I’ve never disrespected my twin flame. I’ve only ever felt love and compassion for him. I see him as the most beautiful being on this planet and he does me. We’ve had a difficult time communicating but have always been loving and respectful and adoring of each other. All I know is that I need to be authentic in my expression with him and he never judges me for being me and vice versa. Yes, we’ve had silent times between us, but we understand each other. We communicate about everything in the 5D , and there’s never been an angry word between us,. Just true, authentic expression of self in a loving, compassionate, understanding and respectful manner. Both of us are business leaders and communication is key in our day to day lives.
90% of the people in those groups aren’t twin flames and that is why they aren’t getting it. Lol. They want to be (totally not understanding what it actually means to be on a twin journey) because they want a romantic relationship alike those depicted in many movies. The terms soulmate, and twin flame are universally misused and misunderstood. Thanks Mel! It’s always a pleasure :-)
Honey Halo Honey Halo I often wonder what makes people like you JUDGE who is a TF if you’re in this journey then be mindful of how insanely confusing all this is and emotional you don’t come equipped into this explosion 💥 of emotions. My person is not very emotional evolved and maybe neither am I but it’s crazy how by letting this go you internally feel a sense of reset (forgive and forget) and it’s strange to accept that an internal source guides you in the right path and it’s very difficult to accept it as a gift when all you experience is pain (it’s needed for growths) Mel is coming from experience of counseling TF this video is because he’s very emphatic and he’s seen the end result over and over. If I trigger you.... your welcome 💖💖💖💖
Txan Gurl you are the one who seems triggered. Mel is amazing. Good luck on your journey. Lol .... and maybe consider how you yourself may be in ego and judgement. 😂 .... “you are” welcome!
@@babygmanawa3587 After a year I see my comment as just as relevant if not even more relevant as we enter the new age. I fully agree with Mel's teaching. If laughing is a trigger for you ... you may want to do some work around why. As well as your own ego that feels the need to comment on a stranger's post a year after it was posted. Lol. Sneaky isn't it???
@@honeyhalo3759 after a year and your own thought processes haven't changed? Where does it say I'm against Mel? Calling bullshit when you see it isn't ego, its making the observation of someone else's bullshit. Feeling the need to reply back straight away? What exactly is that? That need to reply, to justify, to argue? What is that? My need to reply was purely to show you what I saw in your comment. Totally agree with the other "opinunator".. your judging others who have no idea what the tf journey is about. They only know what they know from there level of perception. So, they want a romantic relationship, so what? So, they don't get it, so what. In time they will get it. Now are you sure you are at pure service to human kind? Are you sure you are deeply at service to our human race?. Coz all I see is you looking down on others because "They don't get it"...
I am a DF who thinks you are spot on! I am not sure which groups you belong to, but the ones I belong to convey the same messaging. I think the people who understand that the TF connection is not about a fairy tale romance, but rather about a journey of ascendance and the mission of spreading unconditional love gravitate to the groups that are more high vibe. You know the old saying....perception is projection. Those of us who get it know that we are in separation because we weren't ready for each other and that we were too wounded to not take it personally so space was/is needed to focus on our respective shadow work. Keep not coddling us! It's good for us!
ANEN !!!! and may I add , the lack of GRATITUDE speaks volume . It’s all about level of consciousness. Most don’t want to hear it ... I have always said you can only remain pain , fear and the continuous ego not seeing the whole big picture. . Bless your heart ! You are a patient man . 💜
at this stage in my life, I dont even know what truly was. maybe it was what I always THOUGHT it was, feelings and all OR I was just being delusional and attached to the pain of unrequitted love. neverless, I realized, that it truly doesnt matter. all I am focused on now is my own soul evolution and therefore the evolution of the planet. with the right frame of mind I will align to the right things. this I know and so it is... :) I think a lot comes down to how you handle your own thoughts and therefore which vibration/timeline you're aligning to. the moment you realize you have power over you thoughts, is the moment you're truly free. thank you Mel, as always. xx
Your videos always appear when I need it. Though you usually say what I have already worked out on my own. It's still nice to hear someone say it. A genuine truthful conversation is all I want. I have no expectations beyond that. It would just be nice to know I have not lost my mind. What ever all this is, is clearly unique to each individual. Can't achieve balance playing tug-a-war and being angry. Can't resolve anything without actual communication.
Great respect to you sir. I agree with you. Respect and communication is absolutely key. My twin and I have mutually agreed on this from day one. More people need to hear what you have to say. 💜 Love and light to all.
I love your no bull attitude. Your “15 year old puppy love” was spot on for us. My TF was my first love at 15 and because we acted 15 at the time it didn’t last. We reconnected 33 years later (5 years ago) and spent two years feeling 15 again with all the 15 year old dynamics. We did grow up together in the last three years and can honestly share our truths with each other even when they aren’t pretty. Do you think some of these dynamics are generational? It seems to me, those over 45 seem to share your views while those younger just aren’t ready yet.
When i heard you talk about making a list it reminded me of a passage by jorge bucay, i ones read and was so moved by that i kept it as a text file. This was in reaction to the question : what do you seek in a partner ? Someone who listens to me without judging me. Someone who voices her opinion without imposing it to me. Someone who trusts me without demanding anything of me. Someone who helps me without trying to decide for me. Someone who takes care of me without trying to shelter me. Someone who looks at me without projecting her issues on me. Someone who embraces me without suffocating me. Someone who encourages me without pushing me. Someone who supports me without controlling me. Someone who protects me without lies. Someone who comes close to me without invading me. Someone who knows the most displeasing flaws about me, who accepts them and who doesn't try to change them. So she can know that today, tommorrow, and everyday, she can count on me. With no conditions Hope it helps some of you as much as it did me. P.S. I have not found my counterpart in "real life" yet. But am still hopefull that when the time is right we will find each other.
NexManus, thank you for sharing such an excellent passage excerpt.👌It is really beautiful.🙊 I loved it. I really hope you meet your twin soul in the 3D soon.😁 I rarely, if ever, comment on another individual's comment, for I'm a bit of an introvert. 😳 But I saw the other commenter say they feel such a list is impossible. I understand why people feel this way. If I may, I'd humbly like to share some input in the hopes that our combined comment thread could collectively inspire precious souls to keep believing and make their own list🙏❤️ I'm speaking to no one in particular, except all the wonderful souls who read this. 😉 It may seem like so many desired traits cannot exist in one person, but they can. Or you just can't find your other half, but really you are already whole.😘 Regarding meeting your twin in the 3D world, you would be surprised what the universe will help you achieve if you only set your intentions and believe in what you co-create with the universe. Simple, right? Have faith in yourself. Have faith in Divine Love. ☺️ You will meet them at the right time in the right way. You both planned your meeting before you ever incarnated. I made such a list, before I ever knew of twin connections or their purpose. And I met my twin, who showed me the truth of myself and how to become the best version of myself, which I am currently working on. My twin is all those things on my list and so much more I didn't dare to dream of asking for. Truth. Though we are friends at this time, I wouldn't trade that list and our connection for all the stars in the night sky. It's the most precious bond to me....I helped him write his own list. Not surprisingly, he asked to see mine and copied some from my list. 🤔 So I encourage everyone. Make a list if you would like. Believe in the Law of Attraction if you are so inclined. And even if your twin soul bond doesn't fit your 3D expectations of a romance to make all other romances jealous or you can't seem to find that person in this dimension; you might, through the process, discover that you are the one you were hoping to find after all. The Ultimate Parter...is your Higher Self. My twin taught me this, without knowing it. You are one with all Conciousness and all souls. It's all love. Pure love. If and when you come to such an understanding, you will love unconditionally and let go of expectations of what love is.🙈 Sorry this was a bit lengthy. I'm a wordy Gemini. 😅 If anyone reads this all, kudos to you, patient soul. I am truly passionate about people realizing their own power to manifest what they most want. I know my commentary was not asked for or needed, but I hope it helps someone out there someday for I dearly wish true happiness for all amazing souls🥰 Love and light to you all.💜
Retyping this Mel, lost it when I dropped my phone. If that was a sign, I'm too hard headed to pay attention, and the journey is tough for us hard heads. No doubt, I increased my pain level due to my own expecations (selfish we are in 3D) but my own hurts had to be triggered to heal, at least heal more. I had gifts prior to this connection, and plan to take to a broader audience, to assist others towards self love, acceptance, and respect so we can give and receive more haromiously with self and in relationships. I have an opportunity to do this with a connection other than my tf, who has a similar goal. I' m not missing the opportunity. My tf and I have some different basic beliefs, one no more right or better than the other probably. A compromise is more likely better, as I' m pretty lofty and he rather earthly. I got a feeling this new connection is going to help me with that. I want my tf to know he is special, cared for (ok, truce, loved, but he knows that) and I hope the best for him. How can I not, that's the only way to get the best for me. I have to say, I don't communicate with him as I use to (was a chatterbox which he liked), but he has always known pretty much every breath I take. Well, 3D wanted what 3D wanted, and the problems ensued, but resulted in some self exploration that needed to be done, for me anyway. Oh boy, I didn't miss that opportunity either.
You coined that bubble love phase! We're in our mid to late fifties but acted like teenagers! I've never disrepected my twin on social media and I don't know why others slam their twin. Yes, we had our issues and bumps in the road but it is just a matter of communicating properly. We aren't physically together and have been apart for two months or so. I dream of him sometimes and that's where the communication takes place. I believe now that my DM and DF energy has balanced because the pain and obsession about my twin has seized! I couldn't have said this a few weeks ago. I was kinda forced to surrender and go within and found the most beautiful gift of all SELFLOVE baby!! I feel like a brand new person.
I have a request: Could you please make a video that does not mention twin flame FB groups and how bad they are? I don't belong to any and they don't really interest me all that much. I have identified one or two tarot ladies I prefer (never seen the teapot folks 🤷🏻), but I don't watch them looking for hope of reunion so much, rather to get a clearer understanding of what I'm dealing with. I think you have a lot of sage advice to share. I have soul mission work to do, insight to gain and I'm looking for nuggets of intuition. I like your no-nonsense approach, but sifting through an hour of "FB groups are full of hive minded complainers" (duh!) to get concrete insights... Sigh, it's like more bad twin flame communication 😆
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@Kellen Antonio I really appreciate your reply. I got to the site through google and I'm waiting for the hacking stuff atm. Looks like it's gonna take a while so I will reply here later when my account password hopefully is recovered.
Ouch I’m guilty😳☹️ Thankfully I shut down my FB two years ago so I don’t have anywhere to rant😂 But still, it’s hard not to harbor resentment towards the connection sometimes. i even have a “hate” journal about it. Thanks for the reminder🙏 I’ve stopped ranting for quite sometimes now even though I do that privately. But sometimes I lose my temper.
Great video! Thank you Mel for all you do for us! Finding that when communication is difficult the conversations in 4 etheric dimension in the heart center connecting in a meditation is best. Forget 3 D when it gets complicated with ego culture differences etc. Also learning to keep my mouth shut and look for my own peace of mind and soul first... when I find it within myself, he usually calls with the right conclusion anyway. Trust and Allow! 😍
This is an excellent video and lesson! Feeding the fear monster with combative twin bashing is something I cringe at now, but I've been there internally. It's a blame game that continues until you think of yourselves as a team instead of trying to one up or say who's hurting more, it shows what needs healing and simply to grow into accountability.
“I don’t give a sweet fiddler’s fart.” Lol. Love you, Mel. I don’t pretend to understand anything since I became aware of being a twin flame, but I am thrilled to be in the beautiful connection I most recently manifested. The bubble love phase has begun to burst but I think we both have what it takes to persevere, remain conscious and lovingly honest about what’s coming up, and not take it personally, as you say 😘🙏❤️
THANKS FOR YOUR INPUT MEL but my experience is with my ETHERIC Twinflame is there anybody out there who is going through the same connection as WE have all got a etheric twinflame as we share the body with our REAL twinflame this had changed me so much and brought much needed joy 2 my life the story's of past life's were still married and are from the Pleiades star system if you do the work this is such a JOY and everyone should experience this every day I feel the Love that she has for me I'm so happy! do the work ppl please this is the TRUE AWAKENING and ASCENDING!
Our bubble was 8 months of bliss and never ended. Never running or chasing. Just pain and struggle as we ascended. He was married to a narcissist, drank to self medicate, got sick, and died 2 years after we reconnected (died last week). Never has my heart been so beautiful broken open. We would let the tears of love shake and ripple through us constantly, as we struggled through our stages of reaching for union. I don’t understand the ridiculousness of so called “twins” who sound so petty. That’s not what twins are.
Yay!! You are up to 21,000 subscribers now Mel!! Maybe this means that people are waking up and getting out of the foo foo fantasy land about what real twin flames are!! Happy to see this!!😘🤗🤗
I agree with you. My connection with my twin took place over 25 years ago in the 3D. I had repressed and never expressed my true feelings for him. So, I couldn't relate to much of this 3D bitching within the TF community. I also learned very quickly that since we are connected and one, how I feel about him is how I feel about myself. I did have to forgive him/myself, let go of fear, detachment, and embrace love. The TF journey is all about self love & freedom. From that point it has became easier to heal. Thank you for this video, and this perspective..
It is a journey and I personally did not know wth was/is going on. We cant be expected to just know something we have never experienced before. We arent talking about a simple connection here.
Before I even had my sacred mirror experience, I was in those groups and always was astounded by some of the posts I saw in there. They were always blaming the man. And soooo co dependent. Now I get the intensity they were feeling but still not getting the g by readiness and codependency and victimhood. Sometimes I thought my eyes were gonna roll out of my head and into my throat. I have nothing but reverence for my sacred mirror connection. Even in the trigger trap and painful separation. It is what it is. If I never kiss him again I still will be forever grateful for the growth, connection. And activations.
I do refer to my relationship as a TF because of how it started in 2007 and the subsequent Kundalini Awakening that followed that opened me up to Guidance from some other place. To your Point, and you are SPOT ON...one of the Guidance lessons I was shown is to HONOR! Mind you, I never really honored many men...ever...my past was full of tearing down or complaining about my boyfriend but I Changed! I became more quiet, contemplative, deeper in thought, outwardly I honored him no matter how angry I may have been. See, when we tear down our love, or any other person but especially our LOVE to others, how in the world do you think these people will see you or your mate? Ever? FOREVER!? When people break up they sometimes verbally destroy the other person...then get back together...then what!? EXACTLY WHY I stay out of TF/soul mate groups, it nauseated me. And no matter how much I tried to explain how important it is NOT to verbally bash your love the more I began to believe it's part of our culture. Sad really, how can we say I love you then turn and tell others we are so miserable with our TF. I remember being that person before my TF and Mel, this is why I highly doubt many of the TF/soulmate/whatever connections because the REAL DEAL, in my lessons (from elsewhere), so profoundly changes you that it becomes almost painful to Bash out loud and definitely painful inside. Just sayin... Just my experience 12 Years in ...
hahaha I am listening to all of your points and perspectives. My karmic soulmate is in denial about life love our relationship and himself is all. Now the the Universe separated us physically after we acted out the way you describe on volume 10 in a large social circle for two straight years.Now all we have is communication. Lots to learn. Thank you. You are sent by the universe.
I am so grateful for this gift. Learning to love myself through him has been an amazing journey. We are so illuminating when we are together it has always been crazy. We are huge age difference difference races or culture. But people walk up to us and say are you married are you guys lovers it's so beautiful especially since we have never even kissed. Boy do I want to kiss him though.
👍👍👍agree on everything in this video ..Tnx Mel ..love the way you talk , teach, get you message across I sense that you really care and want to help tflames from t bottom of your heart ..I learn a lot from you and follow whatever you teach cose I trust and resonate w you 100%
I thank you for your Truth in The Divine Twin Flame 🔥. I believe a lot of Twin Flame Groups cause a lot of anxiety and fear. I know and believe in the sacredness of my relationship. Happy Easter! Sending Christ Consciousness Love and Light ♥️
In my group, that is one of the group rules I made. "No bashing of your twin." People are pretty good though but I agree, other groups are notorious for it. I did post this video in my group lol
Hi Mel, We realize after coming down from the bubble love phase or honeymoon phase is that we each can make the other stronger by our energies connected. We are no longer one single energy. Powerful our soul energy has become when it is connected to the other soul energy. The thing is when we reject the person. Who are we really rejecting ? We are rejecting the greastest gift. We are rejecting that soul energy. So no worries should we have. No one can show me who I really am. I have been shown my own beauty and love my own soul energy is and can express. Written by Linda Robinson
The 'hive mentality' is real. I'm old enough to remember what it was like before social media and from my perspective life was much better when people talked in person and didn't shoot their mouths off with the safety of being relatively anonymous behind a keyboard. This hive mind doesn't just apply to twin flame stuff, it's a sickness across all social media. How about we adopt the mentality of not saying stuff on social media that we wouldn't say to someone's face? That would be a good start.
You are so right. Thank you, Mel. I am working on myself......and keep just love there. Hard sometimes when ego takes over or jealousy - my twin is in the third-party relationship and that makes hard. We had a lot of separations - so I am learning. I did mistakes too but he is amazing and forgiving. Yet, every night despite sometimes doubts, ego etc..at the end of the day what I felt anyhow just love and really anger/disappointment did never lasted long for some reason. I need to learn to get out of that feeling and wanting the best of him. We never been intimate, or even kiss...but I never loved anyone more in my whole life. Amazingly anger or disappointment last few hours then I see a lot of my own shortcomings....I still have a lot to learn I know. We both learning ...which is good. The question I have...Why we are given that intense drive of sexual attraction if we cannot do anything about it. I never felt like this in my entire life.....If that is what suppose to be ...I have to learn probably to live with it......but so hard as all one wants to be with my other half.
You may be speaking about a lot of twin flames but you’re definitely not speaking about me: I have definitely followed your best advice and my hearts wisdom and I’m not experiencing any of the things that you’ve mentioned... I did “blame” him a little bit in the beginning, but I have a lot of compassion and understanding, so I let my own inner wisdom cure me of that... knowing I was also to blame. Because I love him I have no need to complain about him - how and why would I ever do that?
The odd thing is I never talked bad on social media. I kept it to myself. He ran all the time from me. I walked away the last time because I refuse to be a dirty little secret. He's married and so am I. I'm getting a divorce after being physically abused. I decided to do my shadow work. I know I acted like an ass at times. I'm praying he's doing well and if we ever meet again cool if not I pray he has a blessed life. I love him and I always will. We are best friends above all else 🦋😊
Try this one on for size: There is no separate entity outside of myself. The twin flame is merely a 3D reflection of my connection with my higher self, and ALL problems I perceive as being “out there” are only a mirror of my own “imperfections”. If I want the “outside” to change, the shift must occur within. There. All problems solved. 💖😉
The insecure attachment between twins in other relationships makes it an audacious statement to say ‘we’. A 5d Union with no 3D experience is just scary to the ego.
Yes Mel, thank you so much... "don't take it personally" 😩😅 not easy, but true... and then, taking the energy and let them not go out in re-action... these energy is able to burn all the blockages that we had made between us and the power of the unconditional love... not easy but it is possible... piece by piece... we are not alone 💕🙏💕 thank you... love is the way home i am sure that we won't be able to get rid of these "twins"... until we are willing to fully embrace him/her 🙄🤔😍 (and ourselves) how long will that go? I don't know... so long it goes... 😉😘
Slam dunk! We have never accepted the Separation paradigm. ..except for being separated by distance and time zones. But we have a communication issue of not enough communication. In the beginning we chatted every day, sometimes several times a day. Then it became very sporadic. Now it's to the point that we say good morning or goodnight, depending on when we connect, and not much in between. As for when the "bubble love" hit reality. .. it happened when he told me he was married. Even so, we mutually decided to stay in contact, and created our own paradigm of a long term LDR. Nine years into it, I feel like both of us are resigned to not getting together in this lifetime. It sometimes feels like we got together too late in life.
I threw out everything I wanted in someone years ago. I thought about it and nothing really came to mind. I thought what have I got to offer, n all I came up with was me. Just me. I just thought someone pretty lucky to get me in pure form. I then attracted someone where I feel lucky to have him in pure form.
BAM 💥 then it’s 2 15 yr olds! I laughed so hard because this is so true! OMG! I’m 40, lost my husband 2 months prior to meeting my TF , never was I going to be with anyone ever, then it was I was acting a fool over a dude I knew for 2 months. More heart broken than ever crying non stop and stalking on face book cuz he blocked me well I blocked him 1st. It’s crazy! What am I doing?! I never talked horribly about him ever cuz I love him more than anyone ever and I know he had a very rough life. He deserves happiness and I want to give it to him. I don’t know why he would ever block me. He would never be nasty to me ever. I am just in shock. I know he loves me. Superficial communication over the last month and a half. But he blocked me when I told him I couldn’t be his friend. But then I told him I was just upset because he called me while he was drunk and fighting with the girlfriend that he left and went back to. I just don’t understand why he would? I know he needs a place to stay but he could have gotten a place on his own. I miss him 💔
Are we like magnetic poles that opposites attract, so we need to reverse the polarity (runner/ chaser) or are we like mirrors where if u walk toward the mirror, your reflection comes to you?
While you made your point loud and clear, it was too bad you put the most important information at the end. The balancing of masculine and feminine energies which we all need to do is an extremely important aspect of this journey. Twins, in my opinion, are only reflecting the greater society at large (at least in the West). I live in a large urban area and the amount of angry people around here "bitching and moaning" as you would put it about the smallest slights is something that up to this point, I have never seen. So no surprise that twins reflect the attitudes and behaviors towards each other that are out there in regular society that we show one another. Learning to be peaceful and at peace no matter your circumstances is the biggest challenge any of us face along with learning to look inward for love or to deal with flaws - not outward to blame or have expectations. Thank you for your attempts to show twins the mirror and have people consider their actions. Question: Can people bypass the bubble love and "let down" phase and come into union harmonically balanced if they have done their work? Would love to know if you think this is possible or are we all expected to go through the bubble love and let down phases as part of our growth? Thanks for answering that.
The only problem I have is when I find out my partner was not portraying himself to be who he really was. For instance we used to go dancing a lot and a year later I ask why don’t we go dancing anymore ? He says He only did that to get me to date him. Not cool. Especially if there is more than one topic he misrepresented self on.
Christine Evans I think men and women present an idea of themselves instead of being their authentic self. Just makes you question the actual person in front of you
Black princess Maybe sometimes but when they tell you straight forward without any remorse that it was done “just to get the girl” meaning me - then you start to question integrity. I do understand what you are getting at though. I have a guy friend that speaks in “I want to”- when he says I will.
Mel. Thanks for your advise. But what do you do when your tf doesn’t want to communicate and is running when you have requested them to talk to you several times !!!
I agree completely. . .it has to be mutual, meaning a partnership. And that's how we feel. We also appreciate and respect each other, and have an understanding that we can talk about anything, even if we don't always agree, but still love each other. We learned early on, the importance of apologies as soon as we realized what we did or said that triggered us. I also realized that expectations lead to disappointment if I try to control him or the situation in any way.
Hi I have just watched this and could really do with your help, do you have an email address I could write to you about my connection. Thankyou Rachel.
Lee and sherry are also great on twin flames! I advice d etuine to familiar them selfs with mark passio's natural law material and unholy feminine and distorted masculine When people start to learn what things are not they can learn what it is. Natural law and man made law have to be learned Twin flames are not the be all end all There is far greater crucial work to be done to stop our planets apocalypse This is crucial
👍Yes this and 333 likes. It's constant complaining in these groups. It feels lower than 3D lol. And yes to answer your question it makes perfect sense. There is little to no self responsibility in these twin flame discussion groups.
We assume the connection is guaranteed.. Nope!! the awakening was.. is! we are in a twin flame union(assuming) not why can i be with my twin flame!! Ty my dear 🌹☕
I’ve never disrespected my twin flame. I’ve only ever felt love and compassion for him. I see him as the most beautiful being on this planet and he does me. We’ve had a difficult time communicating but have always been loving and respectful and adoring of each other. All I know is that I need to be authentic in my expression with him and he never judges me for being me and vice versa. Yes, we’ve had silent times between us, but we understand each other. We communicate about everything in the 5D , and there’s never been an angry word between us,. Just true, authentic expression of self in a loving, compassionate, understanding and respectful manner. Both of us are business leaders and communication is key in our day to day lives.
why is communication so difficult between twin flames. It is very frustrating
90% of the people in those groups aren’t twin flames and that is why they aren’t getting it. Lol. They want to be (totally not understanding what it actually means to be on a twin journey) because they want a romantic relationship alike those depicted in many movies. The terms soulmate, and twin flame are universally misused and misunderstood. Thanks Mel! It’s always a pleasure :-)
Honey Halo Honey Halo I often wonder what makes people like you JUDGE who is a TF if you’re in this journey then be mindful of how insanely confusing all this is and emotional you don’t come equipped into this explosion 💥 of emotions. My person is not very emotional evolved and maybe neither am I but it’s crazy how by letting this go you internally feel a sense of reset (forgive and forget) and it’s strange to accept that an internal source guides you in the right path and it’s very difficult to accept it as a gift when all you experience is pain (it’s needed for growths) Mel is coming from experience of counseling TF this video is because he’s very emphatic and he’s seen the end result over and over. If I trigger you.... your welcome 💖💖💖💖
Txan Gurl you are the one who seems triggered. Mel is amazing. Good luck on your journey. Lol .... and maybe consider how you yourself may be in ego and judgement. 😂 .... “you are” welcome!
Your laughing at the ones that think they are tf?
After a year do you see your own ego?
Sneaky isn't it?
@@babygmanawa3587 After a year I see my comment as just as relevant if not even more relevant as we enter the new age. I fully agree with Mel's teaching. If laughing is a trigger for you ... you may want to do some work around why. As well as your own ego that feels the need to comment on a stranger's post a year after it was posted. Lol. Sneaky isn't it???
@@honeyhalo3759 after a year and your own thought processes haven't changed?
Where does it say I'm against Mel?
Calling bullshit when you see it isn't ego, its making the observation of someone else's bullshit.
Feeling the need to reply back straight away? What exactly is that? That need to reply, to justify, to argue?
What is that?
My need to reply was purely to show you what I saw in your comment. Totally agree with the other "opinunator".. your judging others who have no idea what the tf journey is about. They only know what they know from there level of perception. So, they want a romantic relationship, so what? So, they don't get it, so what. In time they will get it.
Now are you sure you are at pure service to human kind? Are you sure you are deeply at service to our human race?.
Coz all I see is you looking down on others because "They don't get it"...
I am a DF who thinks you are spot on! I am not sure which groups you belong to, but the ones I belong to convey the same messaging. I think the people who understand that the TF connection is not about a fairy tale romance, but rather about a journey of ascendance and the mission of spreading unconditional love gravitate to the groups that are more high vibe. You know the old saying....perception is projection. Those of us who get it know that we are in separation because we weren't ready for each other and that we were too wounded to not take it personally so space was/is needed to focus on our respective shadow work. Keep not coddling us! It's good for us!
ANEN !!!! and may I add , the lack of GRATITUDE speaks volume . It’s all about level of consciousness. Most don’t want to hear it ... I have always said you can only remain pain , fear and the continuous ego not seeing the whole big picture. . Bless your heart ! You are a patient man . 💜
The smart ones "get it" man.. thank you for your words if wisdom and most importantly your time!!!
at this stage in my life, I dont even know what truly was. maybe it was what I always THOUGHT it was, feelings and all OR I was just being delusional and attached to the pain of unrequitted love. neverless, I realized, that it truly doesnt matter. all I am focused on now is my own soul evolution and therefore the evolution of the planet. with the right frame of mind I will align to the right things. this I know and so it is... :) I think a lot comes down to how you handle your own thoughts and therefore which vibration/timeline you're aligning to. the moment you realize you have power over you thoughts, is the moment you're truly free. thank you Mel, as always. xx
2 alley cats 🤣🤣 thank you for making me laugh in the most enlightened way
Your videos always appear when I need it. Though you usually say what I have already worked out on my own. It's still nice to hear someone say it. A genuine truthful conversation is all I want. I have no expectations beyond that. It would just be nice to know I have not lost my mind. What ever all this is, is clearly unique to each individual. Can't achieve balance playing tug-a-war and being angry. Can't resolve anything without actual communication.
Great respect to you sir. I agree with you. Respect and communication is absolutely key. My twin and I have mutually agreed on this from day one. More people need to hear what you have to say. 💜 Love and light to all.
Finally something rings really true. Thank you for putting yourself out there for so long. I really appreciate your perspective. I have work to do.
Thank you Mel! You’re spot on and make absolute sense
People myself included needed to hear this thank you
I love your no bull attitude. Your “15 year old puppy love” was spot on for us. My TF was my first love at 15 and because we acted 15 at the time it didn’t last. We reconnected 33 years later (5 years ago) and spent two years feeling 15 again with all the 15 year old dynamics. We did grow up together in the last three years and can honestly share our truths with each other even when they aren’t pretty. Do you think some of these dynamics are generational? It seems to me, those over 45 seem to share your views while those younger just aren’t ready yet.
When i heard you talk about making a list it reminded me of a passage by jorge bucay, i ones read and was so moved by that i kept it as a text file.
This was in reaction to the question : what do you seek in a partner ?
Someone who listens to me without judging me.
Someone who voices her opinion without imposing it to me.
Someone who trusts me without demanding anything of me.
Someone who helps me without trying to decide for me.
Someone who takes care of me without trying to shelter me.
Someone who looks at me without projecting her issues on me.
Someone who embraces me without suffocating me.
Someone who encourages me without pushing me.
Someone who supports me without controlling me.
Someone who protects me without lies.
Someone who comes close to me without invading me.
Someone who knows the most displeasing flaws about me, who accepts them and who doesn't try to change them.
So she can know that today, tommorrow, and everyday, she can count on me.
With no conditions
Hope it helps some of you as much as it did me.
P.S.
I have not found my counterpart in "real life" yet.
But am still hopefull that when the time is right we will find each other.
Your list seems impossible for one person to achieve....maybe 3 people but not 1.
@@crowgirl8754 I dont know, its the list im trying to live by, so i can be all these things for her and im only 1 person. :)
NexManus, thank you for sharing such an excellent passage excerpt.👌It is really beautiful.🙊 I loved it. I really hope you meet your twin soul in the 3D soon.😁
I rarely, if ever, comment on another individual's comment, for I'm a bit of an introvert. 😳 But I saw the other commenter say they feel such a list is impossible. I understand why people feel this way. If I may, I'd humbly like to share some input in the hopes that our combined comment thread could collectively inspire precious souls to keep believing and make their own list🙏❤️
I'm speaking to no one in particular, except all the wonderful souls who read this. 😉 It may seem like so many desired traits cannot exist in one person, but they can. Or you just can't find your other half, but really you are already whole.😘 Regarding meeting your twin in the 3D world, you would be surprised what the universe will help you achieve if you only set your intentions and believe in what you co-create with the universe. Simple, right? Have faith in yourself. Have faith in Divine Love. ☺️ You will meet them at the right time in the right way. You both planned your meeting before you ever incarnated. I made such a list, before I ever knew of twin connections or their purpose. And I met my twin, who showed me the truth of myself and how to become the best version of myself, which I am currently working on. My twin is all those things on my list and so much more I didn't dare to dream of asking for. Truth. Though we are friends at this time, I wouldn't trade that list and our connection for all the stars in the night sky. It's the most precious bond to me....I helped him write his own list. Not surprisingly, he asked to see mine and copied some from my list. 🤔 So I encourage everyone. Make a list if you would like. Believe in the Law of Attraction if you are so inclined. And even if your twin soul bond doesn't fit your 3D expectations of a romance to make all other romances jealous or you can't seem to find that person in this dimension; you might, through the process, discover that you are the one you were hoping to find after all. The Ultimate Parter...is your Higher Self. My twin taught me this, without knowing it. You are one with all Conciousness and all souls. It's all love. Pure love. If and when you come to such an understanding, you will love unconditionally and let go of expectations of what love is.🙈
Sorry this was a bit lengthy. I'm a wordy Gemini. 😅 If anyone reads this all, kudos to you, patient soul. I am truly passionate about people realizing their own power to manifest what they most want. I know my commentary was not asked for or needed, but I hope it helps someone out there someday for I dearly wish true happiness for all amazing souls🥰 Love and light to you all.💜
I am laughing so hard because you are so so correct. I love your honesty so very much.
I agree Mel! Thanks so much for this one. "Bubble Love Fuzzy" sounds like a great drink!
Retyping this Mel, lost it when I dropped my phone. If that was a sign, I'm too hard headed to pay attention, and the journey is tough for us hard heads. No doubt, I increased my pain level due to my own expecations (selfish we are in 3D) but my own hurts had to be triggered to heal, at least heal more. I had gifts prior to this connection, and plan to take to a broader audience, to assist others towards self love, acceptance, and respect so we can give and receive more haromiously with self and in relationships. I have an opportunity to do this with a connection other than my tf, who has a similar goal. I' m not missing the opportunity. My tf and I have some different basic beliefs, one no more right or better than the other probably. A compromise is more likely better, as I' m pretty lofty and he rather earthly. I got a feeling this new connection is going to help me with that. I want my tf to know he is special, cared for (ok, truce, loved, but he knows that) and I hope the best for him. How can I not, that's the only way to get the best for me. I have to say, I don't communicate with him as I use to (was a chatterbox which he liked), but he has always known pretty much every breath I take. Well, 3D wanted what 3D wanted, and the problems ensued, but resulted in some self exploration that needed to be done, for me anyway. Oh boy, I didn't miss that opportunity either.
You coined that bubble love phase! We're in our mid to late fifties but acted like teenagers! I've never disrepected my twin on social media and I don't know why others slam their twin. Yes, we had our issues and bumps in the road but it is just a matter of communicating properly. We aren't physically together and have been apart for two months or so. I dream of him sometimes and that's where the communication takes place. I believe now that my DM and DF energy has balanced because the pain and obsession about my twin has seized! I couldn't have said this a few weeks ago. I was kinda forced to surrender and go within and found the most beautiful gift of all SELFLOVE baby!! I feel like a brand new person.
The change in perspective from he/she to us/we changes everything! Mel wisdom at it's best :)
I am so glad you are making videos at this time. Perfect synchronicity for me. I am really struggling.
I'm
Busy with my self! That's it! I'm on my mission to the TRUTH
About this world
I have a request: Could you please make a video that does not mention twin flame FB groups and how bad they are? I don't belong to any and they don't really interest me all that much. I have identified one or two tarot ladies I prefer (never seen the teapot folks 🤷🏻), but I don't watch them looking for hope of reunion so much, rather to get a clearer understanding of what I'm dealing with.
I think you have a lot of sage advice to share. I have soul mission work to do, insight to gain and I'm looking for nuggets of intuition. I like your no-nonsense approach, but sifting through an hour of "FB groups are full of hive minded complainers" (duh!) to get concrete insights... Sigh, it's like more bad twin flame communication 😆
@Mawiomi 11.11 I've started going through Mel's archives. There's a lot of good content that is still relevant, even if it's "old".
Why are holidays always the hardest to get through without them? My soul is screaming today on Easter. Thank you for this video
you probably dont care but does anyone know of a trick to get back into an instagram account??
I stupidly forgot the password. I love any tricks you can offer me!
@Alejandro Wesson instablaster ;)
@Kellen Antonio I really appreciate your reply. I got to the site through google and I'm waiting for the hacking stuff atm.
Looks like it's gonna take a while so I will reply here later when my account password hopefully is recovered.
@Kellen Antonio It did the trick and I actually got access to my account again. Im so happy!
Thank you so much you saved my ass :D
@Alejandro Wesson no problem xD
Thank you! My twin flame and aI are struggling and it helps to be reminded it’s a two way street.
Ouch I’m guilty😳☹️
Thankfully I shut down my FB two years ago so I don’t have anywhere to rant😂
But still, it’s hard not to harbor resentment towards the connection sometimes. i even have a “hate” journal about it.
Thanks for the reminder🙏
I’ve stopped ranting for quite sometimes now even though I do that privately. But sometimes I lose my temper.
🙈😅😜 yes.. so am i...
Makes perfect sense to me. I don’t discuss our problem with anyone on social media. Thanks Mel!
Thank you for doing these kinds of videos the twin flame journey makes sense when you start looking at yourself and its shadows in the mirror
Great video! Thank you Mel for all you do for us! Finding that when communication is difficult the conversations in 4 etheric dimension in the heart center connecting in a meditation is best. Forget 3 D when it gets complicated with ego culture differences etc. Also learning to keep my mouth shut and look for my own peace of mind and soul first... when I find it within myself, he usually calls with the right conclusion anyway. Trust and Allow! 😍
it sounds like your in touch with your etheric twinflame what a JOY YES?
Wise advice as usual Mel! Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge!! 🙏
Love it:) love, forgivness, self awarness and comunication is the key....
been following you since october... you are the best!
This is an excellent video and lesson! Feeding the fear monster with combative twin bashing is something I cringe at now, but I've been there internally. It's a blame game that continues until you think of yourselves as a team instead of trying to one up or say who's hurting more, it shows what needs healing and simply to grow into accountability.
“I don’t give a sweet fiddler’s fart.” Lol. Love you, Mel. I don’t pretend to understand anything since I became aware of being a twin flame, but I am thrilled to be in the beautiful connection I most recently manifested. The bubble love phase has begun to burst but I think we both have what it takes to persevere, remain conscious and lovingly honest about what’s coming up, and not take it personally, as you say 😘🙏❤️
“Sweet fiddler fart”... thank you for that I laughed really hard with that one. I love how really and to the point you are🌻
That's exactly what caused the seperation. COMMUNICATION!!!!
I have chills. This was humbling in the best way. 💚
Lol watching the antics of two 15 year olds in love... not much has changed I guess. You are awesome Mel!
Thanks Mel for the re-connect holding the LOVE
THANKS FOR YOUR INPUT MEL but my experience is with my ETHERIC Twinflame is there anybody out there who is going through the same connection as WE have all got a etheric twinflame as we share the body with our REAL twinflame this had changed me so much and brought much needed joy 2 my life the story's of past life's were still married and are from the Pleiades star system if you do the work this is such a JOY and everyone should experience this every day I feel the Love that she has for me I'm so happy! do the work ppl please this is the TRUE AWAKENING and ASCENDING!
Thank you very much Mel. You are a fantastic Sensei. 🌟💞
Our bubble was 8 months of bliss and never ended. Never running or chasing. Just pain and struggle as we ascended. He was married to a narcissist, drank to self medicate, got sick, and died 2 years after we reconnected (died last week). Never has my heart been so beautiful broken open. We would let the tears of love shake and ripple through us constantly, as we struggled through our stages of reaching for union.
I don’t understand the ridiculousness of so called “twins” who sound so petty.
That’s not what twins are.
Yay!! You are up to 21,000 subscribers now Mel!! Maybe this means that people are waking up and getting out of the foo foo fantasy land about what real twin flames are!! Happy to see this!!😘🤗🤗
You're totally right!!! Why should it be made so complicated indeed??.
I agree with you. My connection with my twin took place over 25 years ago in the 3D. I had repressed and never expressed my true feelings for him. So, I couldn't relate to much of this 3D bitching within the TF community. I also learned very quickly that since we are connected and one, how I feel about him is how I feel about myself. I did have to forgive him/myself, let go of fear, detachment, and embrace love. The TF journey is all about self love & freedom. From that point it has became easier to heal. Thank you for this video, and this perspective..
It is a journey and I personally did not know wth was/is going on. We cant be expected to just know something we have never experienced before. We arent talking about a simple connection here.
My twinflame connection has been entirely through our phones,she lives in Poland and i live in Texas,i just wanna thank you for all your content
:))) Love back Mr. Mel! Thank you.
Before I even had my sacred mirror experience, I was in those groups and always was astounded by some of the posts I saw in there. They were always blaming the man. And soooo co dependent. Now I get the intensity they were feeling but still not getting the g by readiness and codependency and victimhood. Sometimes I thought my eyes were gonna roll out of my head and into my throat. I have nothing but reverence for my sacred mirror connection. Even in the trigger trap and painful separation. It is what it is. If I never kiss him again I still will be forever grateful for the growth, connection. And activations.
I do refer to my relationship as a TF because of how it started in 2007 and the subsequent Kundalini Awakening that followed that opened me up to Guidance from some other place. To your Point, and you are SPOT ON...one of the Guidance lessons I was shown is to HONOR! Mind you, I never really honored many men...ever...my past was full of tearing down or complaining about my boyfriend but I Changed! I became more quiet, contemplative, deeper in thought, outwardly I honored him no matter how angry I may have been. See, when we tear down our love, or any other person but especially our LOVE to others, how in the world do you think these people will see you or your mate? Ever? FOREVER!? When people break up they sometimes verbally destroy the other person...then get back together...then what!? EXACTLY WHY I stay out of TF/soul mate groups, it nauseated me. And no matter how much I tried to explain how important it is NOT to verbally bash your love the more I began to believe it's part of our culture. Sad really, how can we say I love you then turn and tell others we are so miserable with our TF. I remember being that person before my TF and Mel, this is why I highly doubt many of the TF/soulmate/whatever connections because the REAL DEAL, in my lessons (from elsewhere), so profoundly changes you that it becomes almost painful to Bash out loud and definitely painful inside. Just sayin... Just my experience 12 Years in ...
it sounds like your in touch with your etheric twinflame!
hahaha I am listening to all of your points and perspectives. My karmic soulmate is in denial about life love our relationship and himself is all. Now the the Universe separated us physically after we acted out the way you describe on volume 10 in a large social circle for two straight years.Now all we have is communication. Lots to learn. Thank you. You are sent by the universe.
thank you so much for your explanation 🙏🙏
I am so grateful for this gift. Learning to love myself through him has been an amazing journey. We are so illuminating when we are together it has always been crazy. We are huge age difference difference races or culture. But people walk up to us and say are you married are you guys lovers it's so beautiful especially since we have never even kissed. Boy do I want to kiss him though.
👍👍👍agree on everything in this video ..Tnx Mel ..love the way you talk , teach, get you message across I sense that you really care and want to help tflames from t bottom of your heart ..I learn a lot from you and follow whatever you teach cose I trust and resonate w you 100%
THANK YOU .THAT NEEDED TO BE SAID.
I thank you for your Truth in The Divine Twin Flame 🔥.
I believe a lot of Twin Flame Groups cause a lot of anxiety and fear.
I know and believe in the sacredness of my relationship.
Happy Easter!
Sending Christ Consciousness Love and Light ♥️
In my group, that is one of the group rules I made. "No bashing of your twin." People are pretty good though but I agree, other groups are notorious for it. I did post this video in my group lol
Hi Mel, We realize after coming down from the bubble love phase or honeymoon phase is that we each can make the other stronger by our energies connected. We are no longer one single energy. Powerful our soul energy has become when it is connected to the other soul energy. The thing is when we reject the person. Who are we really rejecting ? We are rejecting the greastest gift. We are rejecting that soul energy. So no worries should we have. No one can show me who I really am. I have been shown my own beauty and love my own soul energy is and can express. Written by Linda Robinson
The 'hive mentality' is real. I'm old enough to remember what it was like before social media and from my perspective life was much better when people talked in person and didn't shoot their mouths off with the safety of being relatively anonymous behind a keyboard. This hive mind doesn't just apply to twin flame stuff, it's a sickness across all social media. How about we adopt the mentality of not saying stuff on social media that we wouldn't say to someone's face? That would be a good start.
lady_inthe_meadow I agree . So much better without all the shit
You are so right. Thank you, Mel. I am working on myself......and keep just love there. Hard sometimes when ego takes over or jealousy - my twin is in the third-party relationship and that makes hard. We had a lot of separations - so I am learning. I did mistakes too but he is amazing and forgiving. Yet, every night despite sometimes doubts, ego etc..at the end of the day what I felt anyhow just love and really anger/disappointment did never lasted long for some reason. I need to learn to get out of that feeling and wanting the best of him. We never been intimate, or even kiss...but I never loved anyone more in my whole life. Amazingly anger or disappointment last few hours then I see a lot of my own shortcomings....I still have a lot to learn I know. We both learning ...which is good. The question I have...Why we are given that intense drive of sexual attraction if we cannot do anything about it. I never felt like this in my entire life.....If that is what suppose to be ...I have to learn probably to live with it......but so hard as all one wants to be with my other half.
You may be speaking about a lot of twin flames but you’re definitely not speaking about me: I have definitely followed your best advice and my hearts wisdom and I’m not experiencing any of the things that you’ve mentioned... I did “blame” him a little bit in the beginning, but I have a lot of compassion and understanding, so I let my own inner wisdom cure me of that... knowing I was also to blame. Because I love him I have no need to complain about him - how and why would I ever do that?
Just wanted you to know that there are twin flames out there who are not bitching and moaning and complaining about their twin, xox
Amazing reading resonated to my situation every thing on point ,thanks ,
Thank you so much for this video!
Mel, some people are too lazy to do the work necessary to sustain this type of relationship
The odd thing is I never talked bad on social media. I kept it to myself. He ran all the time from me. I walked away the last time because I refuse to be a dirty little secret. He's married and so am I. I'm getting a divorce after being physically abused. I decided to do my shadow work. I know I acted like an ass at times. I'm praying he's doing well and if we ever meet again cool if not I pray he has a blessed life. I love him and I always will. We are best friends above all else 🦋😊
Sending you love and positivity
@@MS-lw3rz Thank you 🙏 Sending love and positive vibes back to you 🌹
Try this one on for size: There is no separate entity outside of myself. The twin flame is merely a 3D reflection of my connection with my higher self, and ALL problems I perceive as being “out there” are only a mirror of my own “imperfections”. If I want the “outside” to change, the shift must occur within.
There. All problems solved.
💖😉
Hence forth...its all how you look at it and react to it
there is a separate entity with in you your etheric twinflame your,s
.....yours being your divine masculine!
The insecure attachment between twins in other relationships makes it an audacious statement to say ‘we’. A 5d Union with no 3D experience is just scary to the ego.
Thank you. I needed this video i feel like im just realizing this now. And need to talk to him
Yes Mel, thank you so much... "don't take it personally" 😩😅 not easy, but true... and then, taking the energy and let them not go out in re-action... these energy is able to burn all the blockages that we had made between us and the power of the unconditional love... not easy but it is possible... piece by piece... we are not alone 💕🙏💕 thank you... love is the way home
i am sure that we won't be able to get rid of these "twins"... until we are willing to fully embrace him/her 🙄🤔😍 (and ourselves)
how long will that go? I don't know... so long it goes... 😉😘
You’re brilliant
Slam dunk! We have never accepted the Separation paradigm. ..except for being separated by distance and time zones. But we have a communication issue of not enough communication. In the beginning we chatted every day, sometimes several times a day. Then it became very sporadic. Now it's to the point that we say good morning or goodnight, depending on when we connect, and not much in between.
As for when the "bubble love" hit reality. .. it happened when he told me he was married. Even so, we mutually decided to stay in contact, and created our own paradigm of a long term LDR. Nine years into it, I feel like both of us are resigned to not getting together in this lifetime. It sometimes feels like we got together too late in life.
My twin likes to talk in silence but watches my every step and follows my every move 😑
Watching your every step, yep sounds like a twin flame 😂
I threw out everything I wanted in someone years ago. I thought about it and nothing really came to mind. I thought what have I got to offer, n all I came up with was me. Just me. I just thought someone pretty lucky to get me in pure form. I then attracted someone where I feel lucky to have him in pure form.
This is scary accurate.
Thanks so much Mel. U kno what ur talking about
Haha loved it lovely dr
Thnkyou your video was very much what I needed I always refur to then when iam not understanding what is happening between me and my twin soul .
Thanks 😇💌 ✍️
Mel😎
BAM 💥 then it’s 2 15 yr olds! I laughed so hard because this is so true! OMG! I’m 40, lost my husband 2 months prior to meeting my TF , never was I going to be with anyone ever, then it was I was acting a fool over a dude I knew for 2 months. More heart broken than ever crying non stop and stalking on face book cuz he blocked me well I blocked him 1st. It’s crazy! What am I doing?!
I never talked horribly about him ever cuz I love him more than anyone ever and I know he had a very rough life. He deserves happiness and I want to give it to him. I don’t know why he would ever block me. He would never be nasty to me ever. I am just in shock. I know he loves me. Superficial communication over the last month and a half. But he blocked me when I told him I couldn’t be his friend. But then I told him I was just upset because he called me while he was drunk and fighting with the girlfriend that he left and went back to. I just don’t understand why he would? I know he needs a place to stay but he could have gotten a place on his own.
I miss him 💔
I can still recall that euphoria
Are we like magnetic poles that opposites attract, so we need to reverse the polarity (runner/ chaser) or are we like mirrors where if u walk toward the mirror, your reflection comes to you?
While you made your point loud and clear, it was too bad you put the most important information at the end. The balancing of masculine and feminine energies which we all need to do is an extremely important aspect of this journey. Twins, in my opinion, are only reflecting the greater society at large (at least in the West). I live in a large urban area and the amount of angry people around here "bitching and moaning" as you would put it about the smallest slights is something that up to this point, I have never seen. So no surprise that twins reflect the attitudes and behaviors towards each other that are out there in regular society that we show one another. Learning to be peaceful and at peace no matter your circumstances is the biggest challenge any of us face along with learning to look inward for love or to deal with flaws - not outward to blame or have expectations. Thank you for your attempts to show twins the mirror and have people consider their actions.
Question: Can people bypass the bubble love and "let down" phase and come into union harmonically balanced if they have done their work? Would love to know if you think this is possible or are we all expected to go through the bubble love and let down phases as part of our growth? Thanks for answering that.
Thank You 🙏 Mel
The only problem I have is when I find out my partner was not portraying himself to be who he really was. For instance we used to go dancing a lot and a year later I ask why don’t we go dancing anymore ? He says He only did that to get me to date him. Not cool. Especially if there is more than one topic he misrepresented self on.
Christine Evans I think men and women present an idea of themselves instead of being their authentic self. Just makes you question the actual person in front of you
Black princess Maybe sometimes but when they tell you straight forward without any remorse that it was done “just to get the girl” meaning me - then you start to question integrity. I do understand what you are getting at though. I have a guy friend that speaks in “I want to”- when he says I will.
Great advice.
💕👍Thank you!!
That's why I write my huny letters. He loves my letters. Old correspondence
Thank you! 😇
Mel. Thanks for your advise. But what do you do when your tf doesn’t want to communicate and is running when you have requested them to talk to you several times !!!
The truth♾❤♾whe having a problem! I will look at it in that way from now on thanks🙏🏽he hide's after his cellphone its so safe🙄
Thanks Mel
Haha as Gaga said: social media is toilet in internet 😂
I haven’t done that. Never felt right to talk about him. It’s sacred.
What was rule #2??? I was enjoying this and taking down notes.... you specified 2 rules, and only made a point to: don't take it personally!
Jazz B second point is to not complain in the groups targeting your tf. Instead address it as us.
I agree completely. . .it has to be mutual, meaning a partnership. And that's how we feel. We also appreciate and respect each other, and have an understanding that we can talk about anything, even if we don't always agree, but still love each other. We learned early on, the importance of apologies as soon as we realized what we did or said that triggered us. I also realized that expectations lead to disappointment if I try to control him or the situation in any way.
Thanks Mel. I'm one of those admins that will post this video to my groups... As well as other groups I'm in.
Hi I have just watched this and could really do with your help, do you have an email address I could write to you about my connection. Thankyou Rachel.
hi there i so want to learn how to communicate with him telepathically we are in separation.
#1 I am so glad God early on told me not to take him personally. So I don't. Or I try not to.
Who was that quote by?
Lee and sherry are also great on twin flames!
I advice d etuine to familiar them selfs with mark passio's natural law material and unholy feminine and distorted masculine
When people start to learn what things are not they can learn what it is. Natural law and man made law have to be learned
Twin flames are not the be all end all
There is far greater crucial work to be done to stop our planets apocalypse
This is crucial
👍Yes this and 333 likes. It's constant complaining in these groups. It feels lower than 3D lol. And yes to answer your question it makes perfect sense. There is little to no self responsibility in these twin flame discussion groups.
We assume the connection is guaranteed.. Nope!! the awakening was.. is! we are in a twin flame union(assuming) not why can i be with my twin flame!! Ty my dear 🌹☕
i think my tf is a narcissist. not sure what it says about me. lol
Hence the back biting
2 alley cats fighting in the back yard? U are so true but it's funny.