single for several years. I am 35 and am single, too. I do not wish to marry a shape-shifting, wily woman, and then whine about her until she drags me to court of law for a bitterly fought divorce, with she seeking hefty monetary compensation from me for physically abusing her and emotionally damaging her while she stayed married to me. I am happy to die poor. But I am not willing to die poor and hurt by false accusations from a witch ex-wife. Whoever I dated so far, proved me a jerk. Glad they all did that. I could figure out myself how compatible I would have been had I married any one of those judgemental girls or women. I am looking forward to meet a genuine lady wherever she is. Wish you the best in your partner search if you are looking for one. If not, wish you the best in your life. 😊
honestly long as u like ur life im happy for u best luck
I'm 34 and is in exactly the same situation, but I've realized why and working on that. On the other hand, it is really hard to find a good man nowadays who wants a family. There are many married women who are unhappy in thier marriages, because they married infantile, abusive men. So sometimes its better to stay single untill you find the right person. After all you are the only one who is responsible for your life.
Ksu hello my name is David Addo and I am single I need a woman and I am 29 please wassup me on+233556619966
The truth is as you get older it will just get harder... How about you stop being so picky and actually choose men that want the best for you?
I'm 60+ and single. I had a few relationships but none ever lasted. So I didn't stop living. I traveled overseas and around the US. I had good hobbies, took single cruises, and did ministry work with my church. I just don't have a wife. My biggest fear was that I would have to remain celibate as Christians who are single are not to engage in any physical intimacy ie sex. But I didn't have a choice. I was abstinent because I never had a chance to make love. But now I guess I have changed because now I don't want to have sexual relations. I am content with singleness and no longer desire marriage. So there you have it!
Thanks for this video I'm 25 still single alone empty never had any gf
I'm going to be 36.. I have no husband no kids no boyfriend. Just a dog and cat..
I've given up on dudes, just going to accept being alone, and being alone forever.
Hey I’m same you I’m 35old and I’m single man But now after my adge become hayer I become feel I need some one for my life .what about you ?
Hiii
+Vegan Sweetheart I'm 35 and single too. It's good to know that I am not the only one in this situation.
Thanks for posting this video!
Happy 36 🍷🍷
Thank you!
I’m the same. It takes a long time for me to become attached to someone. When I do become attached I’m all in. When it’s over it takes me even longer to move on.
Keep motivating yourself at 35 because that is all you can do.
Girl, I feel you! I am going to be 35 soon, still have no kids, and I am in a relationship, but not married. I feel the pressure of not waiting too long to have a baby, but at the same time... I still feel very young, and like I have a lot I want to do before I am tied down with a child to care for! I have 3 cats and they are my babies for now and they give me lots of love. The reason we feel the way we do is because 30 is the new 20! Its so true. People are living longer, waiting to get married and have kids later... and its all good. You look very good for your age, much younger than you are!
@Johnny Tramain : First of all, I am NOT a feminist. Second, I do understand biology and the fact that fertility does decline after 35... I'm not delusional. I am just simply stating that this girl still has a chance to find a man and have a baby if she wants to. She might not have 10 more years, but she still has some time. I was just trying to support a woman who feels the pressures of getting older. And as for youth and beauty? What is your point exactly? Nobody is denying what men find attractive. Personally, I do look very young. I don't have a single wrinkle, my skin is smooth, and most people still think I am in my mid 20s. So at 34 I don't feel old, but at the same time I am aware of basic biology regarding fertility and my "appeal" to men. My man finds me very "appealing" by the way. So what was your point again?
Even way back in the day, my grandma was 42 when she had my mom...a perfectly healthy baby and my grandpa was one year younger than her..And no way...my grandma was not a feminist and I'm not either.
Do u relationship with me i l8ke u really 💏👪👫💑❤❤😍😍🌷🌷
I feel like some of us want a fairytale love that is very very rare to find. Perhaps it’s better off left as a dream but I don’t want to accept that yet :’)
No you don't want fairy tail love. You want to fuck Chad. Then you get old, and Chad doesn't want to fuck you anymore, and then you settle for the next best thing going. But I bet you'll tell Billy Beta that you love him tho. Another born again virgin looking for a sucker. AWALT
Red flag 🛑
Wilson Fisk ok simp
Eric S very true
I hope things work out for you. I'm a man so I have different pressures on me, but I'm also experiencing a lot of the same feelings as you too - that's why I stumbled across your video. I was looking to see how people deal with being 35 and single because yeah, it can be rough. I know some people just stop caring after a certain age and they'll tell you they don't even want to be in a relationship, but unfortunately I'm not one of those people. Anyway, you seem like a good person and I hope things work out for you--
I see this comment is 5years old. Just wondering how life went for you.
I don't really believe anyone who says that they don't even want to be in a relationship. That sounds like sour grapes. What pressures are you under as a man? Have you got a decent income? You don't have a biological time clock! Meet some young ladies and interact with them!
I'm 35, soon to be 36 and my 3.5 year relationship just ended 2 weeks ago. I don't have any kids either. What I've always wanted more than anything in life is to find the right man for me, commit to each other and start a family together. I have so much love that I want to give, but I haven't yet found a man who truly chooses me, wants to commit and returns that depth of emotional connection. It feels so far off right now, and I'm so scared that I won't find the right man in time to have biological children. I see from your more recent videos that you've since found love, which gives me hope. I hope you've found the love, contentment and fulfillment you've been searching for. And I hope I will too, in the not too distant future.
Can I text you? WhatsApp maybe.
I have completed my 35 years of age 12 days ago😊 I still single and my heart empty looking for his owner♡♡
I am 31 and very single. I have never been in any meaning relationship, like never. Just happenstances, per se. Lol. And what's worse? Am in love with someone who doesn't love me back (and probably never will😁). But it's all good. I strongly admire your bravity. In this part of the world, we are blamed for our singleness, particularly the women. So being single isn't a happy place. It's a scary and lonely place. But I am hopeful. I am very hopeful. So, Thanks for sharing. I wish you could do more of this. It does feel like I baring my heart out to whoever cares to listen, but through another voice.
So, you got pumped and dumped?
91% of your eggs are gone just like Chad and Tyrone.
"And what's worse? Am in love with someone who doesn't love me back (and probably never will😁)"
^^^THAT right there^^^ That is one of those "poor life choices". You have control over that. So CHOOSING to be in love with someone who will never love you back is even MORE WORSE than loving someone who will never love you back. You are WASTING YOUR TIME with this "user" and you are willingly being his doormat. BUT . . . . it is your choice to make.
@@hippo-potamus You sure about that, though??? Cos from recent findings, women in their early to mid thirties do, infact, have the higher tendency to give birth to twins. So no, I still have my eggs. And they are just fine
But let's talk about your name...
90% by 30.
97% by 40.
And the ever present undefeated WALL.
I don't think she's faking it. She sounded European, I think it's just the accent and the way she talks.
Shes from Sweden
Hello!…has anything changed?
Yeah lol somehow i still feel 20. But I'm 36.. lol I think the key is not compare yourself to others..
We're all on seperate paths..
remember this: some people live just to play the game. most people don't live the life they want to because they just follow the system's rules. People who change the world don't live by the system they change the system. why do you think they ask those questions? because it was beating in you to get married, have kids, and die. some people live just to play the game
Glad to have found your channel! 35 and up crew 💖
Tash Vlogs hello my name is David and I am single I need a woman l am 29 please wassup me on+234556619966
How are you doing tash
thank you for your video, it inspired me, I'm 29 and I'm single, no children, no boyfriend, no finance, no husband,, i have trauma in my previous relationship,, hehe,, so I'm searching video like this,, just to be motivated,, i love your thoughts. I'm from Philippines by the way :)
The Wall takes no prisoners!
I'm 30, single and sad. I'm already getting gray hair every where.
You're stunning x 😊
Try and stay happy x
I can't say how much this touched and helped My soul Xx
Thank You 🙏
The only thing stunning is her body count by now
@@user-ni4bc2bm7cyou sound so bitter lol
I usually don't join these kinds of channels but it's good to know that I'm not alone out there. Geez! I'm 34 but...well, life is strange at times.
Wow you look 25, and beautiful! I’ve noticed my friends who got married in their 20s, look older faster than my single friends, especially the ones in their 30s. I’m 33 and single. I’ve done a lot of cool thing, this year I’m taking it easy. But I think having your own personal goals is great and pursing them, if it’s in your heart to be in a relationship I believe you will meet someone along the way. Make an update video when you find the one!!
Lindsey LaVida You are either really gullible or you are lying to support her. She does NOT look 25. I would have thought a woman who looks as sophisticated as yourself would know about the properties of fake up, but in this case you can see it miles off. She looks like an old woman wearing clown makeup. Hell, YOU look younger than her, if that’s your image.
Absolutely. In fact, she might well be 40 and just lying to make herself look better.
No.
''the one''. How can a fully grown adult subscribe to the narritive fallacy deep into their 20's never ceases to amaze me!
Herodotus Farmer first how old are you second she looks young lol does not look old your not old in your 30s middle age starts at 40 to 45 not 30 you guys commenting are prob 14 or something no person in ther 20s would think she is or looks old lol
I dont know why this was in my rexommendations, but ur very adorable. Happy birthday!
Girrrrl do u, who cares if ur single or not. I am not that far b3hind u in age n I am single af. It gets lonely sometimes, but I'm ok.
It's definitely never too late, it will happen for u at the right time.
Be patient n keep loving ur cute doggie. 😍
Hello my dear my name is David and I am 29 and I am single and I need a woman please wassup me on+233556619966
I didn't like being 35 or 36 - but was happy after that 😎
My Aunt ended up getting married at 45.
If you go look at the numbers your aunt Is in a very small group of 45 year old women lmfao
@@CornellBillingsWorth She is but most of the women in my family get married at that age. Genetics. Probably. In my twenties guys would barely talk to me . In my 30’s guys are asking me out. It depends on the woman and personality as well. My other aunt was married at 55. Crazy right, I’m not telling anyone to wait that long. Just not to give up if they haven’t found anyone. Some of these woman are getting angry and desperate. That isn’t a good look on anyone, man or woman. Also please actually look at the data, it’s from 1969 current 2019 days shows women have a 86 percent chance after 30 Men have a 82 percent chance. In 2021 average age of marriage for a female was 31 for a male 33. Keep in mind that means average not mandatory. Now if you want to go ahead and shoot the numbers you have in all ears. However if it’s from red pill don’t bother. Red pill thrives off of men with no self esteem thriving off downing females who aren’t married because they don’t have the guts to go out there and try very hard to get what they want.
You sounded regretful and kinda sad, and it’s okay. You don’t have to say things you don’t actually believe in. Life actually moves on after the wall and you are more than what men objectify you to be. If I loved as intensely as you, I’d put all that passion into a hobby, a business, something of your own creation. Making a family does not need to be the only fulfillment in life.
I can really relate to this video being single at 32 (but with a child) all i can say that is different for me is I'm aware I've made mistakes in who i pick as partner's in the past & it's bought me to still being single now but having been single raising my daughter alone it's made me do a lot of inner work to raise my self esteem & worth so i don't keep repeating mistakes & my daughter doesn't learn men are horrible & scary like i did from my mum. There's nothing wrong with being alone & working on yourself but there's also nothing wrong with working on you & wanting a partner the only advice i can give is work on being the best version of you to attract better men & don't accept lesser men through loneliness xxx
Thank you for your comment and I really admire your strength! Stay strong Sweetheart!
@@vegansweetheart7619 yes very truly say .I appreciate your advice..
I m also single...
Have a beautiful weekend..
Have a beautiful weekend my dear friend 🌹💃
"Lesser men." Enjoy your lonliness.
Have a beautiful time enjoy your time... would you like to talk to me anybody..I am here too
This was brave. Thank you for sharing.
Ms. S hello
this was sad you mean
I am 28 and still single..do not have a bf yet..and this is already the end of the year..next year I am gonna be older and still single
You’re 35??? You look so much younger. I wish I look like you when I’m your age 😊
@Capt Ranvijay Rana you can slap on make up on an old woman and not look anywhere as good as she does lol
It's better to be single and happy than married and miserable
What if every inch of your body wants love and family ????what if your not happy being lonely how to convince urself of the opposite should you lie to yourself and tell her that you don’t want kids you don’t want love !!!its so sad to be attached to something that is out of your reach
I have been trying to tell many girls in early 20s you should start dating.. or at least goin out with guys.. you don’t know what you are missing, being in a relationship is good lives is more exciting and there is someone always watching and be with you, you share more work and you build more longer bonds... when you get really old it will ve even harder
I'm 36,but still single,,, sometimes I feel bad but still happy to b single bcoz I can do whatever I like.,,,, keep my words .....just chill dear girl ,,,,,n spread peace n humanity
I'm 26, single, never been in a relationshio. Because i'm an introvert and suffer from anxiety.
If you were a man there would be a name for what you are.. a loser! But because you are a woman you get to live in fantasy land however the truth is that we all know the reality it’s a cruel joke.
People on these threads are nuts! Don't worry, lots of people have anxiety and it can take just meeting the right person for you to be able to be yourself. You absolutely can get there.
Thank you for sharing darling 🙏 I am 36 this year (born in 1985) and I am still single. I also get many questions and I feel sorry for people who do see other questions like:
Are you happy?
Are you fulfilling your life purpose?
Are you living your dream?
Do you live a life that makes YOU happy?
These are the right questions. You are brave and beautiful. Koko is a happy kid. MUCH LOVE 💞
Are you virgin, I mean didn't make any relationship
She is crying in the inside, same as me lol
She deserves it!!!!
Sorry you aren't happy with your own company, some of us love it
schmoo lies 😂
@@jamesparker722 u wanna bet? Women are happier being single than married after a divorce... It's dealing with society screaming in our face "TICK TOCK" before we get hitched that causes anxiety and unhappiness. Then women find out what marriage is usually like and we realize we were conned.
schmoo conned?? How when marriage is 100% in a females favor? You sound narcissistic and selfish most men marry to make the female happy , women are miserable single or not married maybe not in early 30s but 40s and up definitely
I'm 36 and a virgin but I had to work on myself because I had some mental and emotional issues that needed to be taken care of because I lived in a town where it was scarce. I had no life in my 20s because of that. I hate feeling like I've hit the wall but my anxiety issues and incorrect meds kept me from happiness. I just want that one person to love.
God bless you
I'm ready
I just found this video and realized you are vegan, that's cool 🙂 I'm 35 and single too, and vegan. my last relationship was almost like a marriage, but the guy was abusive. It's taking me a long time to recover too, especially since I tried so hard to make it work. I'm a single mother of a disabled child and it has really made dating quite difficult.
Zone 9 I wish you all the best! You deserve someone who treats you right! ❤️
Vegan Sweetheart thank you ☺️
Yes, some of us have been treated horribly by guys and just have not met the right guy yet. I was sexually assaulted and almost raped, I was lied to and led on by some guys. It's not like I didn't try. I was even married once from 21 to 24 years old...the guy was horrible to me...won't go into detail.
he wasnt abusive, you are just delusional and a self absorbed whiny bitch
Zone 9 hello dear I want to marry you I'm interested I'm single man 44 years old never been married and no kids I'm from Egypt I looking for long term relationship a and true lm honest message me my WhatsApp number 2001270455282 my email address abdelhaymahmoud070@gmail
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Hi am Rolly and 54 now. Am from the Philippines and a Veterinarian by profession. Am separated for 11years and have 3 kids. Hope I can have your attention
Has any of you men -who are insulting women over 35 here- higher social level or much more money than Prince Harry? Or Is any of you more worried about having a healthy child more than royal family?!..In which world and age are you living in? Any access to health care?!!
How did you get the line through that?
Ha, even if men where "insulting women over 35"... who cares? Women are strong, independent, and dont need no man. Plus, women berate men under six feet tall constantly. Thus, all is fair in love and war sweety :)
Im a dumb man so i dont get what u said . But im also happy im dumb so i wont get a chance with u. So its a win win if you ask me.
Congratulations if you marrying prince Harry.
Stupid comment, wall-hitter.
I am 37 and single..I stay with my parents and have no intentions of getting married in future also as I am leading a very comfortable and happy life with my family
Same here girl.
Girl you 37 with your parents with no kids? At this point your existence doesn’t really matter I mean fr
33 just waiting for a kind respectful godly strong man. Many people I've met like to rush me. They turn out to be stalkerish or controlling.
Ask yourself "What is the common factor in the many people I've met?"
How are you doing princess
@@DisabilityExams ask yourself if most people nowadays fit the bible description of those in the last days. Lovers of themselves...greedy...unfaithful
@@cassidyddon74 I'm great and yourself?
@@AmaLoveGoddessTV I'm great can I chat with in private my email cassidyp2k@gmail.com,, you can drop.yours Whatsapp number
Awww what a sweet video, thank you for not making me feel alone. I also love so hard, I will do anything for them and then once its over I need time to recover. Once the time passes I think what was I thinking about lol, nice to find someone who thinks the same
This was recommended to me because I follow MGTOW
Yeah me too
40 single, no kids I’m living a happy and stress free life, and have no regrets about it at all.
Coco we need to talk about DGTOW
You will soon be living with a cat.
Then there will be lots of cats.
A real lot of cats.
DGTOW! Love it!
Blue pill Coco ahhh
🤣🤜
I’m 36, pharmacist. SINGLE.
The MGTOW/MRA comments on all these videos are hilarious. It looks like these men literally spend their days searching out every last video of older single women and spamming them - and ironically seem to believe themselves superior while doing so.
The 'wall' is grossly over-exaggerated nonsense that right-thinking people should ignore. While women's *apparent* marketplace value inevitably does decline with time, this is a dangerously simplistic view as it disregards factors that are more important than youth alone, mainly intellectual maturity. Older women are more likely to have cultivated this and thus tend to be far more grounded, realistic and resourceful. Younger women have almost no incentive to do so and it usually shows.
This is obviously leaving out the truly degenerate types that wasted themselves away in their younger days - most older women are not this way and should not be grouped together as such.
Its crazy!! Like I see all the time the same type of profile. They watch these videos aml the time so youtube put these videos up for them... so sad. At first I was shocked by their words, but it's just a small part of men.
Yes, a small but growing number who are buying into an alternate victim ideology whilst criticising feminism for being a victim ideology - the joke really writes itself.
The inherent irony in your comment is apparently lost on you.
Endlessly bitching about women being selfish narcissistic bitches, and in the same breath dismissing their need for intellectual development seemingly without connecting the dots...lol.
Your second paragraph is even more laughable. It's precisely my being a Muslim woman that motivates me to improve my mind above all else. Islam requires men to be protectors and providers - it has no equivalent binding role for women. Presumably this is because women have something of an in-built role as birth-givers and primary nurturers to their young while men are left relatively free in that regard, hence the need for the explicit religious directive.
Age and household chores are secondary to the basic Islamic requirement of choosing spouses based on character. Unlike the embittered losers of MGTOW, there are many Muslim men who have their priorities right and know the value that educated, intellectually competent women will bring to the table and most importantly, to the upbringing to their children.
@@Muslimah1987 Thumbs up. Great mind, smart man.
The comments from a feminazi, I believe 😆😆
I turned to 35 yesterday. I celebrated alone but its ok . I don’t feel sad but sometimes I think somethings could be different. Pray to God for everything that he gave us.
Hi Pamir can we talk
@@abbdas22mohammed 👎🏻👎🏻
@@pamirso6293 Why
What are you thinking
@@pamirso6293 👍👍
See that... Yes that's a wall and you're going to hit it hard.
John Smith
going? That was when she was 30.
John Smith LMAO
Kris She’s beautiful and can have anyone she wants. I was 30 when I married and had very high standards. I married a high quality man. Jack Pot!
We act as if men don’t have a wall. It’s 35-40. Looks have faded as your hair grays and thins, skin becomes weathered and blotchy, skin becomes lose and muscle mass declines, ect.
Diamond Roses lol men don't have a wall. Only women have a wall lmao. You don't understand the concept because what's attractive to men and what's attractive to women are different.
John Smith lol the only way you would have found this video is if you searched for videos by single 30 something women who would still not want anything to do with your creepy ass
Im 35 this april and many people question why im not married.. thays why im find your channel
Hi, good day, I'm not @ 35 without a husband or child becos of too much disssapointment from men but I can't kill myself I will keep pushing.
Can we be friends
Me and my sister where black Friday shopping at Walmart when we both end up talking to a guy who was literally "hitting" (not physical) on both of us at the same time. We are both in our early 30's. Not married with children. When he found out he was such in shock. He just couldn't believe it. But, hello! This is a different era and women now get married later or not at all.
Worst thing any men throughout his 20s who were constantly rejected, used, being cheated on and falsely accused can do now is date chicks like this. Who are desperate and constantly bashing the guys around her age that she probably rejected throughout her life, or sweep. Why would a dude who have probably gotten use to living alone, successful or not date a chick. Who has finally hit the wall. And the same person who didn't even glance at them or brushed them off like dandruff. Keep it simple men.
Its hard to find genuine men today. I am a doctor and obviously Im very picky. I do not want to lower my standards because society has eyes on my life.
Hypergamy. It’s in our biology and there’s a social pressure, sure. But finding the right man who’s a good person, can hold his own, and sticks by your side is someone still worth giving a chance. Also a doctor, I get it.
That's the problem.. your picky...... As your clock is ticking your options will run out and eventually you will just die being single.
LADIES THE WALL IS REAL! It comes hundred miles per hour like a freight train.
God died Here Men hit it too!
Who would want to marry a man who talks like this anyway? I wouldn't want to marry a man who thinks I am garbage after 30.
Mr Alpha men hit the wall as well. Many cannot even get it up. Younger women will date them to use them for their money(if they have any) but secretly feel repulsed by their saggy appearance. Older people are less desirable period, but go ahead and let yourself think it’s just women and that men are magically immune to aging.
*Yawn* Clearly a demonically influenced comment. Ladies move on, nothing to see here...
"The mouth speaks what come from the heart." Having said that, this man Clearly has a black, bitter heart. Something happened to make him say such a mean-spirited thing. Pity him, don't let anger take root in you. He is a pawn of the enemy. Remember, Satan and his minions Hate women.
What do women even have above 30, 40 is complete isolation but after those diseapearing looks, thousands of dollars on makeup and decreasing fertility, unable to approach men when all their life have been constantly hit on or approached, they truely do age like milk, well for modern day feminist females. Oh well back to being my fake self, fake happiness, fake face constantly looking for approval.
The analogy with the perfect couple vs the child crying...i so get this
You’re beautiful. Own it
Middle age and never before been married? Time to reflect back on those Miami trips during your prime. The wall comes undefeated ladies, party’s over