The Hidden Reason: Why 40s Korean Actors Haven't Married Yet? 😱
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I think they finally touched upon the underlying issue - fear of affecting their popularity. The Korean population can turn on you for uttering the wrong phrase, reading the wrong book, or otherwise offending them through your life choices. K-Pop stars, actors and singers must live in fear of this constantly - an unending state of being morally judged for every little thing. I don’t understand why the Korean public feels they have the right to criticize and even harass stars for their personal choices. I guess it exists in many countries, but it seems quite extreme there.
Ignorance...?
You are exactly right!!
Absolutely not. It's only exists in SK, I am afraid. Celebs are first of all human beings with feelings, too. There's those who are straight, bisexual and gay, just like everyone else on this planet. Many male Korean celebs are forced by their families and especially management agencies to get married to silence their true sexualities and to avoid scandals, and mostly lose money. Do you people really believe that all K-pop idols and K-Drama actors are 💯 straight? Yiu are so deluded. It's 50/50 in this industry. In fact, the majority of them are bisexual. No mistake on that. As for some celebs who have passed the age of marriage, some of them don't want drama in their lives because their careers come first. Some can't be bothered. And some because they are gay and have secret lovers hidden in their wardrobes. Simple as that. So why make such a big fuss about. Tbh if I were Korean, I wouldn't want to get married and have children's in such dysfunctional society
It is definitely extreme in SK. That place is 50 years behind the west in social attitudes. I love kpop but Korean society has huge problems including self-righteousness, judgmentalism and hypocrisy. That society needs to concentrate on trying to fix its own problems rather than thinking it has the right to impose its perverted morals on others.
From reading and hearing Asian fan forums (SK, China) it seems the Asian fans have an almost possessive obsession with actors/idols and their personal lives. Korean and chinese stars are afraid to date or get married bc Asian fans will criticize and attack them for having a love life. Agencies will then sometimes make it a contract term to not date and these stars have to date in secret. I think its unfair that these stars who are people too can't live their lives and fans can't differentiate between someone's job and someones personal lives.
Some seem to think being single is a disorder. Some of us just prefer NO drama, peace of mind, independence, and comfortably being alone. It will take someone very extraordinary to change my mind
I think it is common in Korean entertainment industry. They are more profitable that way than normal people. Imagine the fandom rage. It is actually the reverse that is the problem. The one who wants to have kids and settle down younger like Cha Eunwoo and Jackson Wang and kpop idols will have problem with it
You are right being in a relationship is a decision of somebody’ own right, but to be in a relationship with someone extraordinary is very problematic, so it is just not comfortable…..Having a high maintenance partner makes you less independent. Just as you say relationships not for people without the ability to compromise….
Exactly. I by value my independence and freedom most, and as an extreme introvert, I need time and space on my own so I can ,,charge" for the next day.
So I have no longing for a permanent partner, too much time together stresses me although I love this person.
For people like me, marriage or close relationships are not necessary.
People who think being single is a ‘disorder’ are stupid lmao, that makes no sense.
well said
These men are not single, they are just uber private and that is fantastic. They haven't lasted this long by not realizing how quickly the world can turn on them.
Gong Yoo and LDW look like lovers. They are very loving towards each other. know the Korean public would ruin them. So they stay in the closet it seems because they can only trust each other.
@@kimberlynichols2474 and some people just need to make everything romantic 🙄
@@kimberlynichols2474What? What an odd comment..
You don't even know these people and yet assume they are all in relationships, lol.
Some of them said in variety show they have gf. sometime. in private life.
Sure the two guys who have been sharing an apartment and going to events together are just “friends”.
Yeah
That got me also
Exactly. They cannot come out as gay because the public would ruin them instantly.
Gong Yu is super super friends with Lee Dong Wook. Also seems fairly sus. S. Korea being brutally homophobic is part of the reason why you'll have "eligible bachelors"
@@agneteht I was looking forward to this comment 😂 tbh very often I think so too. I like them both as artists and they also never fail to make me laugh or smile in interviews, dramas or whatever but I keep thinking ofteb they have a "particular" good friendship. Honestly I'd only be happy and supportive if anything like this is confirmed in the future, not just for them but everyone 🥰
I know lol, so basically they're In a relationship 😂
Not everyone wants to get married. I don't understand why people act like not getting married by a certain age, or ever, is something bad. How about people just let others live how they want to live and worry about their own lives?
Thank you. Completely agree. So fed up with those people judging others, they should mind their own business. To be married or being in a relationship is not necessarily the path to happiness.
There are those who cannot bear to be alone but they live an unhappy life. Those who feel alone among others. And there are especially “those who like to be alone and are happy".
I am one of them.
To be alone doesn’t necessarily mean you are lonely, sad or depressed.
I am with you!!
Браво. И это сарказм. В Корее самый низкий уровень рождаемости и через 50 лет там останется половина народа, а через 100 лет никого. А так да, живите в своё удовольствие. Молодые и глупые чудовищно🤦♀️
I totally agree!😊
Agree. Not everyone needs a partner or kids. It may happen, when the right person comes along
These men, like all unmarried men/women, can easily be categorized into five categories:
1) The ones who are indifferent. If they meet someone they love, then they'll wed but if not then they're ok with that too.
2) The ones who are too career-minded and busy to maintain a long-term committed relationship.
3) The ones who simply don't want marriage.
4) The ones who are currently in a relationship or some sort of sitautionship but prefer to keep their love life private.
5) The ones who are gay and are trapped in a forever closet due to being famous in an extremely conservative nation.
Either way, it's none of our business.
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@@LeeDongWookOfficial-vr6bz what kind of scam is this 🤣🤣
Agree ,it's nobody's business but theirs.
6. Me, poor and not so good looking. 😂
There are people in their 40’s, 50’s and people even 60’s and are not celebrities, not getting married is a personal choice and has nothing to do with popularity and fame. They just chose not to. Iam a 32 Muslim woman, single and last dated 10yrs ago. While I love kids a lot marriage rarely crosses my mind. I did want to get married before but not anymore. Now all I care about is work and live my life freely on my own. But the amount of people who tell me to get married becoz it means “respect” but I ask respect for whose sake. If anyone feels like they are ashamed of me not being married, they can take a hike lol. People demand it from you like it’s to their benefit and it makes me avoid it a even more.
I admire people who are bold enough to be themselves, without caring about those around them, because in reality, we can live happily in our own way. Whether to marry or not, it doesn't really matter because we are already happy with our choice.
That’s exactly.
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Thats true, a lot of ppl live out programs, not their own lives. The sad thing is that they are not happy... and want others to go through that. OR rubbing you are not married helps them reaffirm they are better off than you. I wish you to meet your soulmate. Thats what matters, not the marriage thing. Sadly, no one asks "have u met your soul ate?", all they care is "are you married or not?" 🥴
Everyone defines happiness in their own way but the world wants you to be like a sheep, follow a set rule
It's better not to marry then to be in a miserable relationship making two persons unhappy
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Lee Dong Wook has the right idea! Shared tasks bring people together and not delegating this is an awesome concept! This only makes him sexier!
He's Gay!
Gay!
LDW and Gong Yoo are lovers. Did you see the Ddeun Ddeun Lunar New Year's show? GY and LDW finish each other's sentences, and GY keeps touching LDW. LDW sent a coffee truck to GY on set. They look gay and happy together.
Simple, they have everything, looks, money, fame, and all the women and men falling at their feet! They can do whatever they want whenever they want and marriage requires compromise with another person. The older you get the less you want to compromise.
Absolutely. I have no desire to live with others any more. It’s lovely give that whole side a miss. Isn’t staying over more fun anyway?
I think as we get older, we also need other people so we don't get lonely. Can money also cure your loneliness in old age?
@@korean1upmany people enjoy being alone. Alone and lonely are not the same thing. Not everyone wants to get married. I'm one of them.
Just get into their phones. That will let us know everything. Just peep their phones.
True. As I got older I am pained at the idea of marrying and having to compromise my way of living of which I've guarded for so long, to anyone. If you meet your helpmate you will definitely change in order for a harmonious household but otherwise there are still many people, like myself, who will never marry. The pickings are slim as well and many men have become more effeminent (despite their muscled bodies) add to that many are already second hand.
In Korea, it seems your career is pretty much over once you're in a serious relationship. So I can understand why so many celebrities stay single for so long. But by the time you reach your 40s, it's a wrap. One is so unwilling to give up all that freedom by then. Also, older men want young women they can control. Younger women today don't want to be controlled. They want independence, too.
Many celebrities date and marry. Also, many Koreans date and marry people within their age group. So you're saying all these older actors aren't married because they want young women to control? Good grief..
I believe that some Korean actors are homosexual and do not dare to say it in such a conservative society as Korea. This kind of situation has existed for a long time in Hollywood. Many celebrities have never spoken about their sexuality for fear of losing everything. Homosexuality hasn't been openly accepted in Hollywood for years, so imagine Korea.
really??😮
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@@kisalei 👆is it true??
Nowadays homosexuality cannot be hidden. You can’t deny it.
I agree with you and I think quite a few in this video probably are but have to hide it, which is incredibly sad.
I wish them all the happiness in the world, no matter they are married or not ❤
Amin... thanks for comment
I am happy that in India we treat celebrity as celebrity and not as husband or wife. I was madly in love with Siddhartha malhotra but didn't get upset on his marriage
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@@nguyenJason-yv9by hello
@@jayabajpai5394he is bi
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They also have private relationships so it doesn’t affect their careers. Ppl are crazy if they think all these guys are celibate or don’t have relationships. They just keep it on the DL
How do they manage secret relationships as actors? Also, there's nothing wrong with being single and not sleeping around. Maybe they prefer to be alone.
@@arizonagirl6474They manage it fine. It's as old as time , celebs have always managed to live a life away from the job, without thexworld knowing.
The reason is blindingly obvious, but it's pretty funny to read everyone twisting themselves into knots to come up with "logical" explanations. Their private lives mean nothing to me; I just enjoy some of these men for their talent and physical beauty (looking at you, Gong Yoo).
😂😂😂😂 so true. That one actor @5:22 even lives with his 'closefriend' of many years in a luxury home and atrending social gatherings😂😂😂😂😂
Oh Korea....you blind idiots!!!!
I also enjoy their work! But just stop lying… you prefer men over women!
There is nothing wrong with being single. Marriage is a journey, not a race. I like how Lee Dong-Wook's perception about household chores. Very contemporary outlook and makes him hotter 😉.
Leave these people alone. Marriage isn’t for everyone. Their private lives are none of our business.
It's not like she insulting them geez people get offended for everything
Sadly, this is what happens when you choose this path, fans become so obsessive/frightening , the actor loses all of himself to them , it's a very severe price to pay for their adoration. 😢
They end up being super super, cautious about how much is put out there about them. The fans only know what the actors wants them to know, to enable them to have any sort of life at all.
The fans don't know half of what their Idols life is really like .
It must be a horrible existence, but thd money is addictive , so they keep at it.
I think the scrutiny and a microscope is part of the reason why some of these guys aren't married. Sure marriage isn't everything, and not for everyone, but the way korean netizens feel entitled to these celebrities lives, I wouldn't marry either. If they're dating, they're hiding it very well, and it's sad these men can't just date, and not cause a so called stupid scandal.
Many of us are not meant to be married; this doesn't mean we are anti commitment or against marriage - it's just that marriage is not necessary for us to be well-rounded, evolved, and happy people. Society has indoctrinated humans to believe that marriage is an imperative, and that simply is not true. I would far rather be an old spinster than a miserable person in a bad marriage
As a female I think they are all still very good looking and sexy as heck😊
They are handsome vampire in real life because look younger than his age. Thanks for comment 😘
Even better as they age like fine wine…I think they will find someone when it is the right time and the right person.
Unmarried doesnt mean not dating or not in a serious relationship they just may not make it public. most of these men are for sure dating
Of course they are.They become skilled at being the celebrity / and having a private life away from celebrity .
What about SungHoon? He's 41 yrs. old, incredible actor and oh so handsome. Unless you want to have children, live together. And, as a fan of kdrama, good for any actor/actress who has a partner, I'm glad they're happy.
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They also have to find a woman who is willing to share them with the public but won't go public with every spat they have at home. The only women who understand how to live with a celebrity are celebrities themselves, and they're so focused on their own lives and careers that they don't have time to focus on a husband. It's a rare woman who can be the wife of a celebrity and not lose herself to resentment.
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They very rarely marry outside their profession.
It’s a big more savage than worrying about popularity. Their handlers at their companies make it difficult if not impossible. They just seem to have the people at their companies. No separate manager or lawyer or agent to look out for them. The company insists on their single hood. It seems the few marriages we find about out are people meeting through a project and getting pregnant. Although divorce usually follows. We know entertainers sometimes loose all rights to a personal cell phone, at least the first 7 years. That is another thing the contracts they end up in are ridiculously long.
Listening to your explanation, I think Korean actors do not have much freedom in life, especially when it comes to seeking love or a partner like ordinary people. It's quite unfortunate.
Not being married does not mean that you can't have private relationships, or be happily single. It all depends on what they want, and is marriage is not important to them now or ever then let them live their lives peacefully.
Korean celebrities don't have their own freedom. Their life is essentially centered around their fan base. Fans will pick on and mutilate any wrong choice. Most of them are single. I feel sympathy for them.
That's the old myth that these actors fear of losing their popularity. I feel that they enjoy their single life with no string attached. It's their personal choice.
fear of the fans. Not all actors feel this way but quite a few do. I personally, think some of them have a same-sex preference and some think that being openly gay would harm their career. There is the possibility they don't want to. S Korea has a low marriage and birth rate. I read that marriage is not a popular trend nor having children. Divorce is on the rise as well
Asian actors and actresses careers can be wiped out in a flash with just one misstep.
The industry is so competitive with someone new always eager to take the place of an Asian celebrity.
Getting married should be your choice. If you're happy, single, nothing wrong with your choice. Who says happiness comes from being married.
I think that marriage does change the status of stars…but it doesn’t have to be in a bad way. It is how they handle it. Almost all fans want the stars to be happy in life.
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Sexy as hell and aging like fine wine.......Zo, Song, Lee, Lee, Gong.......my favorite years!
I can see lots of comments, up in arms, about the video claiming it's odd that the actors are not married.
1. Calm down, nobody is saying it's not absolutely fine to be single. NOBODY is saying that.
2. In Korean culture there is a HUGE pressure to get married and settle down. It's not the West, that's why it is considered surprising there.
Seems to me that about half of these actors actually think Marriage is important and won't take the step just because they're running out of time, so to speak. They, however, continue to date fellow actors generally ensuring a failed marriage in the end. (An 80% failure rate in intercelebrity marriages ensures this depressing fact.) So hopefully they will look further afield. The other half are, as the psych said, not wanting their popularity to wane. Certainly that would depend on how they age, as their popularity could fall due to their looks anyway Already I see a number of younger handsome actors who are starting to age terribly. Regardless of these facts, aren't they lucky that they don't have the clock beating upon them that us women have?
Yes, I hope they find a soul mate and get married soon because their faces are still very youthful like vampires.
I think the reason that actors date other actors is because they understand the life. It is very hard for someone outside of this to understand the hectic schedule. And it is even harder for actresses in Korea. Most male actors continue their career while female actresses are expected to give up their careers to take care of the family.
The clock also ticks for men, only slower.
I've not known men to be able to fall pregnant to rely on a clock, but ok looking good might rely on the clock sure.@@luci3042
They work so much and a lot of them will NEVER come out because of the laws in KOREA. A lot of them are and we can see it
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User-yu8zj9lf I agree with you. These Korean actors are so so good looking that Questions start to cross your mind about their sexuality . They look so effeminate and girlie even when dressed masculinely. I think a big %of them will be Bi / gay , so you can understand the reluctance to stay in the closet in a Conservative country like South Korea.
Personally, i feel WORKAHOLICS SHOULD NOT GET MARRIED.
You are already married to your job & have no time for anything or anyone so please do not make someone miserable waiting to have a relationship with you.
Thank you very much.
Male actors? Try female ones. Remember Park Shin-Hye? The moment she got married it was as though she was thrown out of kdrama industry. Why? It's not like single men can have\date her if she was unmarried. But once married as per any Asian culture you _belong_ to someone AND it's (almost) *permanent* . It's not the character you love, it's the actor\actress. Underneath all this, almost all old cultures are patriarchal and\or chauvinistic.
Ok. Next upload 😁
Indeed. They can't because work like that. The most of them are not married like woman's and men.
South Korea is still a conservative society. It's very difficult for people to come out. Even the non-celebrities are too scared to come out for fear of being ostracized by their family and friends. Celebrities will most likey lose a lot of work if they come out. That's a lot of good looking middle-aged men though.
O casamento só deve acontecer quando você tem certeza absoluta que é o que você realmente quer!!!
Na dúvida, é melhor não se arriscar mesmo!!!
They have very valid reasons and it's good to hear their honesty as to why but still remain hopeful that their cignificant other is in the future plans. Good luck guys ❤ I'm rooting fir you all
stop dating other famous people, find someone simple who is willing to be at home, but more importantly, take time, find time, no one else but yourself to blame if you don't make time. Life is balance, gotta balance work and life.
What if number 4 guy is just gay? Why isn't it an option? He does live with his friend at 50!
He just his best friend I think
@@korean1upI think it's rather suspicious and this is what you'd expect a gay couple to say. We are not gonna pretend gays don't exist, right? 😆But we can't say for sure, of course.
Experience: Marriage is not for "Everyone!" I see people try hard to make things work, but for some reason or another the expectations and reality hits them like a ton of bricks! Marriage is just a contract to benefit your financial life and give you tax breaks, and others expect the other party is suppose to make you happy! 🤣 Sharing a house, a bed, your shower, your kitchen, your time, and more, that's the challenge. Then come the kids, boy oh boy, will that change your life 360! Your life ends, when your kids begin! It is said: "If you had a chance to go back in time, what would you have done different?" A lot of people say "Nothing, I would do it all over again!" Now that's funny to me, because I know if they say different, it's denying their entire life, but be honest. What would you have done different? I've told my kids "I should have lived my life different, like traveling more, seeing other cultures, enjoy my life as a single woman longer before marriage then maybe had kids." They totally agree with me, because that's how they live their lives, enjoy it while you can, and NEVER expect another person to make you happy EVER! Find your own happiness. Marriage is Not Everything!
Totalmente de acuerdo !!!
If someone is not happy with their life, there is no wY they would be happy with someone else....ever.
Wrong. So so so so so tragically wrong.... All of it here.
Why should they marry when all of them know they can have companionship any time they want. These guys are not going to have trouble dating well into their 60s maybe 70s. Marriage is contentment, commitment, compromise, sacrifice, work, and hardships. That’s real love. These guys don’t want that. Which is ok. It’s good they don’t marry. Hey, to each their own. They’ll have to live with their choices. Marriage isn’t for everyone. No one should get married because they think they should. It’s got to be for the right reasons and with the right person who compliments your personality, whether they are opposite of you or on the same page as you. Both can be fulfilling. ❤
Some of them are gay that's why they aren't married but they live in a Conservative society and can't openly say their preference
I bet a lot are they’re just keeping it low key.
NEWSFLASH! There are actually people in this world who aren't interested in marriage. Marriage is not everyone's ultimate goal. Let them be.
I know that, but isn't a couple better than being alone?
@@korean1upNão necessariamente, a felicidade não está no outro, é um erro procurar a felicidade no outro. As pessoas colocam muita expectativa em cima do casamento, e não é bem por aí, se fosse assim não existiria o divórcio e todos viveriam felizes para sempre. Casamento, de modo bem frio, significa renúncia, no final de seu vídeo o psicólogo coloca bem, uma das razões, sim, a carreira e a perda de fãs, é um risco que vale a pena? Sem falar a pressão da própria cultura coreana sobre o casamento, é desagradável.
@@korean1upsingle doesn’t mean you are alone.
@@korean1up No. Though many old people still think like that but the world has moved on.
I would be interested in unmarried Korean actresses over 40 and their views on marriage...
Noted, maybe next upload. Thanks for that idea. ❤
Plenty of famous Korean actors marry without worrying about fan response, and have remained very successful and popular.
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You know as some who only 28 I do get what there saying. There are times when I feel like I’m never going to get married. I think when you just focus on yourself growth you don’t think really about serious romantic relationships. You mind is more focus on survival and independence before thinking about taking care of others. I don’t think there is a certain time frame “time” to get married. You can get married at 18 or 81 it doesn’t matter. What counts is the happiness each partner has in the relationship. There nothing wrong with not wanting to get married either. Does not mean your alone.
When it's said celebrity couples break up because of work commitments, the truth is something else entirely.
I think Gong Yoo and Lee Dong Wook would be a great couple.
Wouldn't they just! Korean society won't allow it though.
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Lee Dong Wook is my favourite actor! So talented and versatile ❤️
P.S.: I need him and Yoo In Na together again in a drama please! Their chemistry is the best 🔥❤️🙏
Lee dong wook had married for a short while then divorced. So he should not be part of these guys not getting married so far. I believe some of them already have a relationship with their assistants next to them. They will officially announce when they get married later.
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People need to mind their own business, seriously. Just because they’re in the public eye, it doesn’t mean they need to explain their personal life.
But, not for gay couple 😅
In short NO WOMEN has caught their Heart yet...becuz Any man into a woman will make it an effort to MAKE THE TIME
They know the fans don’t want them unavailable by being in a real relationship. It’s an unrealistic expectation that really hinders their chances for any semblance of a relationship. It’s all thoughout the K entertainment and it’s not normal that this many eligible men don’t marry. Sad and kind of pathetic when you think of the low birth rate threatening the future of Korea. All that great DNA going to waste.
Celebrities have to protect their image. Their image is their brand. There could be a number of reasons why K Pop and K drama actors stay single or date secretly because the don't want to lose popularity or get scrutinized for their personal choices.
I think that so 🤔
This people were literally policed in all their moves with the knife “your career will be ruined if you’re find dating “ now they have missed the timing 🤷🏾♀️. The same people are now policing them into getting married??? Blessed the ones that did listen to their hearts and not the public and fans opinion!
when you get into your 30s and 40s in SK, people are not as judgmental if you start dating. That is what I noticed with Idols and actors.
MY GOD! Some judgemental comments out here. I know for a fact that some MEN and WOMEN do not marry because they choose NOT to. And it is not as nefarious as some of you are making it sound. It can be due to a career choice that changed their path in life, a $#!tty or abusive relationship, or they know that they are NO GOOD at marriage. Personally, I applaud the person who has the MATURITY to see this in themselves and take themselves out of the situation. Let folks live their best lives and stop being so judgy...we don't know what goes on behind the curtain...just sayin'...
Thanks for your opinion, I understand, many people wonder why such perfect Korean actors aren't married. As you mentioned, there are many factors that can influence a person's decision not to marry, and people often speculate about why these Korean actors in their 40s haven't tied the knot.
I know a lot of men who are in their 40's and never dated. Probably virgins. They're not gay, they're just not interested. It's interesting, they're not 'incels' either [men who desire a partner but can't get one.] When you probe with a few questions, the biggest reason is financial. They have male friends who got married, got divorced and they have to pay child support for the next 18 years. They like their freedom. A lot of single women would cite finances as well. They want to support themselves and not rely on a partner and can live however they want without having to please their partner and get approval from his family. I can relate to that.
Maybe your opinion is true because I don't believed they are gay.
Nothing wrong with staying single
Curious how many are not attracted to the opposite sex.
I wouldn't be shocked if not a single man on that list is heterosexual. Still love many of them though 😍
They'd lose money. Their delusional fans insist they stay "available". It's a cultural thing, just like in k-pop.
Lee Dong Wook is pronounced E-dong wook and Gong Yoo are extremely private and independent men,their careers comes first.
Its a personal choice for getting married.
Their private life is exactly that private.
I will always love and support these extremely multi-talented men but leave them alone and stop expected them to live with these arcaic korean standards.
They are all successful through their own hard work and being single shouldn't be seen as an affliction.
Que emoción de trabajar al lado de Lee Joon Ji, ❤❤❤ tan lindo y cariñoso que es él, alegra el día entero ❤❤
Who is Lee Joon Ji?
@@korean1upshe mean Lee Joon Gi.
I tried explaining this to my mom a couple of times. That crazy fans get jealous and they would loose their status. It's a delicate topic.
Lose not loose
Actors have it easier than idols. Many actors date and marry.
@@arizonagirl6474 True. But many actors also suffer with the fear of losing their fame and choose not to date. Fame in Korea comes at a very high price.
@regina6838 Every actor I like is either married or they date, or they just aren't lucky with finding the right person. People tend to forget that these days, it's hard to find a good person to trust and to date. One of my favorite actors just got married, and I didn't even know he was dating, lol.
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Not everyone must and wants to get married 😏 Some of them for sure probably didn't do it for their career, but some maybe are just OK with being single
These actors AND actresses have to devote probably more than 100% of their time to their careers. They work super hard and the studios are pretty strict and, yes, probably very manipulative with their clients.
I think there are many people who conform to societal standards and enter the rat race to have it all and be married by a certain age. For some it works out, for others, they start to live more of life, and realize that there are other paths aside from just settling down and getting married. Not being married doesn't mean you lack love or family in your life, you can still have all of that. Maybe just not traditionally with one person. Some people are comfortable with themselves, admitting that yes it gets lonely, but they enjoy their personal freedom. I used to think I had to be married and have it all together to fit in with everyone, but I was forcing it. Thankfully I never got into all that before divorce would cost me. I think if people are happy as they are in their life, they shouldn't have to follow expectations of others.
All these incredibly handsome Korean actors and not one of them is gay ??
Wow what are the odds....LOL
But seriously I hope we can all enjoy their work and respect their privacy .
No matter what form it takes.
Lee Dong Wook can’t get married. He’s already married to me
It's easier to hide a relationship if you're not married, which becomes official in papers for everyone to see. Also, several must be gay and can't get married yet in South Korea
@@LeeDongWookOfficial-vr6bz I'm from the country of not believing fake celebrity accounts
Most men remain single by choice. They don’t want the responsibility of supporting a family, or losing their freedom.
Being single is fine. Some ppl are just comfortable like that.
Edit: can relate to that second actor Lee. I don't employ any cleaning ladies even though I don't have much time, because I'm super OCD: they would never clean like I do...
Some are simply gays others need to meet women outside the industry
Думаю, что гениальные актёры не могут рассказывать честно о своей личной жизни, слишком большое давление на них и на их спутниц. Они все эмоциональные темпераментные мужчины, вряд ли живут без женщин. Разговоры о занятости - при любой занятости можно час уделить личной жизни, неужели мало женщин, готовых ради любви к таким красавцам мириться с их графиком - наверное, хватает. Проблема найти такую, которая не надоест, не будет требовать, не будет раздражать после работы и с которой захочется прожить всю жизнь. Вот парни и не могут определиться. Это их личное дело. Желаю им счастья в любви, но главное - новых интересных ролей и очень крепкого здоровья. Хотелось бы, чтоб такие парни оставили потомство, чтоб у них были дети. Такие классные гены!
I’m 67 never married, never meet anyone who our was comfortable with and trusted.
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I agree with many comments that being single is not a disease. With the amount of attention these stars get I would just want to curl up with a book and turn off all media when I got home from work (wait…I already do that after I’ve relaxed and streamed a k-drama).
intelligent, sophisticated, pure, inspiring, kind, generous heart....some of those guys need to grow up and stop believing in fairy la la land!
We don't judge them if they get married or not but in Korea the Neitzens are crucial and judgemental..
I believe instead of them dealing with them they prefer to date and have a good time to prevent their status of their career.
They've live the lifestyle for so long it doesn't phase them. That's my opinion
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@@LeeDongWookOfficial-vr6bz.. really are you the real wook
Send Lee Don Wook to me. Any man that wants to do housework is one of the qualities I want in a man. A help mate😂😂❤❤
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@@genevabrantley3076 dunno if you have realised this, but Lee Dong Wook is not on TH-cam.
@stacyfeldmann4489 I know that. It was saying why they haven't married and how they are. I answered the two questions, but I didn't text him as this man requested. I am fully aware of scammers wannabe .
It’s in some of their contracts, they can’t marry or date because fans are so vicious in Asia when they do. If these so called fans did that in other countries, they would be put in jail for harassment/verbal assault.
If there are indeed contracts with their companies, it may seem reasonable, but is their agency going too far by restricting their personal lives, including marriage?
Я как настоящий преданный поклонник работ своего любимого актёра Ким Бома, который по-видимому следует тем же путем, что и его коллеги, всегда желаю ему найти вторую половину, обзавестись семьёй и найти в их лице самую большую любовь и поддержку. Одиночество не всегда плохо, всем иногда хочется побыть в одиночестве, но иногда это страшно, приходить в абсолютно пустую квартиру, где тебя никто не ждёт. Брак это тоже своего рода дорама, в которой ты и твоя половина сценарист, режиссёр и главный герой. Просто нужно правильно подобрать партнёра.
I think they’re being responsible not having one, when they have jam packed schedules. It’s not fair to either party if one is gone constantly…
So sad. It is a combination of what appears a relentless job and their fear of rejection from their fans and society if they choose a contraversial partner or marry at all. Essentially, it is like they have signed up to a life of abstinence to protect their image. Really lonely.
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Who in their right want to get married these days????no one want to be shackle to anyone else in the name of love or whatever it is..now days we love our freedom ❤
I personally agree with these handsome actors marriage to someone you must be comfortable with who enjoy what you enjoy love the same things that you love it is very difficult time that everyone lives to move to that commitment
I think S Korea puts too much emphasis on marriage and children. First, all people have their own personal reasons for eschewing typical social contracts. I think the media needs to keep their attitudes out of Korean stars’ personal lives, and just concentrate on their careers and accomplishments. These questions about their private lives may be found abusive at a certain point. They give their all to the public, do they have to keep answering inquisitive, and interfering, personal questions, just to feed the curiosity of the public, into their private matters, too?
They are probably gay, that’s my take. Getting married has not been an issue for most male actors so why these guys?
south korea is too conservative and it would ruin their image/career.
After 40 why get married, enjoy life to the fullest. Marriage isn’t for everyone.
My opinion is when you are young you don't think so much about things you are thinking when you are older, and the most important is to be comfortable in your life 😊🤗
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As long as you a period you can have a baby. I had my third child at 42yrs. Old he is now 26yrs.old. so whoever made that rule you must marry before 30yrs.old lie to you. And say your a left over woman is childish and very immature. So my question is what do they call men over 30? Love who you love marry who you want to marry wither it be good or bad at least it is your choice.
Because of marriage or love scandal people destroy their life and ruin it.
Everyone has only a life,just bcs they date fans are furious.
Even if they date fans must accept and appreciate their choice.
No one can judge whether they suit each other or not. Please respect them if you are truly their fans
I think the problem with the world is being closed minded…😂 when ppl close themselves off from others… this is what happens… they can’t find their other (better) half. Someone that understands or completes them may possibly be in another culture. Not having times is simply a poor EXCUSE ppl use for NOT trying to work at a real commitment. U don’t HAVE to get married to be COMMITTED to one another!
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Well marriage isn't for everyone,and some people dont wnt children either.they could be gay undercover. Or want to marry someone from another race.
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Thinking: The problem is that entertainment companies in South Korea want profit, and if someone takes an interest in someone else, the fanatics of the handsome boys will freak out. And that makes profits fall... I've never seen this in Brazil, where I live. Actresses, actors, singers, musicians, comedians can marry whoever they choose or divorce whenever they want. There is no fanaticism here.
I am sure a hectic schedule can be a huge problem for many even accidentally meeting someone is hard!! I am 77 and do not look it according to many an very active. I work and do crafts. I love walking and hiking and lots of other activities. It's hard to find someone to blend in with I also like my me time