Life After The Stroke - Anger and Perspective

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 พ.ค. 2013
  • A video for the good people at the Young Stroke Survivors Facebook page

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  • @4kitties
    @4kitties 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It is great to see/hear someone talk in real world terms about stroke recovery.
    Thanks for doing so

  • @TMG1297
    @TMG1297 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love your attitude, I am 2 years out from heammhorragic stroke(ruptured aneurysm) and I still cant accept it

  • @tatianagallo6930
    @tatianagallo6930 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I like your videos, but I do have to said that it would be good to have compassion for old people. Yes, they have lived their lives, but we don't know what they are going through. I think it's even harder for them, they are more fragile, their bones hurt, they have to move slower, and if they fall or something it's way worse than for us (young) so I can't even imagine how it is for them to deal with a stroke. I guess what I'm trying to say is that, you should not be angry with old people if they complain about their health. Only when we get that old we will understand. And I'm not writing this to have an argue with you or anyone. We are survivors and each of us (young, old, whatever) are doing our best to recover. Thanks for your videos by the way :)

  • @nicibdanza
    @nicibdanza 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I had a stroke 3 weeks ago. I'm 33 years old. I'm also a nurse. My mood has been liable for sure. I struggle with sadness. Daily.

    • @4kitties
      @4kitties 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +nicibdanza
      My advice, Don't hold onto sadness let it do its job and pass through for the time being. Your emotions have been turned up. You don't have control of that for now.
      Just like before my stroke I cry more out of joy than sadness.
      I am a year out since my stroke, or what I like to call"my paradigm shift."

    • @nicibdanza
      @nicibdanza 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +4kitties thank you.

    • @4kitties
      @4kitties 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +nicibdanza
      Even on your worse day always remember "You have this!"

  • @mbaxter22
    @mbaxter22 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Brian you're a great man and your vids have literally saved my life.

  • @johnallwood
    @johnallwood 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you are so right , am so glad i found your uploads

  • @bizzyb53
    @bizzyb53 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent video.You are still an inspiration to many of us.Thanks once again.

  • @megacrazydude69
    @megacrazydude69 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brian, well what can I say, you inspire me, your so spiritual and you just seem to take things in your stride and when something bad happens you get back up and now look at you, you are gigging on your own
    thank you brain, you are an inspiration

  • @Rctrilogy
    @Rctrilogy 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God Bless You!! Looking for the good in a bad situation is what keeps us all motivated and ready for our next challenge.

  • @DJsOnCall
    @DJsOnCall 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Brian. I have the world of respect for you. I have watched many of your videos & learned a ton from them. I was hugely impressed with the one on how you changed your equipment to still be able to set up alone after your stroke. I totally get your motivation for hanging in there, in fact, I had exactly the same motivation a few years back when I was in hospital fighting for my life (not from a stroke). It's not about us, it's about our families... ;-) Your videos are great, keep it up please.

  • @dadsvideos7872
    @dadsvideos7872 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your perspective and positivity!

  • @Zayuh321
    @Zayuh321 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think you are very brave and honest man.

  • @debbiestevens1501
    @debbiestevens1501 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm 37 year stroke survivor...I had mine during a simple tonsilactomy at ave 12, anyway I was happy to find your videos.. like you when I had mine I reAlly just wanted to be able to take care of myself Nd not be a burden on my parents...now S

  • @djtrinstar2k9
    @djtrinstar2k9 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    WOW frist i want to say im glad your doing better after your stroke.stay strong and positive. and things always have a way of working them selves out in life. From all the gear i see in some of the videos i sen of your in the past 2-3 days it looks like your a great dj and u know what your doing.

  • @conggiaothuvi23
    @conggiaothuvi23 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My uncle just got a stroke few hours ago. I wanted to learn what life will be for him. Your videos are greatly helpful. Thanks so much. Love you attitude. God bless you.

  • @patmertz1561
    @patmertz1561 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your perspective and the mental things that we go thru- I don't think people really understand unless you've had stroke. I had the same thing happen with filling out forms (at rehab nevertheless!)- I have the anger issues too, not at having a stroke but at doctors and rehab people. You have the right attitude- just pick it up from here and move on--positive yet realistic. I guess what I am ytring to say is that is wonderful hearing someone else has been there! Love and Light

  • @djgronk
    @djgronk 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Brian. I'm so very happy to see you are doing well!

  • @YOURBIGDAYDJ
    @YOURBIGDAYDJ 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey brian you don't know me i may have on an occasion left a comment or 2 .I watch most of your videos i find they are a great tool for me. I do not suffer from any stroke related conditions but i once again found something useful in this video. So i just want to say thanks and to let you know that you do make a difference in peoples lives. keep up the great work

  • @chachistef
    @chachistef 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video BSR!! Great way to stay positive! Thats awesome! :) keep up the great videos!

  • @stephaniedavis6268
    @stephaniedavis6268 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    God Bless You!!!

  • @bluetech7753
    @bluetech7753 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I may disagree with some things but most of the time I don't disagree. especially when it comes to DJ experience you know your stuff and I am glad that you share it with us. Most of the time you can be very inspiring that what I like about you.

  • @DJAdvise
    @DJAdvise 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your my inspiration my friend! :)

  • @eddie4624
    @eddie4624 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video. I agree 100%.

  • @jessig2131
    @jessig2131 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Telling the truth. I was 11 when I had my stroke, and now I am a 31 well rounded woman. It effected me just like you, it is my whole right side. I have 2 little girls and a hubby. I still do everything, maybe not the same but it gets done. Thank you for telling your story

    • @gabrielantunezjr5994
      @gabrielantunezjr5994 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Joan - you are also an inspiration for those who have gone through a stroke. How are you doing now? What have you done to keep up your health?

  • @fahimhaq11
    @fahimhaq11 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are awesome, man! I survived a stroke, too.

  • @gatecitydj
    @gatecitydj 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brian you kick ass, there is no way I could still be DJ'ing if I went through what happened to you. Keep rocking!!! DJ Seth

  • @TheJennyg76
    @TheJennyg76 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband was 37 when he had his stoke .. Less than 24 hrs after being hit by lighting that jumped from the tree he was parked under... Thanks for yr videos its nice to know others his age going threw this.. I've watched yr videos for info to help me Dj .. Never realized uv had a stoke .. Meant to be guess

  • @djkb2239
    @djkb2239 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Brian
    Thanks for all the videos you are a true inspiration. I have been djing for over 15 years and I am always ready to learn more and let my performance grow. I had a suggestion which I think only you will be the person to discuss this topic. I wanted to see if you could do a video on music playlist. What I mean is I watch your gig vids and sometimes I'll hear you play a song and I think to myself I completely forgot about that song. Well i feel thst through the years I have fprgotten

  • @briansredd
    @briansredd  11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for that, & I do love visiting the Netherlands, short steps & all :P We are not always going to agree, and that's cool! It's all about perspective. Actually I say a lot of things that I rethink & change my mind on. I will continue to reserve that right because that's the only way we are all going to grow :)

  • @assistantto007
    @assistantto007 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice geezer. Stay strong mate.

  • @USMC_BABE38
    @USMC_BABE38 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing your story sadly I lost an good friend to an brain hemorrhage in March

  • @TwanV
    @TwanV 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    On behalf of the Dutch I offer my sincerest apologies for our crappy stairs.
    On a more serious note: You might know that dj-wise I don't share all your opinions (like I mentioned in your previous vlog ;) but I think I speak for a lot of colleague-djs when I say that the way you are dealing with your situation is definately inspiring. Besides that, I love the fact that you always seem to speak from the heart: you mean what you say, almost always with the intention to help and tutor others.

  • @daphnerodriguez9980
    @daphnerodriguez9980 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    POWERFUL ' BRAVO INCREDIBLE THANKS YOU! ●BROWN FAMILY. 💜BRIAN. INCREDIBLE.

  • @drphilphy
    @drphilphy 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brian can you post a video about your daily/weekly physical therapy work? What do you do and what is your routine?

  • @djgronk
    @djgronk 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I normally don't make any negative comments to your posts but I found the remarks you made about the older gents callous & uncaring. You admitted you were angry with the staff & you hated physiotherapy. Where does anger come from? FEAR(& other emotions) Look at the generation these men came from, take the emotions u had (inc probs with speech & movement). Imagine how much harder it is to recover with 40 years added to your age? Much respect as always & keep the fight going man. PEACE!

  • @zakiaihinna7786
    @zakiaihinna7786 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    can we have a video about post stroke dating love life .. a big fan of your video. well done

  • @kimnicholl2233
    @kimnicholl2233 ปีที่แล้ว

    physical therapy never helped me. I was 55 when I had two strokes in a month. I am not angry about the strokes!

  • @djbigron
    @djbigron 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video Brian! I hope we can hang out again this summer. knowing damn well neither of us sleep. LOL

  • @briansredd
    @briansredd  11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was actually referring to my thoughts while in therapy. What these videos are about is perspective, my perspective that I'm sharing with people who have had similar experiences. These videos are candid, very candid & I'm sure you will disagree with a lot of things I say.

  • @djkb2239
    @djkb2239 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Songs. You seem to have such a good time jammin tunes as you say. Well I wanted to see if you have any tips on how to utilize older songs I may have forgotten. Heres a quick example I heard you play party up and it blew my mind bc Im like how the Eff did I block that song out. I hope you understand this and my point and look forward to hearing something back

  • @vipinamar8323
    @vipinamar8323 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video. Would love to be part of this fb grp. What's it called

  • @briansredd
    @briansredd  11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Again, this is all about perspective. The way therapy seemed to work was if you made an improvement, they took the credit. If you didn't improve, you weren't working hard enough. Most of it was bullshit. It's really one of those things where you would have to be in that position to understand where people like myself are coming from.

  • @itsBayFreshALLday
    @itsBayFreshALLday 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yo, BSR !!!!!!! Peace !!!

  • @danielng9980
    @danielng9980 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    o hi i m from singapore and i m39 this wht other thing i can do to faster recover?

  • @hesellsresale211
    @hesellsresale211 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Me too!

  • @daphnerodriguez9980
    @daphnerodriguez9980 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Daphne Cotton Video. ●BROWN FAMILY. 💜

  • @mrfaithfull1
    @mrfaithfull1 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    glad ur doing bette homie can u hmu tell me what ere ur symtoms wen it happend

  • @samuelzev4076
    @samuelzev4076 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had a stroke 4 years ago and im still recovering, is it normal to be impulsive and lose control at times under emotional stress?

  • @mommabird2813
    @mommabird2813 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    15yrs since my stroke due to a ruptured AVM at age 22 while I was pregnant.

  • @OldSkoolBiker62
    @OldSkoolBiker62 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have not had a stroke myself, but did have a life changing accident 6 years ago which left me with disabilities. I am about to start a new job at my local hospital motivating people young and old who have had a stroke.. I would be very grateful if you could give me any information and advice.. For example what worked for you.. What are the things you hated and what were the things you liked. What helped you get through...All the very best. And keep up the great work you are doing.. Gerry

  • @MrMasharfahmi
    @MrMasharfahmi 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    me too,..

  • @southerngirl1408
    @southerngirl1408 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just remember one day You will be old, see how you feel if somebody talks about you the way You are talking about older people right now. You need to work on compassion for others, no matter their age. We have feelings too!! I was going to subscribe, but now I’m not

  • @ic93305
    @ic93305 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really hate your perspective about older people. If they are still breathing, their life is not over. They are not done, even if they wanted to be done, they can't be: they are stuck ..."TRAPPED"...in a body that is no longer as able as used to be - even if they still have the energy and desire to be independant. You don't know their pain and their struggles; you only know yours. Given all that you've had to overcome...I'm surprised at your assumptions and dismissal of older folks who have had a stroke and/or any other medical challenges. I take care of someone in her 70s who had a stroke in 2020 - she's come a long way but not as far as she would like. She wants to walk again, she wants to drive and cook, etc. She gives her all and tries her best, but she still can't and maybe she never will - we don't know, but her life is NOT OVER! She's not done living it - even if she does have some miserable days, she also has good ones.