23:46 what you're talking about is the "good girl" effect - thinking you'll be rewarded for what is considered "good behavior" or things are supposed to be great for you because you're a "good girl/boy or person" and when that doesn't happen you spiral. There's so much you can say about this topic, about the way we protect our standing as objects of desire and using "Good behavior" as one of those. It's not a reflection on the lady Sibu has chosen, but our own projections. They challenged the status quo and we are uncomfortable with that - they are shaking the system. I hate to be this person, but thought I should throw this out there.
I can attest to "good girl" or "good behavior". Didn't work out for me. So just do you and whatever happens will happen. Happy for the Mpanza family. They deserve it ❤
Yazi you're doing sooo great as a single mom. Groceries, uniforms, flying for first days, a comfortable home for your kids, not letting a man around your kids, yazini God is showing up for you and SHOWING OFF!!! MAY GOD CONTINUE BLESSING YOU. YOU'RE DOING A GREAT JOB!!!
Lols. My man who doesn’t have a kid took me home to meet his family last year. And soon I’ll be becoming a Mrs. He loves me with my son ke sahna & it is very possible for a childless man to marry a lady who has a child. Listen, I’m gonna be his first baby mama & his first wife. God is so good hleng Ses Mandy. 🙌🏼🥰
Thank you for this Manda this popped up while I was crying because I'm just sad that I don't work ,I'm sad because I miss my late mom..but your vlogs light my days up ❤😊😊
I loved this whole blog!!! Loved all the chats! Coz we always have to get those pearls of wisdom and opinion from Mandy Jakes! Oh your sister's surprise birthday surprise and how it was shot! Top tier!!! To see all those people and Noma soooo joyous brought filled my little heart up! Oh maan!!!
Happy birthday to your sister .she is such a beautiful and humbled soul.loved how ur friends where so happy with ur car.🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤what a beautiful surprise party
This Vlog was everything 😢❤❤❤ Thank you Mandy I don’t just watch your vlogs for entertainment but also for learning, I really do learn a lot from your vlogs ..
Wholesome. We love you Noma 🎉❤ welcome to the 3rd floor. Blowing kisses to Thato as well ❤ I am such a fan. We miss you "Qhunyiswa" 😂😂😂 love you Chumi 😀😀😀😀 well done Mandz
i kept hearing about Vibrations of Manifestation by alex lane from my friends, and honestly, i thought it was just another trendy self-help book. but when they started landing jobs they thought were impossible and reconnecting with things they’re passionate about, i had to pay attention. it’s not just “be positive” stuff; it’s more about aligning with what you actually want in life. if you’re stuck or feeling off, maybe it’s the nudge you need-it’s worked for people around me.
I wish Amanda knows the amount of healing she brings to us as single moms. She helped me heal during my breakups and we would cry together when she was hurting as i was going through the same. To see her with a new baby and her living a contented life speaks volumes to me. If it wasnt for her, i wouldn't have taken an opportunity abroad. My she be blessed with her heart desires. We love you mamaa.❤
Watching The People You Love Whole Heartedly Being Loved And Appreciated By Other People Is Amazing To Witness🥹❤️ Noma Deserves All The Love, She Is Such A Sweet Soul - Happy 30th Birthday Rich Aunty!! 🥂🍾🥳
Watching this Vlog I can't help but think that Wawa and Milani will remember these moments and think if Mama, Mandy and Noma could do it so can I. You have an amazing tribe of people who celebrate you and I am certain you show up for them just as much. Happy belated birthday Noma
At this point I am heartbroken , broke and worried about my future . Nothing excites but your vlogs really cheer me up as a single mom of 2. Thank you for bringing back my smile❤❤
Yazi Mandy you just said let me surprise those mums who are up and thinking and let me make them at least to forget about certain things. Thank you for your consistency sis really appreciate it. Happy belated birthday to Noma and KK🎉🎉🎉🎉 Iyoo you see X yona it's something else when it comes to us single mums and it's like we are not suppose to find happiness in this world forgetting that at least we chose to stay with our kids and raise them instead of running away from our responsibilities. This was a wholesome vlog❤❤❤❤
i used to think books about manifestation were just fluff until my friend wouldn’t stop talking about Vibrations of Manifestation by alex lane. i thought it was gonna be one of those “just think positive” things, but it’s deeper than that-it’s about the energy you’re putting out and how it shapes what comes back. my friends who read it are legit more focused and are actually pulling in opportunities and relationships they’ve wanted for years. not saying it’s magic, but it’s clicked for a lot of people i know-might click for you too.
Happy birthday Noma! 🎉🎉What a beautiful thing it is to watch Noma receiving so much love from those close to her. As a fellow Capricorn born in January, we experience a lot of birthday dismissal and it really warms my heart to see her people go all out for her like this. Congratulations once again on the car Mandy! I smile every time I see it. 😁😁 May you please share the Vuyo TH-camr that you were watching, I would love to watch her as well. I am trying to watch more content creators this year. Great vlog! ❤❤
Love love your content 😍😍. Thank you so much for sharing you with us 🫂. I'm forever cruising and watching adds with so much intention. Happy belated birthday to Noma may the good Lord richly bless her 3rd floor and beyond. She's such a sweetheart ❤🎉🎉🎉
Amazing video! Really enjoyed everything about it :) If possible in the future, could you do a video revving up your car? So we can hear how it sounds! 🎉
Ohhh yabona lena ivlog ndiythandaaaa more sana😂 my birthday is also in Jan the 13th and sana I have been fighting all my life ngona aysoze itshintshe and it's known. Fortunately my people get me, they understand how important it is...
Thank you for one hour vlog much appreciated,Mama Grace thank you for reminding us how life should be lived,I'm in my 40s but little sister I salute you xem ur pearls of wisdom r saving our life's Happy birthday to Gorgeous Nom Nom
Happy birthday Noma 🎉🎉🎉❤yhoo wat a beautiful vlog Mandy ❤ohh Noma forever calm,sweet God didn't give you a sister he gives you anAngel didn't i cry wen you cry make a speech Love you babes.Ooh Cunyiswa priceless moment as if i ca watch all the time wat a friend you have jwalemzimbeni cru love them to bits got beautiful circle of friends bless♥️U😘😘😘
I am a silent subscriber who never comments but todays vlog Arg man what a wholesome vlog,also tell me why I was crying when your friends saw your new car 🥹🥹 also when you were saying your speech on Noma’s birthday heartwarming 🥹❤️
Ohhh Mandy, I'm not even finished watching, I have experience of societal norms and bullying attached when you do you and are "happy and living your best life" You are 100% right when you say "lento oyfunayo ikhona, don't let no one tell you otherwise" sana mna I heard you that first time ndibonile and had I stopped I would've been miserable. The Amanda Jake you are will always be my favourate😂
23:46 what you're talking about is the "good girl" effect - thinking you'll be rewarded for what is considered "good behavior" or things are supposed to be great for you because you're a "good girl/boy or person" and when that doesn't happen you spiral. There's so much you can say about this topic, about the way we protect our standing as objects of desire and using "Good behavior" as one of those. It's not a reflection on the lady Sibu has chosen, but our own projections. They challenged the status quo and we are uncomfortable with that - they are shaking the system.
I hate to be this person, but thought I should throw this out there.
I’m so glad you’re being this person lol. Coz you’re 100% right
I can attest to "good girl" or "good behavior". Didn't work out for me. So just do you and whatever happens will happen. Happy for the Mpanza family. They deserve it ❤
Yazi you're doing sooo great as a single mom. Groceries, uniforms, flying for first days, a comfortable home for your kids, not letting a man around your kids, yazini God is showing up for you and SHOWING OFF!!! MAY GOD CONTINUE BLESSING YOU. YOU'RE DOING A GREAT JOB!!!
This compliment 🥹🥹. Omg. It went straight to my heart. Thank you sis ❤❤
Lols. My man who doesn’t have a kid took me home to meet his family last year. And soon I’ll be becoming a Mrs. He loves me with my son ke sahna & it is very possible for a childless man to marry a lady who has a child. Listen, I’m gonna be his first baby mama & his first wife. God is so good hleng Ses Mandy. 🙌🏼🥰
@@confyveelaa6033 listen 🥰🥰🥰. We need more stories like these. Congratulations mommy ❤️❤️
listen🔥
Thank you for this Manda this popped up while I was crying because I'm just sad that I don't work ,I'm sad because I miss my late mom..but your vlogs light my days up ❤😊😊
I’m so sorry mama. Sending you a big hug! 🫂
@@seratikgatle9630 A virtual hug for you serati 🫂 God has a plan for your life. Put your hope in the Lord. Travel steadily along His path. Ps. 37:34
@TheMillennialMom1 ❤️🥰
May the good Lord fill your empty jar of employment with interviews and the best job. May the opened wounds heal in time.
The surprise party for noma from her friends everything and more that was so beautiful ey.. Beautiful vlog as always mommy❤❤❤❤❤❤
I loved this whole blog!!! Loved all the chats! Coz we always have to get those pearls of wisdom and opinion from Mandy Jakes!
Oh your sister's surprise birthday surprise and how it was shot! Top tier!!! To see all those people and Noma soooo joyous brought filled my little heart up! Oh maan!!!
@@khanyisagura4377 thank you babe 🥹🥹🥹
Happy birthday to your sister .she is such a beautiful and humbled soul.loved how ur friends where so happy with ur car.🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤what a beautiful surprise party
Happy Birthday to Noma, what a great surprise ❤
Your heart in friendships?10 out of 10 minus nothing.. Happy birthday to Noma🤍Still can't get over your car😍
You are so sweet! 🤍🤍🤍
wow Mandy what you did to your lil sis it's so beautiful, am really leaning a lots of things from you. happy belated birthday to noma 🎂
Thank you babe, I was so happy with how it turned out 🥹
Mandy I felt that happiness and I tap into the anointing. Congrats girl enjoy the car. ❤
This Vlog was everything 😢❤❤❤ Thank you Mandy I don’t just watch your vlogs for entertainment but also for learning, I really do learn a lot from your vlogs ..
That makes me so happy to hear! 🥺🥺🥺
Girl, i learn so much every time i watch your videos. Keep it up! and thank you very much for the life lessons
Thank you so much! 😊
Amanda we love the yapping, we are here for it lol🤣
Love this 😅😅😅
Belated birthday to your sister❤❤❤, ❤❤❤
Happy belated birthday to Noma and KK 🎉🎉🥂🥂
Your friends reactions to your new baby beautiful to watch 😍❤
Thank you so much! I loved their reactions too 🥰🥰🥰
Wholesome. We love you Noma 🎉❤ welcome to the 3rd floor.
Blowing kisses to Thato as well ❤ I am such a fan. We miss you "Qhunyiswa" 😂😂😂 love you Chumi 😀😀😀😀 well done Mandz
Please don't forget NOT to skip ads guys! Mandy keeps me sane, the least we can do for her is not to skip those ads; ngiyan'cela 🙏🏼❤
Thank you baby 😅😅
i kept hearing about Vibrations of Manifestation by alex lane from my friends, and honestly, i thought it was just another trendy self-help book. but when they started landing jobs they thought were impossible and reconnecting with things they’re passionate about, i had to pay attention. it’s not just “be positive” stuff; it’s more about aligning with what you actually want in life. if you’re stuck or feeling off, maybe it’s the nudge you need-it’s worked for people around me.
Kindly share the book
Oh man 🥺🥹Noma’s birthday. What a sweet vlog!
I'm so glad you enjoyed it! 🥰
Thank you Mandy u couldn't have said it better.love u so much.u alwys know how to speak the right things❤❤❤
Yaze yakifanela imoto....ngavele ngahlanyaaaaaaaaa🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 looks too good on you congrats oe
Ngiyabonga!! 🥰🥰
Mmhhhh 1 hour vlog welele🎉💃. Once again congrats on the new baby Mandylicious, girls with big wheels🔥🔥
Oh thank you baby! 🙏🏾
I wish Amanda knows the amount of healing she brings to us as single moms. She helped me heal during my breakups and we would cry together when she was hurting as i was going through the same.
To see her with a new baby and her living a contented life speaks volumes to me. If it wasnt for her, i wouldn't have taken an opportunity abroad. My she be blessed with her heart desires. We love you mamaa.❤
Watching The People You Love Whole Heartedly Being Loved And Appreciated By Other People Is Amazing To Witness🥹❤️ Noma Deserves All The Love, She Is Such A Sweet Soul - Happy 30th Birthday Rich Aunty!! 🥂🍾🥳
Watching this Vlog I can't help but think that Wawa and Milani will remember these moments and think if Mama, Mandy and Noma could do it so can I. You have an amazing tribe of people who celebrate you and I am certain you show up for them just as much. Happy belated birthday Noma
At this point I am heartbroken , broke and worried about my future . Nothing excites but your vlogs really cheer me up as a single mom of 2. Thank you for bringing back my smile❤❤
Sending you lots of love, mama. 🫂🫂🫂
that car LOOKS GOOD on u mommy...Yooooo kuhle mann❤❤❤
Thank you babe. 😅😅
Watching your vlogs to see you drive your new baby because you've been yapping about wanting an SUV that is manual so happy for you❤🎉🥹🫶
@@Lifewith_Lwa thank you baby ❤️
Yazi Mandy you just said let me surprise those mums who are up and thinking and let me make them at least to forget about certain things. Thank you for your consistency sis really appreciate it.
Happy belated birthday to Noma and KK🎉🎉🎉🎉
Iyoo you see X yona it's something else when it comes to us single mums and it's like we are not suppose to find happiness in this world forgetting that at least we chose to stay with our kids and raise them instead of running away from our responsibilities.
This was a wholesome vlog❤❤❤❤
I’m so glad you loved the vlog. It’s always nice to be reminded of why I do what I do. 🥰
Not you making me cry on a Monday morning with that speech. Happy birthday Noma 🎉🎉
This was such a wholesome vlog❤❤❤ happy birthday to Noma ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
those veggies are so cheap hle🤩🤩love that cucumber😋😋😋 and its true what you want really exist
Happy birthday to beautiful Noma❤️
Also seeing your friends celebrate you is everything 🍾
I’m happy for Yolanda. When a man knows what he wants he’ll go for it. I love how the little boy calls Sibu tata 🥹 and a family looks good on Sibu too
i used to think books about manifestation were just fluff until my friend wouldn’t stop talking about Vibrations of Manifestation by alex lane. i thought it was gonna be one of those “just think positive” things, but it’s deeper than that-it’s about the energy you’re putting out and how it shapes what comes back. my friends who read it are legit more focused and are actually pulling in opportunities and relationships they’ve wanted for years. not saying it’s magic, but it’s clicked for a lot of people i know-might click for you too.
The way I ran! I was about to sleep. I love Mandy hle😊😊😊
Same here lol😅
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Me too sis I love her too bits🥹😍🤍
Happy birthday Noma! 🎉🎉What a beautiful thing it is to watch Noma receiving so much love from those close to her. As a fellow Capricorn born in January, we experience a lot of birthday dismissal and it really warms my heart to see her people go all out for her like this. Congratulations once again on the car Mandy! I smile every time I see it. 😁😁
May you please share the Vuyo TH-camr that you were watching, I would love to watch her as well. I am trying to watch more content creators this year. Great vlog! ❤❤
Thank you so much! 🥺🥺🥺 I'm so glad you enjoyed the vlog! And thank you for the birthday wishes for my Noma! 🥰
It’s Vuyo Mrwata mama ❤
Love love your content 😍😍. Thank you so much for sharing you with us 🫂. I'm forever cruising and watching adds with so much intention. Happy belated birthday to Noma may the good Lord richly bless her 3rd floor and beyond. She's such a sweetheart ❤🎉🎉🎉
You're so sweet thank you! 🥺
WHAT I WANT EXISTS!!
Thank you Amanda Jakes enjoyed this vlog soo much!!
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You are so welcome! 😅😅
Amazing video! Really enjoyed everything about it :) If possible in the future, could you do a video revving up your car? So we can hear how it sounds! 🎉
Happy birthday Noma. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉Loves you so much. Enjoy being young and loving as you are. Mandy your speech made me cry.😢😢😢.
Ohhh yabona lena ivlog ndiythandaaaa more sana😂 my birthday is also in Jan the 13th and sana I have been fighting all my life ngona aysoze itshintshe and it's known. Fortunately my people get me, they understand how important it is...
Thank you for one hour vlog much appreciated,Mama Grace thank you for reminding us how life should be lived,I'm in my 40s but little sister I salute you xem ur pearls of wisdom r saving our life's
Happy birthday to Gorgeous Nom Nom
Thank you so much! You’re too kind 🥰
🎉🎉🎉Ncane Noma deserves all the good things ...blessings upon blessings ❤
You are so right! 🥺
Happy birthday Noma 🎉🎉🎉❤yhoo wat a beautiful vlog Mandy ❤ohh Noma forever calm,sweet God didn't give you a sister he gives you anAngel didn't i cry wen you cry make a speech Love you babes.Ooh Cunyiswa priceless moment as if i ca watch all the time wat a friend you have jwalemzimbeni cru love them to bits got beautiful circle of friends bless♥️U😘😘😘
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🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉Happy birthday Noma ...
Im so happy 🎉❤🎉 what a beautiful vlog, and the relationship you have with your sister (Blessed 🙏🏾)
I'm tapping on the blessing (Car)
That's a beast 🚗
Thank you so much!! ❤❤❤😅😅
Very good vlog love loved it , Z specially when Mary Jakes tuned in, ur realationship wth ur sister is priceless
Thank you 😊
Happy birthday sweet Noma ❤ and thank you Mandy for the beautiful vlog and Grace is such a beauty beast...May God continue to bless you ❤❤❤
Thank you so much! 🥺🥺🥺
Happy for you darling 🎉and Grace carry you and all the way❤
Oh what a great vlog, so wholesome ❤
Thank you, sis 🥹🥹
Nxaww Mandy cried which was soooo cute🥹❤️. I love you guys with everything that’s in me😩🤍
@@angelabakwena5858 ❤️❤️❤️
To my fellow January born babies, Happy birthday KK and Norma. It's my birthday too today 19 Jan 🎉🎉🎉. Closing the capricorn ♑ szn ❤
Happy birthday baby. I hope you are showered with all the love and gifts your deserve ❤❤
@TheMillennialMom1 thank you love
Happy birthday to you. You share a birthday with my daughter ❤
Happy birthday ncane noma❤❤❤
You're really living in your dreams❤🥹
I'm happy for you and your sister
@@tshenoloagnes881 thank you sis 🥹🥹
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉happy birthday Noma
Your vlogs are therapeutic Mandy ❤❤
🥰🥰🥰your speech yo Noma I found myself 🥹 ❤
Happy Birthday little brother KK, boys and cars❤❤❤❤
Arg man your friends reaction to uour new car??Priceless ❤😅🎉🎉🎉You are blessed
They are the best! 🥰
Happy belated birthday Rich aunt❤❤❤
What a party, happy birthday Noma❤❤❤
❤❤❤ wooow your sister,s birthday party 🎉🎉🎉🎉 was 💯🔥🔥🔥🔥
Happy birthday ncane see many more years to come.🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤
Thank you so much! ❤️
Oh man Mandz what a wholesome vlog. You have such good people sis. Heres to a 2025 with more blessings. Enjoy your new baby. 🚗🚙
Happy belated birthday Noma❤❤❤
Happy birthday To KK and Happiest birthday to aunt ka Mili and Alwa 🎉🎉🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
Kuyakhalwa shame kuma Vlogs ka Mandy. Teary. Atkeast it tears of joy.
@@nothandomdleko3696 🫂🫂🫂
Here I am refusing to sleep before the vlog ends 😂❤❤❤when I’m late tomorrow..it’s all your fault Mandy 😂❤
You’re so gonna blame it on me. 😂
Happy birthday Ncane waba ntwana 🎉🎉🎉 stay blessed and beautiful ❤
Congratulations on your car sis Mandy, it’s so gorgeous 🥰
Thank you so much! 😊
That speech was the most felt yohhh Ntombi why sikhala manje! What a turn I love you so much
Happy happy birthday Noma all the best much love❤❤👌👌
❤❤❤❤ we love you Mandy....You are driving one of my favorites car🎉🎉🎉🎉
Sis Mandy, I’m also here for the yapping session ❤😊
You know I'm all about that yapping 😅
My fav ❤❤❤❤owu maarn you are surrounded by love simple because you are love mommy ❤❤❤happy birthday to our golden child we love you Noma❤❤❤
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Happy birthday to Aunty Noma ❤😊🎉I see blessings
Congratulations Amanda, you inspire me ❤
🎉🎉🎉happy Happy 30th to our bestie Noma we love u girl ,we've seen how much u love our niece's nd for that u da best Ncane❤❤❤❤❤
Beautiful to watch as always ❤
Thank you so much! 🥺🥺🥺
Happy birthday to Noma,a gole a gole Aunt wa Bana, Mandy,enjoyed this vlog ,can you kindly share the details where you did her cake. Thank you.
Happy birthday to your sister 🎉.
Awww mannn what a beautiful vlog❤
Thank you!! 😊
Oh gosh what a blessing that I'm up at this moment? Thank you Amandaaa❤ 🫂
Hope you enjoyed it ❤❤
Happy Happy birthday Noma❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Chomi ulapha but uqumbile😂😂😂. Mna am happy for the vlog insomnia has me by my teetees😂.
I'm so glad the vlog is keeping you company! 🥹
Congratulations once again on Your new baby Sisi🙌🏽🙏🏽🥳🥳👌🏽❤️.And Happy dirty 30s on Ncane🥰❤️🥂🥳🥳
Thank you so much! 🙏🏽
Happy birthday Ncane Noma🎉🎉🎉
Happy belated Noma uyathandeka
Ooh this vlog man 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽luv you Mandy ❤️❤️
Aybo how can I forget KK bathong🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤ happy birthday to him
Happy birthday Noma❤🎉❤❤❤
As we wait for millie mills reaction to the new car 🤗
Here catching up ausiyaka yaka. Happy Sunday ✨🫶🏾
Happy Sunday to you too, sis! ✨🫶🏾
Bathong wena girl, we enjoy it when you yap ❤❤❤ please, you're more then welcome to yap yap and yap 🥳🥳🥳
Best birthday gift❤😊
I am a silent subscriber who never comments but todays vlog Arg man what a wholesome vlog,also tell me why I was crying when your friends saw your new car 🥹🥹 also when you were saying your speech on Noma’s birthday heartwarming 🥹❤️
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Ciara is biggest motivator since my bd is also a covert narc. Seeing her living happily ever after gives me hope.. Mandy Jakes is my fav. Mandy ❤️.
Sthandwa sami ngiyabonga ngale Vlog, when ever you pop up ngivele ngiphole emoyeni noma ngabe bengi sad,thanks dear ❤❤
My heart 😭😭😭
Ohhh Mandy, I'm not even finished watching, I have experience of societal norms and bullying attached when you do you and are "happy and living your best life"
You are 100% right when you say "lento oyfunayo ikhona, don't let no one tell you otherwise" sana mna I heard you that first time ndibonile and had I stopped I would've been miserable.
The Amanda Jake you are will always be my favourate😂