I'm sorry you were betrayed and abused by that family member, I agree, you don't have to forgive them as long as you don't let those past events consume you. Learn from the past and distance yourself from people like the person who abused you and go about your life. I hope you're doing well and continue to grow even stronger.
Thank you so much for your kind words. I am doing that and working through it with great help:) I'm doing much better, but of course like everyone I have my hard days and good days, but as time goes on and with help, I have less bad days
Ah, maybe you don't know the difference between sex and gender? Sex is biological, gender is social. "Claiming to be a member of the opposite sex" is either delusional or a misunderstanding of the difference. Choosing/preferring to present one's self as a *gender* different than the one you were assigned at birth can be as simple as boys wearing nail polish and girls wearing pants, depending on the time and place. Now hold on to your hat... sometimes people are lgb AND trans (t), at the same time 🤓! Idk if you need to hear this, but: Nobody's existence exists to erase yours 💕
I'm sorry you were betrayed and abused by that family member, I agree, you don't have to forgive them as long as you don't let those past events consume you. Learn from the past and distance yourself from people like the person who abused you and go about your life. I hope you're doing well and continue to grow even stronger.
Thank you so much for your kind words. I am doing that and working through it with great help:) I'm doing much better, but of course like everyone I have my hard days and good days, but as time goes on and with help, I have less bad days
Being LGB and expressing a preference claiming to be a member of the opposite sex are not the same. Thay should never be conflated.
Ah, maybe you don't know the difference between sex and gender? Sex is biological, gender is social. "Claiming to be a member of the opposite sex" is either delusional or a misunderstanding of the difference. Choosing/preferring to present one's self as a *gender* different than the one you were assigned at birth can be as simple as boys wearing nail polish and girls wearing pants, depending on the time and place. Now hold on to your hat... sometimes people are lgb AND trans (t), at the same time 🤓!
Idk if you need to hear this, but: Nobody's existence exists to erase yours 💕