Rappler Talk: Edcel Lagman on the push to legalize divorce
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 พ.ค. 2024
- In this Rappler Talk episode, political and public health reporter Kaycee Valmonte talks to Albay 1st District Representative Edcel Lagman - the principal author of the divorce bill - to discuss efforts to legalize divorce in the Philippines.
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Thank you, Atty Edcel Lagman! I hope that divorce will be legalised in the Philippines. Divorce is an effective way for any spouse and children to move away from the cycles of domestic violence, it is for the preservation of self-respect, freedom from years of domestic abuse, and dignity instead of being stuck in a toxic, unfulfilling and or abusive marriage, and divorce can give a better environment for children, for the best welfare of the children for a more peaceful home as opposed to the abusive marital strife between spouses, and divorce provides portals of chances for personal growth, holistic beginning after a dysfunctional relationship which can threaten mental health, personal happiness because of decades/years of suffering from cycles of habitual abuses: verbal, emotional, physical, economic/financial, sexual and psychological abuse.
The Philippines, together with Vatican City, is the only country in the world that denies divorce to its citizens. 196 countries have divorce laws. It is high time to pass divorce here in PH!
magpakita ka muna ng pag aaral na nakakabuti sa mga anak ang divorce.
ang divorce ay para sa mga selfish na magulang.
sabi nila para daw protektahan ang mga binubugbog na asawa baka daw mapatay pa.
ang sagot ko diyan kaya ka binubugbog kasi hinahayaan mo.
subukan mong ipakulong ang bugbogero mong asawa at sigurado hindi na uulit yan.
mga duwag naman ang mga bugbugero na yan sa totoo lng, kaya lng sila nambubugbog ay dahil hinahayaan sila ng mga partner nila na tanga, ayaw gamitin ang batas para sa proteksyon nila at ng kanilang mga anak.
gusto nila ipasa sa iba yung asawa nilang bugbogero para yung iba naman ang bugbugin.
anu nman kung tayo lng ang walang divorce?
ang divorce ay para lng sa mga tao makasarili na tanging sarili nilang kaligayahan at kalandian ang inuuna sa halip na amg kapakanan ng kanilang mga anak.
marami ko kakilala na iniwanan ng kanilang asawa pero hindi na nag asawa pa at ang inasikaso na lng ay ang kanilang mga anak.
tinatanong ko nga sila kung bakit ayaw nila mag asawa sabi nila wag na daw tama na daw na may mga anak sila, baka daw pag nag asawa sila ay magahasa pa ng mapapangasawa nila ang kanilang mga anak.
ganyan ang tunay na magulang ang inuuna ay kapakanan ng kanyang mga anak at hindi ang sarili nilang kaligayahan.
and we will legalize divorce, JUST BECAUSE?
@ranyadhellecabahug845 just because it's a human rights especially for those who are in a dead marriage and for women and children whose been traumatised.
@@anthill8611parang mas makasarili ka ata..kung ayaw mo ng divorce e Di wag kang mag divorce pero wag mong ipag kait sa mga taong nangangailangan nito..hiwalay kami ng asawa ko ng 22 years at may sarili ng syang pamilya ang sa lagay nito pag ako nawala lahat ng pinagpaguran ko para sa mga anak ko sa kanya lang mapupunta at sa bago nyang pamilya..ngayon sino ang mas makasarili ngayon?
Yes to divorce, please take note hwag natin botohin ang mga Senador na anti divorce
Yes to Divorce Bill ! The senators should not hinder its passing into law!
More power to you Cong. Lagman. I hope your bill gets passed by the Senate!
There's a proverb in Italy: "People who brag & talk too much don't do it" in USA: "Talk is cheap" it suites PH politicians R. Duterte "I will reimpose the death penalty" PBBM "Rice will be P20 a kilo"
Yes to Divorce Bill !
Legalize divorce para sa mga nangangailangan.
Yes to divorce bill
Wala bang may common sense sa senado? Just expand the grounds under the family code that will include irreconcilliable differences, i.e. separation for 2 yrs or 5 years. Physical abuse, paano kung ang asawa palaging black ang blue.
Buti pa itong si Edcel matanda na pro malawak ang pag-iisip di tulad ng ibang politicians makikitid mga isip
Dapat kasi may temperament compatibility...
Meron legal separation?annulment at ngayon iyong divorce maaring bigyan ng pansin..bakit hindi isang option ang expiry date.
Yes to divorce
kung may pang aabuso .isampal niyo ang kalabuso bilang parusa wag mo bigyan ng divorcr dahil parz mo na rin sinubuan ng masarap na pagkain ang nang abuso.
Divorce is a must! If u have happy family good for you but a Broken relationship is already a broken home, may all the women who choose wrong partner and both has partner yet still stuck in marriage of paper should divorce is fast track and cheaper! Another Legacy of Marcos administration! 🎉
#yestodivorceph
sa pakikiapod sa may asawa unang dapat parusahan ang pumatol sa babae o lalaki na may asawa .Sila ay ANAY. kapag yan ang batas natin sigurado ako 99.9 percent halos walang masisirang pagsasama at maiiwasan ang pagtaas ng mga hiwalay
Happy to those who wants more desire to other lovers, but sad to people truly believe in God, the reason behind the who spoke for pro demons act will suffer the wrath of God.
Siguro ok din na dahil contract naman ang marriage certificate..eh, gawin na lang na me expiry date..according to the agreed term ng
couple. Me bayad pag renew at fee depende sa term or lenght ng years.this may sound crazy but analyze this deeper. Magiging controversial nga lang ang sino mang mambabatas na magpapanukala nito..
Tama na tama na na yung Devorce no no to devorce Lagman.
kung ang sagot sa problema ng mag asawa na hindi magkasundo ay divorce malaki ang magiging problema natin.
maraming mga bata ang magiging kawawa.
ngaun pa nga lng na walang divorce marami nang mga pilipino ang papalit palit ng asawa eh panu pa pag naisabatas yan eh di lalu na.
yun nga lng isang pamilya hindi mo kayang panindigan dadagdagan mo pa, aba nalko na!
tsaka isipin mo kung makapag asawa ka ng lima at magka anak ka ng tig dalawa eh di sampu na pano mo mapapakain at mapag aaral yan?
kawawa ang sasapitin ng mga batang pilipino sa hinaharap kapag nangyare yan.
possible nmn yn anu yan basta lang kanin n pwede mng iluwa ang baba nmn.tingin m sa magapaptupad ng batas , ddaan ka sa.judicial scrutiny ska intindihin maigi ung concept ng bill n.yn nabnggit namn nya jn ah 😂
@@thelmagumpac-hq2cn kapag pinayagan yan umpisa na yan ng kalokohan.
maraming mga pilipino ang selfish, ang mahalaga sa kanila ay ang sarili nilang kaligayahan at hindi ang kapakanan ng kanilang mga anak na walang kalaban laban.
sigurado sasabihin mo binubugbog ka at baka ikamatay mo pa.
ang sagot ko diyan bakit hindi mo ipakulong?
kung ayaw mo ipakulong ikaw ang may problema dahil pinapayagan mo lng na bugbugin ka ng ganun ganun lng.
kung ipapakulong mo yan hindi ka niyan bubugbugin, sigurado ko dun.
kaya ka lng binubugbog dahil hinahayaan mo, kasalanan mo din yan.
@@thelmagumpac-hq2cn umpisa na yan ng kalokohan, maraming mga batang pilipino ang magiging kawawa.
lalaki sila na wala sa piling ng kanilang mga magulang at kulang sa gabay na kinakailangan.
ang mga bata na yan ay magiging magulang din sa hinaharap at malaking porsiyento niyan ay magiging broken family din.
marami kong kaibigan na galing sa broken family at lagi nilang sinasabi na ayaw nila maging broken family pero sa huli dun din ang bagsak nila broken family pa din.
nasanay kasi sila sa broken family kaya ganun, ang modelo nila ay ang kanilang mga magulang na selfish kaya nakuha din nila ang ganung pag uugali sa ayaw at sa gusto nila.
kahit walang divorce nang yayari na yan lol
What? You're praying for the church to be spirited and conscientious about legalizing divorce? Do you know what are you asking? May vow po kami lahat ng obedience sa Diyos! Kayo wala????
Yes to divorce law.
Sana maipasa na yang divorce
Pro family and pro childrens welfare here... Trash divorce
Do you think that children who grow up in unhappy homes because the parents are fighting each other all the time also happy? Kung ayaw mong mag divorce, eh di huwag. Pero may mga taong kailangan nila ito kaya huwag mong ipagkait sa kanila.
Legalizing divorce may be a man-made law but God's law is otherwise. Who is man that can overpower God's law? If man insists on executing a law contrary to God's, then it will backfire on man to his destruction. Is this where our lawmakers are leading us to? Destruction? What kind of lawmakers are they--anti God's law? I don't trust them. I keep my trust in God and in those who uphold His law.
Bahala na ang diyos mo diyos nila mag husga. Wag idamay ang ibang tao na hindi kasama sa religion or culto nyo.
Hindi po importante kung 2 na lamang bansa ang hindi pa legalized ang divorce, ang mahalaga po eh sinabi ng Diyos, ni Hesus mismo na hindi tama ang pagdidiborsyo dahil hindi yan ang utos ng Diyos. Kaya lamang hinayaan ng Diyos si Moses na magkaron ng divorce eh katigasan ng ulo ng tao pero yung obedience sa utos ng Diyos ang ipinaglalaban ng Simbahan. Tsaka kahit po may divorce eh mayron pa ding utos ang Diyos na pag aayos ng buhay ng nag divorced, may responsibilities pa din naman ang both parties. Tama nga po baka nga ma abuse pa lalo mga kababaihan dito sa atin as a third world country. Tsaka let us ask the Filipino couples if they themselves are for it. Kasi mga Filipino po ay mga "takot na may pag ibig at pag galang" sa Diyos, especially the Filipino women na they would opted to suffer than to be disobedient to God and the children po ang pinaka affected. Kasi to them hanggat hindi divorced parents nila (for majority of them) the family is still whole and there is always hope na mabuo muli sila. Just saying po.
Kaya dapat kasi may mental health professionals para magconduct ng temperament test sa mga ikakasal para malaman kong anong puwedeng mangyari..
@@lilac624 Hindi yan fool proof. May mga masasamang ugali na lumalabas years after marriage. Hindi perfect ang mga tao.
Hoy, huwag kang mag impose ng religion mo sa ibang tao. Ang dami ng naghihiwalay na lang. Tignan mo mismo ang Senado. Kalahati sa kanila mga hiwalay but sadly still hypocritical, kowtowing to the Catholic Church in exchange for political power and endorsement.
yes, yes trash devorce
Divorce is contrary to God's law, therefore marriage is sacred! . Those supported the divorce it might endangered there soul, that is why it must be rejected. The grace of God is far from that person who supported it. Divorce is the work of the devil ,because it is for disintegration ,destruction and breaking of the family . Whereas the spirit of truth is for cohesion,intergration and unification!. May the spirit of truth will touch our human heart ,so that ,we may descern and follow the teaching of our Lord Jesus Christ and to be faithful to his words! I am not impossing what God teaches,but it is a reminder to those of good will.
Gods aren't real and fantasy should never be law. What about for people who do not follow your little fantasy that death isn't real? Can we have separate laws for adults and laws for mental children who still have imaginary friends? Better be good or Santa won't come either. Pathetic.
I am a divorcee and I support divorce and that won't endanger my soul. People should not stigmatise who are divorced as "evil." Evil is when you allow yourself to be abused for many years and not do anything to protect your life nor your children's lives. In fact through divorce, I and my daughters were able to live with self-respect, dignity, new beginnings for a more holistic growth in life, a more peaceful living and away from any domestic abuse like verbal abuse, economic and financial abuse, psychological abuse, and emotional abuse. Our new found freedom gave us a more fulfilling life despite all the struggles we had and through the divorce we see to it that the kinds of domestic abuse that happened in the past shall not be repeated in their lives, that they should not be victims of any kinds of abuse nor they become abuser or offender. The prizes of divorce are freedom from any kinds of domestic abuse or domestic violence, serenity, gaining self-respect and dignity, and new portals to improve life for the better.
that god in order to be a respectable god should have at least improved people's mind and heart in deciding to get into marriage, but no. He simply made others better than the rest, and those weak, he blames them as weakling, the fanatics too agreed in telling the weak and victims of weaknesses as irresponsible, when in the first place all people are just the same with some in better position than the rest in decision making. Thus, taking away that despicable god, divorce is a remedy to a pain of a myth about god's willing and exact demand of obedience to a rule which god himself failed to ensure that people have the same capacity to comply. No, if your god is true, work for it, show his mercy by your wonderful work, and your ever successful life and transforming effort to make this society better. Never impose fear and fanaticism to people victims of this myth.
Nakakalungkot mabasa ang pro divorce, hindi na makuntento sa legal separation o nullity ng marriage eh gusto pang maging legal ang diborsyo.
Pinalalala lang ang sitwasyon ng bawat PAMILYA sa makahayop na pamumuhay at hindi na makataong paraan sa ikatatatag ng PAMILYA.
Nasaan na ang inyong konsensya at tamang pag iisip sa pag buo ng PAMILYA na dapat masaya, marangal at may pagmamahalan, kung ang panukalang iminumungkahi ng mga mambabatas ay pagkawasak nito at unting pagkakawatak watak ng bawat miyembro.
Pananagutan ninyo yan sa PANGINOON at sa bayang PILIPINO.
@@zpdoble at ano naman ang naambag mo sa mga pamilyang nagkakasakitan? malinis na konsiyensiya? panalangin? salamat sa kadakilaan mo
Devil’s work
san ang devils work jan
Even the Bible speaks on divorce.
God hates divorce
@@user-bn7ud5wp2t no did not
ang alin ?
Bring your family closer to church and at the same time very close to God... The family that prays together, stays together and Divorce will be avoided... Protect your family and your children... Divorce does not promote family...
No devorce,
Wag eboto ang ayaw Sa devorve..kasi pag ayaw Sa devorve na kandidato maka sarili yan...ayaw palayain ang mga mahirap
Yes to divorce bill
Yes to divorce
Yes to divorce