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Listening to this video was being able to finally take a deep breath. Prior to this relationship, I was in full-time ministry both here & abroad. I blamed myself for believing his lies. He's a mental health professional & knows exactly how to maneuver, lies & twist truth... so much more. The physical toll has been enormous. Yet, no more. I covet your prayers while on this journey back to wholeness in the Lord 🕊 ✝️
@@LadyofPeace89RO Thank you for sharing your experience. May God grant you strength, peace, and wisdom as you move forward on this journey. Praying for His healing and guidance to lead you back to wholeness in Him. Amen! 🙌
Please, help me understand, I am a woman. Is this the same message for a woman? I have so many questions... im to submit to my husband. Help me understand
My father and mother both is narcissist and struggle with mental illness. I was thrown around in foster care and back and forth in their custody. My life was very chaotic because I was cast as the black sheep and didn’t know what I was up against. Four years ago I let go of both sides of my family and now my life is absolutely beautiful.
Amen! I was married to a narcissist. The woman drove me to despair. I thought I was going mad. Praise the Lord ! I got out of that nightmare. She left me with health problems, but the good Lord will get me through this. Praise Jesus !!
I know exactly how you feel. It's horrible... I was married to a Narcissist for 10 years, trying to repair the relationship for 6 of them..... Thank God, He brought me out of it. I am now married to a beautiful, loving, Godly woman. My kids now get to see what a healthy relationship is supposed to look like.... Unfortunately, the kids too, cop the narcissism from their mother.... I pray that God would reveal it to her, before it ruins her second marriage and her relationship with her kids......
GOD is the answer. PRAY always to the one that hears our prayers . “ We are not alone .” * This vid has been an inspiration to me. I wept with gratitude as I listened and felt comforted . ❤.
From the video, I learned 5 ways to deal with narcissists: 1. Do not confront narcissists directly: They won't admit their faults but will manipulate and shift blame, leaving you drained and disheartened. 2. Entrust all injustice to God: Trust in God's justice instead of seeking personal revenge. 3. Set boundaries to protect yourself: Love from a distance and guard your heart instead of trying to fix the unchangeable. 4. Seek support and healing: Rely on community, counseling, or therapy to heal and rebuild yourself. 5. Focus on God's purpose for you: Don't let narcissists dominate your mind; focus on the peace and purpose God has set for you.
I cut them out of my life, regardless of who they are. They won’t change, they will suck the life out of you and ur personal relationships, esp with ur spouse & children, and u will be left completely drained, disheartened exhausted and at ur wits end not to mention how they twist and manipulate everything to be ur fault and never take blame or hold themselves accountable for anything. My husband and I have to have separate holidays because of his mother. I can no longer tolerate being in her presence nor will I subject myself to her behaviors that serve absolutely no purpose other than to make me feel like crap about myself and question everything about me who I am & what I represent….. no thanks, I’ll pass
The narrator is eerily presenting my personal story, verbatim. Half of me is relieved that I am not going mad & the other half of me feels helpless, because my narcissistic husband has done such a good job convincing my son, siblings & friends that I am indeed crazy, paranoid etc. Our separation process has started but the lies continue. I am astonished at my husband’s creativity in his twisted interpretation of facts. He normally cannot figure how to get out of a paper bag! In God I trust, and I will continue praying with all my heart, for both of us: for his release from the clutches of the devil § for myself, that I may survive this distressing situation. In Jesus’ Name I ask for freedom from my husband’s toxicity. Amen.
I completely get it!! My husband has many convinced I am completely nuts !! I admit Im pretty tuff. BUT it freaks me out because like you said … it’s amazing how most of the time they couldn’t get out of a wet paper bag!!
This is the most beautiful and workable video I have seen on how to get on with a narcissist. This God factor is really soothing and comforting. Let's trust God to turn the heart of 'the king' to our favour. Thank you so much for this video.
I was married 35 years to a narcissist and barely escaped with my sanity! God has taught me the exact same thing that is being taught on this video! Please listen and let the Father fight this evil for it is beyond you and your abilities!
I just want to say this is the best video I have watched regarding my heart to begin to heal from the pain of narcissism… I want to say my ex told me I was the problem. He said you are the narcissist. Everything is your fault. it’s your fault my life didn’t work, but on and on and on told me who to be how to behave I was young and naïve. Now I’m much older and we are divorced if you are young and listening or reading. Please listen, don’t throw your pearls before swine. There’s so much in this lovely video to help you heal. ❤❤❤
My mate is a narcissist. It is draining. God reminded me to turn to him in these times, he'll take care of it. But you have to be guarded by their constant turmoil. God loves me and I love him
Thank you for sharing. 🙏 May God continue to strengthen and protect you, bringing peace as you trust in His love and guidance through this challenge. 🌿✨
Sorry, GOD doesn’t want his children with a narcissist - the Holy Spirit doesn’t want you mixing your soul with demons - demons are narcissists - you can’t bow the Holy Spirit to someone who doesn’t really care and isn’t really there - good luck 👍
I know what you are going through. I got rid of a so called friend many years ago. It was a nightmare. Please read this list and tell me what you think? Is it similar to your situation?? 1) If i bought something he would immediately the next day have to buy something similar but more expensive, 2) He would act like he wanted to see you succeed, but deep down wanted to see you fail. 3) He would gain your confidence and get you to divulge personal things about yourself and then use it against you during an argument. 4) Was extremely jealous of other people's happiness. 5) If he saw you having a conversation with someone he would deliberately jump in and try to be the center of attention. 6) If you left him out of a conversation for no more than 1 minute he would go all silent and not talk for the rest of the day or night 7) He thought everyone was jealous of him. 8) Was extremely manipulative. 9) Would never apologize when he was clearly in the wrong. 10) Would have extreme mood swings, could be happy and over the moon one moment, and then down in the dumps the next. 11) Very big backstabber. 12) would gain the confidence of my close friend/friends and then once he had their confidence would try to turn them against me. 13) He would tell you how to live your life and point out all your faults, but as soon as you did the same to him he would lose it. 14) He would accuse you of what he was doing. For example, if he was jealous of something you bought or had achieved he would turn it around and say "You are jealous of me because i have ABC etc" 15) He would deliberately ignore you in group situations and then look at you from the corner of his eye to see your reaction. 16) If he spoke badly against someone, he would try to get you to do the same. If you didn't, then he would get very upset. 17) Many times he would call me and have a friend of mine next to him without my knowledge, he would then talk badly about them so that i would do the same. Of Course i wouldn't do that and then he would laugh and tell me that my friend was next to him. 18) He would treat you like shit and the next day come to your house and act like he did nothing wrong. When you confronted him over it he would act like "omg i was only joking" or "it "wasn't really a big deal" 19) We were having a conversation once about death. And when I mentioned how my uncle had passed away at 35 from leukaemia and left 2 children behind and how it had affected all of us, he started laughing. Then he said "im sorry I don't know why I laughed"
I was friends with a narcissist for 7 years. This is so unbelievably accurate. You can’t change them. Just pray for them and love them from a distance.
Thank you for sharing. 🙏 Loving from a distance while praying for them shows both wisdom and grace. May God give you continued strength, peace, and clarity as you entrust this situation to Him. Amen ✨
I also have a friend who could be considered a narcissist depending on where you are at with them on a spectrum of in sight of the red flags to watch for and the sly things they do or dont do to get a reaction out of you of some kind,i admit its easy to fall prey if you dont practice self healing each and every day.i pray for him.
This message helped me beyond measure i must let go stop trying to confront my abuser for truth and leave it up to the creator to heal us both. I must move on for my own mental health this situation is draining me from inside out. Thank you for this reminder to let God fix it in due time.
Congratulations 🎉. I was Married to a Angry, Controlling Narcissist for 23 years. I had a Luxurious Lifestyle. It had No Merit to my Sanity. I Divorced him and now live a Very Happy minimalist lifestyle. It took a while for healing. You will be so Happy to be by yourself now. Jesus Christ is My Savior …
I was engaged to a true narcissist. He had no boundaries and constantly blamed others, playing the victim. I am so thankful we didn't marry! He continually looked down on me, thinking he was so much better because he made more money. Status was everything to him.
This is so very true and so timely. Gods word don’t throw your pearls to pigs describes it beautifully Being in a narcissist relationship is soul destroying
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. 🙏 It’s so true-God’s Word offers such profound wisdom for navigating difficult relationships. May He continue to give you the strength and clarity to protect your heart, and may His peace bring healing to your soul as you trust Him fully in all things. ✨
I’m so glad this message resonated with you. May God bless you abundantly, granting you strength, wisdom, and peace as you navigate these challenges. Thank you again for your generosity and support! Amen! 🙌
Amen! 🙏 I’m so glad this message reached you at the right time. May God continue to guide you with His wisdom and peace, and may His presence strengthen you as you walk in faith and trust in His perfect plan. 🌟
Focusing on our own emotional well-being is truly empowering. May you find peace, strength, and continued growth as you manage your emotions with grace and wisdom. Blessings to you and your journey. 🙏
Amen❤️✝️🙏😄. Narcissists are masters of manipulation and gaslighting; . They're also very tortured souls needing divine direction to heal. Playing along with their game drains our confidence and self worth. After some 19 years, broken to the point of giving up on life, I began to learn from God's call and protection to avoid contact with that person as far as possible. Practically it became possible to do that safe in God's, care and orotection.. Slowly I began to heal in the peace of the separation. Then something amazing happened; the narcissist gave up trying to draw me back into her game What an awesome friend we have in Jesus?!
Thank you for sharing such a powerful testimony. It’s inspiring to see how God’s guidance and protection have brought healing and peace to your life. May He continue to lead you on your healing journey, fill you with peace, and protect you as you walk in His strength. Blessings to you. 🙏✨
I, too, had been beaten down by my Narcissistic Mother for 61 years. All I wanted was her love, which was never available. I finally confronted her. She absolutely does not appear to realize her detriment to my entire life. Not wanting to disrespect her, I continued to take her unbelievable attacks against me until I started learning of our Father. We now haven't talked for a year. I've been trying to heal, but when I listened to C.S. Lewis all the pieces immediately began to become clear. ❤
Yep. I've tried to do the same with my parents for a long time. Dad used to yell, scream, & hit me. Mother was my worst critic. I just Pray. I speak Life into my sons when I am with them. Because people who say they "love you", don't match their words to their actions.
Thank you for sharing your story. It’s inspiring to see you focus on healing and breaking cycles by speaking life into your sons. May God continue to guide you, bringing healing and wisdom as you lean on Him for strength. 🙏
Amen! I am currently estranged from my daughter who is a narcissist. She had a baby two months ago and I have not met my only grandchild yet. It is painful and sad. Yet I am at peace now after spending years trying to make her happy and feeling like I did everything wrong. It’s in god’s hands. This video helped remind me of that. Thank you! ❤🙏🏻
I just don t find words for thanking God for your channel AND on this narcisism. I suscribed AND began to put your biblical referentes in a special note book. I m christian AND I follow you because you re Christian too. I suffered 10 years with my narcisist husband, separaste me from him for a period of 3 years, until he aceptado to come to my church. I praid for his salvación, he came back AND God changed him, little by little. Now after 6 years for him to be Christian, we have a nice relationship. Since several months, God revealed me all you say in this video. I found really peace, harmony, being focused only in God s Words, Christ AND His Holy Spirit. I don t forget that my husband Is a narcisist, with sometimes resurgired little crisis, but I don t give him More the power to distract me from God. God bless you. 🙏♥️📖 Desde México
Amen. My spouse is also a narcissist! Have been praying for his change and his deliverence in Christ. Its tskingso so long - 33 years - I'm hanging on, trusting God to better my situation, its very, very tough and draining, but I'm learning to focus of the Lord and seeing the battle won by Jesus for me. My husband is influential and keeps harping on how money works wonders and since my work ( a principal and owner of a small school that he told me to open when his work was at the end of progress and he was almost left with nothing) is not paying well as i focus on the real issue of winning more souls for Christ and helping the unfortunate and deprived families in society. Thankyou for showig how to keep in prayer and quiet spiritual battle tactics. God bless you. Do pray for me that i may come out victorious not only in my family situation but also in the small society we live in Kullu, Himachal Pradesh - India.
I'm so glad this message helped bring clarity and freedom to you. May God continue to guide you on your path of healing and growth. Stay strong in His love and wisdom. Blessings to you. 🙏✨
I was especially impacted by your quote of Jesus that if ppl will not listen to us or our words, we are to shake the dust off our feet as we leave. I'd forgotten about that. I have a niece with whom I was trying to have a relationship, but she was quite mocking of my work for the Lord, and has been displaying contempt for me in other ways, and I'd forgotten the Lord's command to leave in such situations. I'll keep praying for her, and He will deal with her heart.
Amen!! Powerful words…..placing all in God’s hands. Praying for continued peace, strength, wisdom and his loving arms to hold ALL close to HIS heart!!🙏🕊️
All glory to God! 🙌 May His wisdom and love continue to guide and strengthen you, and may His peace fill your heart as you trust in His perfect will. Hallelujah to the One who is always faithful! ✨
Your messages and wisdom through CS Lewis and Gods Word bring a peace that surpasses all understanding. This message was so insightful as to my effort to try to “fix” my situation has only come to further frustration. I realized even seeking my own relationship with the Lord I could do nothing to the other person. Only the Lord can remove what’s blinding them to His Truth. I pray as we head into the Christmas Season, the power of the Holy Spirit can breakdown the mighty stronghold they have built up and become everything whom the Lord has called them to be! AMEN
I'm Muslim but this was the most comforting video I have watched on how to deal with a narcissist. It aligns completely with my beliefs on focusing on God and seeking justice, strength, healing, and happiness from Him. Thank you so much. 💗
You can’t just keep getting used, abused and run over to your own death. Yes you do have to let them know. They may not see it now but they will remember you were the one who stood for God and Justice.
Id advise to learn decernment and be ok with walking away from that situation.. it rips you apart and can destroy your life.. been close two or three times before I found video like this one.. I looked into it and so much more started to make sense... God is real and the only way to him is through Jesus Christ Our Lord and if you call out a narcissist without them to help you through it then it will prob not end well... my methods will be changing for sure.. I can't take the pain it causes anymore.. so discernment is a must for me.. God watch over all in Jesus's name amen 🙏
I’m so wounded by the narcissist that I married I hope it’s not to late for me please pray for my deliverance with me I am feeling suicidal I have anxiety I can’t eat haven’t eaten a meal in almost 4 days Lord help me please 😔
It’s not too late for you! Jesus, please strengthen this sister in this very moment, may only the peace that Jesus gives flood your soul. Brenda, put on the full armor of God right as you read this right now. The helmet of salvation to guard your thoughts. I ask Jesus, to rebuke the spirit of suicide that is trying to worm its way into your thoughts. The breastplate of righteousness to guard your heart. Grab a Bible NOW and😢 gird your loins with the TRUTH. Read Psalms 139, you are so precious to God, that’s the TRUTH. Hold up the shield of FAITH. God has a plan for your life. A good plan. Jesus please pour out more FAITH on this sister to trust she can find the path out of this destructive relationship. Be a lamp to her. 🙏😇 Hang on. I have been through a year of misery because of my narcissistic daughter in law, mother to two young grandsons and my wonderful son who is walking through this right now. I understand exactly how you feel. You are not alone. Is there any friend or relative you could go to for a few days to regroup? I’m praying for you🙏. (By the way, my name is Brenda too💕
I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. Please know you're not alone, and God sees your pain. I’ll be praying for your healing and strength during this difficult time. May He bring peace to your heart and help you find the support you need. If you're in immediate danger, please reach out to someone you trust or a helpline. God is with you. Amen 🙏🙌
@@brendahenderson-zk8qn it is never too late for you to turn to God. His Word is FOOD (spiritual) that we most absolutely need in order to make it through these relationships. Run to Jesus (The Word of God) and find your IDENTITY in WHO HE SAYS YOU ARE. Jesus Christ loves you so much that He died for you. That is TRUE LOVE! Fix your EYES on JESUS! He will never leave you nor forsake you! That’s a PROMISE!
If you can try to divorce him ASAP, he will never change! We do more destruction by staying than we do leaving! I was with a narcissist for 12 years and had three kids. I had auto immune conditions in and out of hospitals only to be told there was nothing wrong with me! Your body is the best indicator of evil if you just feel repulsed anytime or the urge to look for an exit around a human, that’s the red flag! When you’re around good people you never wanna leave!
Praying for you Brenda.🙏 God will never leave you nor forsake you. Tell Satan to get behind you. Keep yourself nestled under his wings of protection. Never let go. He will catch every tear and fill you with love. I pray in Jesus'Holy Name 🙏
Amen. Video powerful 4 reassurance of God's power. He knows all & His word(bbl) explains how 2 deal w my narcissist. Gods knows me & my pain. He wants me 2 let Him take it now. So, I'll Let Him. Yahweh is righteous & helps me 2 remember I'm a princess N HIS kingdom. The daughter of The KING.
Thank you so much for your generosity and support! 🙏 May God bless you abundantly, guide your steps with His wisdom, and fill your life with His peace and joy. Your kindness is deeply appreciated. Amen! 🙌
You can't try make them understand said CS. That's one of the things from CS that opened my eyes. His teachings with Gods values is why I appreciate him. Thank u so much. ❤❤❤
Oh God, give me the strength, fortitude & wisdom to outmanoeuvre, overpower & overcome all the evil my abusive, narcissistic husband throws my way. I cannot do this on my own. Oh God, please take over, & in Your time. I know this is for my good. I know all this is according to Your plan for me. AMEN.
Spouse’s friend is one. So frustrating to me that the manipulative and controlling nature and true motives of this “friend” continue to go undetected. So hard when you can see it as clear as day, but the one you love can’t. This video was an excellent reminder to let go and let God.
Thank you for your kind words! 🙏 Amen! May God’s truth always be your anchor, His love your refuge, and His wisdom your guide as you walk faithfully in His light. ✨
Amen! I am a minister dealing with narcissistic family member. This video has been an answer to my prayers. May the Lord bless you and your ministry for bringing His Truth and setting me free. Leaving them and this trap in God's hands. Trusting them in His Love ; for me to fullfill my Divine Destiny. Praising God. He is so faithful and Good.
Amen! I'm once again forced into a narcissistic situation during the holidays for families sake, so it's not yet time to shake the dust off my sandals....yet. Still hoping for hope beyond hope...God grant me strength, wisdom and peace.
Praying for strength, wisdom, and peace for you in such situations. May God grant you the courage and grace to navigate this season. Trust in His timing and guidance. Amen! 🙌
I'm glad this message came at the right time for you. 🙏 May you find wisdom and peace as you navigate this situation, trusting in God's guidance and timing. ✨
Amen… 🙏🏼 so much information out there in dealing with the narcissist. But this is the only one I found using God‘s word. Standing on the promises. Thank you.
Amen. 🙏Help us Father. Strengthen us and give us peace. Heal our wounds. Set a guard over the doorway of our mouths. Calm our hearts and minds. Remove any bitterness. Let your love flow thru us even when it hurts. Pour your sweetness God, into the toxic bitter waters as you did in the Old Testamen; for You O Lord ARE love and The Tree of Life. In Your Holy Name I pray. Amen.
You are never alone! God is always with you, guiding you and giving you strength. I’m so glad this message reminded you of His presence and love. Keep trusting in His perfect plan for your life. 🙏💖
My son has always had narcissistic tendencies but now his “friend”, a much stronger narcissist, has driven a wedge between us. I’m listening to God now. I was told about a seminar on boundaries. After seeing the mention about boundaries in this podcast, I believe I was meant to hear about the upcoming seminar. I’m enrolled in it now. And…Amen!
Amen! Praise God for answered prayer ! I was just journaling experiences today the first perfectly into this insightful teachings. Thank you for these life changing scriptures. I love God and Godly people ❤
Thank you. I’m pretty sure my husband is a narcissist. I came into this marriage as a brand new ‘baby Christian. And did not know any of God’s Word…… had 2 young sons……….. since getting into the Word daily (2020) weeks ago have been butting heads more and more. I did not really understand what was going on……… He is also a Christian, he was raised a Christian, meaning he was taken to Church throughout his childhood. There are a lot of things that we do not do as a Christian couple, like pray together, or read the Word. He hasn’t went to church with me and the kids in a little while now. I am praying and will continue to pray. I am very thankful for this video, I do believe that it will help as a reminder of where I should place my focus. And just only pray for him. And TRUST GOD COMPLETELY to handle him. I pray that God will forgive me and allow my mind to shift focus off of him and onto Him and my purpose. We have 3 sons now, we had one together, we have been together for 11 years. I want and pray that God’s grace and mercy will cover my family , and will help me to raise them the way that God intends for me to raise them.
Thank you for sharing your heart ❤. May God grant you the strength and wisdom to continue trusting Him in this journey. I pray that He gives you peace, guidance, and the clarity you need as you focus on your relationship with Him and raise your children in His love. May His grace cover your family and bring healing and restoration in His perfect timing. 🙏🙌💫
I have been dealing with a narcissistic daughter in law, and she is the mother of two precious grandsons! This has been so hard for me to bear, but the Lord is continually strengthening me. I want you to be encouraged through scripture that has comforted me about my grandsons. Mat 18:2 And Jesus called a little child unto him, and set him in the midst of them, Mat 18:3 And said, Verily I say unto you, Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven. Mat 18:4 Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven. Mat 18:5 And whoso shall receive one such little child in my name receiveth me. Mat 18:6 But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea. And a few verses down in Matthew 18: Mat 18:10 Take heed that ye despise not one of these little ones; for I say unto you, That in heaven their angels do always behold the face of my Father which is in heaven. It encourages me greatly to remember that angels are watching over my grandson every moment!! Hope it encourages you too!
It‘s also true, each one which is not connected with Jesus Christ through honest repentance has attitudes of a narcissist. Some more , some less. And there are so many into the world. Thank you for the guidance. C. S. Lewis must have experienced the harm of such Kind very deeply, as many of us endure in the same manner.
The worst thing is when your own mother and your extended family are all narcissist working in alliance with the devil himself to bring you down! I had no contact with my whole family!
I can relate to your situation. When I was a younger, I knew something was wrong with my mother but I didn’t know what it was. It’s just been in recent years that I’ve realized my mother is narcissistic. I’m 70 now with no contact with my mother or my two younger sisters as one is bi-polar and one is pagan. Now I find myself alone in the world with no family or friends, BUT I do have faith in Yahweh/God and I’m moving near a ministry that I’ve been following on-line so that I will have the opportunity to be of service and to be able to meet other like minded believers. Staying as close to Yahweh/God is our best protection for the things coming upon the world now! I choose to look at my situation as an opportunity for growth and healing rather than a stumbling block and it is helping me to rely on God more. I pray Yah’s strength and comfort for you and may our names be written in the Lamb’s Book of Life! Amen!
I am sorry now that you know this about them keep them at bay and let them talk. I’m going through the same thing. I actually called them out on it in front of them and it makes them very uncomfortable, but it really helped me validate my own fact, checking if you will so good luck to youand pray
I was married to a narcissist for 30 years. Never thought an individual could despise a person that had only supported and loved and prayed for them, He murdered my character He took all the equity out both houses without my knowledge withholding the house payment without my knowledge the house went into foreclosure. I literally didn't have a place to stay However he had minions to help him in court, he had a lot of associates in the court system. He played me like a fiddle, and through the Rock and head his hands And through all of that I forgave him because I wanted God to forgive me God can do it better than I can.
Thank you for sharing your testimony. Your strength and faith in choosing forgiveness despite such pain is truly inspiring. 🙏 May God continue to heal your heart, restore what was lost, and bless you with His peace that surpasses all understanding. Stay strong in your faith; He is with you every step of the way. ✨
You have to remember narcissist hate those that love them and love those that hate them! they hate themselves so they cannot except love they chase love, knowing they’ll never find it!
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Listening to this video was being able to finally take a deep breath. Prior to this relationship, I was in full-time ministry both here & abroad. I blamed myself for believing his lies. He's a mental health professional & knows exactly how to maneuver, lies & twist truth... so much more. The physical toll has been enormous. Yet, no more. I covet your prayers while on this journey back to wholeness in the Lord 🕊 ✝️
@@LadyofPeace89RO Thank you for sharing your experience. May God grant you strength, peace, and wisdom as you move forward on this journey. Praying for His healing and guidance to lead you back to wholeness in Him. Amen! 🙌
Please, help me understand, I am a woman. Is this the same message for a woman? I have so many questions... im to submit to my husband. Help me understand
I divorced my narcissist after 34yrs. Got worse thru years
@@darant2249I totally understand 🕊 🙏
My father and mother both is narcissist and struggle with mental illness. I was thrown around in foster care and back and forth in their custody. My life was very chaotic because I was cast as the black sheep and didn’t know what I was up against. Four years ago I let go of both sides of my family and now my life is absolutely beautiful.
What I love about your comment is you don't view yourself as a victim, but as a survivour!!!❤
@@SherryG370 that’s when you know we took the time to heal ourselves ❤️
I’ve been married to a narcissist for 45 years. Trusting in God and praying constantly. It gets worse every day as we get older. Pray for me
Praying for you ❤. And praying for your spouse.
I'm praying for you.
Me too....he divorced me this yr....
Same here, married 43 years. It's very difficult.
❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Amen! I was married to a narcissist. The woman drove me to despair. I thought I was going mad. Praise the Lord ! I got out of that nightmare. She left me with health problems, but the good Lord will get me through this. Praise Jesus !!
Thank you praise God for his guidance and help
In times of need . What a difficult situation 🙏
She is a monster.
I was with a narcissist for two years and he played the victim yet was the victimizer. He thought he was better than everyone else so I feel for you.
I know exactly how you feel. It's horrible... I was married to a Narcissist for 10 years, trying to repair the relationship for 6 of them..... Thank God, He brought me out of it. I am now married to a beautiful, loving, Godly woman. My kids now get to see what a healthy relationship is supposed to look like.... Unfortunately, the kids too, cop the narcissism from their mother.... I pray that God would reveal it to her, before it ruins her second marriage and her relationship with her kids......
Narcissists will always leave you feeling emotionally drained and drive you to despair. The best thing is to get away from them.
The Lord is my rock, my fortress, my stronghold...
GOD is the answer. PRAY always to the one that hears our prayers . “ We are not alone .” * This vid has been an inspiration to me. I wept with gratitude as I listened and felt comforted . ❤.
From the video, I learned 5 ways to deal with narcissists:
1. Do not confront narcissists directly: They won't admit their faults but will manipulate and shift blame, leaving you drained and disheartened.
2. Entrust all injustice to God: Trust in God's justice instead of seeking personal revenge.
3. Set boundaries to protect yourself: Love from a distance and guard your heart instead of trying to fix the unchangeable.
4. Seek support and healing: Rely on community, counseling, or therapy to heal and rebuild yourself.
5. Focus on God's purpose for you: Don't let narcissists dominate your mind; focus on the peace and purpose God has set for you.
I cut them out of my life, regardless of who they are. They won’t change, they will suck the life out of you and ur personal relationships, esp with ur spouse & children, and u will be left completely drained, disheartened exhausted and at ur wits end not to mention how they twist and manipulate everything to be ur fault and never take blame or hold themselves accountable for anything. My husband and I have to have separate holidays because of his mother. I can no longer tolerate being in her presence nor will I subject myself to her behaviors that serve absolutely no purpose other than to make me feel like crap about myself and question everything about me who I am & what I represent….. no thanks, I’ll pass
Yess!!!!
Thank you for making these notes,
Thank you!
@@lovetodecorate7568l know what you are speaking about. I was his third wife.
The narrator is eerily presenting my personal story, verbatim. Half of me is relieved that I am not going mad & the other half of me feels helpless, because my narcissistic husband has done such a good job convincing my son, siblings & friends that I am indeed crazy, paranoid etc. Our separation process has started but the lies continue. I am astonished at my husband’s creativity in his twisted interpretation of facts. He normally cannot figure how to get out of a paper bag! In God I trust, and I will continue praying with all my heart, for both of us: for his release from the clutches of the devil § for myself, that I may survive this distressing situation. In Jesus’ Name I ask for freedom from my husband’s toxicity. Amen.
I completely get it!! My husband has many convinced I am completely nuts !! I admit Im pretty tuff. BUT it freaks me out because like you said … it’s amazing how most of the time they couldn’t get out of a wet paper bag!!
This is the most beautiful and workable video I have seen on how to get on with a narcissist.
This God factor is really soothing and comforting. Let's trust God to turn the heart of 'the king' to our favour.
Thank you so much for this video.
I was married 35 years to a narcissist and barely escaped with my sanity! God has taught me the exact same thing that is being taught on this video! Please listen and let the Father fight this evil for it is beyond you and your abilities!
Do you regret wasted years?
I just want to say this is the best video I have watched regarding my heart to begin to heal from the pain of narcissism… I want to say my ex told me I was the problem. He said you are the narcissist. Everything is your fault. it’s your fault my life didn’t work, but on and on and on told me who to be how to behave I was young and naïve. Now I’m much older and we are divorced if you are young and listening or reading.
Please listen, don’t throw your pearls before swine. There’s so much in this lovely video to help you heal. ❤❤❤
On Christ the solid rock I’ll stand. Thank you ❤ 🙏 ❤
My mate is a narcissist. It is draining. God reminded me to turn to him in these times, he'll take care of it. But you have to be guarded by their constant turmoil. God loves me and I love him
Thank you for sharing. 🙏 May God continue to strengthen and protect you, bringing peace as you trust in His love and guidance through this challenge. 🌿✨
@blessedgrandma... I understand, especially regarding the turmoil. ❤ ✝️ 🕊 🙌
Sorry, GOD doesn’t want his children with a narcissist - the Holy Spirit doesn’t want you mixing your soul with demons - demons are narcissists - you can’t bow the Holy Spirit to someone who doesn’t really care and isn’t really there - good luck 👍
Listen and listen again. ❤ The best I have heard in my 3 years of working on healing. God is love ❤️
I know what you are going through. I got rid of a so called friend many years ago. It was a nightmare. Please read this list and tell me what you think? Is it similar to your situation??
1) If i bought something he would immediately the next day have to buy something similar but more expensive,
2) He would act like he wanted to see you succeed, but deep down wanted to see you fail.
3) He would gain your confidence and get you to divulge personal things about yourself and then use it against you during an argument.
4) Was extremely jealous of other people's happiness.
5) If he saw you having a conversation with someone he would deliberately jump in and try to be the center of attention.
6) If you left him out of a conversation for no more than 1 minute he would go all silent and not talk for the rest of the day or night
7) He thought everyone was jealous of him.
8) Was extremely manipulative.
9) Would never apologize when he was clearly in the wrong.
10) Would have extreme mood swings, could be happy and over the moon one moment, and then down in the dumps the next.
11) Very big backstabber.
12) would gain the confidence of my close friend/friends and then once he had their confidence would try to turn them against me.
13) He would tell you how to live your life and point out all your faults, but as soon as you did the same to him he would lose it.
14) He would accuse you of what he was doing. For example, if he was jealous of something you bought or had achieved he would turn it around and say "You are jealous of me because i have ABC etc"
15) He would deliberately ignore you in group situations and then look at you from the corner of his eye to see your reaction.
16) If he spoke badly against someone, he would try to get you to do the same. If you didn't, then he would get very upset.
17) Many times he would call me and have a friend of mine next to him without my knowledge, he would then talk badly about them so that i would do the same. Of Course i wouldn't do that and then he would laugh and tell me that my friend was next to him.
18) He would treat you like shit and the next day come to your house and act like he did nothing wrong. When you confronted him over it he would act like "omg i was only joking" or "it "wasn't really a big deal"
19) We were having a conversation once about death. And when I mentioned how my uncle had passed away at 35 from leukaemia and left 2 children behind and how it had affected all of us, he started laughing. Then he said "im sorry I don't know why I laughed"
I was friends with a narcissist for 7 years. This is so unbelievably accurate. You can’t change them. Just pray for them and love them from a distance.
Thank you for sharing. 🙏 Loving from a distance while praying for them shows both wisdom and grace. May God give you continued strength, peace, and clarity as you entrust this situation to Him. Amen ✨
I also have a friend who could be considered a narcissist depending on where you are at with them on a spectrum of in sight of the red flags to watch for and the sly things they do or dont do to get a reaction out of you of some kind,i admit its easy to fall prey if you dont practice self healing each and every day.i pray for him.
This message helped me beyond measure i must let go stop trying to confront my abuser for truth and leave it up to the creator to heal us both. I must move on for my own mental health this situation is draining me from inside out. Thank you for this reminder to let God fix it in due time.
Amen! 20 years married to a narcissist, now beginning to separate with peace and wisdom. The Lord is faithful!
Congratulations 🎉. I was Married to a Angry, Controlling Narcissist for 23 years. I had a Luxurious Lifestyle. It had No Merit to my Sanity. I Divorced him and now live a Very Happy minimalist lifestyle.
It took a while for healing.
You will be so Happy to be by yourself now.
Jesus Christ is My Savior …
@@Rhond5- you were very lucky you could afford to leave. Many of us can't afford to leave.
And it's no wonder why this video was just posted 4 days ago. What a blessing to recieve the word of God!
I was engaged to a true narcissist. He had no boundaries and constantly blamed others, playing the victim. I am so thankful we didn't marry! He continually looked down on me, thinking he was so much better because he made more money. Status was everything to him.
Amen. This advice is so much better than the world's take on dealing with narsassists. ❤
Amen to that reply! satan wants us to follow the world in all ways including our healing...which still keeps him in his power.
This is so very true and so timely.
Gods word don’t throw your pearls to pigs describes it beautifully
Being in a narcissist relationship is soul destroying
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. 🙏 It’s so true-God’s Word offers such profound wisdom for navigating difficult relationships. May He continue to give you the strength and clarity to protect your heart, and may His peace bring healing to your soul as you trust Him fully in all things. ✨
Detachment doesnt mean you stop caring it just means you love yourself more.
Father God of Abraham, help all the victims recover from the trauma, this is the most hurtful thing a human can ever experience
Extremely difficult to deal with. Thank you for this excellent explanation of a narcissist.❤❤❤❤❤
I’m so glad this message resonated with you. May God bless you abundantly, granting you strength, wisdom, and peace as you navigate these challenges. Thank you again for your generosity and support! Amen! 🙌
Amen! This message came to my rescue today. Thank you for leading us back to our God Almighty.
Amen! 🙏 I’m so glad this message reached you at the right time. May God continue to guide you with His wisdom and peace, and may His presence strengthen you as you walk in faith and trust in His perfect plan. 🌟
This is truly what can happen and is not what God wants. I shall not look at that unhealthy soul but to the Lord and the truth.
Amen. Spent 15 years with one. I’m glad I’m not there anymore.
Focus on managing your own emotions instead of trying to manage the narcissist's emotions. Thank you for that gem it's much needed.
Focusing on our own emotional well-being is truly empowering. May you find peace, strength, and continued growth as you manage your emotions with grace and wisdom. Blessings to you and your journey. 🙏
@c.slewissermons Thank you, Blessings to you too.🕊
Amen❤️✝️🙏😄.
Narcissists are masters of manipulation and gaslighting; . They're also very tortured souls needing divine direction to heal. Playing along with their game drains our confidence and self worth.
After some 19 years, broken to the point of giving up on life, I began to learn from God's call and protection to avoid contact with that person as far as possible. Practically it became possible to do that safe in God's, care and orotection.. Slowly I began to heal in the peace of the separation. Then something amazing happened; the narcissist gave up trying to draw me back into her game What an awesome friend we have in Jesus?!
Thank you for sharing such a powerful testimony. It’s inspiring to see how God’s guidance and protection have brought healing and peace to your life. May He continue to lead you on your healing journey, fill you with peace, and protect you as you walk in His strength. Blessings to you. 🙏✨
I, too, had been beaten down by my Narcissistic Mother for 61 years. All I wanted was her love, which was never available. I finally confronted her. She absolutely does not appear to realize her detriment to my entire life. Not wanting to disrespect her, I continued to take her unbelievable attacks against me until I started learning of our Father. We now haven't talked for a year. I've been trying to heal, but when I listened to C.S. Lewis all the pieces immediately began to become clear. ❤
Yep. I've tried to do the same with my parents for a long time. Dad used to yell, scream, & hit me. Mother was my worst critic. I just Pray. I speak Life into my sons when I am with them. Because people who say they "love you", don't match their words to their actions.
Thank you for sharing your story. It’s inspiring to see you focus on healing and breaking cycles by speaking life into your sons. May God continue to guide you, bringing healing and wisdom as you lean on Him for strength. 🙏
Amen! I am currently estranged from my daughter who is a narcissist. She had a baby two months ago and I have not met my only grandchild yet. It is painful and sad. Yet I am at peace now after spending years trying to make her happy and feeling like I did everything wrong. It’s in god’s hands. This video helped remind me of that. Thank you! ❤🙏🏻
I just don t find words for thanking God for your channel AND on this narcisism. I suscribed AND began to put your biblical referentes in a special note book. I m christian AND I follow you because you re Christian too. I suffered 10 years with my narcisist husband, separaste me from him for a period of 3 years, until he aceptado to come to my church. I praid for his salvación, he came back AND God changed him, little by little. Now after 6 years for him to be Christian, we have a nice relationship. Since several months, God revealed me all you say in this video. I found really peace, harmony, being focused only in God s Words, Christ AND His Holy Spirit. I don t forget that my husband Is a narcisist, with sometimes resurgired little crisis, but I don t give him More the power to distract me from God. God bless you. 🙏♥️📖 Desde México
Amen. My spouse is also a narcissist! Have been praying for his change and his deliverence in Christ. Its tskingso so long - 33 years - I'm hanging on, trusting God to better my situation, its very, very tough and draining, but I'm learning to focus of the Lord and seeing the battle won by Jesus for me. My husband is influential and keeps harping on how money works wonders and since my work ( a principal and owner of a small school that he told me to open when his work was at the end of progress and he was almost left with nothing) is not paying well as i focus on the real issue of winning more souls for Christ and helping the unfortunate and deprived families in society. Thankyou for showig how to keep in prayer and quiet spiritual battle tactics. God bless you. Do pray for me that i may come out victorious not only in my family situation but also in the small society we live in Kullu, Himachal Pradesh - India.
AMEN ❤❤❤ God is good!! The Holy Spirit led me to this channel!! I will definitely CLING and DEPEND ON GOD !!!
Amen! This has helped me understand why I was being treated so unfairly. I am free now to move on. Ty God for showing me!
I'm so glad this message helped bring clarity and freedom to you. May God continue to guide you on your path of healing and growth. Stay strong in His love and wisdom. Blessings to you. 🙏✨
I was especially impacted by your quote of Jesus that if ppl will not listen to us or our words, we are to shake the dust off our feet as we leave. I'd forgotten about that. I have a niece with whom I was trying to have a relationship, but she was quite mocking of my work for the Lord, and has been displaying contempt for me in other ways, and I'd forgotten the Lord's command to leave in such situations. I'll keep praying for her, and He will deal with her heart.
Powerful🔥praise God i asked him to put in my feed something that would help me through this and thissss came up
Amen, and I say again...AMEN!!!
Amen, God is in control of every situation.❤
Amen!! Powerful words…..placing all in God’s hands. Praying for continued peace, strength, wisdom and his loving arms to hold ALL close to HIS heart!!🙏🕊️
All glory to God! 🙌 May His wisdom and love continue to guide and strengthen you, and may His peace fill your heart as you trust in His perfect will. Hallelujah to the One who is always faithful! ✨
Your messages and wisdom through CS Lewis and Gods Word bring a peace that surpasses all understanding. This message was so insightful as to my effort to try to “fix” my situation has only come to further frustration. I realized even seeking my own relationship with the Lord I could do nothing to the other person. Only the Lord can remove what’s blinding them to His Truth. I pray as we head into the Christmas Season, the power of the Holy Spirit can breakdown the mighty stronghold they have built up and become everything whom the Lord has called them to be!
AMEN
Please god help me overcome this relationship again. I pray for her healing to. But i cant help anymore.
bless you i was 24 years trying to change him its not possible you need to get away as they never change .you are dealing with a demon .
I'm Muslim but this was the most comforting video I have watched on how to deal with a narcissist. It aligns completely with my beliefs on focusing on God and seeking justice, strength, healing, and happiness from Him. Thank you so much. 💗
I Had No knowledge of narcissist behavior until recently....thank you I have no more contact....❤🎉
You can’t just keep getting used, abused and run over to your own death. Yes you do have to let them know. They may not see it now but they will remember you were the one who stood for God and Justice.
This story resonates with mine sooo much, the only thing I did different was distance myself from them and drew closer to God
Amen! ❤Thank you Lord for every good promise of yours. There is not one I won’t receive and believe in faith and love! 💕🙏🏻❤️💞
Always call out a narcissist, sue him if necessary, and then dump him.
Id advise to learn decernment and be ok with walking away from that situation.. it rips you apart and can destroy your life.. been close two or three times before I found video like this one.. I looked into it and so much more started to make sense... God is real and the only way to him is through Jesus Christ Our Lord and if you call out a narcissist without them to help you through it then it will prob not end well... my methods will be changing for sure.. I can't take the pain it causes anymore.. so discernment is a must for me.. God watch over all in Jesus's name amen 🙏
Amen! Praise God for his mercy and encouragement to people who have suffered by the hand of toxic relationships.
I’m so wounded by the narcissist that I married I hope it’s not to late for me please pray for my deliverance with me I am feeling suicidal I have anxiety I can’t eat haven’t eaten a meal in almost 4 days Lord help me please 😔
It’s not too late for you! Jesus, please strengthen this sister in this very moment, may only the peace that Jesus gives flood your soul.
Brenda, put on the full armor of God right as you read this right now. The helmet of salvation to guard your thoughts. I ask Jesus, to rebuke the spirit of suicide that is trying to worm its way into your thoughts. The breastplate of righteousness to guard your heart. Grab a Bible NOW and😢 gird your loins with the TRUTH. Read Psalms 139, you are so precious to God, that’s the TRUTH. Hold up the shield of FAITH. God has a plan for your life. A good plan. Jesus please pour out more FAITH on this sister to trust she can find the path out of this destructive relationship. Be a lamp to her. 🙏😇
Hang on. I have been through a year of misery because of my narcissistic daughter in law, mother to two young grandsons and my wonderful son who is walking through this right now. I understand exactly how you feel. You are not alone.
Is there any friend or relative you could go to for a few days to regroup? I’m praying for you🙏. (By the way, my name is Brenda too💕
I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. Please know you're not alone, and God sees your pain. I’ll be praying for your healing and strength during this difficult time. May He bring peace to your heart and help you find the support you need. If you're in immediate danger, please reach out to someone you trust or a helpline. God is with you. Amen 🙏🙌
@@brendahenderson-zk8qn it is never too late for you to turn to God. His Word is FOOD (spiritual) that we most absolutely need in order to make it through these relationships.
Run to Jesus (The Word of God) and find your IDENTITY in WHO HE SAYS YOU ARE.
Jesus Christ loves you so much that He died for you. That is TRUE LOVE! Fix your EYES on JESUS!
He will never leave you nor forsake you! That’s a PROMISE!
If you can try to divorce him ASAP, he will never change! We do more destruction by staying than we do leaving! I was with a narcissist for 12 years and had three kids. I had auto immune conditions in and out of hospitals only to be told there was nothing wrong with me! Your body is the best indicator of evil if you just feel repulsed anytime or the urge to look for an exit around a human, that’s the red flag! When you’re around good people you never wanna leave!
Praying for you Brenda.🙏 God will never leave you nor forsake you. Tell Satan to get behind you. Keep yourself nestled under his wings of protection. Never let go. He will catch every tear and fill you with love. I pray in Jesus'Holy Name 🙏
Amen. Video powerful 4 reassurance of God's power. He knows all & His word(bbl) explains how 2 deal w my narcissist. Gods knows me & my pain. He wants me 2 let Him take it now. So, I'll Let Him. Yahweh is righteous & helps me 2 remember I'm a princess N HIS kingdom. The daughter of The KING.
Thank you Jesus for your guidance Amen
Thanks!
Thank you so much for your generosity and support! 🙏 May God bless you abundantly, guide your steps with His wisdom, and fill your life with His peace and joy. Your kindness is deeply appreciated. Amen! 🙌
AMEN... I need to be constantly reminded God is with me on this journey.
You can't try make them understand said CS. That's one of the things from CS that opened my eyes. His teachings with Gods values is why I appreciate him. Thank u so much. ❤❤❤
I TRUST JEHOVAH GOD FOR PROTECTION AND BLESSINGS OF ME AND MY FAMILY, LOVE 🙏🙏🙏
Oh God, give me the strength, fortitude & wisdom to outmanoeuvre, overpower & overcome all the evil my abusive, narcissistic husband throws my way. I cannot do this on my own. Oh God, please take over, & in Your time. I know this is for my good. I know all this is according to Your plan for me. AMEN.
Spouse’s friend is one. So frustrating to me that the manipulative and controlling nature and true motives of this “friend” continue to go undetected. So hard when you can see it as clear as day, but the one you love can’t. This video was an excellent reminder to let go and let God.
THAT IS EXCELLENT....I NEVER FISH IN TROUBLED WATER... ANOTHER GEM AND PRAYER TO LIVE-BY. THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS EVERYONE. ❤❤❤❤
VERY beautiful video!
Maria Valtorta described Jesus saying:《 I never fish in troubled water》. He may well have been talking about narcissists.
Thank you for your kind words! 🙏 Amen! May God’s truth always be your anchor, His love your refuge, and His wisdom your guide as you walk faithfully in His light. ✨
@c.slewissermons well, i can't do any better, so i wish You the same!
A must-watch for anyone seeking wisdom and practical advice on handling toxic relationships.
Thanks
thank you so much for this very comforting message…yes it is draining but GOD is സോ Merciful
AMEN.
Thank you so much
I needed exactly this message today
I will be ok
Amen! I am a minister dealing with narcissistic family member.
This video has been an answer to my prayers.
May the Lord bless you and your ministry for bringing His Truth and setting me free. Leaving them and this trap in God's hands. Trusting them in His Love ; for me to fullfill my Divine Destiny. Praising God. He is so faithful and Good.
Amen! I'm once again forced into a narcissistic situation during the holidays for families sake, so it's not yet time to shake the dust off my sandals....yet. Still hoping for hope beyond hope...God grant me strength, wisdom and peace.
Praying for strength, wisdom, and peace for you in such situations. May God grant you the courage and grace to navigate this season. Trust in His timing and guidance. Amen! 🙌
Detachment doesnt mean you stop caring.their burdens are not yours to carry
"Definitely! God teaches us to handle wisely and patiently, rather than directly confronting someone with an arrogant personality." 🙏
Your prayer is greatly appreciated and biblical statements of wisdom. It is really soothing the heart!
Amen ,God is my refuge and strength ,my peace ,❤
Thank you. So very timely. I needed to hear this. 🙏
I'm glad this message came at the right time for you. 🙏 May you find wisdom and peace as you navigate this situation, trusting in God's guidance and timing. ✨
Amen… 🙏🏼 so much information out there in dealing with the narcissist. But this is the only one I found using God‘s word. Standing on the promises. Thank you.
Amen! Thank you Jesus
Amen! may God give me the strength to overcome
Your wisdom is greatly appreciated! Amen ,Amen And Amen! May Almighty God bless and
strengthen you!
Amen. 🙏Help us Father. Strengthen us and give us peace. Heal our wounds. Set a guard over the doorway of our mouths. Calm our hearts and minds. Remove any bitterness. Let your love flow thru us even when it hurts. Pour your sweetness God, into the toxic bitter waters as you did in the Old Testamen; for You O Lord ARE love and The Tree of Life. In Your Holy Name I pray. Amen.
Thank you, this message reminds me I'm not alone.
You are never alone! God is always with you, guiding you and giving you strength. I’m so glad this message reminded you of His presence and love. Keep trusting in His perfect plan for your life. 🙏💖
Thanks n God bless your household. AMEN
Amen! 2 people I have met recently were toxic. Walked away from both people. God really leads and guides.
Tk-U !!! I Needed this today !!!
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Beautiful message! praise God
The Lord is my everything 🙏❤🙏❤🙏
My son has always had narcissistic tendencies but now his “friend”, a much stronger narcissist, has driven a wedge between us. I’m listening to God now. I was told about a seminar on boundaries. After seeing the mention about boundaries in this podcast, I believe I was meant to hear about the upcoming seminar. I’m enrolled in it now. And…Amen!
My husband is the same as what you mentioned. Please pray for me as well.l surrender him to the Lord. Amen
Pray for yourself as well.❤
Amen. God Bless us all in Jesus Name ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This voice & message is strangely good!
Amen! Praise God for answered prayer ! I was just journaling experiences today the first perfectly into this insightful teachings. Thank you for these life changing scriptures.
I love God and Godly people ❤
Thank you.
I’m pretty sure my husband is a narcissist.
I came into this marriage as a brand new ‘baby Christian. And did not know any of God’s Word…… had 2 young sons……….. since getting into the Word daily (2020) weeks ago have been butting heads more and more. I did not really understand what was going on………
He is also a Christian, he was raised a Christian, meaning he was taken to Church throughout his childhood.
There are a lot of things that we do not do as a Christian couple, like pray together, or read the Word. He hasn’t went to church with me and the kids in a little while now. I am praying and will continue to pray.
I am very thankful for this video, I do believe that it will help as a reminder of where I should place my focus. And just only pray for him. And TRUST GOD COMPLETELY to handle him.
I pray that God will forgive me and allow my mind to shift focus off of him and onto Him and my purpose.
We have 3 sons now, we had one together, we have been together for 11 years. I want and pray that God’s grace and mercy will cover my family , and will help me to raise them the way that God intends for me to raise them.
Thank you for sharing your heart ❤. May God grant you the strength and wisdom to continue trusting Him in this journey. I pray that He gives you peace, guidance, and the clarity you need as you focus on your relationship with Him and raise your children in His love. May His grace cover your family and bring healing and restoration in His perfect timing. 🙏🙌💫
God bless you and yours 🙏♥️
I have been dealing with a narcissistic daughter in law, and she is the mother of two precious grandsons! This has been so hard for me to bear, but the Lord is continually strengthening me. I want you to be encouraged through scripture that has comforted me about my grandsons.
Mat 18:2 And Jesus called a little child unto him, and set him in the midst of them,
Mat 18:3 And said, Verily I say unto you, Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven.
Mat 18:4 Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven.
Mat 18:5 And whoso shall receive one such little child in my name receiveth me.
Mat 18:6 But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.
And a few verses down in Matthew 18:
Mat 18:10 Take heed that ye despise not one of these little ones; for I say unto you, That in heaven their angels do always behold the face of my Father which is in heaven.
It encourages me greatly to remember that angels are watching over my grandson every moment!! Hope it encourages you too!
It‘s also true, each one which is not connected with Jesus Christ through honest repentance has attitudes of a narcissist. Some more , some less.
And there are so many into the world.
Thank you for the guidance. C. S. Lewis must have experienced the harm of such Kind very deeply, as many of us endure in the same manner.
Amen! Glory to GOD
The worst thing is when your own mother and your extended family are all narcissist working in alliance with the devil himself to bring you down! I had no contact with my whole family!
That is THE BEST SOLUTION - NO CONTACT FOREVER.
Detachment is self care
I can relate to your situation. When I was a younger, I knew something was wrong with my mother but I didn’t know what it was. It’s just been in recent years that I’ve realized my mother is narcissistic. I’m 70 now with no contact with my mother or my two younger sisters as one is bi-polar and one is pagan. Now I find myself alone in the world with no family or friends, BUT I do have faith in Yahweh/God and I’m moving near a ministry that I’ve been following on-line so that I will have the opportunity to be of service and to be able to meet other like minded believers.
Staying as close to Yahweh/God is our best protection for the things coming upon the world now! I choose to look at my situation as an opportunity for growth and healing rather than a stumbling block and it is helping me to rely on God more. I pray Yah’s strength and comfort for you and may our names be written in the Lamb’s Book of Life! Amen!
I am sorry now that you know this about them keep them at bay and let them talk. I’m going through the same thing. I actually called them out on it in front of them and it makes them very uncomfortable, but it really helped me validate my own fact, checking if you will so good luck to youand pray
Thank you, father
Thank you, ❤ to all.
They never own up
Powerful word ❤❤❤❤
All glory to God! 🙌 May His wisdom and guidance continue to empower and strengthen you as you navigate this journey. Stay rooted in His Word. ✨
Amen God bless you brothers and sisters
Thank you God Amen
Amen! 🙏 May God grant you the wisdom to respond with grace and the strength to trust His guidance in every challenging moment. ✨
I was married to a narcissist for 30 years. Never thought an individual could despise a person that had only supported and loved and prayed for them,
He murdered my character
He took all the equity out both houses without my knowledge withholding the house payment without my
knowledge the
house went into
foreclosure. I literally didn't have a place to stay However he had minions to help him in court, he had a lot of associates in the court system.
He played me like a fiddle, and through the Rock and head his hands
And through all of that I forgave him because I wanted God to forgive me God can do it better than I can.
Thank you for sharing your testimony. Your strength and faith in choosing forgiveness despite such pain is truly inspiring. 🙏 May God continue to heal your heart, restore what was lost, and bless you with His peace that surpasses all understanding. Stay strong in your faith; He is with you every step of the way. ✨
You have to remember narcissist hate those that love them and love those that hate them! they hate themselves so they cannot except love they chase love, knowing they’ll never find it!
Joel 2 25 🙏💕
Better to be single.
This video came at the perfect time. Thank you, Lord, for the clarity and wisdom shared here. Amen! 🙏✨
Amen. May God help me to heal.
Thank you faithful One Amen
Thank you for giving me clarity.
Amen! God's wisdom!
Amen and Amen in the Name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
Amen! 🙏 May God give you the patience and clarity to follow His path and respond with love, even in the face of challenges. 🌟
Every word of this is true! Thank you.